5 Toxic Money Habits Of Narcissists

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor  Год назад +2

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  • @johnnordquist1627
    @johnnordquist1627 Год назад +14

    So right on Chris. One month over the divorce. I was forced to sell 3/4 of a 5 generation farm. To pay off her nice house. Now she says she is already buying another larger house. While I struggle working 7 days a week to survive. Oh not to mention she is a Doctor now after I helper her get through 12 years of school and I get nothing. She said she is entitled to all my lifelong assets. That’s a narc !!!

  • @carriedillmann4455
    @carriedillmann4455 Год назад +21

    THEY DONT SAVE ANY MONEY!!!!

    • @raven4090
      @raven4090 Год назад +8

      They don't need to because they can use everyone else's.

    • @dorisbove2210
      @dorisbove2210 Год назад +1

      Then they blame you for their financial disastrous life, even though you had nothing to do with it, like everything else they blame you for that you had nothing to do with it.

  • @leonone7377
    @leonone7377 Год назад +9

    This is 100% true.. These greedy selfish individuals.

  • @arani4774
    @arani4774 Год назад +9

    Never go with the narcissist shopping,restaurants, or a day out with the family.
    They pretend they left, their wallet at home accidentally.
    The narcissists are jealous when you're spending money on your kids and creating so much drama. Because you've not bought the narcissist anything.
    Even a simple food shop with the kid is fun,but the narcissist ruins it for the kids.
    When you're trying to teach the kids about money, the narcissist feels so offended,as though you've suggested something about the narcissist.
    You can't say anything without the narcissist taking things so personally.

  • @sherimascote7495
    @sherimascote7495 Год назад +5

    Narcissist spend money on others. And lied and said they don't have any money 😮

  • @ondayzentarot
    @ondayzentarot Год назад +2

    My Narcasauris demon from hell... lived on my my couch with so call PTSD...which was bull.. living off the system..ordering Amazon *every day* using a joint Credit card I gave him access too! Buying clothes, and expensive items that I would pay for! He would drink wine every day. He'd Watch TV, not lift a finger to clean up. He cheated on me when I'd go into work, robbed me, lied to me, abused me emotionally, physically and financially. 4 years later I'm shattered and broken picking up the toxic mess he left me with .. while he is off and now secretly married...yes that's right...MARRIED to his old supply. It's a horror movie! A shit show! A nightmare! Old Narcy on Elmstreet! HE *IS* THE DEVIL!!!

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha4164 Год назад +3

    They always have debt and this is the truth with my mother. She is in her 70s and has the most boring retirement because she is using her money to build houses upon houses upon houses but never lives long in those houses and when her money runs out she starts going to manipulate people to take take take but never gives. Thank goodness I cut her off years ago and left the people whom she claims cares about her to pick up the pieces but they themselves are suffering but it's not my business because am out. 🎉

  • @briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206
    @briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206 Год назад +4

    This video is 100% Correct ..If you let a Narcissist into your life THEY WILL drag you into the ditch with them.
    The Narcissist will ALWAYS choose the path to rock bottom.
    Well spotted Chris..They always pretend they are skint ..It is a HUGE red flag that you are dealing with a Narcissist.
    Thank you for this video Narc Survivor... It was a real eye-opener.

  • @nancychandler768
    @nancychandler768 Год назад +4

    My ex slipped a quick claim deed in our closing documents for the last mortgage we shared. Unbeknownst to me, he borrowed half $1 million against the equity of the house. He then turned around during the divorce, and was paying my attorneys on the backend. A broker friend of mine dug into the history of the deed, and found out this information when my own attorneys wouldn’t tell me. They kept telling me to go off title, when in fact, I wasn’t even on title. I was married to the devil. You’re spot on in every episode you post. So grateful to your insight. ❤

  • @CanisLupus123
    @CanisLupus123 Год назад +8

    This was totally the narcissist that was in my life. Used me like a personal ATM and left me to have to rebuild from nothing! Also in the end the narcissist was telling everyone that I was the one taking advantage and stealing money when it was the other way around!

  • @davevenables3534
    @davevenables3534 Год назад +5

    What’s mine is mine.
    What’s yours is mine.
    If I can’t get yours, I will get you to spend yours on things which have no benefit to you.

  • @samanthahughes2916
    @samanthahughes2916 Год назад +10

    Can't stand users and loser narcs

  • @alq1967
    @alq1967 Год назад +3

    This is so typical... they'll get the most expensive iPhone to take selfies for instagram and tik tok with your money, projecting a false image on social media, spending as much as possible, as much as 6 months' rent, when they haven't got a pot to piss in or so they say... they'll even steal that money from you.

    • @Dj.D25
      @Dj.D25 Год назад

      Seems odd to take selfies with the most up to date phone when it's not much different from the phone they already have?

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Год назад

    Excellent video 🙏🥰It’s exactly what they do and live off of you🥵🥵😡😡you stop spending money on them except for what you need to pay(everything), they start stealing from you.

  • @russcosports1520
    @russcosports1520 8 месяцев назад

    This is absolutely 100% spot on. Lived with this for years

  • @Dj.D25
    @Dj.D25 Год назад +2

    I heard narcissists can also be very stingy with money, even when they have plenty. Such as refusing to buy something needed, even if it's something that may need to be fixed. Settling for something cheap and low quality just to save a little money. Maybe buying low quality gifts with no real thought put into them? I heard of some choosing to live like they are poor even though they are making good money and are making their family suffer.

  • @BradConroy_guitar
    @BradConroy_guitar Год назад +1

    While on vacation my ex wife literally bought herself a treat at every single corner, but the moment I wanted to buy a simple bottle of water, she raged on and on about it.

  • @raven4090
    @raven4090 Год назад +2

    This is so true. All the way!

  • @karlnulty2455
    @karlnulty2455 Год назад +2

    Spot on!

  • @earnyourimmortality
    @earnyourimmortality Год назад

    Roughly over the last 20 years, too many movies & TV shows heavily glorify & give credence to npd & practically all pds for that matter. Major contributor to its present exponential spread. Social media isn't helping much either.

  • @thereallisa1
    @thereallisa1 Год назад +2

    He wasted every dime.

  • @desibelle9936
    @desibelle9936 Год назад

    You are spot on my bro. How did you know exactly everything about my life?

  • @saraliburd7752
    @saraliburd7752 Год назад +1

    Absolutely 👍👍👍👍🙏❤️🙏

  • @nancychandler768
    @nancychandler768 Год назад

    Why? Why do they behave this way?

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 Год назад

    👍👍👍

  • @devarodgers4676
    @devarodgers4676 Год назад +1

    its all a con its bad