Your Girlfriend Comforts You Through Depression 💔 | Emotional Support | Getting Help | Wholesome
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- Опубликовано: 9 май 2024
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Author: u/Lonely-Lila
cw: mention of taking one's own life and medication.
Lately, you've been feeling the familiar weight of depression creeping back, but the thought of sharing this with your girlfriend has made you uneasy. You don't want to burden her or risk losing her. But then, one evening, she comes home from work to find you rewatching the same movie for the third time. It's clear that something's not right, and she decides to ask you about it...
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Track from Epidemic Sound: Beige by Martin Gauffin.
Editing tools: Filmora, Logic Pro and Audacity.
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The homies can't find out bout this masterpiece 😢
The homies can’t find out I watch this channel
Then, let's become homies with the people who also love this masterpiece. It's a win-win scenario, if you think about it hahaha
@@VancityMerc319real.
@@V.A.L.009 yeah I agree, lets all agree we searched this up because we either were curious, or actually needed it...ETC
I invited my entire discord server to this
That first part about 'watching the same movie over and over again' hits hard. With depression, it lulls you into a sense of comfort and safety by re-watching shows or movies. I know it hasn't been too long since the last one, but I missed these. They always have such a soothing quality on the soul. Great job as ever
Are you like... watching asmr everyday? I've seen you on multiple of those. Are you alright dude?
@@SukunaDgoats Almost everyday. Just find that sometimes asmr's help calm me down sometimes - makes me not feel so alone 🤝
The movies or shows let you pass the time and switch off your brain/mind
@@seff5013 As someone with heavy depression I feel you a lot. Funny to see that other people do this too, watching the same thing over and over. For me it was Rick and Morty. At this point I can speak the lines and tell you which episode by the intro. And I barely paid attention while watching.
@@SukunaDgoats but if you see him on multiple like these that’s means you watch it too…so are you alright?
“You’ve been sleeping in more” It’s the kind of tired that sleep can’t fix.
As a depression sufferer, I really wish I had someone like this to support me. Fighting it alone is so difficult. 😥
You're not alone. You dont have to be. 🫂.
Sometimes just a little love can do more help than people understand until they realize it.
Exactly! You're not alone. If you don't have anybody else to turn to, at least I am here through the comments for you ❤🩹
I had a depression, a few years ago. It was really hard, but I was in an hospital, so people were caring for me. If you wanna talk to me, about anything, I’ll be glad to help you 😊
You are not alone man. I’m currently going through it too myself and it really sucks but we have to keep going.
You aren’t alone. You have us. And most importantly, you have Jesus Christ with you. Always.
WE FEELING LONELY AND HOPELESS WITH THIS ONE 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
THEN IT'S TIME TO PICK UP THAT CROWN KINGS & QUEENS, WE RISING BACK UP WITH THIS ONE 👑👑👑
@@V.A.L.009hahaha good joke
LESSSGOOOOOO GUES WHO'S CRYING ITSELF TO SLEEP TONIGHT???? ALL OF US💥💥💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
SPEAKING FAX🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥
I never really noticed when I'd start slipping back into depression until I noticed I'd start yearning to re-read old comfort stories and sink myself into old past times that no longer truly brought me joy, only predictability and safety in knowing what would come.
Take heed these do not do the same for us. There is beauty in support, but harsh realities may take that support away, and then comes the fall.
I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope you're feeling better; that you've found what make you "rise" back up again. I gone through an "episode" recently and just got better, and I do hope you're feeling better too! You got this!
As someone who's been dumped because of my depression, this really hurt because of how I wish I had someone like this who would've fought with me. It especially hurts when they say they love and they'll never leave, and then they ghost you or talk behind your back about how "You're so annoying because all you talk about is how you hate yourself and your life." It was in these moments where I realized that I was a burden.
I hope you guys find your person who will treat you well.
As for me, I'm drifting alone until I disappear...
You were a burden for that person, but it doesn't mean you'll be a burden for another one. Not everyone is fit to support someone going through depression.
@messageinabottle-ASMR Yeah, you may be right, but I don't want to be a burden to anyone. After doing deeper introspection after all of that, I swore that I wouldn't let anyone know how dark my mind gets, and I wouldn't put anyone through that ever again. No one is responsible for my feelings, my mental state, or my mood. I realized quickly that I needed to grow up and get over it, or else I'll end up alone.
@@azaraiyaare you saying in your next relationship you'll always pretend to be okay around your partner even when you're not? I dont have much dating experience but that doesn't sound sustainable
@ScripulousFingore6133 If I'm being honest, I've learned that I'll never be what anyone wants and there's nothing I can really do about it. I can't force someone to love me because that's not love. So I'm not really sure if I can answer your question properly.
@azaraiya hope it gets a little better. I understand how you feel. Been going through it myself. Here's a hug 🫂
help, i cried for real when she said "it's okay to cry"
Hey hey, it's alright. You should give yourself a break. Maybe do whatever helps you relax. If you want or need a hug, here. 🫂
Hhuuggss
The scary part about depression is that it wears down the relationships you have. You're sad and nobody can do anything about it. People get used to you being sad, and worse, they get weary of it. So you know if you're not getting better it's just a matter of time until you end up alone again. Isolated. Because you "didn't take the advice". Didn't do what you were told.
It just adds to the pressure you feel already for failing in your tasks because you can't motivate yourself to even care for yourself.
Anyways. Lots of word to just say, I'd be hella scared to disappoint her.
real (she left me for this exact reason)
@@xvoid_soulxyou're not alone man she left me for the same reason. I don't want to say it gets better but it won't just get worse
It'd be better to never have been born at all tbh. Non-existence that was before being born. A true bliss, freedom.
@@SeparatiXAMV That's the Suffering speaking. There are rare moments where you can enjoy life, despite all that's wearing you down, and I'm convinced that as long as there are more good moments to come, it's not on us to judge whether a life is worth living or not.
Obviously, you are the only person able to judge if it's worth it FOR YOU to continue pursueing them. I've been at the point where I don't believe it is worth, shit, I'm at that point right now or otherwise I wouldn't be here, but nonexistence means missing those moments.
It sucks to always be in pain and not being able to change it, but it CAN change. I'm just not sure it'll be available to us within our lifetime. But it might. So that kind of makes it worth holding out.
@@klonvomhaus I think the amount of bad shit and stuff that you will inevitably eventually have to face in your lifetime heavily outweighs and outnumbers any rarerly good moments or things that might happen from time to time. For the most part and most people life really is just suffering.
Have i not been born its true i would miss out on the few good moments that i had in my life, but i also wouldnt have to live through all that shit. Also i wouldnt even be able to know im missing out on something. Working till i turn to dust just so i can afford to stay alive and not die. It is the fact that suddenly two people decided they will throw you into this world. And now you gotta live 70 possible years full of shit you never asked for. Yet. Here we are.
This was really well done and the script writer must have a really good understanding of how to have a conversation about this topic without making the depressed person feel guilty. To anyone who can relate to this, if your partner DOESN'T make you feel safe and give you the ability to be emotionally vulnerable, please show yourself some love and find someone who does. Depression can be extremely taxing on a relationship and like the video said it ain't always sunshine and roses, but find someone that is willing to love every part of you, and help you when you need it most. Don't settle for less, otherwise it'll just feed into your depressive thoughts even more. Take the leap and try to be honest and open. People might surprise you with how loving and supportive they can be. We all deserve love. We're all lovable. Just keep doing your best and keep trying to remember the best parts of yourself if things are rough right now. You're more than your mistakes, you're more than your depression, or anxiety, or loneliness. I believe in you and I know you can get to the place that you want to be.
Sorry for the word vomit, I'm typing it to remind us all and that includes myself.
Thanks for another great video Storm
Definitely! I love how you both analyzed and explained its parallels to "real world"! Sometimes I too forget that some of these videos online, if watched/listened with care, are indeed offering real support
I agree, the script is so well written, and it makes the listen understand and loved. I have never been in a relationship, but I think it's really important for the other person to be understood and show love and support because depression is no small thing. Showing self-love and respect can sometimes be hard because we can be our worst judge because we know our smallest mistakes and that can get under our skins and in our head. The most important thing is that we are doing best and be proud of yourself at the end of the day because that what matters.
@@Bugiisan That was SO WELL SAID ugh you’re right on the money. I think what makes depression so difficult is not only how it makes us feel but also how it makes us act. You feel scared to tell others and ask for help because your brain is clouded with worst case scenario thoughts. It makes you feel like you don’t deserve love when you do.
Did you have good night shifts this week Bugii? I remember you saying you had a few of them this week right?
@@V.A.L.009 For me these videos are kind of an additional support pillar in keeping my mental health in check. Even though Storm is insanely talented and a lovely individual, I don’t think these videos, even when listened with care, are a replacement for friends, family, or support from individuals in your personal life. But sometimes even when you have support from others, you still have moments maybe at night, or maybe when you’re with your own thoughts, when things just feel miserable. Those are the moments where I really love and appreciate what Storm is doing, because we can’t always rely on others to help validate us or emotionally regulate. We need to be able to do it for ourselves too.
Whenever Im having a tough night, or maybe when Im at work, and I start getting cravings, or really unhelpful negative thoughts, that’s when I’ll listen to one of these audios to help quiet my mind and hit the reset button. Honestly this community is starting to feel like a second little group of friends. It probably gets overwhelming or hard to manage for Storm to try and talk with so many of us, so I think us talking with each other is probably good for the community :)
@WouldYouKindly741 true that I have been there before and I was so scared. Because I would be judged and made fun of because, sadly, that is a thing where I live. We shouldn't never be scared to ask for help because people will help out be supportive, and I found out that saved me and made me a better person every day. My night shift went ok, no problems, and without any problems, thank you for asking. How was your week so far?
Ted Lasso said, "There is something far worse than being sad, and that's being alone and being sad" and goddamn if that isn't the truth. The worst part is that I'm not willing or able to feel like I can share it with anyone. I'm relegated to typing bullshit comments like this on the internet and...man this sucks. Sorry to whatever random person reads this, thanks for reading.
Those words strikes me in my heart. It is not bullshits. Things needs to come out, whatever is writing or drawing or just saying it. I just hope youll feel better and that you have someone in your life that you can trust enough to share those thoughts. Hang it there buddy!
I’ve spent 7 years going off and in with depression and with my mom working for a behavioral health agency at the time I was trying everything in my power to keep it on a down low, then I lost 3 relationships I would never be able to fix. I’ve been working through this mostly on my own but after hearing the mainly emotional speeches from musicians I love especially Caleb Shomo of Beartooth I fond that I needed to let it out. I finally opened up to my family when I was 18 but one person didn’t change. I’ve lost more friends due to my depression than I’ll admit but this is what I’ve wanted with a relationship and I have gotten it once from a 2 day relationship that I won’t get back. You know you’re broken when your nickname your freshman year was “Lone Wolf.” I’ve had many mental breakdowns and I never opened up about it until I went to therapy.
You either had to of been depressed yourself or dealt with somebody who has been depressed because you had everything perfectly. How much I wish somebody would say those things to me. It is so hard when you have nobody.
I need this kind of people
Or... we can also become like these people! Stay strong! We're in this together
Yeah.. but sometimes a listener need a listener too
This is my therapy
this script is too real, OP knows the rhythm of how it goes
This broke me from the inside out. I only have 5 more years left. At least this helps me cope with how much I bottle everything every day in this life I wish to disappear from. Only she can calm down the depression. Life for me is cold and lonely. A girl like her is one in a billion. She deserves better than me. 5 years isn't too long before I end it all.
5 years is long enough to do lots of things and experience stuff you've never experienced before
Hey man, sounds like premeditated suicide, pray to the demon Belial if you want a quick and painless ending, when I was down in the dump he revealed a strat that would have taken less than 10 minutes for it to be over, it was also relatively painless and fast. I ended up going to the hospital and getting help, but it's still my back up plan. Just a thought, but yeah obviously talk to someone though.
Wow, such a wholesome and adorable audio Storm. You have captured this so well because this topic is never an easy one, thank you for making a video about it and for making everyone feel loved and cherished.
To everyone who is reading this I know you are going through hard times, I am here with you every step of the way I am fighting depression myself but due to Storm and a few friends I get up every day pick my sword and fight this demon we share a fight with. Just know that they are better times coming for all of us, and we will be proud that we won our battle if you haven't heard the following here you go I love you, and I am so proud of you. You are such a beautiful soul just the way that you are and did you know that the world is a better place because you are in it, you are the whole package from a scale of 1 to 10 you are an 11.
If I can give a hint to fight it and make it easier, image that in your room and talking with your favorite video game character and movie, comic hero thorough their stories we see how they battle and in the end they because what they wished. For me, I image I talk a lot with some Final Fantasy characters because thorough the game I see how they overcome each hardship battle, and they become a better version of themselves and that shows once we put our minds to something we can achieve it.
P.S If you have made it this far, just know that you are always going to be welcome here and be safe I love you, and it's an honor to meet every single one of you beautiful souls. Sending you all tons of love and positive vibes and stretch your way, you got this.
Heya! Thanks for sharing such a deep story! I read through it all and I am so happy for you! I recently just got through a dark time, and wow... must I say that it's true that the "NIGHT IS DARKEST BEFORE THE DAWN". I'm proud of us for getting through it!
And indeed! Pick up thy sword, thy crown, or thyself, there is always hope to rise back up! I too sends lots of love and positivity to you and everyone else reading this!
That's a good one! Someone else had mentioned doing this. I definitely do this myself, or imagine certain people/characters as my personal helpers (for example, I imagine God as Robin Williams because he seems so caring, sweet and funny haha)
@messageinabottle-ASMR I agree it helps a lot, and you can have endless conversations with them. Robin Williams is a good choice as well he is indeed a person who cares, kind, and is super funny.
Although it's been a few days since you did this comment, i want to thank you for it.
It cheered me up a little while i'm currently in darker mindset again than usual, even if not all of the things you said "reached me" so to say. It's hard for me to take words like this to heart normally as well, cause you technically don't know me after all. I will try the advice with imagining a character tho, it can't hurt to try
I really appreciate you for taking your time to potentially make someone feel better, just like Storms audio tries the same thing. Thank you both
@blackdust7353 I am sorry to hear that you are doing through dark times. I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing as well. Just know you are not alone. I'm glad to hear a few words reched you, and you will try with the character talikng for me it helps alot. Just know that better times are coming for you, never lose hope, and keep your head up. I'm glad you are here with us. Stay awesome.
WE DYING ALONE WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Same
looser 🤣
REAL🗣🔥
Message in a bottle upload. All stress and anxiety terminated.
Edit: Also great work. I love these types of videos. They genuinely help
That made my heart melt, this story was so good 😭
And I hope you too have a person in your life where you can open up to as well! Take care!
@@V.A.L.009 Wish I could... :/
💙 the audio
This hit close to home for me. I've dealt with these situations due to burnout, overwhelmed and loss. I know I'm not the only one, but we've all had our good days and bad days, and we all have to take that long hike to get out of it. And hiking is a walk that sucks!
I hear you, loud and clear.
However, the people speak the truth: you're never alone (even if u want to be hahaha). But doesn't that make it so much better? You seem to describe a day's struggle as a "hike", but are hikes as much bad if you're doing it with the people u enjoy spending time with?
Cheers and take care of yourself out there!
hear someone cry for me even though I've never heard or met her, it really hit hard. Its the first video I see from you, but it will not be the last. And problably I will rewatch this one many times.❤
I shed a tear when you said to "let it all out" and that "its ok to cry". This means wayyy too much to me as someone with depression. ❤
The preview the other day had me in tatters. Listening to the whole audio has healed my heart. 😊
This was a gem of an audio. The endearment and loving nature of the speaker character is conveyed so well in the VA work here and I'm sure a lot of people will appreciate the heck out of this audio. The music that drifts in during the pivotal part of the audio genuinely tugged at my heartstrings and the subsequent lines sent shivers down my spine. And the wholesome bit at the end was such a pleasure to hear and it made me smile so much.
Depression is a dangerous force and if left alone, can grow to become terrifying. Thanks for this uplifting and genuinely wholesome video, especially for those who need it the most! I've had bouts of sadness myself, especially more so in the recent past but I have amazing people who support and uplift me so I'm able to move forward! Keep up the amazing work and have a spectacular weekend, Storm!
To those also experiencing something similar to the listener, do not be afraid to reach out for help, whether it be from friends or family, or whether it be from professional help, it is never too late! You are worth it and genuinely mean something to someone you know!
I leave you with a quote from one of the poems I find most memorable from my younger days, "If Winter comes, can Spring be far behind?" So too, there is always something to look forward to and achieve in your world and those dark and gloomy days will eventually become bright and sunny!☀🌻
That's so sweet 🥹 I'm so glad you're surrounded by good people, I wish it could be the case for everyone.
2-3 years ago I would point and laugh at people who listened to this. Oh how the tides have shifted
We can only thug it out for so long, brother. Best we find our joys where we can while we still can. 🤝
The romance stuff is great but this was something to really hear every once in a while.
way to find me at the perfect time. this video was like going down a checklist of every bit of relationship insecurity i have and gently taking a load off. you have an incredible talent for infusing your videos with healing properties or somethin, thank you for this ❣️
That's a lovely thing to say!
I don't even have depression but i've been feeling really sad and lonely recently but this video gave me a good cry that made me feel "inspiration at 3am" level energy. Thank you!
You are a treasure Storm, You have a lovely voice and do such nice things for people by making these videos that makes peoples days better. You are a real one and I hope you know we all appreciate you.
Love the direct and openness of the script. Sometimes people talk around it a bit too much for my liking but it's important for people to normalize things like talking about anti-depressants.
Once again you do a fantastic job, especially with how you blend in music at the end. That's not something you see done, let alone done well! Keep it up Storm!
MAN this got me crying for no reason
Ngl this brought tears to my eyes. I haven't been feeling myself either, and this helped put that feeling into words
I was a little late to the release of this one. Can't wait to cry myself to sleep! I already know this one is going to ruin me(in a good way). I need a bit of help(we all do).
I'm so sorry to hear that! I genuinely hope you're feeling better
When she said i really miss you being happy i couldn't hold myself and started crying (silently because i need to be tough for my family). Probably only time i was happy without care in the world was when i was actual infant and that shit hurt when life try to fuck you it doesn't do in moderation, it just breaks you . Thank you for this. If i don't go off from this world i hope one day there will be somebody that would tell me these things. I swear i would love her/him more than this world because that person would deserve every bit of love i can give.
💞
I've Been listening to this for hours.
It still hurts.
Thank you for helping a little bit.
Same bro.
I was hoping that short video was gonna turn into a full one, nice.
Legit started crying😭😭😭was not expecting the sudden change in mood
This one just touches the soul.
I tend to bottle up feelings, especially negative ones, but I actually cried listening to this. And it felt so good? My pillow might be wet but my mind is much calmer than before. Thank you so much for your work ❤
Didn't think this would help me today, but I just needed... Something comforting, something I haven't heard or felt in years. Thank you..❤
Well, this was needed today. Thank you, Storm, for talking about this topic. For anyone else who needs it, just remember that no matter how scary it may be, it's okay to say you need help.🧡
Yesss! Definitely! Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Just like how becoming "vulnerable" is a sign of strength and trust, not weakness. To all of you reading this, pick up this crown 👑 and continue rising!
Edit: And hey! I also hope you're doing well on your side! Take care
@V.A.L.009 so true. I've seen several of my employees nearly spiral out of control because "men can't show emotions." I've never understood that, but after talking to them, more than a few when to get help.
Thank you, V.A.L.009, for helping spread the love and message.🙂
😭❤😭❤😭❤ I am in tears. You did wonderfully with this. Thank You!
The way you cried was literally heart breaking to hear i literally had the same thing with my ex before i was scared i would lose her but what do you know i had to keep that burden and she was gone and 😭
i really appreciate you Storm, Thank you for doing this.
It took me more than two years to realise I needed professional help. I've been through lots of different types of asmr (looking for a way to escape or fall asleep). This one in particular, with the kind and sweet voice, hit me with a different weight. It was scratching something I didn't know was there. Those pieces scattered over the floor, breaking me at the same time they were comforting me. I have mixed feelings about the script, but it's a truth that this shook something inside me and for that I'm glad. I just wanted to give a bit of this sparkle to the voice I'm hearing right now. And to anyone who can relate.
After a hard day, I needed that, thank you for that ❤️
For that, you should have a hug. So here. 🫂
🫂 there~ another hug! I hope you're doing better
Don't know if I was sad before watching the video and confort by it, or if the video made me sad and then conforted me
Hahaha! Same here! It's as if this audio reminded us of our pain and slowly helped us conquer it again! Take care, I hope you're doing well on your end too
I totally felt the same way, not thinking i was gonna tear up at work, i listened and felt the overwhelming feeling of being sad then comfort
needed this 💯🙏🏻
This was a wonderful audio! Keep up the great work, Storm!
Also, storm, I want to thank you for making this video.
Ive actually been somewhat down on myself as of late. I keep training everyday as im kinda a sucker for pain, i dont feel like im getting anywhere with my training, and If i were around you, id want to hug you.
Im the type to love my friends, and i consider you a friend. Thanks storm.
Hey! Don't say that yourself! If anything, I am a sucker for pain as well! To be honest, just because you're even trying to train everyday, you already have my respect and the respect of your body! You're doing so well already, but do remind to "slow down and smell the roses". You've come a long way, I'm sure.
Take care of yourself, and don't be afraid to feel proud of what you've achieved
@@V.A.L.009 thanks, but I still feel like i haven't gotten much anywhere.
@@V.A.L.009 as for being one to relax, I'm usually a rather tense person.
Honestly I went to a mental hospital for this same reason for a week and yet I still don’t feel better but to hear this audio is giving me hope to thank you for this
One week is short to "get better"... give it time and hang in there. It's a start.
@@messageinabottle-ASMR yeah I felt the same but at least that’s over with right?
CRYING TO SLEEP WITH THIS ONE LADS🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wow I really needed this right now thank you
And I hope it made you feel better too!
Storm, this was...
Thanks
Really needed this.
Indeed! I hope you're doing well on your end as well. Take care of yourself, y'hear?
This is so comforting thanks a ton message
This is a special one. Thank you
You have amazing acting skills that you made me feel bad and as the listener not wanting to leave your character 😔😢😭
This helps me for specific reasons.❤❤
Thank you for this, I can feel myself losing bit by bit everyday...
I don't want to go back to that place, I don't want to be alone...
Not again...
This script was really done you use it really well fr I wish somdeday i'll be able to have a similar convo with someone it'd probably heal me hopefully one day i will
I’ve watched this a few times now, after recently discovering this channel. It reminds me a lot of something I have thought about and that I am still persuaded will happen : I’m not going to die of old age. I feel at some point I just won’t enjoy the life I am about to live, and at that point I will find a way to cleanly take myself out. It will be in thirty years maybe, but I am not going to prevent it from happening myself. The one way it doesn’t happen is if I manage to be happy with someone. Thanks to them, whatever word you want to use. I know I will sink in thought if I am alone, and I haven’t found a community I could fully immerse myself into. Maybe that’ll come. As most people thinking about this, the one thing I fear is pain and failing to do it properly, as well as the medical treatments that can come in the aftermath. People don’t want to let you get the f out of here. Some relatives of mine have committed or attempted it, and it doesn’t change my mind in the slightest somehow. It may be my one reason to live : fight to make this a right in my, or maybe another country. It should be taken with caution, but if anyone has the right to live, anyone should have a guaranteed right to die decently
If you could imagine the life you truly want, what would it look like?
@@messageinabottle-ASMR what a question…
For now I struggle to see myself live with anyone but the woman who has been my best friend for nearly 4 years, with whom I have endured the first 2 years of my studies (Classe Prépa, you may know this since you have relatives in France, one of the tougher study paths you can take towards engineering college).
But when it comes to myself, I would like to do video game development and live either near the Alps, not too far from Grenoble or maybe Lyon, or maybe somewhere in Canada. No idea where exactly if I go across the Atlantic. I want to keep hiking, wandering around in the mountains sometimes, keep skiing in winter and teach my kids as well. I want to keep travelling if planes are still flying, and show my kids how stunning the world looks and feels.
I want to do all that. And a lot of it is what I live(d) as the kid.
What I fear most is really the first part. I like wandering around alone, both physically and in thought, but having another person to hold hands with in this process is something I have enjoyed too much to not miss it when it’s gone. As student parties are something I can’t really bring myself to enjoy, I know I more or less rely on my life after to find a partner who I want to care about and who wants to care about me. I sometimes feel I am wasting my time because although I need to study for the future I envision and I want to study, I can’t make any progress on my -social goals ?-.
Anyway, I’m mostly pessimistic on the partner part due to my shyness and borderline obsessive interest in activities where I don’t feel I’m going to find a partner (mostly video games, there’s a reason I want to work in game dev). The rest is not as important and doesn’t feel as unreliable to reach
@@randomguy8107 Sounds like a nice vision :)
Man you really know how to hit me in the feels. 10:50. I wish I had someone like this. Got me tearing up over here
I cried while watching this whole thing
soooo calming 😌😌😌 thanks Storm for such cool and awesome video ❤❤❤
her: gives me lots of praises and compliments
me: gets more lonely and depressed
Thank you for help me deal with past pain
Oh boy, and this is really good, and always take care of someone you love and protect them through hard times 🩷👍
Thanks, I needed this
We leave in a lie and somehow the truth maybe be way worse that what we think
WE PULLING THE TRIGGER WITH THIS ONE🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
this comes at the right time for me
Maybe it's a sign? A sign that you've fought hard enough; it's time to slow down and smell the roses?
The bloodline ending with me🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Damn this actually brought me to tears because I haven’t been feeling like me since my parents divorce even though it was a year ago and now that I’m feeling the bits of me returning but it sucks how many people hate that me the real me so it feels like I’m tearing away while at the same time being pushed back into it
Take it easy... it takes time to move past these things
It’s a tired that sleep can’t fix and caffeine can’t shake off. It’s been so long since I felt anything but exhaustion.
Are you familiar with demi Lovato? A song i think you'll like; "give your heart a break".
Sometimes i also just feel so tired man. Like, you feel like you cant catch a frikin break as you're being pulled in so many directions and are constantly burning the midnight oil. You'd feel like you'd explode. You should find the time to just take a break from life and maybe spoil yourself a bit.
Im still patiently waiting for your Audios to finally come to Spotify 🥺🥺🥺
I wanna die, this kinda make that thought go away a little, I desperately needed this, thank you
I needed this
Opening up? Therapy? Tf are those? All the cure I need is here.
Haha! Of course, silly! By listening to Storm, you're opening up to YOUR true feelings!
Anyway, I hope you're doing better now! Here's a hug for you 🫂
Thank you I really needed this video
Thank you for the kind words miss, I needed to hear them
Thanks to the internet i feel something that i wouldn't NEVER FEEL in real life, a girl talking like that with me, at night after a terrible day at work, i'm 30 years old, welder living alone in a third world country 😢
❤️
Can’t let bro know I fw these videos 🤫
to have meaningful relationships you have to go out and work it for. They just fall on your lap. And if you adw depressed and constantly self-deprecating it neigh impossible i.e. you just have to endure alone.
Makes me more depressed knowing I’ll never hear this irl ever. I’m going to die alone, I’m gna end it all
Don’t let that voice in your head convince you that you’ll never experience something like this. You’re worthy and deserving of love no matter how lowly you might think of yourself. I told myself for years that I’d never find someone and I let that mindset control my life. You need to recognize the parts of yourself that are beautiful and wonderful so that you’re better at expressing them. You’re more likely to attract someone else when they can see the qualities that make you, you. We might not always love ourselves and that’s okay, but don’t ever let that voice convince you what’s possible.
Find a reason, ANY reason, to not give up and keep trying. The more time that passes, the more reasons you’ll start finding. The goal is to one day be your own reason, but it isn’t a race. Life doesn’t have milestones that you need to reach in a specific amount of time. Go at your own pace
How did she knew... 😔
I don’t know what to do anymore, I can just feel myself getting worse. I’ve become more angry and distant from my friends. I can’t take it anymore I don’t want to be alone, I’ve been alone for quite some time and it’s really starting to get to me. Every single night I dream of being held and cared for by the girl I love the most, I dream of doing the most amazing things with her. But good things always have to come to an end right, then I wake up and it’s like I’m back to square one, alone in my bed. My friends know about my depression, so it is kind of nice to have them to go to, but I feel like no matter how much I tell them and no matter how many times they say “ It’s ok man, I get it.” It’s like they’ll never truly understand how much I’m suffering inside. I REALLY need someone like Message In a Bottle, you are truly amazing, I started crying after I heard this. So thank you, and I bet you I’m speaking for every man that’s in these comments. You’ve helped us a lot so thank you.
If good things always come to an end, then the bad things also do eventually, and that can be a comforting thought when things feel like they'll never get better ❤️
Thank you very much for making this video. Exactly what I needed to remember why I am doing what I am doing
I Love alltime your vidéo your accent ❤ ty for your time ty for this feeling ☺️
this hits close to home, I don’t know if that’s good or bad.
Truly lovely
I dreamed of meaning so much to someone. Depression is a poison I struggle with so often
Yes indeed 😭. Depression (if quoted by someone else) "is literally your own brain turning against you". I hope you're doing well on your end!
@@V.A.L.009 I have good and bad phases...
This one... hurt, a lot more than i expected
Oh my, you are creating dreams!
And shaping futures! There's two people "inspired" from this audio:
1. the people who choose to become like her, helping the people who suffer in silence;
2. the people who are now feeling better after this video
Anyway, I hope you're doing well! Take care of yourself
@@V.A.L.009 True, wise words. Thank you, you too!
I wish to heard those words so long ago... 😢
I’m worried about myself too
And I too am here, worrying about your well-being. Have you drank enough water today? What about sunshine? Do take care of yourself! I trust you
@@V.A.L.009 thanks bro, I try everyday 😸👍🏻
As someone that’s currently struggling with that since the last 15 years having someone that caring and reassuring almost seems impossible in todays world. The world would no doubted be a better place if we all had a Storm in our lives. Someone that caring, compassionate, and loving. Nowadays it seems like that is too much to ask of someone. All I can say is thank you Storm, for all the work and effort you do for us. You are a beacon of hope of me and for many. Keep doing what you’re doing. You are out here changing lives and. I mean it! 🥹❤️
Heyy... I hope you're doing and hanging strong in there! I know today's society is sh!t (sorry for my language), but indeed, this video is a sign of hope: there are people who still believe in good (and always have been here). I can say for certain that I now know for certain that 3 people genuinely care for the good of others: Storm, yourself, and I! And of course, so many more people can be counted in! And before long, there's countless people who we can open up to for help.
And also... here's something I think you dropped: 👑. Rise back up! We need more good people like you too! (and obviously, we need to be more like Storm too).
Best of love and support from Canada! Take care
Aw 😊 Thanks for saying that!!
Well, this hit at just the right moment.
I was feeling like crap for a bit.
Thanks. I needed this video
Haven't even heard the audio yet but I can tell you're becoming the next TeacupAudio