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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
- Lesbian icon Shannon Beveridge is on Long Winded today! We talk about the journey of figuring out your sexuality (still on it), the truth about scissoring (I stand corrected) and different ways to do lesbian sex (woohoo)!!
Im here cause of Shannon and I have not heard her talk about sex like she has here. I love how comfortable she is with Gabby. I absolutely love how transparent Gabby is and that just allows Shannon and anyone to just open up. Love this. Thanks for sharing ladies.
Time stamp?
Revolting abomination talk. I can see why lgbtqia+ people were banned throughout history.
@@LamAnopro_ starting from 1:19:50 onwards :) it's towards the end
I’m a 33 year old female and I am bisexual and I have not found anyone that I felt I related to until this video. That’s a hell of a long time. I get emotional just thinking about it. Other than rambling on about how big of a deal this episode was for me, I will just say, thank you so, so, so much. Seeing two strong and beautiful women talk about these topics in such an open way allowed me to feel less alone. Thank you. I hope I am lucky enough and have the courage to find my person someday. ❤
I believe you will, but take the opportunity when it comes by. Too many people in life are passive I believe and to find the right person you have be proactive in the right moment
Gabby seems so funny and its so interesting watching a conversation between 2 people who have different levels of exposure in queerness. Such an eye opening and vulnerable interview. Wish everyone nothing but success!
*I thought this was Shannon's podcast for a sec😅she's flipped the script and is interviewing Gabby as if it's Exes and O's 😂💕*
I’m so sorry but Gabby getting her hand thrown around by the dog while trying to stay focused and hold a conversation is HYSTERICAL hahaha love you so much girl
I’m one of those straight people listening😂, and I thought the episode was so insightful and interesting. I loved listening and hearing your perspectives!
Loved this podcast episode! I related to this soo much. I’m 29 and only recently came out as bisexual… but I really relate to the idea of coming out is a long process. I joke that I say I’m bi because I like the flag the most lol.
Still trying to figure it all out, and there are definitely moments where I question if I’m gay enough to even hold the title of being queer… hearing you speak to your own experiences… I have been through some similar experiences so it makes me question my sexuality less.. everything I’m experiencing, others have too and that’s so fucking reassuring
Related SO hard to so many things you guys talked about. The "signs" as a kid, the bisexual confusion, the realizations I came to once I started dating my fiancee (a woman), and holy shit the people pleasing stuff Shannon was talking about LOL IT ME
Shannon “I need to talk about sex like this on my podcast.” 💯!!!!👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
yes, we need more scissoring content!
The converstaion flow is 🔥 may i add the convo 54 mins in shannon going in about being a people pleaser then resentment creating like your own personal hell... also taking this through in therapy. Thanks for not making me feel lonely!!! I live in my head practically. Need to live in the moment!!!
Felt effortless. Like they could've kept talking for hours. Good luck with therapy.
Ugh. Shannon. Something clicked in place when you compared top surgery to boob jobs! I hadn’t thought of it that way. Now I feel dumb lol but thank you!
Such a great episode Gabby. So appreciate you both being so honest
i understand where you're coming from on the talk about schools, but ideally public education is meant to level the playing field between kids coming from homes with different means and levels of support. there are many public school students who are unhoused, in the foster system, or otherwise lack family support and guidance. they rely on schools for some of the things that you might consider an overstep, and it's all that much more tragic when the public education system fails them. the role of schools (and other public resources) is a tricky balance of support vs. overstepping.
Exactly! i agree with this. I believe that kids have the right to understand the simple concept of gay people existing, its just people making it more complicated than it really is. How can we really even tell we like the opposite gender at age 11? I believe it’s important to just normalize it in schools in order help other kids understand themselves and the world around them a little bit better.
truly so grateful you were able to talk scissoring
Definitely not а myth, I call tribbing scissoring.. tribbing is а dumb word. And guys don't understand, they're like all you can do is rub your 🐱 together and I'm like if you knew anything about women's pleasure women literally get off to clitoral stimulation/pressure so put two very wet 🐱 together which is obviously stimulation pressure and you can be like in the missionary position which is intimate/close, and can often lead to simultaneous orgasms. As long as you can find the right angle it's fcking incredible!
The best episode yet.
OMG, the dog is bigger than Shannon.
and now I am curious about Shannon's actual size.😅
gabi is right, when the default is "straight" we get objectified by men think its a good thing think we need more of it get addicted to it and then are completely unsatisfied emotionally. straight or not, people should be able to learn who they like and emotionally and physically connect with on their own time and without societal pressures and there shouldn't be a default and we especially shouldn't be training women to need/put there worth in male validation and be male centered, it can confuse peoples sexuality and emotional needs and identity and miss out on discovering who you really are and who you really connect with and settling or being unhappy or full on hiding yourself and never getting to meet ur people especially in fear of being judged or wrong and especially as women ugh this society needs a change
Wow, this explains everything I went through!! FOR YEARS! Before I realized I’m a lesbian
Gay mom of 2 kids who have 2 moms here, this is so accurate about kids! It has just always been all things are possible, and they have always gotten it 💯
I am really sorry, but I don't understand, while there are two people in the studio : host and guest, why so many "close ups" of Gabby and we cannot see enough Shannon during the conversations?
it’s the millennial style of editing haha
Ahh now that you've pointed it out
Yeah, it is weird.
This was hilarious from start to finish, I loved it so much! Gabby is a hoot and what I imagine the personification of my own stream of consciousness would be, for better or worse. She is truly the realist in both the most unhinged and best way. This was an awesome episode!!
Oohhhh love this whole convo!! The shame, the people-pleasing, all of it. Love you both!!
Shannon sent me. Y'all are so funny together.
Both of yall are so funny i love you guys for being such a good representation for the queer community 😭😭❤️
The dog added so many layers to this episode :)
Loved this episode! We need more real convos like this!
lol omg the dog. that's the exact reason I can't bring my dog to work anymore, he never listens haahh
The educational content I needed 😂❤
Gabby, your Dog is soo freaking adorable!
and SMART!
the moment before your dog aproached Shannon, around 27 mins
"you're talking about whos responsabiltiy is it..."
Shannon responded with a hand movement.. a bit of tension (call to action)
but ignores your dog..
Your brilliant dog, picked up on that..
i think it wanted Shannon to put her leg down.. re rooting. #
Your dog, is awesome!
oops i'm late but i love how open you are Gabby!!! and Shannon too!
The dog has me on the floor doing 😂😂 I love this episode
Such a great and fun talk! I enjoyed it so much!
nardo’s the real star of the show 😭
He is! Honestly the floofiest floofer ever! 🥰
In sex ed we teach that sexuality is fluid & changes over your lifetime so you’re very valid in your feelings of changing labels. Sex ed is full of great information!
omg I love that!! new generations aren’t gonna have to feel shame around sexualities
Really ? Omg I’m a lesbian that’s means there’s the possibility that I maybe marry a man ?
Sorry but the dog was the star of the show. Shannon with the dog was so funny. Thanks for making me laugh. Sex talk with Gabby and Shannon should be a thing. You came across very natural and normal. Well done. Enjoyed the podcast. 😁😎
This was fantastic!!! So honest, am I loved it💕💕
shannon sent me here so here i am🫡
Who is shannon
Love this- very conversational✨
Lmao i love you both. I was laughing so hard with you guys. Love it.
as a mostly straight person I notice that the more the queer and straight community push this separation the more straight people shut out any form of queer media in fear it would make them not straight which obviously is questionable lol but its a real thing with like societal pressures and labels and shame and all that. I watch all forms of media and I wouldn't not watch it just cause people are gay or talking about queer sex. like I watch all sorts of shows and podcasts and dont question my sexuality even if im curious or have questions like im able to process that on my own and not project it onto what/who im interacting with/watching online. I think were all meant to be fluid anyway but besides that this whole idea that straight people dont watch queer creators or shouldn't be educated on their queer friends important discussions even about sex and relationships is just toxic and twisted and wrong. We should be getting to know our friends or creators we connect with for who they are and their experiences and not internalize it or project onto it or shut it down/push away because others make us feel like we will be outed or judged or somehow now have to be a complete different person or be identified as what we are watching even though that shouldn't be and outing is wrong and shouldn't be done by anyone INCLUDING the queer community (aka when some of y'all say "ur gay" for a list of reasons even though its wrong to speculate on anyones sexuality without them saying it for themselves) everyone can process and explore their sexuality on their own time and we don't have to cut out communities of people even if we do come to the conclusion that we are completely straight, we can still have gay friends and talk about sex and life lol! we can vibe and connect with who we do no matter the gender or sexuality and then our personal sexuality and who we feel attracted to has nothing to do with society or labels or other people either just on who you feel connected with as a person. I hope this made sense and doesn't come across in the wrong way, im an advocate for inclusion and merging of people rather than separate communities and no room for learning about or meeting others or seeing yourself as a whole intricate person thats more than a label from the outside world/one part of their identity, when identity is based on such intricate personal journeys and discoveries and defining themselves not only by who you surround yourself with/interact with. friendship/community can be a blend of all kinds of people no matter the personal identities and that also leaves more room for people to be confident in exploring and meeting new people and being able to evolve and not be stuck or defined by one label forever!
This episode was cracking me up!!!!
gabby is so fucking funny. I would love if she did standup actually 🫣
Why doesn’t Gabby have like a “tech” or someone more efficient w the mics setting everything up or fixing it? I feel like she’s the only one in there and we’re watching her figure it out on her own lol like dang
So?
Great ep! Super funny and informative.
Real start of this episode - Nardo ❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Shan sent me🫡
love this episode🥰
the dog on the couch😂
Born this way...
that should be what children are tought..
a childs body and brain developes so drastically.. over a span of 21-25 years the body and its processes are still fluctuating strongly.
especially hormones..
what message are we sending to children, when we tell them.. "yeah.. you could be born wrong.. you should let other people change your physicallity (drastically and with consequence) for you to like yourself more."
Hormones are a big factor in this.. if you d told me years ago... i would certainly have considered that.. alone for the fact that i had immense montly pain for a long time. And all of my brothers did not.
But i think everybody is born perfectly.
And maybe we can tell each other more about that... How perfect you are.. and always have been.
That dog is HUMONGOUS 😍
Love Shannon!
That dog is so cute! But can he see with all that hair near his eyes? 🥺
Scissoring well tribbing,, definitely а wonderful beautiful intimate fulfilling thing!
THANK GOD YES MY FAV NEW PODCAST
That dog is HUGE 🐶
I guess nardo wants to be besties with Shannon 😭🤭.
Why I sense deep low key 🫦 flirting
First time listening, Gabby! Cute podcast. I think that all dogs have austism since none of them can talk and do weird shit all of the time. Lol.
30:22 omg THANK U!! I relate so much to this also trauma dump ahead 💀🤪 a totally platonic bestie which was the first person I came out to was like yeah I feel like that normal (being wlw) I’m 1000% convinced she’s -at least- bi yk because she has had boyfriends and shit but we did grow up in a very religious conservative type environment so yeah.. and then she felt like u can ignore homosexual tendencies~ lol because a bitch was still capable of liking men so she naturally thought everyone could “suppress or ignore” having gay thoughts and feelings which actually ended up ending our “friendship” which mind u she did use to hint at having a crush on me or smth and the friendship was very intense and flirtatious (classic lesbian shit😭) but we were obviously best buddies 😆🤙🏼 and what leaves me feeling weird in a way is that if she hadn’t had so much internalised (and externalised dare I say) homophobia I think that would have evolved into smth yk.. idk the fallout was SO FUCKING intense bro and like isolating in a way because at a certain point I was only out to her.. so yeah that was my rant but thank u for saying that shannon
and like that’s why I like shannon feel like once I found out I was a lesbian I KNEW yk because being attracted to a girl made me realise that oh that’s what girls would talk about feeling about boys.. and once I knew there was no undoing it yk
Has never taken a break from drinking since 13, plus 'always high', but "I don't have an addictive personality" ... Hmmm 😅
Sent by Shannon 🫡 hit button -->
Gabbys Voice Is so soothing
I was heavy drinker plus i hit weed while drinking to the point i pass out then one day i realize it was addiction you know the reason why i stopped all of it? Bcuz all of my friends that i hangout either toxic or talking about me behind my back they talking about my body shape, teasing about my sexuality so me got all over it i cut them off in my life even my addiction in alcohol now im sober for 3 years i move to island actually away from toxicity and i think im only lesbian here😅😂.
well done for your sobriety
That's awesome 😎
Having a hard time sitting through this w the editing. Why close ups of Gabby every 5 seconds? It’s stressing me out w the flash zooming in and out and not seeing Shannon for like half of the entire pod so far.
Had to come from spotify to come say I LOVE YOU
Great episode! Shannon sent me!
The dog is the star on this podcast
Yes!!! I love Shannon
This was so damn good !!!! 🙌🏼❤👌🏻
Shannon, your language is *chefs kiss*
Lol at 1:02 your dog looks gigantic
Love you gabby! love the podcast 🫶🏽
I love this 😂 Let the ADHD lead. Amen
Love this episode❤❤❤
Love this episode so much love you both I hope one day i can be on a safe place to be myself too ❤
5:11 it’s called Hangxiety !
That’s a damn big dog. He needs to pay rent.
Amazing episode ❤
hiii shannon sent me 🥳
Perfect podcast ❤❤thnx 🌈❤
Why do you not introduce your guest, Who is this girl?
Hahaha yess
i think it's just bc she did an episode on Shannon's podcast before this one came out so it's under the assumption that you've seen them in that before this
This is Shannon Beveridge, og lesbian RUclipsr
it’s not Gabby’s fault you live under a rock Patrick.
Yayyyy loved this one 🎉
Where is Gabby’s top from!!
Sorry not even close to your age & don’t want to preach, but stop smoking/drinking for 3 months (don’t worry cuz you’re not addicted, right?) and then see how you feel. Keep on this path and you are both headed towards AA/NA. No joke. 33 yrs clean & sober…
Such a lovely family 🐶❤
Becca Moore
gabby, you look so high, i love it 🎉
That dog is so cute! Is that Gabby’s dog? lol
Shan sent me🤗🫶🏼
Can we have Tefi on the pod pls 🧍🏻♀️
Have a whole conversation about sex tips lol for the newbies
This was so funny!
I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THE LESBIAN SEX
It is true.. unhealed adults can transfere unknowingly, their unhealed stuff onto their children...
one thing we have to put into consideration..
these adults have been kids who havent been tought how to deal with it
life long.. everything can be healed.. thankfully we are shifting the way we look at things.. cause it gives us back our power.
something fun..
Understanding
Under+standing
"Under"
As Understanding talks about a mental state
Standing -> not moving being at peace/ arrived in a mental state you like
the "Under" is most likley a refference to the subconscious aspect.
did you know that from 100% of impressions.. your brain (the thalamus is the region in the brain that makes the decision)
80% of those impressions travel straight into the subconcious?
so wholesome innerstanding creates satisfying understanding
what you were talking about.. "dry humping sth"
Shame is a big topic linking to sexuallity and exploring ones own body.
why?
maybe because nobody really talked about it.
maybe because its is something we feel we need to hide..
effectivly we want to belong..
anything that could shake those ties to where we belong.. family, close friends...
will cause an intense response within your own body.
if the bodily response alongside the mental response is met adequatly (your roots your vibe)
you will be moving on from that situation stronger right away.
if not.. you ll be able to resolve that along your way.
and who knows.. maybe that was what made you exactly the person you are today
I have two books out. Not really smut but gay 😂
Fuck this was sooooo good
shannon sent me 🫡
Shannon sent me. 😮😊
Scissor, scissor, scissor ✂️
Lets talk sex ,not drinking!
if Tomboy is a gender that is 100% me.
that dog is SCARY af