HOW TO APOLOGIZE TO YOUR CAT 🔥

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024
  • Have you ever accidentally hurt your cat? Maybe you stepped on their tail, tripped over them, or shouted in a moment of frustration. It’s natural to feel guilty and want to make things right. In this video, we’ll show you the best ways to apologize to your feline friend and restore your bond.
    What You Will Learn:
    Understanding Cat Apologies: Do cats have their own way of saying sorry? Find out how cats mend their relationships.
    Effective Apology Techniques: Learn how to approach your cat, read their body language, and use the right tone and treats to show you’re truly sorry.
    Rebuilding Trust: Discover tips for regaining your cat’s trust after a stressful incident or visit to the vet.
    Avoiding Common Mistakes: Understand actions that can unintentionally damage your cat’s trust and how to avoid them.
    Showing Affection: Best practices for showing your cat love and care to strengthen your relationship.
    Why This Video Is Important:
    Cats are unique creatures with distinct ways of thinking and communicating. While they might not understand apologies like humans, they do understand love and affection. Reconnecting with your cat and reassuring them of your intentions is crucial for a harmonious relationship.
    I hope you enjoy the video! 💜

Комментарии • 110

  • @TheCuriousCatt
    @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад +33

    Enjoyed the video and don't want to miss the next one? 😻
    Then give a 'thumbs up' to the video and subscribe to the channel!
    Thank you so much for watching the video! 💜

    • @LunaireFee9
      @LunaireFee9 2 месяца назад

      AMEN,Thank GOD. YOUR HELP ME FOREVER AMEN🎉

    • @LunaireFee9
      @LunaireFee9 2 месяца назад

      Good morning, everyone.❤🎉

    • @alvaroq2024
      @alvaroq2024 2 месяца назад

      I have 2 four month old kittens that think I’m their daddy! All they know is me since their momma was unfortunately killed in the woods. I’m a dog person and having dogs and cats in da house getting along makes my day, everyday. ❤
      They get apologies from me everyday and they just wanna play. Too young at 4 months I guess.

    • @ellielai173
      @ellielai173 2 месяца назад

      I needed to watch this vid

    • @Mixs_games
      @Mixs_games 2 месяца назад

      Meow

  • @georgesos
    @georgesos 3 месяца назад +79

    I found that blinking is indeed very helpful not just for apologising but also for making your cat(s) relaxed.

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад +9

      True! 💜

    • @cherylmcnutt9905
      @cherylmcnutt9905 3 месяца назад +10

      Jackson Galaxy calls it a “kitty kiss.”

    • @SummerDragonski
      @SummerDragonski 2 месяца назад +2

      I've noticed the same thing with my both of my cats.

    • @RepublicFREEman
      @RepublicFREEman 2 месяца назад +1

      blinking is used to communicate between cats. Way different wave lengths. Does not work with humans,.

    • @Sweetiegamess
      @Sweetiegamess 2 месяца назад +3

      When you blink at your cat slowly it means "I love you"

  • @drummergurl99
    @drummergurl99 2 месяца назад +14

    I used to hold my cat against her will when I was younger (just giving her love) but she hated it and wanted nothing to do with me. When I got to be around 17-19 I stopped. Nothing happened for a year or so but eventually she came up to me asking for me to pick her up and she has done it every day since. She comes and stands (on her hind legs) either on my leg or against a counter and she paws and meows at me xD I gave her space and respect and now she’s obsessed with me 🤣

  • @sammy4538
    @sammy4538 3 месяца назад +37

    Some 10 years ago I started to take care of one local stray cat living in the forest, winter was coming and I had started to hear cat fights on my yard after dark. When went to look around, always saw this same cat there and some other running away. Started feeding it and finally lured it inside the house. Had seen it as kitten in nearby forest some 8 months earlier, so wasn't fully adult yet, also quite spicy at first. Later he calmed down and could already touch him, but was still mostly just hiding somewhere in the house.
    I was sleeping nights on sofa in the living room to make him more used to me, and at times could hear him walking around and sniffing around me - we were clearly making progress. Then on one night woke up on scratch sounds, saw cat standing on top of the backrest and staring at me... slowly he started to climb down on top of me, all time staring, and then laid down on my chest. Closed my eyes and we started sleeping, was very happy he finally gave his trust - was like from some movie! Or atleast I thought so then...
    Some few hours later woke up again - this time on some odd discomfort, tried to fix blanket which felt bad under me and stuffed it more tightly. After a few minutes of struggle to get a better posture, I started to also hear some odd sounds, woke up a bit better and realized what was going on - I had turned on stomach while sleeping, cat was now under my full weight, struggling to wrestle out to safety... obviously I immediately let the cat free, he left like he was shot out of a cannon and ran downstairs absolutely terrified...
    After his very first attempt to get close went like that, it took a LOT of effort to get his trust back, sure needed to learn how to apologize a cat lol... Took some time but all ended well, he's the nicest cat ever and still lives here, nowdays he even climbs on top of my chest when I go to sleep - but he never stays, after a few minutes he always climbs down and sleeps next to me instead.

    • @aliboudoukha2573
      @aliboudoukha2573 2 месяца назад +3

      Thanks for helping people with cats & cats them selfes. You may not notice you did help families with cats that punish & let them know what they are doing. Or a cat shelter, normal famlies who want to be a good family for the filine. Let cats be there selves and we will see the good & cuteness in them. a lesson I learned from my cat😂i want to share with you my lesson dear cat owners for a beautiful bond with them and wish you a good great day and enjoy your day ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amyisrael7718
    @amyisrael7718 3 месяца назад +34

    When cats are “embarrassed” they quickly lick themselves. Leg or paw or side. My one cat does apologize by headbutting me around the legs. The other cat never does anything needing an apology so she just sits close to me. Cats also recognize many words and/or sign language

    • @RepublicFREEman
      @RepublicFREEman 2 месяца назад +2

      headbutting is not apologizing. It's a social and recognize me and/hello speak.
      If you think that headbutting is an apology you are the problem!
      Because you attacked your cat.

  • @lawriefoster5587
    @lawriefoster5587 Месяц назад

    I dearly love cats!! Miss those who have passed, but they do visit us.

  • @ZarekIhsan
    @ZarekIhsan 2 месяца назад +6

    She’s making biscuits. So cuuuuute!❤

  • @marcuskelly5768
    @marcuskelly5768 2 месяца назад +6

    Just, never hurt your cat. They are very sensitive. Your relationship builds over time, but can break with one bad incident. Trust is everything

  • @jamesleatherwood5125
    @jamesleatherwood5125 3 месяца назад +21

    how long do cats stay angry... well... I have a six year old cat that my brother gave a bathe to when she was 6 months old, and to this day, she absolutely wont let him near her. lol

  • @Si_quazz
    @Si_quazz Месяц назад +1

    I under stand this just makes me feel calm

  • @NPGLAMB
    @NPGLAMB 3 месяца назад +35

    I got mad at my cat because he knocked something irreplaceable on the floor. I yelled at him and he meowed sadly and went under the bed. Now I feel so sad and I might cry. I put on a video with that piano cat music that has videos with cats on it and he’s still under the bed. Now I’m going to watch your video and hope I can say sorry to my cat 😢

    • @Squirrellium
      @Squirrellium 2 месяца назад +6

      Give your cat a treat and just say I'm sorry, forgive me. I will try not doing that again.

    • @NPGLAMB
      @NPGLAMB 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Squirrellium I did that and he forgave me

    • @Isntmycatcute
      @Isntmycatcute 2 месяца назад +2

      Had a simiiar problem, i lit up a candle and closed the door, but somehow when i came back the door was open and my cat was trying to touch the candle, i screamed so loud my mom came RUNNING, i gave her treats and she forgave me lolol

    • @mrt_pose
      @mrt_pose 2 месяца назад

      ​@@FCX_dragonzThen why did you comment to share your thoughts

    • @NPGLAMB
      @NPGLAMB Месяц назад

      @@FCX_dragonz you lack empathy for other people

  • @jaylu7021
    @jaylu7021 3 месяца назад +13

    My cat apologizes to me sometimes when he accidentally scratches or bites me. He usually meows at me and start bunting my legs. I love my little guy, but he is a wild thing sometimes.

  • @RachelLyne-r1g
    @RachelLyne-r1g 3 месяца назад +9

    Try baking a chicken use carrots and celery use low sodium broth. Steam carrots and celery. Use a food processor to make it.

  • @Awibrahor
    @Awibrahor 3 месяца назад +15

    I’d like to apologise to my cat, unreservedly and humbly, for having raised my voice over our political differences.

    • @Gvsvillages
      @Gvsvillages 2 месяца назад

      Let's hope your cat reads this.

    • @Silsen9
      @Silsen9 Месяц назад

      😂

  • @jen.nightingale
    @jen.nightingale 3 месяца назад +19

    I'm so glad to know that many cats don't like to be picked up. My 4-year-old Freddie doesn't like to be picked up, doesn't cuddle with me or lay next to me or even sleep with me, and he actually is still a little bit skittish even with me; however the Humane Society from which I adopted him said that he was feral. Am I to assume that these behaviors are because of that?😮

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад +10

      Probably this is his personality, don't worry. 😸

    • @LuckyDragon805
      @LuckyDragon805 3 месяца назад +3

      I always get cats to love being held. Never fails… I love to hold them over my chest/shoulder and they ultimately love it too! 😻 Give them enough time and trust and… Trust is key!

    • @EggeTrefinneJ
      @EggeTrefinneJ 3 месяца назад +3

      Don’t worry my 9 year old orange boy,Sully, is the same way with me. I’ve had him since he was 5 weeks old. He’s always been this way. I have to give him anxiety medication every day and he hates it. ❤

    • @johnnieadelby6913
      @johnnieadelby6913 3 месяца назад +4

      My male cat also hates being picked up. Whereas my female cat loves it. They are siblings and have had the same upbringing but are very different in their behaviour.

    • @cherylmcnutt9905
      @cherylmcnutt9905 3 месяца назад

      @@EggeTrefinneJMy cat was semi-feral, but was pretty calm in our old home But that all changed when I had to move. He’s better with me, but a friend who helped me pack and move, not so much. It’s been 2 years and he still hisses at her.
      WRT giving medication, I have to give him thyroid pills twice a day. He got tired of taking them with pill pockets last year. I found these new cat treats that work great now, called CHURU or Delicious Delectables. They remind me a little of meat baby food. They come in slim packets around 6” inches long. You can Google them. I put each pill in a small dish with some water (1/2 oz.?) Wait about 5 mins. for the pill to dissolve in the water. Then I push the packet contents into the dish and stir in to mix with water. I tell him “it’s time for your medicine.” He comes right over and laps up the whole thing. If he occasionally leaves a little, I’ll just put a treat or two on top and he licks up what’s left while getting the treat . It’s SO much easier than trying to give him pills. You might want to try it! Good luck!

  • @bmarie216
    @bmarie216 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for this video. I really enjoyed it. 😀👍🏻

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад

      I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😸💜

  • @lorenkilldeer8218
    @lorenkilldeer8218 3 месяца назад +4

    I have two cats, that I kinda "adopted" from my partner, ever since we started dating and now that we have been living together for almost a year. One was a very violent cat that would scratch and hiss anyone near her. With lots of play and even more patience she opened up to me and became a very cuddly and loving cat.
    The other one is way more difficult. She is very shy and very scared all the time, I managed to make her less anxious with playing and rewarding with treats, but if, for example, we meet in the hallway, she would suddenly be very scared and try to escape. She has always been this way, and sometimes it gets on my nerves. What I tried that works is to stop and crouch to make myself smaller and stay put in place so instead of running away she can walk around me.
    She wont do this in any other situation or in any other parts of the house. I did realice that cleaning makes her super anxious and she goes into escaping mode, running from room to room and back, so I usually try not to clean in the room she is in, like, I'd close that room and clean and she'd feel safer. She also doesn't like music, unless it's very soft.
    But I don't know how to make her less anxious all the time and more confortable. Could you give me any tips? I'll start to implement saying sorry everytime I scare her (this morning she started running back and forth the rooms because I wanted to clean the office before work, and I apologised like you said in the video. She is way calmer now that I'm not sweeping the floors, so it was easy to interact and pet her a little.

  • @kathleendavidson3316
    @kathleendavidson3316 3 месяца назад +6

    I haven't watched this video (yet) but I'm guessing it doesn't involve running around the apartment yelling, "Come back! I need to apologize to you!!!"
    Now off to watch the video 😄

    • @kathleendavidson3316
      @kathleendavidson3316 3 месяца назад +3

      Okay, so no more running or yelling. Good news is all three walk around with their tails straight up, except for the tip, and love frequent attention from me. Thanks for the tips!

  • @SheilaMacchiaroli
    @SheilaMacchiaroli 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you I learned so much about my little one. And my self.

  • @jaydedjen110
    @jaydedjen110 2 месяца назад +4

    I tripped over my kitten last night and the screech she let out broke my heart... She got a lot of treats as an apology cause I felt so bad.

  • @FarOutPizzaCat
    @FarOutPizzaCat Месяц назад

    My cat understands alot of human words like:sorry, hi, i love you, foods ready and the most important one : ✨no✨

  • @gwenarterbridge449
    @gwenarterbridge449 3 месяца назад +2

    Love this video! Thanks ❤

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😸💜

  • @ratihdardo2834
    @ratihdardo2834 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for your explanation🙏

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  2 месяца назад

      I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😸💜

  • @houseoftreasurellc8056
    @houseoftreasurellc8056 2 месяца назад +2

    Slowly and gently brush your cat...they like that and helps with grooming

  • @nasersabzali
    @nasersabzali 2 месяца назад +1

    I never want to hurt you! All I do is to open a door...! If I hurt you accidentally, I am really sorry!
    With love, kiss you.

  • @buckety47
    @buckety47 2 месяца назад

    my cat apologizes to me by meowing, purring, and sleeping next to me by the way, why does this have 43 dislikes? i'm the first and only person to like i think 💔

  • @timothytremblay7763
    @timothytremblay7763 2 месяца назад

    I have observed all these mannerisms in all my cats and have found them to me more like people than all other animals. They are more honest than most people though, I've also observed, sadly.

  • @sadiashad4073
    @sadiashad4073 Месяц назад

    Ty I need this because I am gonna get a cat soon so this will help

  • @johnbuschman8815
    @johnbuschman8815 2 месяца назад

    I love these babies!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Joannie

  • @Mixs_games
    @Mixs_games 2 месяца назад +2

    *gasp* meow!
    Edit:eliotdeonier3206, WDYM?

    • @elliotdeonier3206
      @elliotdeonier3206 2 месяца назад +1

      Stop being catastrophe

    • @Mixs_games
      @Mixs_games 2 месяца назад +1

      𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭?

  • @campbellbishop3651
    @campbellbishop3651 Месяц назад

    My cats are dumb but I love them and I want too say sorry because I love them ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @notshamma7709
    @notshamma7709 Месяц назад

    OH TYSMMM I ALWAYS CARRIED MY CAT NOW THAT I LEARNED MY LESSON ILL NOT DO IT BUT I DONT REALLY CARE IF HE BITES ME BUT TY😊

  • @KerryJames-l6z
    @KerryJames-l6z 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you❤

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  3 месяца назад

      I thank you for your presence here in the channel! 💜

  • @lolangtamad8591
    @lolangtamad8591 3 месяца назад

    My 4 months kitten always comes to me purring,kneading his claws on my face and neck and I don’t understand something that he does like he will put his mouth on my neck or just kiss me on the lips 🤣 But i always stop the lips thing because i feel his nose is wet . He always do that whenever he is sleepy then after like 5 minutes he will go down beside me then say meow the. Sleep. But one thing he doesn’t really like is belly rub and picking him up. He will come anytime but don’t pick him up🤣He sleeps on the headboard of our bed . And in the morning he will come to me stepping on my face , showing his butt and moving around just to wake me up.i give him food then go to sleep again. When i wake up he is sleeping beside me . But sometimes i can’t help myself giving him kisses on his cheeks or head. The cuteness makes me hug him so bad🤣sometimes we accidentally hit them unintentionally like one time he bit my ti*s i was shoked and in pain so i automatically got mad. But after that i just gave him food and talked in lower voice . Even if we fo not want to hit or shout sometimes it just happens accidentally. One thing i noticed is the cat feels ur heart. They know how much love u can give. And so they stay and love u back. Mistakes happens.. but we can make it right and avoid doing it again as much as possible

  • @jillhargrave-george4510
    @jillhargrave-george4510 2 месяца назад +5

    Rule no1..do not treat a cat like a dog..!

  • @Yourfav_person2024
    @Yourfav_person2024 Месяц назад +1

    Do I have I cat no did I watch the whole thing yes

  • @aliboudoukha2573
    @aliboudoukha2573 2 месяца назад

    I miss my cat but I'm not where I live. (for the summer) I promise my cat food, cuddles, & all he loves. Maybe I am crazy, how much times I made my cat homes&toys I invent food for him & share my lunch. My cat (cutie) is a gift from god it's to all of us in our family a family member. I am crazy for cats. I know he will never forget me.

  • @RAHMA-fc7vn
    @RAHMA-fc7vn 2 месяца назад +1

    I still didn't do anything what if I mistakenly step on my tail but they lay down everywhere
    That is why I m getting ready to say sorry lol😂
    But thank you for the useful video 😊

    • @TheCuriousCatt
      @TheCuriousCatt  2 месяца назад

      I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😄🧡

  • @christopherbrown8319
    @christopherbrown8319 Месяц назад

    I would never apologize to my cat or kitten

  • @mrxyz2k
    @mrxyz2k 3 месяца назад +2

    4:30 a place not filled with its smell 🤔

  • @catkeys6911
    @catkeys6911 3 месяца назад +1

    Wait 'till it gets hungry again. Feed it, and all is forgiven. It's simple- but, then, so is a pussycat brain. LOL- I *love* my cat, and I do my best to NOT do anything requiring pussycat forgiveness.

  • @alexandrianova6298
    @alexandrianova6298 2 месяца назад

    My cats bother me too much, happy to say I don't have to apologize to my kitties

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 2 месяца назад

    Feline offence Sweet lol😂

  • @snetzgaming
    @snetzgaming 2 месяца назад

    3:00 the cat on the left looks so aggressive!

  • @Cat_Earth1
    @Cat_Earth1 Месяц назад +1

    Actually how I apologize to my cats Is by petting them

  • @zuhalergun2038
    @zuhalergun2038 2 месяца назад

    New sub!!!!!❤❤❤😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @احمدحمودي-ف2ط7ح
    @احمدحمودي-ف2ط7ح 2 месяца назад

    I'm personally apologize to a cat before

  • @Kistany
    @Kistany 3 месяца назад +5

    What if your cat doesn't like anything else but cat food

  • @Upgradadtitanspeakerman
    @Upgradadtitanspeakerman 2 месяца назад +1

    Why dose that orange cat look like my cat?

  • @baskingkhan8261
    @baskingkhan8261 Месяц назад

    I’ve never hurt my cat besides pushing him away from a candle when he was trying to touch it and my cat was fine so I doubt I hurt it

  • @Kistany
    @Kistany 3 месяца назад +7

    Cats are little babies

  • @Abdul-COPYCRAFTER
    @Abdul-COPYCRAFTER 2 месяца назад

    Look in cat's eyes and when they look in your eyes move your eyes and see something else do it 2/3 times. Apologize in cat language and they'll understand.

  • @AmnahAlamri
    @AmnahAlamri 2 месяца назад

    Well, I was I was in my bed my cat cuddle withme for apologising to me.

  • @gr8witenorth61
    @gr8witenorth61 3 месяца назад

    i have two bombay cats, they act as if im the worse human they have ever met, and yet i try to give them every chance possible to show them they are loved. why are they scared of me, and rarely engage in consolment, they rarely sleep on my bed unless i put them there, and even at that its a polite walk off.
    also sometimes my cats eyes are golden and other times they are green, is this a day/night thingy ???????

  • @TiaAlTabbaa
    @TiaAlTabbaa 2 месяца назад

    😭😭😭😭

  • @funny_and_cute_animals369
    @funny_and_cute_animals369 2 месяца назад

    I stepped on my cat's tail and when i apologised he always sleeps on my legs when i lay down😅

  • @STAR-kg3os
    @STAR-kg3os 3 месяца назад +2

    I apologized to my cat by giving him his favorite food 😍

  • @TiaAlTabbaa
    @TiaAlTabbaa 2 месяца назад +1

    My cat 🐈 crying 😿 what to do

  • @bharatchandrapal1643
    @bharatchandrapal1643 Месяц назад

    I don't have a cat😂😂😂

  • @emankhan6094
    @emankhan6094 2 месяца назад

    Cat put not can guy gril s cats