THIS is How Girls Give You Choosing Signals At the Gym
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I’m so bad at picking up signs that a worker at chipotle asked for my number once and I thought it was for rewards points 🤦🏽♂️
LOL. Free burritos are better in the long run anyway.
@@REVIVALFitness So to be fair she never gave me free burritos. She did give me double meat and guac for the price of just chicken tho. I miss her 😂😂
@@REVIVALFitness 😁😁😁
Hahaha
I don't blame you lol
Let's not BS here. If a girl is into you, unless she going out of her way to not show it, you can almost always pick up obvious signs. If you really aren't sure, she likely isn't.
Lotta young guys have issues with reading the signals. Then the next issue is acting on them. Endless spiral of uhhh what do I do.
Nah some guys are just dense. I've seen it happen. Happen to me too when I was younger. Wasn't very socially active so I had no idea what those signs meant. Only when other people or the same girl told me like years later did I realize.
And from what I've heard it's pretty common too.
@Gibran Camus LOL. Nonsense. Don't listen to anything this wierdo just typed.
Sorry, but you’re dead wrong. I have had girlfriends who did not show me obvious signs they were into me before we started talking. This isn’t some theory, I can tell you from actual experience that sometimes women give you signals, and sometimes they don’t. Depends on their personality. Don’t rely on that, just walk up and start talking, and then ***read the room***. What is true is that she will show interest once you start talking to her if she’s interested. If she clearly isn’t move on quickly.
A lot of guys don’t know when a woman is choosing because they don’t get it often.
If a girl is staring you down like she is wanting to talk. Ignore her. Make that girl suffer until she gives up or actually talks to you. Lol
Ruthless
I ignore them all, and only reward the gutsy ones. It’s good to weed out the non hackers early.
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 the only people who try and talk to me are the highschool chads 😭
Yeah that ignoring women act only works if you are a high value Chad my bro. She will be on Tinder later talking to one of her 2000 matches and won't be losing any sleep over you at all.
@@Alex-cm7hr Then I must be a high value Chad. 😏
No but seriously, my comment was a joke. Mostly...
I'd rather see people meeting at a gym then on a stupid app.
Online dating seems to rule now, and I guess we’re seeing the results.
Nah the club is a terrible place for love, the gym is cool when done right and isn’t forced
@rattlesnake1fulwhat if he don’t have friends who throw parties?
@rattlesnake1ful a party is mainly for one night stands unless love=sex
its more likely to work for men than using an app but still not the ideal place
I think the reason the gym is taboo is because you could possibly see these people everyday and if things go bad it could be awkward seeing them. It's less likely for that to happen at Starbucks.
Dated a girl I met at the gym for a while and even after it didn't workout when we saw each other in the gym it wasn't weird at all
@@Adrik808 That is cool. Glad it wasn't an issue for you.
She can be giving you all the signals and most of the time it still goes nowhere.
That’s always a possibility
That’s cause she likes you but then she goes home and Andrew tate and Leonardo DiCaprio are in her DMs tryna get some puss 😂😂
I am a girl and I went out with a dude from my gym. It came naturally because we often trained at the same time and got from saying hi to small conversations then trained together and went out to have dinner together afterwards. So my tip for the guys out there with a gym crush: small approaches over a longer period of time that come off naturally,don't just come up to someone randomly and try to flirt, that usually doesn't work.
The gym and other familiar environments can be advantageous for small talk and such.
@@REVIVALFitness I agree
@@mango3832 I agree more than you do
I have the opposite strategy. I ask girls out after a few minutes of chatting. They usually say yes.
What makes you think women are with that kind of time and investment from a man. Did you even offer to pay for the dinner?
I think a lot of people who say the gym is for exercising are those already in relationships. I'm married now. Met my wife at the gym. Met every girl I ever dated since high school before her at the gym.
I’ll take meeting a girl there over a bar or club 100% of the time
@@REVIVALFitness preach it brotha preach it
I agree. All of my crushes are at the gym😂😂😂
Same. Met my wife at the gym. She approached me and I capitalized.
@@brianbachmeier34 👊🏽right on. I see so many gorgeous men at the gym hoping one would say something 😂😂😂I don’t want to look thirsty as a woman if I say something first
Your videos are actually really helpful bro I would’ve wasted months “maingaining” if it wasnt for you, 3 months of proper bulking got me putting on actual muscle. I wasted 3 months “maingaining” and made 0 progress stayed at 130 lbs the whole time. You are the realest fitness creator tbh thank you
Thank you. Enjoy the gains. 🤝
I don’t think maingain is for hard gainers. Good thing you switched your focus sooner than later.
Bro u think 3 months is a lot? I did that for a year. Thanks Greg doucette 😪
I love this kind of positive content lately! Keep it up! Especially loved the grizzly challenge with mama swole!!!
Thank you 🤜🤛
Maybe his worst video
I got out of the military recently and I had some stuff follow me out like weird ass paranoia and antisocial behaviors so hopefully my journey is a eye opener thank you for the video 10/10 👍
This channel really is for the everyman. Usually other "mass-appeal" scattershot content that hits everyone is like... roided gymbros on fittok with no life experience implying that women are inferior to men and only exist to motivate them or hurt them. Love what you're doing
Thank you. This type of content tends to scare people off (“oooh misogyny!” when discussing dating at all) but I like to expand beyond just weights. Young men today need lots of help.
Yup. Even us old farts over 35 can learn and or just be entertained by the modern truths out there
That isn’t really wrong though. Most women are out to harm. Albeit unintentionally but still.
This was so funny lololol it’s such a great experience to start your fitness journey and no girls even bat an eye .. then years later after puttin in work those same girls are breaking their necks .. feels so good ngl . I literally went from being the fat dude to one of the most respected guys at the gym . Whoever you are reading this don’t give up
I go in and out of the gym. For years. I went from skinny to fat to skinny, and fat. I tend to drop weight quickly. I hope 2023. I can be better about it.
Whats confusing in my case is ... i am a Skinny Ectomorph dude and yet still this woman gazes at me through Mirrors, Dumbellracks, window slits... Either she is looking at how skinny i am *_OR_* I am magnetic.
whats more confusing is she brings her "gym buddy"(male) with her and yet still shoots her eyes across the gym.
_her ability is insane_
@@lavatr8322 you might be a good lookin guy ,who knows . & You'd be surprised what girls are down to do. I'm currently talking to a girl whos been in a 8 year relationship and has kids w him lol smh girls are wild man
@@Skoopyghost Just think about all the time you've wasted and unessesary stress you may have put your body through though. You could have been in shape by now if you had stayed focused ,& I don't mean that in a mean way . I just know how fulfilling it feels to finally be in shape so believe me when i say its worth it to have a sense of urgency cause the younger you are while you look like a god the better bro..
Same 💯
In the overwhelming majority of situations the difference between creepy and hot is lterally down to how hot she finds you. The same as the difference between workplace flirting and claims of workplace sexu@l harassment largely boil down to whether she finds the guy sexually attractive.
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These are facts lol . The only place I’ve ever Been worried about talking to a woman is the gym . Just cause idk if they want bothered but this one keeps
Putting herself in my bubble 🫧 on purpose then she gonna get swooped up like a mouse by an eagle 🦅 🤣
I had NO idea about the whole headphones tip!
These tips are gold!
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When a girl at the gym is aware of your existence (in the good way) you will know it.
You should anyway
Don’t overthink it. Just walk up (not mid set) say something that a normal human being would say, and watch her reaction. If there’s any attraction she’ll seem open to talking to you. If she’s being awkwardly polite, end it cordially and quickly
I don’t disagree, but this is far harder for most guys in person than it would seem. Especially younger guys.
how can i approach a girl if i can't even make friend with a guy
@@fabiooohlmao same
the hot girl at my gym talks to everyone one orbiter after another, friendly smiling laughing enthusiastic, which one does she like lol i decided not to talk to her, i couldnt take the frustration of thinking laughing smily face 9 out of 10 like me cause she's so damn friendly ... and yet you cant get her..... what a tease
Went out with two girls from the gym. If you guys talk to everyone at the gym, it's not weird to talk to the attractive girl either. She isn't special when you talk to everyone there and most people know your name (I do go to smaller gym).
All you have to do is ask them out at some point when everyone knows you.
Talking to more people in general is beneficial, even if just in passing. I focus heavily on training but I can say what’s up for a minute.
@@REVIVALFitness how is it more beneficial didn’t you say wasting time in small talk is wasting your time?
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 bro it's just common sense that you should be cordial to everyone, if you go to gym and see people there you say good morning/afternoon/night and you can ask them questions about their training or they ask u things, etc.
I go to a small gym too and everyone talks to each other so i relate to the comment he posted.
@@REVIVALFitness I'm still on powerlifter rest times so I got bits of time in between sets 💪
@@WeightedCali spot on krakoid. If you're resting 2 minutes in between each set, that's time for a small conversation with the rando at the gym if you want to.
Yep, never experienced any of these signals, thanks for reminding me
Don’t give up king
Me either
@@REVIVALFitness dont give up what? If no woman approaches you, that is out of your control
Honestly the best damn way for girls to get a guy’s attention is TO JUST SAY “HELLO” to us. Jeez 😆
They’re usually not fond of that
Ikr. Hate all these games they play
*Understanding these signals is so helpful, especially in a setting like the gym where it can be intimidating to approach someone.*
you've got a good niche here with fitness, relationships , confidence, etc. would love to see more if you're enjoying it as well.
Thank you. I like to expand beyond just weights.
His RUclips is good, but his Instagram is crap
“I have predator vision”
FBI OPEN UP!!!!!
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14:50 that’s so true. Laughed my ass off. Literally being tired after a set makes you stare at anything even the weights for 1 minute.
Man, the stares I’ve given to people…
This video might have saved me. I am very good with people and talking to people (I've been told). I found a cute girl at the gym and would normally just go right up and say hi and (not completely stop her workout) but come up with a quick thing to say. After hearing all this "don't approach someone at the gym." It almost shattered my confidence. Thank you sir, and I'm subbing.
How my girl did it , she would squat in front of my squat rack , she would train close to me , she would rack her weights in front of me and stand there for a while, I eventually approached her , and now she's my girlfriend , she was also my crush so worked out great
Nice man 💪🏼
@@REVIVALFitness great video again, I agree just be a man and go talk to them , most these guys afraid to talk to women like they're savage animals or something , I started slow with hi and byes , then she wanted more that's when I gave her more
@@loves2smooch384 how did you realize she wanted more?
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 when she didn't reject the small talk she embraced it and kept asking me more ,then she asked me for my Instagram , so keep it clean there , cause that's what they'll investigate first
Nobody fucking cares
Everytime I am working out girls always making eye contact with me but I don’t approach them you know why? Cuz I ain’t no simp I get my work out done😂
Um what
cope. you're just a pussy like the rest of us
As a "gym is for exercise" guy, a bar IS for socializing... you can drink at home cheaper and safer if you just want to drink. Personally I can't focus on two things at once so I go to the gym and focus on myself
I understand your point and agree, but do you think that if an opportunity presents itself one should be able to talk to people in the gym
The gym is where I go take my demons. All my memories in the gym are good ones. Last thing I need is a bad experience
@@jajaafricaif you go to the gym to socialize, you are wasting your time
@@rick-ry3kj talking to people at the gym doesn't mean you went there to socialise. Let's use common sense
My gym seems to have an unwritten rule that you do not talk to others, guys or gals. I often break the rule, but to hear conversation is quite rare. We have a bunch of grunters, but they grunt whether they are with others or not. I do agree that those with headphone s on are unapproachable, unless they are about to hurt themselves.
Haven't watched the vid yet but one obvious sign is when the girl walks near you and in front of you repeatedly and sometimes she walks too near you and already kinda violating your personal space at that point.
She's trying to get your attention and hoping you approach her because women are afraid of rejection so she wants you to initiate.
I remember making that comment on a previous video of yours about guys using "the gym is not a place to meet girls" as an excuse for their blatant lack of confidence.
I actually thought this girl gave some decent tips, but I laughed when she said "don't be creepy" with your approach and abruptly ended the video without at least giving some examples of what's considered creepy.
I'm with you, basically she means "please be attractive" 🤣
Give them credit, they’re consistent with that
Generally people just aren't creepy and those who give creepy vibes are just not very practiced with small talk, think:
- Not making eye-contact but poor at re-directing it, so it looks like you're staring at a random bodypart.
- Poor conversation timing, e.g. interrupting a conversation for small talk, trying too many times after the opposite party kept the conversation short or at the end of a rest.
- Poor conversational skills in general, like odd timing for laughing or licking lips or picking at skin mid-convo.
- Steering a conversation to a certain topic repeatedly.
- Odd pet names. If I didn't give you my name, you're not allowed to use a pet name either. Though this is more proper creepy than accidental creepy, it just happens so often.
In the moment it just feels off, but when I think back it's kinda that. I've had some legit creepy experiences but those don't represent a group of people.
Let me give you a guy's a tip. Say hello to everyone, especially the first time you see them. The first time is the most important. I went to a work place and started talking to a very attractive girl working in a store across the isle straight away. The guys working with me who'd been there for months said.. far out we haven't even spoken to her yet. First time I saw her I smiled and said hi, it's very easy to keep talking afterwards.
Very true. The longer you wait the more awkward it inherently gets.
@lawrencereid3457, just because they talk to you does not mean they are into you
@@rick-ry3kj The girl at my gym everyone wants, everyone talks to her all smiles and laughter, who does she want, none of them she wants me and i dont talk to her.... why dont i talk to her, cause i dont want to be part of her small talk following ....we enjoy the silence together its much deeper ....
I've been a gym guy for many years. For most of that time, I've had a great physique, usually in the top 3 of the big gyms, and top spot in the smaller ones. I'm also a very outgoing, charismatic guy who quickly befriends most of the employees and many of the members.
In the 15 years that I've been going to the gym, I've managed to attract my gym crush exactly once. And not for lack of approaching, if I see a girl I'm attracted to, I'll approach her and talk to her like I'd approach and talk to anyone. I'll feel her out, add in some humor or flirting if it seems appropriate, but always strive for a fun, playful, relaxed conversation, with varying levels of flirting.
I've had many great reactions. Lots of girls smile, giggle, blush, act shy etc. But no matter what I do or how well it goes, they quickly do a complete 180 and the next time I see them, they ignore me, avoid eye contact etc. The few times I've talked to them regardless, they displayed very obvious signs of discomfort, so I ended the interaction and left them alone.
I've seen many of them talking to other guys no problem, even going up and initiating the conversation, so it's not that they don't want to talk to guys, it's that they don't want to talk to me.
After years of trying different approaches, ways of talking, mannerisms etc. the results are the same. Any girl I'm interested in, and many I'm not interested in, want nothing to do with me, and often times display signs of not just uninterest, but DISinterest.
Lol, and I've totally had girls switch gyms just to get away from me! After I talked with them, they'll come back like, once or twice, see me, then I'll never see them again, despite having seen them several times a week for a while in some cases. If that happens once or twice, it's a coincidence. But when you can talk to to a girl, then give people 10:1 odds she'll never be back and win every time...that's something else.
Don't overthink it, you're probably not as attractive as you think (male gaze) and you're probably coming off as creepy.
@@djurius I dunno, I've been told I'm attractive, look like an actor, am built like a superhero etc. enough times to be pretty confident that I'm above average looking. I also get a lot of random stares and double takes whenever I go out too, or get girls doing the whole "looking at me, then when I see them looking they look away and start nervously giggling and talking to each other while trying not to look at me" thing.
As for creepy, that was probably the case years ago before I learned how to relax and talk with people, but after lots of practice approaching and talking with people, it's become pretty easy and I usually get positive reactions.
@@fuzzypanda1684 I can feel you, exact same experiences, they give all types of signs, then I initiate normal conversation like your name, what you do for living, where you live etc. etc. and say talk to you later or see you next time. The very next time if we come across each other they will try to ignore by not making eye contact even if I say hi or wave hand, they will act like they didn't saw, and this is what happened in majority of cases to me. And I hope it has nothing to be creepy, basic conversation with eye contact must not be creepy and I have seen these girls talking/approaching other guys who seems 100 times creepier with body language/eye stares etc. This happened lots of times and girls disappearing is very real thing. What I understood is if girl is giving you choosing signal and interested and if you don't act as expected they punish you right away no second chance (if you see them some sort of prize). Based on experiences I concluded that girls also approach if they are interested. So now I don't initiate or approach girl until if she approaches and at least say hi. And between I'm very fit and do calisthenic routines in gym with no b face even big buff guys come and ask for details and appreciated my hard work.
I don’t know anything about mixed gyms but there’s something you can do to make sure her proximity is not just a coincidence by changing your position and seeing if her body shifts towards you.
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Us gym bros that choose weights over a hot girl are the real alpha dogs. Stay big brothers
I have a gf and there was this girl that went to my gym that had an obvious crush on me. She would follow me around the gym and always use the equipment that was close to me.
Lmao I need help. I’m literally a licensed pilot who is jacked and good looking I’m literally not scared at all of flying a plane on my own yet the thought of approaching a girl in the gym terrifies me 😂
It happens. There are plenty of massive, “macho” dudes who are petrified of women. Simply saying hello to people can be a good start.
hope you found a girl by now, King.
Dude, I love these videos! They're pretty hilarious.... but oh...do true. Especially the resting b face bit. I might be super guilty of appearing unapproachable because I always have my headphones in so that I can focus and I'll move to another machine or exercise if one of my gym crush is there. I'm just shy and a little awkward and am really respectful of someone's space while working out. I thought about not wearing my phones just to see what might happen...and cause I forgot to charge them but I got all nervous and just wore them for the sake of wearing them.
Headphones are the number one reason I don't I approach a girl I normally would. I don't wear headphones at at the gym, girls if you want to be approached take your damn headphones out and be a human. That doesn't mean every guy in the gyms going to automatically run over and talk to you.
My gym crowd is mostly old people early in the morning. I don't get to meet anyone but the up side is I have all the weights and room I need when I need them. The odd younger lifter I encounter at 5-6am is either married to the treadmill or playing hop scotch with the free weights and machines.
Yeah that’s a rare time slot for younger lifters. But it can be very productive.
The 4-5am crowd is even weirder. Price you pay for an empty gym I guess.
I feel like a social idiot now lmao.
Back in my high school weight room this girl was always looking at me for an entire semester and I ignored her all the time.
It's funny because I kept telling myself "girls don't like me, girls don't find me cute" blablabla, but Ignored every time they did like me (she's just one example).
I'm an idiot.
Been there
Use an app. Maybe u are right
@8:17... But not only that...she'll throw dirt on your name to the other women in the gym and attempt to destroy your reputation.
This is why it's best to avoid "shooting your shot" with women in closed systems (i.e. gym, workplace, small college campuses, etc.)
Women are silly. They won't go talk to a dude they are interested in, even if the rejection rate is super low for them (most guys are going to be stoked if a woman approaches them), and will play all these attention games that have a much higher failure rate because a) guys are oblivious b) the ones that are not face a much higher rejection rate and won't approach.
They're just so ridiculously indirect. No game whatsoever. No idea how to talk to men, and no skill to get one. Just squat in front of him, hang around his general vicinity, stare awkwardly and hope he gets the hint. Imagine trying those tactics as a man to get a girl😂
Also the fear of being seen as a creep or weird is way higher for guys. So some might just avoid it all together in certain places. Especially a place they frequent like a gym or work or whatever.
@@brianohalloran4059
Yeah when it comes to flirting/trying to get a man’s attention, most chicks are clumsy goofballs.
The thing is, sometimes guys are oblivious to a woman's choosing signals even when she thinks she's being blatant.
Honestly
Like two months ago I was waiting for the pulley machine, a very fit chick was using it. She asked me if I was waiting to use the machine, to which I replied yes, but then she said “well, why didn’t you ask me to share it?”, I said “I didn’t wanna bother you”, and then she said “nah, all you have to do is ask!”.
Anyway, we start sharing the machine, quick chats between sets, then when I’m trying to move away to continue my workout I notice she’s very subtly following me and never breaks eye contact, her body is pointing directly at me. After some more exercises I figured why not and just asked for her number, she gave it to me right away. I’m 25 and she’s 35. you can figure out what went on after that lmao.
The point I’m trying to make is that you really don’t have to sweat it: if someone finds you attractive, and they’re not insecure or introverted, it can happen that easily, seriously. But if not, then don’t get discouraged, politely move on and respect their boundaries.
Great work, son
I don’t go to gym to meet girl. I go to make sad head voice stop. Making sad head voice stop is my number one goal
Sad head voice could be less annoying than a lot of these girls.
Lol yeah at least the voice in my head sometimes listens to me for fucks sake lmao
Guys saying she will make it obvious. That is NOT true. I've had a girl visit my adress 15 years after we went to school together as teens. Apparently she likes me, and I never had a clue.
I've heard stories like these all the time. Guys who realises someone liked them 5, 10, 20 years too late! Haha!
A lot of women don't make it obvious.
Not obvious from the guy's POV, at least. Women often think (or claim) they're dropping clear hints when they aren't. There's also the issue of guys not picking up on such cues.
Yeah, "don't be a creep" or in other words "don't be ugly". 😂
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Love your content. It's really good motivation for me to keep uploading to my channel. Keep up the great work. I can't wait to see your next video!
Thank you 🤜🤛
The emotionless way he talks is cool 🤣
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Dating apps work to an extent but you still dont know who your talking to on there until you meet up, meaning they are almost never going to be what you expected when you actually meet up
The catfishing is rampant
This and RP are the best fitness channels on RUclips hands down. Great content homie.
Thank you 🤜🤛
Personally, I prefer not to approach women at any gym that I frequent for the same reasons I prefer not to date women that I work with. My peace is more important. If I want or need to ghost her, that needs to be an option. Can’t really do that if you’r talking to someone that goes to your gym. Good vid!
I can’t argue with that. Doesn’t open the door for any of the issues.
Facts. Don't shit where you eat
Yup. I apply this same method at work. I only talk to a woman unless it’s “work” related
My gf did most of those choosing signals but that day I was really smashing the weights not caring about anything so I kinda noticed them but didn’t act on them because I was just so focused on my workout.
Then nearing the end of the session I needed to go to the cables where she and her friend were doing kickbacks and I said something like "you don’t mind if I use the cables while you guys rest?“ and I then proceeded to basically take up all the space (chest flys). Like I said I really didn’t give a shit that day but then later on her friend approached me and asked me for my insta (so she could give it to her). My gf told me that she wanted to go up to me first but was really unsure because I didn’t show any interest up to that point and she was basically sure I was gonna reject her.
Point being if she shows interest you need to respond to it in an appropriate manner so that she also sees you’re interested, ideally you’d probably go approach immediately but having a small escalation each time you meet also works. Like looking at each other the first time, then the next day you smile at her if you see her looking at you, then saying a quick "hey" the week after that and so on. That approach is very natural and takes almost no effort, you can also do it with multiple girls at once without seeming weird. If anything it makes you more attractive to everyone around
Real shit. Done this too lol.
Yoooo hell yeah big bro get them sponsorships!! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Nah I’m a villain for that, remember?
I challenge everyone to work out your social skills!!
Start by smiling and waving at someone!!
Try to wave at a new person, every day!!
Go ahead and introduce yourself to the person that reciprocate your greeting.
Go ahead and introduce yourself to a new person every day , or as often as you can !!
Challenge yourself, you will be glad you did❤
Is it normal that since I’m so angry at the gym that I can in no way imagine resetting my state of mind to even begin to approach a girl? I’m just so damn angry and fueling with adrenaline. God I’m so lonely
In general, women are more attracted to men who show them little attention. It’s part of their biological instincts to win over and attract the alpha male who doesn’t see her as a necessity to have. If you want to make a girl at the gym go nuts for you, just ignore her, do your training, and in very specific moments, give a quick “hey” as you’re passing each other, but then immediately go about your business as if she’s now an afterthought. Keep your eyes off of her as you’re training. Their curiosity will increasingly peak over time and you’ll start to notice obvious things such as her working out near you constantly, etc. That’s the equivalent of the lioness laying down in front of the lion. If you miss the signs at that point, then you’re hopeless anyways lol.
That's a bunch of bull.
@@ModelJames13 Disagreeing with biology makes zero sense.
you still have to meet her face to face, the reality is to get off the dating app lmao
You can use the apps but they’re far from reliable for the majority of guys
Non-creepy way = hot
blackpilled and based
The truth is the truth
Aight imma talk to this babe real soon
The dude explains excellently! Thanks, bro.
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5:20 this 🙌📠
Whats confusing in my case is ... i am a Skinny Ectomorph dude _new to the gym_ and yet still this woman gazes at me through Mirrors, Dumbellracks, window slits... Either she is looking at how skinny i am OR I am really magnetic.
what's more confusing is she brings her "gym buddy"(male) with her and yet still shoots her eyes across the gym.
_her ability is insane._
If she looks at you this regularly, she’s into you. She must find you attractive regardless of physique. You could ask her one day “why do our eyes keep crossing?”or something like that if you’re into her.
@@REVIVALFitness thanks! I could do that ,and honestly out of all the energies in the gym, hers is very different
its been 1 month , I didn't take a step , because what if her "gym buddy" is her husband 🤣
@@lavatr8322 That's something you'll have to gauge. If you've never seen them hug, kiss, touch on each other, she sits on his lap etc, it could be a brother, gay friend, guy in the friend zone, etc.
@@REVIVALFitness Thanks mate for the support i had to get that off my chest ....🙌
It's gotten to the point where most Men have no choice but to pull one at Wal Mart or the grocery store at random. This is also a great way to learning social skills, killing awkwardness and figuring out how to read body language and vibes in a quick time. Don't go into deep introspection/self reflection and be outwardly engaged and calm. All the best to everyone watching this video and reading this
No women go to the grocery store to buy groceries.
@@Steste561Lol 😂
Lmao I like watching these videos even tho I’m pretty educated in these areas, but I’m kinda stuck cuz I have no problem talking to girls but there is this one girl that I’ve caught that keeps staring and looking at me and I also glance at her all the time so she can know that I am interested, but the only problem is that it appears she always works out with her dad and idk how to approach her since she is always with him😂
I have RBF and I had a married woman about my age tell me so, that and I guess I have this aura of intimidation…whatever that means. So any girl I do find attractive, I now have this thought that I look like the hungry sweating beast in the gym to some of the women. I’m sure the 40+ crowd likes it but I’m really aiming for 25-35 here
Beast mode engaged 😈
barbell curl form was lookin cleannn
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Lmaooo! 😂😂 not the death stare 😂😂😂
I think all these videos about how to approach women in the gym just makes things confusing. I say just go right up to her and introduce yourself. None of this other indirect crap. If she doesn't appreciate it, or isn't into you then oh well. She's not the one. I've done it many times. I mainly just want to see what kind of person is under that interior. If I get bad vibes then it makes me feel so much better that I did it, so then I don't have to think about it anymore and go meet someone else.
I mean for the grunting part, i do remember a guy at my gym that was more like moaning on each rep. Everyone was looking at him. 😂
the sponsor transition was really smooth 😂
Brilliant. Yes, I have reaper glare face on but I am approachable. Lmao!
The best is when you smile at a girl just trying to be polite and they don’t even acknowledge it
That's my main reason for not approaching at the gym. I got 5 days a week and I don't want that awkwardness after if it goes south lmao.
Had a girl that was prepping for a show come sit next to me and make lots of noise/going for eye contact. Me, being a noob at the time, chuckled and walked away because I thought it was ridiculous. Hindsight: Chad move. Also hindsight: can't see signs lol
It happens man. Hindsight sucks but it’s a good teacher.
So true! Everytime with my earbuds, Standing there trying to tap pause my music. Turns it up for some reason. Tap again, Changes song. Till im like ugh take it out....Only for the plastic peice to get stuck in my ear 😮💨 Sucha process mid set haha
I had a baddie approach me at the gym the other day. She asked if I could see if she was doing bicep curls right. I helped her and she thanked me. I’m bad at choosing signaling. Was she hitting on me?
Yes, she was
Lol l solid and well put direct truth of the matter for sure homes lol😂 love the direct honesty on point
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Women will only do this if you’re 6ft Chad
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I’ve been told multiple times by women that liked me “I get off work in 30 minutes.” And my dumbass didn’t know why they were telling me this. Life is about learning.
A lot of them will use the subtle hints like that. And a lot of dudes completely miss it.
A girl gave me form advice on my rdl. Either she liked me or my form sucked that much lol
Both
Been going to the gym for a month now, since I am about 60 pounds overweight to try to lose weight for health reasons, I talked to a young receptionist, while being on a bike, but that does not mean squad, and also another one that talked to me while she noticed I was spilling my water from by bottle by accident, again, that does not mean she is interested.
Ultimate Warrior on the ropes! 🤟😆
8:25 the most distracted I've been by a girl in the gym was when she was half repping on the leg press, set to like 50 pounds, on her phone watching tik tok. Jesus Christ.
Yikes. Id say the leg extension is the king of looking-at-phone exercises.
This comes exactly at the right time Dating tips+Fitness is 🔥💪💯
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Do men realize how often women are told that chasing a man scared them off? Regardless of gender, if you like someone, just approach. Stop the games. Trust me, i know it's much easier being the one who's approached. But if we're all waiting to be approached, no one will be.
It seems the large majority of ‘approaching’ now is either DM or liking/commenting on someone’s posts
we can get kicked out if we approach
Most of the girls at my gym resemble samara from the ring, with a couple of them looking like the big Russian chick from the dodgeball movie. Kinda scared ngl
Seeing these videos and realizing how hard I'm blowing it
Been there. Just move forward and make adjustments.
Also, I must tell you that "bro, don't be scared; just do it" is easy advice to give, but the risks are high. If she does not find you attractive, she probably won't politely decline. Instead, she will feel that you are sexually harassing or assaulting her.
@GregoryTheGr8ster BINGO!
Or worse yet be filming you and out it all over tik tok
@@evernew23 Yes, that is a genuine risk nowadays.
I met a girl at the gym awhile back. She invited me to dinner and offer to pick me up. I found a black book in her car. It had about 50 guys numbers in the book. I thought to myself every guy at the gym may have tapped that ass already. It was just my turn.
Finding a woman who isn't 'ran through' at this point is almost impossible if you're outside of high school.
@@REVIVALFitness might as well hire attractive escorts, that is what I do, f...k "dating"
Revival Fitness you must be dispatching their advances like flies on honey.
The gym is for exercise until its not and you don't have it anymore. Just like your job is for working, until it's not and you don't have that anymore either. Is any woman worth risking your gym or your job? Nope. I always ask, can i sacrifice this venue? If the answer is no, then i walk the other way even if they are hitting on me.
no its not
MK only speaks FACTS
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My man winning with tiege sponsor!!
LESSS GO BRO
though still can't afford it.
Thanks man. All good. Get that piggy bank up!
You can definitely pick up girls at the gym. Just read the room. Now if you’re going to the gym and your main priority is talking to girls, that’s a weird vibe. I will say this though, almost everyone, man or woman, has a gym crush. My advice is be presentable, be aware of your facial expressions (don’t look angry all the time), and giving her form advice is a great ice breaker!
Form advice can be hit or miss since a lot of women take that as you being the “know it all man,” especially if you’re an upper body bro. I would casually ask first like hey, do you mind if I give you a pointer? I’ve said before a lot of gym girls have far more buttoned up form than the guys now.
A girl opend the door for me and i was so stupid that i smiled and opend the other one. She looked at me like wtf you fool 😂
Yeah, I'm not really trying to pick up in the gym because I tried picking up my next door neighbor. She ended up being a narcissist. Now drama city.
already knew about the resting b face I have, but damn the amount of times I missed a fair few girls working without earphones by a couple feet next to my squat rack - looking back im oblivious as fuck lmfao
It’s painful. But can’t fret over it.
Only problem I have about talking to women is I got a girlfriend lol
Women love guys who have girlfriends
@@REVIVALFitness for real haha she don’t like it much🤣🤣🤣