I had a friend who tried to tell me it doesn't take that much work to cook for an entire family everyday because her mom did it every night from scratch and she had a family of 10😭I was living with her for awhile taking care of her and her son bc she was injured. She had a roommate so I took care of and fed everyone. I froze ingredients and food bases to make things easier. She was mocking me for that. Because her "mom never froze food." She was def envious of my productivity and efficiency. I made her feel like a bad mom. She would dump all the work on me so she can get a break but it backfired. I think she wanted to swamp me with work so I would fail.
That envious invalidation tactic also happens on the job. It happened to me today as a matter of fact. I had my work questioned and even though I knew what I did was right, I started questioning myself.
I love these break downs I brought the book a week ago I take it with me in my work bag and read on the go thank you for your content can't wait for more
I've gotten this insult from others too from envious women around me. One thing that's always true of them is that they don't have good connections with other people and tons of people have gone no contact with them their whole lives. I realized they like to use dog to symbolize the nature of the delulu relationship they've been thinking they have with me or wish they had because its what they lack. I wouldn't be surprised if this is a common thing with narcissistic people. They associate dogs with loyalty and docility or submission. In my case, it was always said by people who thought I would always be loyal to them no matter what they did and be docile to their vicious actions towards me. I truly believe from the beginning they decide they want to test me and my boundaries and delude themselves into thinking i will be docile and there will be no consequence...exactly where this dog insult comes from. Hope this helps give some insight into your relationship.
Hey. Congratulations on your book. But the first tiktok mentioned "how a person shows you they Admire you thru insults" not envy. This video didn't address that part.
@@Ls2ELevation Hey Queen 🫶 in the book admiration is listed as one of the stages of envy. Her video was parallel to the content I focus on. I figured it would be a great opportunity to collaborate and promote her as well. It’s all about uplifting and community 💗
Great skin 👌🏿👌🏿
@@HausOfAdonis omg thank you 🥺💖💖💖💖💖
I had a friend who tried to tell me it doesn't take that much work to cook for an entire family everyday because her mom did it every night from scratch and she had a family of 10😭I was living with her for awhile taking care of her and her son bc she was injured. She had a roommate so I took care of and fed everyone. I froze ingredients and food bases to make things easier. She was mocking me for that. Because her "mom never froze food." She was def envious of my productivity and efficiency. I made her feel like a bad mom. She would dump all the work on me so she can get a break but it backfired. I think she wanted to swamp me with work so I would fail.
YES! This sounds like the Set You Up To Fail Tactic in the book 🎯🎯🎯🎯
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@@ememmariaoffiong2284 thank you baby 💕
That envious invalidation tactic also happens on the job. It happened to me today as a matter of fact. I had my work questioned and even though I knew what I did was right, I started questioning myself.
@@BelieveLoveLive92 yup, the book addresses this! How the first thing they attack is your sense of confidence and self-worth.
I love these break downs I brought the book a week ago I take it with me in my work bag and read on the go thank you for your content can't wait for more
Omg, love this! 🥺❤️ Appreciate the support Michael! More is on the way 🤝
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Great talking points, also what do you do for your skin? Or is it primarily nutrition. You are beautiful ✨
Well said, I’m going to order the book right now!
@@HealedGrlDiary Yayyy!!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳💜💜💜💜 Happy Reading 📖
My sister called me a Dog? 🤣 I don’t know why. I guess that’s what them men she thought wanted her call her.
@@Kiana-s5c a dog is crazy
I've gotten this insult from others too from envious women around me. One thing that's always true of them is that they don't have good connections with other people and tons of people have gone no contact with them their whole lives. I realized they like to use dog to symbolize the nature of the delulu relationship they've been thinking they have with me or wish they had because its what they lack. I wouldn't be surprised if this is a common thing with narcissistic people. They associate dogs with loyalty and docility or submission.
In my case, it was always said by people who thought I would always be loyal to them no matter what they did and be docile to their vicious actions towards me. I truly believe from the beginning they decide they want to test me and my boundaries and delude themselves into thinking i will be docile and there will be no consequence...exactly where this dog insult comes from.
Hope this helps give some insight into your relationship.
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Hey. Congratulations on your book. But the first tiktok mentioned "how a person shows you they Admire you thru insults" not envy.
This video didn't address that part.
@@Ls2ELevation Hey Queen 🫶 in the book admiration is listed as one of the stages of envy. Her video was parallel to the content I focus on. I figured it would be a great opportunity to collaborate and promote her as well. It’s all about uplifting and community 💗
@@MsReadTheRoom Hey Lovely. Thanks for your response. I don't have the book so I appreciate you clarifying.
@@Ls2ELevation of course Queen, no problem! Appreciate your feedback ❤️