How To Get A Girl To Chase You (And Let Her Do All The Work)
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With me today is my good friend Francoise Boufhal and she's going to share some great advice for getting the girls you like to start wanting and chasing you. Be sure to start using these as soon as you can to get the girls you actually want to be with.
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How do i get rid of 3 girls chasing me i did nothing help
It's easy to get a girl to chase you! Just walk up to her, steal her purse, and run like hell! LOL!
+6672rock lmao
+6672rock Or become rich and famous
+bob smith thats matter of perspective
I tried this and a bunch of boys in blue started chasing me, now I gotta dodge deez dicks
kyler miller Yell "Black lives matter" and they will disperse.
Too complicated. I'll just go live my life now.
+Vinay Seth my thought exactly
+Waleed Chorfii why do guys have to be a dick? (Not return calls quickly)? I always try to be available.
+Vinay Seth Go Thailand bro, problem solved, its just western girls this game shit applies too.
+bob smith "To" or "too"?
+Acdragonrider Videos thank you for the English correction. It was very appropriate and it was a MUST "to" go out your way to correct me.
So, basically don't be yourself. Great message!
Ok guys, if this comment gets over 50 thumbs up/likes by the end of the week then I'll make sure Francoise comes back for another episode. And...go.
TrippAdvice.com She is awesome hopefully she will comes back for another episode :)
I'm the 50th liker
TrippAdvice.com Hey, you guys did it! Great job. Expect to see more of Francoise.
kevin ngo im the 700th :P
Ever since I went my own way, the things Fran (I don't know how to spell her name correctly) mentioned have been happening. For instance I'll attend a social gathering and not have any expectations whatsoever.
Instead of approaching women, I often look preoccupied with something. I don't approach people at all. That right there for some reason seems to attract women. Indifference for some reason is attractive to them.
I'm also not a phone talker. In fact I hate it!! If you're going to call me, get to the point cause I don't have time when in reality I probably do at times. I just don't like it. It drains energy.
If a woman texts or IM'S me, I'll message her back when I have a free moment.
The doing something special is something that's not really in my nature. I'm an aspie. I don't really know how to show love... I'm not really sensitive to feelings. I don't pick up on "hints" at all. And you know what? It doesn't bother me one bit!!
Ugly people can't play hard to get since they are already hard to want. I can say this with confidence because I look like absolute retched shit.
nick ty No you don't. And yes they can. In fact, doing so tends to work better.
TrippAdvice.com Wrong
nick ty If you mean that you look like retched shit because you don't shower, take care of your skin, or groom yourself properly... then you're probably right. Women don't usually go for slobs. If that's the case, you can get it together. It's just a lifestyle. And if you're scrawny or overweight, not conventionally good looking, or possess other characteristics that may qualify you as physically "ugly", you can still attract desirable women. Tripp is absolutely right. Personality is the #1 factor in triggering attraction. The less interested you appear to be, the more interested they will become, especially if you're "ugly", because it will confuse the fuck out of them when you have more important things to do than give them your attention. I never compliment a woman's appearance, or tell her she's beautiful, because I know it drives them nuts not knowing what I think of them. No matter how beautiful, they all have insecurities. Trust me, I personally know rock bottom, and it's a long way up, but there's only one way to go from there. I focused on my job, turned it into a career, got a gym membership and turned it into a routine, read and studied everything I could find on the psychology of attraction and field-tested the knowledge to determine what works. I've still got a long way to go but I'm light years from where I was, and I think the most important thing I've learned thus far is this: "If you want to be somebody else, change your mind." No one can do it for you.
If you are unhappy with your looks take 3-4 months to head to your local gym. Belivev me, nothing gives a confidence boost like seeing more muscle.
***** It may help, sure.
why would anyone want to date a manipulative girl that want to control you through games and teasing,guys dont compromise,you deserve better than shit
+MsMojomaster I thought I were the only one who thought that.
+MsMojomaster Only a truly good and honest man can agree with what you said. Let the rest of the flies be attracted to shit though.
I 200% agree with this guy. If she plays games with you, chase another chick. I wasted a month and money on this chick and she broke up with me. I had my wrong doing too but yeah, she was manipulative.
Be manipulative (play games). Not too much though.
Saying “a manipulative girl that wants to control you….” is redundant. Just say a girl.
all that to get a divorce lol
+Jean Ramirez I know mate, I'd rather go to Amsterdam for a shag and leave it be.
Dr.'sorders ur right the game never ends.
Gaga Hahahaha happened to me
Step 1: Be handsome
Step 2: All the girls will chase you no matter what.
Works for me at least :)
Not true, you don't need to be handsome to achieve this.
I'm pretty ugly (around 4/4.5-10), but there are still girls that approach me from time to time. There was this one girl at a nightclub that approached me in a direct way "Hey, I really like what you're wearing", and she started to make out with me right away when I asked her if she would like to dance with me.
It's just a matter of being confident and taking care of yourself.
but not too handsome ....
Ha!
Play tag with her and she will definitely be chasing you. :)
AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
I'm using this XD
what is play tag
Borrow her phone.
Applause to you
You only have to go through all of these games if you're trying to win a girl that doesn't already naturally want you. Every once in awhile though, you can encounter a great woman that's naturally attracted to you. I was fortunate enough to recently find that.
The beautiful thing about that is I don't have to stress myself with all of these extra little games. We both just naturally allow how we genuinely feel about each other to guide us. Of course it helps for me that I already like her also.
Bbn
You're blessed! True love is a gift from God. Always appreciate what u have.
I will be honest here... This us the first video from you i actually understand and can apply to many guys. THANK YOU!
I'm sorry man, I like you and all, but I just couldn't finish watching the video over so much complicated bullshit. Getting a girl is not that hard guys. You might be shy or insecure or something, but when you meet the girl you KNOW is meant for you, you automatically drop all that shit and you see yourself talking to her and she WILL respond to that.
True dat
+Capitán Phillips how about if she didnt give u a response ??u did all the work and sacrificing ur time for only getting her but still no result...for you, this girl is special... do you leave her and move on??or keep trying??... i need ur answer... if you said its not that hard... thanks...
Preach
@@sobatsetanmerah she dont like you move on
I couldn't pay attention, those beautiful..... Microphone in her shirt distracted me
Lol
I know the feeling :(
PresidentSantana someday, when you grow up, you will understand the joke
PresidentSantana mi inglish es perfecto
Carlitox b
The tits were distracting us from the tips.
Fuck all this shit. JUST BE FUCKING RICH.
kush bhalerao exactly
That's true though.. being rich is a "shortcut" .. only negative is that she may only like you for your money and it won't last long unless u dont care. But if your just trying to smash and dash having money is everything
i prefer to just watch porn and play video games tbh
yep
so true
I prefer do not do that about porn. Gives me negatives.
You're a dude and your name is Celine??? Your parents must hate u
nope my name is chris
Being a good listener is only effective if the girl is honest about what she's into, which many girls are not. Being *attentive* and *responsive* in conversation is much more effective than just listening
There are times I really wish that girls asked guys out instead of the other way around.
Grow some balls
Only 10% of the guys would get asked out.
I'm sure he is friend zoned.
As soon as she said “what’s up kid” I was like burn!!! Get back to the friend zone dude
😂
Albert Lewis EXACTLY 😂😂😂😂
I could have walked out of the damn video LOL
This is weak. Adult men and women do not play silly games. If an adult male is dating "girls" he has a bad case of arrested development. If a man has his shit together and is an interesting sophisticated fun guy, none of this silly stuff is necessary. If she calls or texts, call or text her back! If you do the same, then she should call or text you. If folks are interested in each other all this childishness is not required to "get" anyone. My God, why do men put so much effort into thinking they need to do all this silly stuff and "make" a woman do anything?
i think you dont no shit about a man ,only what you want in a man all men are different period.
Because the philosophy is that just like animals, humans need a 'mating ritual' and dance in order to prove their worth when it comes to relationships.
+jan King what the fuck you smoken can i have some ...
Dion Charles You're just stupid mate
wish this was always true but its not.
If she plays hard to get, I play hard to get rid of.
60% of the time, it works every time
To the age of 25 or above, just do TWO things. GIVE & TAKE.
1: GIVE respect to her.
2: TAKE action on your short term and long term life goals.
You don't wanna ruin each other's integrity by playing "mind games"
her microphone is really good
i wonder how expensive it is
Do you guys share a closet?
lol
wait wait wait wait wait everyone stop liking these comments That guy has 14 likes and tripp has 4 likes
Let'ss not change the numbers cause we have 4 in both of them
LMFAO!!!
Its interesting that women don't seem to need such tips. We men have to do the whole work as it seems
With Style u ever seen how many fucking videos there are for women on what to do to get a guy lol ?
We playing ourselves, they want and need us equally if not more, so no time for all that
I'm not a dick... I will act how I usually act... If the girl I like likes me back. Cool. If not. Good for her, I can move on.
***** I've actually had the same girl for the last 3 years, I know what I'm doing.
Bradley Bellick
Great video !! When a hot girl gives you HONEST advice on how to get them, pay attention !
It may be that I'm inexperienced, but this shit pisses me off. Fuck these games.
Forget that S, I'm gonna go work on my car now....
This made me realize that women don't know what they really want.
+Kuro Shinko Yup women just want to have mystery after mystery because its different but yeah your not knowing the guy like that.
+Kuro Shinko
Precisely.
It's for you to define it for them, and then they will just follow meekly along behind.
3:18 his 9 second stare into the camera is amazing
I was a bit distracted, I think she was talking about something.
I'm glad you're uploading great videos recently, Tripp. Just make sure you stay single and carry on with your good work on RUclips ;)
Thanks Anas. Can't promise the former but will do my best on the latter.
TrippAdvice.com would watching Japanese anime like fairy tail and bleach help you get better with dating and girls?
Hard to be a straight guy nowadays...it's gotten to where it takes all manner of special training.
Ok.
Raul Martinez Know what you mean. I feel with you. Why can't people just be people and love each other? Why has there to be a recipe?
So true man loooool
Shiranui Hanten
Actually people used to pick up the skills on their own. And every person inherit certain amount of ability to flirt from birth so they don't actually have to study anything to know what to do to the opposite sex (girls tend to know more about the game though and they do it without knowing about it). Now we just learn it from the internet because information is more available than ever.
Shiranui Hanten Because men are giving their power away by fucking every woman they can. So an ugly troll female that wants to have sex tonight just needs to take her phone and there are 20 idiots available that will rush like a madman to her place for sex. Guys should have standards. That would balance everything a bit more.
Be a purse snatcher or a phone plucker, girls be chasing you in no time
Great video! Basically masculine energy wants freedom and the feminine wants to trap it.
Girls are emotional and boys more rational...I've seen this throughout my life. I've been needy and indifferent to some girls and their response is obvious. When I was needy, the girl run away and when I was busy with my passions in life, the girl was like 4 months super-interested in me!! One night I had to make out with her :x So don't be that Super-Nice guy all the time because you're automatically screwed LOL Just work on your passions in life, be happy and fulfilled by yourself and never put your happiness in someone else!! You are responsible for handling your own emotions...Always. Peace ;)
be extremely confident. none of this matters if you're not confident.
In 3:27 you can here someone or something breathing
***** :DDDDDD
Oh that was just the Flying Dutchman.
Hahaha that's part of the background music
"You dont have to be dick" Cant stop laughing xD awesome vid though
I notice this is true it's disappointing girls r this way
I agree, I notice it myself, it's complicated but at the same time not too bad
1:34 "You've got to be just the right amount of dick"... :P
How about being yourself until a girl that likes your real self comes along ?
A genuine compliment with no expectations given to a girl........man she is yours after that. I discovered this by accident one night. I was at a dance class with a girl who said somethijg i thought was self depreciating(but i heard wrong). I told her she was pretty, without any agenda and she lit up. Next week i saw her she came straight over to me and literally sexually assaulted me. A genuine sentiment given with no expectations. Just be real and dont try to get anything from her. Most guys are hungry and are looking to get something from a girl. Dont be like this. Look to give to her with no covert contract of getting anything in return.
Back in the 60's, 70's, 80's, you liked a girl, you would go directly to her parents and show interest. If she wasn't interested, you moved on. Now its turned into a game of manipulation, WHICH WORKS. I should go to a European village like Michael Corleone.
best comment thumps up about 60 s and 70s
The Corleone got himself a sexy italian wife haha
European village? How ignorant can you Americans be?
Europe is NOT a country!!!! Just as the US is not a continent.
hey Tripps .com first my English is not good
but let's still talk
I just want to say you are the first site that looks true to me and giving good and free advice thanks for that k3ep up the nice work
it's fun to see your videos
It's just annoying that people spend all the time playing games
What should i do every day when I'm with her, like how often should I flirt, how often do I talk about what's been going on in our lives, etc.?
i always wonder why its always guys having to play the "girl's game", but never the other way around
The golden rule: Never listen to female relationship advice coaches. They just don't know; there are plenty of male life coaches out there who have done a fantastic job of figuring women out.
I did this and she spit milk in my face then stole my shoes
If you become her enemy, you will never get friend-zoned....It works 100% of the time
3:28-3:30 did anyone hear that
guys just be yourself and be honest and confident
Hey Tripp I get turned down by a lot of cute girls around where I live idk what I'm doing wrong I ask them for there number 😂 and it makes me sad I'm a good listener but I still don't get you think you can help me Tripp get a girl please
Alan Modzelewski Watch the videos. Listen to the podcasts. Then apply. It sounds like you're watching and listen, but not applying. Learn then act.
Don't ask a girl for her number. Giver her yours, and if she is interested she will call.
+Rebekah Vian
That's what I do.
#1 It gets rid of that anxiety of if it's the right number.
#2 You already know the girl likes you if she texts back.
#3 The rejection is smoother. Her name isn't on your phone. It's almost as if she didn't exist. Easy to move on.
A lot of girls cute girls get tired of numerous random guys asking for their numbers. If they really are cute they probably get a lot of attention then get closer to them and then ask for her number.
lmao
She was lying sooo hard!!!! She doesn't even know what she wants! Soo funny!
Or or even better why don't women just be normal ? That's sounds like a plan to me! Seriously games that's high school shit I don't have time for stuff like that! That shows me she's immature and untrustworthy you either like me or you don't that's how I see it! You can't give 90% and get 10% back gotta be a 50/50 situation!
I find that those early moments of sharing personal and intimate information with each other in the first few weeks is the honey pot of information you can use for a long term 'game'. In my opinion men do not identify the little things enough. If you secretly study the chicks behavior and things that she like to do, there will come a time were you can use that information to blow her mind. As the video says. However also on that note, The things you should look for are not always so simple, ie personality types, what she eats, drinks ect ect should be covered on a first date... if you really want to make an impression. Know her mannerisms, ask subtle question about what she 'does' certain things, and you will soon find more that surface information but actually why she is who she is ans were she is from as a person... ie if she wears glasses, and is self conscious bout the look with or without the on... target it. complement her on the things she probably doesnt like about herself and make those 'issues' for her non issues. Complements on a cute smile and generic attributes are fine initially, but once youv got information, the substance that you can use wil take you deeper and faster along.
In my opinion :D
never take advice from a girl for a girl 😏
treat them mean keep them keen
stopped watching at : play her at her own game.
lol stupid humans... just better being alone than playing weird games. if a woman can't handle the truth well then she can just gtfo.
first women to give real advice
4:38 random body language thingy:
He looks happy and slightly clueless (overly happy grin and nothing else to say)
She looks playfully disappointed (flat smile only and drooped eye brows)
She might of wanted to talk longer or shake hands. She is a cute specimen.
Specimen.... Tha fuck
An individual, a unique element in this small investigation.
Basically she's not like other women and pretty special. In my view
You don't have to play games to get women. In fact they will respect you more if you are direct. Tell them straight up what your intentions are for talking to them, and reject their games.
2:15 my man Tripp was like :,, woah hold on wait a minute. ''
Step 1 be good looking
Step 2 be rich
If you can't follow Step 1, Step 2 is all you need
girls chase me all the time! very simple fellas remain a challenge for her an unattainable an keep her on her toes by staying busy with your life! It's good for her to miss you!
Holy shit I just realised school is meant to get people to like each other
1. Holidays. So kids miss each other and picture that they are perfect because they can't actually see their real faces
2. Kids sitting really really close to each other.
3. Weekend for brakes from each other and when you see them you really appreciate them
4. Shitty teachers and boring ass classes to keep your conversations going and so you can relate about things you like and don't like
5. And lastly sports days boys wear shirts that reveal their arms and muscles and girls wear short pants and loose shirts.
See my fellow brothers, this is what happens when you give a women too much power.
I just place my expensive car's keys on the table and act like an arrogant fuck. Works every time!
I can tell she was trying really hard to win his approval. This is perfect example of women chasing/taming game. Poor girl
How to get a girl to chase you? Don't show her you're being too needy. Women don't like that. It's a turnoff and a sign of weakness. The whole world does not revolve around her. Show her you're interested, but make it clear you have outside interests. Smothering her will cause her to run off.
Nope, I'm just staying a nice guy. And this video doesn't show how to get girls by doing nothing.
But for real , I respect women so why would I lie and act not nice. This is helpful.
4:07 look how she stare at him after she said "being a nice guy's not always a bad thing"
😂😂😂
I was flirting with a co-worker. She started it! She made the first move. I kinda made it seem like she was on the back burner, as i didn't pay too much attention to her. I wanted to play this game of, "yes, you are nice, and HOT, but i also have a life, so i do other things". I spent monday-wednesday of this past week doing my own thing. I didn't say a word to her. I guess i was giving her the msg that i was "busy". Then, thursday i gave her some candy. She said, "thank you you are so nice.". I was waiting for her to come by thursday and say hi, but she didn't. Still working on her. Hoping i can get her to chase me! I will play the game if she wants to! She is well worth the effort!!
great tips!! thanks guys.
The pressure on that last button
I've been ignoring this girl for 6 months,just occasional stares,now I'm frigging sick,im going to grovel to her tomorrow....I'll update you all.
Great advice bro..thanks
I learned this shit in the 6th grade, you gotta be a challenge, there's no other way until she's totally invested in you.
You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman!!
Cool so you said "play her at her own game", wicked idea!, cool I'll ignore her back and see if it works. & "mirror her personality" great I'll walk around like my S#*t don't stink & apply tunnel vision every time I walk past a female trying my best to ignore them. Great advice
for people who keep saying "what happen to being honest, why play games etc, blah , blah. listen these techniques are counter techniques, game recognize game, Point is the female you approach knowingly or unknowingly is going to play some type of game, YOU honest guy need to be prepared with COUNTER GAME! in order to survive or at least compete.
lol the face he puts when she says 'five to six dates of getting to know her' lol
Thanks for the videos. I learned a lot from trippadvice, although I'm a Chinese guy. It's just awesome!
Any relationship that requires this many rules just to have attraction...fuhgettaboutit. I'll just do me, and you do you!
Well 😃....Here in Egypt Girls Already Chase Boys Without Any Of These Tips 😂😂
being a good listener makes you best friend. i'm best friend for 7 years now because i always listen and i don't want to be a dick. in 7 years i have never had a date but only friendly hanging. i feel so stupid about it. woman chasing me? when i win the lotery maybe
WEAK. This sh** will get you in the friend zone even faster. Do not put the pu**y on a pedestool. Be nice in a brotherly way but challenge and command******. For most of you the best way is to be a lot more selfish and self amuse. You are overly nice already. They already know how the story ends w/ you. THE BEST WAY TO GET SOMEONE'S ATTENTION IS TO NO LONGER WANT IT**** Push PULL. To much info. If you are being a puss I'll try but I have very limited time. Stay out of the frigin friend zone by not being so frigin friendly!
jpaulglobal Hard to get? Push Pull?this is hard if not impossible for an ugly guy to do as they are less wanted. This only applies to good looking guys. A butt ugly guy playing hard to get? lmao
How to know if you're in the friend zone: Her first words are "What's up kid?!"
Thanks for clarifying the difference between the "short term" vs the "long term." I'm glad to hear I can apply my memory to at least one of the two types without creeping her out, AND I don't have to worry about letting my niceness show. Being a dick to me only feels natural when somebody deserves it. Being told to fake who you are just to find a girl is getting kinda old and tiring. All I want is one good quality long term....ummmm, I think....
One thing for sure, she made me chase some of her lines
great video helped a lot
How you guys have so many thumbs up is beyond me....
That microphone on the girl is tinny but powerful... like it ;-)
Play her at her own game? But what if.....
I WANT TO PLAY A GAME!
Tip number one. Workout 3-4 times a week. AND SHOWER EVERYDAY. Get a job or go to school...is kind of helpful too.
So basically, jump through a bunch of hoops that she placed in your way and the prize is... not worth all the jumping through hoops for. People forget that females are human beings and are not worth all this effort. She eventually stinks; she shits, farts, goes through mood swings and is generally not the princess she makes herself out to be. Do not, for your own sake, play her game at all. Youre the man, and the dating game has seemed to forget that we as men are also expected to take care of these females forever, which isnt a problem as long as Im not expected to the submissive energy. Women should be the ones who are trying to convince men to like them, not the other way around. Otherwise, it simply does not work.
best comment on youtube . so true. thanks for knocking some sense into my head. all these tips,tricks,advice are fucking me up making it seem like rocket science.
Francois has incredibly beautiful skin which is always a massive turn on as it demonstrates excellent physical health. Unfortunately, It's quite rare to encounter such a strikingly healthy looking American woman these days...
Any tips you could give for people in High School? Might be ok to target another audience for once.
My Crush never talks to me, I always talk to her.... I'm starting to see her liking my best friend, I don't know what to do but she's in every one of my classes
+Quinnster 1125 try taking a step back and in the classes you have to gather don't sit near her she'll wonder whats going on, act like you've lost interest
I agree be yourself, works for me