I don't put my energy into trying to figure people out anymore. Cause you can never truly know. I put my energy into figuring out why I'm triggered and why it matters.
I go from one extreme to another. One day I forgive them, next day I get mad still. I pray to God so he can open my heart to forgive them but it's the toughest thing I've ever dealt with. The culprit is my mother.
I think it’s an easy thing to do. to judge yourself vs the other person who may be at fault. shows YOUR CHARACTER. not always right I know, but anybody willing to check themselves and see where they may have made an error in a situation clearly shows that they don’t have issue w/ self evaluation or self accountability which is REALLY GOOD.
@@SA2004YG well thinking is the first step to action. I’ve been in a university philosophy course and you learn a lot about human tendencies and societal values, and the opinions of said philosophers. You don’t have to adopt the same opinions but being exposed to this literature makes people think critically, which I would argue we don’t have enough of. Critical/rational thinking is the first step to actual beneficial action.
How could anything be personal when no one truly knows the depths of an individual’s life? Judging from the surface of an action(or many actions) or their beliefs really doesn’t make any sense because you’re missing out on so much context of what made that person the way they are. Words aren’t enough. Only experience first hand. Awesome video! Love and light to you. Awesome video.
I kept being pushed away by others all my life. I wondered many times why I never fit in. Then it kept happening. What I did was built my life up. I dedicated myself to Education. Art. Photography. Writing. Music Producing. I just left those other thoughts alone, because they didn't define me. I knew who I was. I didn't mean anything to those people. I meant a lot to me. I took control right away.
That's so great! It's probably difficult. I'm alone but I just don't think I can focus on myself. I don't value myself enough to do stuff just for myself unfortunately.
What you said about being okay with life not constantly being exciting is something i seriously needed to hear. I’m always looking for the next thing to do that stimulates me, even when i don’t feel like doing that specific thing. Thank you so much ❤
You should study communication… I feel like studying Comm is the bridge between psychology, & sociology & the world would be a better place with more Communication scholars!
@@TZzjourneyI do study communication! Which is how I was able to make the recommendation. The reason WHY is because she seems to be a person interested in studying humans and their behavior, pattern and nature; so she may enjoy studying their communication. Hope this helps 🎉
@@1chanelno5 Yes! Thats one of the things I love about it, it explores concepts, theories, and models discussed in other fields that can truly expand one’s understanding without necessarily enrolling in psych or whatever
I love your mindset and everything you said in this video. It really shifted my spiritual journey into a diff perspective. It has really helped me see how I used to give many things a reaction and taking things personally when I haven't done anything to that person at all. Now whenever I catch myself about to react to something, i ask myself "what have i done to this person for them to treat me this way?" and if i come to the conclusion that I've done nothing then i know its entirely on them. I literally just subscribed. you're so beautiful and I love seeing young dark skin women like me change their mindset for the better :)
Im sorry if this is inappropriate since its not related to the video...But her BEAUTY is making me emotional. And I honestly have never felt this emotional about someone's look and its not lust. Absolutely STUNNING.
Such pure effortless beauty..rare these days ! You have a modern dialogue with sort of a ancient authentic look ! Light to girl 😁😎🙌🏽🙌🏽shine on Queen Thank you from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺
No matter how friendly i am, or how much I force myself to talk to be (naturally an introvert so I tend to be quiet comfortably), everyone seems to just hate me. I remember my first week of uni I was trying to make friends and this girl brings me to her group of friends, and I attempted to talk to them, but they just stopped talking as soon as I arrived and just watched me and stared at me awkwardly, slowly leaving one by one?? So I just give up honestly
You're probably beautiful or sound super intelligent. You trigger them. I had the same issue as you now I stay away from people and my life has improved financially, spiritually, everything! All the best 🌸
People like that arent worth it. People who are quiet or introverted normally get picked on because most of the time they dont stick up for themselves. They are time wasters. Never think you have to change yourself for other people. People will recognise your beauty. The time just isnt now. Keep trying to socialise, your doing amazing.
7:50 Prayer is another form of meditation. Reflecting on your emotions and thoughts out loud may be a good start for those of us who's attention spans are built different
Honestly, I am very into psychology and I want to be a psychologist but I take everything personally. There's situations where I blame myself but there's a recent one where I have done absolutely nothing wrong was just treated horribly. Learning about human behavior has warped my brain and I sympathize with everyone. That is truly affecting me. Saved your video and clicked . I hope this helps me detach from things
You have completely hypnotized me in a good way like legit opened my eyes more than I thought possible. The choice of music in the background also really did something to me. Maybe it is true that music can reprogram your mind
1:52 - I had an autism diagnoses from the early 90's and the neurologists pretty much told me that I'd always have to assume it was my fault (how people reacted to me). Great thing to tell a kid right. Even with social skills that I knocked myself out working on I still get the same and mostly I think it's people who expect a person who looks x way to perfectly match their outward archetype (which I apparently don't).
I loved this video. I'm going to school for psychology too so this showed me that I should connect with other people who are doing the same because we can relate on these ideas
Loved this video. One thought on your last point about moderation. Poison, even a little bit, is still poison. Honor your body and what you put in it. Healthful choices are self love, self respect in action. Took me a long time to figure that out. 🙏
i figured out how to make my "safe route" and passions into the same thing, this is possible for everyone i think i went for a field ecology certificate, since i love being outside! im passionate about art and found out that I love botany, so as i go through my higher education, i have some friends who want to develop botany curriculum/learning resources, so i'm helping with the scientific illustration/writing:) eventually i want to own my own property, do conservation work, and teach at at least the community college level. i love my professors haha what has worked for me (as someone who has dropped out and had several crises... i'm 22 and have moved back in with my parents to finish school) is to keep my eye on stability, and finding a way to incorporate my passions. we do live in the matrix and there are ways to break out of it, but for me, trying to break out of it before i had a solid footing in it kept me stuck. sorry if this came across as preachy! loved the video, miss queens! it was super motivating for the holiday break:)
this was such a real video omg like every point made is so true. especially thinking that you can’t do something, when you think that you just try to prove yourself right and it ends up putting you back further
“The older I get the more I appreciate the journey more then the destination” to here someone else say this makes me feel complete it’s not about where you want to be but where you are now. My first tattoo when an angel spoke to me was: {Live to remember every moment} if your “dreaming awake” wishing you was somewhere you’re not. You’ll never truly see the days you’re living… which is just wasting your precious time on Earth. Every sec counts to be grateful. Thank you for this video 😊 Happy New Years 🎉
this video was so fun to watch and listen to, my attention and intellect was fueled with so much to take into consideration about. especially right now, in this phase in my life.. everything does feel mundane. everything is dull. i feel and think so different about everything including myself that i’m in this void almost, in between two worlds. i’ll have to check out your enjoying the mundane life video.
This video resonated with me heavily because you're speaking real talk, some people are carrying sh't with them and it's not on me to think about why they are moving weird when I haven't done them wrong. True you are who you think you are also you mentioned The Matrix funny how in the movie Morpheus said to Neo "your mind makes it real" Big up yourself for the video respect 💫
First of all, LOVE this video and the content. Secondly, you are STUNNING, ma’am. Lastly, we love hearing palatable substance in the new year. My neck was stepped on in the best way and it was great way to start a blessed year, thank you! ❤🌟
Thank you for making this! I resonated with the bit about becoming so conscious of your thoughts you can identify when unhealthy patterns rise choose peace instead.
People need to remember that meditation looks different for everyone! For example, I have ADHD and it is very hard to sit and just relax. For me, meditation is letting my creativity flow with something like sketching or a puzzle! It’s whatever helps your mind quiet and be calm.
For me I’m dealing with someone who ik for 8 years but we were becoming close the last 2 weeks, since we both had a lot happening. We were able to share anything with each, last Friday they tried to end themselves. It’s hard to think your way when you are completely cut off from someone u cared about and that cared about you. I think how much they cared and saw me in such a good way made everything else in their life heavier, and now theirs nothing I could do. Especially since I was living the way u spoke in the video before, which was working but it hurt people I cared about (not the person I’m talking about previously) it makes me feel like my goals are meaningless, I’m a artist, thinker, and it’s making me question if art is actually purposeful more than the human connections around us now, it can disconnect you from the moment, when you are a creator.
I've been experiencing stirring of depressive state lately, but this video gave me new ways of thinking to consider so I am really glad to found it and I really appreciate that you wanted to share you thoughts
Alternative spaces are so scary because of the conditionning. But then it's usually spaces where you can grow more and become flexible and understand the world and the world around you🙏
This video carries a lot of wisdom to anyone that is specifically looking for it. You just got a new fan. Funny how I didn't expect a lot form it when I first clicked.
Subscribed! LOVED this video. Your takes were so insightful and communicated simply. This helped me grasp the concepts and put them into perspective. Appreciated your personal anecdotes for further context as well.
Very introspective! You're right that humans are like onions we're very complex and multi-dimensional beings. Being detached and not taking things personally gives us a neutral perspective of life -- seeing things as it is.
That part about catching the thoughts that don't align with where you're trying to and throwing them away so you can continue on your path... so true. Academic burnout and other personal issues have bogged me down so hard I lost my true purpose in life. Now that I've dropped out, I'm in a position where I can look at my life through a bird's eye view and work on smaller goals day by day to get to where I want to be.
i love this video. it reminds me of what is important when i have tendency to forget. one thing i would change is music, i can't hide the fact it makes me a little bit anxious 😅 even when i try to be focused on your words. unusual choice 😅 but anyway thank you for your wise words!!! 💜💜💜
Manifesting has such a huge impact that people from every field of science are talking about it. I really wanna start manifesting but I'm too lazy to start fr😔
I love the people in these comments, I finally found people with the same vibrations as me! Remember, we are souls having a human experience, not the otherwise, lot of love ❤
Everything i do i look at myself from a birds eye view literally visualize im a bird ontop of me looking down hovering over my life asking myself? What are u doing in the situation for these type of results? Once you can ask yourself and step back and reflect on what you do on a frequent basis and realize what you have or have not done in whatever situation…you will be able to fix the issue. Not everything is you sometimes it seems like it cause of how it’s happening.it gets you caught up so much you dont realize u just need to step back and analyze.
Ok first of all , girl you are sooooo gorgeous!! Second of all, when u talked about plan A and plan B, with plan A working out over ur hobbies and passions… I’ve felt this for such a long time but thought I was the only person who thought about that specific experience!!
I realized this being unemployed but it definitely suites my Major courses. Just observing as a natural and minding mine vs how im affected socially. So very true , its more sensational
Yes, humans are onions, some will still stink no matter how deep you peel the layers. But approach them right, (cooking for onion, communication for humans) and they just might be absolutely delish 😊
This video really opened my eyes 😭😭😭it was the you feel stuck because you keep yourself trapped for me. I needed to hear that life hasn't been going as expected but like you said you are who u think you are and I need to stop wasting my potential. I'll be 27 Friday and I'm trying to enjoy life and get my dreams and actually live instead of struggling . Even with geting back to youtube. I'll be uploading again soon after years with a proper vlog and I just wonted you to know that it's all thanks to you. Hope you the best
Whats hard about allowing those thoughts to pass is when it becomes emotional. For instance In regards to relationships, you really feel a certain way about someone but your putting of the thought and by doing this, the fact that you have become so aware and in tune with the present moment, you began to feel instead. As thought that thought as become instilled in your body. That what do you do but cradle and nurture that feeling. Does this male it personal? More complicated to detach from because the fact that you jave learned to detangle yourself from the illusion. The feeling makes it more real than you thought
First of all you are absolutely Gorgeous girl! This video was meant to find me before i went to RUclips i was washing the dishes and i was thinking about how stagnant my life is and has been where i feel nothing is changing for me
I don't put my energy into trying to figure people out anymore. Cause you can never truly know. I put my energy into figuring out why I'm triggered and why it matters.
honestly needed to hear this
Yes lol 😅 some do need to be though, ripple affects, not assumed to know. Triggers are terrible, the unknowns but facts of feeling it
This 🙌🏽
Perfect way to say what I’m going through
Yup yup
I feel that- blaming yourself when other people treat you badly. LIKE SOMETIMES ITS ACTUALLY JUST THEM 😭
I go from one extreme to another. One day I forgive them, next day I get mad still. I pray to God so he can open my heart to forgive them but it's the toughest thing I've ever dealt with. The culprit is my mother.
No fr ! And it’s like I ain’t even do nothing 😭 and we still blaming ourselves
You still don't want to take responsibility
@@EmmanuelBright-pq6ji take responsibility for what
I think it’s an easy thing to do. to judge yourself vs the other person who may be at fault. shows YOUR CHARACTER. not always right I know, but anybody willing to check themselves and see where they may have made an error in a situation clearly shows that they don’t have issue w/ self evaluation or self accountability which is REALLY GOOD.
I sincerely believe that philosophy and psychology should be made mandatory for everyone, its benefits are just beyond remarkable
I disagree, philosophy is for the thinkers to figure out that they should be a do-er instead. We don't need more kids turning into overthinkers
@@SA2004YG well thinking is the first step to action. I’ve been in a university philosophy course and you learn a lot about human tendencies and societal values, and the opinions of said philosophers. You don’t have to adopt the same opinions but being exposed to this literature makes people think critically, which I would argue we don’t have enough of. Critical/rational thinking is the first step to actual beneficial action.
I agree ! This should be in our schools world wide
i love seeing pretty people saying wise things that they learned
You mostly just love seeing pretty people lets be honest
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@shirobedabo and what being don't like seeing pretty people?
@@BEBELLS99 Blind people
@@shirobedabois it a fucking crime? 😂
How could anything be personal when no one truly knows the depths of an individual’s life? Judging from the surface of an action(or many actions) or their beliefs really doesn’t make any sense because you’re missing out on so much context of what made that person the way they are. Words aren’t enough. Only experience first hand. Awesome video! Love and light to you. Awesome video.
!!! Beautifully put. You hit it right on the nail.
Yes. Yessssss. Exactly this. ♥️
Flames 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I kept being pushed away by others all my life. I wondered many times why I never fit in. Then it kept happening. What I did was built my life up. I dedicated myself to Education. Art. Photography. Writing. Music Producing. I just left those other thoughts alone, because they didn't define me. I knew who I was. I didn't mean anything to those people. I meant a lot to me. I took control right away.
Thats amazing and i know it isnt easy. Please could you enlighten me more
That's so great! It's probably difficult.
I'm alone but I just don't think I can focus on myself. I don't value myself enough to do stuff just for myself unfortunately.
What you said about being okay with life not constantly being exciting is something i seriously needed to hear. I’m always looking for the next thing to do that stimulates me, even when i don’t feel like doing that specific thing. Thank you so much ❤
Absolutely right. It's absolutely normal to feel calmed not excited
People need to see this deserve more views
@@anuskachakraborty4639 aww i appreciate your acknowledgment of my work 🌷❣️
The background music is entirely too scary 😭😭🥲🥲but thank you for the interesting content
started wondering why everything i did felt so mischievous til i clocked the music 13 minutes in 💀
I think it’s fitting because ppl r fkin scary!! 😂
Literally 😂😂😂
whaaat i loved it
@@skoollie loool I was watching the video at night so it was increasing my paranoia
Noticing the cadence of steps, breath, and foot placement while running coupled with achieving longer distances is very soothing.
You should study communication… I feel like studying Comm is the bridge between psychology, & sociology & the world would be a better place with more Communication scholars!
You should study communication and y’all can work together in some way
@@TZzjourneyI do study communication! Which is how I was able to make the recommendation. The reason WHY is because she seems to be a person interested in studying humans and their behavior, pattern and nature; so she may enjoy studying their communication.
Hope this helps 🎉
I’m a communication scholar! I can see the relationship between communication, psychology & sociology.
@@1chanelno5 Yes! Thats one of the things I love about it, it explores concepts, theories, and models discussed in other fields that can truly expand one’s understanding without necessarily enrolling in psych or whatever
@@Divamuseicon yup and expanding one’s understanding so we know how to be appropriately harmonious with one another as humans is what I like.
More of this please. Edify the youth, sis. You were made for this! Your guidance and wisdom is definitely needed!
I love your mindset and everything you said in this video. It really shifted my spiritual journey into a diff perspective. It has really helped me see how I used to give many things a reaction and taking things personally when I haven't done anything to that person at all. Now whenever I catch myself about to react to something, i ask myself "what have i done to this person for them to treat me this way?" and if i come to the conclusion that I've done nothing then i know its entirely on them. I literally just subscribed. you're so beautiful and I love seeing young dark skin women like me change their mindset for the better :)
@@rilexxco This is amazing ❤️
Im sorry if this is inappropriate since its not related to the video...But her BEAUTY is making me emotional. And I honestly have never felt this emotional about someone's look and its not lust. Absolutely STUNNING.
@@Noitalever Omg thank you!🥹🥹
Such pure effortless beauty..rare these days ! You have a modern dialogue with sort of a ancient authentic look ! Light to girl 😁😎🙌🏽🙌🏽shine on Queen
Thank you from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺
No matter how friendly i am, or how much I force myself to talk to be (naturally an introvert so I tend to be quiet comfortably), everyone seems to just hate me. I remember my first week of uni I was trying to make friends and this girl brings me to her group of friends, and I attempted to talk to them, but they just stopped talking as soon as I arrived and just watched me and stared at me awkwardly, slowly leaving one by one?? So I just give up honestly
Bro just be yourself, the right people will stay
Rejection is redirection
You're probably beautiful or sound super intelligent. You trigger them. I had the same issue as you now I stay away from people and my life has improved financially, spiritually, everything! All the best 🌸
I bet they’re not even interesting people. You didn’t lose anything. Most people hate themselves and project that onto others.
People like that arent worth it. People who are quiet or introverted normally get picked on because most of the time they dont stick up for themselves. They are time wasters. Never think you have to change yourself for other people. People will recognise your beauty. The time just isnt now. Keep trying to socialise, your doing amazing.
9-5 is not for me, I'm a person that draining my energy so much when I do the things that I don't genuinely like. It's extremely exhausted.
@@dayuwaisly03 its just not made for us! 😂✨
I feel you !
Do what u want then❤
7:50 Prayer is another form of meditation. Reflecting on your emotions and thoughts out loud may be a good start for those of us who's attention spans are built different
I WILL be revisiting this video quarterly like a cycled doctor’s appointment. A needed maintenance routine and reminder. Thank you, AGAIN.
@@kiara3368 haha i love this comment 😩❣️ I’m so glad i could help xx
Honestly, I am very into psychology and I want to be a psychologist but I take everything personally. There's situations where I blame myself but there's a recent one where I have done absolutely nothing wrong was just treated horribly. Learning about human behavior has warped my brain and I sympathize with everyone. That is truly affecting me. Saved your video and clicked . I hope this helps me detach from things
@@Urfavboricuaa2 be patient with yourself. Its not easy. I am still learning to implement my own advice too xx
You have completely hypnotized me in a good way like legit opened my eyes more than I thought possible. The choice of music in the background also really did something to me. Maybe it is true that music can reprogram your mind
Do u happen to know the title of the track you used in the background?
1:52 - I had an autism diagnoses from the early 90's and the neurologists pretty much told me that I'd always have to assume it was my fault (how people reacted to me). Great thing to tell a kid right. Even with social skills that I knocked myself out working on I still get the same and mostly I think it's people who expect a person who looks x way to perfectly match their outward archetype (which I apparently don't).
I loved this video. I'm going to school for psychology too so this showed me that I should connect with other people who are doing the same because we can relate on these ideas
Loved this video. One thought on your last point about moderation. Poison, even a little bit, is still poison. Honor your body and what you put in it. Healthful choices are self love, self respect in action. Took me a long time to figure that out. 🙏
i figured out how to make my "safe route" and passions into the same thing, this is possible for everyone i think
i went for a field ecology certificate, since i love being outside! im passionate about art and found out that I love botany, so as i go through my higher education, i have some friends who want to develop botany curriculum/learning resources, so i'm helping with the scientific illustration/writing:) eventually i want to own my own property, do conservation work, and teach at at least the community college level. i love my professors haha
what has worked for me (as someone who has dropped out and had several crises... i'm 22 and have moved back in with my parents to finish school) is to keep my eye on stability, and finding a way to incorporate my passions. we do live in the matrix and there are ways to break out of it, but for me, trying to break out of it before i had a solid footing in it kept me stuck. sorry if this came across as preachy!
loved the video, miss queens! it was super motivating for the holiday break:)
@@keiseegee i love that for you! Im sure people would love to hear how you did it :D
@@Miss.Queens oh! ill edit my comment lol
omf this is so nice to hear as someone who’s an academic “failure” 😭🫶🏻 (NOT saying that you are but I can’t get the right footing for the life of me)
@@ravioli1381 i relate so much
Fellow dropout butting in here, rooting for you and your journey! Botany is so cool and I'm glad you get to explore your passion in it.
this was such a real video omg like every point made is so true. especially thinking that you can’t do something, when you think that you just try to prove yourself right and it ends up putting you back further
“The older I get the more I appreciate the journey more then the destination” to here someone else say this makes me feel complete it’s not about where you want to be but where you are now. My first tattoo when an angel spoke to me was: {Live to remember every moment} if your “dreaming awake” wishing you was somewhere you’re not. You’ll never truly see the days you’re living… which is just wasting your precious time on Earth. Every sec counts to be grateful. Thank you for this video 😊 Happy New Years 🎉
7:13 totally agree, the mind is constantly racing on and on. Apreciate the tip of meditation to help be calm and slow things down. Great video🙌🏽
I really thank you for this vlog. You are a light that will illuminate the dark for us, and we appreciate you.
this video was so fun to watch and listen to, my attention and intellect was fueled with so much to take into consideration about. especially right now, in this phase in my life.. everything does feel mundane. everything is dull. i feel and think so different about everything including myself that i’m in this void almost, in between two worlds.
i’ll have to check out your enjoying the mundane life video.
Thank you so much! I wish you all the best on your journey ❤️
This video resonated with me heavily because you're speaking real talk, some people are carrying sh't with them and it's not on me to think about why they are moving weird when I haven't done them wrong. True you are who you think you are also you mentioned The Matrix funny how in the movie Morpheus said to Neo "your mind makes it real"
Big up yourself for the video respect 💫
This is so off topic but your whole fit is so slay!! I love how your accessories compliment each other and your clothes perfectly ❤
I am so grateful this popped up on my feed, it just affirms what I’ve been feeling lately and you delivered it so naturally ✨❤️
First of all, LOVE this video and the content. Secondly, you are STUNNING, ma’am. Lastly, we love hearing palatable substance in the new year. My neck was stepped on in the best way and it was great way to start a blessed year, thank you! ❤🌟
Great analysis, plus I love your eyebrows,
Thank you for making this!
I resonated with the bit about becoming so conscious of your thoughts you can identify when unhealthy patterns rise choose peace instead.
People need to remember that meditation looks different for everyone! For example, I have ADHD and it is very hard to sit and just relax. For me, meditation is letting my creativity flow with something like sketching or a puzzle! It’s whatever helps your mind quiet and be calm.
For me I’m dealing with someone who ik for 8 years but we were becoming close the last 2 weeks, since we both had a lot happening. We were able to share anything with each, last Friday they tried to end themselves. It’s hard to think your way when you are completely cut off from someone u cared about and that cared about you. I think how much they cared and saw me in such a good way made everything else in their life heavier, and now theirs nothing I could do. Especially since I was living the way u spoke in the video before, which was working but it hurt people I cared about (not the person I’m talking about previously) it makes me feel like my goals are meaningless, I’m a artist, thinker, and it’s making me question if art is actually purposeful more than the human connections around us now, it can disconnect you from the moment, when you are a creator.
I've been experiencing stirring of depressive state lately, but this video gave me new ways of thinking to consider so I am really glad to found it and I really appreciate that you wanted to share you thoughts
This is my 3rd time watching the video.. I'll watch it again and again until I fully apply it to my life 💛
@@jabhinav1548 aww this makes me feel so good 🥰❣️
This Is A Very Refreshing Perspective That You Have.
Perception, Balance, Discipline & Understanding Are Essential Keys To Life.
Alternative spaces are so scary because of the conditionning. But then it's usually spaces where you can grow more and become flexible and understand the world and the world around you🙏
Your style is everything, love it so much
YAAAEEEASSS so happy to see more people talk about all of this, thank you for putting this out here, thank you for keeping true to yourself
This video carries a lot of wisdom to anyone that is specifically looking for it. You just got a new fan. Funny how I didn't expect a lot form it when I first clicked.
Subscribed! LOVED this video. Your takes were so insightful and communicated simply. This helped me grasp the concepts and put them into perspective. Appreciated your personal anecdotes for further context as well.
Incredible video! So well spoken, thank you for your time and energy making this 🙏
Very introspective! You're right that humans are like onions we're very complex and multi-dimensional beings. Being detached and not taking things personally gives us a neutral perspective of life -- seeing things as it is.
That part about catching the thoughts that don't align with where you're trying to and throwing them away so you can continue on your path... so true. Academic burnout and other personal issues have bogged me down so hard I lost my true purpose in life. Now that I've dropped out, I'm in a position where I can look at my life through a bird's eye view and work on smaller goals day by day to get to where I want to be.
This video was quite intriguing and I really appreciate it. I also found the music fitting perfectly with the vibe and topic.🍀😶
This really helped. Just had a really tough week. Thank you, and yes you did make me think and reflect a lot! Please keep creating. :)
the way you’re breaking this down- chefs kiss 🫰🏽
You have beautiful energy!! ❤❤❤ i love this type of content so much.
This means so much to me 🌹
I started writing once the video started, honestly you got a great effect on people love that
forget about everything you’re so gorgeous omg
I love listening to you talk so much. Like, you’re so eloquent 😭💕
i love this video. it reminds me of what is important when i have tendency to forget. one thing i would change is music, i can't hide the fact it makes me a little bit anxious 😅 even when i try to be focused on your words. unusual choice 😅 but anyway thank you for your wise words!!! 💜💜💜
Just saw the Melanin and I just had to subscribe, definitely gonna watch your videos🖤
Self-fulfilling prophecy is basically manifesting if you did not know! 3:56 | 6:24 is kinda mental dieting. I like this video.
Manifesting has such a huge impact that people from every field of science are talking about it. I really wanna start manifesting but I'm too lazy to start fr😔
4:48 "He fail so many times before achieving success"
*Note to self: REMEMBER!
🙂 THANK YOU FOR THE INSIGHT!
Firstly you’re so gorgeous and your inner beauty shines bright. Love your style and everything about this video and channel. New subbie ❤❤
I love the people in these comments, I finally found people with the same vibrations as me! Remember, we are souls having a human experience, not the otherwise, lot of love ❤
That video at the start is beautiful... merci pour ça ❤
It won’t come easy, what you put in, is what you get out. 🙏🏼
Everything i do i look at myself from a birds eye view literally visualize im a bird ontop of me looking down hovering over my life asking myself? What are u doing in the situation for these type of results? Once you can ask yourself and step back and reflect on what you do on a frequent basis and realize what you have or have not done in whatever situation…you will be able to fix the issue. Not everything is you sometimes it seems like it cause of how it’s happening.it gets you caught up so much you dont realize u just need to step back and analyze.
so glad I clicked on this
Ok first of all , girl you are sooooo gorgeous!! Second of all, when u talked about plan A and plan B, with plan A working out over ur hobbies and passions… I’ve felt this for such a long time but thought I was the only person who thought about that specific experience!!
I realized this being unemployed but it definitely suites my Major courses. Just observing as a natural and minding mine vs how im affected socially. So very true , its more sensational
loved this! such wise perspectives, thank you for sharing 🧡
I saw a beautiful face so I clicked the video, 15 minutes later I left with a message and some better understanding of people🔥❤
This video was a Frequency ❤️ called for me . Thank you
Youre most welcome 🥰❣️
Like? Girl I loveddd the video . Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us ❤️.
Thank you for this video! I appreciate you and the time you spent on recording and making this video.
I saw this video at the right time 💚💚💚thank you
I love this video thank you so much for confirming and explaining it so well ♡
oh my gosh you just changed my mind and maybe my life. 😀
Thanks for confirmation, time, and wisdom Goddess
Yes, humans are onions, some will still stink no matter how deep you peel the layers. But approach them right, (cooking for onion, communication for humans) and they just might be absolutely delish 😊
This video really opened my eyes 😭😭😭it was the you feel stuck because you keep yourself trapped for me. I needed to hear that life hasn't been going as expected but like you said you are who u think you are and I need to stop wasting my potential. I'll be 27 Friday and I'm trying to enjoy life and get my dreams and actually live instead of struggling . Even with geting back to youtube. I'll be uploading again soon after years with a proper vlog and I just wonted you to know that it's all thanks to you. Hope you the best
A very interesting video... i'm making notes 😀
You're rocking this! Thanks for the valuable insights! BTW, YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!! YOUR SMILE?! BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤❤
Gurl I love your content sooo so muuch , thanks for this video ❤
I love everything about this
Thank you so much !!
Girl you look like an angel ❤
Such a beautiful soul, thanks for the advice Queen 🤎✨
🙏🏿Very refreshing video….thank you….I’m thinking harder but softer🙌🏿😁
I been doing this sense 2nd grade it really help you learn the easy way and not hard lessons/ irrelevant ones.
Whats hard about allowing those thoughts to pass is when it becomes emotional. For instance In regards to relationships, you really feel a certain way about someone but your putting of the thought and by doing this, the fact that you have become so aware and in tune with the present moment, you began to feel instead. As thought that thought as become instilled in your body. That what do you do but cradle and nurture that feeling. Does this male it personal? More complicated to detach from because the fact that you jave learned to detangle yourself from the illusion. The feeling makes it more real than you thought
Self-authorship's a great thing to learn. One of my favorite artists from the UK, Goldie, he doesn't call himself 'The Alchemist' for nothing.
I can relate to a lot of this! Thanks for the video ❤
First of all you are absolutely Gorgeous girl! This video was meant to find me before i went to RUclips i was washing the dishes and i was thinking about how stagnant my life is and has been where i feel nothing is changing for me
Love that top. It’s in my cart lol. Beautiful on you!
Amazing video, got me really inspired. Thank you💜
I'm so glad!! ❤
This video came in very appropriate time thank you you're very inspirational person ❤
The music in this video is effin the message up for me.
Perfect timing honey 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
great video & love the background music
Brilliant and thoughtful video! So much of it resonated with me. Thank you. 😊💜 And you're gorgeous!
@@PiercedPixie My heart feels so full from this comment. I really appreciate you ❣️
@Miss.Queens 🥰 you're so very welcome! Just watched another video and subscribed. ✨🥰
Lovely woman with a big brain. Thank you!
i like the music behind! and the topic ofc. thank you:)
i don't suppose you know where to find it? :')
@ no :(