Sister girl , I recently experienced something similar to your experience. When I tell you God sure did opened my eyes up to consequences about sin against God. Thank you for your transparency. God discipline those he loves. Thank God that we were able to turn things around and get right with God.
The obedience and humility it took to share this is COMMENDABLE! Congratulations on your reward because I know it is going to be GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏽😘🥳🎉young ladies (and men) in high school, college, youth groups and singles ministries hould watch this. It could have been SO much worse. Trust me!
La, every single time I had sex with a guy, I ended up either catching an illness or feeling physically ill afterwards. You are absolutely right. There are consequences for our sins and we cannot carry the burden. The fruit of sin seems beautiful, innocent and we desire it, we think it'll bring us joy, but is is quite the contrary. We have to pay the price and we often cannot. Please stay strong, focused and away from sin. I am too on this journey.
Again needed this today sis! 🙌🏾 Thank you for your transparency always 🙏🏽. I'm to the point like Lord if it's meant for me to be single forever please just give me contentment in this season and on this journey. It's so scary trusting people smh 😫
La, I just studied that story of David and Bathsheba this morning! That wasn't the only punishment David had to face, the Lord said the sword would not leave David. And his son Absalom went after him when he was older.
Thank you so much for your transparency. They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word their testimonies! This is so needed and appreciated 💕🙏🏾
Sister LaLa, you are such a breath of fresh air. 😂I love your honestly. I feel like we could be friends. You are so funny! God is using you to reach this generation. Keep doing God’s work 🙏🏾
I really admire your obedience to God. You always come on here and share the message that God has laid in your heart even if it’s not glamorous to do so. God will honor your obedience ❤️
Thank you for being vulnerable! I agree with everything you said regarding God and his discipline. But when you said that God disciplines us for every sin, psalm 103:10 nlt “says he does not punish us for all our sins”. Just wanted to mention that. I guess the key is to just try our best to stay away from sinning because we don’t know if God will discipline us or not.
Great story & lesson that illustrates the tough love that YAH has for his children which is necessary & refines us, unlike the enabling, coddling imperfect love some parents engage in concerning the children they have under their stewardship. Taking away accountability & responsibility for transgression is nearly always a bad idea b/c the lesson needs to be ingrained. HALLELUYAH for good instruction & bless u for being transparent! Let's each 1 teach 1...
Hi LA my name is Martha.......I live in NC.......I love your transparency...........thank you for being the Holy woman of God that you are........I've always been single too......continue to let your light shine!!!!!
I experienced the SAME thing! and I found out my results at work and went stright outside to call the man child that had given me something. I thank God for well woman exams and testing.
Oh my gosh! How are we living the SAME life?! And chile yesss.. we thank God for those exams bc who knows when I would have found out! I had no symptoms! 😳
@@LaLaJenkins I didn’t either…🥴. I had a terrible nightmare the night before, which prompted me to get tested the next day. And then BAM my world got temporarily flipped upside down 😩
@@stephanienwachukwu1491 C’mon God speaking through your dreams! And I know that was a horrible experience but we thank God that it was temporary! And you’re fine now. 🙌🏽
People will always show their true colors we just ignore them. Hunni I got a baby now because I did not listen. I prayed and God was telling me to run I did not listen. I love my baby. Being a mom is hard.
It’s so interesting, but God also placed it my heart that my ex was going to leave me. He started picking fights randomly, and then a week later he broke up with me. He said there was nothing wrong with me, the feelings left, and that he was impatient. God was showing me red flags 🚩 but I ignored them. I guess God was like ok I’ll just remove him myself 😭😂 I can laugh about it now
Please intercede on my behalf ,I also pray for the spirit of discernment too and to walk with God ❤️ I love his work in you 😍 , you just beam of glory and a role model for me . Remain blessed sis Lala. I hope to learn more from you ...
Hello! I saw the title and have a quick question, are you abstinent or celibate? I’m asking because I’m abstinent but I used to say celibate a lot until I found out a couple months ago that celibate means - abstaining from both marriage and sexual relations, typically for religious reasons. And I was shocked that I kept speaking that over myself 😂 even tho God knew what I meant of course
It could have been worse for sure! Some of my ex boyfriends (or should I say most of them) cheated on me while I dated them long-term and I was loyal to them! But one of them started stalking me and I couldn't understand why. He was after control over me, which is also confusing. means some want to enslave you! It took years later to begin to find out why? Other people were a part of the confusing equation. Women don't know there is a hidden background with many of these men, and many could be dangerous due to their hidden sins or the combination of their sins worse. Giving my ex boyfriends the benefit of the doubt as to their loyalty didn't work since these days most men cheat on their wives and girlfriends even if you warn them. They are worldly, they only want to get their way, and they don't respect women.
Wow,I have 2 guys that are really interested in me and have made it very known but I don't know how I feel about them or how to be nice and let them know how I am feeling or thinking about this situation we have alot in common and they do believe in God but we aren't like really into church and I am like I want to pray and ask God what he is thinking about all of this first before I really decide about anything. Wow,I had a guy just stop randomly stop talking or responding to my texts after we got into an argument so I can totally relate to that situation and I was upset and confused as well but I had been praying about that situation as well and I just later took it as God just removed him from my life because he wasn't the right one for me.
Thank God you are in the US, in Africa when you hear about STD, it is incurable or hard to cure; like AIDS, and hard to cure is Super Gonorrhea has spread so much as well.
I have been abstinent too since 2020. 😮 But recently I slipped. I met a boy who also prays before eating……Sigh I’m sad to hear 💔 this. Maybe a warning from God.
Good Afternoon. Even though I respect other people's religious convictions, and there are a lot of sexually transmitted diseases, but I don't believe in abstinence or celibacy. I know that sin is sin, but there are sins that I would rather commit than others. I would rather fornicate than murder someone. When people commit adultery and lies to you, they can redeem themselves. However, when people kills people, the people who they killed won't have a chance to do ANYTHING.
Good afternoon. I pray that the Holy Spirit will give you an undying thirst for Him and for His word, and that through that you will be able to see the error in your heart’s posture towards sin. The enemy wants us to justify the sins we choose to commit and sin is sin, period. Be set free brother. You CAN have freedom in Christ.
@@resilientlexi Good Morning. With all due respect to your stance, however, I STILL stand by my stance, and what I stated. Sin is sin, but there are sins that I would rather commit than others. We ALL are sinners anyway.
@@resilientlexi I am forty eight years old, and can go the rest of my life without having sex ever again, and STILL wouldn't believe in abstinence or celibacy.
@@resilientlexi When I was in high school, I wanted to have sex with this girl, but she didn't believe in sex before marriage. So even as a teenager I didn't believe in abstinence. I have never believed in abstinence.
The word says have no fellowship with the unfruitful workers of darkness,. When we fornicate it does bring about an ungodly union. 1 Corinthians 6:18- Flee fornication, Every sin that a man doeth is without the body, but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. And, 1 Corinthians 6:15 -17 - Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined with the Lord is one spirit..
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Sister girl , I recently experienced something similar to your experience. When I tell you God sure did opened my eyes up to consequences about sin against God. Thank you for your transparency. God discipline those he loves. Thank God that we were able to turn things around and get right with God.
🙌🏽🙌🏽
The obedience and humility it took to share this is COMMENDABLE! Congratulations on your reward because I know it is going to be GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏽😘🥳🎉young ladies (and men) in high school, college, youth groups and singles ministries hould watch this. It could have been SO much worse. Trust me!
La, every single time I had sex with a guy, I ended up either catching an illness or feeling physically ill afterwards.
You are absolutely right. There are consequences for our sins and we cannot carry the burden. The fruit of sin seems beautiful, innocent and we desire it, we think it'll bring us joy, but is is quite the contrary. We have to pay the price and we often cannot.
Please stay strong, focused and away from sin. I am too on this journey.
Again needed this today sis! 🙌🏾 Thank you for your transparency always 🙏🏽. I'm to the point like Lord if it's meant for me to be single forever please just give me contentment in this season and on this journey. It's so scary trusting people smh 😫
La, I just studied that story of David and Bathsheba this morning! That wasn't the only punishment David had to face, the Lord said the sword would not leave David. And his son Absalom went after him when he was older.
Thank you so much for your transparency. They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word their testimonies! This is so needed and appreciated 💕🙏🏾
Amen! Glory to God!
Your obedience will be rewarded. God knows your heart and is faithful to those who are faithful to Him..✨
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Proud of you for sharing your full story and being so transparent. I pray that it blesses many 💗💗
Amen! 🙌🏽 (Thank you for watching. 🤗)
Sister LaLa, you are such a breath of fresh air. 😂I love your honestly. I feel like we could be friends. You are so funny! God is using you to reach this generation. Keep doing God’s work 🙏🏾
You are helping others through your transparency! We are all a work in progress! Thank you so much for the videos😊 Bless you!
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Girrrrllll 😂😂😂 i love your sense of humor lol it’s meeee! “Ok so you wanna get married in May….orrr June?” 😂😂😂😂
I hope & pray we cross paths one day. Love your transparency so much!!! I really view you as a big sister 💗
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I really admire your obedience to God. You always come on here and share the message that God has laid in your heart even if it’s not glamorous to do so. God will honor your obedience ❤️
Amen! 🙌🏽
Thanks for sharing La! Your transparency is truly a blessing, not many are courageous to do what your doing. God bless!🙏🏿
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You look like Letoya Luckett to me!! 😀
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing. 💛 You don’t know how much this is so helpful!
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Thank you for being vulnerable! I agree with everything you said regarding God and his discipline. But when you said that God disciplines us for every sin, psalm 103:10 nlt “says he does not punish us for all our sins”. Just wanted to mention that. I guess the key is to just try our best to stay away from sinning because we don’t know if God will discipline us or not.
I been watching your videos back to back for the past 2 days !
I love your personality! 😂😂😂😂
Great story & lesson that illustrates the tough love that YAH has for his children which is necessary & refines us, unlike the enabling, coddling imperfect love some parents engage in concerning the children they have under their stewardship. Taking away accountability & responsibility for transgression is nearly always a bad idea b/c the lesson needs to be ingrained. HALLELUYAH for good instruction & bless u for being transparent! Let's each 1 teach 1...
Hi LA my name is Martha.......I live in NC.......I love your transparency...........thank you for being the Holy woman of God that you are........I've always been single too......continue to let your light shine!!!!!
🙌🏽🤎
I experienced the SAME thing! and I found out my results at work and went stright outside to call the man child that had given me something. I thank God for well woman exams and testing.
Oh my gosh! How are we living the SAME life?! And chile yesss.. we thank God for those exams bc who knows when I would have found out! I had no symptoms! 😳
@@LaLaJenkins I didn’t either…🥴. I had a terrible nightmare the night before, which prompted me to get tested the next day. And then BAM my world got temporarily flipped upside down 😩
@@stephanienwachukwu1491 C’mon God speaking through your dreams! And I know that was a horrible experience but we thank God that it was temporary! And you’re fine now. 🙌🏽
you have blessed me Lala with your story, love from Africa
Aww Praise God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Him: "wait you not gone pray over your food?"
Women everywhere: "owww he a prayer warrior!" Lol
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Thank you for having the courage to share your story
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People will always show their true colors we just ignore them. Hunni I got a baby now because I did not listen. I prayed and God was telling me to run I did not listen. I love my baby. Being a mom is hard.
Great video!! I'm a new subbie and I'm enjoying your channel 😀👍👏🏾!!
Yay! Welcome to the party! 🥳🤎
Great storyteller. Thank you for your obedience and faithfulness
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It’s so interesting, but God also placed it my heart that my ex was going to leave me. He started picking fights randomly, and then a week later he broke up with me. He said there was nothing wrong with me, the feelings left, and that he was impatient. God was showing me red flags 🚩 but I ignored them. I guess God was like ok I’ll just remove him myself 😭😂 I can laugh about it now
Girrrrrl.. God be sick of us! 😂😂
@@LaLaJenkins LOL we be asking for signs and the red flags literally be slapping us in the face 😭😂😭😂
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Lord help me
I love you uuuuuuu for this ,so inspiring 😍
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Please intercede on my behalf ,I also pray for the spirit of discernment too and to walk with God ❤️
I love his work in you 😍 , you just beam of glory and a role model for me . Remain blessed sis Lala. I hope to learn more from you ...
Omg!! This happened to me... God is still good...
Thanks for sharing Queen 👑 .. Love it!💯🔥❤
Thanks for sharing! Always love your videos🤗
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God bless u la for this message. God bless u for this vulnerability. Amen
Hello! I saw the title and have a quick question, are you abstinent or celibate? I’m asking because I’m abstinent but I used to say celibate a lot until I found out a couple months ago that celibate means - abstaining from both marriage and sexual relations, typically for religious reasons.
And I was shocked that I kept speaking that over myself 😂 even tho God knew what I meant of course
Hey! I found out about that definition also.. but I still say celibate out of habit. And God certainly knows what we mean
Thank you for the clarity my dear!! I’m definitely not speaking celibacy over my life anymore! For now on I’m abstinent from sex until marriage!
whenever you sin, but you can't escape the consequences whew chileeee amen
New subscriber and I'm here for it all doll 🤗☕
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Hunny thank you for speaking up, there are definitely consequences for our sin. I just thank God that he still loves us what a merciful Father.
@@asiajohnson6191 Amen!
Sis be dancin with the devil dang these sum juicy stories 👀
Lala, you tell great stories.
It could have been worse for sure! Some of my ex boyfriends (or should I say most of them) cheated on me while I dated them long-term and I was loyal to them! But one of them started stalking me and I couldn't understand why. He was after control over me, which is also confusing. means some want to enslave you! It took years later to begin to find out why? Other people were a part of the confusing equation. Women don't know there is a hidden background with many of these men, and many could be dangerous due to their hidden sins or the combination of their sins worse. Giving my ex boyfriends the benefit of the doubt as to their loyalty didn't work since these days most men cheat on their wives and girlfriends even if you warn them. They are worldly, they only want to get their way, and they don't respect women.
I'm dying laughing at your freestyle!
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Hanging on to a guy who wants to leave just does not work. Just be sweet and let him go. No rumination or wallowing. God has something better!
🇮🇱🤌🤔 woke up today and God had me turn on my RUclips: and lo this is what I received from your testimony, may God keep you my Queen in tranquility ❤️
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Wow,I have 2 guys that are really interested in me and have made it very known but I don't know how I feel about them or how to be nice and let them know how I am feeling or thinking about this situation we have alot in common and they do believe in God but we aren't like really into church and I am like I want to pray and ask God what he is thinking about all of this first before I really decide about anything. Wow,I had a guy just stop randomly stop talking or responding to my texts after we got into an argument so I can totally relate to that situation and I was upset and confused as well but I had been praying about that situation as well and I just later took it as God just removed him from my life because he wasn't the right one for me.
Hello Layla, what Bibles do you use?
Beautiful like always
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Thank God you are in the US, in Africa when you hear about STD, it is incurable or hard to cure; like AIDS, and hard to cure is Super Gonorrhea has spread so much as well.
***in the boties of the wiminz*** i am tickled😂
Great share...I will share w my teen...your delivery is very relatable and appreciated. ❤❤😘😘🙏🙏
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You are really wonderful and charming, I love this type videos, your so funny lala ,God bless.
You looking so beautiful you should braid your hair more
And thanks to the videos its been helping me alot God bless you
Sis where you get that shirt or dress so bomb
Thanks! It’s a shirt from Target
Why u remind me of letoya luckett?! she was with destiny’s child but went solo. Lalaaaa 😏
Thanks for sharing!!
Yes ma’am ❤️❤️
I was planning our wedding 😂😂 thank you for your transparency and honesty!!!! thank you Lord
I have been abstinent too since 2020. 😮 But recently I slipped.
I met a boy who also prays before eating……Sigh I’m sad to hear 💔 this. Maybe a warning from God.
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chemistry* rather than "vibes, vibing" God does not like this terminology (it stems from non-Christian beliefs)
😂i so love u thank u so much
Good Afternoon. Even though I respect other people's religious convictions, and there are a lot of sexually transmitted diseases, but I don't believe in abstinence or celibacy. I know that sin is sin, but there are sins that I would rather commit than others. I would rather fornicate than murder someone. When people commit adultery and lies to you, they can redeem themselves. However, when people kills people, the people who they killed won't have a chance to do ANYTHING.
Good afternoon. I pray that the Holy Spirit will give you an undying thirst for Him and for His word, and that through that you will be able to see the error in your heart’s posture towards sin. The enemy wants us to justify the sins we choose to commit and sin is sin, period. Be set free brother. You CAN have freedom in Christ.
@@resilientlexi Good Morning. With all due respect to your stance, however, I STILL stand by my stance, and what I stated. Sin is sin, but there are sins that I would rather commit than others. We ALL are sinners anyway.
@@resilientlexi I am forty eight years old, and can go the rest of my life without having sex ever again, and STILL wouldn't believe in abstinence or celibacy.
Okay no problem. So since we are all sinners anyway and we can pick and choose which sin we want to commit, why do we need a savior?
@@resilientlexi When I was in high school, I wanted to have sex with this girl, but she didn't believe in sex before marriage. So even as a teenager I didn't believe in abstinence. I have never believed in abstinence.
You look like Tamar without the Botox. My oh My
soul ties are not Biblical. Lust can have ppl stuck in sin.
The word says have no fellowship with the unfruitful workers of darkness,. When we fornicate it does bring about an ungodly union. 1 Corinthians 6:18- Flee fornication, Every sin that a man doeth is without the body, but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. And, 1 Corinthians 6:15 -17 - Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined with the Lord is one spirit..
If it’s curable it’s an STI
Ok
Sis, you need a husband to protect and take care of you like Christ Jesus.
@@lindaellen808 sorry but most are not called to be single.
Thank you Layla J.
You re a bless woman. I want to talk to you after July 3, 2024. If you like.
My name is Cliff Blount.