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Sorry but I have high standards because I've lowered them in the past only to attract poor mindsets loaded with anxiety & no direction in life. No thanks. I want to LIVE.....
Counseling helps. I had to do therapy for two years to stop reacting to everything - it’s also a genetic trait but with hard work, therapy and research it can be mastered. Express yourself but in a healthy way
Read "why men love bitches.” Then "why men marry bitches.” It’s not hard being a woman if you know the power we have! It’s a walk in the park if you become aware of your power! Men have fought wars in the past over women. It gives me chills just thinking about this. Hope this helped Alyssa.
Dealing with this now due to a lifetime of abuse. I have a hard time trusting people period. If I trust you it all comes out. It's not good!! I know! After holding it all in, I go to another extreme of being too open. I've built 💪my guard up as a result. Through this I've managed to improve myself and be positive, but extreme past and current abuse. Got me... Now, I know and need to grow past this too. Thank you! Blowing in the wind right now...
I like the videos like this where you talk about being clingy, having anxious attachment styles, and going crazy.. because I'm one of those people, and I'm trying to change and understand.
I feel like on a very rate occasion having a little emotional breackdown gives the guy a chance to be the comforter, if he really like you he will help you regain confidence on what you’re upset about
I had to really work on not amplifying my non verbal. I'm naturally more calm until I'm nervous. N then I become loud squeaky and bug eyed. I been learning to talk at a lower voice and to just slow down. I also realized I can't hangout with hyper people. Or else that energy ends up making me hyper to a point im thinking inside "I'm out of control right now". I cut multiple people out of my life for this reason. Also being sober helps. Sense being sober I can just be me relaxed even if I'm nervous I'm simply quiet.
For me helped meditation and you can use mind control sentences, like you repeat 10 times a day and it on your wall: I am feminin, I am sexy, I am beautiful, I am super attractiv, etc. Works very good
Lol @ psycho eyes 👀 🤣 Ur killing me Alex! So true about the non-verbals being diminished or amplified when anxious. I can totally relate. Either get super quiet n reserved or super talkative! 😄 I don't agree that women should stop expressing their emotions or feeling they can't make complaints when upset. If a woman can't assess how a man shows up for her n be emotionally supportive in those moments then what's the point! I get that no one wants to be around a negative nelly 24/7, but everything in moderation is normal imo.
1. emotionally unstable, wearing your emotions on your sleeves too much too soon 2. too masculine/independent 3. negative outlook on life 4. standards too high
Unfortunately, women look crazy when we get upset or stressed but men don't. Don't be needy but pretend to be needy. Who cares. I am sorry, for those that work their ass off to make their own money and have their own business and house, yes you need higher standards so no one can take advantage of you.
I feel like riri is kinda masculine never really seems impressed and isn’t overly feminine or soft but people are obsessed with her same with Beyoncé ( current not past Beyoncé), if anything they seem somewhat strong and fierce no vulnerability, not sure what makes them so attractive to both sexes. I don’t really see softness from either, but maybe it’s projections… but also they’re so successful.. so maybe that’s why their strong silent presence.. but what I’m saying I guess is why are men attracted to them if they’re kinda masculine energy and no vulnerability really ?
My expressions have the opposite effect. Guys always tell me its 'sexy' which can cause a headaches for me cos they only think about sex when Im trying to have a 'normal conversation' so sometimesI need to be 'masculine' so they remain focused on what I'm trying to say......Urghhhh!!
Nah, I believe that if it didn’t work out before it’s because it just wasn’t meant to be… if they were truly the people for you it would of worked out the first time.
I make 300k a year 🤣 but this is true. I am not looking for someone based on how much money they make but rather their goals or investment outlooks. Truly i think a person with goals and life plans to better themselves every year in general should be just be a high standard for anyone
Damn Mami.. do you not realize men are the providers. If you live in a woke joke community lib city I get why you think otherwise but don’t fall for those pathetic fem men.
Babe, I do love you but why do I have a feeling with some videos you are insinuating that women should change in order to keep or attract the guy. With age, I truly don't care what I "shouldn't do" and if some guy would be repelled by my actions. If someone can't handle the woman at her "worst" then he doesn't deserve her at her best. 💋💋❤❤
That’s what he means. In some of his videos he says to walk away as a woman if a man doesn’t accept you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. But some of these videos are for women who don’t really walk away that still want to manipulate or keep their parter
Change shouldn’t always be looked at as a negative… people can’t always “be themselves” in order to attract someone. There are some things learnt through trauma and bad parenting/relationships you must change. You have to be who the person you want to be with would want to be with. That means you must change some things about yourself, behaviours you have learnt and adapted through traumas etc 😊
Good stay single then. If you can’t adapt to the evolving world and wanna be hard headed go ahead. We actually want to, so let us watch his videos and learn something. If you don’t like his content just keep scrolling.
@@JO-tw5yd single? Nobody asked you nothing. Who are you? I didnt asked you nothing.. Go in peace and dont comment life from the person you dont even know.. 🙄
@@amerokeewiya1320 depends on race and nationality. A woman is considered tall at 5’10 That’s supermodel height. I’m 5’6 and a half (5’7 if I’m co-signer in Pilates) and lol the men I’ve dated 6’2 and up consider me tiny 🤷🏽♀️
Its kinda sounds like a contradiction, how you have to stay cool and in control all the time and not go to youre male side. I dont know, you want youre partner to be this all the time😐? Seems kinda boring and cold to me. Yes you need to be mature but is it not the best feeling when someone is genuine happy around you?
He doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Total contradiction. Men like emotions that’s being feminine. Containing it, is masculine. He says not to be vulnerable…he didn’t think this through. Couldn’t listen to the rest of it…sniffing back his phlegm and gulping…kinda gross. Women don’t like gross men
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Sorry but I have high standards because I've lowered them in the past only to attract poor mindsets loaded with anxiety & no direction in life. No thanks. I want to LIVE.....
PREACH!!
I remember ONE RUclipsR said
YOUR STANDARD WILL SAVE YOUR TIME AND FROM PAIN.
Counseling helps. I had to do therapy for two years to stop reacting to everything - it’s also a genetic trait but with hard work, therapy and research it can be mastered.
Express yourself but in a healthy way
I can't tell if I'm too emotional and crazy with my standards too high or if I just go hard on disrespect and don't have a problem walking away 😂
You should never accept disrespect.
Being a woman is hard sometimes😣
Not sometimes a lot 💌
Read "why men love bitches.” Then "why men marry bitches.”
It’s not hard being a woman if you know the power we have! It’s a walk in the park if you become aware of your power!
Men have fought wars in the past over women. It gives me chills just thinking about this.
Hope this helped Alyssa.
sometimes? More like always.
@@varnemi 💯 agree!!!
The girl that passes by in the back lol
Dealing with this now due to a lifetime of abuse. I have a hard time trusting people period. If I trust you it all comes out. It's not good!! I know! After holding it all in, I go to another extreme of being too open. I've built 💪my guard up as a result. Through this I've managed to improve myself and be positive, but extreme past and current abuse. Got me... Now, I know and need to grow past this too. Thank you! Blowing in the wind right now...
I like the videos like this where you talk about being clingy, having anxious attachment styles, and going crazy.. because I'm one of those people, and I'm trying to change and understand.
Why can’t life and humans in general be more simple 😌
I feel like on a very rate occasion having a little emotional breackdown gives the guy a chance to be the comforter, if he really like you he will help you regain confidence on what you’re upset about
I had to really work on not amplifying my non verbal. I'm naturally more calm until I'm nervous. N then I become loud squeaky and bug eyed.
I been learning to talk at a lower voice and to just slow down. I also realized I can't hangout with hyper people. Or else that energy ends up making me hyper to a point im thinking inside "I'm out of control right now". I cut multiple people out of my life for this reason. Also being sober helps. Sense being sober I can just be me relaxed even if I'm nervous I'm simply quiet.
loud squeaky and bug eyed !!LMFAOOOOOOOOOO me too
I have a huge problem with being overly masculine. I'm almost completely out of tune with my feminity that I don't know how to be more feminine.
Watch some chengi and anna bey....
Watch April Mason..Identity switch
For me helped meditation and you can use mind control sentences, like you repeat 10 times a day and it on your wall: I am feminin, I am sexy, I am beautiful, I am super attractiv, etc. Works very good
The good news is that you can work on yourself and you can learn.
It is NOT masculine, STOP listening to this STEREOTYPICAL SEXIST S----.
Alex wifey passing to make herself known had having the trophy and Alex drinking to calm down (not show his unpleasantness) 😂😂😂
Lol @ psycho eyes 👀 🤣 Ur killing me Alex! So true about the non-verbals being diminished or amplified when anxious. I can totally relate. Either get super quiet n reserved or super talkative! 😄
I don't agree that women should stop expressing their emotions or feeling they can't make complaints when upset. If a woman can't assess how a man shows up for her n be emotionally supportive in those moments then what's the point! I get that no one wants to be around a negative nelly 24/7, but everything in moderation is normal imo.
PREACH!! On the last part, not the first part.
1. emotionally unstable, wearing your emotions on your sleeves too much too soon
2. too masculine/independent
3. negative outlook on life
4. standards too high
The only tip I learned: if your man doesn’t want to acknowledge you, acknowledge yourself! 💀 @5:07
100
Creasing at the psychol eyes impression 😂😂
The way you swang that stick 😂😂😂😂… heard you!
Love these new videos! Thank you.
Unfortunately, women look crazy when we get upset or stressed but men don't. Don't be needy but pretend to be needy. Who cares. I am sorry, for those that work their ass off to make their own money and have their own business and house, yes you need higher standards so no one can take advantage of you.
Love your hair!
I have asd, so these things are very tricky. The more comfortable I am, the weirder....
A memo in the Asian community haha. You are freaking hilarious Alex. Thanks for always making me laugh. When my heart feels broken love. Hugs.
I feel like riri is kinda masculine never really seems impressed and isn’t overly feminine or soft but people are obsessed with her same with Beyoncé ( current not past Beyoncé), if anything they seem somewhat strong and fierce no vulnerability, not sure what makes them so attractive to both sexes. I don’t really see softness from either, but maybe it’s projections… but also they’re so successful.. so maybe that’s why their strong silent presence.. but what I’m saying I guess is why are men attracted to them if they’re kinda masculine energy and no vulnerability really ?
Look into dark femininity
shes confident
who was that woman that walked by?
Thanks for this Alex !❤
My expressions have the opposite effect. Guys always tell me its 'sexy' which can cause a headaches for me cos they only think about sex when Im trying to have a 'normal conversation' so sometimesI need to be 'masculine' so they remain focused on what I'm trying to say......Urghhhh!!
You are always the best
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA the psycho eyes cracked me up xD
DAMN! this is eye opening. Unfortunately imma stay Masculine 🤣🤣🤣 ahahahahahahah i luv myself more than pleasing a raggedy man. I love men tho
6:14 I kinda do that shit :(. And I smile a Lot. But I get complimented by it?
I didnt know that movie, thanks to mentioning
Alex is right , 😂 you right about mindfulness. 😊
14:49 wait what? are there more videos on this topic?
Excellent content.
I get just what u mean ..spot on
You’re the cutest man on eart 😌
I’ve tried to lower standards for a decade 😂but yes you have to date outside your comfort zone cause you don’t know what you don’t know.
Who is this that???? at 9:58
Mind your business 😂
Valuable. Thank you!!!
Nah, I believe that if it didn’t work out before it’s because it just wasn’t meant to be… if they were truly the people for you it would of worked out the first time.
A memo 😂😂😂
Is 5'8" considered tall, as a woman?? Men don't like tall women??
Alex you’re fine. Your eyes make you look like a young Marlon Brando.
Prevention is better than cure
I love you ❤
I make 300k a year 🤣 but this is true. I am not looking for someone based on how much money they make but rather their goals or investment outlooks. Truly i think a person with goals and life plans to better themselves every year in general should be just be a high standard for anyone
That's not true , I know ppl from school a girl who is 5'7 and he's like 5'1 that wasn't a great example lol
Do y’all think expecting guy to pay for a drinks for first date is too much?
It’s the standard, far from too much.
Honestly even this a cheap guy. In my experience (i live in germany) men who seek commitment wine and dine you
Not at all. Men should always pay. Leave your wallet at home intentionally.
How else do u Kno if he broke or not
Damn Mami.. do you not realize men are the providers. If you live in a woke joke community lib city I get why you think otherwise but don’t fall for those pathetic fem men.
Babe, I do love you but why do I have a feeling with some videos you are insinuating that women should change in order to keep or attract the guy. With age, I truly don't care what I "shouldn't do" and if some guy would be repelled by my actions.
If someone can't handle the woman at her "worst" then he doesn't deserve her at her best. 💋💋❤❤
That’s what he means. In some of his videos he says to walk away as a woman if a man doesn’t accept you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. But some of these videos are for women who don’t really walk away that still want to manipulate or keep their parter
Change shouldn’t always be looked at as a negative… people can’t always “be themselves” in order to attract someone. There are some things learnt through trauma and bad parenting/relationships you must change. You have to be who the person you want to be with would want to be with. That means you must change some things about yourself, behaviours you have learnt and adapted through traumas etc 😊
Good stay single then. If you can’t adapt to the evolving world and wanna be hard headed go ahead. We actually want to, so let us watch his videos and learn something. If you don’t like his content just keep scrolling.
@@JO-tw5yd single?
Nobody asked you nothing.
Who are you? I didnt asked you nothing..
Go in peace and dont comment life from the person you dont even know.. 🙄
@@gloriam8493 girl shut up. This is a public page. You don’t like when other people share their opinions then maybe you should share yours too.
not a memo to the asian Community LOL 😆
Man, I live in Germany. So this is the real reason why I am single?! 😂
Psycho eyes, I’ve met people like this🤣
I don’t NEED a man…but I maybe want one 😏
Tall men don’t like tall women? Um nope. I’m 5’7, no issues with tall men.
Is 5'7" considered tall? I'm also 5'7" and I've never thought of myself as tall 🤷♀️.
@@higherlove8886 People think it’s tall for a woman. Most women average height is 5,3
@@amerokeewiya1320 depends on race and nationality.
A woman is considered tall at 5’10
That’s supermodel height.
I’m 5’6 and a half (5’7 if I’m co-signer in Pilates) and lol the men I’ve dated 6’2 and up consider me tiny 🤷🏽♀️
memo received lol
I need to know, I'm annoying I think.
I agree. I don't agree with feminism. Is kinda narrow
😊😊😊
Why do you have to drink in your videos? You do know that your microphone is very sensitive and we can hear every little slurp!
nice... shirt;. I cant focus on wht ur saying.
Clean your nose Alex.
Its kinda sounds like a contradiction, how you have to stay cool and in control all the time and not go to youre male side.
I dont know, you want youre partner to be this all the time😐?
Seems kinda boring and cold to me.
Yes you need to be mature but is it not the best feeling when someone is genuine happy around you?
He doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Total contradiction. Men like emotions that’s being feminine. Containing it, is masculine. He says not to be vulnerable…he didn’t think this through. Couldn’t listen to the rest of it…sniffing back his phlegm and gulping…kinda gross. Women don’t like gross men
Women, save yourself time and pain and try dating another woman. You won't regret it
I don't feel attracted to black guys, can't try that.
It's not a loss to anyone. Stay in your overrated ww lane.
@@maryamkim1281 I totally will
nobody gives af honestly
@@kaitlynmadison. then why are you taking the time to answer?
I have black friends, just can't feel any sort of attraction in any way. Just not my type.