Lethal Tough Guy Competition | Chad Read & Kyle Carruth Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Chad Read and Kyle Carruth?
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People named Chad and Kyle seem to be involved in a lot of trouble.
I feel that way about people who drive Ford F100 pickup trucks :-)
It's a shame the woman wasn't named Stacey instead
Chad is stuck in his high-school days while Kyle was grabbing his shotgun next to his Mountain Dew mini-fridge
@@akitalady Pickup in general.
Astute observation! So true. Bahahahahhaha!
@@akitalady You mean people with manual jobs?
Imagine growing up knowing your homewrecker of a mom got your father killed by the husband she stole from another woman.
How are u gonna blame this on the woman??? SMH Kyle made his own choices at others’ expense
definitely the woman’s fault, you can’t cause that kind of conflict involving a man’s child and then wash your hands of it.
Her son will definitely hate Kyle later on in life if not already! Maybe even his Mom! I would!!!!
@@hudamashaan5238 noone is claiming the woman has more blame, but she is responsible too, you are naive if you think she did not manipulate the whole scenario, you probably haven't read about the case.
Who actually thinks this chick is going to stand behind 'Kyle' after all this goes down? Off to the bigger and better.
Bringing a gun into the argument was completely unwarranted.
Bringing a gun into the argument was 100% Texas. What else would you expect from these moronic yee-haw gun lovers?
She allowed that man to kill her son’s father.
This wasn’t about fear. This was about bullying and power and dominance. Christina was the catalyst. Disgusting.
She planned it. That’s a plan. That’s a secret hope that she nursed and anticipated. Gross.
@@thelivingmarkable feels to me like dude was scared. Went and got a gun thinking that other dude would run away at the sight of it (because that is what HE would do if he saw a gun). When that didn't work he thought firing a round off would scare him away. When that didn't work he panicked. At that point he KNEW dude really would take his gun away from him and he panicked.
It's note worthy to mention that anyone who knows how to use a firearm will not let the target get within arms reach of the weapon. That's how you get your weapon taken away from you. That's also why dude immediately closed the distance between him and the gunman. So he WAS close enough to take it away. If guy had been planning to shoot dude he wouldn't have put his own life so close to being taken in the process
Maybe she got in Kyle's head and encouraged him to act like this.
@@epstein_isnt_dead7726 right, someone who knows guns would’ve shot from the window if in fear. Also positioning defensively for the woman or child. None of that, only aggression. Look, everyone watching this knows it wasn’t self defense. He wasn’t defending the house or the kid. Murder.
I don't really think she meant for that to be the result, but I certainly think she was being coy about the denial of her being at fault in the breakdown of the upholding of custody according to their family court situation, and per her attorney's advice and years of taking his crap - wasn't going to try and help the situation with an apology or anything.
TBH though 100% Robin, I just think that Mr Read should have never lost his cool like that. It's never worth it. Being upset over your kid's custody that wasn't exactly on time how you wanted it is the hallmark of a crappy parent and spouse. I did like your comment though, I do look at her with a bit of 'shame on you'.
“This book is about a counselor/serial killer… it’s a work of fiction” Dr. Grande do you want to tell us anything?? 😂
LOL ^_^
I was thinking something similar (going to pick it up next payday, though ^_^)
He doesn't murder people, he only speculates on what could be happening to them while they are tied up in his trunk
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂The speculations in this thread 😀 You guys are killin' me !!! 😝 😂 😃
@@MrChupacabra555 this isn’t funny man. Jokes about murder or not funny.
Unless they’re well executed.
I think he said "counselor, serial killer, and detective," no?
Damnit, all Christina had to do was make sure her son was ready at the pick up time. Why do parents play these stupid games? The only ones they're hurting are their children.
Right... and seeing how Chad is reacting this probably isn't the first time. He looks fed up.
If it was the first time this happened... he probably would have been more calm and understanding.
WOMEN
Now the dad's dead, the kids going to be traumatized for life, Captain Save a hoe is in deep sh!t. She's going to be the only one that gets away scot-free from all this.
@@FrenchSaladMac sexist much?
@@fiatfixie4344 captain save a hoe is definitely a desperate stupid dude. Never shack up with women + kids.
I’ve never been more frightened than when going through custody disputes. It’s so heated, everyone involved is over-emotional, and everyone believes they are 100% right - all to the detriment of the children involved. Thankfully my former husband and I have gotten past it and he, his wife, my partner, and myself get along great now and our daughter is free to go between our homes as she chooses and we even celebrate holidays together. I’d give anything to take back the “bad times,” because the damage done is slow to be undone. That said, we are all reasonable people that could absolutely have been in similar circumstances should a firearm ever have entered the picture and that terrifies me.
Nice to hear this worked out ok for you. I myself saw a custody dispute up close and personal with my own sibling. I looked at one of the legal papers for the reason for the divorce and couldn't believe what I read typed in there. On the front, the ex was referred to as Satan.
I’m so happy for y’all that you could get past it. I can’t imagine how hard it is. I watched this play out as one of the children in the tug of war and my mother chose never to mature. I know a lot more now about the many untreated mental health problems she has but wow, at the time I was wondering why in the hell anyone ever gets married or has kids and how I could avoid it.
You should’ve never broken up the home of your child. Do you think children throughout history went back and forth between their Step-parents homes?
The mom should be held accountable somehow. She was the one that created that while situation by not abiding to the court.
Would it change your mind if the guy was a violent turd that has beat them?
What should she be charged for having a dumb ass ex husband who like to push people around while they have a gun, it’s kinda like he was asking to get shot...
And just think if he would have just left when the gun came out he would still be alive and he could have used his video of Kyle pulling out the gun and won custody of his kids but instead he threatened to take the homeowners gun and shoot him with it then tried unsuccessfully.
“How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability”. I know it’s from a movie but it’s often very true
Bullshit. That has nothing to do with 2 men's decision to assault one another and the results of that. Chad should have been an actual adult and been calm about it - and maybe he would have gotten some results he liked.
@@gfx2943 I always had a hunch that Chad wasn't calm about the situation because this was far from the first time she had violated the terms of custody.
I find it extremely sad that this was all over his son, and yet no one took their son into consideration when acting like spiteful aggressive assholes. Poor kid.
True, children have a way of blaming themselves even when it isn't their fault.
I find it extremely sad and unnecessary to bring a gun into the matter. Verbally attack, use legal mechanisms, be an asshole all you want, but leave physical violence out of it. But that would make you look like a weak, liberal, communist, pussy man in America so it's better to blow up chests and shoot guns.
This was all over EGOS. Unfortunately children the world over have to suffer the outcome of that, whether death occurs or not.
"Sorry kid, but my new boyfriend just killed your real dad, you will not see him ever again now. Say hi to your new dad"
They are doomed to breakup now.
Well done for that man who is ready to kill for such trivial dispute, he deserves no womens or child care.
He did not protected the women nor himself, he just protected his ego.
What’s the opposite of a Napoleon complex… the tall guy had that complex … he thought going over there and blowing his chest up like a gorilla was going to scare the little guy … and it did scare him so much that he got a gun ..
Tall guy just acted like a gorilla in his mind and forgot how guns work .
The part about his book is great “this is a book. I wrote it. it’s sold where books are sold have a nice day” Dr. G you’re quite the gangster
dr g popped off
Very direct !!!
@Over It good job you found people enjoying themselves in the comments and ruined it!
Hahahahaha
This is a book
-he said matter-of-factly
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Love it!!!!!
never dare someone to fire a gun at you whether or not you are in the right. In this case the victim won the argument but he's also dead
If the mother Christina knew the father Chad had custody of the son and that he wouldn't be going to school that, she should have called and told him.
I'm 32 and my parents still use me as a pawn, 22 years after their separation. It's so tiring, and they both push me away with their behaviour.
Divorce and domestic issues can be ugly. My father had rage 🤬 anger problems. Hes 77 now. Still a a%$hole.
U look like 15 on that pfp lol
I'm sorry 😞 hopefully you'll find a "soul" mom or dad. ❤️
😔
You are 32. It's time to leave your parents behind for a while and solve all psychological issues caused by them before you try reunited with them, if you choose so.
Hey Dr. Grande, I am not diagnosing the book, only speculating that... I bought it two days ago AND I CANT PUT IT DOWN! I LOVE IT!!!
Fun! I've mine on order. Can't wait to blaze through it!
Where did you get it if you don’t mind me asking? I just tried Amazon but it’s not available til 12/7
Wow!!
@@valeriealas 12/7/21 is only a few days from now - If you pre-order it, they will ship it to you on 12/7/21
It’s not even released yet…
I appreciate your subtle Christmas decorating, acknowledging the season without going overboard. No showboating in your game.
I think thats a cactus mam...
@@sbstnpofadder Yea, he's got a little thing for cacti, subtle yet edgy.
The hardest thing to do is the RIGHT thing. When my ex wife threaten me with visitation with our child, I stepped back and stayed silent. Do you know she was calling me a couple of weeks later asking me to pick up our kid. Stay strong Loving Parents!
lol no. There’s a time and place where being strong and silence man is helpful. But stepping back and being quiet is a form of submission like that. If she’s threatening visitations rights than you have a legal obligation to enforce that.
No wonder she’s ur ex wife
You did the right thing, blowing up a situation is time consuming and just leads to more hostility, you called her bluff and i bet she never tried that again, people are too prideful nowadays they forget to be survivors and they end up like Chad, worse yet they get no justice because that other man just walked
When new partners involve themselves in custody disputes things become more volatile, it's never a good idea and it's really none of their business.
It is their business when that child is in their custody/home/family but I agree it should taken cautiously and new partner really needs to work with their partner not the other parent.
That is true, but in this case the custody was a side issue. The fact is that the deceased was tresspassing, threatening and finally assaulting the homeowner.
@@maxwellschneiter we have the exact same view on this issue. Everyone talks about the side issues in cases like this and not the facts of the exact actions
@@angeleyes3396 Its none of their business, period. Not legally or morally. That's a fact.
@@maxwellschneiter Fact is what? Trespassing? Are you stupid? The house owner is the ex-wife, he was talking with her before the imbecile who had no business involved himself with a deadly weapon. he had a legitimate, legal right to be there, he only "threatened" the imbecile that is Kyle, after Kyle brought a deadly weapon for intimidation.
It would be interesting to talk about the mother's part in all of this. She told the school he was ill and had to stay home. Didn't inform the father who she knew had legal custody at a certain time. Then claimed the child wasn't home. Where the hell would he be if he was "sick"? And that she wants more time with the child. Well, where were you when you kept him from school all day? I'm interested to know where the child was and why. God forbid he was actually inside the house.
She was at work at Kyle's house, and the boy was with his grandmother.
It seems as though the whole situation was a set up. The mother should have informed the father that their child was home sick from school, the mother should have informed the father where their child was, the mother should have asked the father to pick up their child at the grandmother’s house…..I hope the mother and stepfather are charged! I sincerely believe they planned the shooting……reminds me of the Charles Vallow murder that Lori and Chad Daybell planned.
And having an affair. She truly messed up.
And having an affair. She truly messed up.
@@joycemarie9702 agree 💯 percent. There is some serious manipulation going on here with the mother. She couldn't just act decently and none of this would be in the news.
Imagine finding out your father was shot and killed when he was trying to pick you up to spend time with him. That gun should have never come out. This was legal in texas but still wasn't right.
Only person at fault in the end is Chad for not leaving Kyle’s property when he was told to leave
I would personally be upset with my father had he confronted a shotgun wielding homeowner after having been told to leave the premises.
Yea, trying to intimidate someone holding a shotgun on their property just isnt right.
Chad: "I just want muh kids >:(" we all know that his kids arent in any danger, which means his response is unwarranted. Chad didnt want his kids, he just wanted to be a macho bully, sorry youre to naive to see that. You must have been in similar situations growing up.
@@EA_SP0RTCENTERsorry your so naive that you can’t differentiate self defense and murder
He saw a rifle,that alone was enough reason for him live and report to the judge about a child custody violation. He had many opportunities to be alive but chose to play the tough guy.
If the the child was supposed to be picked up at 3:15PM at school a simple text stating that he was sick and at his grandmother's instead of school could have prevented the confrontation.
The mom is a judge so she obviously thinks her shit don't stink. She thinks rules don't apply to her
Not going to a place where you know the son isn’t at, would also have prevented the confrontation.
@@jamesbroomfield7799 No, the mom isn’t a judge. The shooter’s ex wife is a judge, but that has nothing to do with any of this.
Not saying he should have been shot but what I will say is that he should not have postured and yelled at them like that on THEIR property. He could have just called the cops and left it at that.
The mom didn't want to avoid confrontation
Three kids to wonder about the death of their father. “How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it.”
― Marcus Aurelius
They are suing their moms boyfriend along with their grandma and stepmother. This stupid women just destroyed her relationship with her kids for petty revenge and a dwarf. I pray the kids and stepmother and their side of the family find peace and strength going forward.
"Be not quick in thy spirit to anger, for anger rests in the bosom of fools."
-Ecclesiastes
@Artificial Hobos he was the stoic one. Chad was acting like a little girl
They won't have to wonder. Their fathers boobish antics are all over the internet
Someone tells you to leave and you don’t then brings a rifle out tells you to leave and you still don’t? Billy badass didn’t win today. Especially if Billy badass says “you better use it or I’ll fucking kill you”. Good job Kyle
One correction: Read didn’t just say “you better use it or I’ll take it from you”. He said “you better use it or I’ll take it from you and use it on you”; then proceeds to try and do so, or so it seems, and that’s probably what Carruth thought as well.
How do you spend this much time thinking about this and still so wrong
@@augi.f2446 that’s funny considering how a grand jury has declined to charge him 🤷🏿♀️
@@chunkybones668the grand jury reasoning was “ it’s self defense because the murder occurred in William Carruth property” pretty shit reasoning when you have video evidence that William went back inside his home not to protect himself but to come out the house again and agitate Chad read so Chad can react and give William “probable cause” to kill a man in cold blood (self defense)
Chad is GUILTY beyond a shadow of a doubt !!
"Chad proved that he was fearless. I doubt that is of much consolation to him now." SAVAGE
Hotheaded father talks with hotheaded mother, hotheaded new lover grabs a gun when he could have called the cops and waited inside. Anybody getting shot was unnecessary. The gunman escalated things. Gunman’s fault QED.
He could have straightened it out any other way.
If anyone here had social skills they could use in a relaxed manor, this man’s child may have grown up knowing his father. Condolences to those affected.
That's why guns so dangerous. Gives hotheads, or mentally ill, quick & deadly consequences. Sure we can kill w anything but much harder to do so. So sad for the victim & family 😔
Only someone who has never had to call the cops in an emergency situation would believe your solution is valid. In most places it takes the police 45 minutes to an hour to arrive.
@@maxwellschneiter so what if it took 45 minutes? There was no imminent threat. The guy was there to pick up his son and there was a disagreement. All that needed to be done was to go back inside, call the police and wait it out until they got there to rectify the situation.
@@maxwellschneiter All wrong assumptions there
@@a.m2707 how do you know what would have happened? The guy was clearly deranged (we know this because he attacked a man holding a loaded weapon), he could have attacked his wife, he could have kicked in the door.
I can't understand how Kyle isn't being charged? The moment he went inside his life was no longer in danger(as if it ever was).
Well it is texas and it's kind of allowed to have some shit like this happen, we are allowed to open carry and tbh the thing that probably can get Kyle is he shot a warning shot that is not allowed I think, he was in his Kyle property. He did shoot at this man after a physical confrontation however Chad did not have a weapon so yeah.
im for guns also , if these dumb ppl did not get them so easily . imo once he went back in to get it , thats the crime imo. texas law is assbackward and protects these shoot first idiots . now if chad was trying to get in or making pyhsical threats of harm kyle would have been justified ,,
the d r is correct here
@@fila-sauce1193 you can’t use deadly force if someone is trespassing without posing a threat. Chad had no weapon and no intentions of causing damage.
@@dualtags4486 he had just assaulted him that's a threat
Not to mention they were 10 feet apart when he shot an unarmed person
The initial scenario about a sick kid being at Grandma's house is what pisses me off. The mother apparently didn't communicate the absence to Chad and didn't seem interested in sending a text to explain the absence and gi e an alternate pick up plan for the child. Her lack of action led to the emotional search for his son - a game of hide and seek that he didn't want to play.
She was definitely playing games with the court order. If she had called the father about his son this situation wouldn't happen. Yet again she was standing there recording on her phone. Even when he got shot she would still be standing there recording without trying to provide any aid . The man was lying there unattended and she was happy knowing that she no longer will have to deal with custody issues.
You missed the one person responsible for the entire thing, that would be the ex-wife. She knew he was supposed to have his son and didn't call to let him know where his son was. She knew he'd be picking him up at school and let him go thru that Then she said she wants to see (the son) more than she does. This tells me she did all of it on purpose. If she'd called him to let h\ know where his son was NONE of this would've happened.
Lmao or maybe blame the guy that literally fired a weapon and killed someone else?
they are all adults, the only people to blame for an adult's actions are themselves. the situation could have been handled better by the three people involved, but the only ones guilty of the weapon being fired and the eventual death are chad and kyle
Who's the woman that hurt you so bad, Lynn?
@@marquislexil Hahahaha are you kidding busta? Imagine if Chad had of kept his son past when his allotted time. His ex-wife would be crazed and shouting going ballistic saying he has no right, but suddenly she has a right to break court rulings and not produce the child when she is supposed to? Haha. She caused all of this and most likely plotted with Kyle to murder this man as he was trouble for their new life with HIS son that courts deemed fit to give dual custody to.
@@adamarzo559 Busta? What is this 1994? You have psychic abilities I see. What would she have done if Chad were turned into a Moose and Kyle into an Otter? What would happen then, Miss Cleo?
The Children should be given a new family and adoptive parents. The amount of trauma there is overwhelming. Having to live with the killer of the own biological father is unacceptable.
I really hope they will fine happiness someday. I agree that Christina the mother used evil means to keep chad away from his children, but chad really needed to keep a cool head. As accurately analyzed by you Dr. Grande, it sadly was a perfect storm of negative circumstances. Truly a sad story, the main victims are and will forever be the children. May God bless them.
They’re gonna kill the step dad if they continue living with him lol. 🤷♂️
Shouting "do it" at a person with a gun might be one of the dumbest things a human being can possibly do.
The kids filled a wrongful death against Kyle !
What did the mother do wrong? She didn’t kill anyone.
@@teskejon She didn´t let Chad, the man shot dead, see his children (his son). She provoked the whole situation by not letting him see his son and coming up with all kinds of ideas to not let him see his son. The shooter was suspected of treating the children badly before, so it´s no wonder chad wanted to see if his children were alright. To me it seems like Christina was setting up a trap for chad, so they could get rid of him "legaly". Its very sad Chad gave in to his emotions/ego and gave Kyle a reason and excuse to kill him.
Turns out uttering the words "I'll take it from you and use it on you" was legal clearance to gun daddy down.
Yeah no jury in texas would send a man to prison for shooting someone on his own property.
@@codirennke1109 Not after he was told to leave, then told to leave by the armed homeowner, then the aggressor initiates contact after a verbal death threat.
@@TooManyChoices1 he was told to leave by the people who were currently kidnapping his son which is illegal he was no threat nor did he make any threats the homeowner was in no danger until he escalated the situation by retrieving a firearm from his home for no logical reason he introduced a firearm to menace him and show dominance thus turning the situation into a life or death situation menacing someone with a firearm and then them saying they will defend themselves by taking said firearm away and doing what you do and what he clearly intended to do with a firearm is a ridiculously stupid justification.
If I stole your phone and then told you to get off of my yard 5 times and you weren't attacking or threatining me in any way then I run and grab a gun and point it at you and threaten you would you not try to defend yourself? Let's not be idiots here I ran to get the firearm because I was mad clearly there is nothing showing that I need it or that I am in danger for all you know I'll shoot you when you are far enough away to get a shot off without the chance of you stopping me. This ideas behind these laws are moronic you expect a victim to be a prefect beacon of decision making while having their life threatened but the person will all the power and a gun can just do whatever and make any moronic decision and he gets a slap on the ass and a "be more careful next time"?
With this logic you could easily get away with murdering someone but hey I get it feelings and emotions are of more value to human life of those who are less intellegent.
Simplyfing it in an extremely biased way is a clear indicator that you are 100% a part of that demographic.
@@codirennke1109Texas is a joke and should go back to being owned by Mexico.
Yeah, Chad could have easily gone inside, locked the door, and called the cops asking to trespass someone. @@jobo2243
I have no problem with Second Amendment rights, but I am mystified as to why Kyle introduced a firearm into a family dispute. He wasn't trying to run an intruder off his property, he shot the father of his wife's child, who had a legitimate and pre-arranged reason to be there, to pick up his child for court-sanctioned visitation.
I think he had an arrangement to pick the child up somewhere else. But yes grabbing a gun is a real mouth breather reaction.
he felt weak when there was a bigger man yelling at his property.
It's obvious they were both hotheads with short tempers. That type resorts to firearms pretty quick. Both of my older half brothers were that way. I remember a family gathering, was probably Thanksgiving or Christmas at one of their homes. They got into an argument after one of their kids spilled koolaid on a carpet. Within minutes both had their pistols out pointed at each others heads. Kids were crying, wives were crying, I was freaked out. Took our mom to get them to both calm down. 0_o
I said the same thing
@@dkeith45 Jesus Tap-Dancin’ Christ, man.
This just backs up my long standing policy of "if someone with a gun tells you to leave their property, leave"
If someone's first choice is to get out their gun, it's not looking good for you
@@pj9615 if your first choice after being told to leave my property is grabbing my gun, you're going to die and I'm going to be justified :)
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim for real. Someone pulls a gun and I turn from nasty to polite in like 0.25 seconds
@@227bdiddy so you admit that you also kidnap children? Because that's what the black shirt guy was doing. He was aiding and abetting the mother kidnapping the child from the father, who had a legal court order for custody of his son.
Legally black shirt might be right, morally he is a coward I think should be convicted. And when I say that I am a gun owner, and very very pro-second Amendment. When you carry a gun you take on a huge responsibility.
What's really sad is that Kyle was not charged in this case. Chad's family has filed a 50 million dollar wrongful death lawsuit in the case. There's still no outcome on that case as of today.
not sad at all, grand jury looked at the video, said that looked like kyle reasonably believed he was in danger of death or serious bodily injury, and justifiably shot his attacker.
lets look at it objectively: A man conducting himself in a deranged and disorderly fashion refused to leave the defendants property, verbally and physically threatened the defendant, but the defendant should've just done nothing??
@@rustys.1070 Go inside and call the police, maybe?
I noticed both women seemed to like the drama, just not the result. Instead of helping her new husband who was shot, she was still running her mouth at the shooter.
This kind of trigger-happy behavior causes thousands of unnecessary deaths in this country. The poor man just wanted to see his son and was in an emotional and distressed state, in what twisted logic is shooting him dead a solution? Absurd and unnecessary loss of life.
I think trigger-happy is the perfect description of Kyle Carruth. He seemed ready and glad to shoot Chad.
@@mevv An actual man would have told his girlfriend to leave if she is bringing her custody drama to his work. That is sensible. Chad would have had to kick rocks with no kid or mother there. Easy fix.
The mouth breather fix is to grab a gun and start shooting people. I think we need to start restricting the mouth breathers from access to guns.
Chad was there to get his son. He was not there to attack Kyle or enter Kyle's property, so Kyle wasn't in danger of being attacked by Chad. I don't buy the self defense plea.
Exactly 👏🏼
But he was informed that his son was not there, so he should’ve left when told to. Also, he tried to take the gun from Kyle.
@@logicalblackman8228 I have to disagree with you, for starters a gun shouldn’t have been brought into the mix. He should’ve called the cops and let them remove him from there. When he swung him around he was at a distance where the dad wasn’t a threat. I don’t think it was a good move for Kyle to shoot him and I also think a self defense claim isn’t going to fly. It’s messed up on all ends.
Neither do I, but this is Lubbock, TX we're talking about. Do you really see any jury from a region that conservative not seeing this as self defense? I'm not sure criminal charges will be filed, and even if they are, he'll be acquitted, barring some new evidence.
He was told to leave and the child wasn't there. The father should have left and called the cops. His refusal to leave and acting erratic, if not slightly hysterical, on the property made him a threat. The father attempted to grab Kyle's weapon right after saying "you better shoot me". What more "self-defense" do you need?
- Illegally on property, CHECK!
- Refusing to leave, CHECK!
- Acting erratic, CHECK!
- Telling home owner he "better shoot him", CHECK!
- Attempts to rip weapon from home owner, CHECK!
Seems like a very simple and straight forward "stand your ground" justifiable self-defense situation to me. This is the epitome of what a "stand your ground" law is written for. God bless the Constitution of the United States of America!
This reminds me of a case we had in Winnipeg one or two years ago. An older guy was moving a trailer into or out of his yard and he was blocking the street while doing so. A young guy who was driving down that street became impatient with the older guy and got out of his vehicle to confront him. The two got into an argument and the young guy punched the older guy and ended up killing him.
Thats a typical Thursday in Winnipeg 😂 what an absolute living nightmare of a city, the true and unfiltered reality of Canada
@@ivanillyinch8902 I thought Canada was a more peaceful place than the US. That's horrific.
@@kevinmalone3210 It's really not. Not as bad as hell holes like Detroit or Chicago, but the fantasy nonsense put out by propagandists like Michael Moore in bowling for columbine are totally false. Way less people equals way less murders simply on size of population.
@@kevinmalone3210 Winnipeg is the murder capital of Canada, which is surprising because half the year its too cold to go outside which supposedly keeps crime down.
All else aside, getting into a one way armed confrontation with someone where you are the one without a gun, then closing the distance, saying you will take the gun and shoot them, and then making an attempt to grab the gun before ultimately just tossing them away from you where they now have enough space to take aim and shoot might just be the least effective use of force to win an argument for all time.
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Runs into the house closes door... returns with gun to "defend" himself. Locking the door... would have worked.
dont matter if you wanna be a punk and run and hide go ahead but theres men out there that refuse to run and hide in their own property
@@johnhernandez7594
But his goal was to make Chad the Bully leave. Bye Chad.
Your shy advertising for your book is to adorable, dear Dr. Grande ❤️❤️❤️
I've seen far too often parents will use their child as a pawn to hurt the other parent. It is infuriating to me.
I love how unbiased and level headed you can be and how you look at the entire situation, including psychological factors. Your work is much appreciated
The only reasonable action Kyle should have taken is to tell Chad that if he doesn't leave his property he was going to call the police. Chad wasn't armed, he didn't make any physical threats, he was there to pick up his son. There was no reason for Kyle to get out his gun. Very unnecessary death.
Yep
I agree, the situation was heated but it was not violent. The fact someone brought a gun into that situation is insane, I think a reasonable person would say that Kyle was brandishing that weapon - what other reason could he have to retrieve it other than to threaten Chad. It's like flashing a gun you have on your hip - it would have been fair enough if he believe Chad was an active threat, but the squaring up and the warning shot would say otherwise.
@@guntguardian3771 it’s his property and chad was not welcome there. Correct?
An unintelligent human(chad) is gone due to his own actions. NO LOSS
@@guntguardian3771 I agree that he was using the gun to try to force Chad to leave. But since it was his property, he had every right to do that.
@@austinlemonty4113 1 - he was not a trespasser because he had a legal right to be there, to take his son or talk to the ex to let he see his son.
2 - You can't shoot a trespasser if said trespasser is not actually a menace to you.
3 - You can't claim self defence if you are the one provoking.
I love psychologist's soft affect voices. Especially his, he could be talking about murder, and calmly make you relax.....lol
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Dr. Grande is a Psychiatrist, its more than a psychologist he studied medicine and neurology, as well as psychiatry.
I really dislike his delivery but the content is good.
Dr G has valid points BUT the law is on the PCC, pistol caliber carbine owner's side. Texas law is fairly clear. The Texas Rangers & AG are involved. 🤠
@@TecOneself what did I just read
My ex consistently breaks the court order. Always testing how far she can take it. The only way to slow it down is the threat of taking her back to court.
you could do what kyle "pig nuts" did
“Affair partner”, lol, love that way it was put
That’s really cool that you wrote a piece of fiction!
Shooting someone should always be last resort. Clearly this man wasn't attacking him so I see no grounds for self defense. The man wanted his son, it was his time to be with his kid. If they had just followed the court order this would never have happened. I hope this haunts them for the rest of their miserable lives.
He was attacking him and texas law is clear that it was assumed reasonable to use deadly force to stop an attack of an intruder in your home
AAAAAnd his son was not at the place he was trespassing in. He didn't just want his son, he wanted to start shit and show his ass and throw a tantrum.
@@scottmolnar4132 omfg 🤮
@@Jessica-gy6kr it sucks to be the loser dead guy but that doesn't negate the fact it was a legal shooting
@@scottmolnar4132 not as much as being you.
Everyone feels fear, even elite military, law enforcement etc. Part of the training is to learn how to manage fear and cope or overcome👍🏼
people feel fear but react differently. I've been in many altercations and every time I am very, very afraid, but I try not show it and dont back down, and such determination and willingness to fight alone settles most disputes
But some tactics which I use from childhood: I tell myself "if I die I will go to heaven so there is nothing to worry about".
or I tell myself something like "What kind of a person am I if I do nothing".
etc
At the same time, I also have fear of certain insects. That, I will never be able to overcome, and nothing I do helps it, bar getting drunk ))
It was a Ruger PC9 carbine. The reason why it was not as loud as the woman would expect a gun to be is because it is chambered and fires 9mm which is a handgun cartridge. When firing a pistol round out of a much longer barrel it will completely (or near completely) burn all the powder in the case which in turn will not make it quite as loud as would have been fired out of a 3-5 inch barrel like that of a handgun. To be clear it would still not be considered hearing safe.
I just don't get some parents. My 13 year old daughter lives full time with me but I have an open door policy for her mom so they can work together to heal the division between themselves (partly due to mom getting into a live in relationship right after separation) because I don't want our child to develop mental health issues due to mom and dad's inability to deal with each other.
I’m confused. Your 13 year old lives with you, but you have a policy for her mom? What?
@@bhillis99 the OP is the dad, the daughter lives with him after the parents separated. Daughter has a rift with the mom because Mom started a new relationship straight after she and the OP separated.
Same thing with my own experience. I had divorced parents but by the age of 14 we didn't follow the time schedule set out in court order. I just moved back and forth as I pleased.
@@worsethanjoerogan8061 you're blessed. My ex never cared what my kids wanted. He was all about what it said on the paper. Unless he needed me to keep them 🙄
Love hearing your input on these kinds of cases. It’s sad to know that the child will grow up without his dad and have resentment towards his mom and stepdad now
How was he their step dad?
They were not married yet, not sure any type of "dad" would kill someone who their son cares so deeply about.
He’ll hate his stepdad
@@jjay8133 false the woman, a judge was married to the gun owner. She is off to the side.
@@garyjacobs8313 he already did.
"Stepdad"... Thery're not gonna last as a couple more than a few months. The guy's mental.
How can this be a “tough guy” competition when one of them “wins” a “fight” with a firearm?
How someone with gun can affraid someone without any weapon?
@@marianpe5773 when someone can kill you with their bare hands what then? Unarmed does not equal not dangerous
@@nelsonr1467being unarmed and simultaneously having a gun brandished across from you is a bit different from being unarmed and in a position to beat someone to death. This would be the same as you insisting that you holding a baseball bat is just as lethal as me driving a car. That may be the case, but when I'm in my car speeding toward you, I dare you to hit me with that bat.
Simple. There's all kinds of "fights". You can have a fistfight, a gunfight, a knife fight, a pillow fight, a sword fight, or even a food fight. Cope, seethe, and dilate in that order.
@@somebody9889 Red-Pilled McGhee ladies and gentlemen. Internet pioneer, never dates down but calls an 8 a 5 when they get rejected.
How can no charges be filed? That’s insane.
Some people seem to enjoy the highest drama they can achieve.
Thanks, Doc.
The thing with being tough is - You don't know who you're dealing with.
Messing with random people is a roll of the dice.
Could be road rage, could be acting tough in a random confrontation, you don't know if that guys a boxer, carrying a knife etc.
Kyle took a rifle to a fist fight .
Also he provoked the altercation. He lost his right to self defense when he fired the first shot. Now he leaves those children without a father.
but the now widow with prob 50 million that he has to pay the rest of his shitty life to her for killing her husband
@@general_merten moral of the story, men never win
The woman provoked the altercation.
This is a fist fight so you should be able to shoot people in a fist fight what a chicken shit that's not self defense so you getting a fight now you can shoot people
According to an interview given by one of Chad's adult step daughters, Chad and his ex wife had an amicable relationship that included spending holidays together. The animosity began a year ago when Chad started dating her mother, the woman in the truck that was taking the video. My understanding is that they just started dating at the beginning of the year, and married in September. I'm curious as to why you stated that they had known each other for some years? Also, this wife of 2 months has filed a 50 million dollar law suit against Kyle and his business. If she wins, will ALL this money be given to Chad's children?
the mother did fail to notified the father of his son's whereabout and violated the agreement. She did admit she wanted to have her son longer . Kyle interfere with this affair by escalating the situation and ultimately slain the unarmed man.
I believe this shouldn't have been a case of self defense at all.
Kyle didn't escalate it, the father did. In no uncertain terms he was told to leave. He clearly refused Kyle's orders. We live in a "stand your ground" state. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
The mother can be a stupid hoe. That's not illegal either. Trespassing, however, is 100% illegal.
I'm 100% prepared to protect my homestead as well. Hopefully it never comes to that, but I won't think twice if an aggressor comes on my property to stir up trouble.
She violated a court ordered custody agreement and her story contradicts itself when she wants to spend more time with the kid when she didn’t even have the kid with her because she wanted to spend time with her bf instead
@@charliebeers2013 yeah I agree
He told the guy to leave repeatedly, and then the guy tried to take his rifle. It's self defense.
@@charliebeers2013 kyle brought a gun out to a non-violent conversation. Texas law says you can not shoot or fire warning shots at a trespasser. Kyle should have called the cops and not escalated the scenario by bringing a gun out.
Great video. I'm glad you mention children can be used at pawns. Chad in the video mentions "you keep trying to keep my son from me" Frustration in not seeing your own kid can make one tired of life. There are plenty of suicides of fathers trying to see their kids. I felt his frustration.
This was not a suicide...nor was there any sign that Chad "didn't want to live". What?
It gives me Clifford Burn vibes tbh
if you die at the end of a confrontation like this, you lost the argument. It's never worth it.
It's obvious that this was a setup planned and executed by the mom and her husband. The lack of emotion is telling. All she had to do was tell dude that his son was not there. This is beyond tragic. It's obvious that neither the mom or her husband cares about the children. They didn't look at the overall impact of their actions. Both should get life in prison w/o parole.
interesting take lets hope they seize phones and look for deleted messages to see if this indeed the case but there may be no way to prove this theory. It could just be a crime of passion people behave strangely when in a shocking situations.
Maybe, have you ever looking into Chad's background?
@@bigcheese9096 does it matter what the guy did maybe years ago? He was there to pick up his kid unarmed. The only threat he made is to sue they’re asses, is that a life threat? No. Did the guy concisely provoked and escalated a situation where he could’ve easily prevented a life wasted ? Yeah he did. He could’ve stayed in the house call police. End of the event. But noo he needed to be a pussy a shoot an unarmed father just because he wanted his kids when the court said it
@@silviu2quick of course it matters. If someone has a history of domestic abuse and they're getting aggresive on your property you're just going to let them keep progressing with their aggression?
Just because he is there to pick up his kid doesn't give him cart blanche to break the laws.
@@bigcheese9096 common men. He provoked and killed a man for standing on his lawn. Was that really the need to bring the weapon on a verbal argument ? Is your ego more important than a man’s live ? I could stand with the shooter if he really really did everything to avoid it. If Chad really wanted to break in the house i would’ve sided with the shooter. But the shooter could’ve enter the house called the police and waited. Could’ve took his new wife with him also. For me it s concisely provoking to kill like he planned it. He didn’t opt for other ways that were easier
I saw an interview with the daughter and one thing where people keep commenting on how weirdly calm the wife sounds after watching her husband get murdered was addressed; she didn’t know he was dead or that it was a real gun. She thought he had had a stun gun because it was so quiet and that he had just knocked him out for a minute. She didn’t immediately respond because she wasn’t going to escalate the situation further, but was letting him know that she had it on film and would be calling the police. She wasn’t just totally chill with her husband being killed, she didn’t understand what had just happened.
Yeah, the rifle sounds like a BB gun or something.
So she didn’t know about him having a gun and being married?
@@misfitkid3926 no, the murdered guy’s wife. She was filming from the car. Not the shooter’s wife, who knew he (her ex) had been shot and was filming from inside.
Sorry, that's just weird. If I see my guy get dropped by what I think is a BB gun I'm going to be concerned. Stun gun???
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim to you.
Finished "Harm Reduction", Dr. Grande. Here is my review, and left it at Goodreads too. Thanks for such an entertaining book!
Harm Reduction, by Todd Grande, is a compelling psychological drama that will have you zipping through the pages to find out what happens next.
Being a former social worker, I love the psychological aspects of the story, and Jenny is an intriguing character. I've read hundreds of books over the years, but I don't think I've ever been this deep inside the psychology of a character. This is what I love most about this book. Some authors would have written this in first-person POV--from Jenny's perspective--but I'm glad Grande didn't. His way gives the story more objectivity, and insight, which Jenny just didn't have about herself anyway. She had some, but not enough--like a flashlight's dim glow because of low batteries.
Grande delivers a gripping story without giving too much away at any one time. In fact, he builds mystery and suspense, mostly in the mind of Jenny and her observations, thought processes, and interactions with the world around her.
This author knows how to craft a multi-faceted character with layers, issues, and magnetism--meaning that you just have to keep reading to find out about Jenny and what makes her tick, or break.
The story itself is a puzzle that you the reader are invited to help solve. Grande knows his way around a plot, the suspense builds at a maddening pace--even and steady, teasing it out a little at a time, which is super effective. He cleverly builds characters and scenarios that rival anything Hitchcock has to offer.
The story mounts with tension, and you aren't sure what the ending will be, but it will definitely jolt you. This would make a terrific movie.
If you like crime dramas that keep you guessing until the end, you will love this one, and will become an instant fan of Grande and his OCEAN of talents.
Wow, excellent review! I can’t wait to read this book.
@@rejaneoliveira5019 It's really good, and I'd love it if he had a sequel in the works.
I love the pun at the end of your review. “OCEAN”. Well done.
I see what you did at the end there.... Nice 👍💯✨
If you only knew how much your podcasts have helped me better understand myself and those I love.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Wonderful breakdown of each case and a great point of view! Love the videos!
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Thank you Dr. Grande.
Such a tragic and terrible outcome for all involved, especially Chad’s son.
Tis the season! How cute!🎄🎆🎁
So festive in a Grande way!
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Grown men acting like babies! Unfortunately the gun was real!
Agree with you completely 😊❤👍
The woman recording it sounded so "almost casual" about witnessing the murder, she said "you did it" almost as if she was speaking to a son who had just broken a vase or something.
Just saw you had posted an analysis on this case and I had to watch. Now, I didnt know you had written a book. I am pretty interested and was looking for something new, as I just finished some books I hadn't read yet. I'm going to head over and check it out after the video. I can't wait to get my hands on it! Thanks for the book suggestion! Very much appreciated as well as the videos. Stay safe. Keep up the amazing work! God bless. ❤
It's possible that a finding of self-defense hinges on the use of the "warning shot" made by Kyle. Typically it becomes very easy for the prosecution to dismantle the "imminence" of the deadly threat when you chose to use deadly force simply to spook someone off. Warning shots are well understood in US law to be dangerous and unnecessary; if you truly feared for your life, why didn't you shoot to kill? If you fired when you didn't fear for your life, you could have injured or killed a third party. A warning shot could manifest a deadly threat to the OTHER party, enabling a defensive deadly force response on their own part. I'd be willing to argue that the act of leaving the area to retrieve a rifle and return, combined with the warning shot both indicate that Kyle did not have a reasonable fear of imminent bodily harm, and instead chose to remain in the area and escalate the situation into deadly force.
Hmmm... That's an interesting point. Maybe he could be prosecuted and convicted of murder after all.
I completely agree
Man you took all that time to write something that stupid. I feel sorry for you.
That's exactly how it's going to be argued and go down. The post right above should listen to own critique.
You can fire warning shots on your own property in Texas. Someone threw him after going for his gun in Texas he’s well within his right.
Thank you Dr. Grande for you insightful earliest analysis of this case which occurred in my home state.
One thing is clear- the children whose father who was killed for trying to obtain his visitation rights are innocent victims.
He wanted to kill that man. He thought this out before he stepped out that door with that gun. I’m in full support of defending yourself. But that guy escalated the shit out of this intentionally and obviously wanted to shoot dude. What a smart move. I’m sure his kids will hate this man and they’re own mom forever now
The guy was trespassing
I had doubts about the 9mm carbine for self-defense but it put Chad down really quick.
16" 9mm has the same energy as a .357
Repeated violations of court ordered custody always end badly. Christina Read knew perfectly well her ex would attempt to pick up their son from school at 3:15, chose not to inform him that she already picked him up from school and doesn't have him ready to hand off when Chad Read understandably comes to take him from her residence. She tells him she intends to keep him longer in violation of their custody order. Under these facts, Kyle Carruth's claims of trespass and protecting his home with deadly force should fall flat.
Right the child means more then property
@@angelcitystudio well said.
@@angelcitystudio Umm no. Chad was trespassing a criminal matter. The court order violation people keep talking about but haven’t actually read, is a civil matter. The father should have left and called the police. Kyle violated zero Texas laws , Chad violated several.
If I'm afraid for my life, I'm not shooting a warning shot, and I'm definitely not bumping chest to chest, with the weapon in my hand. I wouldn't give you a chance to take it away from me
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim I feel bad for the ex husband. I don't think that guy is going to get charged
okay but you are purposefully leaving out what happened in the video to say what you would do, you would have gone inside, grabbed your gun, walked out with it, but instead you would have shot him as he walked forward to bump chests? you would be charged with murder as all he did was walk up to him and push up against him, then kyle pulled the trigger
@@IAmGameAddicted what I'm saying is, letting someone get close and bump chests, means that you're really not afraid for your life at all. At that point it's 2 guys trying to be macho. I think what that guy did was murder. He had enough time to take himself out of the situation and call the cops. Instead he escalated it, gave the husband a chance to grab the gun, then shot him. He set him up to claim "self defense". Now if it was me. And if I was worried about my safety. I would have stepped into the house, grabbed my gun and called the cops. I would have waited inside my house. And locked my door. If the husband tried to force his way in, then I would shoot. I'm not getting that close to someone because there is a chance you can grab my gun.
Yes Dr Grande this is what they call a perfect storm. Thank you!
The lack of anger from Kyle initially and lack of remorse from Kyle after the shooting makes me believe he let previous interactions and thoughts towards Chad cloud his judgement. Not saying it was premeditated but he didn’t hesitate to shoot and acted like nothing happened after
I don't care what the laws are in Texas, there was no cause to bring a gun to that scene and no cause to shoot that unarmed father who just wanted to pick up his son. I personally hope the shooter goes to jail for a looooooooong time.
@@chuckscott-cy7iq That guy took a human life when there was absolutely no cause to do so. The victim was not being violent. Call the cops if he won't leave.
@@brianbagnall3029he didn’t even go to court 🤡🤡🤡. Maybe people will finally get off other people’s property
@@brianbagnall3029 NO CHARGES HAHAHAHAAH
Intentionally keeping a parent from his or her child with a court order is evil. The games played by this couple (the mother and step father) is a major contributor to this situation.
Absolutely
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim I still don't know why Kyle thought killing the children's BIOLOGICAL FATHER wasn't going to completely destroy any potential at a relationship with them.
@@Deadlyaztec27 fuck around find out. Chad should have gotten off the property and called the cops so he could have pressed charges. Instead he got free lead. Texas law is pretty clear on this. Hot head got hot lead. I feel bad about the custody thing but that's irrelevant in a self defence situation.
@@CreedTAC
Kyle only brought out a gun because he wanted to provoke him into a fight on order to justify killing him. It's pretty fucked.
@@Deadlyaztec27 True but he shouldn't have grabbed it, that murks the defense
Dr Grande’s book is just him creating an alibi. Calling it now.
Thanks for showing us stills from the video that corresponds to the narration, Doc. 👍❤
Mr. Grande, I love your objectivity. It's refreshing.
When someone has a gun don’t tell them to go ahead and shoot you. He should have gotten in his truck and called police. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know you are not gonna win a gun fight when you do not have a gun.
Exactly! Anyone who continues to attack or threaten a person who is armed with a gun is dangerously stupid or suicidal
@@maxwellschneiter - usually it’s a man who’s got a massive ego and too much testosterone pumping through his body 🙄
@@Pippis78 naw. Just old fashioned stupid
While it might be stupid that doesn't mean you can just shoot the person who says "shoot me, shoot me"
@@g.a.b.e7085 No, but when that man says he is going to take the gun and use it on you and then grabs it...
Dr Grande, you're spoiling us. ❤You're the hardest working content creator on YT ! Heck yeah, I'll buy your book. Can you write one on how to develop your work ethic?😃 I agree that Kyle's life wasn't threatened, but Chad was provoking him which is something people do with each other too often. Nobody wants to be the one to retreat. There's shame associated with it. I used to get into verbal disputes with my sister and refused to back down even when I knew it was silly and pointless to continue. It was pride...just foolish pride. Now, I just let her ramble insults at me. Kyle was wrong to shoot Chad when he wasn't a physical threat. Interested to see how this one will turn out legally. I know you'll keep us posted. 👍
Omg, how could I watch so many of your videos and only just now learn you wrote a novel?! So excited, immediately put at the top of my Christmas list!
Very logical and detailed review of the case. Well thought out, researched and reported. Thank you
The video of this incident is utterly disturbing. After Chad was shot, Jennifer said something on the lines of “Kyle, I recorded you…” What?! 🥺I think most people would run to their loved one in panic and disbelief. Everything seemed casual while Chad was lying on the porch floor, dead. It was painful to watch, the reaction of everyone right after Chad was shot was so cold.
I agree with you Dr. Grande, I don’t think this was self defense.
Thank you for the review Dr. Grande, your input is always much appreciated.❤️
Tbh idk if I would run over if an insane man just shot my husband I’d probably be scared out of my mind
She made a comment saying she thought he was tased or a stun gun and didn't realize he was really shot until she realized he wasn't moving
but in the wife's defense she said on inside edition she thought it was some sort of taser gun and didn't know it was a real gun
@@gobgoerrsarah the insane man was the one who threatened to blow people's head off, and then grabbed someone's gun in a fit of screaming rage
They’re both Chads tho they pick women that fuck em immediately and don’t leave their house after the first night lol. Winners
With the informatioon given, this seems awfully premeditated...
"The kids not here, (when and where he was supposed to be) I can go get him, I want more time, I am videoing this, this is my new angry protective boyfriend and his gun... "
This is what I would call a set-up, or a planned execution.
She even slipped her motivation in there too with "I want more time with him".
@@TheMartyandy yep she did, and gave excuses as to why he wasnt there, this is BAD
The adults lost track of what was important. The son, the adults feelings just turned that boy's life upside down. None of your feelings was that important now was it.
infidelity, new love, and custody are 3 elements that are often involved in murder.
I’ve watched the video many times…I feel like Read was possibly setup by his ex and her new lover. If you watch the video you’ll notice that when Carruth goes inside to retreive his firearm the ex wife steps back from the porch…why would she do that? Did she know what he was going to do?
I live in Lubbock and that is what many think was going on. It was a set up.
@@alisabelove6254 Interesting…I’m also in Lubbock, but I didn’t know this. Not as familiar with this story as I should be, as I don’t keep up with news.
I watched the actual video several times and found it disturbing to say the least. I find your analysis of this situation to be measured, systematic and accurate. Unfortunately our participants in this tragedy did not possess the same qualities otherwise the outcome would have been different. Also by providing all of the background, which I did not have yesterday, you create a whole new facet. The one aspect that should be added to your excellent narrative is the speed with which all of this occurs after the gun is produced. It really contributed to the outcome and left no room for cooler heads to prevail.
Did you find an uncensored video?
What's really upsetting about the video is how they are all so wrapped up in fighting that they continue to argue over who's at fault after the shot goes off as the guy is laying there dying or dead. Even his wife filming in the truck just keeps arguing as tho no one just got shot...he's left there on the porch with no one checking on him. Takes the wife a min to get out the truck and go over and only then does she get hysterical...did she think he dropped to the ground to pretend to be shot? (sarcasm).
@@joan-lisa-smith that’s what really irked me. His new wife just kept on arguing, and didn’t seem to show any bit of concern for Chad as he just laid there lifeless. You would think she would scream out and run to see if he was okay. Her reaction to her husband just being shot just seemed so off to me.
@@joan-lisa-smith I think she thought he was stunned or something. If you saw the video, then you realize that the gunshot was very quiet and did not sound like a normal gunshot.
@@juliab516 Dr. Grande, the professional psychologist that made the video, already stated that traumatic events like these have no correct or predictable response.
Imagine having to look your stepson in the eye and say. "Today I killed your Daddy, but it was his fault for coming to our house ok?".
pos kyle it, hopfully the son grows up and takes care of him
@@tankthearc9875 he won't
you're mad your gay buddy got balled on. shut up and move on
Brilliant assessment Doc...
I put quite a lot of the culpability for this at the mother's feet. Even without a court order which she was in violation of you don't get to withhold your child from his father just because you want to. Her Petty selfishness precipitated this.
Edit: no people. I'm not saying the mother should be legally accountable for homeboy's death. Literally not even implied. If you have to read into it that hard then maybe it's just not what’s being said.. she was the first Domino to fall in this series of ridiculously avoidable events. That's what I'm saying. The only one who should be held accountable for murder is the dude who pulled the trigger. But you’re headless if you think he's the only one who deserves harsh criticism. To varying degrees all three of the adults involved were responsible for the outcome. fully entitled to note the degree to which the mother is. In my opinion you're silly if you're defending any of these people.
Lol wut? So, by breaking a law, barely above parking ticket type infringement of being late by 15mins, she caused the death? The dude with the gun brought a gun to a normal, every day custody dispute. Fuck that guy.
PS. Pettiness and selfishness are normal human actions. WE ALL do dumb shit at times, esp when a divorce is involved. It shouldn't end in bloody death. I sense some internalised misogyny in your comment tbh.
Lmao 2 adult men arguing and one with a gun and you're like ' Blame the Mom'.
Cherchez la femme?
Smart comment I hope enough people see it.
The mother is the catalyst for this tragedy. Kyle should have perished for being the fool who introduced the gun in the first place. Chad only wanted to get his son it's tragic.
@@jlim003 No moron. The hub with the gun was at his home and place of business encouraging the trespasser to leave.
Nothing in a "normal custody dispute" involves trespass.
"In reality, there is no correct response, everyone reacts differently." Thank you for pointing this out, some people think there's a certain way people should react in stressful situations.
No you're incorrect it's not everyone reacts differently you either react the right way or the wrong way,
Men of their age are old enough to know the difference no excuses
Not really. Like doc said Kyle introduced a gun into a situation that was not violent to begin with. He didn't NEED to do that. With a death we have to look at what was necessary and what wasn't in the moment. Kyle's life was not in clear danger when he grabbed his gun. Now when Chad went to grab the gun that's obviously a different story. However Kyle undoubtedly exacerbated the situation.
Well you can train to handle certain situations. For instance, as soon as the gun came out you leave. Knowing that it's not worth potentially losing your life for missing a few hours or days with the kid. You could also absolutely use the recording of someone pulling a gun on you when you went to pick up your kid as evidence that the household may not be fit for a kid or, at the very least, the mother is actively trying to stop you from seeing your kid at the court appointed time. Most of it comes down to anger management and knowing when it's not worth it to keep arguing or fighting. Get the police involved and let them sort things.
@@zachrichardson5581 he asked them to leave his property instead they became even more unruly him pulling out a gun on his property to people that are not welcome is well justified.
@@hawkeyemihawkgettingmoneylord Kyle asked them to leave his property? Didn't all this happen on the streets in a downtown area? I'm confused.
This is a legendary Dr. Grande Episode. Brilliant Analysis!!
One again, very well said! I've said before that I believe you are helping to spread critical thinking skills which I know are care about greatly. Well done on doing your part in this world to help!!