ASMR| You're NOT a Failure [Anxiety/Panic Attack] [Mental Health 'Setbacks'] [TW*]

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 2 года назад +147

    Ty for this, Ive have real bad anxiety for years and panic a lot. My first panic attack was awful, felt like I was gonna be sick or pass out. My mental health has worsened more and more. I feel so bad because of how I am, and feel like a failure all the time. Ty for the comfort and love you give once again, these ASMRs help make me feel so much better all the time. Ty Ty Ty ❤🌧😖

  • @TheSubsman23
    @TheSubsman23 3 месяца назад +11

    Man whenever i watch these i feel good for a bit and get sad again because I'll never have this

    • @Dazed-v6h
      @Dazed-v6h Месяц назад

      On everything 💔💔

  • @aberrationiv6826
    @aberrationiv6826 Год назад +11

    Oh, to have someone see and accept this side of me. Oh, to hear such kind words from a genuine connection in a time of need. It would be a dream come true.

  • @dohinator4092
    @dohinator4092 2 года назад +85

    The timing of you posting this video couldn’t have been better. Had a major depressive episode today that had me exactly as the scene described in the audio, stuck in bed buried under the covers, staring at the wall in a nearly pitch black room. No panic attack, but my mood was the lowest it has been in weeks. Lazily checked the time on my phone and saw the notification for this video. Content like this is a godsend for those of us who don’t have anyone around to help them back up after a fall. People really underestimate the necessity of having a good support system when it comes to mental health. Took hours for me to get back around to comment my thanks, but I made it. I hope you have the goodness you put into the world returned to you tenfold. Seriously, thank you!

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +28

      I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is truely the worst. But you're not alone in your struggles, I hope you know that. Be kind to yourself, you deserve that. ❤ And thank you for your super sweet words, they put a big smile on my face :)

    • @timetraveler9518
      @timetraveler9518 Год назад +6

      I'm in the same position

  • @damianmorningstarr
    @damianmorningstarr 2 года назад +49

    I, We all hope you’re okay Sarah. You do so much for us and you’re so nurturing we wouldn’t want anything bad to happen to you. In case you’re not hearing it enough, You’re loved

  • @The_darkest__knight
    @The_darkest__knight Год назад +6

    When you said “your scaring me” it brought me back to some really bad times, I couldn’t stop thinking sorry

  • @StickHalo117
    @StickHalo117 Месяц назад +2

    If you ever have someone like this in your life, do everything you possibly can to be the best you for them that you can be.
    These kinds of angels do NOT just grow on trees.

  • @ahmyalaine9452
    @ahmyalaine9452 Год назад +11

    after I got home from school, and went straight to my bed, this ASMR suits the sour mood of my failure in the Exam, and I just realized, I'm crying silently. Thanks for all the sweet comforting words. ❤️

  • @KJetixsSuccessor
    @KJetixsSuccessor 11 месяцев назад +4

    I didn’t known what to expect from this. It didn’t move me but it did touch me. And it felt like what I needed for the most part. Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @ell1sk1
    @ell1sk1 2 года назад +8

    It’s been a really hard month between life and highschool midterms and collage finals. My mental health has been on a downward spiral, feeling like nothing is good enough and it’s been hard not to fall back on old habits. Your videos help calm me down and actually get a good nights sleep and I’m so grateful…I hope that you’re feeling better and thank you so much.

  • @amandagresham1298
    @amandagresham1298 2 года назад +25

    Your sooo amazing. I suffer from depression and anxiety and I can't tell you how much you help me with your audios you have been my guardian angel and I'm blessed to have found you thank you love you Sweetheart ❤❤❤❤💖💖💖💕💕💕

  • @spidergalva
    @spidergalva 2 года назад +8

    Everyone needs a reminder of this. I need it too.

  • @gandit
    @gandit 24 дня назад +1

    to anyone who is having a hard time, don't forget that you always have someone to talk to, someone who truly loves you

  • @JordanGates-ep2pg
    @JordanGates-ep2pg 8 месяцев назад +3

    I really needed this, because sometimes I degrade myself and brush it off as something i can worry about later. But in reality...I just want someone to understand me. Not the strong face i put on, not the girl who always makes others laugh and feel better. I want people to know the girl who deep down just wants to br accepted for who she is, for the art she makes, for the girl crying out for someone to finally be the shoulder she needs. So i say thank you. Thank you for brightening my days, thank you for being who you are. Some days i feel like i cant go on, but when i listen to your voice or watch your streams. I feel like i can keep going on. I feel like i have a reason to live. Thank you, thank you for everything.

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 2 года назад +7

    Support for anxiety is always nice

  • @busterkich68
    @busterkich68 Год назад +5

    This audio really helped me today. I'm having a terrible night, and I feel like I'm failing at everything, but thanks to this. I feel a bit better. Thank you so much.

  • @SolarGirlASMR
    @SolarGirlASMR 2 года назад +43

    Love the depth of your audios, makes them even more enjoyable and so, so special 🙌💛

    • @gc2558
      @gc2558 Год назад +1

      Hello solar

  • @brickmariobros
    @brickmariobros 2 года назад +11

    Did I have a panic attack today? No. But there was something about this audio that made me feel safe, and calm. I didn’t realize I needed this today until now, so thank you.

  • @Area1G
    @Area1G 2 года назад +3

    Thanks so much for this. Things havent been going to plan in my life lately and ive been feeling really down and worthless about it, so I really needed this. You’re truly a blessing. Take care of yourself this season ❤❤❤

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +3

      Aw.. Sorry to hear that. Life is really rough sometimes ☹️🫂❤️

  • @CutzeSapphic
    @CutzeSapphic 2 года назад +5

    I don’t think I’ve cried so much listening to an audio thank you 😭

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +4

      Aw ☹️🫂❤️

    • @CutzeSapphic
      @CutzeSapphic 2 года назад +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR fr tho your videos just make my day so much better light just walking home and started listening to the audio and immediately felt better thank you

  • @doblc943
    @doblc943 2 года назад +2

    I always get the feeling that I fail at a lot of things. But I just keep my confidence going. And this really helps by the way. You’re the sweetest ❤

  • @thestylishman5074
    @thestylishman5074 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I struggle with anxiety myself and most ASMR videos that I put on in the background to help me sleep just don't seem to do the trick. But this one really tapped into my own struggle with anxiety and having a low opinion of myself. Not only did I let out a few tears but I had a damn good sleep which is something that I haven't had for a very long time. Love to hear what you do in the future!

  • @JesusJuarezGutierrez
    @JesusJuarezGutierrez 2 года назад +4

    nice audio Sarah and i hope you feel better and get well soon. 😊❤

  • @hannAhSMR
    @hannAhSMR 2 года назад +2

    having really bad anxiety over finals week and feeling so defeated. this really helped me 💖💖

  • @michaelkruk
    @michaelkruk 7 месяцев назад +3

    I feel like I’m failing my math course, that I’m a failure but I’m happy I came across this video, thank you

  • @airchunk2621
    @airchunk2621 2 года назад +5

    I...needed this...

  • @DivineOne-k1x
    @DivineOne-k1x 2 года назад +6

    Damn, I needed this, *pain*, anyway, this is a very well done audio, good job. Stay safe and take care 👋

  • @Kazuto2713
    @Kazuto2713 2 года назад +1

    This is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for this! You’re wonderful! I’m happy to be a patron supporter

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for this audio, really needed to hear those kind words ❤️

  • @Dragons_FBR
    @Dragons_FBR Год назад +2

    Thanks I needed this. After my break-up. I haven't been feeling myself.

  • @Iden_in_the_Rain
    @Iden_in_the_Rain 2 года назад +1

    Air quotes around ‘setbacks’ was nice thank you (:

  • @Tentacult_Sapling
    @Tentacult_Sapling 7 месяцев назад +1

    All I feel is pain. I want to get better, but I'm not sure how to define myself if I don't mention the suffering. It gets hard to cope but thank you for this, because it's at least a small comfort in this place...I just wish I knew someone that I felt safe telling them about how I feel inside

  • @madi.1187
    @madi.1187 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for this. I had to stop a sport that I have been doing for 12 years due to permanent injuries from it. It hurts so bad but what can I do. You really comfort me when I need it the most

  • @maro2402
    @maro2402 2 года назад +2

    I cant say how happy i am to see Your another video ❤️

  • @epicsandvich014
    @epicsandvich014 2 года назад +1

    I’m a very negative person by nature and deal with massive self hatred issues, I see my flaws perfectly and rarely my accomplishments.
    It’s genuinely difficult to see myself or what I do in a positive way, so I often feel like a failure, and I feel like a burden for bringing it up to others. So I just keep it to myself.

  • @toybonniesfm
    @toybonniesfm 2 года назад +2

    This released at like the perfect time.
    Well after it, I have to go out and do stuff but whatever I’ll listen to it later

  • @apdofficer2104
    @apdofficer2104 2 года назад +3

    APD APPROVED
    Fun fact: The stick is the world’s first toy.
    Until we meet again

  • @F.M671
    @F.M671 2 года назад +1

    Thanks. This is great!
    And the voice is just fine dw

  • @oliwood3542
    @oliwood3542 2 года назад

    thank's you for the new audio the past month have been really hard and hope you get better soon.

  • @benceklock4831
    @benceklock4831 2 года назад +2

    I needed this. I just failed like 3 classes in university and felt like a total fuckup.

  • @1Dreamsmakers
    @1Dreamsmakers 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for always being here help me and everyone out ... I hope you feel better 💙 you are totally sweet and caring person I hope could you a friend

  • @yasu0rain627
    @yasu0rain627 2 года назад +2

    from the title, it sounds gr8,i'll definitely play that in bed while i try to sleep.
    P.S:
    Appreciate u uploading 4 us while ur still sick, get well soon❤‍🩹

  • @coke9213
    @coke9213 4 месяца назад

    currently im in an extra curricular role where i participated as a student council, that alone itself is overwhelming and recently i’ve been percieved as incompetent. they may not say it in my eyes but i feel it and what makes it worse is that even my boyfriend thinks im not really suited for this role because i do certain things in a way that isn’t on that level yet. but i want atleast for them to understand im trying though and i wanted to because of a significant reason. thus im also new aswell in this environment so adapting may take time, but im starting to accept the fact obviously it wouldn’t be easy but it hurts still.

  • @leah2271
    @leah2271 2 года назад

    the only thing in my mind now is that if I just was here and listen for that it will be much different I had my first anxiety attack not too long ago its like month or something and I didn't know what was going on with me it take me like couple of weeks to understand it
    and these words the most things anyone go throw this need it you really good at this thanks 💚

  • @Maito89
    @Maito89 2 года назад +6

    Your GF: "You're not a burden" 😟
    My (ex)BF: "You're a burden and I'm so gonna use this against you in the future" 😒

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +6

      Sounds like you got ridd of your burden a.k.a the ex 😊 You deserve better than that 🫂

    • @Maito89
      @Maito89 2 года назад +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR Nah, he got rid of me 😅but thank you anyway 😊

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +7

      AW, but you're better of without someone like that regardless.

  • @sofiavalente9911
    @sofiavalente9911 2 года назад +1

    Just in time for my new anxiety attack exactly because I am feeling like I am failing You have a lovely voice, thank you for your asmr's

  • @ShadowNinja9620
    @ShadowNinja9620 3 месяца назад +1

    “..If I’m gunna snap necks then I gotta snap back…”

  • @csight2003
    @csight2003 2 года назад +1

    It’s finals season for some of us right now, and I’m sure this will help a lot.

  • @Jay5mics
    @Jay5mics 2 года назад +1

    Remember yall. Keep working towards whatever you goal you have. Success ain't Final and failure Is not the end. Love yall stay safe

  • @javargriffin1771
    @javargriffin1771 2 года назад

    Definitely could watch this for hours if I need to my anxiety hasn't been the best I don't know what case it I could be perfect fine then boom anxiety definitely need more part 2 or 3 it's just that good and helpful

  • @bishopmerriman2419
    @bishopmerriman2419 11 месяцев назад

    I saw the title and clicked on this because right now I'm having a lot of mental health problems and I can't tell my parents even though I'm 16 and I still will get in trouble for talking about my mental

  • @Pinktulipzz
    @Pinktulipzz 2 года назад +1

    when I saw this earlier I didn't click on it because I've never had a panic attack before, but Ive been feeling worse lately so I decided to just press on it later on

  • @mimidepp47
    @mimidepp47 2 года назад +4

    Literally In the best time I’m panicking and overthinking and my head ganne kill me cuz I have an interview tomorrow:)

  • @byonemesis
    @byonemesis 2 года назад +2

    To answer that question...
    Am I? Because...lastly...I miss her. A lot. I struggle a lot to keep our promise. All that because I feel alone, and I am afraid to be what I'm scared the most. I feel like crap. For real... so yeah, am I not failing to keep living and being happy without her?

  • @lorenraft89
    @lorenraft89 Год назад +2

    thank you for this video It comforts me even tho I know still that I'm a fucking failure that fucks up everything he does so let me leave this comment as memory of me, goodbye

  • @JhonelD
    @JhonelD 2 месяца назад

    1 year later I’m still watching because my MH is at its lowest and I’m worried for my self

  • @JayMazzitelli
    @JayMazzitelli 3 месяца назад +1

    (Sigh) If Only I Had That Special Someone in My Life To Give Me Comfort And Support Through These Crappy Days i've Had To Suffer Through For Nearly The Past Couple Of Months Now. Everyday Since Then Has Been Nothing But An Endless Constant Struggle And it Feels Like i'm Getting No-Where in Life. What Am i To Do? 😩

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад +1

      Trust God
      Put your burdens on him, put your pain in him, and most importantly, put your faith in him
      Jesus loves you✝ Never forget that

    • @JayMazzitelli
      @JayMazzitelli 3 месяца назад +1

      @@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v Thankyou! Reading This Made Me Feel So Much Better. I Guess This is A Sign That I Shouldn't Give Up Right? 😶

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад +1

      @@JayMazzitelli YES!, DONT GIVE UP ON LIFE, NEVER
      TRUST GOD.
      Have faith, and i promise that your life will improve, and also you will have eternal life, in heaven
      Jesus loves you brother, always remember that

    • @JayMazzitelli
      @JayMazzitelli 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v Thankyou So Much. Many Blessings To You For Your Wonderful Messages Friend And May Your Life Be Filled With Eternal Happiness. ❤😊 I Promise You That I Won't Give Up And I'll Keep Moving Forward No Matter What Happens. I'll Keep Pushing Through Each Passing Day Despite Feeling Lonely. Pray For Me That I Make it Through. 🙏

  • @evix6039
    @evix6039 2 года назад +1

    🫂❤️ Ty, hope you're feeling better

  • @SophistictaedDevil
    @SophistictaedDevil 4 месяца назад +1

    You tell a joke, no one laughs
    You write a comment, people refute and debase it immediately
    You culminate hours of work into something, and external factors kill the momentum before it reaches fruition
    You work on yourself to improve, only to find out you are physically/psychologically unable to reach your goal
    Imagine every venture, every attempt to gain something, ends in failure.
    Why even try? How much rejection can one person take until they just stop and give up entirely?

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад

      IWhen reading your comment i come across 3 main things
      the 1st being that for some reason, you have a poor personal image, wich i doubt to be true
      the 2nd being that you lost hope on teh future
      and the 3rd being a lack of self drive, meaning by this, you base your value/success on external validation, rather than on internal.
      I also struggled a lot, specially with the 3rd, and what took me out of that cycle of self hate, and pessimism, was a personal relationship with God
      I know you may not be a believer (if you want we can debate later on) But what i ask is for you to Trust God, and to seek his presence into your life,
      God loves you, a lot
      and i encourage you to open your heart to christ
      God bless you brother ✝

  • @DoctorJ-nx6eo
    @DoctorJ-nx6eo 2 года назад +1

    This was my final year at UK college in a nutshell except nobody helped me through it

  • @joshjackman326
    @joshjackman326 Год назад

    Her: You’re NOT a failure.
    Me: clearly you haven’t seen my exam results. Also I don’t believe you.

  • @thegoldavenger.3829
    @thegoldavenger.3829 Год назад

    God i haven’t even watched the video and the description made me choke up lmao

  • @dcavaz
    @dcavaz 4 месяца назад

    This may be all I need rn

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад +1

      Maybe, but a piece of advice i realised through time is that this kind of videos are more of an anesthesia to a deeper pain
      i wanted to kill myself for years on, until recently, and the thing that mad me change my mind is developing a persnoal relationship with God
      so thats what i have to recomend to everyone, God has power to Heal everyone, and let me tell you you are loved beyond your understanding
      Jesus loves you ✝
      God bless you

    • @dcavaz
      @dcavaz 3 месяца назад

      @@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v That's the whole point

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад +1

      @@dcavaz Trust jesus brother, have faith, and your pain will dissapear, i promise

    • @dcavaz
      @dcavaz 3 месяца назад

      @@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v Thank you, brother, I hope it does.

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад +1

      @@dcavaz Dont thank me, Thank God, IM just showing you were the True savior is.
      God bless you brother

  • @applerancher5329
    @applerancher5329 2 года назад

    Such a good one!

  • @IdioticMonke
    @IdioticMonke 6 месяцев назад

    I am just laying here in my bed. Crying, staring at the blank ceiling. Like every night😔

  • @larrybryant8714
    @larrybryant8714 2 года назад +1

    Nice audio when is the next video coming out

  • @toobrokeforarchive
    @toobrokeforarchive 8 месяцев назад

    I can't take it anymore

  • @conanninteeneightyeight3512
    @conanninteeneightyeight3512 2 года назад +2

    Hey Sarah, hi. I'm passing for a really hurtful moment rn, could I make a consolation video as a request please? So I can have sth to help me cope with this moment I'm passing through... Please, please my friend, it would be of great help... Thank you
    I'm sorry if I don't write properly, English is not my native language

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +4

      I'm so sorry you're hurting :( ❤ I'd love to do an audio like that. Let me know if you want it to be more of a general comfort or for something specific ❤

    • @conanninteeneightyeight3512
      @conanninteeneightyeight3512 2 года назад +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR thank you so much for your kind words, uhm... maybe something about self esteem? Like for bullying, sth like that, I hope that vague idea helps. Thank you so so much Sarah, you're an angel

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +4

      Absolutely ❤ Take care of yourself, ok? Eat something you love, watch your favorite movie and do some self pampering. Anything that makes you feel even a tiny bit better. That is an order.

    • @conanninteeneightyeight3512
      @conanninteeneightyeight3512 2 года назад +2

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR 🥰 ok Sarah, I will I promise, thank you so much for your help and your words. Lots of love for you, you made me smile, thanks a lot again

  • @sarahk.2381
    @sarahk.2381 2 года назад +2

    I know I have failed everyone hopefully I have enough value to listen to this but that is doubtful it's ironic I found this right now because currently I have no worth 😞😞

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +4

      You absolutely have worth. A lot of it. 🫂 Making mistakes just means you’re human, it never makes you a failure.

  • @nikkubhai8384
    @nikkubhai8384 4 месяца назад

    I wish someone cared, I wish someone would talk to me and listen to my issues. I just want a hug

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 3 месяца назад

      I care for you, but i now that the world is a very dark place nowadays.
      I found light in god, and i encourage everyone that ever has the need for a relationship to seek god, and to put their faith in god.
      Jesus loves you ✝
      God bless you

  • @Godlymcloven
    @Godlymcloven Месяц назад

    It’s okay to have bad days like this… What happens if these bad days seem like everyday? 😢

  • @AliBazz
    @AliBazz 2 года назад +1

    Ayyyyyyye preciate ya

  • @gagothesour
    @gagothesour Месяц назад

    If I am not a failure then I really am good for nothing.

  • @espada228-d9u
    @espada228-d9u Год назад

    I sometimes feel like the main character of the fight club 😅😂

    • @espada228-d9u
      @espada228-d9u Год назад +4

      HOLY FUCK WHEN DID I LEAVE THIS COMMENT. I SHOULD GET MY LIFE TOGETHER

  • @devision1488
    @devision1488 4 месяца назад

    I'm not so sure about that

  • @cheif9OO
    @cheif9OO 2 года назад

    Are you certain?

  • @Eald_Englisc_beon_micel
    @Eald_Englisc_beon_micel 5 месяцев назад

    I am though?

  • @two_face
    @two_face 6 месяцев назад

    Real.

  • @Captain_Brian78
    @Captain_Brian78 2 месяца назад

    Yeah, well... This is a nice thought anyway.

  • @hyperscalerafsan8913
    @hyperscalerafsan8913 2 месяца назад

    I hate myself 😅

  • @madison_drew
    @madison_drew 2 года назад +2

    😢😞🫂❤️

  • @Deadweight06
    @Deadweight06 2 года назад

    Thanks I guess

  • @eduardopereyra9285
    @eduardopereyra9285 2 года назад

    Can't hear you

  • @greenpinapple820
    @greenpinapple820 Год назад

    Man... imagine having a driver's licenses or a car or a job or a gf...
    Anyway back to telling people on youtube shorts comments to sewerslide.

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North 2 года назад +111

    Comment For Engaygement🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +22

      @emilynorth Thank you for always supporting! :)

    • @Emily_North
      @Emily_North 2 года назад +22

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR You're welcome, always happy to support your great content ☺️
      And yeah, I definitely get a lot of harassing messages. I always find it so weird when people tell me to kill myself over a gay pun. It's a slight overreaction imo

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 года назад +30

      WTF what is wrong with people... really! That is just insane to me. I hope you don't take it to heart, they're just a**holes with nothing better to do with their life then to try and make others just as miserable as they are.

    • @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary
      @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary 11 месяцев назад +5

      Love is dead
      Glory to the revolution

    • @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary
      @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary 11 месяцев назад +7

      ​​@@Emily_North
      Why do you think love wins?
      When our rifles can crush it

  • @Brainstormbazaar
    @Brainstormbazaar 6 месяцев назад

    😢❤4yrs gone still fighting for life
    Thank u