Celibacy is not difficult if you avoid watching certain movies, self pleasuring, constantly praying for God to take away the desires for physical intimacy (which cannot be fulfilled), and keeping active! I doubt my celibacy tenure will ever end!
@@Anthony-yy3kcI 100% agree. Also I began pleading the blood of Jesus over my body parts too so that the Lord would cover them each time I would get urges or sexual thoughts. I still have thoughts at times and the desires though not as frequent as before, I pray instantly they come on and speak Gods word casting down those vain imaginations which exalt itself above the knowledge of God. I can’t recall which particular scripture it is from, but it works the more I speak it over myself and plead the blood.
I’ll be 4 years in October of this year. I’ve had temptations but I know God wouldn’t send a man that would tempt me knowing how strongly I feel about my celibacy journey.🙌🏽
Amazing I'm 26 starting my journey it's hard but I'm done being used and never actually get the relationship I want. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️
Once you understand celibacy You will understand your own energy. Once you understand your own energy. Then your purpose in life will be added to you because you begin to attract high vibration people and manifest the things you want and deserve in life.
Almost 7 years for me until I messed up last year in September (darn pandemic lol). This year in September will be 1 year. Back on track.😊 No dates, no talking to no one either. Don't feel bad, I had issues with masturbating. Stay strong.
I used to have problems with masturbation too, until I listened to a message by Prophetess TIPHANI Montgomery talking about if the Holy Spirit resides within us, it is a violation of Him and she likened it into rape and I kind of felt that made sense. There was Biblical application to it and I also listened to the whole dark side of porn from ex-stars who got saved and the spiritual attachment and delay of our marriages or demonic agendas within masturbation and watching porn allowing perversion into my life. So it helped me to abstain! It’s almost a full year for me now fully as I fell off the celibacy journey last year March, after a really bad health span where I nearly died. God bless you sisters for sharing what God is doing in your life @LaLa Jenkins. It’s inspiring and has fired me up hearing sisters speaking so openly unashamed (as church at times makes you feel so crazy talking about it). I feel that’s the main reason why we fall off, because we hide it. So Praise God for His daughters speaking out! ❤❤❤ praise God and God bless you!
Thank you for your openness and honesty! Im also celibate and trying to loose weight. It's a tough journey BUT it's worth it. It's crazy how the world is so big but many of us have the same struggles.
Soror omg this message blessed me! I’ve been abstinent since 3/30/2016. I answered my calling to ministry and graduated from Howard University with a Master of Divinity degree. Nevertheless, as a Preacher it’s so hard because I too feel called to be someone’s wife but I want to give my body as a sacrifice to God as I preach the Gospel. However, this journey of abstinence is HARD and I thought about giving up and your video popped up( talking about divine intervention 😩). I know this was God telling me to keep going and my prayers of marriage will be answered in God’s divine timing! Thank you for your testimony 🤗💕 it feels comforting to know I’m not alone in this journey of abstinence….
Girl,God bless you..When you said you have been battling with pornography on your celibacy journey,I felt like a burden was lifted.Am 18 months celibate and it's been tough...the journey is clear ..I want to be celibate but there's just so much I keep battling with...it's all worth it 😘
Girllllll, this video was so on point on all levels! I'm 26mths celibate, and everything you mentioned resonated with me. Thank you for your transparency. 💜💜💜
I love watching your videos they help me in so many ways. Especially as a Christian , celibacy, and dating . Your authenticity is what we need as Christians . You my homegirl at heart Lala ! ❤️ now pornography I understand because I’ve spoke to someone that I look up to spiritually .
Omg,I just reconnected with a former good friend of mine from back in school and he has a strong sexual attraction to me and I don't know how I feel about him so we are gonna go see how it goes but it's has been a struggle to stay celibate and NOT fall into temptation but I have noticed that our talks DO turn sexual and I have been single for awhile now and it gets VERY lonely so he does give me attention and someone to talk too but I feel like he is still working with me on this because we have made plans several times to meet up and for one reason or another it hasn't happened.I ONLY want this relationship/friendship IF God wants me to have it and IF it's God lead...hopefully we both can stay on the path that God has for us.
You’re so honest and authentic. I’ve learned throughout my abstinent journey it does take a whole lot of discipline and self-control. You have to your triggers and avoid getting into tempting situations. This was a much needed conversation. We have to keep one another in our prayers.
In 1984 i turned 13. My mother n I talked about sex. She showed me an article about safe sex and masturbation, and celibacy. Loving your body and make sure the man that wants you to share that with. Great Job.
Your honesty is delivering and blessing sis 😩❤️ you are truly an authentic gift from God! I am so grateful I found your channel? I know God uses you, and it is helping me so much to get to where I need to be in Christ🙏🏽❤️
Hey sis, I don’t know if you are familiar with Tiphani Montgomery’s ministry! They are currently doing a marriage fast and it was laid on my spirit to share that with you if you are not already aware. Thank you for your transparency always. Often times you confirm many things in my spirit, I thank God I was able to find your ministry. Also, I learned recently that pornography opens a door to the enemy to bring unwanted spirits into your life. It’s an open door.
@@LaLaJenkins absolutely! I am so proud of what God is doing your life. I can’t wait to see the videos when God begins to shift you into your season of overflow ❤️ I’m here for your kingdom marriage and anything else he sees fit to bless you with !
I'm so glad that you have confessed your weakness me and you have a lot in common I struggled with that too and then I said enough is enough and then I realized to distract myself because it's considered last even when it's with yourself and last is a sin
Hey, I’ve been on a journey since 2020 with it’s up and downs and now I’m back going on 9 months. It’s just more so hard for me because I don’t have a strong community of people on this journey.. even those who are in the church no one talks about this so it’s just me and Jesus lol😊
Jesus is the BEST person to have! And I would suggest continuing to watch celibacy vids (like you’re doing) for encouragement! You can also start attending my Women’s Bible Study on the 1st and 3rd Sundays. We have Bible Study and girl chat afterwards.. we can certainly start discussing the celibacy journey! Bible Study this Sunday is canceled but we will resume on Sunday, Dec 18th at 6pm CST! Zoom Meeting ID: 455 582 6258 Passcode: JESUS2022
I desire someone who is abstinence like me and they support and compliment my journey and not hinder it. I have been abstinence for years. And I have had other women tell me nobody is going to want someone like me or that no man is going to want me. I have had men tell me what happens if it's not good it's a bunch of excuses. I have a hard time with meeting men nowadays because everybody is hooking up on social media. When I am running errands or walking in the mall I don't get approached at all. I just stopped praying to God about a man. It is hard. Because I feel like God has forgotten about me. And I am in my 30's the struggle is real. I didn't have a high school sweetheart or marrying anybody after I graduated from college. Awesome video.
It means your vibration is high... You will not attract low vibration anymore..Low vibration men are so many.... Keep going you will meet your man one day...
#New Subbie and Soro. I love your channel. Continue to let God use you on this platform. You are so funny yet I love your transparency. This has truly blessed me. Very inspirational and encouraging sis, you are beautiful💛
Celibate for 47 years then a brief marriage producing three wonderful children. But now my wife kicked me out of the house and find myself ready now to embrace being a eunuch for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven!
All Esteem To YAHUAH for keeping these women celibate even myself it's better to wait and be obedient To The Most High keep reading your scriptures and fasting to deny your flesh,pray for YAHUSHA Ha'Mashiah to keep you pure
I am a man of God but I had 2 sexual relationships for the past 2 years it hurt me cause the first girl robbed from money I cut her off (after busting her window with a 😮 brick) the second was a good friend of mine but already had a boyfriend it's because I had a high sperm count semen retention , fasting and been working out in the morning. 50pushups 80 situps and 30 squats and dumbell curlss
Mine has been a total of 34 with some stumbles here and there. It is hard and sometimes aggravating. No man is willing to do this that I come in contact with. They are nice until they find out.
@@suesmith3744 thanks. Although luck has changed suddenly for me. I don't care for single mothers. I want my own children not some other guys kids. But a woman I met on duty and have known for two weeks and is a single mother of two just took a liking to me and seduced me Believe it or not, I actually finally lost my virginity , to her, on this past Tuesday October 10, 2023. Fifteen days away from my 41st birthday. She also gave me my very first hickey and of course my very first blowjob. We had intercourse again on this past Friday the thirteenth. It doesn't seem real.
Romans 12:3 admonishes us to present our body holy as a living sacrifice. Maintaining our sexual purity is obedience to God. When we are tempted, He provides a way out 1 Corthian 10:13. Accordingly, we can't down vain imaginations(sexual lust as well)that exalt against the knoekefe of God 1 Cor 10:5 We don't flirt with sin- dating as an attraction is a trap. It's best t to date someone who believes as you.
First five years of my celibacy I decided not date ... whats the point ...I told a dude I was celibate ..he says can you sell a bit ... I can't stand these Negaaas 😈
I was celibate 10 years. I stayed busy, and out of the doctors office!-✌🏾
Was?
Celibacy is not difficult if you avoid watching certain movies, self pleasuring, constantly praying for God to take away the desires for physical intimacy (which cannot be fulfilled), and keeping active! I doubt my celibacy tenure will ever end!
@@Anthony-yy3kcI 100% agree. Also I began pleading the blood of Jesus over my body parts too so that the Lord would cover them each time I would get urges or sexual thoughts. I still have thoughts at times and the desires though not as frequent as before, I pray instantly they come on and speak Gods word casting down those vain imaginations which exalt itself above the knowledge of God. I can’t recall which particular scripture it is from, but it works the more I speak it over myself and plead the blood.
I’ll be 4 years in October of this year. I’ve had temptations but I know God wouldn’t send a man that would tempt me knowing how strongly I feel about my celibacy journey.🙌🏽
You are EXACTLY right..!
Amen
11 years for me👋🏿
The rewards including financial are immense♥️🙏🏿
3 years and I'm coming....
Amazing I'm 26 starting my journey it's hard but I'm done being used and never actually get the relationship I want. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️
Im starting my celibacy journey now and i am loving this decision. I recently got out of a toxic marriage and im just focused on myself and God
Once you understand celibacy You will understand your own energy. Once you understand your own energy. Then your purpose in life will be added to you because you begin to attract high vibration people and manifest the things you want and deserve in life.
Celibate 6yrs...the journey/life choice is crazy but self-serving - no regrets!
Almost 7 years for me until I messed up last year in September (darn pandemic lol). This year in September will be 1 year. Back on track.😊 No dates, no talking to no one either. Don't feel bad, I had issues with masturbating. Stay strong.
❤️❤️
I don't know that you have to stop talking to people. Just potential partners...
I used to have problems with masturbation too, until I listened to a message by Prophetess TIPHANI Montgomery talking about if the Holy Spirit resides within us, it is a violation of Him and she likened it into rape and I kind of felt that made sense. There was Biblical application to it and I also listened to the whole dark side of porn from ex-stars who got saved and the spiritual attachment and delay of our marriages or demonic agendas within masturbation and watching porn allowing perversion into my life. So it helped me to abstain! It’s almost a full year for me now fully as I fell off the celibacy journey last year March, after a really bad health span where I nearly died. God bless you sisters for sharing what God is doing in your life @LaLa Jenkins. It’s inspiring and has fired me up hearing sisters speaking so openly unashamed (as church at times makes you feel so crazy talking about it). I feel that’s the main reason why we fall off, because we hide it. So Praise God for His daughters speaking out! ❤❤❤ praise God and God bless you!
Mastubations open doors for demons to attack..
Thank you for your openness and honesty! Im also celibate and trying to loose weight. It's a tough journey BUT it's worth it. It's crazy how the world is so big but many of us have the same struggles.
Right!
Started this journey a few times; back again pray for me
Praying for you by name, Sis! You got this! 🙌🏽
I’ve been on my man cleanse since August 2017. I feel great about it. Great job cousin.
Oh wow! Had no idea Cousin! That’s awesome! 🙌🏽
Soror omg this message blessed me! I’ve been abstinent since 3/30/2016. I answered my calling to ministry and graduated from Howard University with a Master of Divinity degree. Nevertheless, as a Preacher it’s so hard because I too feel called to be someone’s wife but I want to give my body as a sacrifice to God as I preach the Gospel. However, this journey of abstinence is HARD and I thought about giving up and your video popped up( talking about divine intervention 😩). I know this was God telling me to keep going and my prayers of marriage will be answered in God’s divine timing! Thank you for your testimony 🤗💕 it feels comforting to know I’m not alone in this journey of abstinence….
Glory to God! Glad this vid encouraged you, Soror! Remember God loves you and He sees you. Your obedience will DEF be rewarded! Keep going! ❤️
@@LaLaJenkins thank you for your kind words and pouring into God’s people 🤗💕
Yes I’m 42 . Divorced. Almost a year celibate. I’m a gym rat now lol. It’s very peaceful. God is making us MADE😊 . Patience is a virtue. Proud of you
Proud of you too, Sis! 🙌🏽🤎
God said He sees you and He loves you. 🙂
@@LaLaJenkins ❤️❤️😊
@@LaLaJenkins thank you 🙏🏾
4 yrs & counting here too. Congratulations sis 🙏🏽💕
Girl,God bless you..When you said you have been battling with pornography on your celibacy journey,I felt like a burden was lifted.Am 18 months celibate and it's been tough...the journey is clear ..I want to be celibate but there's just so much I keep battling with...it's all worth it 😘
🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️
It's easy for me because EVERYONE ANNOYS ME. I'M BEING CELIBATE FOR LIFE
I hit 1 year 2 weeks ago. Ive also cut off all of the guys ive conversed with. Im just not into anyone but myself🤷🏾
Thank you being so open about this I’m 19 and I’m new to the celibacy journey. This gives me hope that I can do this long term.
Welcome to the journey, Sis! God is proud of you for this! Continue to abide in him and you CERTAINLY will be able to be celibate for long term! 🤎
I HAVE STARTED MY JOURNEY BACK IN OCTOBER 2020! 👏🏾👏🏾👑❤️
🙌🏽🙌🏽
Girllllll, this video was so on point on all levels! I'm 26mths celibate, and everything you mentioned resonated with me. Thank you for your transparency. 💜💜💜
I love watching your videos they help me in so many ways. Especially as a Christian , celibacy, and dating . Your authenticity is what we need as Christians . You my homegirl at heart Lala ! ❤️ now pornography I understand because I’ve spoke to someone that I look up to spiritually .
Come on word, Let God use you. I pray this message touches and reaches many 🙏🏾❤️
Yesss! That’s my prayer too! 🙏🏽 Thank you for watching, Ashley! 😁
Amen 🙏🏾
Thanks for your honesty helping alot of women out here.i appreciate so much.
I needed this video! You’re literally glowing and I’ve watched your videos for a whole year now omg😁! I’m so glad God brought me to your channel.
Aww yay! Thank you for this! 🙌🏽❤️
Omg,I just reconnected with a former good friend of mine from back in school and he has a strong sexual attraction to me and I don't know how I feel about him so we are gonna go see how it goes but it's has been a struggle to stay celibate and NOT fall into temptation but I have noticed that our talks DO turn sexual and I have been single for awhile now and it gets VERY lonely so he does give me attention and someone to talk too but I feel like he is still working with me on this because we have made plans several times to meet up and for one reason or another it hasn't happened.I ONLY want this relationship/friendship IF God wants me to have it and IF it's God lead...hopefully we both can stay on the path that God has for us.
Whew! Praying for you. 🙏🏽
Keep the Kingdom as priority and all the works.
Why don’t you just enjoy the feeling of being wanted and desired ❓. I would do anything to have someone feel that way about me ❓
I have been 2 years celibate since August of 2019 it's hard but I pray and ask God for strength best decision I have made in life!!!
🙌🏽💖
Hello
A prayer of renunciation("In the name Jesus, I renounce porn and its power) is very effective at battling porn and enforcing self-discipline.
Too good! Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your experiences. On this journey for over a year now, praise God! :)
Love this video woman of God we gotta stay on the holiness train 😭❤️
You’re so honest and authentic. I’ve learned throughout my abstinent journey it does take a whole lot of discipline and self-control. You have to your triggers and avoid getting into tempting situations. This was a much needed conversation. We have to keep one another in our prayers.
🙏🏽
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
In 1984 i turned 13. My mother n I talked about sex. She showed me an article about safe sex and masturbation, and celibacy. Loving your body and make sure the man that wants you to share that with. Great Job.
Thank you for always being real, honest and saying the things that others are afraid to speak on!
Thank you for being real!!! I love your personality!
God is not only Good he’s Great🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Amen!
2 years this March…no dates…just God & I. It’s new territory, but I’m trusting God for my Boaz.
Thank you for being so transparent! I love your channel!
This was so good! I love your content and candor.
Awww yay! Thanks for watching Club! ❤️
Your honesty is delivering and blessing sis 😩❤️ you are truly an authentic gift from God! I am so grateful I found your channel? I know God uses you, and it is helping me so much to get to where I need to be in Christ🙏🏽❤️
Hey sis,
I don’t know if you are familiar with Tiphani Montgomery’s ministry! They are currently doing a marriage fast and it was laid on my spirit to share that with you if you are not already aware.
Thank you for your transparency always. Often times you confirm many things in my spirit, I thank God I was able to find your ministry.
Also, I learned recently that pornography opens a door to the enemy to bring unwanted spirits into your life. It’s an open door.
It’s def an open door! And I follow Tiphani! 🙌🏽 Thank you for the consistent support!
@@LaLaJenkins absolutely! I am so proud of what God is doing your life. I can’t wait to see the videos when God begins to shift you into your season of overflow ❤️
I’m here for your kingdom marriage and anything else he sees fit to bless you with !
@@jasmineowens5571 Amen! 🙌🏽😭
I'll be 6 years in October!
I'm so glad that you have confessed your weakness me and you have a lot in common I struggled with that too and then I said enough is enough and then I realized to distract myself because it's considered last even when it's with yourself and last is a sin
She is so real
Hey, I’ve been on a journey since 2020 with it’s up and downs and now I’m back going on 9 months. It’s just more so hard for me because I don’t have a strong community of people on this journey.. even those who are in the church no one talks about this so it’s just me and Jesus lol😊
Jesus is the BEST person to have! And I would suggest continuing to watch celibacy vids (like you’re doing) for encouragement! You can also start attending my Women’s Bible Study on the 1st and 3rd Sundays. We have Bible Study and girl chat afterwards.. we can certainly start discussing the celibacy journey!
Bible Study this Sunday is canceled but we will resume on Sunday, Dec 18th at 6pm CST!
Zoom Meeting ID: 455 582 6258
Passcode: JESUS2022
@@LaLaJenkins thank you soooo much!!
Haven't signed a marriage license in over 42 years I'll be a millionaire soon......
I will always supporte you because I like women that's believe in God,and you always give great advice
Love her honesty ❤
I desire someone who is abstinence like me and they support and compliment my journey and not hinder it. I have been abstinence for years. And I have had other women tell me nobody is going to want someone like me or that no man is going to want me. I have had men tell me what happens if it's not good it's a bunch of excuses. I have a hard time with meeting men nowadays because everybody is hooking up on social media. When I am running errands or walking in the mall I don't get approached at all. I just stopped praying to God about a man. It is hard. Because I feel like God has forgotten about me. And I am in my 30's the struggle is real. I didn't have a high school sweetheart or marrying anybody after I graduated from college. Awesome video.
It means your vibration is high...
You will not attract low vibration anymore..Low vibration men are so many....
Keep going you will meet your man one day...
1 year next month yay😁😄
Yay!! 🥳🙌🏽
Always "HONOR" God with your BODY.
Me reading through the comments about people telling how long they've been celibating.
Also me, I've been celibating since birth
I been celibate for a couple years to not easy
It's been almost 3 years for me come July 6th and I love your transparency!
So glad I came across the video 🙏🏾😌 This helped me
🙌🏽🙌🏽
#New Subbie and Soro. I love your channel. Continue to let God use you on this platform. You are so funny yet I love your transparency. This has truly blessed me. Very inspirational and encouraging sis, you are beautiful💛
🙌🏽❤️
Your so beautiful and don't worry God has a Man for you just waiting on good time to give it to you
I love your honesty! 😍
LaLa !!! You inspire me so much🙏🏽🙏🏽
5yrs and counting 🎉
God led me to your video.. Thank you for sharing your truth.. 💕
🤎
Thanks for your transparency!!!
Celibate for 47 years then a brief marriage producing three wonderful children. But now my wife kicked me out of the house and find myself ready now to embrace being a eunuch for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven!
Mercy
This is tough..
Wow
Im 50 years old now❤
Love this video ❤😂 real talk!!
Loving your videos, Sis!!!
But we have to set to be with the Lord every day, once a week wont work.
Thank you for sharing this video❤
Ty so much for your honesty ❤
🙌🏽
This video blessed me.
Girl, those dating apps have all of us caught up! 😂 Don't fall for the foolery ( talking to myself).
I love your content. Everything is spot on.
🙌🏽
11:00 When you meet your potential husband will you be celibate till marriage? How does that work?
Yes. We both will be abstinent
Love your honesty
All Esteem To YAHUAH for keeping these women celibate even myself it's better to wait and be obedient To The Most High keep reading your scriptures and fasting to deny your flesh,pray for YAHUSHA Ha'Mashiah to keep you pure
Great content sister!
I love your energy
I am a man of God but I had 2 sexual relationships for the past 2 years it hurt me cause the first girl robbed from money I cut her off (after busting her window with a 😮 brick) the second was a good friend of mine but already had a boyfriend it's because I had a high sperm count semen retention , fasting and been working out in the morning. 50pushups 80 situps and 30 squats and dumbell curlss
Hey my girl ❤️ you
4 years celibate this month
Happy New Year
❤️❤️❤️
Amen Amen, Amen, Amen
I've been celibate for 39 years....not by choice either
Mine has been a total of 34 with some stumbles here and there. It is hard and sometimes aggravating. No man is willing to do this that I come in contact with. They are nice until they find out.
@Kennylanqua6512 I’ve been celibate since 1995 , not my choice either .. I’m sorry 😔
@@suesmith3744 thanks. Although luck has changed suddenly for me. I don't care for single mothers. I want my own children not some other guys kids. But a woman I met on duty and have known for two weeks and is a single mother of two just took a liking to me and seduced me
Believe it or not, I actually finally lost my virginity , to her, on this past Tuesday October 10, 2023. Fifteen days away from my 41st birthday. She also gave me my very first hickey and of course my very first blowjob. We had intercourse again on this past Friday the thirteenth.
It doesn't seem real.
💗💗💗
Lol that's me and you business lol😂
Romans 12:3 admonishes us to present our body holy as a living sacrifice.
Maintaining our sexual purity is obedience to God. When we are tempted, He provides a way out 1 Corthian 10:13.
Accordingly, we can't down vain imaginations(sexual lust as well)that exalt against the knoekefe of God 1 Cor 10:5
We don't flirt with sin- dating as an attraction is a trap.
It's best t to date someone who believes as you.
🌸
6 n half and once in 20 👍
👂🏾👏🏾
🙌🏽
❤️👑👏🏾👏🏾🎈🙌🏾
First five years of my celibacy I decided not date ... whats the point ...I told a dude I was celibate ..he says can you sell a bit ... I can't stand these Negaaas 😈
Amen, Amen, Amen, Amen Amen