Purpose of Hijab in Islam | Sahil Adeem

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2021
  • What is the real Purpose behind Hijab?
    Does Hijab weaken women in front of men?
    Why Hijab is compulsory in Islam?
    HIJAAB - SUBJUGATES THE WOMEN?
    Misconceptions about Hijab
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Комментарии • 127

  • @saduzoisabakhan481
    @saduzoisabakhan481 2 года назад +7

    This man....blessing for All Muslims now a days...Allah Pak ap ko lambi zindgi dyn qYamat tak ar bht achi life deen o dunya May ameen suma ameen

  • @HappyMomentsHM
    @HappyMomentsHM 2 года назад +27

    کس کس کو نبی آخری زماں جناب حضرت سیدنا مصطفی محمد صلیالہ علیہ وسلم کا امتی ہو نے پر فخر ہے۔

    • @amks...9423
      @amks...9423 2 года назад +1

      meherbani kro sabko fakhr hai aur yahan yeh comment mat kro issey sawal paida hota hai shuru krdo unki teachings ko maanna

    • @TheBrownArtist
      @TheBrownArtist 2 года назад

      What do you really want?

    • @sohailmehmood8561
      @sohailmehmood8561 2 года назад

      @@TheBrownArtist subscription

  • @sadiahijazi9708
    @sadiahijazi9708 2 года назад +12

    Full of Wisdom, pure soul. MashaAllah.

  • @husnamaryam6211
    @husnamaryam6211 2 года назад +6

    Very nice explanation, hijaab dopamine say bachata hai aur bohot saari burayyon say bhi, but we should do every good deed for the sake of Allah swt to get the best reward on the day of judgement in shaa Allah.
    May Allah swt guide us to the right direction .

  • @SayequaShuja
    @SayequaShuja 11 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing explaination about hijab.
    May Allah give us all such clarity. Ameen

  • @shine6896
    @shine6896 2 года назад +3

    My fav always sir Sahil Adeem ...wisdomful always ..Love from India

  • @qisam2680
    @qisam2680 2 года назад +1

    Great and simple Explanation !

  • @wellnesswonders4U
    @wellnesswonders4U 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely Great! thank you sir Adeem..

  • @meerz9343
    @meerz9343 2 года назад +1

    Subhan Allah kya jwab diya masha Allah

  • @Jasia-bh7ou
    @Jasia-bh7ou 2 года назад +7

    Our gem Scholar ❤❤❤

  • @Nahmad35
    @Nahmad35 2 года назад

    Leadership ka models aap ne bahot khoob samjhaya
    Aur saari baaten bhi bahot achhe tareeke se samjhai .. bahot bahot shukriya

  • @khaulakhanum9589
    @khaulakhanum9589 2 года назад

    Mashaallah, bht achi baat

  • @TheBrownArtist
    @TheBrownArtist 2 года назад

    Wuhuuu ma shaa Allah ma shaa Allah ❤❤❤❤

  • @darsgahdarrusalaam2566
    @darsgahdarrusalaam2566 2 года назад +1

    Barabar sahi very true

  • @muhammedsayeed2181
    @muhammedsayeed2181 2 года назад

    Masha Allah very knowledgeable

  • @mrsbilalsadiq7763
    @mrsbilalsadiq7763 2 года назад

    mashaAllah may Allah bless you.

  • @akiciao6028
    @akiciao6028 2 года назад +1

    Pearls of wisdom by Sahil bhai..

  • @roohantariq6001
    @roohantariq6001 2 года назад

    MashaAllah sahil bhai

  • @afrozjaanu7074
    @afrozjaanu7074 2 года назад +1

    Love frm Kashmir always

  • @asimqadri2009
    @asimqadri2009 2 года назад +4

    Simple explanation 💜 given so eloquently..
    But it is not for people with tunnel vision.

  • @Lilith_12358
    @Lilith_12358 2 года назад

    Allah bless u Sahil bhae....

  • @131maryumabid4
    @131maryumabid4 3 месяца назад

    This guy is just 🔥🔥❤️

  • @exploring116
    @exploring116 2 года назад +1

    Where can we watch full lectures?

  • @scorpionqueen6627
    @scorpionqueen6627 3 месяца назад

    SahiL Sir 😘 We LOVE U ❤️

  • @zahrabintriaz3135
    @zahrabintriaz3135 2 года назад

    Excellent speaker

  • @farwakhan5010
    @farwakhan5010 Год назад

    Great

  • @shaguftapathan4400
    @shaguftapathan4400 2 года назад +1

    Mashallah

  • @AbdUllah-vo6uz
    @AbdUllah-vo6uz 2 года назад +2

    Hello,
    There are many leadership models can you give the reference to the one Mr. Sahil Adeem is referring to. I searched it on the internet but did not find this model. Although I found others that I am already familiar with.

    • @Qamar_CA
      @Qamar_CA 11 месяцев назад

      Lol, Angrezon k flsafay search karen, uss ne pehlay bataya keh unho ne ess ko ulta kia hoa hy,kabhi quran aur seerah ki books bhi search kar liya karen, ess liye tu so called Muslim pori world se jootay kha rahey hain

  • @draddie6685
    @draddie6685 Год назад

    Strongly agreed....asali hijab ka concept yehi hai bcoz somewhere every hijabi gurl can relate what he is saying....

  • @humerasajjad9213
    @humerasajjad9213 Год назад

    Mashallah 👍👍👍

  • @hinabaloch4210
    @hinabaloch4210 2 года назад

    How can we contact with d him

  • @MahnazSana-kw3ll
    @MahnazSana-kw3ll 7 дней назад +1

    Aurat ko apne haalat khud samajhna hoga wo kaisi dikh rahi hai is mental pressure k liye parda kare mard to Aisa nahi sochte .Tax payer Bane ya nahi unhe khud hi decide karna chahiye

  • @mubashramujtaba8550
    @mubashramujtaba8550 2 года назад

    Sir u r right but now a days our society woman is also very depressed as she is compromising her married life.... Coz the condition of our marriage system is going collapse....so mentor us how to spend a happy family life.

  • @ambermalik895
    @ambermalik895 2 года назад +5

    You gave a very good answer Sir👍🏻The real purpose of the Hijab, its importance and the commands revealed by the religion are all..

  • @sszzxx1sszzxx292
    @sszzxx1sszzxx292 2 года назад +1

    جو جیتنے کا فن جانتا ہے وہ ہرانے کا فن جانتا ہے

  • @excellentallsubjectstudy3055
    @excellentallsubjectstudy3055 2 года назад

    I am fan of you

  • @salmanshahid4846
    @salmanshahid4846 2 года назад +4

    Array yar ye banda kesay differnet soch leta he. mje b koi tareqa bataow

    • @kamrulhasan3151
      @kamrulhasan3151 2 года назад

      Bhai quran tarjume se padho agar samajh na aye to baar baar padho aur agar phir bhi na samajh main aye to aap jinko QURAN ki tafseer main maharat ho unse samjho aise aise thoughts honge ki aap ko khud yaqeen nahi hoga ki samajh kar padhne main hoga

  • @talhasaeed632
    @talhasaeed632 2 года назад

    Assalam o alaikum, is female and male can be friends agr wo shryi prdy ko follow lkrey is there any concept about this in Islam

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 2 года назад

      Wa 'alaikumus salaam.
      No. There is no concept of "friendship" between opposite genders (non-mahrams) in Islam.
      Our interaction with opposite gender must not be casual, and must be restricted to only necessary encounters, and proper guidelines are to be followed. Shar'ii parday ko follow krna automatically implies that there can't be any casual relationship between non-mahrams of opposite gender, and it definitely does not mean you get a free pass.

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Yes there's a concept, in fact there's a quranic verse:
      "Momin mard aur aurat ek dosre ke dost hain agr wo neki ka huk aur burai se rokte hain"
      Agr in 2 kamon ke ilawa koi aur reason hai jese dukhre share krna, ya gossip ya time pass ya wese shoq keliye, to bilkul nhi allowed

  • @qa2623
    @qa2623 2 года назад

    Core humility in hijab?
    Apne ye concept kahan se lia

  • @ammiebro786
    @ammiebro786 2 года назад +1

    ❤❤🤲❤❤

  • @rcrainternational9893
    @rcrainternational9893 2 года назад

    Sir Sahil a very small correction on your section poly andry is the term for woman when she is in multiple relationship , she was asking is poly gamy meaning KYa Muslim woman is less empowered because islam allows four spouses at the same time

    • @Qamar_CA
      @Qamar_CA 11 месяцев назад

      Aap ne shaid neend mein sunna hy, ghor se sunain

  • @foodexplorer6
    @foodexplorer6 2 года назад

    Best speaker ever😍

  • @sadiakhan7909
    @sadiakhan7909 Год назад

    Me tou shadyoo me bhi hijab leti hn cosmetic bhi itna use nai krna parhta na jewelry ki tension mazey hi mazey time b bachta he late honey ki husband se batey b ni sunnii parhti...

  • @hinamirza8172
    @hinamirza8172 2 года назад

    BINA HIJAB K AURAT CHALTI PHIRTI DAWAT A GUNAH HY AR MARD KA ISS MEIN KIRDAAR YE HY K HR BAP BHAI SHOHAR BETA QAYAMAT K DIN SHARMINDA HONAY SY BACHNAY K LEAY APNI AURAT KO HIJAB MEIN RAKHY AR APNI ANKHON MEIN HIYA RAKHY!SO SIMPLE

  • @kamrulhasan3151
    @kamrulhasan3151 2 года назад

    Bhai hamare session main koi ghair muslim kiyon nahi ata hai

  • @aliaparveen5619
    @aliaparveen5619 20 дней назад

    Want to talk

  • @khaulakhanum9589
    @khaulakhanum9589 2 года назад +1

    Bhai ye b demonstrate kren k jents ko kese samjhaya jae k wo ladies Jo hijaab krti hn unka workplace pe respect rakhen

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Agr ap boss hain to educate karen phir warning den, phir bhi nhi manta to fire karden
      Agr ap parent hain to obviously seerah ko tarbeeat meim shamil karen, book culture create karen
      Agr ap sibling hain to serrah ki examples den aur ek muslam mard ka role smjhayen aur sharam dilayen
      Agr ap friend hain to uper ka sara kuch karen
      Agr stranger hain to educate karen aur agr problem rehta hai report karen
      Aur in sab ko us insaan ki hidayat keliye dua bhi krni chahiye

  • @ahteshamhayat3564
    @ahteshamhayat3564 2 года назад +1

    In sahab k mutabiq hijab/parda ka hukam hai kyun k otherwise orat ko office janay k liey zayad time lagta hai.

    • @arsalanbasahart
      @arsalanbasahart 2 года назад

      Brother he just trying to give only one simple example not saying that this is the only purpose.lot of benefits he also said..Thanks

    • @sab-ali
      @sab-ali 2 года назад

      @@arsalanbasahart he exactly said that hijab is not for men for humility. Bad logic.

  • @ranakashif9708
    @ranakashif9708 2 года назад +2

    Sir mazrat k sath na cheez ki ak iltja by k thori English kam Karen mehrbani ho gi Allaha ap ko hifzo iman main rakhy

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 2 года назад +1

    So a polygamist woman is stronger?

  • @truewords8873
    @truewords8873 2 года назад

    یعنی پھر یہاں مرد کی تو کوٸی grace نہ ہوٸی نا ۔۔۔۔ اگر یہ وجہ خواتین کی grace کے لیٸے ہے تو مرد کی بھی اس وجہ سے ہی grace ہوتی ہے اور قرآن میں مرد کے لیٸے بھی ایک ہی شادی پر زور ہے بھلے ہی اجازت 4 کی ہے۔

  • @cor-callofroblox4391
    @cor-callofroblox4391 2 года назад

    Kya colourful hijab lena haram hai?

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      No, colour ka halal haram se koi taluq nhi

  • @javedsiddiqui1870
    @javedsiddiqui1870 Год назад +1

    hijab ko choro pehlae fundamentals par concentrate karo. aaj ka pakistan khud aap kae alfaaz main darul nifaq hai. and that is 100% correct. Jahan larki nangi ghoomti hai wahan society bohat sahee hai....itna zulm har giz nhn hai aur jo zulm karta hai forun qanoon ki girift main ata hai....pehlae insaaf faraham karo phir batain karna hijaab ki.
    hum nae apnae college/university kae door main yahee hijabi larkiyan daikheen jo pta nhn hijaab ki aar main kya kya kar raheen theen.....not to offend any girl because there are pious women too but first concentrate on more important stuff that is of more importance today.
    akhir Hazrat Ali nae aesae hee to nhn keh dya tha kae kufr ka maashra chaljaega pur zulm ka naheen.

  • @sab-ali
    @sab-ali 2 года назад

    Men or women both dress to impress. Konse bunday hain jo baghair tyar huay office jatay. Just look at their suits, their, hair, their perfumes, they all dress well. And who says that women who are in hijab don't go after the cosmetic products and don't care how they look? All women do whatever they can to look good. Hijab does promote humility but it isn't there for humility. Don't men need humility too then?

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Then shouldn't you try to understand men and woman psychology and why Allah asked women to do hijab and not men?

  • @duaaa8683
    @duaaa8683 Год назад +1

    How can a non Muslim accountability with this statement ?? wearing hijab is necessary off course. I don't agree with this statement hijab is for your own sake. hijab is to protect from fitna so it's necessary any other thing I haven't heard don't misleading people already for Muslims hard to find true leaders of Islam only well known give authentic bayans with true refrence .

  • @atifezaz9966
    @atifezaz9966 2 года назад

    Sir aap inglesh zada bolte h bale koyi baat nhi per urdo me dohra biya karen

  • @sarwatfayyaz5925
    @sarwatfayyaz5925 Год назад

    hamari asal leader ummul momineen hazrat khudeja , hazrat ayesha ar hazrat zainab bint e hajash razi ALLAHU tala anhu shazadi e rasool محمد صلى الله عليه واله وسلم q nhi ho sakten sahil hamari asal leader ya roll model tw wahi honi chaiyen

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад +1

    This guy shares his own opnions as ISLAMIC.
    He claims Allah SWT has said that parda is for womans own humility. Where has Allah SWT said that?
    So many people have died due to Islamic extremism but still Pakistanis dont stop inventing things in Islam.
    When will they stop.
    The other day this guy shared how HE feels dopamine makes a person selfish so music is forbidden in Islam. But music is NOT forbidden in Islam and there is NO mention of dopamine or Islam requiring Muslims to be selfless.
    When will Pakistanis stop ADDING things to Islam?

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Music (the kind that you probably listen to) is not forbidden?
      And tell me how does parda not make a women humble?
      Have you read seerah?

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад

    So Islam is against dopamine and people looking good because if women look good then they have dopamine?

  • @Mir2591
    @Mir2591 6 месяцев назад

    What ant shant he is talking. Allah asks women to be attractfull for the husband. So this logic is in correct. Yes, this attraction has to be exposed within the four walls of your house.

  • @truewords8873
    @truewords8873 2 года назад +2

    Sorry Sir, it is because of males.
    گھر پر رہ کر شوہر کے لیٸے زیب و زینت کرنا اور باہر کے مردوں سے پردہ کرنا یہ اسلامی تعلیمات ہیں۔
    جو وضاحت آپ دے رہے ہیں اس کے مطابق Males کو بھی humility کے لیٸے پردہ کرنا چاہیٸے۔
    یہ قرآن و حدیث سے باہر آپ concept کیوں بنا رہے ہیں۔
    سچ تو سچ ہوتا ہے۔

    • @logomogo5850
      @logomogo5850 2 года назад +4

      Brother aj kal her koi islamic scholar ban gya hai or basic concept he choor dea hai islam ka. Jab us☝🏻pak zaat ka hukam hai tau main ap ya koi bhi kon hota hai us ko sawal krny wala...modern islam k mutabik jab tak kisi cheez ki "sense" nahen banti tab tak loog is ko manany k liye he tiyar nahen hain or ye islam nahen hai

    • @truewords8873
      @truewords8873 2 года назад

      @@logomogo5850 right brother

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 2 года назад +1

      @@logomogo5850 esa hi hai bhai.

    • @sab-ali
      @sab-ali 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely. He is so wrong here. Actually he was trying to say that hijab is not a hindrance for a woman to become a leader but what he said to explain this was totally wrong. Hijab is not for humility. And men and women both try to look good and dress up. And women who are in hijab also do all those things to look good that other women do

    • @truewords8873
      @truewords8873 2 года назад

      @@sab-ali Brother, whatever is he saying, it can be said that these are side benefits of hijab but no doubt in the Holy Quran females have been particularly asked to take care of hijab for many reasons including safety. I dont know why Sir is accepting one benefit but denying an important one.
      Well it is interesting to know that males in the past civilization may be have used hijab too. One thing more which is funny as well that in very near past years as well as at present age many times few males misuse this hijab named burqa just to mislead and specially some criminal males misuse this hijab.

  • @link2yasmeen778
    @link2yasmeen778 Год назад +1

    Mard ko Nazar ki hifazat keon nhi sikhaty? Sari sakhti ort k leay hy?

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      You're against educating women?

  • @haroonmalar2473
    @haroonmalar2473 Год назад

    Aajkal mard bi cosmetic race me kam thodi na? 🤔

  • @rationalist8016
    @rationalist8016 2 года назад

    حجاب اسلام سے پہلے بھی تھا

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад

    This guy claims that hijab is fard and that its because aurat ko apni na pari ho and that how she looks. REALLY? Is that what Islam ACTUALLY says?
    Before Dr. Israr Ahmed shared his OWN opinions as Islamic and now this guy shares his OWN opinions as Islamic.

  • @leebreviews9217
    @leebreviews9217 2 года назад

    men also care about looks so why are they not wearing hijab

    • @Qamar_CA
      @Qamar_CA 11 месяцев назад

      Tu wo 2 takkay k hotay hain, konsa leader ban'tay hain? Gay he bantay hain,

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Read about men and women psychology then read about why Allah did not order men to do hijab
      If you can't bother to do research then you'll never be satisfied, which we all must

  • @amirabdullah3341
    @amirabdullah3341 Год назад

    Hijab nhi .
    Burqa ...burqa ka name parda hai

  • @safdarali8622
    @safdarali8622 2 года назад +1

    Ya galt explanation ha 🤣ku na hum khud ko smjen k hum kesy han. Nabi saw ny farmaya allah khubsurat ha or khubsurti ko pasnd krta ha.. parda krna chahye Orton ko geer mardon sy... SMH lagi

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Kia ghalat hai, btayen takey smjh aye mujhe

  • @Qaisersharif-lv1bb
    @Qaisersharif-lv1bb 7 месяцев назад

    Assalam
    O
    Aikumllacestacequarm
    Edcationanfislzmicmnowledge

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 2 года назад

    The whole looking good being a bad thing is a lame excuse for hijab…you are a good looking man, nice hair , and I am distracted and attracted looking at you…so why don’t you cover yourself? Women are EQUALLY sexually attracted to men and we find men good looking so why are you “ using” ur looks? Shouldn’t you be humble? …I’m sorry but it argumen there is highly flawed

  • @nasimrazzaq3959
    @nasimrazzaq3959 2 года назад +1

    Please Urdu main BAAT Karin.aasan Urdu main BAAT karien

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад +10

    If purpose of hijab niqbal and burqa is humility then Sahil Nadeem should wear it and encourage all his corporate clients to wear it so they can all be humbled.
    If purpose of hijab is to protect men from fitna then Surat Yusuf proves that women can be attracted to men so men should start wearing burqas.

    • @e.s.mansoor7205
      @e.s.mansoor7205 2 года назад +4

      Phir to mard ko bhi chye wo bacha pada kare
      Why u want competition with men both are different genders

    • @sadiahijazi9708
      @sadiahijazi9708 2 года назад +3

      Allah ka hukam hai Aurat kay liyay perday ka.... Allah knows better...

    • @sadiahijazi9708
      @sadiahijazi9708 2 года назад +3

      Allah ki raza k liyay ker lain perda. May Allah guide us all

    • @naeemkhan1951
      @naeemkhan1951 2 года назад +2

      maryam Very well answererd to sahil .I also adding ,Through out history Most world rulers built their empires with arogance and cruelty and these include so called muslim rulers as well.

    • @rameennoor2044
      @rameennoor2044 2 года назад

      Ye sahil adeem fitna hai logo ko gumrah krrha hai

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад +1

    Sahil Nadeem should do hijab so he can have humility and not focus on cosmetics ;-)

    • @sadiahijazi9708
      @sadiahijazi9708 2 года назад

      Sahil Nadeem is a Man. ALLAH has ordered women to remain in parda.. ALLAH knows better... Kyon hukam diya. Kya faida kya nuksaan..... Allah ki khushi sub say agay honi chahiyay....

  • @rameennoor2044
    @rameennoor2044 2 года назад

    Logo ko gumrah na kry Allah pak haidyat den apko parda aurat ko fitna se bachta hai ye humility bech main kha se aagya islam ko kahan ly kr jarhe hai q deen ko apny mutabiq chala rahe hai khuda ka khoof kry hijab ka asal maqsad btye logo ko

    • @ilovecats2796
      @ilovecats2796 7 месяцев назад

      Agr ap pari likhi hoti to pta hota ke hijab ke buhut sarey faide hain, jisko jo pasand ata hai wo us se attract hoke hijab le leti hai
      Kuch lrkion ko nhi smjh ati ek reason, to multiple faide btane parte hain deen ki taraf lane keliye

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад

    Where does Allah SWT says that humans should have humility first and then God will give them rutbay?
    If this guy is Muslim does he not fear Allah SWT that he keeps inventing things in Islam.

  • @rokun3167
    @rokun3167 2 года назад

    Promoting Fake Islam! ????

  • @najaf6095
    @najaf6095 2 года назад

    Hijab ke Ander to women's zayda makeup 💄 Karti Hain 😂

  • @maryamsiddique2142
    @maryamsiddique2142 2 года назад

    Women and fashin: A woman who wants to do a bit of fashion in Pakistan will be shown by this video by men in her family and they will tell her see Islam forbids you from fashion and you must do parda.
    Women and work: A woman in Pakistan who wants to have a job will be shown this video and men in her family will tell her see Islam is against working woman and the West makes women work to get tax so you should not work.
    Women and education: One day a woman will also be stopped from education due to Sahil Nadeems videos.
    But Sahil Nadeems women in his own family will carry on living a liberal life in a libeal country where MOST women dont do parda and have jobs.
    The same way Dr Israr Ahmed, Maududi and Qazi Hussain Ahmeds own children got Western education and wealth and exposure to other cultures.

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 2 года назад +1

      Hr cheez ka aik proper context hota hai. Agr society culture ki waja se Islam ka ghalat use krti hai to iska ye mtlb nhi hai k saray ulama aur da'ee qasoor waar hain. They only give fatwas based on what is conveyed to them (the situation). Agr koi uski basis pr ksi ko oppress kre ga to iska blame aalim pr nhi hai.
      And yes, the reason for hijab which Dr. Sahil touched upon, does not do justice to it, and does not cover the Islamic psychology.
      Baqi jahan tk fashion ki baat ki ap ne, to yes. Islam forbids fashion to attract opposite gender. No two ways around it. If that sounds like oppression to you, then it's your problem. No one is allowed to see your beauty except those who are lawful for you, and that's that. Throwing tantrums isn't going to help.
      Regarding job, then this depends on the situation. As a necessity women are allowed to work and earn livelihoods (widows or those who don't have anyone to care for them, the husband suffers from a terminal illness and his family can't or won't help you), but there are many who are just obsessed with building careers despite having no valid need, and have convinced themselves that being dependent on the husband is equivalent to making him a tyrant or a dictator over you, and therefore spend their lives competing with men. Hence, their personal, professional life as well as marriage life suffers badly. So, this distinction needs to be made. And that is mostly why our society does not view women working as something positive.
      About "education", then forming opinions on hypotheticals and at the same time holding the da'ee as responsible for it, is not exactly a mature move. Education k naam pr aj kal jo hota hai wo ap ko bhi achay se pata hai, aur mujhay bhi pta hai. Jb tk ye co-education wala menace khtm nhi hoga, society (muslim) education pr object krti rahay gi, because co-education is un-Islamic, and will remain un-Islamic. Yes, we don't have enough resources to provide separate and good-quality education services for women, aur isi wajah se these problems are happening, and won't be rectified anytime soon. So, there are many factors at play. Don't be shallow. It's not black-and-white and not everything is oppression.