My 4 Hair Growth SETBACKS (Relaxed Hair)
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- Опубликовано: 31 июл 2014
- In this video, I talk to you about my hair journey setbacks since starting my hair growth journey. I decided to do this video, not only to let you know what's been happening with my hair over the past 3 years, but to also try and motivate, encourage and inspire those of you going through difficult times with your hair.
The 1st Setback
Fortunately, things ran smoothly during my hair journey from October 2007 to June 2011, however, towards the end of June when I was 27 weeks pregnant, I started to notice thinning ends and decided to do a 6 inch haircut to remove them and bring my hair back to health again. My hair was so much more thicker, fuller and healthier and I was happy with how it looked.
The 2nd Setback
After having my son and going through postpartum shedding, I experienced lots of knots and tangles when washing my hair, which took me days to detangle and it kept happened 3 weeks in a row. On the 3rd time, there was just one small section of my hair I wasn't able to save and so unfortunately, I had to cut the entire section of hair off, leaving about 2-3 inches. I was devastated and feeling uneasy, as it happened days before I was due to do a 2 day seminar and exhibit at the Afro Hair & Beauty Show in 2012.
The 3rd Setback
Once my postpartum shedding was over, I noticed that my hair just wasn't as thick and full as it was and didn't feel the same, so I decided to cut 3 inches off to help bring back the thickness. Again, my hair was so much better and I was finally working on getting things back to where it once was.
The 4th Setback
The next problem I started to notice most recently about my hair, was a few shorter pieces around the top sections and wondered what was happening. I eventually realised that one of my most favourite protective hairstyles 'The French Twist' was weaking my hair and causing it to break, so I stopped wearing that style for about a month to give my hair a break. This was very frustrating, since I felt I'd just gotten over most of the past setbacks and had moved on only to experience this. But I guess somtimes when you get over one hurdle, another one comes again and you just have to keep going, no matter what.
So as I mentioned in this video, it's really to try and motivate, encourage and inspire you to keep going and I hope I've managed to do that.
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Happy Friday!!! 😀 So here's my latest video; My 4 Hair Growth Setbacks. It's been tough over these past 3 years, but I've just had to keep going no matter what. Hope you enjoy!!! ruclips.net/video/KAj_Wlb1bhg/видео.html
Thank you for being brave enough to say that you have too. I sometimes feel like relaxed hair gurus don't show their setbacks to their viewers and that they make us feel like they don't have shedding, or breakage, or tangles!! I had a setback in May of this year from too much bunning and I cut off 4 inches of my hair. I thank God that it has grown back and its so much more even. Continued success on your journey!!
Thank you for this. Setbacks are devastating and discouraging.
Subscribed, I'm starting my journey properly today! You are a gift from the gods!
Awww...thank you ☺️ Best of luck on your hair journey.
thank you SO much for your encouraging words! I'm 3 years into my journey and was just hitting BSL!! 3 days ago I went to get a trim and my stylist cut 3 inches off of my hair against my request. I'm angry and saddened by this setback. So much so that I had trouble sleeping tonight and went on RUclips in hopes that someone encouragement, and there you were! Thank you so much and keep sharing. XO
Hey Kimberly, you are so welcome! I'm just happy to hear that my video helped to provide you with the encouragement you needed. All the best. x
Yes yes yes!!! I have had the same setbacks as a result of childbirth the full thick hair shed something awful then I had massive breakage and with the help of various channels like yours I am getting back on track. Thank You!!!!!!
Ron'Jent Davis You're welcome! Glad to hear all is going well! :)
Yes! Setbacks are a must while on any journey in life...it's how you handle them which is the key factor. I had a major setback on my way to my goal of BSL (see video). After getting over that went on to achieving MBL. Thereafter made a major decision to transition to natural a year ago. Now just getting waiting for my hair to grow back while getting to know my 4D texture. Thus far I'm currently at SL...not bad for only a year. Giving myself another 2 years to be back at BSL. Thanks for sharing.
Oh my I had the same setback when I carried my daughter. I experienced very dry hair with thinning ends. I had bra strap length hair as a result of my 3 year journey and was setback to shoulder length in 2013. I have not done much with my hair and it is still at shoulder length. I hope to start my journey again to healthy long hair. Cheers and great video!
Awesome video! I needed this push of encouragement.
Thank you! Glad to hear my video's given you some encouragement 😊
Thank you for doing this video. You are very inspiring and motivating.
Awww...thank you and you're welcome! I'm happy to hear it's motivated and encouraged you to keep going 😊
Wow! You are def proof that one can come back from a setback!! Awesome vid. And you look great as always
Awww...thanks so much ☺️
Needed to hear this! Thank You! :-D
Thank you sooo much I had a hair set back it was mid back length then I color and wore clip in extentions I wasn't taking of my hair I did a lot of heat damage now it's right above bra strap think I cried and I was upset I will on with my hair journey and learn from my mistakes ur video has helped ease the pain a bit thanks and good luck to u on ur hair journey
Thank you for this video! I truly appreciated, it came at a wonderful time in my hair journey.
Krista W Your so welcome! Happy to hear it came at the right time :)
nowadays you not seeing honest videos like this.
very nice video, thanks for sharing
+Dayane Dydy You're very welcome 💛
Thanks for sharing this encouraging video. I have had setbacks also including scarring alopecia beyond my control. Research for this is still ongoing for this. I will continue to look after the hair that I do have and have seen great improvemt in the health of my hair and enjoy it while I can.
Your very welcome 😊 Sorry to hear about the alopecia scarring you've been experiencing and hope that there will be cure for it soon. But yes, definitely take care of what you have and continue to do the best you can. Thanks for sharing that with me.
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. It´s giving me a lot of motivation in my hair journey. I've started my hair journey in 2012, october. I have had a lot of setbacks due to wrong practicies. I've experienced post partum shedding three months ago but today my hair feel better.
Mams Your welcome and I'm happy to hear it's given you the motivation you need :) Setbacks are the worst thing when your on a hair journey, but the main thing is to keep going. Glad to hear things are finally getting better!!!
Thank you so much for this. I definitely needed a pep talk :) I've been on my hair journey for so long and had multiple (probably 12-15 ) setbacks and I just want to give up but now, I won't!! Hope you are doing great dear!
camhaw Awww....your so welcome!!! :) It's great to hear that this video has motivated you to continue on your hair journey, believe me, it's definitely worth it in the long run! But yes, I'm doing well, thank you and hope you are too!.
This is so refreshing! You give me encouragement to keep pushing forward. Many thanks! xx
Awww...thank you and your welcome 😊 I'm really happy to hear it's given you some encouragement to keep pushing. Best of luck!!!
Thank you!!
Thanks, Julie, PERFECT timing! I've been on my HJ for 7 mths now and I was using the castor oil among other things & noticed a GREAT improvement with my hair. But over the last few weeks my hair started breaking and thinning out, and I realized that a particular product was doing more harm than good. So I really felt discouraged recently but thanks to you I have now been re-motivated. Awesome job! Kudos...from Jamaica :-)
Hey, awww...thanks for your message. It's ones like this that remind me of why I make videos and to hear that it's motivated you to continue is a great feeling! 😊
I love this video, it's very clear and motivating.. I'm young in my hair journey with a little set back but I won't give up.. Just seeing how far you're coming from makes me want to commit to this for the long run.. Oh, and I love your detailed written guide.. Nice and easy yo follow..
Thank you. Glad you liked it 😊
Thanks for sharing, I have hope for my now!!!
You're welcome! Yes, there's always hope! 😊
Omg thank you for this video because I feel like I'm going through so much with my hair and I'm wondering how all these youtubers never have gone through it, and twisting hairstyles until you mentioned it i noticed my hair has been breaking because I do that hairstyle all the time and when I saw the breakage I didn't think anything of it but now I know why solo thank you your amazing
You're so welcome! :) I'm glad my video has helped you to realise the problems you were having with your hair. Yes, everyone experiences some kind of issue here and there, but it's just whether they decide to talk about it. But anyway, best of luck with your hair journey and sorry for the very delayed response.
This video was so encouraging. I actually thought of giving up on my hair journey up to last night. I've been on my HJ for about 7mths and already had a major setback from protein overload, major breakage. SO frustrating. Now I am just infusing my hair with moisture and for now I'm doing braids as my protective style...gearing up for the big chop. I am now APL, so I may take it up to SL. Anyhoo your video was timely and I feel motivated to continue. Much support from Trinidad & Tobago!
Awww...thank you. Just happy to know that my video came at the right time 😊 It's definitely frustrating, but at least you know what to do from now on. It really is a learning experience and I'm sure you'll be back on track in no time. Thanks for sharing your setback with me and keep going!!!
I too are dealing with set backs and problem areas and I'm trying not to cut my hair but It almost seems easier to do that sometimes so I can start over fresh and start paying closer attention to those areas. Thanks for sharing I do enjoy watching videos you post and I wish you well ; )
Celeste Enzor Awww....thank you and your welcome! :) Sometimes cutting our hair may be the best thing, other times, it might not be necessary. However, do what you think is best. As long as it's healthy, it will eventually thrive over time. Wishing you the best of luck and I'm sure all will work out just fine!!!
Thank you so much and best of luck to you :-)
Thank you sooo much. You are such an encouragement for me. I started my hair journey because of you. I had honestly given up on my hair, it would always get to collar bone length, then something would happen and it would get damage. Always in the same spot in the crown of my head it would just break badly. I have just started my journey this month and once again my hair in the crown of my head broke down to 1 1/2 inch long, but I am pushing through the rest of my hair is healthy and thriving.Thank you again.. You have inspired me to understand my hair and how to really take care of it. My goal is bra strap length. Keeping my fingers crossed no more breakage.. also could you do a video on how you stretch your relaxers.
You're my inspiration...
debora pina Awww...thanks so much! It's great to hear that!!!
Great video!!
Thanks
Another amazing vid..thank you so much for this :-)
Awww...thank you and you're so welcome 😊
Thank you so much!
***** Your very welcome :)
awesome video. I'm going thu a setback at the moment also. Tnk u
aqua7nounourse Thanks very much and your welcome :) You will get through it!!!
Thanks it definately motivated me
You're welcome, glad to hear it 😊
Great video I'm not going to twist my hair as much now x
Blackrose Journey Thank you! Yes, it's a lesson learnt I guess!! :(
you have SUCH a beautiful face (& hair of course)
TressedforSuccess Awww...thank you so much :) I'm trying to hang in there, it's tough, but I'm always determined!!
Wow wow what an encouraging video my hair has never grown past neck length and I don't know why
Thank you. I used to experience the same problem until I started this journey. But check out 'My Hair Growth Regime Summary' and 'My Top 10 Hair Growth Tips (Part 1&2) video, as I've provide useful tips which may help you.
I have had two setbacks in one go! Ive been on my hair journey since July 2012 and reached armpit length this June! Washed my hair on the 3rd week and my hair at the back was soo frizzy! Was really upset coz chopping it is my only option,( haven't done it yet though). Now 5 weeks post I notice My edges are thinning, because I was using Bantu knots as my protective style and they were too tight I guess!!I got to the point I wanted to chop most of my hair off, but Thank you for the post at least now I know it's ok.. will just have to be patient and hopefully my hair will be healthy again soon! Thanks again :)
You're welcome! 😊 Sorry to hear about your setbacks too. These things are common and it's definitely ok, so never be too hard on yourself. Just pick yourself back up and learn from the experience. It only makes us wiser and more prepared to deal with it, incase it happens again. But best of luck on your journey!!!
Thanks for this video! I'm always curious about how people get past their setbacks and you answered for each one. I've been in my HJ for right at two years and I experienced a protein overload setback in the very beginning from which I had to cut about two inches. After recovering from tons of protein free deep conditioning and moisturizers (I ordered Bee Mine) things were great until June. I gave myself protein overload again. I prepped for swimming by using Aphogee's Reconstructor and ORS Replenishing Conditioner each time because I read it was good to do so. Sadly, all of that protein started causing breakage and I had to cut. My hair stayed thick and full with the cut but I'm an inch above BSL. I sometimes wonder will MBL every come? It was encouraging to see you hang in for so many years. It's a lifelong journey anyhow so I'm certain we can reach our goals. 😉👍
Your very welcome and thanks for sharing your hair setbacks too. The main thing is getting through the difficult stages and learning from the experiences. But I'm sure you'll eventually reach your goal of MBL. It may take some time, but just know it can happen 😊
I also experienced a setback about 6 months ago. My hairdresser of 10 years ran my relaxer to the ends of my hair. She had NEVER done that before and she could tell I was angry. Despite protein treatments, this caused my ends to thin out and I had to chop off 3 inches. I should have been BSL by now. The good news is that I am grazing APL and I am still mostly texlaxed by some miracle. Also, she knows to not do that again! She is a nice elderly lady, but I have to be very careful with her. Once she retires, I am doing my own relaxers. I am not taking chances with anyone else in my hair. She will be the last.
I totally understand where you're coming from. My mother is the only one who relaxes my hair and does my trims & cuts, as I don't trust anyone else 😊 But I'm happy to hear that you're still going strong on your hair journey and that things are going well! Thanks for sharing your setback with me.
Excellent vid! Thanks for doing it. It is important to know that setbacks happen to all of us, so we don't have to feel like it is just us. How long did it take you to grow that short piece of hair out? I know you said quite awhile. I'm asking because I am dealing with that at my crown.
Thanks very much and your welcome! 😊 I definitely agree. It's taken me about a year and a half to 2 years to grow it back to the current length and I'm really happy with the progress.
I don't put my hair in a ponytail or a bun that much because it puts stress on my roots and it somrtimes it makes my scalp hurt so sometimes when I let my hair down it's kind of a relief and it makes my scalp feel much better.
I have them same setback as number #4, just with a ponytail as my style
Stephanie A It's frustrating. But to combat this problem, I now alternate my hairstyles everyday and wear them even looser than before, just to avoid any further problems.
Thanks for the video. :) I started my hair journey about 3 months ago and I'm currently experiencing severe shedding. I don't know if it's normal for my hair since I would always hide it in box braids (with extensions). I'm afraid my hair will lose all it's thickness. 😢
Recently after washing my hair I keep getting lots of knots and tangles as well. I use mane n tale detangler, but I still have some knots that will not loosen. Do you know what causes this and what I can do about it?
My dear sorry to hear about ur set backs but happy to hear your recovery. How did u do it, I mean ur 3 inches hair cutting up with the rest of ur hair. Does that mean the other part of ur hair was not retaining length? . Set backs are d worst thing during hair journey. I have been there and still there. Started my hair journey a yr ago with a goal of reaching BSL in one yr. In 9 months I almost made it but had excessive breakage that now am just below AL and that hurts. Am still battling with breakage hoping that one day I will find solutions. Please help me by doing a tutorial on how to combat breakage. Please please.
Thank you and sorry to hear about your setbacks too! But yes, they're most definitely the worst thing and it's devastating. As for that section of my hair catching up with the rest, my hair has been growing as normal and I've been following the same hair care regime. But surprisingly, that particular part grew quite fast and on top of the trimming I'd been doing it's catching up, but not quite there yet. But I'll try and see what I can do about doing a breakage video for you.
Thank you so much
Hi. Love your videos. I've been following your channel for a while. It's been very helpful as I too am on a hair journey. Recently I experienced breakage in the middle of my head due to protein overload I think. One question, how long did it take for your hair to grow back and catch up with the rest after you had to cut a piece off? Thanks in advance.
+Shannie Mc Hey, glad to hear you enjoy them 😊 I can't remember how long it took, but i'm guessing it might have been about 2 years. But I'd been cutting my hair quite a bit during that time, so that allow it to slightly catch up.
+Shannie Mc Hey, glad to hear you enjoy them 😊 I can't remember how long it took, but i'm guessing it might have been about 2 years. But I'd been cutting my hair quite a bit during that time, so that allow it to slightly catch up.
This video was so needed! I'm currently having serious issues with my hair i feel so stuck. I'm nearly at shoulder length but my hair is at different lengths all over so from the back it looks really uneven it looks like it's thinning but I'm not sure if it is thinning or if it's just where its growing at different lengths. I have noticed though that the hair on my double crown is a lot shorter than the rest and it's also a bit tender to touch I've had my hair in an up do for a few months now so I'm not sure if that could be the reason and it's causing breakage I'm not sure if I should cut my ends to a length that looks more healthy but because it's not at a very long length I wasn't sure if I should let it grow out a bit before I trim. My hair is growing but it doesn't look very healthy due to the uneven ends. Do you have any suggestions? X
Kayliegh Jackson I would definitely recommend that you give your hair a rest from the high bun, as it sounds very likely that this is what is causing the breakage and tenderness in that area. Our hair is so delicate and fragile and so wearing the same hairstyle continuously, will cause tension and eventually breakage. I've definitely learnt a lot from my experience and so I often change up my hairstyles regularly and even result to wearing very loose hairstyles (that don't look that great) all in the name of breakage free hair. With regards to the unevenness of your hair, it's very likely that this is making it appear thinner than it actually is. So it might actually be best to either trim or cut it, to give a healthier even appearance or if you think it's likely to catch up, then just wait it out and see.
Thank u so much for this video. I'm always giving up half-way through my hair journey. My main problem is what to do with my hair after the gym. I work out 4 times a week and afterwards my hair is soaking wet. I wrap and tie down my hair whilst exercising. Want to follow your advise abt avoiding heat. But it's hard to go bed with wet hair. What can I do?
You're welcome! 😊 What do you do to your hair once you get back from excerising?
Nice video..quick question..u mentioned somewhere in a comment below to moisturize new growth before relaxing, just wondering if the hair would relax with moisture in it?
This method was suggested to help the person in managing their new growth. But yes, it will still relax, however, it will process the hair slightly slower and it may not result in a bone straight look. But to be honest, this option is a lot healthier for the hair.
Ok..tnks
Im just starting my hair journey and I hate how the back of my hair is longest and the rest is short
Just wondering, do you plait or braid your hair and is it true that it helps your hair grow?
Doreen Del Rey No, I don't do either. To be honest, hair grows regardless of what we do to it, it's just that these particular styles protect our hair from everyday stress and strain from styling. So really, it helps us to retain longer hair lengths, because it's being left alone, preventing any form of breakage from occurring.
I've realized that when it's almost time for relaxing my new growth I loose hair often. Anytime I comb my hair I see more hair on the comb. So this makes me relax every 6 weeks as its difficult to comb n manage. What do u advice I do.
dela Amoako I can only assume that your hair is very dry and coarse at the roots, so any slight manipulation, will result in breakage. My new growth used to be the same, very coarse and dry (still is). But in order to avoid breakage, I spray my roots with the 'World of Curls Spray' which helps to keep it moist and much easier to manage. So I'd suggest that leading up to your relaxer day, that you spray your roots with a moisturising product (make sure it's in a spray bottle) and apply all over (and of course), keep the rest of your hair moist too. But one tip of advice, never comb your hair when it's dry, instead always moisturise first.
I haven't relaxed my hair since April and hoping not to relax it for a while because my hair is damaged . Whats your tips for maintaining hair that is due to be relaxed ? Should I still comb it ?
Try to avoid combing it from the roots down, especially if you have a lot of re-growth that is thick and coarse, as it could cause breakage. Instead, keep the roots moisturised and comb your hair with extra care, having applied moisture to it first.
Hi hun I'm currently expecting and I'm terrified of pp shedding. I'm not sure if you explained the steps, products or methods that you used to conquer it but can you?
Hey Shannon, I'm sure I replied to your comment, but I'm looking and couldn't see it. Maybe it didn't send. PP shedding is a natural process, so unfortunately, there's very little we can do. However, I just continued to follow my hair regime, as normal until it past. It must have taken about 6 months, before the front areas of my began to grow back. But I wouldn't worry about it too much, as some women are lucky enough not to experience it or it's not as bad as what they were expecting. You never know, you might be one of the lucky ones :) But I do have a video called; My Postpartum Shedding Experience, if you'd like to check it out.
Thank you for replying. I'll definitely go check it out. Hopefully I will be lucky enough to not get it lol
Thanks beautiful, but you didn't tell us what u did in order to achieve the level we want with our hair. I mean explaining how often we should relax the etc...
Fofo Lelo Your welcome! This particular video was really about my setbacks, but I do have many other videos on my channel talking about how to achieve longer hair lengths. So have a look at; My Hair Growth Regime Summary & My Top 10 Hair Growth Tips; Part 1 & 2. Also, subscribe to my channel for more tips :)
Do you wrap your hair at night?
No, I don't like wrapping my hair.
I been started the journey and all I see is breakage after breakage
Do you follow a good hair regime? If so, what do you do on a daily basis?
I want to stop relaxing my hair so bad
The first one wasnt even really a setback. The hair looked way healthier with the cut lol.
She called it a setback because she was forced to cut off several inches
***** I know and like I said, if the hair is healthier after the cut then I wouldnt consider it a setback...its more of a victory because she rid herself of the damage
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