I’m so sorry to hear that people have been so horrible sometimes in the comments…You are an inspiration & DO help others with the information you provide. Thank you & God Bless❣️
It's ok.... thank you so much for saying that! I had no idea what I was walking into, but, it's just part of it I guess. Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Did she feel a sense of shame regarding your addiction? Did she have a support system while going through it with u LD? Did she keep how bad it truly was to herself?
Thank you very much for your honesty. I need to remember to think of myself too, and be ready to make hard decisions if necessary. I'll tell a little bit about our life: my partner has been able to cut down his drinking significantly, but the disease is still there and it takes effort to keep it at bay. Sometimes I feel like I do most of the work and it's frustrating, but I think he is worth it.
I completely understand. At the end of the day, my wife stick through it for me and I don't know what I would have done without her. Honestly.... I would be dead by now. She had fought so hard for me... when no one else would anymore. Only you know what's right for you and your husband at the end of the day and I wish you both the best of luck. I know that you really do love him, from what you have said in all of your comments. You are such an awesome human being to continue to stick through it and push forward... that is the true definition of unconditional love. Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤
Totally agree with LD here ❤️ I hope you continue to strive for your personal health, and I wish the very best for you and your partner! I hope he continues charging forward on his road to health, and I hope that you have support in this tough time and are doing okay. You definitely have support here! Sending prayers up🙏💝
Thank you so much for sharing your personal struggle and wanting to be helpful to others. I am impressed that your wife was honest about resentment. She's a real gem. I appreciate her saying that she would recommend leaving a relationship in which the alcoholic is not interested in changing.
You are so welcome!!! She told me that I wouldn't like the answers, but I wanted her to be completely honest. She has been through a lot with me, for sure. Thank you! God bless😊😊😊❤
Thank you both for the great video! You both radiate great human qualities and character. I much admire you both. A question for Mrs. LD: What are you doing or going to do to help steer your kids away from substance abuse in general and alcoholism in particular? Related to that: Are you fearful your kid(s) will go down their dad's path, especially since there is a genetic component to alcoholism? Thanks in advance and wishing you well! 🙏🙂❤
Thank you both for sharing your experience and hope. You are actually facilitating an “AA” meeting here of sorts. Helping others and getting out of our heads is what helps us stay sober. God bless you both and your kiddos.
Thank you so much for saying that! I really think you are right. This has been so therapeutic for me as well to talk about this everyday. It's really opened my eyes to my previous actions. God bless😊😊😊❤❤
This is so true. I was actually talking to my sister about just this a few weeks ago. I was joking about how resistant I once was to the idea of something like AA, and now here I am, totally embracing what is essentially an ongoing, daily AA meeting. But the delivery I think is what's so alluring and energizing about it!
Another great video and interview with you wife. So appreciate the honest especially about you being sick, because you look well on the video. So, appreciate you both.
I had the smell, people describes it as garlic, with sweet and sour rotting chicken bones. Emitting from my insides piercing through my pasty mouth smell from over brushed teath. And I could not smell it because I was spraying cologne on my body so much 👀 I look back now that I’m sober and now I’m just happy to be here, not there. Drinking Alcohol is not a feeling, it’s a destination ,
You are so right! I had no idea that I even had a smell until the question was asked and the. She said... you know... I never told you. But you did! I was blown away. It very interesting to learn these things as it may help others in the future. You never know who might watch this and it might help them find out something early enough to stop it in its tracks! I'm so happy to hear that you are doing well now! Congratulations on your sobriety! God blesz😊😊😊😊
This video really seemed tough in some parts for both of you to do. Massive respect for both you for talking such a difficult things! You really do set an example
Your channel is a blessing for all who are dealing with this disease and the family and friends who have to watch and live through it too. Having Mrs LD speak and share from the spouses view point is so enlightening. Thank you both and bless you both…..
Thank you so much for saying that! I am so happy to hear that these videos are helping others! That's what they are here for and that's what motivates me to continue to make them. Thank you! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
I have over 35 years on earth before social media and cannot understand why a stranger would attack you on your territory as you perform a free service for other strangers. That's wack. I wish you and your family the best.
Hey LD and Mrs. LD, hope you had a great day. I’m really enjoying these sessions, it’s therapeutic to talk about things. I appreciate your honesty and your time. LD you’re doing great work! I understand resentment and pain but I can see the love and loyalty. That’s what love is, sacrifice and compromise. When Mrs LD said I wanted to leave every day but then tomorrow came and you try again. That’s a powerful statement and the main reason why your relationship has held on IMO. Get some R&R you had a jammed packed weekend and looks like next week will be busy. Take care ❤.
Hey micru866!!! First I just want to say thank you.... thank you for sticking up for me. I haven't been able to keep up with the comments lately and this morning I hopped on here and started looking at them and ran across some rather.... let's say interesting comments and I saw your reply. Very well said and I can't thank you enough. I really appreciate you saying all these nice things, you are truly a beautiful human being with so much compassion and understanding.... this is not a trait that is commen in this day and age. Thank you for being you! I am so lucky to have you here! God bless😊😊❤❤❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rkabsolutely it’s my pleasure. I will not allow bullying of any kind. People are so disrespectful and hateful at times. I don’t understand it and never will. You’ll never make everyone happy and that’s ok but to take the time to write a nasty comment well then I’m going to call you out. This person is new to the channel so instead of taking the time to listen she decided to be nasty. Anyways enough about that, it’s not worthy of our energy. You keep doing what you’re doing, you are touching so many people. I’m amazed! I’m proud to be part of this journey with you. Have a beautiful day!
@@liverdisease-qb6rksorry after thought, this same person came back on to put another nasty comment. One of your other subs addressed. I was going to just ignore it as I do most comments like this because it’s not worthy of anyone’s energy. These kind of people hide behind a computer screen. Anyways just block and delete. 😊
@@Micru866 I already did this morning!!! Nobody has time for that. It actually inspired my video for today! So thanks to that person!!! Have a great day!!! Thank yoh again!
Thank you so much!!!! That is so very nice of you to say!!! I can't thank you enough for your continued support of this community!!!! You are a huge part! God bless😊😊❤❤❤
Youre wife is a very strong woman. As you are too. Does your wife get support for her resentment towards you? Do you guys have a talk night every week with your kids ?
I know what you mean. I could never have just one either. It makes absolutely no sense to me. But... I am glad that they can! Thank you for Watching! God bless😊😊❤❤
We have life360 and I Love it for a positive! My husband brings me surprises ( milk shakes, lunch etc) on my mail route. Tonight was good to watch as we discussed your questions of his view verses mine. Thank you for your vulnerability!
Hey Renee!!! That is so cool that you guys use it for that!!! That is so sweet of your husband to do that for you!!! You guys are such a beautiful couple!!!! Thank you so much! God bless😊😊❤❤
As an alcoholic wine is that stuff that hat made me get the spins when I laid down, gave that up early. But my Wife still divorced me. I don’t hate her. After 22 years we have 2 children and I m happy she did it for herself and our family because was affecting the entire world around me I was we cal a Hot Mess every day after work worse on the weekends .
Thank you! I am so very sorry. I am right there with you. I am in the exact same boat unfortunately... but we can do this together!!! All of us!!! I really hope that you are feeling good today!!! Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish you only the best, and I hope this channel continues to give you hope and inspiration!! Sending you the warmest thoughts and prayers ❤
I am truly glad I found this channel. It's amazing that you have someone who cares for you and supports you as much as your wife does. I'm glad that she's willing to take the time to answer all these questions! Now as far as people leaving negative comments, unfortunately that just comes with the territory on YT and social media in general. Just rise above it and focus your energy on positive, like-minded people because they're the only ones that matter! Thanks and God bless!! ❤
Thanks for the advice and such a great interview. I’m impressed with how you both have worked together to keep everything afloat throughout your alcoholic journey! Keep up the good work! LD you have an awesome wife❣️God bless you both!
I think all channels get crappy comments, I follow craft and sport channels too, and all seem to suffer with negative and wacko comments. it seems some people just have to look for the negative and say something nasty 🤷♀️. Sad, but true. I find your channel insightful and motivational, so thank you for all the effort and thought you put in to it, and of course your wife, she’s a diamond.
Hey LD and everyone in this youtube fam!! This week has been torture bc I broke my phone screen and had to wait for the part to come in. Because of Ede this week, the store closed and they didn't receive the part and had to reorder it. It just came today. I've been watching all the videos and they've been awesome as usual. But I couldn't comment! I had to watch on my Nintendo switch and had so much to say, but couldn't. 😅 I didn't get to watch the live, but I plan on getting caught up there in the next few days. I love these videos with your wife. She sounds SO nice. I just wanted to share my opinion from last week, her southern "drawl" is noticeable, but not as heavy as I think she worries it is! I think it sounds nice. Like someone who could tell a super engaging story. Also, I can hear the strain your relationship has felt, but I can feel your love for one another as you talk and I applaud your commitment to each other since LD got sober. Resentment is so understandable and I hope that you get to build so many joyful, happy memories that it helps to soften those feelings down the road. Sending all my best wishes to you both and your family. I think as well that most of us who quit can testify to the statement that we only quit our vices when we're ready. No one else can do it for us. Love you all!! ❤
Hey Amanda sorry to hear about your phone, glad to see you back on. You’re so on point with your comment, the addict won’t quit until they’re ready. Being supportive as best as you can, is really the only thing you can do. At the end of the day, addiction is not a choice. Hope you have a great evening. Ugh back to Monday work. Weekends go by so fast.
Mrs LD..My hat's off to you! Through thick and thin! I am married and divorced twice. Both spouses alcoholics/crackheads. I've been single now for 28 years. My life is much more peaceful now. Too peaceful actually.😢
@@Micru866 I know, the weekend flew by! Lately I feel like time in general is just flying. Repeating myself here, but my family was so kind with me and I still couldn't quit until I decided it was time. And I know what my switch was, but I don't know where the power came from. I thank God because I think he supported me after I decided. But I had to decide it was time. No amount of love, gentle nudges or hard knocks can make someone who isn't ready to quit quit. I hope you had a good night's sleep and are armed with a big cup of coffee or tea this morning!! Haha ❤️
Also a GI bleed has a distinctive smell…upper bleeds smell different to lower bleeds…once you have smelled one you never forget it…ask the nurses in your family…they will tell you some stories.
I know exactly what you are talking about. I will never forget the smell of the bleeding. It's very distinct, both ends. I know that's kinda gross, but it's the truth. I will absolutely never forget how that smelled. Thank you! God bless😊
Hopefully you will reflect on some things. Your wife has carried a huge burden for many years. A burden of worry and concern for your wellbeing, the families. She was a mother not only to children but also to you. You dealt with your demons in the most selfish of ways. Hiding, concealing being emotionally unavailable. None of that was her doing. My sincere hope is that you will come to reflect on that, to address and sincerely appreciate all she did and has done to support you. She has loved you, she has been your absolute bedrock. Hats off to her. Three cheers for LD’s awesome wife! To be clear I support you too, don’t take this as a negative comment however part of the process of healing is to take account and accountability, to address and acknowledge. It’s not about beating ourselves up or feeling bad. You did that every day for years.
You are right. She has been my rock and has helped me through a lot. I don't know where I would be without her. And to your point, you are correct. I have accepted responsibility for my actions. It will take time for things to heal. I do not expect it to happen overnight. I know that I really messed up badly and I am so lucky to have her still here with me. Thank you for watching and I appreciate your feedback. God bless😊
@@liverdisease-qb6rk I read what I wrote back just now and it really comes across as critical. Please accept my apologies if it came across that way. I love how open you are about your journey. I quit drinking back in January thanks in large part to you. I’m very grateful to you for being one of those I found when I was drowning.
@0rtmasta oh! No worries! I didn't take it that way. Thank you so much for being so kind!!! I really appreciate you being here and thank you for saying that about the channel helping you!!! God bless😊
It’s a very unique smell and can vary depending on the person with liver disease and the amount of toxins being released. And don’t forget the pancreas is involved with this disease. Best I can describe is a foul sour musty and sometimes even bleach like smell. It’s awful and will get your attention.
I had a family member who suffered from end state liver disease. At that point the body let’s off a fish smell that comes from their breath. I’m not sure if that is what others have experienced. I think it has something to do with…sulfur substances that end up in your blood stream and make it to the lungs.
Thank you both immensly for your honesty, courage and wonderful spirit to help others. Can I say sir, you must have so much admiration, love and affection for your wife's loyality, support and comitment to you, your marriage and family through this journey together. Very inspiring to all marriages! Thank you.
You are so welcome!!! I honestly have no idea why she has stuck through all of this with me. I am truly so grateful. The first time that I met her ... not joking, I knew that I wanted to marry her. I know that sounds funny, but I really did. We have been together since we were both kids and have grown up together. Thank you so much! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
Your loving wife gives very sound and honest answers, she does not beat around the bush. I admire that. Having her on brings this journey of your's full circle! Actually it's both of your journey's. I think doing the interviews together is invaluable, even for the singles who follow you. Much love to you both❤❤❤you are awesome!
This is the 2nd video with your wife that I've watched. Y'all are so cute! I was listening in the shower and bawled my eyes out! She is amazing for not giving up on you cause I've been threatened with that. I truly appreciate your raw account of what it's like! That's what I need, hopefully! Hope you're still doing well and thank you for all that you do regarding this topic! It means more than you know!
I had hep c for a few years but was cured after my treatment in 2018. I try to limit my alcohol consumption to only on the weekends, but sometimes I’ve partied too hard and received concerning liver tests that showed super elevated enzymes. Your videos are real, and make me want to be EXTRA cautious. How old are you? Thanks for your videos!!
There is alcoholism on both sides of the family, so we didn't have alcohol in our house while I was married. I still don't, because I don't want my daughter to think it is helpful in any way to have alcohol as a part of her life. I have always told her what went on with our family and me. Even though I made that decision, and stuck to it - partially because of the above, and partially because my own liver is shot from Hep B and alcohol before Jesus Christ became my God and He showed me who actually owns me, my daughter ended up with an addictive personality, and she got hooked on meth and alcohol. She still isn't right in the head and has wrecked her health in many of the ways that are a problem for you. I don't know if she is still doing that stuff because she lives in another state, and she doesn't share a lot about her life with me. So long story short, please don't keep alcohol in your house, and don't drink it. It only brings misery. I love her, and I would have spared her the heart break if I could have. At least I didn't lead her in that way by proximity to the stuff, or example. Many prayers for you brother. I pray for your continued sobriety, and your health. I pray for your wife and marriage, and your kids. Thank you for sharing yourself like this.
@@liverdisease-qb6rk mostly it is explained like “ juicy fruit”…I think they still make that…but generally you could call it fruity and sweet…you can smell it on a patients breath…it is associated with keto acidosis…so very high glucose…usually say 300 or above.
@virginialangford6257 Wow! Thank you for that information!!! I have heard of that before also smelling like nail polish remover as well before. Never heard of the fruity smell. Thats good to know. Thank you for responding!
Has anyone had light poop that smells like ammonia? Pins and needles on their feet in evenings? Burning ,itching restless legs at night ? Hypothyroidism? High resting heart rate ? And farts all the time ?
@colincable6127 oh no!!! You didn't upset me at all!!! Thank you for the concern! I really appreciate you being here and thank you for watching! God bless 😊
In regards to the person asking about her boyfriend.... if it seems harsh for someone to say "you need to leave".... It's hard for people to understand that simply being in a relationship with an addict is one of those "actions speek louder than words" things, you are basically supporting their actions by your own actions of being there and not leaving. It's pretty difficult for addicts and alcoholics to continue with their routine without another person in their life doing all of the chores that they don't do. Hard to be an addict and keep up with bills and erronds, cooking, laundry, cleaning. The most loving thing you can do to encourage them to stop is leave and let them know clearly what the reason is. They will remember that, and it will help them realize later on what they can't have if they choose to continue with their habit.
Hey Kristen! I remember that when my friends and I used to go camping, we'd drink all night and then have a "hair of the dog" whiskey shot (or 2) in the morning to fight off our raging hangovers. Some chose a bloody Mary or a tequila sunrise as theirs. It did work to stave off the initial ick, but I also feel like it wiped me out lol In retrospect, my worst mornings now I think are still better than my best mornings like that 😅
@@amandaflaherty7528you are so kind Amanda ❤ I don’t drink however many alcoholics in my family. Connecting dots I guess…. Interesting 🤔 Always a possibility Love ya and sleep well my friend. 8:30my time 9:30 your time I liked pain meds too much lol Hugs sweet friend from Houston / Katy
Thank you to you & your wife for answering all these questions. This is a heavy, uncomfortable & deeply personal topic. You guys are helping more people than you can imagine, so thank you so much!✌️
You touched on it on Sunday & it’s really important. Could you speak about Al anon?Even if someone breaks up with an alcoholic they often times need help/therapy, especially if they grew up in an alcoholic family. It’s a free, alternative on going group therapy type of support. It helps family members who have to deal with it on a daily basis. It can also help single people who don’t want to become enmeshed with an alcoholic in the future.
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I’m so sorry to hear that people have been so horrible sometimes in the comments…You are an inspiration & DO help others with the information you provide. Thank you & God Bless❣️
It's ok.... thank you so much for saying that! I had no idea what I was walking into, but, it's just part of it I guess. Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Question? What did you do when or if he became verbally abusive? Did you simply walk away from the situation? If he said hurtful words to you?
Got it for next week! Thank you for the question! God bless😊
Did she feel a sense of shame regarding your addiction? Did she have a support system while going through it with u LD?
Did she keep how bad it truly was to herself?
Got it!
LD ‘s wife thank you for being so honest in your answers. Chef you are so fortunate to have her. She is a jewel 💎. Thanks again. 😊
You are so welcome and thank you so much for saying that!!! She is my rock for sure! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
Thank you very much for your honesty. I need to remember to think of myself too, and be ready to make hard decisions if necessary.
I'll tell a little bit about our life: my partner has been able to cut down his drinking significantly, but the disease is still there and it takes effort to keep it at bay. Sometimes I feel like I do most of the work and it's frustrating, but I think he is worth it.
I completely understand. At the end of the day, my wife stick through it for me and I don't know what I would have done without her. Honestly.... I would be dead by now. She had fought so hard for me... when no one else would anymore. Only you know what's right for you and your husband at the end of the day and I wish you both the best of luck. I know that you really do love him, from what you have said in all of your comments. You are such an awesome human being to continue to stick through it and push forward... that is the true definition of unconditional love. Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤
Totally agree with LD here ❤️ I hope you continue to strive for your personal health, and I wish the very best for you and your partner! I hope he continues charging forward on his road to health, and I hope that you have support in this tough time and are doing okay. You definitely have support here! Sending prayers up🙏💝
Thank you so much for sharing your personal struggle and wanting to be helpful to others. I am impressed that your wife was honest about resentment. She's a real gem. I appreciate her saying that she would recommend leaving a relationship in which the alcoholic is not interested in changing.
You are so welcome!!! She told me that I wouldn't like the answers, but I wanted her to be completely honest. She has been through a lot with me, for sure. Thank you! God bless😊😊😊❤
Thank you both for the great video! You both radiate great human qualities and character. I much admire you both. A question for Mrs. LD: What are you doing or going to do to help steer your kids away from substance abuse in general and alcoholism in particular? Related to that: Are you fearful your kid(s) will go down their dad's path, especially since there is a genetic component to alcoholism? Thanks in advance and wishing you well! 🙏🙂❤
You are so welcome and we will absolutely bring this up next week. Thank you so much for everything! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
Thank you both for sharing your experience and hope. You are actually facilitating an “AA” meeting here of sorts. Helping others and getting out of our heads is what helps us stay sober. God bless you both and your kiddos.
Thank you so much for saying that! I really think you are right. This has been so therapeutic for me as well to talk about this everyday. It's really opened my eyes to my previous actions. God bless😊😊😊❤❤
This is so true. I was actually talking to my sister about just this a few weeks ago. I was joking about how resistant I once was to the idea of something like AA, and now here I am, totally embracing what is essentially an ongoing, daily AA meeting. But the delivery I think is what's so alluring and energizing about it!
Another great video and interview with you wife. So appreciate the honest especially about you being sick, because you look well on the video. So, appreciate you both.
Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate you watching and thank you for the feedback! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤
I know of a guy who was nine years sober. He was an AA sponsor. He relapsed. I think its a lifetime battle. One drink away from losing your sobriety.
Not trying to be negative...just being realistic. It takes determination and support.
Thanks for the honest answer to my question. LD Well done for doing a video everyday despite feeling awful during the day. 🎥 you are awesome.
You are so welcome to both!!! Thank you so much for watching!!!! It let's me know that what I am doing is not in vain. God bless😊😊😊❤❤
I had the smell, people describes it as garlic, with sweet and sour rotting chicken bones. Emitting from my insides piercing through my pasty mouth smell from over brushed teath. And I could not smell it because I was spraying cologne on my body so much 👀 I look back now that I’m sober and now I’m just happy to be here, not there. Drinking Alcohol is not a feeling, it’s a destination ,
You are so right! I had no idea that I even had a smell until the question was asked and the. She said... you know... I never told you. But you did! I was blown away. It very interesting to learn these things as it may help others in the future. You never know who might watch this and it might help them find out something early enough to stop it in its tracks! I'm so happy to hear that you are doing well now! Congratulations on your sobriety! God blesz😊😊😊😊
I like that line. "Alcohol is not a feeling. It's a destination, " scary thought!
This video really seemed tough in some parts for both of you to do. Massive respect for both you for talking such a difficult things! You really do set an example
Thanks for another interview with your wife, so informative! God bless you both.
You are so welcome!!! Thank you so much for watching! God bless😊😊😊
Your channel is a blessing for all who are dealing with this disease and the family and friends who have to watch and live through it too. Having Mrs LD speak and share from the spouses view point is so enlightening. Thank you both and bless you both…..
Thank you so much for saying that! I am so happy to hear that these videos are helping others! That's what they are here for and that's what motivates me to continue to make them. Thank you! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
I have over 35 years on earth before social media and cannot understand why a stranger would attack you on your territory as you perform a free service for other strangers. That's wack. I wish you and your family the best.
Hey LD and Mrs. LD, hope you had a great day. I’m really enjoying these sessions, it’s therapeutic to talk about things. I appreciate your honesty and your time. LD you’re doing great work! I understand resentment and pain but I can see the love and loyalty. That’s what love is, sacrifice and compromise. When Mrs LD said I wanted to leave every day but then tomorrow came and you try again. That’s a powerful statement and the main reason why your relationship has held on IMO. Get some R&R you had a jammed packed weekend and looks like next week will be busy. Take care ❤.
Hey micru866!!! First I just want to say thank you.... thank you for sticking up for me. I haven't been able to keep up with the comments lately and this morning I hopped on here and started looking at them and ran across some rather.... let's say interesting comments and I saw your reply. Very well said and I can't thank you enough. I really appreciate you saying all these nice things, you are truly a beautiful human being with so much compassion and understanding.... this is not a trait that is commen in this day and age. Thank you for being you! I am so lucky to have you here! God bless😊😊❤❤❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rkabsolutely it’s my pleasure. I will not allow bullying of any kind. People are so disrespectful and hateful at times. I don’t understand it and never will. You’ll never make everyone happy and that’s ok but to take the time to write a nasty comment well then I’m going to call you out. This person is new to the channel so instead of taking the time to listen she decided to be nasty. Anyways enough about that, it’s not worthy of our energy. You keep doing what you’re doing, you are touching so many people. I’m amazed! I’m proud to be part of this journey with you. Have a beautiful day!
@@liverdisease-qb6rksorry after thought, this same person came back on to put another nasty comment. One of your other subs addressed. I was going to just ignore it as I do most comments like this because it’s not worthy of anyone’s energy. These kind of people hide behind a computer screen. Anyways just block and delete. 😊
@@liverdisease-qb6rk❤ you’re an amazing human too!!!❤
@@Micru866 I already did this morning!!! Nobody has time for that. It actually inspired my video for today! So thanks to that person!!! Have a great day!!! Thank yoh again!
Thank you for sharing Mrs. LD. Both of you have hearts of Gold!❤
Thank you so much!!!! That is so very nice of you to say!!! I can't thank you enough for your continued support of this community!!!! You are a huge part! God bless😊😊❤❤❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rk You are doing a Great Job!!💞👍
Youre wife is a very strong woman. As you are too. Does your wife get support for her resentment towards you? Do you guys have a talk night every week with your kids ?
Will absolutely talk about this next week! Thank you so much for the kind words!!! God bless😊😊❤
Sometimes a spouse tries to parent the sick spouse though.
You are right. Thank you!😊😊❤❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rk 👍💞
Normal drinkers are such an enigma to me. How do you have only one? Weird.
lol. Sad. Addiction is sad.
I know what you mean. I could never have just one either. It makes absolutely no sense to me. But... I am glad that they can! Thank you for Watching! God bless😊😊❤❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rk my daughter is a normal drinker - can take it or leave it. I’m so relieved she doesn’t take after me!
Praying for y’all.
@@KristiLEvans1 that is great to hear!!!! Thank you!
Thank you LD and wife, great video!!!
You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching!!! God bless😊😊😊
We have life360 and I Love it for a positive! My husband brings me surprises ( milk shakes, lunch etc) on my mail route. Tonight was good to watch as we discussed your questions of his view verses mine. Thank you for your vulnerability!
Hey Renee!!! That is so cool that you guys use it for that!!! That is so sweet of your husband to do that for you!!! You guys are such a beautiful couple!!!! Thank you so much! God bless😊😊❤❤
Awwww this is so cool!!
As an alcoholic wine is that stuff that hat made me get the spins when I laid down, gave that up early. But my Wife still divorced me. I don’t hate her. After 22 years we have 2 children and I m happy she did it for herself and our family because was affecting the entire world around me I was we cal a Hot Mess every day after work worse on the weekends .
I love your videos. I have portal hypertension Almost died from internal bleeding found out I have stage 4 liver failure. You are a connecting I need
@crystaly....I watched my son Ron go through all that. My best wishes to you.
Thank you! I am so very sorry. I am right there with you. I am in the exact same boat unfortunately... but we can do this together!!! All of us!!! I really hope that you are feeling good today!!! Thank you so much for being here! God bless😊😊😊
How do they test the stages 1,2,3,4? And is 4 the last stage ?
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish you only the best, and I hope this channel continues to give you hope and inspiration!! Sending you the warmest thoughts and prayers ❤
I am truly glad I found this channel. It's amazing that you have someone who cares for you and supports you as much as your wife does. I'm glad that she's willing to take the time to answer all these questions! Now as far as people leaving negative comments, unfortunately that just comes with the territory on YT and social media in general. Just rise above it and focus your energy on positive, like-minded people because they're the only ones that matter! Thanks and God bless!! ❤
Good interview.
Hey! Thank you!!! God bless😊😊😊
Thanks for the advice and such a great interview. I’m impressed with how you both have worked together to keep everything afloat throughout your alcoholic journey! Keep up the good work! LD you have an awesome wife❣️God bless you both!
You are so welcome and thank you so much for the kind words!!! I really appreciate you watching!!! God bless😊😊❤❤
I think all channels get crappy comments, I follow craft and sport channels too, and all seem to suffer with negative and wacko comments. it seems some people just have to look for the negative and say something nasty 🤷♀️. Sad, but true. I find your channel insightful and motivational, so thank you for all the effort and thought you put in to it, and of course your wife, she’s a diamond.
Hey LD and everyone in this youtube fam!! This week has been torture bc I broke my phone screen and had to wait for the part to come in. Because of Ede this week, the store closed and they didn't receive the part and had to reorder it. It just came today. I've been watching all the videos and they've been awesome as usual. But I couldn't comment! I had to watch on my Nintendo switch and had so much to say, but couldn't. 😅 I didn't get to watch the live, but I plan on getting caught up there in the next few days. I love these videos with your wife. She sounds SO nice. I just wanted to share my opinion from last week, her southern "drawl" is noticeable, but not as heavy as I think she worries it is! I think it sounds nice. Like someone who could tell a super engaging story. Also, I can hear the strain your relationship has felt, but I can feel your love for one another as you talk and I applaud your commitment to each other since LD got sober. Resentment is so understandable and I hope that you get to build so many joyful, happy memories that it helps to soften those feelings down the road. Sending all my best wishes to you both and your family.
I think as well that most of us who quit can testify to the statement that we only quit our vices when we're ready. No one else can do it for us. Love you all!! ❤
This 👇🏼❤❤❤❤
Hey Amanda sorry to hear about your phone, glad to see you back on. You’re so on point with your comment, the addict won’t quit until they’re ready. Being supportive as best as you can, is really the only thing you can do. At the end of the day, addiction is not a choice. Hope you have a great evening. Ugh back to Monday work. Weekends go by so fast.
Mrs LD..My hat's off to you! Through thick and thin! I am married and divorced twice. Both spouses alcoholics/crackheads. I've been single now for 28 years. My life is much more peaceful now. Too peaceful actually.😢
@@RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p hugs 🥰
@@Micru866 I know, the weekend flew by! Lately I feel like time in general is just flying. Repeating myself here, but my family was so kind with me and I still couldn't quit until I decided it was time. And I know what my switch was, but I don't know where the power came from. I thank God because I think he supported me after I decided. But I had to decide it was time. No amount of love, gentle nudges or hard knocks can make someone who isn't ready to quit quit. I hope you had a good night's sleep and are armed with a big cup of coffee or tea this morning!! Haha ❤️
Also a GI bleed has a distinctive smell…upper bleeds smell different to lower bleeds…once you have smelled one you never forget it…ask the nurses in your family…they will tell you some stories.
I know exactly what you are talking about. I will never forget the smell of the bleeding. It's very distinct, both ends. I know that's kinda gross, but it's the truth. I will absolutely never forget how that smelled. Thank you! God bless😊
Thanks so so much yall ❤
You are so welcome!!!!❤❤❤😊😊
Question: Have you noticed any eyesight problems? During the drinking or afterwards?
Got it!😊
@@liverdisease-qb6rk Thank you!💞🙏
Hopefully you will reflect on some things. Your wife has carried a huge burden for many years. A burden of worry and concern for your wellbeing, the families. She was a mother not only to children but also to you.
You dealt with your demons in the most selfish of ways. Hiding, concealing being emotionally unavailable. None of that was her doing.
My sincere hope is that you will come to reflect on that, to address and sincerely appreciate all she did and has done to support you.
She has loved you, she has been your absolute bedrock. Hats off to her. Three cheers for LD’s awesome wife!
To be clear I support you too, don’t take this as a negative comment however part of the process of healing is to take account and accountability, to address and acknowledge. It’s not about beating ourselves up or feeling bad. You did that every day for years.
You are right. She has been my rock and has helped me through a lot. I don't know where I would be without her. And to your point, you are correct. I have accepted responsibility for my actions. It will take time for things to heal. I do not expect it to happen overnight. I know that I really messed up badly and I am so lucky to have her still here with me. Thank you for watching and I appreciate your feedback. God bless😊
@@liverdisease-qb6rk I read what I wrote back just now and it really comes across as critical. Please accept my apologies if it came across that way. I love how open you are about your journey. I quit drinking back in January thanks in large part to you. I’m very grateful to you for being one of those I found when I was drowning.
@0rtmasta oh! No worries! I didn't take it that way. Thank you so much for being so kind!!! I really appreciate you being here and thank you for saying that about the channel helping you!!! God bless😊
I keep plugging this station all over
Thank you so much Kristen!!!!! Hope you are having a great start to your day! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤
Love love love the merch!!!!
All links are in the info box
Thank you!!!! 😊❤😊❤😊😊❤😊❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rk I’ve replied to many looking at how to buy 😉
You guys sound like a loving couple. So glad you both were able to come out of this still committed to each other and keeping your family together.
Thanks for talking about my question about the liver smell
What does liver smell like ?
@@ImkeSinner-wv2mdhmm good question. I'm gonna buy a liver at the local grocery store and take it home unthaw it then smell it good
It’s a very unique smell and can vary depending on the person with liver disease and the amount of toxins being released. And don’t forget the pancreas is involved with this disease. Best I can describe is a foul sour musty and sometimes even bleach like smell. It’s awful and will get your attention.
I had a family member who suffered from end state liver disease. At that point the body let’s off a fish smell that comes from their breath. I’m not sure if that is what others have experienced. I think it has something to do with…sulfur substances that end up in your blood stream and make it to the lungs.
You are so welcome!!! Thank you for watching! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
I just love your beautiful voice mrs LD
Yes Mrs 5' small and mighty!
Thank you so much!!!!❤❤❤❤ God bless😊😊😊
@@ReneeMilsteadshe is!!!😊😊😊❤❤
Yes Mrs LD your helping me so much thank you
Thank you so much for saying that!!! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤
Thank you both immensly for your honesty, courage and wonderful spirit to help others. Can I say sir, you must have so much admiration, love and affection for your wife's loyality, support and comitment to you, your marriage and family through this journey together. Very inspiring to all marriages! Thank you.
You are so welcome!!! I honestly have no idea why she has stuck through all of this with me. I am truly so grateful. The first time that I met her
... not joking, I knew that I wanted to marry her. I know that sounds funny, but I really did. We have been together since we were both kids and have grown up together. Thank you so much! God bless😊😊😊❤❤
Your loving wife gives very sound and honest answers, she does not beat around the bush. I admire that. Having her on brings this journey of your's full circle! Actually it's both of your journey's. I think doing the interviews together is invaluable, even for the singles who follow you. Much love to you both❤❤❤you are awesome!
YOU TWO ARE STRONG AND INSPIRING ✨To be going through so much, and still be helpful and inspiring 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💓
Raw interview. But i think you are helping a lot of people. Thumbs up to LD and wife!
I see it when u feel yuck during your vids
This is the 2nd video with your wife that I've watched. Y'all are so cute! I was listening in the shower and bawled my eyes out! She is amazing for not giving up on you cause I've been threatened with that. I truly appreciate your raw account of what it's like! That's what I need, hopefully! Hope you're still doing well and thank you for all that you do regarding this topic! It means more than you know!
I had hep c for a few years but was cured after my treatment in 2018. I try to limit my alcohol consumption to only on the weekends, but sometimes I’ve partied too hard and received concerning liver tests that showed super elevated enzymes. Your videos are real, and make me want to be EXTRA cautious. How old are you? Thanks for your videos!!
Love you and your wife♥️ . You guys make a great team 🫂🙏❤️
Thank you so much Debra!!! We really do!!! Sending love and hugs to you!!! God bless😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
There is alcoholism on both sides of the family, so we didn't have alcohol in our house while I was married. I still don't, because I don't want my daughter to think it is helpful in any way to have alcohol as a part of her life. I have always told her what went on with our family and me. Even though I made that decision, and stuck to it - partially because of the above, and partially because my own liver is shot from Hep B and alcohol before Jesus Christ became my God and He showed me who actually owns me, my daughter ended up with an addictive personality, and she got hooked on meth and alcohol. She still isn't right in the head and has wrecked her health in many of the ways that are a problem for you. I don't know if she is still doing that stuff because she lives in another state, and she doesn't share a lot about her life with me. So long story short, please don't keep alcohol in your house, and don't drink it. It only brings misery. I love her, and I would have spared her the heart break if I could have. At least I didn't lead her in that way by proximity to the stuff, or example. Many prayers for you brother. I pray for your continued sobriety, and your health. I pray for your wife and marriage, and your kids. Thank you for sharing yourself like this.
Andy is a new channel. He just started quitting yesterday. Please support him.
Can you add a link please? Thank you! God bless😊❤
@@liverdisease-qb6rk youtube.com/@journey-to-sobriety?si=OY1KLUu8JXQ-v8AT
@drewdimusmaximus9436 yeah... I can't see it. Maybe you can just tell me tge name of the channel
@@liverdisease-qb6rk journey-to-sobriety is his @
Hope that works better.
journey-to-sobriety is his at. Hope that helps.
Greatly elevated blood sugar has a smell…they liken it to certain brands of gum.
Really? What kind of gum does it smell like if you don't mind me asking? Thank you! God bless😊
@@liverdisease-qb6rk mostly it is explained like “ juicy fruit”…I think they still make that…but generally you could call it fruity and sweet…you can smell it on a patients breath…it is associated with keto acidosis…so very high glucose…usually say 300 or above.
@virginialangford6257 Wow! Thank you for that information!!! I have heard of that before also smelling like nail polish remover as well before. Never heard of the fruity smell. Thats good to know. Thank you for responding!
Has anyone had light poop that smells like ammonia? Pins and needles on their feet in evenings? Burning ,itching restless legs at night ? Hypothyroidism? High resting heart rate ? And farts all the time ?
Do you think your health issues will kill you? Really hope not and dont want to sound morbid i wad just wondering
Unfortunately.... yes. But, it's ok. I have accepted it. I will talk about it further next Sunday. Thank you for the question. God bless😊
@liverdisease-qb6rk sorry mate hope i didn't upset you. Your a good man
@colincable6127 oh no!!! You didn't upset me at all!!! Thank you for the concern! I really appreciate you being here and thank you for watching! God bless 😊
In regards to the person asking about her boyfriend.... if it seems harsh for someone to say "you need to leave".... It's hard for people to understand that simply being in a relationship with an addict is one of those "actions speek louder than words" things, you are basically supporting their actions by your own actions of being there and not leaving. It's pretty difficult for addicts and alcoholics to continue with their routine without another person in their life doing all of the chores that they don't do. Hard to be an addict and keep up with bills and erronds, cooking, laundry, cleaning. The most loving thing you can do to encourage them to stop is leave and let them know clearly what the reason is. They will remember that, and it will help them realize later on what they can't have if they choose to continue with their habit.
Yep , the enablers that stay and cover their responsibilities for them so they can stay drunk . Unless they’re a high functioning alcoholic.
LD do you know the name South Breeze Seafood?
I don't? Whats that?
Brother you got a good woman
You are so right! Thank you! God bless
Well he made that choice because he knew it was the end of the rd. Either quit or i'm going to die
How old is your oldest son?
13... thank you for watching! God bless😊❤
Why not show your wife
LD can I ask
Is that why my Aunts may have drank bloody Mary’s in the am on vacations?? To feel less hung over?
B back
Getting ready for tomorrow am
Hey Kristen! I remember that when my friends and I used to go camping, we'd drink all night and then have a "hair of the dog" whiskey shot (or 2) in the morning to fight off our raging hangovers. Some chose a bloody Mary or a tequila sunrise as theirs. It did work to stave off the initial ick, but I also feel like it wiped me out lol
In retrospect, my worst mornings now I think are still better than my best mornings like that 😅
If I don't get back here tonight then 🫂hugs from NY! Have a great night
@@amandaflaherty7528you are so kind Amanda ❤
I don’t drink however many alcoholics in my family.
Connecting dots I guess….
Interesting 🤔
Always a possibility
Love ya and sleep well my friend.
8:30my time
9:30 your time
I liked pain meds too much
lol
Hugs sweet friend from Houston / Katy
My son lives in Katy 😃 I haven't been there yet. I'm originally from NY
@@mamadidi826 no way!!! Small world ! We’ve been here for 14yrs now.
Moved from Cleveland, Ohio for his job.
Thank you to you & your wife for answering all these questions. This is a heavy, uncomfortable & deeply personal topic. You guys are helping more people than you can imagine, so thank you so much!✌️
You touched on it on Sunday & it’s really important. Could you speak about Al anon?Even if someone breaks up with an alcoholic they often times need help/therapy, especially if they grew up in an alcoholic family. It’s a free, alternative on going group therapy type of support. It helps family members who have to deal with it on a daily basis. It can also help single people who don’t want to become enmeshed with an alcoholic in the future.
The smell you refer to is typically related to hyperglycemia. Not always but it’s not uncommon.