Yep. And it's more the pattern of behaviour over time. That's the really difficult thing about this stuff, as each comment or incident in itself might not stand out as being particularly harmful, but the cumulative effect of living with this most certainly is.
Yup that and being unexperienced in love/ relationship stuff . I was behaving a bit like that in my first relationship at 19 years old (I wasn’t rude like that but I was annoyed a lot). Guy was terribly infatuated in me and he thaught it was love. I’m very anxious and I hate changes so having him enter my life was very difficult and confusing. It took me some time to realise that this worry is not just a comitment issues but I actualy don’t like him at all. I was interested at first but then I wasn’t and I had no idea how to mix out of this
@@RaraAviss ❤️ I guess maybe we’ve all been there at some point or another. On one side or the other. It doesn’t get any less disappointing in self as you get older -I can say that much.
Yeah, I should have spotted these signs about 10 years ago with my last relationship, but being a dumb male I completely missed the signs. Ah... living alone and being lonely are two separate things. Never been as lonely as when I was in a toxic relationship and I'm sure that applies to everyone, whatever their gender. Much better to have good friends and peace and quiet at home. Yeah I have a cat, but only one... not going complete crazy cat man quite yet 🤣😂🤣
@@on_spikes6867 that's why this exists. Straight up just focus on the things you enjoy doing, there is a reason why you enjoy doing things and others will want to be along for the ride
Oh, Yes There are worse things than being alone, but it often takes decades to realize this, and most often when you do it's too late... And there's nothing worse than too late. - Albert Einstein
Proverbs 21:9 - Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:19 - Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
She is new to youtube I reckon? Looks quite young at least. But I agree, impressive talent, very entertaining. Also how she got those little convincing details down like scanning the face of the supposed other person with her eyes as you would in normal conversation. Most amateur actors just give it a blank stare
Too bad you didn't establish a university for relationships. 3 ex-wives and 87.5 ex-girlfriends later, I really could have benefited from your courses. 😅 Oh by the way ,I suggest the university be named: Love U. 😅
@@fabirkemarian6370 Damn those are some serious numbers. I had a failed marriage myself, so I am afraid I am no relationship genius, but the divorce still went muuuuch more smoothly than it usually does. So I guess only dating women who actually show high affection at the very least was not that bad of a rule of thumb.
The last one hit me like a freight train. It's so damn soul-crushing, when you tell your significant other that you love her and in return she just absolutely destroys you with that cold attitude... I was in a relationship like this for 4 years.
@@TicTac2: In this scenario, the bf knows something is wrong, but not why. He is seeking reassurance they're still on the same page. In an unfortunate paradox, the more uncertain you become, the greater the urge to cling & seek that reassurance more often. It's not healthy thinking, of course, but that's far more obvious in hindsight (or as an outsider) than it is in the moment. People are often just doing the best they can, even when things are slowly falling apart.
Ohh I'm sad you went through that and im glad you escaped. I've learned to pay more attention to how i feel when I'm around people. If they are draining, cruel or arrogant, i walk away. I wish you a journey of healing ahead❤
When I told my wife I loved her for the first time, I think we were watching a movie. She cried and told me she loved me too. 12 years later, and 8 years of marriage, and the love is still there. But it takes constant work. It takes commitment. It takes putting the other person first. It takes strong values. It takes perseverance. .tough people stay married.
So sorry for the people that deal with this treatment from their significant other, no one should feel like an obsictle on the other person's life when they are on a relationship with you. It's like the only reason they aren't happy is because of you.
Truth. And it can be so subtle to, like the harmful attitude and behavior can just gradually sneak it's way in, and before you know it you're not feeling right, but you don't know why.
Ouch. That used to be me. Emotionally unavailable, couldn't fully open up or love unconditionally, irritable, demanding and struggled when his nice family was around. I used to think they were weird and it was pretend and I was forcing myself to pretend to be as nice, obvs failing miserably and frustrating myself. Turns out I had it backwards, it was my family that was messed up. Years of therapy and tada now I can be nice without pretending. Yay
But didn’t you think that life would be better if everyone is (trying to be) friendly? Did you appreciate friendliness at all? Just trying to understand and I’m glad you’re doing better.
As someone who has the exact same issue, friendliness and happy families didn't feel safe. it is triggering and unfamiliar and sets off alarm bells, so we become guarded..Learned behaviour seeing our caregivers act this way and also not having it modelled to us as kids. It's lonely and sad and we are usually miserable, and there's different levels of self awareness to it too..Some people won't think they are ever in the wrong..Some know it but don't know how to stop..Some know and go to therapy and manage to reparent themselves and change their behaviour
This is great. People in the comments hate on this behavior, and don’t get me wrong, it’s absolutely horrible to do that to someone. But toxic behavior is often related to deeper issues. It’s not just that they don’t give a fuck about others, or that they want to hurt them. Most people aren’t just evil. And the fact that you realized what you were doing wrong, you realized that you had to change, and you did it, is amazing. You should be extremely proud!
@@pwh5805 from someone who personally still struggles a bit with telling when someone's being genuine or not with their friendliness - yes and no. it's nice to not have immediate conflict, but it's also nice to not be constantly stuck in a limbo of 'do they really like me or are they just being polite?'. as much as it hurts to know 'brutally honest' people, at least you're well aware of where you stand in your relationship to them
It's only "toxic" if it's the male behaving like this. If it's the female it's just called a "normal relationship". This is basically most women, quite a lot of the time. Sadly.
@@sammyb1651 In all seriousness, I can’t stand women who talk to people like this. It’s an obnoxious self righteous attitude as though everything they say is final and correct. It reminds me of some people officers.
To the younger guys with little to no reference point, do not stay in a relationship with a woman who treats you like she is acting. Just leave her to grow old by herself gracefully. Live in denial by forcing yourself to believe her attitude will improve with time. You will eventually discover that you are mistaken. On the other hand, this lady should REALLY consider an acting career.
The level of genius when you manage to make a funny relatable sketch for jokes intercept at the line of actualised trauma that can be used for educational purpose.
@@nicolab2075...and then they expect the kids to "fix their problems".. a la: "oh we thought our relationship would become blissful, once we are a full family.. we thought THAT'S why we lacked bliss.. cos we weren't 'complete' yet.." ..so if problems persist - it'll all be the kid's fault.. who are easy to blame.. as we live in a world where you're held accountable for everything + the kitchen sink - EXCEPT for psychological abuse of your kids.. 🤦♂️🤦♀️😱😵
@@laus9953 That's so well said. No one's holding my parents accountable for how they messed up us kids. And our parents are only blaming us for our failures, never admitting their own. It's such painful burden.
I’ve definitely acted like this, course I wasn’t mentally well-but there reasons for acting like that no excuses for it. I feel terrible about it and this video made me sad. I’m glad a lot of people know this isn’t something to brush past it’s a subtle thing that says a lot about a friend or romantic partner-pretty much anyone with internalised insecurities and needs help before hurting someone like that. I’m trying really hard to be better. I’m really thankful my partner stayed with me and was even emotionally intelligent enough to help point out these things I would do and I’m grateful and love them so much. They never deserved to be hurt I never thought it would be as hurtful as it was because I was in such intense pain constantly-I just couldn’t understand why it would bother them…thanks for sharing this video it helps me understand the other side of it and to keep in mind those bad habits that I would brush off are so very harmful. If I had known better I would have acted better towards the person I love the absolute most in this world. I’m so lucky, too lucky, at their expense-I wasn’t just left like that in agony to learn the hard way. 😞
@@raphaelhemery152 Thank you! I’m proud to say I’m getting to a better place of awareness-i know introspection is key and I’m already seeing things change for the best! ❤️
sounds like you are really doing the work, evolving and becoming a more conscious, compassionate person, that's awesome! I know it's hard to let go of past mistakes, but I hope you will going and forgive yourself :)
if ur girl treats u like this, she doesn’t see any value in u as a person. just someone she can tolerate enough to keep around so she won’t be lonely. there’s someone much more worthwhile than this out there.
@@Answersonapostcard Yay, someone on the internet using ‘mardy’ 🥳. I’m from Derbyshire and if I use it elsewhere, people don’t know what I’m on about 😁
Try living up north - I grew up in Preston & Blackpool and this is normal - even your parents, neighbours, siblings, literally everyone is like this (different wording and context obvs) - when it's in public, people will laugh at the one on the receiving end lol - Britain is a fun place 😂
This is both brilliant, and kinda sad. Brilliant, because it punches up, making the abuser the butt of the joke, but its such a devastatingly accurate portrayal and will be so recognisable to so many of us.
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-agressiveness. "Hey babe, I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' a lot to one another. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose their meaning." Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You can suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply reserve the words "I love you" for special occassions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you. I hope this helps!
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-aggressiveness. "Hey babe! I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' to one another a lot. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose meaning." Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You might suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply decide to reserve the words "I love you" for more special occasions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you.
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-aggressiveness. "Hey babe! I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' to one another a lot. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose meaning." Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You might suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply decide to reserve the words "I love you" for more special occasions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you. By the way, RUclips seems to be surpressing this comment for some bizzarre reason. My internet is perfectly stable, so I know that's not the issue. I've got this comment saved in an external document and I will post it as many times as necessary for it to go through. Sorry if you see duplicates!
This sketch actually made me sad. The last couple ones on the end of this video are exactly how my girlfriend acts. I knew we were struggling but like dang
I really love her sense of humor. This girl is killin’ it with her channel! In a sea of mediocrity, she’s one of those rare RUclips comics (for lack of a better description) who truly make me laugh. Thanks girl!
People say happy affectionate couples annoy them but happy affectionate couples are the most beautiful thing. I would never want this kind of a relationship for myself nor anyone else
There can be a balance of both. Honestly if you don't take the piss out of each other sometimes I'd have trouble believing you were really that close or intimate with each other at all tbh. I literally cannot find a man attractive if he doesn't make fun of me now and then in a way that makes me laugh. I would be so fucking bored with just positivity and affection all the time.
Young men really need to see this video. They need to understand that because woman can't physically overpower us, they have to find other means of making their men submissive. This is the normal way. By breaking you down very slowly over time until you think this sort of behaviour is normal. Great actress. She really nails it.
@somebodyoncetoldme2664 Do you not believe in psychology in general, or just that people aren't able to manipulate each other? Or do you believe that only men use psychology to break women? There are definitely bad men out there who use emotional manipulation to break down their wives. I'm curious to just see what you mean by "non issuse"?
Nicely acted. Majority of people have probably experienced this in a previous relationship. Sly, subtle emotional abuse which grinds you down. We live and learn. Some people are just like that and you get better at spotting them as you get older. Sadly a few get trapped with them, get married and end up with a life of misery.
Usually ppl like this are not used to receiving genuine love and affection so when they do, they respond like this as defense. Lot's of healing fr Careful with toxic relationships folks, everyone struggles but you need to also protect your own peace
Nah, they're just jerks. Stop romanticising them as victims. They aren't victims. They are the perps. Look, who hasn't had a hard time. It's never an excuse for treating others badly. Ever. These kind of people use sympathy and victimhood as an excuse for their own terrible, wicked and nasty behaviour. Don't fall for the 'they never received genuine love" BS. THat's how they snare their victims.
@@williamtopping woah chill out. Read my comment again and you'll notice I never said it excuses any type of behaviour whatsoever. I'm not romanticizing anything and just gave a possible reason to a why, now of course that doesn't justify anything, they act toxic. That's why I said in the end to be careful with toxic relationships and that even though most people struggle with something you need to protect yourself first - I literally acknowledge part of what you said, bit of a misunderstanding here, the point of my comment wasn't that at all
@@radicalfeministanon That's your takeway in this? The whole video is filled with situations where the guy expresses his love and affection only to be met with cold annoyance. It hurts a lot. If the breath was the problem, there are many ways to express it without being this hurtful. It's a question of tone and choice of words. She could have used practically the same words with a warmer tone, and I would see no problem with the situation. This actress played perfectly a relationship where something is very wrong, and the problem isn't being talked about.
@@raphaelhemery152 sorry, i was trolling. i understand that if a woman acted like this in a relationship it would be hurtful. however i do think of men like big ed who enter transactional relationships with women while being unhygienic and grotesque, and i dont really care about the man’s feelings in that situation, he is basically purchasing her with no regard to her desires and its against my beliefs, his morality is automatically lower than hers and her frustration and disgust was reasonable. otherwise, what was in the video was uncalled for and rude, for sure, they need to break up. What you’ve said is true :) ☮️ However, ppl should express their “love and affection” within the tastes of their partners, not their own. Otherwise you are just gratifying yourself and causing her to endure discomfort, disguised as an expression of love. She probably should have worded it differently, but a dude in a relationship should know whether his gf likes morning breath, should know whether she enjoys being kissed with morning breath when she’s feeling annoyed etc- in fact its kinda preposterous that the male is not completely ashamed and trying his best to prevent her from smelling his morning breath like a woman would be. It’s not traumatic imo, you should constantly be concerned with avoiding disgusting your partner tbh
Guys, men and dudes who experienced this - damn I'm so sorry. It is hard, cause even if person is not nice, you somehow don't stop loving them, even though you should. I believe you got this, I know you have/will manage the situation as best as you could in that monent. Life isnt easy, you got to stand up for yourself in ways you wasn't tought to.
I dated this girl once. Once. The emotional battering and insufferable attitude was overwhelming. I'm glad I'm not the only one who notices the difference between someone who cares and someone who only cares about themself.
No one who acts like this should be someone you choose to have in your life. Everyone deserves better. Cute doesn’t mean anything when you’re ugly inside.
Omg, that's sad Sending you hugs Maybe you should try a counselor or therapist If that doesn't work, I would suggest you take some time apart or get divorced, but you're worried about your kids so that should be a last resort. It's just really sad that marriages are technically for a lifetime But anyway, sending you love and light 💕
Try to set up boundaries and take charge of your kids if you can. Do not let her poison them. It's best not to treat her like an enemy but if you can't put her in line you have to mitigate the damage she does to you and your children.
The last one brought back all the memories from my relationship… I know I’m a very affectionate person but it crushed me every time he said “can you say it less? I get it, it’s losing its meaning now and you’re forcing me to say it back when it doesn’t even fit into the conversation” sorry my bad
When I was about 18, I found myself thinking these thoughts about my long term boyfriend. I never said them out loud and was really ashamed I even had them. It took me a long time to realise I was miserable and could just leave a relationship that was making me miserable. I hated the person I was becoming. Eventually he drug-drove and crashed the car we were both in and I ended up in hospital and dumped him. He was fine, more worried about his car. So it ended well..! 😅
@@Sonjin3592 this is just victim blaming of people stuck in toxic relationships. Would you tell an abuse victim that they have to take “accountability” over who they date as well? The person at fault is the person being toxic, not the other person who is the victim (although to be fair there are quite a few toxic relationships where both parties are toxic, but it’s clear that in the person above’s case it was their ex-boyfriend who was the toxic one).
Pretty spot on. Meanwhile the reason he keeps saying I love you is because he is dying inside because he can feel that she is about to break up with him.
Reminds me of my exes 😂 That cup of tea request got me thrown out of my own place for 2 months. 😂 And that “I love you” remark - ouch! Takes me back to married life pre-divorce.
This is so perfectly done. Not just the words and intonation, but also things like * Slowing down a word to imply that the other is dim (e.g. the word "speaking") * Lowering the eyes then bringing them back up to imply disbelief * The small grimace after saying "please", to neutralise any sense of courtesy * Looking upwards with the eyeballs to imply contempt (at saying "I love you") And many more. The only thing I could suggest for improvement is that removing the thing from her boyfriend's face is a caring action. Instead, would direct the boyfriend to remove it himself and guide his hand. Can even say things like "When I say to the left I mean your left not my left. Are you stupid or something?" Good job I'm not a woman 😊
My bum wipe of an ex was like this. Mardy 95% of the time and talked to me like I was trash. I had years of this toxic behaviour. Run from these kinds of people, they never change. Hoping they will only keeps you trapped.
Oh my God, this was so well acted, it made me uncomfortable. I have witnessed this before, and I would NEVER speak to anyone like this, unless I was in a fight. Makes me so upset to see people talk to their loved ones like this.
@@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive - Thank you. Unfortunately I don't follow your religious standards, as I'm not religious. But if ever I come over for tea, I'll be sure not to.
Although I’ve never experienced a girlfriend like this, I am 100% convinced without a shadow of a doubt that being alone and lonely is 1000% better than having a partner like this.
This was me in the beginning of my relationship (though less extreme) because growing up, I went through abuse, neglect, and constantly heard promises that never came to be so it made me really cold and mean towards people. I would hear something simple like "hey, we're going to the movies this weekend!" and my response would be a monotone "okay." because in my head, I would be thinking "yeah, he says that but I bet 'something' is going to happen and we end up not going." Meeting his family was also awkward for me because they already considered me part of it and showered me in kindness and when you come from a family of d¡ckheads, this can be jarring. I'm doing much better and started trusting people more though I still get a bit snappy when I'm concentrated on something and get interrupted. I guess some things are harder to change than others...
what I find engaging about all her performances is that it feels as though she is letting the character shine through her, instead of letting herself shine through the character.
If a girl doesn't wanna be kissed by you and you are her "boyfriend", run! The woman in this video is crazy and should be avoided at all costs (great acting btw).
@@rulingstone123 Um, maybe? That's not my point though my friend. My point is that IF your girlfriend CONSTANTLY rejects your kisses, then just leave her. Without affection a romantic relationship cannot exist...
@@rulingstone123 You said: "if they are not intimate then they are simply friends with no benefits" This DOES NOT equal "My point is that IF your girlfriend CONSTANTLY rejects your kisses, then just leave her. Without affection a romantic relationship cannot exist..." So take your arrogant attitude out of here, and take some reading comprehension and writing lessons. You clearly think you are a better writer than you actually are....
Ok well this is relatable. That's me when I don't want to admit to myself that I just really ought to leave a miserable relationship with all it's repressed problems, barely held together by a fascade of normalcy
@@oceansapphire1311 if the guys here are worse or not is irrelevant. The actions portrayed in the video are still incredibly toxic emotional abuse and should never be done to anyone regardless of gender
Damn have had a girl lug me around like this. She was ashamed to like me told me her friends teased her for it. Just knocked me down man. Then she would text me so hot and cold. Make me worry and send me cryptic messages. I knew she was stringing me around but i kept getting sucked into this mysertious persona she put on. Then a while back i fell out with our mutual mate she doesnt text me or anything or listen to my side of the story not like misses me. Keeps me on her private story. It was weird but yea i have never felt so ugly so pathetic so unloveable as i have.
I have to admit, that this was me for the longest time in my long term relationship. The whole relationship made me miserable, I still loved him (Which I did tell him a lot, and when he said it I always said it back), but I found myself always getting irrritated and annoyed by him. Even now after we broke up, whenever I see him and hear him speak, I still get annoyed and stuff. I just really cant stand the person he has become. I should have left that relationship long ago, for both of our sakes.
I thought I was the only one, I felt so ashamed. I do love him, I can't imagine my life without him, but oh my god he's so fcking annoying sometimes. And he changed a lot. Just what do I do??? I do find myself acting a bit like the character in this sketch and it's scary.
@Lucky kitty Work on yourself, find time away as much as you can. Remember that we cannot control others, behaviors and the paths they decide to take with their lives, only ourselves and how deeply they affect us. That's been really helpful for me. Make sure you are having individual counseling and be very honest. Don't continue to let this make you into somebody you don't recognize. I cry a lot in counseling but when I get down to the bottom of my behaviors it is the actions, inaction, and how deeply it affects me that causes me to behave this way. Your own self awareness and reflection is indicative of the fact that you do care and are not a bad person. You are going to be okay, best of luck.
@@robjamesvideo 😂😂... either you're currently in relationship or the pc mob made you extremely cautious. I'm a hard core factual and truthful man, I don't follow crowds. If the emperor is naked, I'm going to say it. If there's an elephant in room, I'm going to say it. Speaking of elephants, as to monthly visitors, it's a perfectly natural, biologically normal cycle of life for females of menstruation ages. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. What naturally occurring biological aspect will the shallow- brained social mobs deny next? That humans breathe? Oh shiver me timbers!! I must run and hide!! The mob of uneducated peasants are chasing me with torches and pitchforks! 😅😆
WOW - my condolences friend - mine was narcissist girlfriend who tried to kill me and narcissist farther who kept the family in extreme poverty and we find out now he is 85 that he is absolutely LOADED and leaving it all to a dogs home...
The number of times I've been sure I've been despised in a relationship, but also felt undeserving of better... I wish I could tell my younger self to get out.
No one deserves this kind of toxic relationship jjust cos someone ISN'T hitting you doesnt mean it's not abusive. If you're with someone like this plsss leave and never look back this is NOT love and you can do so much better. Being alone is better than having your soul and self esteem ground down continuously.
this reminds me of my ex so much ..and my god, living with the total opposite feels like i won the lottery ..3 and a half years in and we can still appear as though we’re in the honeymoon phase at times
there's a subtleness to the toxicity, so escaping the relationship needs some self depth perception first to realize it
So true
Yep. And it's more the pattern of behaviour over time. That's the really difficult thing about this stuff, as each comment or incident in itself might not stand out as being particularly harmful, but the cumulative effect of living with this most certainly is.
"self depth perception" is a great phrase
What confounds me is how people develop deep relationships with people who lack empathy to this extent
@@Holygiant Well the toxic person does this thing called emotional manipulation
That’s a pretty damn good demonstration of the behavior of a person that wants to leave the relationship but is too cowardly to do so.
Finally someone who's drawn the correct conclusion holy god you're rare in this brainless comments section.
Afraid of loneliness and discrimination so they'd rather be toxic in a relationship than alone waiting for the right one
ON POINT
Yup that and being unexperienced in love/ relationship stuff . I was behaving a bit like that in my first relationship at 19 years old (I wasn’t rude like that but I was annoyed a lot). Guy was terribly infatuated in me and he thaught it was love. I’m very anxious and I hate changes so having him enter my life was very difficult and confusing. It took me some time to realise that this worry is not just a comitment issues but I actualy don’t like him at all. I was interested at first but then I wasn’t and I had no idea how to mix out of this
@@RaraAviss ❤️ I guess maybe we’ve all been there at some point or another. On one side or the other. It doesn’t get any less disappointing in self as you get older -I can say that much.
And I was almost feeling lonely for a second, this video set me straight for sure.
Yeah, I should have spotted these signs about 10 years ago with my last relationship, but being a dumb male I completely missed the signs. Ah... living alone and being lonely are two separate things. Never been as lonely as when I was in a toxic relationship and I'm sure that applies to everyone, whatever their gender. Much better to have good friends and peace and quiet at home. Yeah I have a cat, but only one... not going complete crazy cat man quite yet 🤣😂🤣
It nearly set me gay .
@@andyknowles772 😂😂😂
id prefer this over my current loneliness
@@on_spikes6867 that's why this exists. Straight up just focus on the things you enjoy doing, there is a reason why you enjoy doing things and others will want to be along for the ride
There are fates worse than "loneliness."
Absolutely!
Oh, Yes
There are worse things than being alone,
but it often takes decades to realize this,
and most often when you do
it's too late...
And there's nothing worse
than too late.
- Albert Einstein
@@ytsucksnowwiththisrealname1096 that was bukowski
@@catshaveteats it was Albert Einstein :)
Proverbs 21:9 - Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.
Proverbs 21:19 - Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
Damn you're a good actress. This level of authenticity comes observing folks closely, but to mimic such specific behaviours flawlessly is impressive.
Tragically as much as I love her videos, it seems to be tooooom accurate
I wonder if she's a psychopath.
She is new to youtube I reckon? Looks quite young at least. But I agree, impressive talent, very entertaining. Also how she got those little convincing details down like scanning the face of the supposed other person with her eyes as you would in normal conversation. Most amateur actors just give it a blank stare
Acting - who said she was acting?
@@petesmith9472how is it too accurate ? You seem to be using your personal experience to have prejudice against her
I am proud to admit that even as a stupid teenager I had the emotional intelligence to run away from these kind of women as fast as possible.
Too bad you didn't establish a university for relationships.
3 ex-wives and 87.5 ex-girlfriends later, I really could have benefited from your courses. 😅
Oh by the way ,I suggest the university be named: Love U. 😅
@@fabirkemarian6370 Damn those are some serious numbers.
I had a failed marriage myself, so I am afraid I am no relationship genius, but the divorce still went muuuuch more smoothly than it usually does.
So I guess only dating women who actually show high affection at the very least was not that bad of a rule of thumb.
@@fabirkemarian6370 who was the half
@@fabirkemarian6370 WHO THE FUCK HAS HALF GIRLFRIENDS
@@spicychipotle790 she was an older woman, very short, only 4'10" , weighed maybe 80 lbs😄
The last one hit me like a freight train. It's so damn soul-crushing, when you tell your significant other that you love her and in return she just absolutely destroys you with that cold attitude...
I was in a relationship like this for 4 years.
That's awful. I wish open eyes and luck with the next one.
saying it too often does sound annoying tho
oof, glad you're out, now you just have to keep an eye out for the red flags.
@@TicTac2: In this scenario, the bf knows something is wrong, but not why. He is seeking reassurance they're still on the same page. In an unfortunate paradox, the more uncertain you become, the greater the urge to cling & seek that reassurance more often. It's not healthy thinking, of course, but that's far more obvious in hindsight (or as an outsider) than it is in the moment. People are often just doing the best they can, even when things are slowly falling apart.
Ohh I'm sad you went through that and im glad you escaped.
I've learned to pay more attention to how i feel when I'm around people.
If they are draining, cruel or arrogant,
i walk away.
I wish you a journey of healing ahead❤
When I told my wife I loved her for the first time, I think we were watching a movie. She cried and told me she loved me too. 12 years later, and 8 years of marriage, and the love is still there. But it takes constant work. It takes commitment. It takes putting the other person first. It takes strong values. It takes perseverance. .tough people stay married.
i'd get rid of her if i was you.
@@MarriedToTheKGB shut up
@@MarriedToTheKGB bruh
@@MarriedToTheKGBbitter and lonely guy
People react in different ways when watching Cannibal Holocaust for the first time. This one's a nice story mind.
And here she was just so excited to tell her class about him just a couple weeks ago
HHAAHAHHA
Oh, come on. That's too cynical. It's been at least three months.
hahahah that's a funny twist, the teacher video
I hope she returns the earrings
Haha, but I feel this is a different character (younger).
*THIS IS BASICALLY* an educational video - I can almost hear all the light bulbs going on in men's heads as they watch it "OH - she cant stand me"
When I had 2 flatmates who were a couple: "awwh, they're just like a married couple"
Now that I've moved out:"oh, they hated each other"
It sure did for me! I'm lit up like a f$^k×n Christmas tree! 😅😅
@@fabirkemarian6370 HAHAHHAHAHA
@@piccalillipit9211 😄😄
Not just men. I saw myself there a bit in past relationships. Poor girls/women - older and Wiser now
So sorry for the people that deal with this treatment from their significant other, no one should feel like an obsictle on the other person's life when they are on a relationship with you. It's like the only reason they aren't happy is because of you.
Truth.
And it can be so subtle to, like the harmful attitude and behavior can just gradually sneak it's way in, and before you know it you're not feeling right, but you don't know why.
It is so common though
Ouch. That used to be me. Emotionally unavailable, couldn't fully open up or love unconditionally, irritable, demanding and struggled when his nice family was around. I used to think they were weird and it was pretend and I was forcing myself to pretend to be as nice, obvs failing miserably and frustrating myself. Turns out I had it backwards, it was my family that was messed up. Years of therapy and tada now I can be nice without pretending. Yay
But didn’t you think that life would be better if everyone is (trying to be) friendly? Did you appreciate friendliness at all? Just trying to understand and I’m glad you’re doing better.
As someone who has the exact same issue, friendliness and happy families didn't feel safe. it is triggering and unfamiliar and sets off alarm bells, so we become guarded..Learned behaviour seeing our caregivers act this way and also not having it modelled to us as kids. It's lonely and sad and we are usually miserable, and there's different levels of self awareness to it too..Some people won't think they are ever in the wrong..Some know it but don't know how to stop..Some know and go to therapy and manage to reparent themselves and change their behaviour
So glad you shared this, I used to be like that too. Growth IS possible 💗
This is great. People in the comments hate on this behavior, and don’t get me wrong, it’s absolutely horrible to do that to someone. But toxic behavior is often related to deeper issues. It’s not just that they don’t give a fuck about others, or that they want to hurt them. Most people aren’t just evil.
And the fact that you realized what you were doing wrong, you realized that you had to change, and you did it, is amazing. You should be extremely proud!
@@pwh5805 from someone who personally still struggles a bit with telling when someone's being genuine or not with their friendliness - yes and no. it's nice to not have immediate conflict, but it's also nice to not be constantly stuck in a limbo of 'do they really like me or are they just being polite?'. as much as it hurts to know 'brutally honest' people, at least you're well aware of where you stand in your relationship to them
Toxic relationships just hit different 😂
I don't get these people... just break up 🤷♂️
It's only "toxic" if it's the male behaving like this. If it's the female it's just called a "normal relationship".
This is basically most women, quite a lot of the time. Sadly.
@@sammyb1651 Break up then
@@Natogoon I wasn't asking the internet for personal advice you buffoon. It was a commentary on society.
@@sammyb1651 In all seriousness, I can’t stand women who talk to people like this. It’s an obnoxious self righteous attitude as though everything they say is final and correct. It reminds me of some people officers.
To the younger guys with little to no reference point, do not stay in a relationship with a woman who treats you like she is acting. Just leave her to grow old by herself gracefully.
Live in denial by forcing yourself to believe her attitude will improve with time. You will eventually discover that you are mistaken.
On the other hand, this lady should REALLY consider an acting career.
The level of genius when you manage to make a funny relatable sketch for jokes intercept at the line of actualised trauma that can be used for educational purpose.
Spot on
How is this educational ? You have to be dense to see all these signs and think she likes me
This is kinda how I act when I'm passive aggressive, and this video low key gave me some insight into myself that I didn't necessarily have before
And these are also the couples that are about to buy a house together and talking about getting engaged soon 😂
And...having kids....😢
@@nicolab2075...and then they expect the kids to "fix their problems"..
a la: "oh we thought our relationship would become blissful, once we are a full family.. we thought THAT'S why we lacked bliss.. cos we weren't 'complete' yet.."
..so if problems persist - it'll all be the kid's fault..
who are easy to blame.. as we live in a world where you're held accountable for everything + the kitchen sink - EXCEPT for psychological abuse of your kids..
🤦♂️🤦♀️😱😵
@@laus9953 That's so well said. No one's holding my parents accountable for how they messed up us kids. And our parents are only blaming us for our failures, never admitting their own. It's such painful burden.
Yooooo you know this lol
They have perfect family Instagram accounts but it's really just to make money cos they're battering each other behind the scenes 😅
I'm getting that drained feeling that you get from a toxic person
I’ve definitely acted like this, course I wasn’t mentally well-but there reasons for acting like that no excuses for it. I feel terrible about it and this video made me sad. I’m glad a lot of people know this isn’t something to brush past it’s a subtle thing that says a lot about a friend or romantic partner-pretty much anyone with internalised insecurities and needs help before hurting someone like that.
I’m trying really hard to be better. I’m really thankful my partner stayed with me and was even emotionally intelligent enough to help point out these things I would do and I’m grateful and love them so much. They never deserved to be hurt I never thought it would be as hurtful as it was because I was in such intense pain constantly-I just couldn’t understand why it would bother them…thanks for sharing this video it helps me understand the other side of it and to keep in mind those bad habits that I would brush off are so very harmful. If I had known better I would have acted better towards the person I love the absolute most in this world.
I’m so lucky, too lucky, at their expense-I wasn’t just left like that in agony to learn the hard way. 😞
It is amazing that you are learning though! Many people stay stuck in their ways.
Keep up the good work!
@@raphaelhemery152 Thank you! I’m proud to say I’m getting to a better place of awareness-i know introspection is key and I’m already seeing things change for the best! ❤️
Yeah its easy to forget that cold bitch behaviour/narcissism is ironically rooted in self HATE and insecurity, not an excess of self love/confidence.
sounds like you are really doing the work, evolving and becoming a more conscious, compassionate person, that's awesome! I know it's hard to let go of past mistakes, but I hope you will going and forgive yourself :)
This is me rn tbh…..
if ur girl treats u like this, she doesn’t see any value in u as a person. just someone she can tolerate enough to keep around so she won’t be lonely. there’s someone much more worthwhile than this out there.
Hell yeah! I went from simping to pimping.
I change my women like I change my underwear, as soon as it starts to stink, it's outta here! 😄👍
For anyone that grew up & dated in the Midlands this is scarily on- point, some of the subtleties in this take me right back 🤣
The mardyness is spot on
@@Answersonapostcard Yay, someone on the internet using ‘mardy’ 🥳. I’m from Derbyshire and if I use it elsewhere, people don’t know what I’m on about 😁
Holy fuck you're right! I thought I was the only one who just associated this with the Midlands lol 🤣, spot on lad
Try living up north - I grew up in Preston & Blackpool and this is normal - even your parents, neighbours, siblings, literally everyone is like this (different wording and context obvs) - when it's in public, people will laugh at the one on the receiving end lol - Britain is a fun place 😂
@@englishteadrinker736whats mardyness
This is both brilliant, and kinda sad. Brilliant, because it punches up, making the abuser the butt of the joke, but its such a devastatingly accurate portrayal and will be so recognisable to so many of us.
It is true that 'I love you' can become a practised response or mantra that is just recited without any real feeling behind it.
While true, there are better ways to communicate this to your partner than shown in the video.
@@nevanmasterson46 what's a good way to communicate this sentiment? /gen
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-agressiveness.
"Hey babe, I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' a lot to one another. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose their meaning."
Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You can suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply reserve the words "I love you" for special occassions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you.
I hope this helps!
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-aggressiveness.
"Hey babe! I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' to one another a lot. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose meaning."
Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You might suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply decide to reserve the words "I love you" for more special occasions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you.
@@terryh.9238 Directly. Talk to your partner candidly, explaining your feelings on the matter using words rather than dismissive passive-aggressiveness.
"Hey babe! I want to talk to you about how we seem to say 'I love you' to one another a lot. For the record, I DO love you, but I'm just afraid that we say it so much that the words are beginning to lose meaning."
Then the conversation will naturally fan out from there. You might suggest alternatives ("I appreciate you" is one that my ex and I used to use a lot), or you can simply decide to reserve the words "I love you" for more special occasions. Once you open the dialogue, it's merely a matter of finding a solution that works for the two of you.
By the way, RUclips seems to be surpressing this comment for some bizzarre reason. My internet is perfectly stable, so I know that's not the issue. I've got this comment saved in an external document and I will post it as many times as necessary for it to go through. Sorry if you see duplicates!
The boyfriend must be colourblind. He can't see the red flags.
This 🤌
Perhaps he's a commie and likes red flags
He must also be tone deaf.
He can't hear the tone in her voice?😄
@@ozymandias35 dude
Somebody spilled white paint all opver em
This sketch actually made me sad. The last couple ones on the end of this video are exactly how my girlfriend acts. I knew we were struggling but like dang
I really love her sense of humor. This girl is killin’ it with her channel! In a sea of mediocrity, she’s one of those rare RUclips comics (for lack of a better description) who truly make me laugh. Thanks girl!
Solosketch.
People say happy affectionate couples annoy them but happy affectionate couples are the most beautiful thing. I would never want this kind of a relationship for myself nor anyone else
There can be a balance of both. Honestly if you don't take the piss out of each other sometimes I'd have trouble believing you were really that close or intimate with each other at all tbh.
I literally cannot find a man attractive if he doesn't make fun of me now and then in a way that makes me laugh. I would be so fucking bored with just positivity and affection all the time.
@@bums009 you're just talking about like friendly banter though. That's still a form of affection tbh and is definitely good
Being on your own has many moments of sad reflection but not as desperate or downright miserable as a loveless relationship.
Oh God!! I've been on the receiving end like this too. It's soul destroying!!
After two and half years, proud to say I got out of a relationship like this one. What an awful thing to go through.
Young men really need to see this video. They need to understand that because woman can't physically overpower us, they have to find other means of making their men submissive. This is the normal way. By breaking you down very slowly over time until you think this sort of behaviour is normal.
Great actress. She really nails it.
Bro husbands complain about their wives all the time and it's unwarranted. This is a non issue since it doesn't even exist
@somebodyoncetoldme2664 Do you not believe in psychology in general, or just that people aren't able to manipulate each other?
Or do you believe that only men use psychology to break women? There are definitely bad men out there who use emotional manipulation to break down their wives.
I'm curious to just see what you mean by "non issuse"?
The moment when you stop painting all women men, whatever, with the same brush is the moment you’ll actually use your brain for the first time
Where did she get the unashamed insight for her parts, each is perfect and always hits the right tone?
That is what I was wondering, especially about this one. To know this in such nuanced, gut-punching detail usually means one has suffered under it.
maybe, but not necessarily. I think she in particular and good actors are just great observers of people
Nicely acted. Majority of people have probably experienced this in a previous relationship. Sly, subtle emotional abuse which grinds you down. We live and learn. Some people are just like that and you get better at spotting them as you get older.
Sadly a few get trapped with them, get married and end up with a life of misery.
Usually ppl like this are not used to receiving genuine love and affection so when they do, they respond like this as defense. Lot's of healing fr
Careful with toxic relationships folks, everyone struggles but you need to also protect your own peace
Nah, they're just jerks. Stop romanticising them as victims. They aren't victims. They are the perps.
Look, who hasn't had a hard time. It's never an excuse for treating others badly. Ever.
These kind of people use sympathy and victimhood as an excuse for their own terrible, wicked and nasty behaviour.
Don't fall for the 'they never received genuine love" BS. THat's how they snare their victims.
@@williamtopping woah chill out. Read my comment again and you'll notice I never said it excuses any type of behaviour whatsoever. I'm not romanticizing anything and just gave a possible reason to a why, now of course that doesn't justify anything, they act toxic. That's why I said in the end to be careful with toxic relationships and that even though most people struggle with something you need to protect yourself first - I literally acknowledge part of what you said, bit of a misunderstanding here, the point of my comment wasn't that at all
Very sharply accurate for boyfriend that can’t stand their girlfriend and girlfriend that can’t stand their boyfriends 😂
Hopefully this opened the eyes of some people who actually act like this toward their SOs/family
The fact this is how some women act grosses me out.
The tricky thing is when it's like this only half of the time, the other half makes you want to stay
man did you uncover some deep trauma in my memory 😂
Misery loves company 😅
Brush yo teeth
trauma about how you dont brush your teeth and try to kiss people?
@@radicalfeministanon That's your takeway in this? The whole video is filled with situations where the guy expresses his love and affection only to be met with cold annoyance. It hurts a lot. If the breath was the problem, there are many ways to express it without being this hurtful. It's a question of tone and choice of words. She could have used practically the same words with a warmer tone, and I would see no problem with the situation.
This actress played perfectly a relationship where something is very wrong, and the problem isn't being talked about.
@@raphaelhemery152 sorry, i was trolling. i understand that if a woman acted like this in a relationship it would be hurtful. however i do think of men like big ed who enter transactional relationships with women while being unhygienic and grotesque, and i dont really care about the man’s feelings in that situation, he is basically purchasing her with no regard to her desires and its against my beliefs, his morality is automatically lower than hers and her frustration and disgust was reasonable. otherwise, what was in the video was uncalled for and rude, for sure, they need to break up. What you’ve said is true :) ☮️ However, ppl should express their “love and affection” within the tastes of their partners, not their own. Otherwise you are just gratifying yourself and causing her to endure discomfort, disguised as an expression of love. She probably should have worded it differently, but a dude in a relationship should know whether his gf likes morning breath, should know whether she enjoys being kissed with morning breath when she’s feeling annoyed etc- in fact its kinda preposterous that the male is not completely ashamed and trying his best to prevent her from smelling his morning breath like a woman would be. It’s not traumatic imo, you should constantly be concerned with avoiding disgusting your partner tbh
My brother's ex had this EXACT personality and oh my goodness you got it on point lmao
People are worse than scum sometimes.
This brought back some bad memories, so, good job, I guess!
Guys, men and dudes who experienced this - damn I'm so sorry. It is hard, cause even if person is not nice, you somehow don't stop loving them, even though you should. I believe you got this, I know you have/will manage the situation as best as you could in that monent. Life isnt easy, you got to stand up for yourself in ways you wasn't tought to.
Life is just dandy, it’s these women who aren’t easy.
Of course. There are not just women like that, though 🤷♀️
Women too. This isn't about men it's about people.
Women too. Aren't we not humans anymore? Acting like there aren't toxic males as well 💀
@@anonimushbosh video is specifically about a girl who can't stand her boyfriend
I dated this girl once. Once. The emotional battering and insufferable attitude was overwhelming. I'm glad I'm not the only one who notices the difference between someone who cares and someone who only cares about themself.
Yeah and if you try to talk it out they just get worse
No one who acts like this should be someone you choose to have in your life. Everyone deserves better. Cute doesn’t mean anything when you’re ugly inside.
Unfortunately my wife treats me like this, if it wasn’t for the kids I’d be gone, feeling trapped and don’t know what to do.
Omg, that's sad
Sending you hugs
Maybe you should try a counselor or therapist
If that doesn't work, I would suggest you take some time apart or get divorced, but you're worried about your kids so that should be a last resort.
It's just really sad that marriages are technically for a lifetime
But anyway, sending you love and light 💕
Start treating her the same way.
Treat her with love and kindness.
Love conquers all. Genuine love is strong.
@@ronchum5178 it won't work , it takes love to save a marriage
Try to set up boundaries and take charge of your kids if you can. Do not let her poison them. It's best not to treat her like an enemy but if you can't put her in line you have to mitigate the damage she does to you and your children.
It’s such a shame these relationships exist….I love how she captures it so accurately, maybe too accurately
My girlfriend (now wife) spat her tea out when you asked for a cup of tea...so politely. Keep up the amazing work. 😂
You got married in the time between her spitting the tea out and writing this comment? Impressive 🙃
@@Simargo wow that's a neat observation. 😂
The last one brought back all the memories from my relationship… I know I’m a very affectionate person but it crushed me every time he said “can you say it less? I get it, it’s losing its meaning now and you’re forcing me to say it back when it doesn’t even fit into the conversation” sorry my bad
Dam that sucks. Nobody deserves to be with someone like that
Oh my god what the hell, that was so accurate to the words and facial expressions you used. Damn feels like I was spied on for 2 years
I dont understand how a relationship like this even becomes real
im obsessed with these videos lol. you're great! hope to see more in future :)
When I was about 18, I found myself thinking these thoughts about my long term boyfriend. I never said them out loud and was really ashamed I even had them. It took me a long time to realise I was miserable and could just leave a relationship that was making me miserable. I hated the person I was becoming. Eventually he drug-drove and crashed the car we were both in and I ended up in hospital and dumped him. He was fine, more worried about his car. So it ended well..! 😅
Wow, I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you're stronger because of it and you find someone who makes you happy.
@@parkerhull7425 She won't. Men need to run from women that can't be happy and nothing is ever good enough.
He was not attractive?
@@loganblackwood2922 no one is stopping you from that. You have accountability over who you pick and date
@@Sonjin3592 this is just victim blaming of people stuck in toxic relationships. Would you tell an abuse victim that they have to take “accountability” over who they date as well? The person at fault is the person being toxic, not the other person who is the victim (although to be fair there are quite a few toxic relationships where both parties are toxic, but it’s clear that in the person above’s case it was their ex-boyfriend who was the toxic one).
Pretty spot on. Meanwhile the reason he keeps saying I love you is because he is dying inside because he can feel that she is about to break up with him.
Excellent portrayal of a narcissistic partner. If you experience this, run and don't look back.
Holy hell having flashbacks to the last 3 years of my marriage hahaha
Reminds me of my exes 😂 That cup of tea request got me thrown out of my own place for 2 months. 😂 And that “I love you” remark - ouch! Takes me back to married life pre-divorce.
This is so perfectly done. Not just the words and intonation, but also things like
* Slowing down a word to imply that the other is dim (e.g. the word "speaking")
* Lowering the eyes then bringing them back up to imply disbelief
* The small grimace after saying "please", to neutralise any sense of courtesy
* Looking upwards with the eyeballs to imply contempt (at saying "I love you")
And many more.
The only thing I could suggest for improvement is that removing the thing from her boyfriend's face is a caring action. Instead, would direct the boyfriend to remove it himself and guide his hand. Can even say things like "When I say to the left I mean your left not my left. Are you stupid or something?"
Good job I'm not a woman 😊
My bum wipe of an ex was like this. Mardy 95% of the time and talked to me like I was trash. I had years of this toxic behaviour. Run from these kinds of people, they never change. Hoping they will only keeps you trapped.
What's Mardy mean? And yeah you're right about running from them
@@dreadfulbadger Mardy comes mostly from Northern England (Yorkshire here) it means Moody, Sulky, petulant, grumpy etc. Hope that explains it! :)
@@becky0710 thanks for the explanation. I'm American so that's why I had no clue lol
Oh my God, this was so well acted, it made me uncomfortable. I have witnessed this before, and I would NEVER speak to anyone like this, unless I was in a fight. Makes me so upset to see people talk to their loved ones like this.
They're obviously not actually their loved ones if they're treating them like this
I encourage you not to blaspheme.
@@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive - Thank you.
Unfortunately I don't follow your religious standards, as I'm not religious. But if ever I come over for tea, I'll be sure not to.
Although I’ve never experienced a girlfriend like this, I am 100% convinced without a shadow of a doubt that being alone and lonely is 1000% better than having a partner like this.
If you started to hate her, then she is just a good actress
This was me in the beginning of my relationship (though less extreme) because growing up, I went through abuse, neglect, and constantly heard promises that never came to be so it made me really cold and mean towards people.
I would hear something simple like "hey, we're going to the movies this weekend!" and my response would be a monotone "okay." because in my head, I would be thinking "yeah, he says that but I bet 'something' is going to happen and we end up not going."
Meeting his family was also awkward for me because they already considered me part of it and showered me in kindness and when you come from a family of d¡ckheads, this can be jarring.
I'm doing much better and started trusting people more though I still get a bit snappy when I'm concentrated on something and get interrupted. I guess some things are harder to change than others...
Your story made me cry, thanks for sharing. ❤
thanks for bring the memories back :(
You're welcome
what I find engaging about all her performances is that it feels as though she is letting the character shine through her, instead of letting herself shine through the character.
Fuck, this was how i treated my ex girlfriend. I dont even know what to say. That was a super accurate portrayal of behaviour i wasnt even aware of.
At least you recognize it. Now you know how to avoid it in the future. Best wishes for growth going forward. ❤
I couldn’t get through this because of how accurate your acting is 😂
If a girl doesn't wanna be kissed by you and you are her "boyfriend", run! The woman in this video is crazy and should be avoided at all costs (great acting btw).
@@rulingstone123 Haha, that's a good point. I meant in general though! If she constantly rejects affectionate acts..... get out quick
@@rulingstone123 Um, maybe? That's not my point though my friend.
My point is that IF your girlfriend CONSTANTLY rejects your kisses, then just leave her. Without affection a romantic relationship cannot exist...
@@rulingstone123 Not really....
@@rulingstone123 You said:
"if they are not intimate then they are simply friends with no benefits"
This DOES NOT equal
"My point is that IF your girlfriend CONSTANTLY rejects your kisses, then just leave her. Without affection a romantic relationship cannot exist..."
So take your arrogant attitude out of here, and take some reading comprehension and writing lessons. You clearly think you are a better writer than you actually are....
She plays this way too good..
It was so proper real, I started feeling proper sorry for the bloke.
I know this is a skit and all but man, this video just made me feel horrible 😂
You have range as a writer/actor. I prefer the happy Northerner sketches by a lot tho -- they bring much sunshine and joy.
This is the best new thing on RUclips thank god for this woman!
Im so sorry to anyone whos in a relationship with a person like this... grab your stuff and RUN for the hills
Nicely done!!! If this relates to anyone, get out of that relationship asap. Staying will only damage you in the long term. Same applies to boyfriends
Lol we got kids, it's gonna be awhile.
@@ADHDlanguages oh touche, yeah that makes things harder
Ok well this is relatable. That's me when I don't want to admit to myself that I just really ought to leave a miserable relationship with all it's repressed problems, barely held together by a fascade of normalcy
oh shut up stop being so dramatic
Yeah some of the guys complaining here could possibly be worse than this in relationships. But I guess someone acting like this could hurt their pride
@@oceansapphire1311 Don't justify toxic behaviour.
@@oceansapphire1311 This is a very painful thing to live through regardless of the gender.
@@oceansapphire1311 if the guys here are worse or not is irrelevant. The actions portrayed in the video are still incredibly toxic emotional abuse and should never be done to anyone regardless of gender
Trigger warning needed. This is legit unsettling lol.
Damn have had a girl lug me around like this. She was ashamed to like me told me her friends teased her for it. Just knocked me down man. Then she would text me so hot and cold. Make me worry and send me cryptic messages. I knew she was stringing me around but i kept getting sucked into this mysertious persona she put on. Then a while back i fell out with our mutual mate she doesnt text me or anything or listen to my side of the story not like misses me. Keeps me on her private story. It was weird but yea i have never felt so ugly so pathetic so unloveable as i have.
Ough this is so real, I feel like I *know* her. I feel like I've met this person so many times.
This is so painfully accurate, and so well played😂
I have to admit, that this was me for the longest time in my long term relationship. The whole relationship made me miserable, I still loved him (Which I did tell him a lot, and when he said it I always said it back), but I found myself always getting irrritated and annoyed by him. Even now after we broke up, whenever I see him and hear him speak, I still get annoyed and stuff. I just really cant stand the person he has become. I should have left that relationship long ago, for both of our sakes.
I thought I was the only one, I felt so ashamed. I do love him, I can't imagine my life without him, but oh my god he's so fcking annoying sometimes. And he changed a lot. Just what do I do??? I do find myself acting a bit like the character in this sketch and it's scary.
@@need_more_kittens Probably should figure out how to deal with the stress that's making you so irritable or something idk
@Lucky kitty Work on yourself, find time away as much as you can. Remember that we cannot control others, behaviors and the paths they decide to take with their lives, only ourselves and how deeply they affect us. That's been really helpful for me. Make sure you are having individual counseling and be very honest. Don't continue to let this make you into somebody you don't recognize. I cry a lot in counseling but when I get down to the bottom of my behaviors it is the actions, inaction, and how deeply it affects me that causes me to behave this way. Your own self awareness and reflection is indicative of the fact that you do care and are not a bad person. You are going to be okay, best of luck.
1:21 Bit lukewarm, yet still better than "Yeah, I know".
I really love your northern accent you say everything perfectly
Wow! My husband’s covert narcissist ex wife who still speaks to him like this over text 🤜🏻
Hopefully he’s ignoring the texts or blocking her number…
Sounds like most married couples 😂🙈
This is so real. And tragic.
And funny when it's history 😅
Oh my god this made me want to cry! You're so good at acting, but it made me so sad to think of this happeneing to someone irl 😅
Wait. This isn't how all relationships are?
😅😅😅😅😅👍
Yeah but usually only for like 2-5 days a month… 😅
@@robjamesvideo oh oh! do you mean when the monthly female visitor shows up?😆
@@fabirkemarian6370 As a man, it's not my place to comment any further, I've already said too much...
@@robjamesvideo 😂😂... either you're currently in relationship or the pc mob made you extremely cautious. I'm a hard core factual and truthful man, I don't follow crowds. If the emperor is naked, I'm going to say it. If there's an elephant in room, I'm going to say it.
Speaking of elephants, as to monthly visitors, it's a perfectly natural, biologically normal cycle of life for females of menstruation ages. Absolutely nothing wrong with it.
What naturally occurring biological aspect will the shallow- brained social mobs deny next?
That humans breathe? Oh shiver me timbers!! I must run and hide!! The mob of uneducated peasants are chasing me with torches and pitchforks! 😅😆
You are horrifically good at that. LOL
Wow, that just brought me back to the worst 6 years of my young adult life...😵😂
Thanks! I am now reviving my worst relationship! How about narcissistic mother and passive aggressive wife and its the complete set?
WOW - my condolences friend - mine was narcissist girlfriend who tried to kill me and narcissist farther who kept the family in extreme poverty and we find out now he is 85 that he is absolutely LOADED and leaving it all to a dogs home...
Don't forget stepmom!
Haha, I had this for four years and now have stress-induced alopecia as a result. Incredibly accurate! 😆😪
She’s got to be dumped quick. Toxic relationship !!!!
The number of times I've been sure I've been despised in a relationship, but also felt undeserving of better... I wish I could tell my younger self to get out.
Girls like that have me like “well at least you’re cute. Got that going for you I guess”
lol its always crazy to me when i see people with much more relationship experience than me still not learning how to avoid these situations
We learn our attachment styles from our parents so it has little to do with relationship experience.
Really reminds me of my ex and it makes me feel so much better that I'm not with her anymore as breaking up was clearly the right thing to do.
No one deserves this kind of toxic relationship jjust cos someone ISN'T hitting you doesnt mean it's not abusive. If you're with someone like this plsss leave and never look back this is NOT love and you can do so much better. Being alone is better than having your soul and self esteem ground down continuously.
this reminds me of my ex so much ..and my god, living with the total opposite feels like i won the lottery ..3 and a half years in and we can still appear as though we’re in the honeymoon phase at times
PSA: If you can't stand somebody, you'd better run, walk away, leave, or kneel down.
Otherwise, that won't sit well with you either.
Holy shit how are you so good at portraying this kind of real life characters