It is hard work. I even have been taking time away from reading and learning and just flowing. I was a widow 35 -4 kids mostly grown. Yrs later after second wife arrival. It’s been rewarding ( I did not see it for awhile) everyone is saying our kids, our grand kids . It’s beautiful to witness
I watch Sister Wives on TLC and the patriarch (Kody Brown) says some of the most awful things I’ve ever heard to his first 3 wives and their kids. Very sad. He completely checked out after he married the 4th wife. He’s now claiming he only ever really loved the latest wife and didn’t know what love was until then. But he’s mad at the first 3 wives for leaving him and that the kids (all adults except for 1) they share have all cut him off. He refers to the kids he has with the 1st 3 wives as “their kids” but the last wife he refers to those kids as “our children”. One of the biggest narcissists I’ve ever seen. His last wife is just as abusive and manipulative to his former wives. I used to love their show (early seasons). Their family had a lot of unity back then. Anyway, let me stop. Theirs enough ppl on YT that can give you better reviews of that show! But I would love to see a reaction video from you, Coach Nyla, and Coach Nazir on some of the episodes!
SubhanAllah!💜السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته If polygamy is what some men want and they can deal with it, go for it. however, expect it to be a little more challenging for you. Y'all families are a good example for all. It seems like y'all got it together. الحمد لله May الله continue to bless you guys in all your success moving forward by HIS Mercy 🧕👳♂️🧕اللهم امين
Turmoil keeps people focused on low vibrations instead of the proper way to practice palygny. That's why sociopaths and narcissists always create drama.
It's not nice when the man has 2 wives and only with 1. My situation is that he can only be with me a couple hours and she starts calls and text and he leaves me, shame on ppl like them.
4 Al-nisa 4:3 The key to that chapter and verse is the man must be able to provide , and deal with his wives justly. If a man is not competent and qualified maybe that man should deal with one woman. Reason why that is said cause you got alot of men/brothers trying to take on wives or having more than one woman and they can't do it on a divine high level of truth ,realism, and maturity that one must have ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE. THE LESSER REASON WHY BROTHERS GET INTO POLYGYNY IS JUST SEX, WHICH IS UNJUSTLY ACCORDING TO THAT VERSE IN AL-QURAN
As salaamu alaikum thank you so much for sharing I have been watching your channel for a few weeks now and you have answered so many of my questions about polygyny it was a fear for me in my marriage if my husband took another wife what was his reason did I do something wrong?would I have a relationship with my co wife?could I trust her in my home?would she bring disease to myself and my husband from her previous relationship?what if she was promiscuous in the Dunya and used Islam to get a husband but don't practice Islam just the polygyny part? I have friends and family that are in polygamous marriages and none of them are examples for me at all herpes was spread to the first wife both wives work the husband is lazy in his duties to his families.I again thank you so much for being a positive.role model.Your point on the.husbands jealousy is true another man will find you beautiful your modest and strong .Just from watching your interaction with your husband your marriage bond is unbreakable only a foolish woman would think she could sever your tie your picture where you and your husband are touching foreheads together is so beautiful may Allah continue to bless you to share with others the positive side of polygyny.
I find men having multiple wives humiliating, disrespectful to the women and only designed to fulfill lust of a men. A women is forced (sometimes by herself) to control her justifiable jealousy so her men can fulfill his lusts. Women need more help and provision, why not have multiple husbands? If a men needs additional help why not hire a maid?
It is hard work. I even have been taking time away from reading and learning and just flowing. I was a widow 35 -4 kids mostly grown. Yrs later after second wife arrival. It’s been rewarding ( I did not see it for awhile) everyone is saying our kids, our grand kids . It’s beautiful to witness
I watch Sister Wives on TLC and the patriarch (Kody Brown) says some of the most awful things I’ve ever heard to his first 3 wives and their kids. Very sad. He completely checked out after he married the 4th wife. He’s now claiming he only ever really loved the latest wife and didn’t know what love was until then. But he’s mad at the first 3 wives for leaving him and that the kids (all adults except for 1) they share have all cut him off. He refers to the kids he has with the 1st 3 wives as “their kids” but the last wife he refers to those kids as “our children”. One of the biggest narcissists I’ve ever seen. His last wife is just as abusive and manipulative to his former wives. I used to love their show (early seasons). Their family had a lot of unity back then. Anyway, let me stop. Theirs enough ppl on YT that can give you better reviews of that show! But I would love to see a reaction video from you, Coach Nyla, and Coach Nazir on some of the episodes!
SubhanAllah!💜السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته If polygamy is what some men want and they can deal with it, go for it. however, expect it to be a little more challenging for you. Y'all families are a good example for all. It seems like y'all got it together. الحمد لله May الله continue to bless you guys in all your success moving forward by HIS Mercy 🧕👳♂️🧕اللهم امين
This video to the testament of the journey and the great family you have many thanks for the contents you share
Turmoil keeps people focused on low vibrations instead of the proper way to practice palygny. That's why sociopaths and narcissists always create drama.
It's not nice when the man has 2 wives and only with 1. My situation is that he can only be with me a couple hours and she starts calls and text and he leaves me, shame on ppl like them.
4 Al-nisa 4:3 The key to that chapter and verse is the man must be able to provide , and deal with his wives justly. If a man is not competent and qualified maybe that man should deal with one woman. Reason why that is said cause you got alot of men/brothers trying to take on wives or having more than one woman and they can't do it on a divine high level of truth ,realism, and maturity that one must have ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE. THE LESSER REASON WHY BROTHERS GET INTO POLYGYNY IS JUST SEX, WHICH IS UNJUSTLY ACCORDING TO THAT VERSE IN AL-QURAN
Women are the only ones at a loss if men don't practice this.
As salaamu alaikum thank you so much for sharing I have been watching your channel for a few weeks now and you have answered so many of my questions about polygyny it was a fear for me in my marriage if my husband took another wife what was his reason did I do something wrong?would I have a relationship with my co wife?could I trust her in my home?would she bring disease to myself and my husband from her previous relationship?what if she was promiscuous in the Dunya and used Islam to get a husband but don't practice Islam just the polygyny part? I have friends and family that are in polygamous marriages and none of them are examples for me at all herpes was spread to the first wife both wives work the husband is lazy in his duties to his families.I again thank you so much for being a positive.role model.Your point on the.husbands jealousy is true another man will find you beautiful your modest and strong .Just from watching your interaction with your husband your marriage bond is unbreakable only a foolish woman would think she could sever your tie your picture where you and your husband are touching foreheads together is so beautiful may Allah continue to bless you to share with others the positive side of polygyny.
I have 1 wife, and honestly, I do have my heart set on another. I am absolutely tired from my family now! I am excessively tired lol. Its for Allah.
So If your tired why do you want extra work
I find men having multiple wives humiliating, disrespectful to the women and only designed to fulfill lust of a men. A women is forced (sometimes by herself) to control her justifiable jealousy so her men can fulfill his lusts. Women need more help and provision, why not have multiple husbands? If a men needs additional help why not hire a maid?