The gal corrupt but yet u were cheating? I don’t wrong har fi divorce u ah bbc 😆 unu mon to ungrateful & wicked... you said every girl you deal with is sweet at first then they become corrupt... i think your are the issue.. plz do some self evaluation
@@FraisFamily I was thinking the same thing yow. No woman.likws to be cheated on. Women have a sixth sense about those things, even when you think they don't know. Although some women will take the revenge to another level. Hope you're cleaning up your act. Lol
You two were both wrong 🙃 but y dogged her for cheating but you’re proudly speaking about you cheating. That’s weird….Mhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you’re giving narcissist.
@@horacebinns8069 I mean counter arguments are welcomed and “shit yah chat mi g” is not a counter argument, I can describe accountability to you or maybe you already know, so I’d ask for a counter argument that point me in the direction of any part of Jamaican society that is best known for accountability from the politicians all the way down, I will gladly admit I’m wrong if you point me in the right direction. Constructive criticism is not an attack but a opportunity to be better but mi know the “diss” phenomenon lock down people mindset so maybe a diss mi a diss the people and the country.
You cheated on her and try to justify it cause you stayed with her. That’s more disrespectful than leaving. She had the decency to dip on you and keep it pushin.
Your ex wife know say yuh never love her as you said you could have gotten to love her. Tell the story properly...when did she start cheat? And as you said you start cheat with your high school sweetheart and other women...smh
People need fi share dem "Green card" story because Jah Jah it nuh easy when yuh run off and don't have a support system. NO SSN and haffi work under table ppl tek disadvantage of you and once dem know yuh have no papers dem love chat bout imma call ICE....yow mi wah share my story tuh cause it was a long road....but when you look at where you're coming from haffi smile and give thanks..can fly any weh now can work all 5 different jobs....process long and ruff with all the struggles I had I can smile now
Sir, sir , sir! You call the girl toxic but you were married living with your ex and cheating with othe girls. It because she wanted to divorce and move on she’s the corrupt one 😒 if they start good and turn bad then what’s the common denominator
What the hell did I just watch. I’m still trying to see if this was a joke or what. Man said he didn’t get marry solely for green card but yet he didn’t love his wife. Then he was cheating on her out the gate but got mad when he found out she was cheating too. What? And i could’ve sworn the loved together at some point. Didn’t hey have blogs on here and stuff. This gotta be a joke.
5 min in and I smh at this guy. So you lived with the ppl dem and eat a them yard and a work but caan buy egg or breakfast grocery put ina the house 😒😒😒😒. Well wa person would be ok with a man working but don’t buy grocery wey him love eat ?
Why do y'all come to America think by the snap of a finger you'll be rich?🤔🤔Thats not how things work here in America. You gotta work your ass off, save your money and build. Aint no partying and linking up its straight hustling!! once you have the right mentality you'll make it in America.
These type of things goes on alot, the foundation is highly important and it's not easy starting from scratch.Alot people been here fi donkeys years with no foundation,dem life still shacky.Its not a place to waste time because you can end up waisting your life especially in a place like new York.You have to stay pon you meds at all times so you don't loose yourself.The opportunities exist to come up and do well but you must stay focus and avoid the bs at all cost.Salute fam fi telling it like it's truly is, Respect
I live in UK am half Jamaican. I here what ur saying fully, heard and see so much horror stories what ppl go through/ deal with being in a different country with no support system 😕 but .......accountability!!! Jamaican men don't ever want to accept 😤 the vibe u may not have noticed you was giving her made her feel something isn't right. 2 divorce my bro u must now look in yourself honestly with a fine tooth comb !!!! Or you just have a bad judge of character 🤷 🤔 .
Breda why as man now we mek the internet tun unu in female. Breda as a man a only u real family an friend and God if knw this. If yu nah be disrespectful why yu do this. Mi not even listen this. Stop put unu life pon the internet as a real man leave the chatting to the gyal dem.
Jai it’s okay to NOT be husband material, not everyone is “husband or wife material.” Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself. You can say many things but at the end of the day it’s the action that matters. None of the actions you partook in and shared with us was activity that would be considered that of a “good husband.” Let’s be honest, you are not husband material and that’s okay!
We need more foreign story. Nuff a we can relate and this can also Mek people weh a watch have hope, say better days are coming… Every season has its passing!
Lmao every Jamaican is knowing this slowly and surely I been wanting them to feel this since 09 when you in America everyday somebody a Jamaica call they want this and that like they don’t think you have to put work in you have to work harder here to Make it in America than any where I’m the world it’s easy to make it in Jamaican a lot of people just lazy and just want hand to hand smh
How you going to get married and go live with your ex? And get surprised when she files for divorce !? This is why I stay away from men without papers bc the love will not be pure when they NEED u for stay. And she ah di crosses?!?
*Toxic af! Lol. You cheat, she cheat. Everyone happy at the end don’t it? Dwl. I’m just glad you’re able to look back and laugh now. Cheers 🥂 to moving forward!*
You don't need nobody to make it...your just not being schooled by the right people to guide you in the right direction...and that's real talk..know the difference between a girl and woman...a woman gonna ride with you and help you build...a girl will take from you help you fail and leave you and go on to the next man..
She did to him what he was doing to her all the time. So. It doesn't mattering it's a woman or girl. So, let me get it right, a woman would or should have stayed with him, even if he was cheating?
@@JW-ux4ey first of all its my comment. Therfore its my opinion. That goes both ways. There is a difference between a man and boy. Secondly wtf are you talking about smfh. Lastly wtf is mattering? Please have a seat and read a dictionary. Your grammar is all the way in the gutter sis smh
@@femfatalNj why are you so angry? Mi write how mi want. Mi nuh need dictionary because when mi write professional I'd put you to shame. I was making my point on a public platform. Why yuh mad? Smrch.... Clearly mi phone did some type of typo. Nuh think because you saw that means you're intelligent to condemn my writing. It doesnt make you any better than me- with your arrogance. You're grammar was just as bad as mine on your first comment. Lmfao
@@JW-ux4ey let me respond 🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂..you could never put me to shame. Mad im just simply stating what I feel. It's a problem to you? Don't comment on my post plan and simple.
You sound so entitled, you cheated on her from the jump and continued to cheat. Remarried and now going through a next divorce 🤦🏾♀️ Damm and you call that love? Plus don’t migrate without a job or savings, no one is responsible for you!
Thnx for the honesty (thought I was crazy) cauz when I tell ppl it’s not easy without proper planning and first they say I’m badmind now they’re stuck and depending on me for help
What did I just listen to? Lol so you will stay married and the both of y’all just cheat on each other 🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂😂 so until death do us part is the part you remember no sah... mi get a good laugh this morning
Bro the worst one, is the one them wey come from Jamaica and become citizen... they are like the cross breed werewolf them...them wicked no BUMBOCLAAT you understand me. Me end up spending three nights in lock up because of that crosses Gal that I was married to after me decide and said enough is enough because her every day line is that "yuh love is too good to be true, yuh too good, me no trust yuh". Some of these gal ya wicked you understand. Me and this gal come from same countries same parish (Clarendon) never know her before, meet her here. When me decide mi mind say you know what enough is enough tired of people a tell me about don't turn on mi TV, don't use mi stove, don't open the fridge, when them can't get them own ways. Mi get mad when mi hear all of them thing ya...and remember in Jamaica as a chef with fridge, stove and TV inna cookshop and house. Long story short I had to rent an apartment and this girl track me down when she see mi no come back like before when she talk her trash and mi chill a mi cousin and then go back. She find where me live and end up take photo of me and one of my coworker going inna mi apartment and call the police and tell them say mi break in her house choke her, punch her inna her face and got me arrested... but God never asleep the same photo she take, she sent to a friend and that friend sent it to me...on the top of the photo is her face the time that the photo was taken and that is the same time she tell the police them that me was at her house doing all of this to her and I live 30 minutes away from where she live. The first Court date after spending 3 days in lock up the prosecutor said "I'm not even going to bring this in front of the judge, because it's impossible for this man to live so far from you and be doing all of this to you when the photo you took show the same time you were at his apartment taking photos of him, it just not add up. Mr Harris you are free to go". them ya gal ya a wicked
Lmao as a dude that went through a divorce.... Bruh it's you on this one also. I'm fucking dead. My girl tried to get me deported also and I didn't cheat. I refused from becoming a statistic. She had control and when I started working and could do stuff for myself it became a problem. Something as simple as me wanting to buy a car to go to soccer became a problem. In the end I left the house all her assets that she acquired. After that she tried to get me deported when I spoke to a lawyer the lawyer said I should go after her assets and I declined.
Jah know glad seh you a move up inna life tho Jaii, cause like yuh seh america really nuh easy, cause when mi first come yah shit was HARD but the more yuh up yah and harder yuh work the better it get
get rid of the bad energy.. And honestly I see Some of you on social media are truly strong. You go through a lot of bad things and nobody knows. You pick yourself up every single day and push on. You come online, laugh, crack jokes and engage. Everyone assumes your life is in order. But deep down you're going through boundless tribulations.
See my husband dont know what I have done to provide him a firm foundation for him to come to California. I got his teeth fix, got him in school and sign to get him a car. I hope he realizes and do good. Big up yahself Bradda everything gonna be alright. Thanks for sharing.
@@tushonagriffiths3155 So why aren't you with someone that can take care of themselves ? I commend your courage in catering to a Man in a way a Man should cater to himself. Do you understand?
You are living in the people dem house as an adult and a tek yuh money buy shoes but nuh wan buy your own food. It's not the egg dem a pree yuh fah, a di principle.
Love the realistic representation in this video 👏🏽 definitely nothing “easy” about the journey especially if you’re not coming up to pre established ground work 💯
This the norm....trus me...dem seh if u wann knw u fren, pretend like u ded.....BUTttttttt if u wann knw u family, com a farin an stay wid dem....trouble, after 2 weeks....dat a real talk. Mi experience dis fully and me knw nuff, nuff, nuff, nuffff people weh forward tru the same thing..
Good girls get corrupt like computer with a virus? You a the virus bro 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Have to take serious thing make joke especially since I been through something similar.
To been through it dawg, mi try fi tell di man dem and dem think a joke. But a nuff yard man come an switch to, caan trust dem or rely pon dem neither.
Blessings 🙌 🙌 So True America 🇺🇸 is definitely not a bed or Roses. Family 👪 Spouses & their family and friends can also be the worst of the worst. Prepare Yourself, Yes Mental health is a very serious issue. Thanks for sharing your experience you just might help another 🙏 person who gave up hope. God bless hun 🙏 hold the faith 🙏 💯💯💯🇺🇸🇬🇾🇯🇲🤑🤑
Yah husband material?!! Lol mi nuh think yu ability fi get married multiple times mek yu husband material. Also get a Capital One start up credit card to help you with building your credit, if that’s something you still want to do.
Counterfeit husband material you mean 😂 and listen, if you need to start with a 98 Honda, start with it!!!!!! Hype and bruk nuh work hand in hand. It’s ok to start small and unnoticeable.
He is mean. It was all love love until she wisen up and start notice things ain’t good. He played her . I’m Sure he never told her while he was with her he NEVER REALLY LOVE HER . I fee so bad for her . She not corrupt she HURT. God knows why he make things happen to you the way it did . Your no innocent at all.
A di same thing mi seh enuh. I never know struggles until mi reach farin. Yuh know how much time mi just waah seh fuck it and guh back a yaad but having kids here yuh cyaa just lef suh
Talk for yourself. Every ex wife is not crosses. Talk about the crosses you got mixed up with. I hope none of the females in your family ah nuh crosses. Bout every. Every ex husband a dutty crosses if a so then.
True but that's why he made the disclaimer that he didn't marry anyone solely for green card. He didn't really say anything for them to take away his green card for. My only worry is that he only has it for 1 year which usually mean he only got the 2year one which he would have to then renew. If his wife is divorcing him, that's no a good look and they might not give him the 10 year. 🤷♂️
@@pattelwitter3736 it’s still messy because like you mentioned it seems as though he got a conditional GC which means he will have to go back to immigration to remove the conditions which means that he will have to show that the marriage was bona fide and done in good faith now with a video like this, any card can play because he’s admitting to cheating, that he didn’t love her among other things plus u nuh know what my girl can do with this video because now she is learning things she didn’t even know before. Him a burn him bridge before him cross it. Him young still. Have a lot to learn.
That's how they are bro. They act all innocent as if they didn't do a thing and you are the only one messing around and dem quick fi switch up and mash up dem whole family in the blink of an eye. #smh 🤦♂️😃
It’s a mind set fam. You have to live it, experience what the reality is and learn to adopt. Welcome to New York and always remember to respect Brooklyn regardless of what the situation is✍🏽
yo J a realest talk this bro bro! a swear!!! bro mi deh yah fi 1yr bro and a yuh own blood fight yuh the most... yuh afi stay focus yuh frig if yuh truly wah mek it.... gwan bad it up mi general, gratz pan the new BM yute and hold it like a true G!
It’s the men in the comments like “yes bro yuh give bun but she wrong fi do it back “ if you admit they were good girls and all them changed sir that’s some reflection you need to do within yourself. Is she wrong as well yes however you were the virus 🦠
Man a fuckery but she didn’t want u and u didn’t want her… y’all used each other out of convenience and that’s obvious. I hope u are healing in great stages. I also see u doing great things, focus on you!! Blessings
Watching this from a point of view of being in America and need somewhere to stay and having to be back and forth and staying with people you don’t want to trust me I understand anyways. Far ya come from the growth real
Telling all this girl business😭🤣 and she painting you as a bad person ? When you moved to live with ex while married and then blame next man fi you divorce ….plain Narcissistic behavior….bredda you did married and a move single !! So stop talk bout she gets corrupt she stand up fi har self !!
ah meds you seh every girl weh ub come cross a good girl inna the starting then somewhere down the line them get corrupt you sure anuh you a the promblem bro lol
Yow real talk my yute, bad ppl have to wole it out, male & female have to be strong 💪 😤 👏 all the way in foreign land. Hahahahha Jah Jah Gaaaad good story.
The gal corrupt but yet u were cheating? I don’t wrong har fi divorce u ah bbc 😆 unu mon to ungrateful & wicked... you said every girl you deal with is sweet at first then they become corrupt... i think your are the issue.. plz do some self evaluation
You prolly right
@@FraisFamily oh nah 🤣😂
@@FraisFamily I was thinking the same thing yow. No woman.likws to be cheated on. Women have a sixth sense about those things, even when you think they don't know. Although some women will take the revenge to another level.
Hope you're cleaning up your act. Lol
You two were both wrong 🙃 but y dogged her for cheating but you’re proudly speaking about you cheating. That’s weird….Mhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you’re giving narcissist.
He is . Full of him self bad 🥴
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Fact!
Babyyyy, he IS the virus! Lol
Observe the signs in all his videos. His consistent toxicity leads me to think he is a narcissist fr
Husband material and 2 divorce🤣🤣🤣. Come to you as good girl then yuh turn them inna crosses. You are very toxic and selfish
Accountability is almost every jamaican man kryptonite. Hold some responsibility bredda!
Fuckry yh chat
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@@rajivsomers2415 💀😭😭😭
Shit u a chat mi g
@@horacebinns8069 I mean counter arguments are welcomed and “shit yah chat mi g” is not a counter argument, I can describe accountability to you or maybe you already know, so I’d ask for a counter argument that point me in the direction of any part of Jamaican society that is best known for accountability from the politicians all the way down, I will gladly admit I’m wrong if you point me in the right direction. Constructive criticism is not an attack but a opportunity to be better but mi know the “diss” phenomenon lock down people mindset so maybe a diss mi a diss the people and the country.
You cheated on her and try to justify it cause you stayed with her. That’s more disrespectful than leaving. She had the decency to dip on you and keep it pushin.
Then he acts as if he doesnt know why she changed up on him. Smh...
@@JW-ux4ey who cares fi dem business dat
She send yuh fi defend har yow??🤣🤣
One word ewwwwwwwwwwe, man like you mek you mek me thank God everyday for my fiancé.
So basically he's no different from the ex wife 🤷♀️🤷♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Basically
Dwl... Two a dem corrupt
Your ex wife know say yuh never love her as you said you could have gotten to love her. Tell the story properly...when did she start cheat? And as you said you start cheat with your high school sweetheart and other women...smh
People need fi share dem "Green card" story because Jah Jah it nuh easy when yuh run off and don't have a support system. NO SSN and haffi work under table ppl tek disadvantage of you and once dem know yuh have no papers dem love chat bout imma call ICE....yow mi wah share my story tuh cause it was a long road....but when you look at where you're coming from haffi smile and give thanks..can fly any weh now can work all 5 different jobs....process long and ruff with all the struggles I had I can smile now
Yes girl I can write a book
Sir, sir , sir! You call the girl toxic but you were married living with your ex and cheating with othe girls. It because she wanted to divorce and move on she’s the corrupt one 😒 if they start good and turn bad then what’s the common denominator
These men love cheat..and flip the story..Cant sorry for them
@@awaken811 right . It’s the maturity for me
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Exactly
men and women are different
What the hell did I just watch. I’m still trying to see if this was a joke or what.
Man said he didn’t get marry solely for green card but yet he didn’t love his wife.
Then he was cheating on her out the gate but got mad when he found out she was cheating too. What?
And i could’ve sworn the loved together at some point. Didn’t hey have blogs on here and stuff.
This gotta be a joke.
Mi deh here a rub mi head. Mi confuse! . Issa mad man.
This same video can get him deportation. He is sick well want to be famous.
I’m saying😂😂😂😂
And calling her the b word. Love these days makes me smh.
Oh no honey just typical Jamaican man behavior. Can’t stand dem
5 min in and I smh at this guy. So you lived with the ppl dem and eat a them yard and a work but caan buy egg or breakfast grocery put ina the house 😒😒😒😒. Well wa person would be ok with a man working but don’t buy grocery wey him love eat ?
Why do y'all come to America think by the snap of a finger you'll be rich?🤔🤔Thats not how things work here in America. You gotta work your ass off, save your money and build. Aint no partying and linking up its straight hustling!! once you have the right mentality you'll make it in America.
Sir you were the virus! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mi seh
I was saying the same shit...him a talk bout Virus...him ah the Virus weh she catch! Smh
Exactly
These type of things goes on alot, the foundation is highly important and it's not easy starting from scratch.Alot people been here fi donkeys years with no foundation,dem life still shacky.Its not a place to waste time because you can end up waisting your life especially in a place like new York.You have to stay pon you meds at all times so you don't loose yourself.The opportunities exist to come up and do well but you must stay focus and avoid the bs at all cost.Salute fam fi telling it like it's truly is, Respect
I live in UK am half Jamaican. I here what ur saying fully, heard and see so much horror stories what ppl go through/ deal with being in a different country with no support system 😕 but .......accountability!!! Jamaican men don't ever want to accept 😤 the vibe u may not have noticed you was giving her made her feel something isn't right. 2 divorce my bro u must now look in yourself honestly with a fine tooth comb !!!! Or you just have a bad judge of character 🤷 🤔 .
Breda why as man now we mek the internet tun unu in female. Breda as a man a only u real family an friend and God if knw this. If yu nah be disrespectful why yu do this. Mi not even listen this. Stop put unu life pon the internet as a real man leave the chatting to the gyal dem.
Jai it’s okay to NOT be husband material, not everyone is “husband or wife material.” Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself. You can say many things but at the end of the day it’s the action that matters. None of the actions you partook in and shared with us was activity that would be considered that of a “good husband.” Let’s be honest, you are not husband material and that’s okay!
“Me cheat but you break us up”😭😭
🤣🤣🤣 bbc
Irony 😂
This comment really send me! #noaccountability
We need more foreign story. Nuff a we can relate and this can also Mek people weh a watch have hope, say better days are coming… Every season has its passing!
this is good stuff bro, let those people know that America is no bed of roses, keep it coming
Lmao every Jamaican is knowing this slowly and surely I been wanting them to feel this since 09 when you in America everyday somebody a Jamaica call they want this and that like they don’t think you have to put work in you have to work harder here to Make it in America than any where I’m the world it’s easy to make it in Jamaican a lot of people just lazy and just want hand to hand smh
If toxic was a person! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man is TOXIC
Toxic yf
Exactly and he thinks that it is cute.
@Truth Speaks hold up just because the man is toxic don’t make him a wasteman….. pray for the brother healing and success
Facts.
Yall throw that word around so much...pretty much 60 -70% of Jamaican men fall into what you call toxic then.
How you going to get married and go live with your ex? And get surprised when she files for divorce !? This is why I stay away from men without papers bc the love will not be pure when they NEED u for stay. And she ah di crosses?!?
Nigga I was homeless, u missed that part? “Stay away from men without papers” yuh married? A man put a ring pon yuh finga? Gwaan ya grace
@@FraisFamily No I’m not married because I’m not doing any charity work
Nuh body nuh waa yuh 😛
I agree. He refuses to live with her but wanted to stay married for his convenience (green card). Kmft!!
One thing about me is I’m husband material. I’ve been married twice. I’m going through my next divorce. I nearly dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ridiculous
The boss a try come tru.....lol 😆 🤣
He’s actually serious when he makes this statement too
Yea like wtf
Big up bro some ppl think say farrin a bed a rose ! Mi go through it to bro!
Facts bro
It isnt its just that more opportunities are over there, living conditions tho...will be questionable.
*Toxic af! Lol. You cheat, she cheat. Everyone happy at the end don’t it? Dwl. I’m just glad you’re able to look back and laugh now. Cheers 🥂 to moving forward!*
You don't need nobody to make it...your just not being schooled by the right people to guide you in the right direction...and that's real talk..know the difference between a girl and woman...a woman gonna ride with you and help you build...a girl will take from you help you fail and leave you and go on to the next man..
Honestly I love ur statement....but it hard for me to trust a girl ever again
She did to him what he was doing to her all the time. So. It doesn't mattering it's a woman or girl. So, let me get it right, a woman would or should have stayed with him, even if he was cheating?
@@JW-ux4ey first of all its my comment. Therfore its my opinion. That goes both ways. There is a difference between a man and boy. Secondly wtf are you talking about smfh. Lastly wtf is mattering? Please have a seat and read a dictionary. Your grammar is all the way in the gutter sis smh
@@femfatalNj why are you so angry? Mi write how mi want. Mi nuh need dictionary because when mi write professional I'd put you to shame. I was making my point on a public platform. Why yuh mad? Smrch....
Clearly mi phone did some type of typo. Nuh think because you saw that means you're intelligent to condemn my writing. It doesnt make you any better than me- with your arrogance. You're grammar was just as bad as mine on your first comment. Lmfao
@@JW-ux4ey let me respond 🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂..you could never put me to shame. Mad im just simply stating what I feel. It's a problem to you? Don't comment on my post plan and simple.
You sound so entitled, you cheated on her from the jump and continued to cheat. Remarried and now going through a next divorce 🤦🏾♀️ Damm and you call that love?
Plus don’t migrate without a job or savings, no one is responsible for you!
Thnx for the honesty (thought I was crazy) cauz when I tell ppl it’s not easy without proper planning and first they say I’m badmind now they’re stuck and depending on me for help
What did I just listen to? Lol so you will stay married and the both of y’all just cheat on each other 🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂😂 so until death do us part is the part you remember no sah... mi get a good laugh this morning
Bro the worst one, is the one them wey come from Jamaica and become citizen... they are like the cross breed werewolf them...them wicked no BUMBOCLAAT you understand me. Me end up spending three nights in lock up because of that crosses Gal that I was married to after me decide and said enough is enough because her every day line is that "yuh love is too good to be true, yuh too good, me no trust yuh". Some of these gal ya wicked you understand. Me and this gal come from same countries same parish (Clarendon) never know her before, meet her here. When me decide mi mind say you know what enough is enough tired of people a tell me about don't turn on mi TV, don't use mi stove, don't open the fridge, when them can't get them own ways. Mi get mad when mi hear all of them thing ya...and remember in Jamaica as a chef with fridge, stove and TV inna cookshop and house. Long story short I had to rent an apartment and this girl track me down when she see mi no come back like before when she talk her trash and mi chill a mi cousin and then go back. She find where me live and end up take photo of me and one of my coworker going inna mi apartment and call the police and tell them say mi break in her house choke her, punch her inna her face and got me arrested... but God never asleep the same photo she take, she sent to a friend and that friend sent it to me...on the top of the photo is her face the time that the photo was taken and that is the same time she tell the police them that me was at her house doing all of this to her and I live 30 minutes away from where she live. The first Court date after spending 3 days in lock up the prosecutor said "I'm not even going to bring this in front of the judge, because it's impossible for this man to live so far from you and be doing all of this to you when the photo you took show the same time you were at his apartment taking photos of him, it just not add up. Mr Harris you are free to go". them ya gal ya a wicked
Lmao as a dude that went through a divorce.... Bruh it's you on this one also. I'm fucking dead. My girl tried to get me deported also and I didn't cheat. I refused from becoming a statistic. She had control and when I started working and could do stuff for myself it became a problem. Something as simple as me wanting to buy a car to go to soccer became a problem. In the end I left the house all her assets that she acquired. After that she tried to get me deported when I spoke to a lawyer the lawyer said I should go after her assets and I declined.
Jah know glad seh you a move up inna life tho Jaii, cause like yuh seh america really nuh easy, cause when mi first come yah shit was HARD but the more yuh up yah and harder yuh work the better it get
That’s is it fam
get rid of the bad energy..
And honestly I see Some of you on social media are truly strong. You go through a lot of bad things and nobody knows. You pick yourself up every single day and push on. You come online, laugh, crack jokes and engage. Everyone assumes your life is in order. But deep down you're going through boundless tribulations.
See my husband dont know what I have done to provide him a firm foundation for him to come to California. I got his teeth fix, got him in school and sign to get him a car. I hope he realizes and do good. Big up yahself Bradda everything gonna be alright. Thanks for sharing.
He wont. Lol y'all woman need fi stop tek care of man and tek care of yourself!!!!
@@rurrox7597 I take damn good care of myself or I never would have been able to help him. I would never help someone if I wasn't right first.
@@rurrox7597 bitter betty leave the woman alone woman nuh nyam out and con man all the time when that happen unuh nuh nothing fi sey though
@@tushonagriffiths3155 So why aren't you with someone that can take care of themselves ? I commend your courage in catering to a Man in a way a Man should cater to himself. Do you understand?
@@keenahizuagie3306 if a man said this y’all would be praising him lol y’all funny 😂😂😂😂
The edits on point 🔥… man this situation hits home if you know you know
Mi nah lie bro, a the same struggle me guh through and still guh through. Your speaking raw facts, nuff man nah guh know that
22 minutes of pure toxicity, Loved every minute of it.
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I love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Mercy!!!!!!😭😭😭🤣🤣👀
As a woman who sponsored a Jamaican man I would never do it again, you’re in for heartache and disrespects. Btw still unhappily married after 10 years
You are living in the people dem house as an adult and a tek yuh money buy shoes but nuh wan buy your own food. It's not the egg dem a pree yuh fah, a di principle.
Accurate af!!...this place is no bed of rose when they have the handle and you have the blade. Always keep pushing though 💯
@jaiifrais ah real talk dis. Man need fi know weh dem ah come in a when dem come ah foreign!!! No joke family turn enemy in the blink of an eye.
Family a fuckry Inna foreign
This is sooooo toxic but I wish you all the best and keep working hard
Love the realistic representation in this video 👏🏽 definitely nothing “easy” about the journey especially if you’re not coming up to pre established ground work 💯
Facts foreign no easy when u don't have a foundation. Hope everything work out for you and others
It's crazy how your own blood family can turn their backs on you in America smh who feels it knows it.
This the norm....trus me...dem seh if u wann knw u fren, pretend like u ded.....BUTttttttt if u wann knw u family, com a farin an stay wid dem....trouble, after 2 weeks....dat a real talk. Mi experience dis fully and me knw nuff, nuff, nuff, nuffff people weh forward tru the same thing..
Facts. Mine did the same knowing I had nowhere else to go, nobody to turn to for help. Working hard is what keeps me going.
Can i tell u 😢😢😢worst experience
Farrin mek me kno bout real depression.
No joke
Bbc fi real!!!!
Bills & tax a go kill mi ina this rassclaat place ya 😔
Sometimes it's good to talk and release the emotions and them things deh it make you feel way better.
JaiiFrais: Mi neva solely got married fi a greencard.
Also JaiiFrais: Mi nah seh mi did love har. 😒 yeah iight.
Which means if green card wasn't in play, he would date her but wouldn't marry her so quickly
That part...smh. and he really considers himself a catch
A real tlk bredda, to anyone man weh wa come ya... just leave women fi last... set a foundation first and everything come after
Good girls get corrupt like computer with a virus? You a the virus bro 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Have to take serious thing make joke especially since I been through something similar.
This man is TTOOOOXXXIIICCCC 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m weak
"Every X girlfriend or x wife a crosses" mi nuh like yuh eno🤣🤣🤣
I don’t agree with general statement that all women or men are wicked
To been through it dawg, mi try fi tell di man dem and dem think a joke. But a nuff yard man come an switch to, caan trust dem or rely pon dem neither.
Blessings 🙌 🙌
So True America 🇺🇸 is definitely not a bed or Roses.
Family 👪 Spouses & their family and friends can also be the worst of the worst.
Prepare Yourself, Yes Mental health is a very serious issue.
Thanks for sharing your experience you just might help another 🙏 person who gave up hope.
God bless hun 🙏 hold the faith 🙏 💯💯💯🇺🇸🇬🇾🇯🇲🤑🤑
dawg we need more of this #storytime keep it coming
You sound VERY hurt the woman left you. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stop cheating and learn to love one woman and build with her entirely.
Yah husband material?!! Lol mi nuh think yu ability fi get married multiple times mek yu husband material.
Also get a Capital One start up credit card to help you with building your credit, if that’s something you still want to do.
More green card & foreign story bro now!!!!😭😭
I think because u were cheating too tht turned her off. Woman can know even when u think dem nuh know
How is he 'married material 'and going through a second divorce and boasts about cheating?
Counterfeit husband material you mean 😂 and listen, if you need to start with a 98 Honda, start with it!!!!!! Hype and bruk nuh work hand in hand. It’s ok to start small and unnoticeable.
He is mean. It was all love love until she wisen up and start notice things ain’t good. He played her . I’m
Sure he never told her while he was with her he NEVER REALLY LOVE HER . I fee so bad for her . She not corrupt she HURT. God knows why he make things happen to you the way it did . Your no innocent at all.
Ntn Bout America No Easy, Trust Me, The Worst I've Ever Been Through In Life Happened While Living Here. Anyways, All The Best To Yuh Mi G
A di same thing mi seh enuh. I never know struggles until mi reach farin. Yuh know how much time mi just waah seh fuck it and guh back a yaad but having kids here yuh cyaa just lef suh
Talk for yourself. Every ex wife is not crosses. Talk about the crosses you got mixed up with. I hope none of the females in your family ah nuh crosses. Bout every. Every ex husband a dutty crosses if a so then.
Sound like yu a d virus 😂😂😂😂. Every computer yu plug inna get corrupted no matter how good they were before.
appreciate this bro, i can relate
Loved this. You’re real entertaining. Keep them story time coming 🙏🏽
I’ve never seen a more toxic person and I thought I knew Mr Toxic
Beat and teach Breda…keep these lessons flowing cuz is educational to mi Jamaican peeps dem…#eyeopener
Bro ice can do u a investigation and use this vid fi proof of unreal marriage,just a likkle advice me dan
True but that's why he made the disclaimer that he didn't marry anyone solely for green card. He didn't really say anything for them to take away his green card for. My only worry is that he only has it for 1 year which usually mean he only got the 2year one which he would have to then renew. If his wife is divorcing him, that's no a good look and they might not give him the 10 year. 🤷♂️
@@pattelwitter3736 it’s still messy because like you mentioned it seems as though he got a conditional GC which means he will have to go back to immigration to remove the conditions which means that he will have to show that the marriage was bona fide and done in good faith now with a video like this, any card can play because he’s admitting to cheating, that he didn’t love her among other things plus u nuh know what my girl can do with this video because now she is learning things she didn’t even know before. Him a burn him bridge before him cross it. Him young still. Have a lot to learn.
@@RR-yi8qg yeah that's true
Y'all not listening, go check 8:37 and 9:10. If they see this when he goes for the 10 year, he might be in for an experience.
@@TheLatsiomichael I think we on the same page lol
That's how they are bro. They act all innocent as if they didn't do a thing and you are the only one messing around and dem quick fi switch up and mash up dem whole family in the blink of an eye. #smh 🤦♂️😃
Always rate u from a taller time bro……..jus keep it real….looking out for more vlogs…..support deh yah💪👑
The man say Brooklyn ghetto 🤣
Big facts
It’s a mind set fam. You have to live it, experience what the reality is and learn to adopt. Welcome to New York and always remember to respect Brooklyn regardless of what the situation is✍🏽
yo J a realest talk this bro bro! a swear!!! bro mi deh yah fi 1yr bro and a yuh own blood fight yuh the most... yuh afi stay focus yuh frig if yuh truly wah mek it.... gwan bad it up mi general, gratz pan the new BM yute and hold it like a true G!
Left deh gal deh badman💯🤣🤧 Neva Lie💯 America 🇺🇸 nuh easy yerr best believe 💯
It’s the men in the comments like “yes bro yuh give bun but she wrong fi do it back “ if you admit they were good girls and all them changed sir that’s some reflection you need to do within yourself. Is she wrong as well yes however you were the virus 🦠
I was the vaccine
dawg mi phone literally jump out a mi hand when u say next divorce a weh bomboclatt a gwan❗❗❗🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️🤘🏾☠️
Man a fuckery but she didn’t want u and u didn’t want her… y’all used each other out of convenience and that’s obvious. I hope u are healing in great stages. I also see u doing great things, focus on you!! Blessings
Watching this from a point of view of being in America and need somewhere to stay and having to be back and forth and staying with people you don’t want to trust me I understand anyways. Far ya come from the growth real
Telling all this girl business😭🤣 and she painting you as a bad person ? When you moved to live with ex while married and then blame next man fi you divorce ….plain Narcissistic behavior….bredda you did married and a move single !! So stop talk bout she gets corrupt she stand up fi har self !!
Legit the most toxic man ever, he is so against taking accountability! I sincerely pity the women who dated him.
FOUNDATION is the most important fi real
ah meds you seh every girl weh ub come cross a good girl inna the starting then somewhere down the line them get corrupt you sure anuh you a the promblem bro lol
some men will bring out the worst out a yuh
This bredda cyah serious 😂
Bless up nephew. Stay strong and continue to aim higher
Thank you Unc
Good storytelling. Boy mi na lie foreign nuh easy at all. And it's harder to set a foundation by urself mi a tell u.
Real medz mon it nuh easy without a support system plus ya fi depend pon a gal fi sort yuh out 🙌🏾
Jah jah it ruff out there respect your strength... keep strong yute...
I started with a 1991 Honda now I have a 2020 suv
Yow real talk my yute, bad ppl have to wole it out, male & female have to be strong 💪 😤 👏 all the way in foreign land. Hahahahha Jah Jah Gaaaad good story.
Woman fi fraid ah man like dis 😂
Hold the faith my G, yuh ago make it, trust me.
Dwg this is like a comedy and a reality show in one😂 man strike di right balance💪🏾 strongest soldier get the hardest fight🦍
Give thanks nuh kids never forward Eeennnn mi family
Bro a facts u a talk, man can relate to wah u a say in a real life no jokes but ntng beats time cah right now e man dem deh yah a elevate ha....
Talk to dem nuh mi g 👏 man tell no lie #IFYOUKNOWYOUKNOW
That’s why kids nuh fi tek up big ppl business,y’all take marriage for a joke