Our Trying To Conceive Journey-7 Months of Footage

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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    This is not an easy video for me to post. I've been nervous for weeks at the thought of this going up. The purpose for this video is to show that trying to get pregnant isn't always as easy and glamorized as some people make it out to be. This is a very personal video, I hope you can all respect my choices and journey. When God's timing is perfect our little baby will come. Until then we are enjoying being newly married and trusting in God's timing.
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Комментарии • 434

  • @SweetEmelynes
    @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +337

    I can't even describe how nervous I am to post this video. I've felt God telling me to share my journey but to be honest, I've been so scared to upload this. Thinking of what people have said in the past and opening up such a personal wound for so many to judge is very scary for me. I hope you can all respect what I am going through. I know many of you tell me "you're only 26 stop rushing it" or "you just got married you have to learn each other first", having a baby is something that connor and I have wanted for so so long. I will delete comments that are not necessary. I LOVE you guys so so much who support me. This video is not intended for sympathy, I really felt that I needed to share my journey so other women could feel less alone. I love watching these types of videos to feel connected. xo

    • @DalainaRenee
      @DalainaRenee 4 года назад +1

      SweetEmelyne's thanks for sharing with us

    • @BriarCottage
      @BriarCottage 4 года назад +1

      I love you so much💕

    • @blssdmmm1
      @blssdmmm1 4 года назад +3

      My daughter has PCOS and she "finally"(her words,not mine,lol) got pregnant at 26,so nothing but love and understanding from this side.

    • @abijames
      @abijames 4 года назад

      SweetEmelyne's Sending prayers of comfort and peace of mind. it will all happen on His time.

    • @Wobblewobble122
      @Wobblewobble122 4 года назад +1

      Thank you for the courage you show by sharing this. I had 3 miscarriages in the span of one year. We started to do testing for both my husband and I to see if there was something going on. Nothing came up. Finally, after 1+ years, we finally brought our rainbow baby into the world! I did learn I needed to take progesterone for the first 16 weeks. So I recommend seeing if there is a test for the progesterone levels! Good luck :)

  • @alyssahorton5296
    @alyssahorton5296 4 года назад +93

    This is why I always tell people never ask “when are you having kids” or “Do you want kids” because you never know if something like this is happening.

  • @katiexxpaige
    @katiexxpaige 4 года назад +126

    The deep pitted feeling of a negative pregnancy test is something I will never forget. It's something very few people talk about. Praying for you and your beautiful family.

    • @julietgikhinmwin5231
      @julietgikhinmwin5231 3 года назад +2

      This was what I went through this morning, I was two days late on my period, was feeling bloated and double, I had all the signs and symptoms of pregnancy from nausea to fatigue and I could literally feel that there was another life breathing inside of me, I was so sure I was pregnant and mu husband was already to so excited only for me to carry out a pregnancy test and it came out negative, one hour later my period started, I can't even explain how I feel and I can never forget the look of worry and disappointment on my husband's face, life is so cruel😭😭😭

    • @lolarodgers2961
      @lolarodgers2961 2 года назад

      @@julietgikhinmwin5231 have you had any luck since then? It took a few months of trying but my periods were always a little late or early each month so i didn’t test until a week after and it still wasn’t coming up a promising positive but finally it was super positive. However there were complications and we had to say goodbye at 13.5 weeks. Thankfully we hadn’t announced yet. I’m 29 so I feel like I’m running behind on time but I need time to heal so we are waiting a little while. It was traumatizing and honestly just made me want a baby more. They were due September 10th of this year so it’s coming up on a year since we got pregnant in December. Makes me sad because of obvious reasons but also because I’m a September baby and was so excited to share it.

  • @rhiannonrunyan4157
    @rhiannonrunyan4157 4 года назад +74

    And I agree the hardest part is when people ask you about it. Why you dont have kids or when youre going to have kids. People dont realize that questions like that can be hurtful

  • @melanieram
    @melanieram 4 года назад +132

    God knows when the time is right em💕

  • @yasarivillalobos
    @yasarivillalobos 4 года назад +169

    I tried to get pregnant with my husband for a year, I know how it feels to do this every month and it’s always negative. My mom recommended me to go get my hips checked with a chiropractor because she thought maybe my hips where open or displaced which she said that could cause someone to not be able to get pregnant, I don’t know if that is true but I went and the chiropractor told me my hips were pretty bad. He cracked my hips and put them back how they should be and I didn’t think much of it until that same month my period was late which wasn’t unusual so I didn’t really want to take a test because it was always negative and I felt extremely discouraged. Anyway I caved and bought a test, I knew it would say negative, that’s what it always was but I was wrong, when I looked at the test there were two extremely dark lines... I cried for so long because I couldn’t believe it. Have faith, it really will come at the right time, God’s timing is perfect, now I have a 2 year old boy who I love so much❤️ soon you will get there! Much love!

    • @PinkPaws88
      @PinkPaws88 4 года назад +4

      Girl same here I really suggest anyone trying to conceive try a chiropractor because it helped me TWICE I have a 2 year old daughter and a 6 month old son

    • @yasarivillalobos
      @yasarivillalobos 4 года назад +2

      Ashley Elle yes!!!! Definitely agree! No one ever thinks to get their body checked by a chiropractor!! It’s very important if trying to conceive.

    • @carolinalimon7700
      @carolinalimon7700 4 года назад +1

      This happened to me too! Did the same thing ^ and got pregnant the next month💙💖

  • @plumcrazy3762
    @plumcrazy3762 4 года назад +32

    I would highly recommend reading the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler
    Great resource book with lots of info. It worked for me. Hoping it works for you.

  • @brendaduran1428
    @brendaduran1428 4 года назад +38

    i completely know where you are coming from girl. My husband and I had a few miscarriages and have been trying for over 2 years. But God is so faithful, He has filled me with hope and comfort and reassurance! It's a rough season, but i know our rainbow babe is coming! And your blessing is too! Hold on to God! He is such a good father!

    • @brendaduran1428
      @brendaduran1428 4 года назад +4

      Update; just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant! 💛🙌🏻 God is faithful! Praying & believing this baby will stick!

  • @ALLISONBICKERSTAFF
    @ALLISONBICKERSTAFF 4 года назад +54

    You are an angel on earth & will be such an incredible mama. 💛 Thank you for sharing your raw story & love with the world!

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +1

      A L L I S O N thank you so much Allison ♥️♥️

  • @aceofhearts0
    @aceofhearts0 4 года назад +28

    This is why I haven't told anyone that me and my husband are trying to have kids cuz people are just too curious

  • @melissanicole3309
    @melissanicole3309 4 года назад +68

    I’m getting my Birth control removed next month and this is something that worries me only because I’m in my early 30s. My husband and I are firm believers of Gods timing as well. Thank you for posting this video and the information ❤️

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +9

      God's timing is always perfect as you know! I wish you and your husband the best on your journey!

    • @Kpup
      @Kpup 4 года назад +11

      Your early 30's is the perfect time to conceive! Please don't let people scare you about being "too old" even my wonderful OBGYN says it's overinflated. You're going to be just fine!

    • @melissanicole3309
      @melissanicole3309 4 года назад +1

      SweetEmelyne's Thank You 🙏

    • @melissanicole3309
      @melissanicole3309 4 года назад +2

      Kristy Joy Thank You so much. I needed to hear this. I only ever hear negative stories and feels so good to hear that information ❤️

    • @Udodelig
      @Udodelig 4 года назад +2

      My sister is 31 and just had her first baby. Don't sweat it! Good luck!

  • @mdelourdes
    @mdelourdes 4 года назад +53

    You’re not alone, sis 💕 thank you so much for sharing

  • @theclarks2856
    @theclarks2856 4 года назад +9

    My husband & I are in the same place as you. I’m 26 & him 25. We’ve been married almost a year & been trying for about 6 months. Every month is heartbreak but I heard this encouragement & it’s something I keep in the back of my mind. “God knows your children before they are born, they wouldn’t be your children if they came to early or to late, their time is their time, so one day when you are looking at your children remember how long you prayed for them & how grateful you are for the time they came because that’s what makes them them”. I hope that makes sense. We all exist because we were suppose to when we were suppose to. God bless 💛 I’ll be praying for you.

    • @hilary6520
      @hilary6520 Год назад

      Thank you for sharing this, I needed to read it! God bless you.

    • @theclarks2856
      @theclarks2856 Год назад +1

      @Hilary of course, i hope god blesses you in many ways. Another light at the end of this journey is my first born is about to celebrate his 1st birthday this month & he will be a big brother in june! I wouldn't change the 2 years of waiting for anything now ❤️ remember jesus is never late. He has plans to give us hope and a future

  • @katherinewinkler8847
    @katherinewinkler8847 4 года назад +18

    Negative tests can be so depressing! I cry everytime

  • @kelseywagner8280
    @kelseywagner8280 4 года назад +2

    I am so glad I watched this video. My husband and I having been TTC since June 2019. Hearing someone else that I don’t even know say everything I have felt for the past almost 9 months now is incredibly comforting. I don’t know what your TTC status is now.... but, THANK YOU. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing this.

  • @lynne9321
    @lynne9321 4 года назад +17

    We have almost the same story, my husband and I have been trying for almost 7 months,such a rollercoaster you dont realize how much you truly want a child until you don't get one. Just gotta keep reassuring, God controls the womb. His timing is perfect.

  • @stephaniesweet2708
    @stephaniesweet2708 4 года назад +10

    My husband and I waiting a long time to start trying, it took over a year. I honestly was starting to lose hope, I thought we would have to adopt. But I’m now 7 months pregnant I’m 33 and a first time mom. Please don’t lose hope.

  • @madelineolivo4804
    @madelineolivo4804 4 года назад +17

    Even tho I'm not married and I dont want children, i felt all of your emotions it's really hard when you want something and dont get it especially when a couple wants a kid and cant have one. You guys keep your heads up it will happen soon you are a lovely young lady and a beautiful cute couple ❤ keep praying and trusting god and everything else will fall in its place.

  • @Centerpiecegardens
    @Centerpiecegardens 4 года назад +1

    It took my husband and me 10 months, when you're going through it I know how long it feels. However, it really made me realize how we are NOT in control of our own lives. God is in control, and he knows the right time. When I finally did get pregnant I was so much more appreciative of the life I got to carry and God's blessing. Each conception of a child is truly a miracle, and it's not always immediate for everyone!

  • @juliarose4553
    @juliarose4553 4 года назад +8

    I’m so glad you decided to share this! God knows when the time is right and there’s always a bigger plan ahead! 🥰🙏🏻

  • @stillsleeping426
    @stillsleeping426 4 года назад +12

    i had a hard time getting pregnant for a long time so did my twin sister she has pcos she lost more than 10 lbs and she got pregnant.. years later i gained alot of weight and had a hard time and then i went on weight watchers lost more than 10 lbs also and started taking prenatal vitamins and then got pregnant right away ..at 30 years old i had my first son

  • @Ethereal-lover
    @Ethereal-lover 4 года назад +23

    Me and my fiancé have been trying for 7 months now. I’m trying so hard not to lose hope. It’s extremely so hard to see that negative test every month.

  • @a.r.4939
    @a.r.4939 4 года назад +4

    Hello Emelyne! I literally never comment but I've been watching your videos since 2013. I just want to say that I will keep you and Connor in my prayers. It is a heavy cross to carry, but please do not give up hope. There are no limits to God's love and His grace. May God bless you and your family.

  • @SidneyMontano1995
    @SidneyMontano1995 4 года назад +5

    I never comment on RUclips videos, but you spoke straight to my heart. Thank you for being brave and for sharing your story ❤️

  • @halliestein4972
    @halliestein4972 4 года назад +34

    With timing, maybe the timing isn’t about you alone, but also about your future child? Maybe that sweet baby needs to be born at a specific time because he/she needs to be born into a specific generation. He/she will change the world in his/her own way and God is going to bring them at the perfect time not only for you but for them.

    • @natalieputnam9811
      @natalieputnam9811 4 года назад +1

      Hallie Stein I’m not trying to be funny, maybe God didn’t want them to have to struggle with the pandemic and a little one

  • @christyhintz5699
    @christyhintz5699 4 года назад +2

    You are definitely not alone. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We finally decided to stop trying, we bought a gym membership and went on with life. Low and behold 2 months after I was pregnant. Dont stress yourself out and try so hard honey. Let it happen, enjoy life, it will happen!!!

  • @montanarae3605
    @montanarae3605 4 года назад +4

    I feel this so hard. We got married in August and our plan was always to get pregnant soon after but it still hasn’t happened yet. All our friends and family are telling us to wait and not have kids yet buts it’s something we both really want and it’s frustrating and discouraging. It’s also really hard to vent when people around us don’t want us to have kids yet so they don’t understand or care.

  • @runahorsey
    @runahorsey 4 года назад +6

    Sweet girl, god isn’t punishing you because you like sugar. Biologically, some people have a hard time. It will happen, it might require a little medical intervention, but it will happen.
    It’s not really a matter of “If you’re supposed to get pregnant you will,” that’s the kind of mentality that’s damaging to people that have been TTC for a while.

  • @daemein
    @daemein 4 года назад +4

    I just want to give you a big hug. My husband and I waited 10 years for our miracle. I applaud your willingness to share your journey. So many people experience this, but it's still very taboo, and part of the difficulty is feeling alone. You are not alone. I don't really want to offer much advice, because each woman's journey is so different, but I will say, if you think you might need fertility treatment, start saving up. What they can test for and treat these days is amazing, but even with good insurance it can be pricey. I will also say that it is very common to feel like this is a roller coaster, and sometimes things will take you by surprise. I found Mother's Day to be difficult, and there were times I got really mad at God. Just try to be gentle with yourself, and don't be afraid to seek counseling if you need it. I wish I had. I also know a lot of people who go through this blame themselves, so I hope you will remember that this is not your fault. I will pray that you conceive quickly and easily. God bless.

  • @CHarmon99
    @CHarmon99 4 года назад +12

    I would love to continue hearing about your journey. Thank you for sharing. Everything will work out for you eventually. You are such a strong person and I don't know how you posted this video.

  • @daliaescobedo9220
    @daliaescobedo9220 3 года назад +1

    Thnak you so much for sharing your story, we are currently in our TTC journey, and many of the things you mentioned resonated with me, it is so easy to stress and test and test and count every single thing and be afraid of everything ruining your pregnancy, specially when like us we went through a MC, but I have decided to relax focus on me and my projects and just stop myself from putting my life in hold waiting to get pregnant, again thank you for sharing ❤️

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  • @RaceMama77
    @RaceMama77 2 года назад

    I am thankful for this video. Thank you for posting it. I feel this 100% right now. Praying for you and your husband during this journey.

  • @AprilBaby2011
    @AprilBaby2011 4 года назад +13

    Emelyne first I want to say thank you for having the courage to post this video I have no doubt you will help so many people. Secondly, I can relate to everything you said in this video. My husband and I have been TTC since July and every month that goes by I get a little more anxious. One of the hardest parts for me is that I got pregnant with my daughter (in 2010) by “accident” and total surprise and we weren’t even trying. (With my ex) and so now that my husband and I really want another child and we’re actually trying .... for it to not happen each month is really hard. I totally understand when you said that because of the unknown you sort of want to rush it.. in a way. Because who knows how long it will take us, or you. And that is what terrifies me. I am pretty similar to you in the sense that I’m definitely a planner to. My husband and I were expecting to get pregnant the first month we tried and now it’s December and we’ve been trying since July and ... nothing :( each month that AF comes I cry the first day and then just like you said, usually by the 2nd or 3rd day I start to feel a bit better and think ok, let’s try again. For me the biggest thing that has helped me get through uncertainty is trusting in God. Knowing that His timing is perfect and that He doesn’t make mistakes. I know that ultimately God already has all of this planned out and I just ask God daily to help me to be more patient and trust in His timing. If you ever need someone to talk to I’m always here (my Instagram is mrs.penwarn) thanks again so much for your honesty and pouring your heart into this video. I’ll be praying that you get your BFP soon. ❤️❤️❤️

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  • @marnellhoemann8452
    @marnellhoemann8452 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your heart!! I really really needed this!!! We are on the same journey! I have the same ups and downs as well. I’m trusting to get to a place of peace with Gods timing and plan for me life. It’s so so hard, but this is so powerful and so encouraging! I couldn’t agree with you more when you mentioned you wish you had someone around your age to talk to about the journey! I always wish I could talk to someone who truly understands my journey. I admire your boldness and I just wanna say I love you’re obedience to the Lord because I felt like you were speaking right to me!!! ❤️ God is so so powerful, amazing and just wonderful. I was incredibly blessed by you and your deep openness to share your story. His glory is being shown through you!

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  • @ceciliaoffiong7615
    @ceciliaoffiong7615 4 года назад +10

    I love how strong u r and how much u believe in God!! Wish I could be more like u😘😘

  • @clairejung8982
    @clairejung8982 2 года назад

    This is amazing, thank you so much for sharing your experience! I was just telling my husband I wish there was more content like this out there. This journey can sometime feel so lonely, really appreciate you sharing ❤️

  • @faelyn_x
    @faelyn_x 4 года назад +1

    I’m not trying to get pregnant but I loved watching this video. You’re so candid and real, loved seeing you this way. Thank you for your honesty!

  • @DancingAmaya
    @DancingAmaya 3 года назад

    You are literally describing everything I have felt! It's such a horrible, lonely feeling that's out of your control. Thank you for sharing, although it's awful and sad to talk about this stuff, it's reassuring to know your not alone. God bless xxx

  • @betsyh2503
    @betsyh2503 4 года назад +6

    My husband and I got married when I was 19 and he was 20. It took us 10 years to have our first baby, no health issues and it wasn’t from lack of trying. Try not to despair, it will probably happen when you least expect it! Sending you hugs!

  • @SoCraftastic
    @SoCraftastic 4 года назад +6

    Sending love. 💗

  • @theprincesisters9993
    @theprincesisters9993 4 года назад

    SO many women deal with this but nobody really talks about it. Thank you for being so open about it all!

  • @edmarisff
    @edmarisff 4 года назад +1

    Please update us about the fertility test! and don’t feel ashamed or nervous to share your journey you’re one of my favorite youtubers and I love watching everything you post. I know for a fact you will get your blessing soon enough❤️

  • @CassieDeJarnett
    @CassieDeJarnett 3 года назад +1

    WOW our timelines are super similar! We got married June of 2019 and we’re going through a similar situation!! You can’t watch my TTC videos if you ever feel alone, we’re in it together sis! Gods got us 💕

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  • @Kendiegummybear
    @Kendiegummybear 4 года назад +10

    keep your head up Em we love you so much and are coming along on this journey with you 💗

  • @amberklaire9419
    @amberklaire9419 4 года назад +16

    Em, I just want to give you a huge hug. You'll be an amazing mum, no matter how long it takes to get there, and what path you go down to get there.

  • @aprilburke5997
    @aprilburke5997 8 месяцев назад

    Im on my seventh month of trying which I know isn't that long, just the beginning, but every month I wait to test and then get a negative and I too have a sad day when I do get my period and then I'm fine to try again the following month. My first pregnancy and second happened very quickly and I'm grateful for them. My next pregacny will be my last so it's extra special and is taking its own special time to make itself known

  • @beautyybychloe
    @beautyybychloe 4 года назад +1

    It was so brave of you to share this, I know you’ll be an amazing mom ❤️💗

  • @yirklee
    @yirklee 4 года назад +7

    Aww honey! This is so sad but I’m happy you shared. So many couples go through this journey alone and some experience loss and never tell a soul. When the time is right it will be magic 🥰 goodluck to you and Connor

  • @ashledashnaw5279
    @ashledashnaw5279 4 года назад

    I have one son who is 7 and had 6 miscarriages, turns out that not only is it hard for me to get pregnant in the first place because I don't ovulate as often, but I have a blood disorder that any pregnancy after the first one, my body will attack the fetus like a disease and kill it, there are medication for it but is only available when I'm pregnant. To top it off, I have cervical cancer and that is also preventing pregnancy. I was just diagnosed last week, and told there is a possibility of losing my cervix, so I may never have kids.....moral of my story, I wish you luck and I am praying for you and your husband. I hope you have kids, you will be an amazing mother. And I've been following you since your 1950's housewife challenge, the first one. So you are always in my prayers. God bless.

  • @jen3450
    @jen3450 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for posting this I can relate a lot to everything you said we started trying 7 months ago and it's definitely been difficult at times but we are just focusing on everything we already have to be greatful for I got diagnosed with extremely low ferritin a few months ago which can really prevent you getting pregnant its now coming up so fingers crossed hope you get to be a mama soon you will make an amazing one 😘

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  • @Stephie2007
    @Stephie2007 4 года назад +2

    I'm 30, still single and would love to have kids some day. the problem? When I was 19, I was coerced into getting a tubal ligation because certain members of my own family (Father and Stepmother. Mother lives in another state and didn't find out until I told her 2 years after the surgery) thought I would be too disabled to have children. I now have limited contact with those relatives and have connected myself to far better people who know how to handle my situation with care and empathy. I also moved out when I was 21 and have been living on my own ever since (the day I got that housing letter in the mail must have been a sign from God that he had something better in store for me than to live under the thumb of my ignorant family. However the only members of my immediate family that live in the same state I seem to get along with are my Brother, my Aunt, Uncle, Cousin, Grandmother (Dad's mother), Great Aunt and Great Grandmother. I was also diagnosed with an autoimmune condition as of last year and as of recently, my health insurance has been up in the air (which is NOT GOOD NEWS for me! 😱) I have changed my diet to limit my acidic food intake and I take all of the needed meds to treat my autoimmune condition but I worry what if it won't be enough? What if I have another flare up and need to see the doctor and can't pay the doctor bill because I can't afford it? (I'm on low income) this often keeps me up at night because I'm afraid if I fall asleep what if I have a dream i'm at my own funeral! I can't let that happen because there's so much I still want to do in my life.

  • @Airkah92
    @Airkah92 4 года назад +8

    My husband and I have been trying for a year. It is the hardest thing ever getting a negative test every month. My prayers go out to you lady!

    • @amberg4775
      @amberg4775 2 года назад

      i know this is old but I hope you got your positive 🙏♥️ I’m currently at the year mark now and seeing my doctor tomorrow to see what the next steps are ♥️

  • @candi0826
    @candi0826 4 года назад +5

    Hope you get your precious baby 👶 sending you lots of baby dust.

  • @abbyshirley2064
    @abbyshirley2064 4 года назад

    Prayers for you all! Thank you for sharing your journey and letting others know that they aren’t alone. 💜

  • @stylecauldron
    @stylecauldron 4 года назад

    I'm only halfway though the video and I first have to say that this will help many other women because it's so dificult to be this real online. I just uploaded a heavy video a couple days ago, right before cheerful vlogmas videos, but it had to be done. There's never a perfect time. Also, I'm not trying to assume you don't know about FAM (fertility awareness method) but I wanted to bring it up because you didn't mention it. I've been charting and taking my temperature everyday since July but I'm tta so I know when I know when I'm past my ovulation stage and seeing the shift in temperature when I'm not fertile anymore. I use the natural cycles app to keep track. Sending you Hugs!

  • @PinkPaws88
    @PinkPaws88 4 года назад +4

    After 2 years of trying My doctor recommended me to see a chiropractor which helped I got pregnant within 2 months after both times (I have a 2 year old daughter and 6 month old son) they also recommended taken prenatal vitamins and folic acid not a lot of people know you need lots of folic acid to help baby stick and prevent birth defects

  • @GenK1991
    @GenK1991 3 года назад +1

    We’ve been trying almost a year now, also losing hope. I’m trying to just focus on other activities, my career, family. I hate this, and I know what you’re going through

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  • @schelbylee
    @schelbylee 4 года назад +1

    Read the Bible about removing idols from your heart and leaning not on your own understanding. We can think oh God probably wants this or that. But the more you read the Word the more His truth becomes prominent on what you DO need to change/remove in your life. So making a list is good, but reading the Bible is better. I'm not saying that doing that will get you pregnant immediately (I obviously do not know God's plan for your life) but finding truth can alter your perspective. I know because I was in your shoes 2 years ago wishing I was pregnant and not knowing the "whys" or possibilities. Lean on God and His Word. Jesus is our only hope and we have this life by grace alone, not from our own actions and doings.

  • @dvanopynen88
    @dvanopynen88 4 года назад +5

    *Reaches through phone to give Emelyne the biggest hug* I'll keep you in my thoughts and hope God blesses you and Connor soon

  • @lieanne61
    @lieanne61 4 года назад

    We had a miscarriage 2 years ago and haven't been able to get pregnant since..I've been open with people about that especially at work because everyone always asks. And now I regret telling people that we are trying because they always tease and ask me if I'm expecting yet..than they give me advice which I already know about we have been trying for 2 year I think we've tried about everything, it hurts..But I know the father has a plan and looking back I can see that everything is working out for the good...

  • @kimberlyh9995
    @kimberlyh9995 4 года назад +6

    God has a plan for everyone and their lives. It’s difficult sometimes when we don’t understand. But he is doing what is best even if we don’t always see it. Never lose faith💕 love you you are my favorite RUclipsr

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +1

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    • @kimberlyh9995
      @kimberlyh9995 4 года назад

      SweetEmelyne's you said in the video you have been thankful in the past for things not happening when you originally wanted them to. Maybe this is one of those times. You and your husband just started your business you just got married and bought a house! God has blessed you with so many wonderful things. God is the only thing standing in the way of you getting pregnant. there IS a reason💕 and I think that it could be an exciting thought for you wondering what that reason is(: you and your channel have really helped me lately with getting closer to the lord. Thank you so much. I honestly wish that we could be real friends. Wish you the best!

  • @celinatalk
    @celinatalk 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I can definitely relate or at least begin to. I have PCOS & my husband and I decided to start trying next year & I am so nervous because my mom had infertility. But I also was born after 8 years of my parents trying and I am a triplet! God's timing is always correct with no mistakes ❤ I honestly am just so blessed you shared this ✨

  • @Mejiaelis
    @Mejiaelis 4 года назад +4

    This is the type of real video that many people really need. My sister and her husband have been trying for 15 years. They’ve gone through treatments and have tried just about everything but it just hasn’t happened for them.

  • @yasmineariana6419
    @yasmineariana6419 3 года назад

    You don’t understand how much this meant to me. I’ve been TTC for ten months. It meant a lot! Thank you!! And your friends advice was really good!

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  • @sundownsahara
    @sundownsahara 4 года назад +1

    Please forgive me if you've had people suggest this before and you feel it's annoying. What if after a year or so of trying you look into fostering/adoption? Obviously having a blood related child is your goal, and it could still happen, but I think it would be amazing if you adopted a child or fostered a child to give them all that love and care that you so desperately want to give to a child. I know some people are prejudiced against adoption for some reason, because it's not "technically your child", but I think that's ridiculous. I think it would be beautiful if you adopted and had your own children too at some point. What a beautifully mixed family! IDK, it's just a thought.

  • @kymberlypaige8092
    @kymberlypaige8092 4 года назад +5

    My husband and I have been trying for 9 months. We have been married for over a year, and have been a couple for almost 10 years. I understand your struggle 😥. Thank you for the video!

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +1

      Kymberly Paige thank you for sharing that with me💛 wishing you guys the best!

    • @kymberlypaige8092
      @kymberlypaige8092 4 года назад

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    • @emilycurtis4398
      @emilycurtis4398 4 года назад

      Feeling you, married 3 years, dated for 10 before that. We're working on other aspects of our relationship, but the emotions are strong. I'm also accepting if we don't have kids it's fine.

  • @user-tq6to5lg4w
    @user-tq6to5lg4w 4 года назад

    I’m praying for you Em. I know how much these times can hurt. As you said, God knows when it’s best ❤️

  • @kamtotay
    @kamtotay 4 года назад

    I’ll be crossing my fingers for you both! The majority of women that I know who had trouble having children said it happened when they least expected it/didn’t plan for it like the usually do. When the time is right you‘ll have one (or more lol) of your own! ☺️

  • @Jewels_d36
    @Jewels_d36 3 года назад +2

    Praying for you guys. My husband and I have been trying the past 6 months. It’s heartbreaking seeing that negative each month. God has plans for us though. Just have to keep faith❤️

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  • @DalainaRenee
    @DalainaRenee 4 года назад +4

    I hope it all works out for you guys. I can’t have more kids due to health reasons. My second hubby and I might adopt one day. I’d like to have a girl to. Kids are a blessing. I thought I could not have them. I had two boys after having 3 miscarriages. So you just never know when it will happen 💗

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад +1

      BonbonsAndBooks ❤︎ thank you so much for sharing this with me. You are so strong for going through all that💛 my heart is with you

    • @DalainaRenee
      @DalainaRenee 4 года назад

      SweetEmelyne's your welcome 💗

  • @lydiaallen4694
    @lydiaallen4694 4 года назад +1

    I’m so proud of you for sharing this! You’re so brave!! ❤️

  • @33unionsquarewest
    @33unionsquarewest 4 года назад +2

    You're lovely and you're so brave sharing this. Sending all the good vibes and love your way

  • @norawartanian7285
    @norawartanian7285 3 года назад +1

    Omg everything you said is exactly how I feel! The entire roller coaster of it. Going on TTC month #4

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  • @leslieMClass80
    @leslieMClass80 4 года назад +2

    Gabby gave you the best advice. When we are in the moment it is so hard to see what God sees . The Israelites prayed for years to be freed, but God was still working on Moses. He has only good planned for you 💕 Take care sweet and gentle spirit , love Leslie

  • @Kpup
    @Kpup 4 года назад +2

    This will happen for you, but the journey is so so hard for so many. So many of us can relate. Trust in God and enjoy your life as much as you can in the meantime. I know you know all of this, but it's just something to keep repeating to yourself.

  • @SamanthaN92
    @SamanthaN92 4 года назад +5

    Emelyne I don’t want to judge, but you and Connor are still very young. I understand you want children, but you two just got married. Don’t be in a rush, because things happen when their meant too. You have plenty of time to be a parent. Just enjoy your marriage and your husband because once you have kids, you might not have as much time to enjoy each other’s company. God will bless you and Connor with a baby when the timing is right ❤️ You two are going to be awesome parents!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @samanthaalexandra8631
    @samanthaalexandra8631 4 года назад +4

    This is so sweet. I caught myself wanting to tear up a bit throughout the video. So much courage to share this because we often want to avoid acknowledging the struggles.

  • @thekatester2839
    @thekatester2839 4 года назад +1

    Have you thought of adopting? Lots of kids need homes. Doing forget about them.

  • @zoozoonaky
    @zoozoonaky 4 года назад

    My best friend had the same issues. At 7 months of trying her doctor recommended she try pregnitude. That seemed to help her within 2 months to be pregnant. Also from my experience. If you haven’t already, take ovulation tests for a month or two. I was not ovulating when I was supposed to be and my dates changed by over a week as to when I should try to get pregnant. Hopefully this helps. Everyone is different and has different journeys. I hope you get the family you wish for. Best of luck.

  • @TheDarlingAcademy
    @TheDarlingAcademy 4 года назад +2

    Praying for you my love. It took my husband and I over a year to conceive, that’s hard when you’re 27 and it seems like the whole world gets pregnant the moment they decide to start a family. Very few people talk about how long it’s taking them. Well done for sharing your journey so far, it’ll be a blessing to many. 💗

  • @aminabibikhan5303
    @aminabibikhan5303 3 года назад +2

    I know how you feel... I've been trying for the past 6 months and it's all negative😔... I also think that I'm not ovulating since my period cycle is every 20/21 days and I so badly want to go to my dr but since it's not 1 year since trying , I have to wait.. but if god wants us to have a baby he will give us in the right time..

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  • @veganlunchmom
    @veganlunchmom 4 года назад +18

    I love how you talk about God♥️ I hope you are blessed with a baby someday really soon.
    Everyone’s journey is different.
    It did take 6 months (more than 6 missed periods) for me to get pregnant with my first. I know someone who it took 7 years!
    On a side note : I love your sweater!

    • @SweetEmelynes
      @SweetEmelynes  4 года назад

      vegan lunch mom thank you! I think that’s the craziest part of this whole journey, it’s such different timing for everyone. God knows when it’s perfect timing and blesses us when we’re most ready💛💛

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      @veganlunchmom 4 года назад

      🤗yes I believe that too♥️ God’s timing is the perfect timing.

  • @hannahmunford1180
    @hannahmunford1180 4 года назад +2

    I'm 24 and I completely relate to your comment about wanting someone your age to talk about this issue with. And it is really hard to walk through alone. I totally wish I had a friend as well to talk to, currently have been trying for 2 years.

  • @beelzebubisrotting
    @beelzebubisrotting 4 года назад +13

    I remember watching your life as a 1950’s mom like years ago, and, hopefully, soon there with be a reason for you to use the experience of those videos.

  • @anniescott5816
    @anniescott5816 4 года назад

    I have a feeling you’ll be making a video in the next few months or maybe even around Easter time next year saying you are pregnant I don’t know why this exact timing but I have a feeling! And honestly your time is going to come.. and I know that’s easier for someone who isn’t in the same position to say. But believe me when I say timing is absolutely everything and when we can handle having all the things we want out of life they usually come right round the next corner. I can’t wait to see your video about becoming pregnant when that timing might be beautiful. Keep your head high you and Connor are doing everything you can and that’s all you can do. Love your videos beautiful girl. xxxx

  • @mckenziejeanne4508
    @mckenziejeanne4508 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for being so honest in this video. I am a college student and single, so I can't imagine how you and Connor must feel like now, but I relate to the hurt that comes from not having things happen when you so badly want them to. 💓 Thank you for the reminder to trust in God's timing. I will be praying for you during this time, that you can find some peace and that God will answer your prayers soon. ❤

  • @kaelynmariska7058
    @kaelynmariska7058 4 года назад

    God has a plan Em! I know for a fact it will happen soon! I love you so much and I wish you and Connor luck!

  • @arianaperez5883
    @arianaperez5883 4 года назад

    I think you shouldn’t really stress out! My parents didn’t really conceive me after a year and a few months of trying. There’s still more opportunity em, don’t get discouraged, i’m sure you’ll get your baby soon!!!! 🥰

  • @munchiemunchie2010
    @munchiemunchie2010 4 года назад +1

    I know so many women who are trying to get pregnant and using fertility methods....I watch how hard it is for them:(

  • @amchomemaker
    @amchomemaker 4 года назад

    Me and my husband got pregnant within a week of marriage.The next month I was a month pregnant. Fast forward my son Trapper is 15. But our marriage was difficult due to having a child so early and not enjoying being married for a while. I think there is only two days a month a woman can conceive. You may want to try an ovulation kit. Prayer changes everything. God will give you the desires of your heart.

  • @sherremullins3354
    @sherremullins3354 4 года назад +3

    Have you tried taking your temperature and checking for ovulation? That's what we did 30 years ago.

    • @daemein
      @daemein 4 года назад +1

      They do still do that, and actually the doctor can tell some things from the charts, so it is a good idea.

  • @4everMrsB
    @4everMrsB 4 года назад +2

    I am sending love, babydust and prayers your way 🙏💖 God will give you your miracle You are so strong sharing your journey The wait for a miracle are so hard Trust me I know but it will come

  • @gabriellarodriguez7932
    @gabriellarodriguez7932 4 года назад +1

    I'm praying for you ❤️ I know that God has a plan for you and your family. ❤️

  • @alejandramelendez5558
    @alejandramelendez5558 4 года назад

    Don’t worry beautiful everything has its time and everything happens for a reason.❤️❤️ Hope you read this cuz i love you and you inspire me❣️❣️

  • @malaya-ui5rg
    @malaya-ui5rg 4 года назад +2

    Hey I'm so sorry your going thru this maybe have conner get tested to cause it could be something with him as well I wish you the best ❤️❤️

  • @a.kay.c
    @a.kay.c 3 года назад +1

    Praise God for your advice. It was very helpful for me!

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  • @lyzipoplovesyou
    @lyzipoplovesyou 4 года назад

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  • @victoriabrunton3365
    @victoriabrunton3365 4 года назад +2

    I know how hard trying to conceive is. My husband and I have tried for just under 3 years with 2 miscarriages. We started fertility testing and it is such a long process. We are currently 12 weeks ❤ I am a firm believer in timing!

  • @hollyhollifield2500
    @hollyhollifield2500 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this. We all love you and you will be such a great mama someday. Praying that God will give you peace until He blesses your womb with a beautiful baby. ❤️

  • @lemystical9760
    @lemystical9760 4 года назад +2

    That’s also something you can work on ♥️ God may want you to be vulnerable and start opening up to people close to you. I always think of how I handle things and how I would want my child to learn to handle things and how I should change.