Medical Technician Kidnaps Coworker After Waiting in Her Kitchen | Lori Kirkley Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 23 май 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Lori Kirkley?
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Don't you just love it when your neighbors see suspicious activity at your home and fail to tell you or the police until after something happens🙄
Being "suspicious " isn't a crime you don't call the police for "suspicion" that's asinine...
@@Jeff-sp7bg So, a stranger walks into your house when you’re not home and you don’t want your neighbors to call the police or at least call you to check on it? I hope you are never my neighbor.
@@Jeff-sp7bg Says who?
@willer3399 well I don't think it's that black and white. That stranger could've been a friend or somebody the family knew. Personally, I would've asked the home owners if they had asked a friend to drop over or something to that effect
@mj4193 look at that... informing your neighbors 😊
Heads up to the wife for reporting him for the burglary, thus helping get this case solved and him off the streets - just a massive pity that it was too late to spare Lori.
I can't help but feel sorry for her.
@@kaym.2854 I feel sorry for her too, but we know next to nothing about her, or their relationship from what is given here... Hope she has moved on and is happy 🙂
Came here just to comment what you said. Kudos to her!
Same! She is so strong bless her
I totally agree. Most times I hear that the wife comes forward years later after the marriage ends. Bravo to this wife.
It's bizarre that a neighbour saw a stranger entering the house when they were at work yet did nothing about it.
Not bizarre; reality.
Not really. You never know if the owner messaged and told them "wait there til I get off work".
You can't just assume that because YOU don't know somebody that the owner doesn't either.
I reported the same thing (someone going into my neighbors house when he was in Europe) and the police told me unless I was sure a crime was being committed, then they wouldn’t come. Small time idiots.
Me too! Basically. They came to my house instead and made me feel like an idiot. @GrumpyMeow-Meow
Not bizarre. Involving the police can be a dangerous thing for an innocent bystander in this country.
It’s so sad.
That is so creepy that a person she saw everyday at work, but had no real relationship with was so obscessed with her that he would do that. We have all worked with creepy people at one time or another and are lucky that they did not take things this far.
Exactly! It's always creepy when you realize someone knows more about you than you know about them, etc. Example: A coworker knows who you are married to, where you live, who your family is and that you have a RUclips channel and you don't even know their name. Then they get offended that you haven't really noticed them or that they work there because you've never even had a conversation with them before.
This is kind of like being a celebrity, minus the bodyguards
@@southernbelladonna78well you probably talked about your life on your RUclips channel that’s why they know so much about you ya nutjub are you serious
I am a nurse and I can just imagine her being polite and saying hello to him at work while in the meantime he's smiling and maybe made small talk while imagining dark and murderous fantasies of pure evil about her.
@@southernbelladonna78mhmm a guy I never spoke to never seen said he remember me from high school. That was nearly a decade ago and he messaged me out the blue. It’s so weird how you could be minding your business and don’t even know you caught someone else’s eye
Maybe the neighbor could've told Lori that a strange man let himself into her house through the garage, and was still there. SMH
this case is another instance of the sex and power dynamic that is the motivation for almost all male serial killers. As for good neighbors I recall when I left my garage door open all night by accident and unlike the neighbor in this story the woman next door called us up to ask if everything was alright. After seeing this video I'm even more grateful to her now.⚛😀
My neighbor always calls me if my garage door is open late at night. I do the same for any of my neighbors.
It's terrifying to even speculate on what could be happening in a situation like this.
Poor Lori. What torture she went through. I think David was obsessed with her and decided to have her no matter what
Doesn’t really explain the sadism and degradation though
@@fainitesbarley2245 some men like that kind of stuff.
No this was not some guy in love. He was a budding rapist/serial killer. His psychology is completely & utterly different.
I also think that her moving soon played some part, he would lose access to her and his fantasy would never be fulfilled. That's why he rushed and why he was determined to go through with it even after his wife found out about the burglary. He wasn't going to let her get away.
The title alone is genuinely terrifying enough
CLOTHING CHALLENGED people ARE BACK 💯
that comment made me laugh. He says it with such a straight face
I have such low conscientiousness that if I ever committed a crime bank and car repair receipts and my prescription eyeglasses would litter the crime scene and a trail of dog hair would lead investigators back to my lair.
That makes 2 of us haha
Doesn't seem like something to brag about just saying 🤔
Likewise. Except, because I left my glasses at the scene, the police would find me still trying to get my keys in the door. Or maybe, trying to find my house. 🙄
For me, I try to be organized so I write my to-do lists in my phone notes & set alarms for everything. But I’m also forgetful so I’ll probably leave my phone at the scene & get caught while I Uber back home 🤦🏽♀️
@@kathleenadams4978 😂👍🏻
Thanks Dr Grande, for keeping your older educational videos up.
I have a family member with bipolar and have been binge watching them for help with my emotions since she has been hospitalized.
You are a treasure!
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No stopping meds or drinking, it will mess them up for days. Remember bipolar disorder is a physical disorder that presents itself as a mental disorder. At the same time, therapy will teach them coping mechanisms. They can live a normal life. Moreover, there are strangers out here rooting for them. Like me. 💜
*I wish someone told me about how bad drinking was sooner than later.
@@DarkbutNotsinisterI beg to differ regarding bipolar being a physical disorder than a mental one. It’s a mental illness is a brain based condition that affects emotions, behaviors & thinking. Specifically, bipolar is a mood disorder. It does affect you physically when you’re in a depressed state or in a manic state. Sadly, I’ve been dealing with it for a few years now & have to take psych meds to be stable. Take care
@@janmondragon8761 I’ve lived with it for 30 of my 51 years. I’m on half a dozen meds to get me to normal. Were you around for the Wellbutrin dumpster fire? I was in the middle of it.
I know how each & every medication affects my brain. My feelings are very big, but medication & coping mechanisms help me lead a life without symptoms. (Mostly)
I’m not an expert on every brain, but I am an expert on my own brain. I have a pretty good handle on how bipolar disorder works.
A mood disorder is caused by incorrect levels of brain juice. I have to be mindful of spending entire days chasing dopamine. My amygdala insists EVERYTHING IS TRYING TO KILL ME.
I have no external circumstances or trauma that causes my brain juice to misfire.
How long have you been diagnosed? Are you bipolar 1 or 2?
Wait…..you DO have bipolar disorder or you’re an MD, right??
Never heard that take before, aren’t mental disorders almost by definition NOT physical? Alcohol dependency however involves the entire body, and is commonly triggered by neuropsychiatric disorders such as ADHD that have physical explanations.
How did the wife know her husband had committed the crime???
probably saw him w**king to the photos, or otherwise general evidence she probably investigating thinking he was cheating
She probably saw the news of Lorri's disappearance on the local TV or newspaper and knew the victim worked at the same facility as her husband. Combined with evidence on his body and/or around the house especially considering he brought Lorri inside his house and on his bed, she probably put two and two together.
You can work with someone and have no idea they will murder you. That is a wild concept.
Too many neighbors watch crimes right next door and do nothing!
Boy stfu dude. Why u assume everyone should be on a watch of people???
Have u not heard " mind your business".
I bet you also call people Karens when they call the police on suspicious looking people and it turns out to be nothing.
Poor, poor Lori. How awful her final hours must have been, violated while being photographed before being murdered 🤢
Poor Lori. Just living her life & then some deranged Psycho takes it away from her.
The snoopy neighbor was too stupid to call the Police even after seeing all the clues to a crime unfolding. smh
The architect to David's house needs to do serious Jail time too. What a mess. I guess even D Students get some work after they mange to get a license somehow. Fake shutters never look good on anything. They just make a bad design worse.
Oh my. I see you weren’t joking at all.
What a design.🙈
darn it. I had hope for you, Bob. very solid comment, but y0u profile is just fluff. perhaps youll join us greats someday.
@@tna_handyandy5173 You have mistaken me for someone who cares what you think.
A budding serial killer who targets a very low risk victims with whom he works is bound to get caught 🤷♀️
Imagine being married to someone like that!!
My husband works the night shift most days at a job nearly an hour away from our house. I’m very pregnant, so I always feel extra vulnerable when he’s away. We’re adopting a couple of large dogs for this reason- not just for companionship for when I’m alone, but most importantly for protection over me and soon-to-be newborn. We do own guns, but I would rather an intruder be scared off by intimidating growls/barks if anything
I read somewhere that it is the snappy ankle-biters that scare would-be intruders the most. Maybe get a big dog to be the muscle and a Chihuahua to be the wildcard.
@@carly-rose-george I’m not surprised 😂 I’m a big dog person, but I don’t even view chihuahuas as a real dog lol, they’re more like hellish rats
I hope I am not being able too nosey, or rude by my question. But I noticed you said you planned on adopting two large dogs. First, I do apologize and ask that you please bare with me, as my English is not the best. Also, please excuse any spelling or grammar mistakes.
By adopting, do you mean getting dogs from a shelter? If so, I would ask that you please make sure it is something you are currently prepared and equipped to handle. Especially having a newborn on the way. I am all for adoption, and giving dogs a second chance at a happy life. I did a lot of volunteering, working at, and fostering for a dog rescue ran by my mil for many years. So, please know that I am not against adopting from shelters.(I encourage it for most cases)
It's just, from my own experience, shelter dogs often come with behavioral issues, and past trauma that negatively impacts them, and they require extra work, and often special knowledge and skill to work through these issues.
They also do not typically make good protection dogs, not right off anyway. Most are quite fearful from previous abuse, and would cower in fear just from raising a hand, sudden sounds and movement. If you're already quite far along, it is unlikely to have them settled, bonded to you, and trained by the time the baby arrives, and it would be near impossible to train a new dog, let alone two. Especially larger breeds from shelters, while recovering from birth and caring for a newborn..
It might sound like a great idea, but in reality, it will end up making life harder for both you and the dogs. And not knowing their history, the potential harm to the baby is very high. At our rescue. We had so many dogs returned to us after the latest owners came to realize that it was too much, or when one of their children ended up bit.
Tbh, even buying puppies from a breeder at this time will also be quite challenging, having a baby so close to arrival. And if you are not already knowledgeable about dog training, it is a bad idea altogether to get two large breed dogs. It's a nightmare trying to care for two big dogs who are not well trained, along with having a newborn to care for and keep safe. Most dogs are not naturally protective, while also being safe around children and family from outside the household. I am truly sorry for being nosey, and giving unsolicited advice. I truly just wish the best for you, your family, and the dogs. And I know that sometimes in desperate times, ideas may seem good in theory, but it does not work out as hoped in reality. It is especially difficult for those who are newer to dog ownership. Having a baby, trying to care for and train TWO puppies, or adopted dogs with potential behavioral issues, after giving birth is going to be beyond exhausting.
I suppose you may be able to board and train. If so, then I guess that makes a big difference and makes things a heck of a lot easier. But if not, please put in a lot of thought into this decision, and do as much research as possible. And research different breeds, their temperament, and how well their unique qualities, care needs, and personalities match your lifestyle and your needs. As it does make a difference.
I do wish you the very best of luck! I genuinely do. Oh, and congratulations on your new baby! I hope you have a smooth, and memorable labor and delivery, with the best medical care any new mother can and should receive!
So scary! What this girl went thru. Rest in Peace Lori🌼🌼🌼
How horribly sad
Horrible and creepy story. It is surprising that the comment section had people divided on the neighbor's culpability in this incident. I guess I was thinking of the neighborhood I grew up in, not today's neighborhood. In my neighborhood, people took pride and comfort on relying on their neighbors to "watch" the house like if they were away. Today, everyone is in a rush to avoid knowing their neighbor and therefore NOT "nose into" their affairs. Or some commenter said they would have assumed the person was having an affair with one of the residents and not want to get involved. When I was a kid, most people would never have leaped to that conclusion. The neighbors especially looked after each others kids. It was a very secure feeling that is unfortunately lost today.
The civilization goes downhill from the 1950s!😮
How terrifying to have someone in a space in your home, and you don't know it!
Happy Memorial Day Dr. Grande!
Especially when the person who locked them in there is your own husband
It makes me so sad that GOD has spent decades in prison. I know this to be true as almost every prisoner has found him there.
LMFAO
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Good one! Fr tho!!!
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That is so sad. Lori sounded like a nice person. I'm just glad the killer is behind bars.
Thank you so much for your analysis on this case, Dr.Grande!
It is scary to contemplate just how many people, like David, we come in contact with...
At least we didn't hear, "The police botched the investigation early on!"
Dr Grande looking spiffy as always!
I’m pretty sure his wife dresses him. He really doesn’t care much about clothes I don’t think, as long as they are comfortable. Typical unassuming male.
Have a great weekend Dr. and Mrs. Grande 🙌
My favorite nerd ever, Dr Grande
This one is absolutely nutso.
I sometimes think about how Dr. G. would describe my life: Unremarkable, average grades, married @ 21 to a grade school teacher, one child, returned to school @ 30, grandparent of 2 boys, died at 82. End of story. That's all she wrote.
If he described me I would sound like the loser I am
@@liberatedflygirl8000 to be a loser on Dr grandes videos means you're a WINNER cause your still alive!!! 🤩 I Pray you find your joy, 🙏
Same with me. I was born. Graduated. From high school. Got a job. Got married. Got divorced. Got old and now here I am. An old divorced loser
This guy is really a vomity creep. There really is no way she could have protected herself. sadly the neighbor didn't call the cops. More people should pay attention. Heed the lesson from the kitty genevese case.
😢 @@Jeff-sp7bg
omg ... better not to trust coworkers with anything, littleless residence info, etc. i think im gonna notch up my trust wall to strangers, which i also consider coworkers, as they are just strangers that are working in the same place as me, by a chance. so, there you go, still strangers, and nothing more.
Do you mean 'far less'? There is no such phrase as 'little less' unless you wanted to say, "this room is a 'little less spacious' than that one" which is clunky. Instead, we'd say, "that room is 'more spacious' than this one". After all, we don't say, A is less tall than B because it's clunky.
I really enjoy Dr Grande's educated speculation, witty humor and calm demeanor when discussing these horrible cases. I watch him every evening while getting ready for my night shift job. He gives us a glimpse into the twisted minds of the evil in this world. I hope he knows how much I appreciate his work.
Your neighbor watches a strange person go into your garage and says nothing about it. WOW!!!! Like a good neighbor, we will just mind our own business.
Yea, Extacly mind your business. Why get involed? Worry about yourself daily business. We can't be all in people business..
Dr. Grande, how do you decompress? These stories you analyze are so horrific. I hope you take time to eat good food, look at beautiful scenery and spend time with people who love you.
Please do a video on Paul Graves Williams who killed his wife and daughter in 2018
get a security system and a dog and always check the videos on your phone for updates
I saw a dog on a public street yesterday. It was just wandering. It went into a garden and stood barking at me. Concerned it was lost, I pushed the doorbell on the property to check it was their dog. It wasn't, but it was their neighbours dog who always gera out. Some may call me a jobsworth, a busy body? I don't care. If something is suspicious, do something about it. That neighbour should feel bad for life!!
Was it mentioned if the affair was just a fantasy of this guy?
right!? and what led the wife of david to believe he was lori's murderer? i have so many questions about this case now after watching
Dude drove two hours a day to go work
Why do i feel so chuffed to be here so early? Nice work dr grande! Keep up the alliteration, it pleases me no end lol! Much love, from 🇬🇧
With the “neighbor” who saw a man entering the house and did nothing, there is a contradiction in terms. The inaction is not that of a neighbor, but of a cowardly observer, or a complacent idiot whichever fits.
Frightening that you could be working on the job, with a crazy person, a person crazy enough to kill, what a horrible person he seems to be.
Sad…
Stalking behavior
THE MAN ENTERING THE HOUSE PART!!!! Lololol that part!
Goodnight Dr.Grande all of your content videos are not Only very entertaining and your voice is very soothing. Since I am diagnosed with bipolar disorder I'm learning many in your content.keep creating and thank you so much.. watching from the Philippines 🩷
Thanks Dr. Grande
A neighbour saw suspicious activity at Lori's house, yet never notified the police until after the kidnapping.
“Clothing challenged” is a new one for me 😂
I am amazed of your analytical mind Dr. Grande!!!!
Doc, please , please speculate on the mindset of Terrence Howard!
What do you mean by his mindset? I'm unsure of how this would fit into the theme of the Doctors channel.
Nobody voluntarily chooses the move to South Bend
How was he able to get her garage door opener and clone it?
Mildred Pierce,
well, he worked with her and was moving her things (she thought). Probably took her key and made a copy during lunch hour or something like that.
Sad
But in the thumbnail photo, he looked like such an innocent and kind fellow! 😂
Hi Dr. Grande, can you give an analysis on Tan siblings murder case in Singapore? Thx. 😊
It’s pronounced Val - per - raise - oh.
that's what I thought also.
10:48 well don't they all suddenly become "religious" when they're serving a life sentence in a US state penitentiary?
The clue's in the name? Penitentiary - penitence? Also, they're in a dark place, and the chaplains (if they're worth their salt) might be among those who treat them with dignity.
When you got nothin', you got nothin' to lose.
3:35 -- Yeah, because criminals always write detailed instruction notes to each other and make sure to include their names 🙄
Such a sad tragedy…the poor woman had no chance.
The neighbor could have tipped off police about the strange man entering Lori’s house.
Or even tell Lori and her husband know!
Who lets something like this just happen?
Great analogy about serial killers. I had no idea how they progress into their evil mindset.
Thank you, Dr. Grande 🌵
Always interesting
Thank you❤
It's so sad
"mostly because of the entering the house part"...lol
It sounds like such a weird way to go about it with all the notes and objects involved...
Can you analyze the case of Takoda Collins?
What a sad, tragic end and numerous people missed signs that all was not right.
I bet this guy is exceedingly creepy.
I hope you're referring to David 😂
@lorigale4655 🤣
@@lorigale4655haha, right?😂😂😂😂
Dr Grande, have you ever looked at the case of Joan Risch?
Dr. Grande: Val-pah-raise-oh. Good vid, as always!!
As a Valpo resident: Thank you April! :)
@@user-qb6dy2ou8n I used to deliver coffee and other supplies to businesses who leased our coffee machines. I had accounts in Valpo, South Bend, Tippiecanoe, Indianapolis, and points in between!! I don't mind Indiana at all.
Can you analyze the case of Kristopher Baca?
Very interesting
wow what a great neighbor
Good channel, just the facts without the hype and hoopla as with similar other channels
Very curious what your take on Laurie Dann from chicago in the 1980s.
Dr Grande you pronounced it "val-pah-RAISE-ee-oh". It's pronounced "val-pah-RYE-so".
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Know your neighbors at least well enough to watch out for each other.
Well done.. be great if you had your own TV show..
Can you analyze the case of Roger Fortson?
The note said you'll never find me or Lori. Tell the police case closed, don't bother looking. Later, police found him...
11 cacti! Love your channel!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Im not speculating anyone in this video, only diagnosing what could be happening in a situation like this.
I appreciate this comment so much lol 🙌
😂😂😂 good one! speculating sounds a lot like a certainty, isn’t it? Every diagnostic is a speculation, specially if the doctor isn’t sure of the cause of the illness. And a diagnosis isn’t a sentence 😅
Mr Grande, i would love to see your dry whit and sarcasm applied to your take on the Nick Rekieta arrest....
The neighbor had no real reason to be suspicious. He cloned the remote. He rode up the garage, pulled out a garage door opener, hit the button and the garage door went up. He would just assume the owners of the home gave him the garage door opener for some reason.
That's what I thought.
How does someone clone a remote?
@@spideranansi929 It's pretty easy with the right tool.
“I don’t take my work home with me.”
Coworker comes to you.
Crazy. I live in Portage which is right next to Valparaiso but it's pronounced Val po ray zo not Val po razio.
Clothing Challenged !!?? LMAO !!
Dr grande can u do a video on gerrick merrifield?
What a sad situation. I agree his motivation was sexual. Interesting info on serial killers. Great breakdown & points again. Thanks Dr G😊🧡💜
Norm and Larry are the burgers from Home Alone .. 😂
Dr. Grande, could you please analyze the case of Bossman Jack?
Day 87 of asking 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Who is boss man Jack,please?
@@conorfitzmaurice8959 type his name into RUclips and you’ll go down the rabbit hole lol
Garry Ridgway was an automotive spray painter which is a profession where you need to be conscientious, extremely methodical and would work alone usually.
5/26/24 Makes me angry when person responsible for these horrific crimes, blame it on the victims or try to minimize their actions! Lori, rip
An exercise physiologist is not a 'medical technician.'
Don't serial killers that expect to get away with it target strangers? Granted I'm certainly no expert but he wasn't going to go too far targeting people who technically knew him, especially after already botching part of it.
Thumbnail gave me an Acid Flashback
"... images of clothing-challenged women on the wall." 😂