Chill Fall Vlog
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An honest person would acknowledge the crappy corn maze. A negative person would think the entire day was ruined because of it. A positive person would have a great time anyway
This explanation! ❤
This…
Also, my thoughts are mine - so I’m always careful not to vocalize them and ruin someone else’s good time…keep them to myself and appreciate the experience and be grateful I’m able to enjoy doing things.
Love it!
Yeeeesssss. The key is finding the joy wherever you can find it. Not forcing it, but looking for it regardless.
This is everything! And since 2020 I’ve been a more “honest” person with every aspect of my life including that I’m way too negative on myself so yes Bea, so know that feeling ❤
There’s a fine line between being negative and realistic for me. I’ve found that for every “negative“ thought I have I follow it with a BUT. “The corn maze was shit, but what a beautiful day it was just to be outdoors enjoying time spent with my boyfriend.”
I’ve trained myself to always counter the “negative” thoughts with more positive ones.
It took practice, but now it’s just comes naturally. Always enjoy it when you post a new video. Keep taking care of you!
This is an extremely helpful tip! I love it ❤
Learning to romanticize life is a game changer!
Yes - “reframing” the negative thought
Something I picked up a few years ago was replacing "but" with "and". Kinda blew my mind.
Bang on with this stuff taking practice- I feel like many of us forget to emphasize all the work that goes into practicing.
Random comment but if you were to create a bunch of Bea-painted recipe cards from your own recipes, I would TOTALLY buy that! Print sets of laminated cards & offer them with a cute little box as part of your own merch line and I think your viewers would love to support you in that way 🙂 ❤
I don't even eat meat, and I would still buy those cards!! Love watching you paint things!
Omg sameeeeeeee!!! Would totally buy that!!
HELLO I AM A DOCS FIEND LET ME HELP YOU- while breaking in, wear thick socks and or thick leggings and lace them up all the way, comfortably tight, to help them not rub against the backs of your legs. for the shoe itself, the leather needs to be broken in and, while wearing them WILL soften the leather over time, it will take a LONG time if that's all you're doing (esp if your'e avoiding wearing them because well.. they hurt..) doc's sells a leather conditioner and polish called wonder balm and it is not just an 'upsell' it's so important. i recommend polishing your docs once or twice a week for about two months, as the leather conditioner will soak into the leather making it softer and so much easier to break in! i hope you see this and i hope it helps! Docs are amazing once broken in but its definitely a task getting them there :')
This was so nice of you! I wish I had some docs to break in, so I could follow your thorough advice! I hope Bea sees it! 😊
@@megan2176 you're so sweet, tysm! i hope you get some docs some day :3
@rubyvoxxVT I remember having some knockoff Docs shoes in the 90s, but they were comfortable, probably not real leather! I felt cool tho. 😎
You totally win the award for unbelievable ways one injures oneself. "How'd you break your rib?" "Crocheting, sigh . . ."
I think positive people don’t necessarily “lie” (to themselves or others) about negative experiences, they just focus on the positive things about it. Like instead of focusing on how the pumpkin patch was shitty, you could focus on how you found a pumpkin you really like or you enjoyed spending time with Steven, or they had really good coffee there, or whatever! It’s like focusing on all the good stuff instead of the bad stuff. I try to practice doing that, it can be hard especially when you’re used to focusing on bad stuff but it’ll make you happier in the long run.
You don't break in dr martens. They break in you. You have to wear them till you get blisters. Then take em off till the blisters are healed. After that your feet are toughened up and you're good to go! (Also tie the laces, leaving them loose causes extra friction.)
A girl at my school (donkey’s years ago) had a sideline in breaking in DMs.
One of her tricks was to wear a couple of pairs of socks, smear them with Vaseline and run the hair dryer over them every day. It took a week, I believe.
Not me, though, I broke mine in with blood and tears. As is only right and proper! 😌💪🏻🥾
Dock Martens sells break in socks, get 4 pairs, only wear them with those for the first 30 times lol no blisters
That sounds HORRIBLE!
Never had a problem with my docs. I own several pairs. 🤷♀️ but having a tough time with birkenstocks. They tell me it's suppose to be comfortable 🦶🔥
Said it in another post: Don't get blisters, wear two layers of socks :P
I think there is a big correlation between having ADHD and being negative, especially being diagnosed later in life. We have so many vectors of information coming into our brain, and we are great at pattern recognition. Adhders also have typically more negative reinforcements as kids. So, I think we've been wired to look for the negative and wait for the "shoe to drop" and need to relearn how to disengage from that thought process.
This is huge! My bf suffers this and I’m pretty optimistic so sometimes we clash 😂 I’ve helped him not to “yuck my yum”. We leave a restaurant and he wants to tell me all the negatives and i try to help him see the positives. I try to throw some negatives in there sometimes so he’s not alone haha
My husband is great and positivity and I struggle with it. He told me don't try to change my negative feeling about something, instead find something I do feel positively about and spend more time thinking and talking about that. Even if there is 9 negatives, there is probably one positive and I am happier when I focus on the positives! I used to just try to gaslight myself into liking thing that I didn't actually like 😂
I love your grandma! Thanks for sharing her with us.
Bea, your recipe cards are awesome - and the recipes look delicious! Would you ever consider publishing a book of them?
I swear I’ve never related to someone more in my life 😭 so nice to see you working through things. It motivates me to try to improve my own frame of mind & life in general 💛🦕
This sounds super weird, but for crocheting I use a nursing pillow if i know I’ll be there for hours. It helps supports your elbows and since you strap it around your torso, it helps me sit up straight. Now that that’s out of the way, you’re doing great Bea, injuries happen, and the mental strain that comes with it is definitely hard. But one step time at a time girl, you got this!
That is such a great idea! I need to get a nursing pillow. Thanks for sharing. 👍🏽
Hi Bea, a tip for breaking in boots: Mink Oil! You literally slather the outsides and put them in front of a heater to soak in the oil. There's a youtube tutorial featuring this. I also put sports tape on my heels to prevent blisters, because there will be blisters until the boots are worn in. You can do it, I believe in you!
I thoroughly enjoyed this video! A bit of honest chit chat, a bit of outdoor and indoor cute couple footage, a bit of grandma, and some cooking and art! I'm so happy you're finding lots of things to do to push through the not great brain days. ❤❤❤😊😊😊
3 positives: the way you filmed how you cooked your green chicken chili dish(oh my god! Soooo good!); your artistic talent, painting pumpkins and recipe cards; the cleaning up procrastination is just a way of looking after and feeling about your environment; having a sunny day out at your first date café and hunting for respectable pumpkins. Actually, that's more than 3 positives, but with you, it's impossible to count! Ha ha ha ha!
I woke up this morning thinking, "Where's Bea?". There she is! So lovely to see your face and always appreciate your transparency when it comes to your mental health.
That pumpkin you painted is SUPER cute ❤ love you Bea! Just keep being you❤ you are loved and accepted by many ❤❤
Watching you do your recipe cards is a mother-flipping JOY!!!!
You are not negative. You are just honest! We love you! Generally when I'm really depressed I would not even go to a pumpkin patch or do art projects so you are definitely still doing self-care by getting out and doing things rather than just staying home and being sad. And it's okay to just be with the sadness sometimes also. I admire your persistence and I would say you are an honest person with moments of joy here and there which I wish for everyone! I love that your grandma is still young at heart and thriving. You have such a wonderful family!
Girl you put WAY too much pressure and expectation on yourself! When you lend voice to thought, there's nothing wrong with that. But you could try to find something positive to say before you point out the obvious downside, if you want to try out a new perspective. You might be surprised that you're better able to find the upside with some practice. I don't see the negative in you that you see, but you're the one that has to exist within your thoughts. I see how lovely your sense of humor is, and how far you have come! Good luck Bea! 🌹
Bea is my comfort RUclipsr ! Safe wholesome vibes 💕
Americans have a tendency to act happy all the time. Maybe they do it because it makes them happy? However, in Europe or at least in my country everyone is always complaining about everything. I love complaining. It's the best.
I knew you were Dutch before I saw your username hahaa
I knew i was born in the wrong country!
If you complain here, it often feels like things get awkward. At least where I’m from, where most people are religious. Sometimes you just want to complain and feel validated.
Amen, Europe is the place to be if you want to complain. We complain about everything from the weather to the neighbours granda, for real.
I even live close to the giessen @@irisvandenieuwegiessen5533
I’m legit in PT for “golfers elbow” because of knitting and crocheting. It’s hard sometimes but ya gotta take breaks and stretch your body!
"Just one more row!"
I do not think you are negative about things. You are just very observant and analytical. I am like that too!!! And to some people that could possibly come off as being negative because you point out the thoughts in your head but at the end of the day, it’s just you explaining your opinion throughout the video. And at the end of the day, we love you lady! Keep posting we miss the content! ❤❤❤❤
I watched a youtuber who was a Christian and called that "having the gift of discernment".
I liked that.
I think it's a tough gift to have, because you analyze everything! But you also have a good BS meter, so I guess it's a trade off. Lol
@@dogdonut3I'm gonna stick to that story, too!
@@LindaC616 😊
I love how you make recipe cards! It inspires me to do the same because I hate having to look at my phone for directions every 5 seconds.
About a year ago, I found myself complaining a lot and being overly negative, which was not my usual character. I decided to change it and just stop. I was going to therapy and I was reading a lot of stuff too, so it wasn’t like I just cold turkey stopped without knowing how to. Really, being positive is not being delusional or dishonest. I’ve always been a very positive person, but I also suffer from depression at times. Being a positive person more than anything is a practice of gratitude. So I don’t think it’s about being positive or negative. It’s about being grateful for what is.
I love how self-aware you are, and how much you work on fixing things that you think may need fixing. Keep up the great work! 🥰
Hey Bea! I'm also a negative/over-thinker. It's something I've been working on in therapy, and one thing I've learned is to ask myself: " is this thought useful right now?". It's helped me get out of the negative and sometimes angry thought spirals. Just thought I'd share :-)
If your boots are the real leather ones, here is my method. I’ve never done Docs but I’ve broken in dozens of cowboy boots this way:
Slather your boots in leather conditioner or mink oil. Put them on with thick socks. Fill a container with hot hot water. Put your boot-clad foot in a gallon or 2 gallon Ziploc bag and then insert the whole caboodle into the hot water. Leave for a few minutes and then wiggle your foot around, bend back and forth, do a squat, etc. Softens them up instantly!
The painted pumpkin is beautiful!! I rather that for decorating instead of carving
I love your videos. Thank you for putting yourself out there. When I hear you talk about your mental health it helps me remember im not alone. So just thank you for being you.
These vlogs are so comforting for a Coloradan living temporarily in the midwest🌶️
You're such a great artist. The recipe cards are amazing! You should consider laminating the cards. That way they'll stay clean when you're cooking.
Your gram looks amazing!! Love when you do your recipe cards - you are so talented!
The funniest back injury story I've ever heard was from the podcast The Box of Oddities. The male host hadn't manscaped in a while, so it took him a while to take care of things. Apparently he didn't stretch beforehand, and he hurt his back. 😂
I just googled ‘Manscaped’… Omigosh! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love ya Bea!
Just curious but would you be open to doing another Q&A episode? Your girl's got questions... and they are so random! Haha.
Have a great weekend! :)
I don’t mind pumpkin carving. It feels fun to do it with friends every year, but your pumpkin painting makes me never wanna carve again! 😭 that’s the most adorable pumpkin ever
That is the cutest little ghost pumpkin ever! 🧡
I think it's normal to be underwhelmed, and you just have to figure out how to make the most of the situation. That's the big difference between being negative or positive. It's how you spin it, and how you let the less-than-ideal circumstances effect the rest of your day.
Happy birthday Grams! You’re a national treasure and I hope I’m just like you when I hit my 80’s.
Heat pad works WONDERS! I use it when I sit for 8hrs. Try it!
Bea❤ We all struggle with different things, but it's really comforting to see you consistently trying again, picking yourself up, being honest with yourself, and celebrating progress no matter how incremental. It's really inspiring.
You never come across to me as negative, just realistic! You always see plenty of good in things too. Good to have you back, Bea - RUclips is an objectively underwhelming corn maze without your vids 🧡🌽
In the UK we call it a Maize Maze. That’s something to smile about 😂
Good to see you! Looks like you’re in the fall vibe ❤️ you’re grandma is so great, I’m glad you guys celebrated her!
I think the corn maze like other things when we were kids were spectacular cause we would bring over active and untainted imagination into it. So much fun watching them enjoying it, would love to go back just for the innocense sometimes 😉
I love watching you paint! That pumpkin ghost is SO CUTE! ❤
Highly recommend IFS therapy! Your self actualization is great. An ifs therapist will help you unlock the pattern cycle. Sooth those parts that pop up (like the critic that you’re speaking of) and help you stay in self!
I think a positive person is oriented toward noticing and paying attention to the good things. They notice the other stuff but they focus on what was right rather than what was wrong.❤
Yes I did my neck crocheting a poncho a few Christmas ago!
Bea, I highly recommend putting massage/bodywork into your self care rotation. It's amazing for stress/anxiety and mobility/muscle function and positive body image. I'm an LMT and I see a lot of people for various reasons but massage is SO great for the nervous system. I know you've been on the up and up taking care of yourself and I think this would be a great addition. As you said about a mental health therapist - try try and try again until you find someone who clicks with you.
Excellent idea. I started doing this to help with sore muscles, but now maintain a monthly treatment just because.
The lady who does my therapy understand about sensory processing issues, and has worked out a signal with me if the area is too difficult or I need a break. Because of this, over the course of about 14 treatments, I very rarely have to use the signal.
I would recommend this for self care, and also for retraining the body when every touch feels like ‘poking’, if that makes sense. ❤️❤️❤️
I love watching you paint! You're so good!
I just much more enjoy being positive, feeling good, being in a happy headspace. As someone with anxiety and possibly depression, it feels better to find a way to enjoy an experience rather than being negative. Acknowledging that you don’t like something is normal, but I feel like it’s a waste of energy sitting and complaining and btching about things.
Practicing gratitude is a good way to naturally be more positive, like finding something positive to be grateful and happy about in a given situation. It just feels miserable to be miserable, at least for me.
Enjoyed the vlog as always. Love that you’re getting into the Christmas spirit 😁
Bea-- get Blundstones if you want the Doc Marten-adjacent boot aesthetic but one quadrillion times more comfortable. Mine felt like they were made for me right out of the box, and there was no godawful breaking-in period. I wear them every day, in all weather, for every occasion. They're so good.
I really really appreciate you and your videos. It has been helping me with my mental health without a doubt ever since i started watching you. I have recently started therapy and I won't lie how much of a positive force you have been behind it. Love and light to you, Bea. ❤
Aw I love your Grandma! Happy birthday! 🎉
Cold weather time is the best time to plant garlic for the spring before the spring garden
No i totally get what you mean. Ive been doing the same thing lately. I'll vacuum, dust, do laundry - literally anything to avoid the more important things that i just don't want to deal with. Home is clean, life is a mess lol.
Also I'm just so jealous of your art skills. Love watching you do the recipe cards!
I do this to avoid working (i work from home) performing so poorly but my house is very clean 😂
Yes!!! I love the fall, it's still hot here in Texas again!
I always Love your posts!!
Your channel is inspiring me to start my own, been very intimidated with filming and editing but thanks for the positive Vibes and sharing you with the youtubes
The injury from a crafting hobby you enjoy is so relatable. I have this trouble with jigsaw puzzles. I just have to finish it even if it’s a billion pieces. It takes every ounce of control I have to pull myself away after a short time because I know if I do not I will pay for it for months with neck pain.
Glad to see you Bea. Don't get down on yourself you are a very talented lady . I enjoy
your extended family plus cute pets .
Love the pumpkin. Happy birthday grandma!
Yay, you're back!
In place where I live autumn almost ended, missing warm weather
I think that it is also your personal definition of what negative is to you. The important part is that you recognized it and that you checked your expectations in the process. You're reframing these thoughts and that takes time and practice. Love the videos!!
Bee's back! 🥰
Happy fall and a safe recovery to you gurly! 🧡
Loved your painted pumpkin and your recipe card! Keep doing what makes you happy 😊
My sister took herself to hospital on the way to work a few months ago because she had such intense pain. They ran all the tests and advised her she had pulled all her intercostal muscles. We laughed but like for real, muscle soreness CAN be debilitating.
She has had her appendix out & has dislocated her knee so she has pretty good handle on her pain threshold and yeah. She knew something was off and got checked out.
It is spring where I am but living vicariously through all the fall vibes haha.
Toxic positivity is pretending everything is great all the time and is not great. You are doing your best and getting out of your own head is hard. Sending love haha
I love your recipe cards! They look amazing!
I can totally relate to your closing statement about being a negative person because you don't exude happiness all the time. I go about life like that too. I find myself just nonchalantly going through life and even on happy occasions like just like "this is nice". Not overly excited just in my feelings silently. I get it. It's not that we are negative. We just don't know how to express outward how happy we really are.
Exercising is so game changing when it comes to mental health. You were on your game and then the injuries happen. Dont worry! Don’t be so hard on yourself. You need the time to rest & get better. At least you found a new hobby in the meantime. Don’t stop being creative!
When you have a solid collection of cards, could you get your cards printed and sell as a pack? Maybe with a custom designed recipe card box?
So excited you're going to try gardening!!! Don't get discouraged if it doesnt work out too well your first go. Ive been gardening for 3 years. It took me 3 years to get it down. Just try a couple things every season and you'll get better and better!
You need to make copies of these recipe cards and sell them!!! I’d buy them ALL
I enjoy watching you paint your pumpkin you are very artistic, love it!😀
I was just checking yesterday to see if I'd missed a new video. :) Happy to see you back!
Hurrah!!!! I was getting worried about you, gurl! ❤
Lovely to see a Bea video out when I’m here, on holiday, stuck in my hotel room with bloody you-know-what-vid. This cheers me right up! 🤗
I love how creative you are! The recipe card was such a cool idea!😊
Hey Bea! Happy to see this video! I suffer with the SAME type of procrastination 😭 my therapist recommended thinking about the emotions I felt about the other task versus cleaning, and it really came down to being uncomfortable, and I tend to procrastinate when I feel uncomfortable. And the task is something I love to do, but I was putting alot of pressure on myself.
Totally understand being disappointed about events! I think its good to acknowledge that yeah, it was disappointing and thats okay that it was disappointing! We should be able to get frustrated just as mich as we are able to be excited. Hope things turn for the better soon!
I want to try your green chili so badly! It looks soooo tasty!! And I loooove when you make recipe cards! You are so talented!! Love your channel, Bea! ❤
I would honestly buy a copy of every cute recipe card you have.
(paused@9:20) Yeeeeay! I love it when Bea does art on her channel! She's sooooo talented and watching her create art of any kind is amazing to me!
I enjoy your videos soo much! The editing is amazing 🤩
Fab. Thanks for sharing your week and thoughts. I will start my average day!
I bet you're right about putting an even harder thing on your list to encourage yourself to do the medium task. Happy birthday to your gram!!
I once threw my back out putting down the toilet lid. A crocheting injury seems totally legit 😅
My dog has not had a dog bed in years bc he continues to pull the stuffing out and turn the house into a fluff storm. But ma’am that green chicken chili looks freakin amazing!! Happy birthday to your grams! She is such a spunky fun lady.
Because of your previous video on the Green Chili Festival, I went this year! Luckily, we didn't have to haul the full bushel of chilies around the festival and grabbed them on our way out. Amazing!!
OMG cutest pumpkin ever!❤
Using cleaning as a distraction to real life things is my life lol
Lol that was me last year. Sat for 8 hours too knit a Santa hat, and put my back out, four visits to chiropractor later and it helped but ever since then that same area likes to go out. But at least the hat turned out super cute. I love your docs. Very cute outfit.😊
I use cleaning to avoid my problems too! I completely relate with what you were saying. It all made perfect sense to me.
Ha! Yep! All that’s needed to maintain a sparkling home is a bigger, more important task lurking in the background. ❤️
Cute painted pumpkin & recipe card! You’re so talented 😊
Your sponsorship plugs get me EVERY 👏 TIME 👏 so freaking smooth, B.
The fit is so cute! You have such good style. Definitely love sweater weather 🥹
A very happy birthday to your grandma! 🎉☺️
Life is too short to make your feet cry!! Be good to them like you would a great friend!!
I love your pumpkin!!!
Happy birthday Gram🎉
I totally get the In the Zone Crocheting. I would finish a large skein a day so I would get locked into my goal.
It was the best diet ever, because it kept my hands too busy to eat and my brain too involved to think about eating.
Plus I made some pretty cool stuff so I felt like I accomplished something by the time I was done.
The pumpkin ghost 👻. You are an amazing artist. Hope you have a better week 🫶