betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor - I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication. BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week. You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid. You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
This is me..I have no energy left for the b.s. I'm not interested in working that hard for a relationship ever again...I want peace and happiness in my life and I refuse to accept anything else!
Most probably because they realise that the grass isn't greener on the other side and that the new supply was no match for the grade A supply you fuelled them with.
The narcissist wants you back as they have unfinished business with you to attend to. Narcissists are jealous, possessive people, they think they own you and even if they don't really want you they don't want anyone else to have you either.
Right On! They look at you as their "Property" or "Puppet" and can't stand you not being in their lives. They "Never" apologize for their actions, they never lived in an environment where Accountability was the name of the game. They need you to take care of them because they don't have proper lifeskills to take care of themselves. Good Source Of Supply is an understatement and yes you let them get away with things (I know this only too well with my own cousin). They know you have the "Assets" that they need most notably Cash that they need to keep up with The Joneses.
Even when you show them that you don't want them back...they don't take you seriously...and think you're bluffing or just momentarily upset. They have a very high sense of entitlement and arrogance.
They will say "You don't mean that" and carry on as if you have never said it. They can only operate in their fantasy with their false self if they deny what and who you are, which includes feelings and thoughts you have.
Nahla, yes their egotistical false-self is in love with themselves, "how can anyone reject this good catch that I am." They have created a perfect image of themselves in their deluded mind.😂
@@Resiliant777 Thank you Sunshine you too. The sun is shining here, birds are quietly chirping in the trees around my house, lovely blue sky with a few fluffy white clouds, all I need is a cup of tea and my loved ones doing well and I'm very content. Can you imagine a narcissist thinking that lol. 🌹🕊🌞
The narcissist wants you back because they need to know they can still win when they bait you. They bait you by acting sincere, but once they have your attention, they devalue you straight away and literally laugh in your face. It's sick they can do this over and over again without regard for your feelings. It's a game to them. When you avoid them again because of their horrible behaviour, they will ramp up their hoovering tactics so it will get worse before it gets better. Just keep your resolve and ignore. They can even hoover years down the line. I got an email 3 years later after "no contact" to tell me how they profoundly regretted saying the things they did, how it pains them that they will never see me again and insisting there is no ulterior motive to contacting. They pull the same shit over and over again and revisit past victims because they are unable to sustain new relationships.
Because when they dumped you,all they expected of you is failure and miserly. They feel disappointed by the fact that you survived the pain and moved on.They feel as losers since what they wanted to happen to you failed miserably.Besides,you have done the healing,alone and now they think you have forgotten your pain and are willing to take them back,continue supplying them with what you once gave them and never found it from other supplies.
Ok, I Can't Wait For This One. The Narcissist does not miss you, They Miss all that good Supply, They Miss All That Good Loving we All Have Within us. Please don't be fooled into thinking that they have changed in any way. Listen Let them watch, Hear about, Because that is as far as it will go. They made their beds,let them lay in them. Your life goes on,Be happy, successful, unstoppable, Always let your true beauty shine, we are real 💎. Don't Ever Forget It!!!!!
Year and seven months he finally hoovered me last Thursday. I couldn’t believe his work phone number on my phone! Never in a million years!!! The audacity of him to think he could come back into my life after the hurt he caused!!!It makes me sick!!
mine tried to comeback after 2 years and pretend as if nothing happened and we were like friends or something,,,then it wanted to meet up and catch up on whats new,,,,smh......evil
"Why the Narcissist wants you back." For all the Hate the Narc spewed at you, time (away from you) has proven them wrong. Because a narcissist ego is so large, they have been unable to admit they were 100% wrong about how they characterized you. Even when they realize they did you dirty, they still prefer to blame you. The time away from you has been no picnic for the narc. You were the workhorse they depended on, and now because of their own horrible choices they are struggling to get by. The problem isn't really if the narc wants you back, its whether you will allow the disrespect and lack of appreciation to continue if they wander back into your life..
I took 2 of them back, both went right back to the way they were, treating me like crap and expecting royal treatment. Entitled pos's! This last one tried to hoover me and I went NC, no regrets, this is all so true. Don't waste your time on these creatures ;)
They will come back as a way of healing their egotistical bruise. They can't live with the acceptance that we moved on and don't want anything to do with them. They are living in denial.
"That's what you deserve!Someone who will give you the same as what you're giving to them, but you're not going to get that if you keep entertaining these Narcissists!"
It's a major pet peeve when the narc comes back like nothing happened. We should have a prize ready for their return. Mine would be a one hit knock out punch for the male narcs. ☺️
He couldn't handle the "new" me! I stopped trying to understand him. I showed him that, although I cared about what he thought, I maintained whatever I had "decided". He didn't like that much! When he couldn't get what he wanted (demanded), I let him wonder what to do with me. He decided to give me the silent treatment. I decided to end the relationship. He was "unpleasantly" surprised!
The Narcissist expressed such admiration for the "new" supply until "she" said to him: "That's why everyone leaves you!" "That's why no one wants you!" She "burst" that bubble! 🤣
Wow! The part about what NS said about what did my soon to be ex-husband say about his ex is so true here. Before we even got married he was talking so bad about her, saying how abusive she was, bipolar, just making her look bad. I of course believed him and thought she was crazy myself. Even after we had gotten married I wanted nothing to do with her because I thought she was bad news without even getting to know her. Well, you better believe I think very differently now, and I don’t think she was ever the problem. She was the one that filed for divorce too. Now, I actually got a chance to talk to my soon to be ex-husband‘s mistress because she actually reached out to me with questions regarding trust issues with him ....imagine that! Along with so much information she told me regarding their relationship, one of the interesting things here that fits in with this premiere, is that (along with lying to her about “everything”since the beginning of their relationship), he was telling her lies about me. Telling her that I was a problem, that I was abusive, that I was not taking care of my children, that I was lazy, and I didn’t do anything in the house. Well everything you can imagine, None of it was true. So I understand how he’s going to make me look to his whole family, his friends and whoever else. I’m pretty sure it’s happening now as I write this. Luckily, I have a very supportive family and friends, who are on my side, and understand. But most importantly I have God, and at the end of the day He will get me through, and that’s all that matters. Not to mention the Narc Survivor videos as well here, because again I am being educated in such an amazing way. Thank you NS.🦋
This video is full of truth, my ex-husband after 3 decades attempted to re-secure me, but, praise my God Yahweh 🙌 by my Lord and savior Jesus Christ I was already healed,a decade later he attempted to lure me again, that's when I dropped the bomb of divorce, God let all those years pass from the time he left until 4 decades later to show him that he is not powerful, he tried to make it impossible for me to get the divorce but, God had the last say, thank you NS for another amazing message of truth for the captives 🙌❤️👍.
Thank you, I just got a hoover from my Narc telling me if I would ever want to be a family again. I told her no due to the abuse I would never take her back. I felt horrible and emotional over telling her no. Because more than anything I would want us to work but I know it never will.
Thank you, so right all they want to do is just keep up drama👌 in everything The Narcissist I dated he got mad because I woke-up🤣 I told him God!👑 is not going to keep me asleep😴 especially if i ask,🙏 he has been trying to come back but he cannot, I see who he is and I have a daughter and I will not allow him to control me or her, I told him just have a relationship with your kid, and not me he told me no, it's not going to work🤣👌 I know that's why I said it I'm in full💪 protection mode
Why does my ex female narc want me back? BECAUSE I'm FUCKING AWESOME and my soul shines brighter than the SUN!!! Why does she want me back? I could give 2 shits why. GIRL BYE!!!!!
After you leave..getting clarity you think of all the LIES they told..8 months narc free im still suffering and he has moved on getting away with it again..i hope he suffers just trying to get over the pain he caused..thanks narc survivor..your videos HELP.
This..MONSTERS, USED you to please whatever they wish, then they insulted you, treat you like a toy, is whatever they want, and say, if you want something it must be their way, otherwise you mean NOTHING TO THEM, if you stay in this kind of relationship, your life will be DESTROYED, and they will continue living their lives, and disregard you like you never insisted in their lives. A normal PERSON, WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING LIKE THIS. NEVER.. . IF YOU WANT TO BE LIVING A HEALTHY HAPPY LIFE,. . YOU MUST LEAVE THIS KIND OF MONSTERS, AS SOON AS YOU CAN AND NEVER LOOK BACK. .
If they see that you have moved on with your life, they see it as challenge fuel ⛽ my opinion the narcissist is just like left over mcdonald's 🍟 same old boring games, never growth in the relationship, the second time they come back it will be time for them to try and destroy you.work on you, respect yourself,it never happened the first time and it won't happen again, there's so much power in just walking away, toxic or narcissist or whoever they are, just remember there's so much power in just walking away.
Thankyou Ns for this video 🥰❤️....I know that he’s going to try to come back somehow... for 9yrs. I would welcome him with open arms...thinking ok let’s try this again...nope it was always the same except worse... I’ve been no contact 6 months now...all that drama, and chaos is not worth entertaining... the new Shannon is no longer under his control... it’s all about what makes me happy... and I’m loving it ☺️😍❤️
That 👹 said, " I Fd up, I Fd up okay? Just talk to me honey!" This is the same language 👹used the first time I left!!! No thank you, Sir! Lesson Learned ✌🏽
Just gotta say the guy at the 10:00 min mark has really be struggling in his relationship LOL... His stress levels are at an all time high, how he still has hair is beyond me
The instant I looked happier they Hoover’s me I knew it was coming.Mine pretends to be happy to trying get me back.I’m done with fake people.I remember how they really were and they hacked my phone kept trying to follow me till I got new one phone.like who does that to someone except there going to take them back it so wrong behaviour.I keep watching these videos so I don’t forget how it was.don’t want to run into another person like .great video.
They can't laugh at themselves in a relaxed way. They have no sense of humour or humility. Something so simple, they just can't do. It would make life so much easier for them if they could.
He's trying to come back and I know he has new supply. I guess they're just not grade A or quality enough for him not to hoover and suck me back in. It isn't working this time. So over this garbage and toxic crap!
Gosh I adore your videos🔥 narcs ars the devil themselves...i can spot one from afar....two was enough nearly destroy me...even worse I am diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
The college narc left my dorm room with his tail between his legs after I let him have it. Word for word, detail stoically let him know tht I know who he is. He never contacted me after tht. No flying monkeys. Nothin. I’m sure there was smear campaign but I didn’t care, didn’t look bk did hear it. Wasn’t around. Done! Recent narc actually came bk around after three months as if nothing, nothing even happened. Got on the ph and went ‘wataup?’ Like someone you had spoken to a day before. This is a thing whom I found out had a gf. Then told my business to ppl I worked with. Even violated me at one point. Try to tell me to my face I wasnt attractive etc I mean the list goes on and on. I left job because I was literally becoming mentally ill from all the abuse. Never heard seen to talk to this person in months. Sat I’m the same space with me for nearly two weeks, flirted, laughed with his secret lover in my face and gave me his as& to kiss. Never apologize, which would have been fake anyways. Didn’t show an inch of remorse or fear for what he’d done. I mean, nothin. I got zero. Never felt so used and played at the same time in my life I couldn’t believe what I was hearing on the other end of the phone like wow. It left me speechless I hanged up and never said a word because I didn’t know wat to say. The narc actually has the audacity to call bk 😳. I was beyond shocked Wow! Wow!eiw! There are some humans amongst us. Lawd have mercy on them because I don’t think they can handle the karma I’ve never felt more happier in my life. I look bk and say what the hell was tht?!
Hes not got the brass balls to even try to come back to me....he'd have no chance anyway..... iv built myself right up since he walked away, so its his massive loss
yes, please, i ask please do not go back to the Narc, i let the narc come back to me countless times in a toxic cycle and everytime the relationship got worse and worse and after the discard you feel worse each time, it almost destroyed me where i wanted to kill myself and i was going to because i didn't see the worth that i had in me i didnt see the value i had in me, and i didn't see the amount of people who really love me for who i am, so please their is a light at the end of the tunnel without the narc
Andrew my heart goes out to you sending you love and light and many blessings stay safe and well asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and give you everything you wish for 🙏🙏🙏👼👼👼👼👼🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🙏👼
they belong with there equal somebody on the same level as them...I done watch so many vids and read so much about there distorted disorder are mental illness if thats what u want to call it...under no circumstance will i take the narcissist back and u shouldn't either
My narcex doesn’t want me back because she knows I know she is a fake empty humanoid shaped being...I do hope she has an occasional regret about discarding me just to add to her malaise...but I doubt she is even capable...
No, My Narc ex-wife does not want me back, after she committed adultery by marrying another man. If she does come back to me, Chances are, She'll be toxic to me all over again according to my pastors sister in law who was once best friends with my ex-wife while we were married. I already got evidence to prove what she and her mom is.
My Narcis fans missed me too much! I saw some of them showing excited facial expressions with shining in their eyes when I met them at a weekly basis. I totally understood and could feel their loyalties to me so I told myself must show in front of them at a weekly basis even there was snow storms. I have never let my those fans disappointed. As a great rewards, when I felt boring or needed to release some stresses, I would make myself exposed to my Narcis fans' sights to tease them (just a little bit). My Nacci fans brought some entertainments to me. I greatly appreciate it although sometimes I was not very happy for they breaking law and invaded my civil rights. Overall, these were unique exciting experiences which I enjoyed 50% of the time. I know they will stop or being stopped someday in the future, I cannot image how bored I would be by then. 🤔🤔🤔
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Don't put everybody in the garbage disposal to keep themselves spotless
"It's only when you walk away, that they finally see your value!"
* It's like the old saying:
"You never miss your water until your well runs dry!"
"They will give you fake apologies, fake epiphanies, fake promises, future faking!
Whatever they think will get you back!"
Never return back to a Narcissist U will regret it 😥
They want you back so they can try once again to bring you down to their shitty level.
"... your happiness is a reminder of how miserable they are!"
I can't cope with the bs anymore no energy left
This is me..I have no energy left for the b.s. I'm not interested in working that hard for a relationship ever again...I want peace and happiness in my life and I refuse to accept anything else!
Most probably because they realise that the grass isn't greener on the other side and that the new supply was no match for the grade A supply you fuelled them with.
Exactly
The Narcissist wants you back because the person they left you from didn't work
Yup. No thanks. I'm never second choice! Peace ✌️
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The narcissist wants you back as they have unfinished business with you to attend to. Narcissists are jealous, possessive people, they think they own you and even if they don't really want you they don't want anyone else to have you either.
We are God's property, God owns us. And always keep the door open for real love to come back into your life. Every one is not a narcissist!
@@buzzinbee7097 Yes true to all of that. God is in control and the narcissists don't like that which is quite obvious for all to see.
Yup
Right On! They look at you as their "Property" or "Puppet" and can't stand you not being in their lives. They "Never" apologize for their actions, they never lived in an environment where Accountability was the name of the game. They need you to take care of them because they don't have proper lifeskills to take care of themselves. Good Source Of Supply is an understatement and yes you let them get away with things (I know this only too well with my own cousin). They know you have the "Assets" that they need most notably Cash that they need to keep up with The Joneses.
@steady pace you are right on 👍
“Lives in their own world with a population of one.” Excellent!
Best I've heard in a long time 🤣🤣
Even when you show them that you don't want them back...they don't take you seriously...and think you're bluffing or just momentarily upset. They have a very high sense of entitlement and arrogance.
They will say "You don't mean that" and carry on as if you have never said it. They can only operate in their fantasy with their false self if they deny what and who you are, which includes feelings and thoughts you have.
Nahla, yes their egotistical false-self is in love with themselves, "how can anyone reject this good catch that I am." They have created a perfect image of themselves in their deluded mind.😂
@@ceebee1704 True That!
@@steadypace1262 So true my friend. I hope you’re having a wonderful day!
@@Resiliant777 Thank you Sunshine you too. The sun is shining here, birds are quietly chirping in the trees around my house, lovely blue sky with a few fluffy white clouds, all I need is a cup of tea and my loved ones doing well and I'm very content. Can you imagine a narcissist thinking that lol. 🌹🕊🌞
The narcissist wants you back because they need to know they can still win when they bait you. They bait you by acting sincere, but once they have your attention, they devalue you straight away and literally laugh in your face. It's sick they can do this over and over again without regard for your feelings. It's a game to them.
When you avoid them again because of their horrible behaviour, they will ramp up their hoovering tactics so it will get worse before it gets better. Just keep your resolve and ignore.
They can even hoover years down the line. I got an email 3 years later after "no contact" to tell me how they profoundly regretted saying the things they did, how it pains them that they will never see me again and insisting there is no ulterior motive to contacting. They pull the same shit over and over again and revisit past victims because they are unable to sustain new relationships.
Because when they dumped you,all they expected of you is failure and miserly. They feel disappointed by the fact that you survived the pain and moved on.They feel as losers since what they wanted to happen to you failed miserably.Besides,you have done the healing,alone and now they think you have forgotten your pain and are willing to take them back,continue supplying them with what you once gave them and never found it from other supplies.
Ok, I Can't Wait For This One. The Narcissist does not miss you, They Miss all that good Supply, They Miss All That Good Loving we All Have Within us. Please don't be fooled into thinking that they have changed in any way. Listen Let them watch, Hear about, Because that is as far as it will go. They made their beds,let them lay in them. Your life goes on,Be happy, successful, unstoppable, Always let your true beauty shine, we are real 💎. Don't Ever Forget It!!!!!
YOU ARE ON POINT !!!
BRILLIANT POSITIVE COMMENTS
@@hadyjalloh1519 💯💯
Year and seven months he finally hoovered me last Thursday. I couldn’t believe his work phone number on my phone! Never in a million years!!! The audacity of him to think he could come back into my life after the hurt he caused!!!It makes me sick!!
mine tried to comeback after 2 years and pretend as if nothing happened and we were like friends or something,,,then it wanted to meet up and catch up on whats new,,,,smh......evil
@@robertswift6101 wow unbelievable
They're in Denial, They are going through, its not what they thought it would be
"Why the Narcissist wants you back." For all the Hate the Narc spewed at you, time (away from you) has proven them wrong. Because a narcissist ego is so large, they have been unable to admit they were 100% wrong about how they characterized you. Even when they realize they did you dirty, they still prefer to blame you.
The time away from you has been no picnic for the narc. You were the workhorse they depended on, and now because of their own horrible choices they are struggling to get by.
The problem isn't really if the narc wants you back, its whether you will allow the disrespect and lack of appreciation to continue if they wander back into your life..
GOOD POSITIVE COMMENTS
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In my experience they’ll pop back into your life when they need something from you, they only care about their own needs
Exactly!
Age is catching up to the Narcissists in my life.
They are "succumbing" to the misery that they have inflicted on others!
I took 2 of them back, both went right back to the way they were, treating me like crap and expecting royal treatment. Entitled pos's! This last one tried to hoover me and I went NC, no regrets, this is all so true. Don't waste your time on these creatures ;)
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Narcissists comes back to anyone they "think" hasn't seen them for what they are!
Prove them wrong!
Never return Empaths we are too good to be treated like 💩.
They will come back as a way of healing their egotistical bruise. They can't live with the acceptance that we moved on and don't want anything to do with them. They are living in denial.
They feel "outsmarted"!
Good!
@@teal1010 So true! 👍
Lots of love. Much thanks NS
"Anything of value that comes around them, they just see it as something to play with!"
"If you see 👀 them and know what they're are about, there's a good chance you will reject them!"
"...and when they bring you down to their level and make you miserable, it comforts them!"
*Let that sink in !
Yes he do been trying to call but got his ass on block because I will never go back to him I promise you that 😂😂😂👍
"They show emotional development appropriate to someone of a younger age!"
"That's what you deserve!Someone who will give you the same as what you're giving to them, but you're not going to get that if you keep entertaining these Narcissists!"
Thank you so much for this.👏 I always find it incredible how my ex-Narc was such a brilliant actor - but then he would suddenly flip! 😳
Narc Survivor is a real poet. He can put into words what we all already know on a deep level but never could express...Yes, it resonates with me. 👍👍👍
It's a major pet peeve when the narc comes back like nothing happened. We should have a prize ready for their return. Mine would be a one hit knock out punch for the male narcs. ☺️
My prize will be how peaceful my life is without him!
@@teal1010 That's the grand prize we're all seeking. Hopefully we can find a way, to get these stuck like glue narcs out of our lives. 😁
"They know how to plan and coordinate the elements of a situation to produce the desired affect!"
He doesn't want me back, he is so pissed off at me for him divorcing me😂😂 and he could NEVER handle the new ME!
For real.. he thinks he wants me back after a year.. he has no idea who hed be getting this time around and wouldn’t like it so much
He couldn't handle the "new" me!
I stopped trying to understand him. I showed him that, although I cared about what he thought, I maintained whatever I had "decided". He didn't like that much!
When he couldn't get what he wanted (demanded), I let him wonder what to do with me.
He decided to give me the silent treatment.
I decided to end the relationship.
He was "unpleasantly" surprised!
You are absolutely Right that’s why I Blocked my Ex Narc
No thank you! I love my peace ✌️.
The Narcissist expressed such admiration for the "new" supply until "she" said to him:
"That's why everyone leaves you!"
"That's why no one wants you!"
She "burst" that bubble!
🤣
😂😂😂💩
They want you back because you was a good supply. But once they get you back the narc will look and think sucker.
They will see you as a weak individual, willing to accept their ABUSE!!!
Very right!
The narcissist just lives in their own world, with a population of one. This comment had me dying lol
Lol
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Wow! The part about what NS said about what did my soon to be ex-husband say about his ex is so true here. Before we even got married he was talking so bad about her, saying how abusive she was, bipolar, just making her look bad. I of course believed him and thought she was crazy myself. Even after we had gotten married I wanted nothing to do with her because I thought she was bad news without even getting to know her. Well, you better believe I think very differently now, and I don’t think she was ever the problem. She was the one that filed for divorce too. Now, I actually got a chance to talk to my soon to be ex-husband‘s mistress because she actually reached out to me with questions regarding trust issues with him ....imagine that! Along with so much information she told me regarding their relationship, one of the interesting things here that fits in with this premiere, is that (along with lying to her about “everything”since the beginning of their relationship), he was telling her lies about me. Telling her that I was a problem, that I was abusive, that I was not taking care of my children, that I was lazy, and I didn’t do anything in the house. Well everything you can imagine, None of it was true. So I understand how he’s going to make me look to his whole family, his friends and whoever else. I’m pretty sure it’s happening now as I write this. Luckily, I have a very supportive family and friends, who are on my side, and understand. But most importantly I have God, and at the end of the day He will get me through, and that’s all that matters. Not to mention the Narc Survivor videos as well here, because again I am being educated in such an amazing way. Thank you NS.🦋
Narcissists think , "Why buy the milk when I already have the cow?"
"They're main objective is to prop up their false self.............
and the only reason they come around you, is because you help them do that!"
Fantastic Video!! So calming and real. Took my anxiety away. Thank you!
This video is full of truth, my ex-husband after 3 decades attempted to re-secure me, but, praise my God Yahweh 🙌 by my Lord and savior Jesus Christ I was already healed,a decade later he attempted to lure me again, that's when I dropped the bomb of divorce, God let all those years pass from the time he left until 4 decades later to show him that he is not powerful, he tried to make it impossible for me to get the divorce but, God had the last say, thank you NS for another amazing message of truth for the captives 🙌❤️👍.
Glad for you sister. Be well
He is just an ex husband. He is a narcissistic ex husband my dear,lay the title clearly
@@pandorastelevision9442 Thank you, well Spoken 💜🙌
thank you 🙌💜
Oh my god, I better RUN!!!
Run man
Fast as you can. Don't look back!
@@TS-xz3he Still running!!!!!
The best feeling is after healing!
Your right.
So true had been on that yo-yo for years finally done with all that craziness and getting my life back!!!!
They want you back so they can continue with their evil vicious cycle of abuse on you.👹
Thank you, I just got a hoover from my Narc telling me if I would ever want to be a family again. I told her no due to the abuse I would never take her back. I felt horrible and emotional over telling her no. Because more than anything I would want us to work but I know it never will.
Because I'm sexy? Nah, cause they love to be evil over and over. It's sadisfaction.
Thank you, so right all they want to do is just keep up drama👌 in everything The Narcissist I dated he got mad because I woke-up🤣 I told him God!👑 is not going to keep me asleep😴 especially if i ask,🙏 he has been trying to come back but he cannot, I see who he is and I have a daughter and I will not allow him to control me or her, I told him just have a relationship with your kid, and not me he told me no, it's not going to work🤣👌 I know that's why I said it I'm in full💪 protection mode
Just left one never going back, never! What kind of demonic spirit is that to destroy another. Very sad indeed!!!
They want, but don't have.
Why does my ex female narc want me back? BECAUSE I'm FUCKING AWESOME and my soul shines brighter than the SUN!!! Why does she want me back? I could give 2 shits why. GIRL BYE!!!!!
Have DEFINITELY experienced this. Totally on point..
I think I could do hip hop poetry to this song..🤔🤣🙌🏾
Thanks NS
THIS DESCRIBES MOST WOMEN *FACTS*
No. You’ve just had some poor experiences with some women. Take ownership over your experiences and stop displacing blame.
People it’s not worth it everytime they come back their kindness just last for half a day than the devalue gets worst
After you leave..getting clarity you think of all the LIES they told..8 months narc free im still suffering and he has moved on getting away with it again..i hope he suffers just trying to get over the pain he caused..thanks narc survivor..your videos HELP.
I left him Christmas eve am six months pregnant by him ain't heard nothing from him in 2 months he ran back to his toxic ex as week after I left him
But was she really a toxic ex but that's what he actually told you about her
@@bevreed3475 yeah she is Karen she slept with his dad,step dad and brother and more than one person told me so move along
@@angelbasham6631 omg you do right better to work on yourself you don't need em xc
This..MONSTERS, USED you to please whatever they wish, then they insulted you, treat you like a toy, is whatever they want, and say, if you want something it must be their way, otherwise you mean NOTHING TO THEM, if you stay in this kind of relationship, your life will be DESTROYED, and they will continue living their lives, and disregard you like you never insisted in their lives. A normal PERSON, WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING LIKE THIS. NEVER.. . IF YOU WANT TO BE LIVING A HEALTHY HAPPY LIFE,. . YOU MUST LEAVE THIS KIND OF MONSTERS, AS SOON AS YOU CAN AND NEVER LOOK BACK. .
If they see that you have moved on with your life, they see it as challenge fuel ⛽ my opinion the narcissist is just like left over mcdonald's 🍟 same old boring games, never growth in the relationship, the second time they come back it will be time for them to try and destroy you.work on you, respect yourself,it never happened the first time and it won't happen again, there's so much power in just walking away, toxic or narcissist or whoever they are, just remember there's so much power in just walking away.
Thankyou Ns for this video 🥰❤️....I know that he’s going to try to come back somehow... for 9yrs. I would welcome him with open arms...thinking ok let’s try this again...nope it was always the same except worse... I’ve been no contact 6 months now...all that drama, and chaos is not worth entertaining... the new Shannon is no longer under his control... it’s all about what makes me happy... and I’m loving it ☺️😍❤️
You’re welcome 😊
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That 👹 said, " I Fd up, I Fd up okay? Just talk to me honey!" This is the same language 👹used the first time I left!!! No thank you, Sir! Lesson Learned ✌🏽
Just gotta say the guy at the 10:00 min mark has really be struggling in his relationship LOL... His stress levels are at an all time high, how he still has hair is beyond me
The instant I looked happier they Hoover’s me I knew it was coming.Mine pretends to be happy to trying get me back.I’m done with fake people.I remember how they really were and they hacked my phone kept trying to follow me till I got new one phone.like who does that to someone except there going to take them back it so wrong behaviour.I keep watching these videos so I don’t forget how it was.don’t want to run into another person like .great video.
We know what you're all about!!!
I will be donating to yr paypal!
They're not about anything!!
Enjoyed this video interesting and valuable content !! Thanks Narc Survivor💯💯💯💯
Glad you enjoyed it
Correct 👍
Thank you 💚💚
You are so welcome
Don't REPEAT the cycle let them GO
Last time they didn't win so their aim is always at winning that's y they want u back
They can't laugh at themselves in a relaxed way. They have no sense of humour or humility. Something so simple, they just can't do. It would make life so much easier for them if they could.
In my opinion they are NOT a "Who", only a "What". A "Who" has depth. My best description, "Surface Dwellers". None Organic.
He's trying to come back and I know he has new supply. I guess they're just not grade A or quality enough for him not to hoover and suck me back in. It isn't working this time. So over this garbage and toxic crap!
Thanks
Gosh I adore your videos🔥 narcs ars the devil themselves...i can spot one from afar....two was enough nearly destroy me...even worse I am diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
i wish i could bc thats all i attract. guys who take me for granted and lie with their false b.s. 4-2-21
The college narc left my dorm room with his tail between his legs after I let him have it. Word for word, detail stoically let him know tht I know who he is. He never contacted me after tht. No flying monkeys. Nothin. I’m sure there was smear campaign but I didn’t care, didn’t look bk did hear it. Wasn’t around. Done!
Recent narc actually came bk around after three months as if nothing, nothing even happened. Got on the ph and went ‘wataup?’ Like someone you had spoken to a day before. This is a thing whom I found out had a gf. Then told my business to ppl I worked with. Even violated me at one point. Try to tell me to my face I wasnt attractive etc I mean the list goes on and on. I left job because I was literally becoming mentally ill from all the abuse. Never heard seen to talk to this person in months. Sat I’m the same space with me for nearly two weeks, flirted, laughed with his secret lover in my face and gave me his as& to kiss. Never apologize, which would have been fake anyways. Didn’t show an inch of remorse or fear for what he’d done. I mean, nothin. I got zero. Never felt so used and played at the same time in my life
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing on the other end of the phone like wow. It left me speechless
I hanged up and never said a word because I didn’t know wat to say. The narc actually has the audacity to call bk 😳. I was beyond shocked
Wow! Wow!eiw! There are some humans amongst us. Lawd have mercy on them because I don’t think they can handle the karma
I’ve never felt more happier in my life. I look bk and say what the hell was tht?!
Thanks you for your information I got it’s
Awesome words thanks you really help me
Happy to help! You would be very welcome on our new support forum - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/forum
Hes not got the brass balls to even try to come back to me....he'd have no chance anyway..... iv built myself right up since he walked away, so its his massive loss
Not in a 1000 lifetimes
OH IT DID!!!!!!!!!
yes, please, i ask please do not go back to the Narc, i let the narc come back to me countless times in a toxic cycle and everytime the relationship got worse and worse and after the discard you feel worse each time, it almost destroyed me where i wanted to kill myself and i was going to because i didn't see the worth that i had in me i didnt see the value i had in me, and i didn't see the amount of people who really love me for who i am, so please their is a light at the end of the tunnel without the narc
Andrew my heart goes out to you sending you love and light and many blessings stay safe and well asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and give you everything you wish for 🙏🙏🙏👼👼👼👼👼🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🙏👼
I wouldn’t give a shit what the narcissist would say I tell them I don’t think so no matter what comes out of your mouth
Who says the narc what’s me back ? She doesn’t .
Actually he dosent he's just playing games
ROUND TWO
they belong with there equal somebody on the same level as them...I done watch so many vids and read so much about there distorted disorder are mental illness if thats what u want to call it...under no circumstance will i take the narcissist back and u shouldn't either
Mine hoovered me 3 weeks ago. Yuck
Great video 👏
Glad you enjoyed. You would be very welcome on our new support forum - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/forum
My narcex doesn’t want me back because she knows I know she is a fake empty humanoid shaped being...I do hope she has an occasional regret about discarding me just to add to her malaise...but I doubt she is even capable...
I belive that after 3 month and 600km fer away, he lost interests. He is broke, lost appartement...
Lord, have mercy for this pour things..🙄
No, My Narc ex-wife does not want me back, after she committed adultery by marrying another man. If she does come back to me, Chances are, She'll be toxic to me all over again according to my pastors sister in law who was once best friends with my ex-wife while we were married. I already got evidence to prove what she and her mom is.
My Narcis fans missed me too much! I saw some of them showing excited facial expressions with shining in their eyes when I met them at a weekly basis. I totally understood and could feel their loyalties to me so I told myself must show in front of them at a weekly basis even there was snow storms. I have never let my those fans disappointed. As a great rewards, when I felt boring or needed to release some stresses, I would make myself exposed to my Narcis fans' sights to tease them (just a little bit). My Nacci fans brought some entertainments to me. I greatly appreciate it although sometimes I was not very happy for they breaking law and invaded my civil rights. Overall, these were unique exciting experiences which I enjoyed 50% of the time. I know they will stop or being stopped someday in the future, I cannot image how bored I would be by then. 🤔🤔🤔
That’s real
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