Honestly, I think this is absolutely brilliant. It’s also really nice to hear this coming from an “average” couple, and not one where one or both are trans or questioning their gender (seemingly, at least).
People are saying 'the mother must have wanted a girl, that's why she's doing this'... did you not watch the video? The sons make a conscious decision to dress however _they_ please, it's great that she's letting them be themselves instead of forcing them to dress or act a way that they don't want to.
u just earned a like i respect you boys and girls SHOULD have equal rights cause its 2018 now. still everyone doesnt care ik u wont reply but if u see this ur a good man.
EricLehner so glad you said it!!!! They aren't making the choice to please themselves, they are doing it to please their parents. Key is that they are embarrassed to dress so outside the home.
I don't see anything wrong with this...this doesn't make you gay..when I was a young girl I used to want to have short hair like my brother and wear football gear like him as well so my mom cut my hair like a boy and I wore football gear and played with my brother and father, obviously I grew out of it and I turned out fine I'm not gay nor has it affected me at all...
Andddd there the the person who thinks breaking out of gender roles is a bad thing. Listen dude, you can clearly see the kids being HAPPY and ENJOYING themselves! If these were little girls you wouldn't be saying anything! So there is no abuse, just your narrow mind.
No theyre not,they introduced them to dresses and dressed them up like that as babies and it stuck with them. They didn't see a dress and said "I want that"
I think the idea is that "raising them as the gender they were born" doesn't need to include the idea of labeling pieces of fabric. Whether something is sewn together at the legs or open at the legs has nothing to do with someone's masculinity or femininity - it's all just cultural stuff we made up. There's nothing wrong with showing your kid what options they have for toys or clothing, and letting them make their own identity. Often times, I'll bet the kid will pick a mix of both in different ways. But that doesn't make them any less of the gender they were born. Pink or blue, skirt or shorts, it has nothing to do with being a boy or a girl in the grand scheme of things, and it's ridiculous that such a thing is part of our culture to begin with. It's such a pointless shallow thing to care about.
I personally give zero shits what anybody-little kids especially-wear or do. Why should I care if the fabric strips a body is wrapped in are shaped specific ways?
Well said! If some chunks of fabric makes people happy, it doesn't matter what other people think (with the exception of vulgar or offensive words/images (well, in places there's a dress code at least)).
Im so embarrassed , my mother really told me that i had to go change my little brothers slime because it was pink😑 literally freaking pinkkk! I was in utter shock .
I was raised this way and it was amazing. My brothet would wear my tiara and princess shoes and I would wear overalls. We didn't care about any stereotypical girl or boy stuff. We were just kids having fun.
Capitan Awesome I turned out to be a pansexual transman and my brother turned out to be a straight dude. Idk about my sister yet, since she is 7. It doesnt matter much anyways, since children dont learn negative behavior about gender expression from their own innocent minds.
Danny Bailey I and my sister were raised this way. My dad would let me and my sister wear whatever we wanted (back when clothes were actually suitable for kids and no ten year old thots because I was born in 2004) and he honestly didn't care what me and my sister played with in terms of toys. He didn't care if it were Barbie dolls or cars, neither did he care if we played video games like Ratchet and Clank, Lego Star Wars or Bratz: Forever Diamonds. As of today, because of my background, I just turned out to be genderfluid and demisexual panromantic. Honestly, I'm happy that my dad let me be free in clothes and stylistic choices compared to anyone else.
I don't understand why people are so against this. The parents are not forcing the boys to wear dresses and be stereotypically "girly" they are just letting them wear what they want
it's because these kids will eventually grow up to be men. We need strong men who know how to conduct themselves in society and not be confused as to what is right. act like a man
Brian S I just don't believe gender is black and white. I don't think that men need to have this extremely masculine show on all time. And most importantly I don't think that this should be an issue in society at all.
It is true no one blinks an eye if a girl plays with toy cars our run around outside or play in the creek or woods. I am sorry but dresses and girl toys do not determine what you are or will grow to like sexually.
Its really all up to u, If U express to your parents that u want to wear a dress and tell them how much, they will come around and let you wear one. And first just around the house so as to not get bully-ed. And if not just wear one and let them see you and keep putting one on everyday no matter how much they say not to,
as a young boy my parents let me wear little dresses around the house and gradually became more femm for 5th grade holoween i was tinkerbell my aunt would also help me do makeup and would let me wear her stockings and pantyhose with big wedge sandals totally supportive of my femm desires as a boy
well i'm almost an adult (18 where i live) so i don't have to worry about punishment but i'm still stuck in this house and could be kicked out. i do dress up at school however people are sometimes rude about it but ignore them all and have become "invulnerable" to it in a sense i mean it does tick me off still but i know there's nothing wrong with being myself so. but ill be hopefully getting a job and leaving this house to go be myself and be happy in life for once.
You have to ease your parents into it a little at a time. Wear something a girl wears, style your hair like a girls, Paint your nails a light or neutral color. Then let them see as much as you can with something girlie on. Thars what a friend of mi
It's hypocritical that people think that when girls wear boy clothes and play with toys targeted for boys, it's alright and kind of cute. But when a boy does it, it's gay and shameful. That's sexist. The parents of these boys are saying that she's giving them the opportunity to be who they want. Nothing wrong with that. Honestly everything you do in the world is going to give you hate and someone is going to talk about you. So she's not setting them up to be bullied. People need to teach their kids the difference between right and wrong. So that's not her doing of setting them up to be bullied, it's the other children's parents that need to be an adult and not teach their children to be rude.
But a couple of hundred years ago, girls wearing masculine clothing and engaging in masculine activities wasn't "normal" in society. Society's not static - it evolves, usually by rebellious activities becoming more mainstream.
+tRigs15: Ohhh, THAT's Right: No one's EVER Heard of ANYONE...ANYWHERE...being bullied, etc, for ANYthing, OTHER than 'wee-lads-in-frocks'...IN'nit?!?!? Do CONSIDER Entering into reality, Ducks...!!!
@@tRigs15 setting kids up to be bullied and made fun off? Um Dude people make fun of you and bully you no matter what they do.... People get bullied for girls liking boys toy or boys liking girls toys..... teen pregnancy, braces, name choice, glasses, hair colour, skin colour etc. Just let kids be who they want to.
i really disagree with this, at least partially. I mean if they let them do this in public then they are a horrible parents. the kids would surely be bullied.
They aren't forcing the children to be like this so it's fine and the children are choosing to be this way so I'm fine with it . Rather my boy wear a dress then jake Paul merch.
@@nikap5628 - If my husband wanted to wear a dress, I'd be fine with it. Why wouldn't I be? It's an article of clothing. As long as it covers all "private parts" it's fine. I genuinely don't understand why it would be a problem? I wear mens tailored shorts and buttons downs, and look hella fly. I get compliments CONSTANYLY, way more than when I wear dresses. Why would I have a problem if he wanted to wear a dress? I support my husband in any choice he makes as long as it's not detrimental to him or anyone else. What piece of cloth he puts on his body isn't detrimental to anyone, so what's the issue?
@@nikap5628 it's not hurting anyone. It's self-expression. Why do you have such a problem with it? I'm genuinely trying to understand. I'm a parent, my oldest is almost 11 and my youngest is 4, both boys. My 4 year old has blue highlights in his blonde hair, and silver toenails at the moment. He's very much "boy", but I allow him to express himself however he wants. He's got his own feelings, wants, ect. Who am I to cramp his style as long as he's not hurting anyone or doing anything permanent... What is your aversion to men/boys doing/wearing "girl" things? Traditionally MOST "girl" things were meant for boys. Who/what does it hurt? Why shouldn't men/boys wear "girl" things? Again I'm genuinely trying to understand, not argue, or try to push my beliefs on others. I simply don't understand why it's such a big deal....
But people who are against the sort of things like in this video are in fact bigoted and homophobic and such. The Alt-Right should start being honest with themselves and with the rest of the world. I don't get their flip-flop behavior... They actively go out of their way to be terrible, uncaring people; then get upset when everyone else calls out on their mean-spirited, oppressive actions. The Alt-Right should stop being cowardly and instead be self-aware of their prejudice nature. Own up to it and be open about it.
+milo lugo your saying that they probably feel "pressured to do it" other families that don't do this with their children tell their kids "pink is for girls l, you can't play with dolls, princesses are for girls, ect." don't you think that those kids feel pressured to only like "boy" things
+milo lugo the problem is to call things "girl" things. Society chose to categorize objects as girl things and boy things. Also, these boys don't seem to be pressurized. They seem happy. There shouldn't be girl or boy toys, clothes or colour. It's just stupid that we have to be what our gender is supposed to be because society decided. I'm a woman and I'm fine with it, but I like "boy" stuff and I don't like to shave but I do so no one judges me on the street. It's stupid.
this isn't great parenting. What's the plan when these boys hit puberty? what will their parents say when they ask why in the hell they went along with this? not to mention, have it shown on the Internet? do any of you progressive parents think about any of that?
Although I'm a female and still like feminine things, as a child I liked to watch superheroes like Teen Titans, dress up as Robin and Dick Grayson, play with cars and toys, and watch Kim Possible and read DC Comics. See? Nothing is really meant for a specific gender. These are 'boy things' and still enjoy them. Even dresses can feel glamorous to males. Who doesn't want to feel like a million bucks? ;D
Girls can wear pants, shorts, etc., and people don’t make a big deal of it. But when a boy wears a dress, skirt, or anything stereotypically to a girl, people make a big deal over it? We are all humans and somehow it has become our nature to categorize certain things with certain genders? The world isn’t perfect and will never be, but I’m glad to see improvements are being made. 💕
I don't understand why this is even having a discussion because it's so fucking obvious! It's not controversial, it's simply letting their kids decide what clothes to wear!!! And no it's not because the mother "wanted a girl", she lets her sons wear dresses because they want to wear dresses! Great parenting!
This is the way forward. Why should we impose social constructs that we created of gender on kids? Let them enjoy what they enjoy, as long as it's safe and helps them grow.
social constructs are a necessity based on genetic differences in male and female to further mankind and improve survival. i.e no girls will want to fuck these boys when they grow up because they won't have any masculine drive and seen as undesirable in the natural female instinct meaning their chances at reproduction and furthering genes, a natural male instinct, will be impaired.
wertrocks123 So a guy can't be attracted to a girl with short hair who wears jeans? Bullshit. You are attracted to the person, not the clothes or even the hair style. Unless you have a fetish.
It's nice to see the parents not telling them their trans just because they like stereotypically girl things. Boys can wear dresses, makeup, and do girly things to!
I sort of agree, but do not believe that the majority of cases of trans kids are driven by the parents. I have never heard of a case of parents forcing their child to think they are trans, mainly because the amount of effort it actually takes to go through the process of transitioning (even just socially, not biologically) is much, much more than people assume. Yes it is important to recognise gender expression is different from gender identity, but we still need to recognise people's gender identities.
most of the time parents treat their kinds according to their sex and even them people turn out to be trans so being trans has nothing to do with how you were raised, but your self expression does
"After I stopped laughing…". It wasn't just the words she said, it was her delivery and the look on her face. Classic. And you know what, good for them for letting their kids figure out who they are on their own with the love and support of what seems to be very stable and smart parents. The boys may end up growing out of liking dresses and growing into liking different costumes. I commend the boys parents for thinking little bit outside the box and making sure the kids are happy and healthy. Those of you who think that what they're doing is wrong probably think that because of The way society as a whole has affected you - all of us, and still plays a role in our every day lives.
i think this is great! a common opposing argument to this is "well i wouldnt raise my kids like this bc they will get bullied," but the truth of the matter is that theres nothing wrong with a boy wearing a dress-- theres only something wrong with how boys wearing dresses are received by others. we need to raise nonjudgmental people bc the real issue is bullies, not a boy wearing dresses or a girl playing with cars :)
+JohnEgbertEctoBiologist hello it appears as though i've found a homestuck you have the same thoughts on gender-neutral matters as i do which is also hella cool
Pennywise The Dancing Clown dilution? These kids are so happy and confident, the only times that was corrupted was when they went out into public and encountered people like you.
Pennywise The Dancing Clown The kids aren't forced to being dressed in dresses. Nobody bats an eye when a little girl wants to act like a boy we call them "tomboys" but if boys do it it's "OMG UR GONNA TURN EM GEEEAAAY THEY'RE GONNA BE CRAZUYY".
Please read up on gender equality before you start making such objectionable comments. Why should the man's name be taken anyway? It's a personal choice. This is why feminism is most certainly not dead.
+Olivia Wilton ....then when two double barrel names get married ....4 names..then 8 - -16 its not only tradition but avoids the need of a drivers license big enough for 128 last names. but hay NO ONE is forcing you to use your last name. good luck finding a 'man'
If my son wants to wear a dress, I really wouldn't care. If my daughter wants to be superman, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't force my kid to try and act like the other gender. Kids like what they like, who cares.
I don't know why this is downvoted so much. If little girls can play with boy toys and dress in stereotypically boy costumes, why can't the same go for little boys playing with stereotypically girly stuff? As long as the boys aren't being pressured or discouraged by the parents to do something they don't want to do I see no problem with this.
I completely agree with this. If this is what the child wants to play with then why should you stop them? Just because they were dressed in dresses and playing with girls toys doesn't mean it's wrong. Doesn't mean that the child will change their sexuality or anything, as the mother stated very clearly, "Sexuality is based on genetics and not the environment". I applaud this family for providing their children with freedom and not restricting them to one half of Toys R Us because it's pink or it has a princess on it.
why are people so pressed about little boys wearing dresses like it doesn't affect you at all and the parents obviously aren't forcing them into anything so just live your life yeah
Why does society have to pull other boys back from wearing what they want? This is supposed to be a free country not a country where people raise their kids to bully other kids on what they wear 😐
You think it's wrong parenting just because it's not common. First of all, not the majority =/= wrong, and second of all, boys used to wear dresses. When did we stop letting boys wear dresses? If you think it's so weird for parents to allow their boys to wear dresses, then surely it must have been weird when some parents first decided their boys SHOULDN'T wear dresses, yes? Times change, what's normal changes. You're just out-dated.
+Iggy-chan that is a toy that both boys and girls play with. if you were smart you could see on some of the lego boxes that are on sale at stores,, some have girls on them.
This kind of thing is quite common and fairly normal in my country (Japan). I mean the kids have the right to choose however they want dress or do their hairs. It's not hurting you or anybody else. Well...unless you are a homophobic and sexist bigot from Russia still living according to the fascist and patriarchal tradition from the 1940's. Just saying.
I'm a hetero man who lives alone. I find wearing skirts very comfortable and own at least 10 of them. I wear them alone at home because if go outside that way, everybody would see me as weird thing and I would depressed.
@@rogersbonettmb Don't let others get you down if you want to wear a skirt then wear one people who judge others for it are the ones who have problems... I see nothing wrong with it.
This is amazing! Kids shouldn’t have labels forced on them and should be able to do whatever they want (as long it’s you know, safe). These parents are doing great!!
Loriayle in the "newest first" section. I just saw a comment saying that "boys shouldn't wear dresses make up or nails, because it will make them tumblr SJW cringe"
Wait wait He has a point, I they can dress as pirates, murdering and plundering places and as other real life bad guys then why not Isis militants. Can someone tell me then why a pirate costume is ok but not an Isis costume, they both kill, steal and destroy with no remorse.
Sebastian Restrepo Brain washed? sorry to inform you that YOU are the one who is brainwashed. The society and their stereotypes brainwashed you. EVERYTHING IS GENDERNEUTRAL. That means that anyone can do anything if it doesn't hurt someone else
Im so tired of all the comments saying "They'll be bullied! They'll be laughed at!" Maybe instead of putting the fault on the kid, how about holding bullies responsible and to teach kids to be respectful and kind
+vasyan People like you are what's wrong with the world. They're literally just letting them wear dresses, they aren't encouraging them to have sex with other guys. My god get a grip.
+vasyan it's not that. it's letting them the oportunity to grow up normal and happy, and to be free, and to feel special and to be whatever they want. it's actually what they need. it's way better than hating your child just because they want something else rather than what you wanted. You anD I, will never understand completely bc it's their-fucking-life.
+THEADMIN my fetish???im just happy that some people aren't locked in a small mind box and allow their kids to be whatever they want but no i guess ur daddy had a whip over you so you wouldn't wear pink or maybe not be a mean ass bully
+XOXDomagoj It's not amazing, It's disgusting. This idea was put forward by a sociologist named John Money, it has horrific consequences. Children should be guided until there old enough to make their own decisions. Experimenting on kids is evil.
I don't plan on raising my kids gender neutral. But if my son wants to dress as a princess then so be it. Why would I, or anyone else, be telling him what he likes? It makes no sense.
As long as they’re *LETTING* the boys play with them. That is a very, very key word. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with boys playing dress up if they’re *CHOOSING* to do so.
Why would people have a problem with this? These children are happy and a child's happiness is important. They should enjoy their childhood instead of having their true feelings suppressed because of societal standards.
+vortex gamez14 says the person who literally can't even spell idiots. Honestly, I think it's great what these parents are doing. If you don't, that's fine, but really that comment makes no sense whatsoever. How the hell would boys wearing what they want instead of what society pushes on them lead to extinction of the human race?
If my son is happy wearing a skirt, I'm happy too. I'd like my kids to be happy and not forced. I want my kids to feel accepted. If my son wants to wear skirts, I'll go shopping with him so he chooses skirts he likes. ❤️❤️❤️🥺
This is so cool since as an effeminant man myself I was limited alot with what I could play with as a boy and I was really confused back then. I think it's important for effeminant boys to be themselves so they can enjoy their childhood to the fullest and also not be confused and be happy with who they are.
vortex gamez14 You have a wrong idea you portray all men as masculine and all females as feminine? Feminity and masculinity are part of the personality. Not sure if you even let your boys cry.
I'm reminded of myself really. when I was the boy's age, I was always into boy stuff and I'm a female. I've always been, preferring short hair, marvel, DC, comics, bassically little boy stuff. Mom and dad allowed it so it was Gender Neutral parenting definitely. I still don't feel like I identify as a female still much meh, I'm happier like this then what I was born with. Tops to those two wonder and rather adorable little boys.
Asto I think they weren't offended but said that in defense. Also, there is a thing called Gender identification, mate. I've been identified as a guy even though I learned to except that I was born a girl. So yeah.
+Duck Dude If they get bullied, isnt for let them play with whatever they like, is the others child's parents fault, for the sexist and no respect education...
+Chikaru Wynn naw its for the them dressing like that, kids can be more cold and mean then you can ever imagine and setting them up for something like that is one of the cruelest things you could do
+Chikaru Wynn You're mostly wrong, but even if the bully is a product of bad parenting, that doesn't make it any less of a problem. These kids ARE going to get bullied. Studies show that peer-to-peer bullying has a far higher chance of causing anxiety related disorders than even parental abuse/neglect at home.
I'm a girl, and as a child my little brother and I would always swap our toys and costumes. It seems perfectly natural to (to me at least) to let your child play with whatever toys they want to no matter their gender. Sure we both had a preference for our own toys, but I liked playing with his toy cars and action figures as much as he liked playing dress up in my princess dresses. I applaud their parents.
I wish my mom was like this she wouldn’t allow me to wear a shirt because the sleeves were to long and that was considered “boyish” I’m just glad my dad would let me
I was raised like this and for the most part I did typically feminine stuff but for a while I shopped in boys sections etc. and knowing my parents didn’t care helped me a lot. I grew out of it but I would probably be a lot less secure in myself if I wasn’t aloud to change my tastes
I wish clothes would be gender neutral like why are people so against of Boys wearing dress it's not that big deal and let them feel free for who they really are people should stop being against it.
I’m a cis female, but my brother and I were just like this as kids. When people bought me girl stuff and him boy stuff we just mixed it and played together. I vaguely remember him shooting me with a Nerf gun while in a dress 😂😂 Kids are kids. Their imaginations are beautiful, and it’s the job of their parents and teachers to foster their creativity regardless of their gender 💕
My son wears dresses sometimes and has preferred the color pink sence he was 6 months old. I let him choose his clothes and toys. He is high iq and helps the special needs child in his class. He's an amazing kid. Why dose anyone care what he wears if he's a good child? And my brother wore my dresses as a kid and he thinks the videos are funny and is married and had a beautiful newborn daughter with his model wife joy. It's about letting kids be kids and not limiting them to gender. They play with what's fun not just boy toys or girl toys
+N Volpe Maybe if parents socialised children correctly to accept and understand each other's differences (much like this gender neutral parenting) bullying would be less of a problem.
+MrDuck Because of social constructs. Clothing has no gender. Society could have said that apples are for boys and oranges are for girls. If that were the case, you'd be arguing against boys eating oranges? It's pointless, stupid and closed minded. If a boy wants to wear a dress, so be it. If a girl wants to wear a "boy's" jumper so be it.
Clothes are clothes. Toys are toys. Playing with one or the other doesn't determine your sex, gender identity, or sexual orientation. Trucks don't make you a straight, hard-working stereotype of a man, and dolls don't make you into a delicate, docile stereotype of a woman. To those who can't understand that, I feel pity.
I ran around my house naked until I was 3, I think they'll do fine
I made a lasagna naked when I was little
y'all are pretty dank.
but yeah they're just having fun and will grow out of it. I was a tomboy for most of my childhood now I'm in the middle of tomboy and girly.
That’s what my little sister does
Kyle John
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True.
Honestly, I think this is absolutely brilliant. It’s also really nice to hear this coming from an “average” couple, and not one where one or both are trans or questioning their gender (seemingly, at least).
Kovu is a unicorn ..!? Kovu? is that *the* unicorn child!?
Kovu!!!
Yes, I totally agree, these parents are amazing!
Ps, I love your videos
KOVU
Kovu is a unicorn yess
"if they were girls and wanted to wear trousers and play with cars, no one would blink an eye."
Yes they would
And any good parent should stop girls from playing with cars
Dolls for girls
Cars for boys
Deal with it
@@anpleidhceeireannach9498 Why?
@@yeehaw861 LOL "why?"
@@anpleidhceeireannach9498 please explain why "dolls are for girls and cars are for boys"
@@yeehaw861 LOL
You need someone to explain that to you LOL
Let the kids be kids. It won't affect their sexuality.
People are saying 'the mother must have wanted a girl, that's why she's doing this'... did you not watch the video? The sons make a conscious decision to dress however _they_ please, it's great that she's letting them be themselves instead of forcing them to dress or act a way that they don't want to.
u just earned a like i respect you boys and girls SHOULD have equal rights cause its 2018 now. still everyone doesnt care ik u wont reply but if u see this ur a good man.
Rabbi Foreskinstein No. It is not.
The boys are reflecting their mother’s ambition to experiment. The father is a wimp to tolerate/encourage this.
EricLehner so glad you said it!!!! They aren't making the choice to please themselves, they are doing it to please their parents. Key is that they are embarrassed to dress so outside the home.
George Braithwaite Yeah kids should whatever they want but I'm but allowed to have my opinion on it.
I don't see anything wrong with this...this doesn't make you gay..when I was a young girl I used to want to have short hair like my brother and wear football gear like him as well so my mom cut my hair like a boy and I wore football gear and played with my brother and father, obviously I grew out of it and I turned out fine I'm not gay nor has it affected me at all...
almost every little goes to that stage if they have an older brother its natural just till around the ages of 8-11
There's nothing wrong with being gay either
Chode Master how so
Carly Kennedy Are you homophobic? You said "I turned out fine", so being gay is not fine?
Chode Master Eh no? How?
These parents are raising their children CORRECTLY.
So many parents NEED to take a leaf from their book.
Andddd there the the person who thinks breaking out of gender roles is a bad thing. Listen dude, you can clearly see the kids being HAPPY and ENJOYING themselves! If these were little girls you wouldn't be saying anything! So there is no abuse, just your narrow mind.
No theyre not,they introduced them to dresses and dressed them up like that as babies and it stuck with them. They didn't see a dress and said "I want that"
Zurisaday Prado i saw sonic and i wanted to collect everything about him and i’m a girl 🤷🏽♀️
jasmine render,even though I dont care,same though 😂😂
I think the idea is that "raising them as the gender they were born" doesn't need to include the idea of labeling pieces of fabric. Whether something is sewn together at the legs or open at the legs has nothing to do with someone's masculinity or femininity - it's all just cultural stuff we made up. There's nothing wrong with showing your kid what options they have for toys or clothing, and letting them make their own identity. Often times, I'll bet the kid will pick a mix of both in different ways. But that doesn't make them any less of the gender they were born. Pink or blue, skirt or shorts, it has nothing to do with being a boy or a girl in the grand scheme of things, and it's ridiculous that such a thing is part of our culture to begin with. It's such a pointless shallow thing to care about.
I personally give zero shits what anybody-little kids especially-wear or do. Why should I care if the fabric strips a body is wrapped in are shaped specific ways?
yay! Huffelpuff!
Well said! If some chunks of fabric makes people happy, it doesn't matter what other people think (with the exception of vulgar or offensive words/images (well, in places there's a dress code at least)).
Look at how happy they are! They’re having so much fun and not hurting anyone.
Rhiannon exactlyy
Rhiannon spreading these cancerous ideas on RUclips will hurt the entire next generation of children
All I see is love and open-mindedness. You're the cancerous one here.
Minister Almec she's commented a nice comment what are u talking about?
Minister Almec The only reason people believe it's bad is because people like you are spreading hate towards it. There isn't anything wrong with it.
Im so embarrassed , my mother really told me that i had to go change my little brothers slime because it was pink😑 literally freaking pinkkk! I was in utter shock .
Ew, through the mum away
That is not ok to do.... If you brother wants pink slime then he can have pink slime nothing wrong with it.
@@notanymoreahahha9604 throw but yeah
How dare those parents! I would never let my kid ride a scooter without a helmet.
2:43 for anyone wondering
he was so fast lol
1:22 "as long as it's safe"
😂😂😂 love it
Smilefied omg lol
If a girl wears a pirate costume... everyone thinks it's cute but when a boy wears a princess costume... everyone thinks it weird
I mean seriously
Roblox funtimeyt it is,because dresses weren't labelled to both genders
@@celebritytakeover69 Well, for ur information dresses and skirts were designed to be for men, but women started using them. 😊
@@celebritytakeover69 All sorts of historical figures (MALE!) wore dresses, kilts and skirts. These "female" fashions weren't always "female".
@@oreo6769 scotish lads
@@cheese6899 not only scottish tho, many cultures still have men wear some type of skirt like clothing
I was raised this way and it was amazing. My brothet would wear my tiara and princess shoes and I would wear overalls. We didn't care about any stereotypical girl or boy stuff. We were just kids having fun.
Capitan Awesome I turned out to be a pansexual transman and my brother turned out to be a straight dude. Idk about my sister yet, since she is 7. It doesnt matter much anyways, since children dont learn negative behavior about gender expression from their own innocent minds.
@Matthew Blome ???
@Matthew Blome No, we weren't forced to be anything. We were just normal kids.
Danny Bailey I and my sister were raised this way. My dad would let me and my sister wear whatever we wanted (back when clothes were actually suitable for kids and no ten year old thots because I was born in 2004) and he honestly didn't care what me and my sister played with in terms of toys. He didn't care if it were Barbie dolls or cars, neither did he care if we played video games like Ratchet and Clank, Lego Star Wars or Bratz: Forever Diamonds. As of today, because of my background, I just turned out to be genderfluid and demisexual panromantic. Honestly, I'm happy that my dad let me be free in clothes and stylistic choices compared to anyone else.
luna yuzuki why would you call 10 year old children thots ¿¿¿¿
I don't understand why people are so against this. The parents are not forcing the boys to wear dresses and be stereotypically "girly" they are just letting them wear what they want
it's because these kids will eventually grow up to be men. We need strong men who know how to conduct themselves in society and not be confused as to what is right. act like a man
Brian S I just don't believe gender is black and white. I don't think that men need to have this extremely masculine show on all time. And most importantly I don't think that this should be an issue in society at all.
Blair Hinckle :)
well said
Blair Hinckle black and white? i don't know what you mean by that.
It is true no one blinks an eye if a girl plays with toy cars our run around outside or play in the creek or woods. I am sorry but dresses and girl toys do not determine what you are or will grow to like sexually.
Juan Johnson what are you sorry about? You are completely right
Ya
Ik
wish my parents would be this open with my dressing up and allow me to express my self as much as these nice parents have
Its really all up to u, If U express to your parents that u want to wear a dress and tell them how much, they will come around and let you wear one. And first just around the house so as to not get bully-ed. And if not just wear one and let them see you and keep putting one on everyday no matter how much they say not to,
as a young boy my parents let me wear little dresses around the house and gradually became more femm for 5th grade holoween i was tinkerbell my aunt would also help me do makeup and would let me wear her stockings and pantyhose with big wedge sandals totally supportive of my femm desires as a boy
Every boy should have the option to wear what ever he wants and be himself.
well i'm almost an adult (18 where i live) so i don't have to worry about punishment but i'm still stuck in this house and could be kicked out. i do dress up at school however people are sometimes rude about it but ignore them all and have become "invulnerable" to it in a sense i mean it does tick me off still but i know there's nothing wrong with being myself so. but ill be hopefully getting a job and leaving this house to go be myself and be happy in life for once.
You have to ease your parents into it a little at a time. Wear something a girl wears, style your hair like a girls, Paint your nails a light or neutral color. Then let them see as much as you can with something girlie on. Thars what a friend of mi
Elsa with a nerf gun.. I’m living for it
@Unicorn_ Fire 😂
Yeee
Lmao, they got a good imagination right there 😂😂
And with the lightsabers
I remember one time me and my sister wrestled in Anna and Elsa dresses
It's hypocritical that people think that when girls wear boy clothes and play with toys targeted for boys, it's alright and kind of cute. But when a boy does it, it's gay and shameful. That's sexist. The parents of these boys are saying that she's giving them the opportunity to be who they want. Nothing wrong with that. Honestly everything you do in the world is going to give you hate and someone is going to talk about you. So she's not setting them up to be bullied. People need to teach their kids the difference between right and wrong. So that's not her doing of setting them up to be bullied, it's the other children's parents that need to be an adult and not teach their children to be rude.
But a couple of hundred years ago, girls wearing masculine clothing and engaging in masculine activities wasn't "normal" in society. Society's not static - it evolves, usually by rebellious activities becoming more mainstream.
+tRigs15: Ohhh, THAT's Right: No one's EVER Heard of ANYONE...ANYWHERE...being bullied, etc, for ANYthing, OTHER than 'wee-lads-in-frocks'...IN'nit?!?!? Do CONSIDER Entering into reality, Ducks...!!!
@@tRigs15 setting kids up to be bullied and made fun off? Um Dude people make fun of you and bully you no matter what they do.... People get bullied for girls liking boys toy or boys liking girls toys..... teen pregnancy, braces, name choice, glasses, hair colour, skin colour etc. Just let kids be who they want to.
My cousin wore a princess dress for two years when he was younger, now he is a footballer. Whatever will be will be ya know?
People will call me a “tomboy” or I act like a boy, but I also enjoy dolls. Barbie dolls, Bratz dolls, American girl dolls, LOL dolls, OG dolls, etc.
TRULY SHOCKING PARENTING
HOW COULD YOU LET THEM WEAR ODD SOCKS. SHAMEFUL.
XD
horrifying
I know shocking!!!
+Happyman1773 Odd socks? What are you talking about? He's got another pair just like them!
😂😂😂
Unlike the others in the comment section, I agree with letting children have free reign on clothing and toys.
Agreed
So, basically don't parent them?
+Captain Beefheart being a parent doesn't mean you control everything. you have to let a kid explore what they want.
Kindly fuck off, you neo nazi little shit
i really disagree with this, at least partially. I mean if they let them do this in public then they are a horrible parents. the kids would surely be bullied.
They aren't forcing the children to be like this so it's fine and the children are choosing to be this way so I'm fine with it . Rather my boy wear a dress then jake Paul merch.
Lmao huge burn on Jake Paul's part
So your okay with your husband wearing a dress to...
@@nikap5628 - If my husband wanted to wear a dress, I'd be fine with it. Why wouldn't I be? It's an article of clothing. As long as it covers all "private parts" it's fine. I genuinely don't understand why it would be a problem? I wear mens tailored shorts and buttons downs, and look hella fly. I get compliments CONSTANYLY, way more than when I wear dresses. Why would I have a problem if he wanted to wear a dress? I support my husband in any choice he makes as long as it's not detrimental to him or anyone else. What piece of cloth he puts on his body isn't detrimental to anyone, so what's the issue?
Well I'm not okay with my husband or my son wearing a dress..
Parents shouldn't allow their children to do or wear whatever they want..
@@nikap5628 it's not hurting anyone. It's self-expression. Why do you have such a problem with it? I'm genuinely trying to understand. I'm a parent, my oldest is almost 11 and my youngest is 4, both boys. My 4 year old has blue highlights in his blonde hair, and silver toenails at the moment. He's very much "boy", but I allow him to express himself however he wants. He's got his own feelings, wants, ect. Who am I to cramp his style as long as he's not hurting anyone or doing anything permanent... What is your aversion to men/boys doing/wearing "girl" things? Traditionally MOST "girl" things were meant for boys. Who/what does it hurt? Why shouldn't men/boys wear "girl" things? Again I'm genuinely trying to understand, not argue, or try to push my beliefs on others. I simply don't understand why it's such a big deal....
I believe that the world would be so much better without all the gender stereotypes
Souhail Naji you are sertanly right band the gender stereotypes
Ætlas I'm interested in finding out why you think that's the case. Why?
that it the boy become a princess
Souhail Naji k
Souhail Naji ikr
87% = Why r ppl so triggered??
22% = I love these parentsss
1% = Actual hate
em......87+22+1=110%...
Judging by the number of dislikes, it's way more than a mere 1% of people who are hateful and bigoted.
But people who are against the sort of things like in this video are in fact bigoted and homophobic and such. The Alt-Right should start being honest with themselves and with the rest of the world.
I don't get their flip-flop behavior... They actively go out of their way to be terrible, uncaring people; then get upset when everyone else calls out on their mean-spirited, oppressive actions.
The Alt-Right should stop being cowardly and instead be self-aware of their prejudice nature. Own up to it and be open about it.
JanetFunkYeah it's just their opinion..
Now if only it added up to 100% 🤔🤔🤔
Yes this is beautiful. If the boys like it then why not let them wear dresses? Great parenting.
*****
If you give me some reasonable arguments against these boys wearing dresses, then maybe I'll actually listen to what you have to say.
+Super Fantastic Poplang Nah thanks, I'm good.
+milo lugo your saying that they probably feel "pressured to do it" other families that don't do this with their children tell their kids "pink is for girls l, you can't play with dolls, princesses are for girls, ect." don't you think that those kids feel pressured to only like "boy" things
+milo lugo the problem is to call things "girl" things. Society chose to categorize objects as girl things and boy things. Also, these boys don't seem to be pressurized. They seem happy. There shouldn't be girl or boy toys, clothes or colour. It's just stupid that we have to be what our gender is supposed to be because society decided. I'm a woman and I'm fine with it, but I like "boy" stuff and I don't like to shave but I do so no one judges me on the street. It's stupid.
this isn't great parenting. What's the plan when these boys hit puberty? what will their parents say when they ask why in the hell they went along with this? not to mention, have it shown on the Internet? do any of you progressive parents think about any of that?
So much idiocy in the comments makes me cringe.
xXNoOneImportantXx the transphobic comments or the supportive comments make u cringe?
miscellanimations I think supportive
Carolina Gonzalez oh....
Same
Your a Tare and I rebuke you. You are the seed of satan.
awwww. they look so happy in the dresses!
Hansel And Gretel sorry heather
Veronica open the door
Heather, Heather, Heather..
"..Veronica?"
I love the replies 😂 because of heathers the musical and movie I love my name because it's veronica and thats when I started liking my name.
Gender neutral parenting is just how you raise kids.
It's normal parenting ,really.
my mom, my brother and me were getting sunglasses and my mom didn't let him get "girls" glasses
@@crybaby_k12_portalz It's not normal but it should be normalised
Fr. I think i know how imma raise my kids.
Although I'm a female and still like feminine things, as a child I liked to watch superheroes like Teen Titans, dress up as Robin and Dick Grayson, play with cars and toys, and watch Kim Possible and read DC Comics. See? Nothing is really meant for a specific gender. These are 'boy things' and still enjoy them. Even dresses can feel glamorous to males. Who doesn't want to feel like a million bucks? ;D
I do all that too! I LOVE superheroes and cars...I think that's because I've been raised around four brothers. XD
@@NoName-vn4jh im sure there are girls who have no brothers can love the same things
Theses are the best parents ever
Yessss
So true!
Insane Mushroom r u answering to ur own comm now or wut lol
1. I totally agree with this parenting and 2. I LOVE THEIR NAMES :D
what are their names??? i didn't hear them.
Artemis Kalliope and Kai
same
Pinkz Diamondz isn’t is Caleb and kai
@@squirrel6102 yeah it can be spelled either way tho
Girls can wear pants, shorts, etc., and people don’t make a big deal of it. But when a boy wears a dress, skirt, or anything stereotypically to a girl, people make a big deal over it? We are all humans and somehow it has become our nature to categorize certain things with certain genders? The world isn’t perfect and will never be, but I’m glad to see improvements are being made. 💕
I don't understand why this is even having a discussion because it's so fucking obvious! It's not controversial, it's simply letting their kids decide what clothes to wear!!! And no it's not because the mother "wanted a girl", she lets her sons wear dresses because they want to wear dresses! Great parenting!
Amazing parents!
No, you're what's wrong with the world
+TheDragonOfPoe Well aren't you a mature person. Why would you encourage your child to harm another child? Grow up you idiot.
+Brennan ɾօաҽ I feel bad for the AIDS your gonna get.
+TheDragonOfPoe Are you a nazi?
+TheDragonOfPoe The dumb should stay off the internet
This is the way forward.
Why should we impose social constructs that we created of gender on kids?
Let them enjoy what they enjoy, as long as it's safe and helps them grow.
+Mandingo Gringo llmaooo
+Yoda on DMT No, it isn't. It's just boys dressing up. No forwardness in this at all.
+Clint “iLegits” Ethridge Im pretty sure it's impossible for a human being to grow up as a bundle of sticks.
social constructs are a necessity based on genetic differences in male and female to further mankind and improve survival. i.e no girls will want to fuck these boys when they grow up because they won't have any masculine drive and seen as undesirable in the natural female instinct meaning their chances at reproduction and furthering genes, a natural male instinct, will be impaired.
wertrocks123 So a guy can't be attracted to a girl with short hair who wears jeans? Bullshit. You are attracted to the person, not the clothes or even the hair style. Unless you have a fetish.
It's nice to see the parents not telling them their trans just because they like stereotypically girl things. Boys can wear dresses, makeup, and do girly things to!
My little cousin likes girly stuff 😅
I like this comment ☺️
No
I sort of agree, but do not believe that the majority of cases of trans kids are driven by the parents. I have never heard of a case of parents forcing their child to think they are trans, mainly because the amount of effort it actually takes to go through the process of transitioning (even just socially, not biologically) is much, much more than people assume. Yes it is important to recognise gender expression is different from gender identity, but we still need to recognise people's gender identities.
most of the time parents treat their kinds according to their sex and even them people turn out to be trans so being trans has nothing to do with how you were raised, but your self expression does
"After I stopped laughing…". It wasn't just the words she said, it was her delivery and the look on her face. Classic. And you know what, good for them for letting their kids figure out who they are on their own with the love and support of what seems to be very stable and smart parents. The boys may end up growing out of liking dresses and growing into liking different costumes. I commend the boys parents for thinking little bit outside the box and making sure the kids are happy and healthy. Those of you who think that what they're doing is wrong probably think that because of The way society as a whole has affected you - all of us, and still plays a role in our every day lives.
Why should dresses been seen as “girl thing” in the first place? Stop stereotyping everybody.
Yo, if I ever become a mum I would SO follow this to some extent at least. It's my kid's well-being that matters, not their gender or identity
Well, let's hope you never do so.
Indigo Cyanide oh im a 6 month old bobcat and my parents accept me, at the end of the day it’s only the child’s well being right?
Their kids aren’t experimenting with gender or identity though? They just like the dresses. There’s nothing wrong with that!
Can i get uhhhhhh.... MORE PARENTS LIKE THEM????
Parent machine broke.
Carson Zahhack
2 homestucks in a row damn
Boneless Pizza
Can I get uhhhhhh...LESS PARENTS PIEK THIS JESUS CHRIST
Can your parents stop reproducing people like you. :)
beautiful
+Super Fantastic Poplang Go back to leafy
NOT! in my opinion
usmcreyes40 Well guess what, no one asked for your opinion..
+AngrySchoolbag What an ignorant comment.... comment sections solicit opinions. try again.
+usmcreyes40 yes? I just said my opinion about your comment,
this video has meaning I like it
also they are so cute I want to raise my kids like this when I have some
But Your Dead Alois Trancy....
Beatrice Loves Ciel! Thats why they will be zombies
Not Spider-Ghost-Demons?
Yes that is exactly what they will be
i think this is great! a common opposing argument to this is "well i wouldnt raise my kids like this bc they will get bullied," but the truth of the matter is that theres nothing wrong with a boy wearing a dress-- theres only something wrong with how boys wearing dresses are received by others. we need to raise nonjudgmental people bc the real issue is bullies, not a boy wearing dresses or a girl playing with cars :)
+JohnEgbertEctoBiologist hello
it appears as though i've found a homestuck
you have the same thoughts on gender-neutral matters as i do which is also hella cool
JohnEgbertEctoBiologist
Homestucks appear in the most random places
Also I agree
we need more parents like this
Mimi P. No... We don't, this is absolute dilution... This is madness
Pennywise The Dancing Clown its called loving your kids no matter what they like to do/wear
Pennywise The Dancing Clown dilution? These kids are so happy and confident, the only times that was corrupted was when they went out into public and encountered people like you.
Pennywise The Dancing Clown The kids aren't forced to being dressed in dresses. Nobody bats an eye when a little girl wants to act like a boy we call them "tomboys" but if boys do it it's "OMG UR GONNA TURN EM GEEEAAAY THEY'RE GONNA BE CRAZUYY".
No we don’t. You’ll ruin your kids life when they get into a school
These parents are allowing their kids to be whoever they want to be from day to day and showing them they will love them no matter what. Amazing.
They both have the surname "Haughton-Malik"
I think I just spotted the crazy feminist.
+Indiana Gatchell See! this guy gets it. 🙏
+Dee G she's children where birthed by her, if she wants to give here children her last name she can. Whats so crazy about that
+Mildred Menjivar fucking stupid lol.
Please read up on gender equality before you start making such objectionable comments. Why should the man's name be taken anyway? It's a personal choice. This is why feminism is most certainly not dead.
+Olivia Wilton ....then when two double barrel names get married ....4 names..then 8 -
-16
its not only tradition but avoids the need of a drivers license big enough for 128 last names.
but hay NO ONE is forcing you to use your last name. good luck finding a 'man'
This is how I want to be when I have kids. I wish my parents had been like this.
Why is there so much hate? What the hell is wrong with a boy wearing a dress?!
See, this is great parenting. Letting the kids be who they want to be. Look how happy they are!! Clothes don’t have a gender!!
If my son wants to wear a dress, I really wouldn't care. If my daughter wants to be superman, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't force my kid to try and act like the other gender. Kids like what they like, who cares.
I don't know why this is downvoted so much. If little girls can play with boy toys and dress in stereotypically boy costumes, why can't the same go for little boys playing with stereotypically girly stuff? As long as the boys aren't being pressured or discouraged by the parents to do something they don't want to do I see no problem with this.
I think letting them do that is perfectly fine, as long as you aren't forcing the dress on your boys it's fine.
Stupid Fangirl it doesn’t sound like they are
I completely agree with this. If this is what the child wants to play with then why should you stop them? Just because they were dressed in dresses and playing with girls toys doesn't mean it's wrong. Doesn't mean that the child will change their sexuality or anything, as the mother stated very clearly, "Sexuality is based on genetics and not the environment". I applaud this family for providing their children with freedom and not restricting them to one half of Toys R Us because it's pink or it has a princess on it.
why are people so pressed about little boys wearing dresses like it doesn't affect you at all and the parents obviously aren't forcing them into anything so just live your life yeah
+Kathryn Hurley Because people are entitled twats that need to judge everything they know nothing about.
Why does society have to pull other boys back from wearing what they want? This is supposed to be a free country not a country where people raise their kids to bully other kids on what they wear 😐
This is parenting done right! 👏👏👏
Chris Yup
Chris nope 👎🏿 👎🏿👎🏿
You think it's wrong parenting just because it's not common. First of all, not the majority =/= wrong, and second of all, boys used to wear dresses. When did we stop letting boys wear dresses? If you think it's so weird for parents to allow their boys to wear dresses, then surely it must have been weird when some parents first decided their boys SHOULDN'T wear dresses, yes?
Times change, what's normal changes. You're just out-dated.
Alex Baldwin You idiot. They weren't "dresses". They were robes.
Chris I agree with you buddy
i played with legos and im a girl.
so what? i liked flying my lego airplanes and making them crash.
+Iggy-chan that is a toy that both boys and girls play with. if you were smart you could see on some of the lego boxes that are on sale at stores,, some have girls on them.
Scott Merlin i never played with the girl ones though. those things are weird..
true that, and yes the girl ones are weird cause they are mainly marketed towards guys, i think most time is spent on making guy lego sets but idk
i love action figures, comic books, marvel/D.C. comics superheros and star wars.
+Kathryn Cayne same and I also like video games
I hope those boys become a staple of acceptance in our society in the future.
This will never be accepted.
Chode Master just shut the hell up. If feminist could be accepted by public, why not us? Just wait and see.
Way to go pone. :3
Sorry that will never happen our society its awlays getting worst(only a fact)
Sadly that's the way of life. Even if most people accepted them there will still be negativity
This kind of thing is quite common and fairly normal in my country (Japan). I mean the kids have the right to choose however they want dress or do their hairs. It's not hurting you or anybody else. Well...unless you are a homophobic and sexist bigot from Russia still living according to the fascist and patriarchal tradition from the 1940's. Just saying.
yeah but u still make russian recipes
People are not bad in Russia. Half my family life’s there. Just cause the government is bad, doesn’t mean the people are.
People, in my opinion, should be able to live their lives freely. Not criticized by society, I want people to be happy with themselves.
I'm a hetero man who lives alone. I find wearing skirts very comfortable and own at least 10 of them. I wear them alone at home because if go outside that way, everybody would see me as weird thing and I would depressed.
@@rogersbonettmb I can see that why you're alone now lol
@@rogersbonettmb Don't let others get you down if you want to wear a skirt then wear one people who judge others for it are the ones who have problems... I see nothing wrong with it.
@@opheliajonesmccoy2909 thank you so much for answering me. I'm curious whether or not you're woman since most of women or man don't think like that.
@@rogersbonettmb I'm a female and pregnant with my first son but I let my daughters play with what they want weather it's a doll or a truck...
yeah if a little girl can dress as Darth Vader, why can't a little boy dress as Princess Leia or something?
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This is amazing! Kids shouldn’t have labels forced on them and should be able to do whatever they want (as long it’s you know, safe). These parents are doing great!!
I see so many comments defending the parents in the video, but where even are all these hate comments? Lmao.
Loriayle in the "newest first" section. I just saw a comment saying that "boys shouldn't wear dresses make up or nails, because it will make them tumblr SJW cringe"
What is Lmao ?
This person commented on someone's comment and said
Dolls for girls
Cars for boys
Deal with it
yh dress them as isis militants aswell its all fair game. isnt it?
Dafuq?
Idiot
Zaid Rahman Dude, shut the fuck up.
Fucking rasist
Wait wait
He has a point, I they can dress as pirates, murdering and plundering places and as other real life bad guys then why not Isis militants.
Can someone tell me then why a pirate costume is ok but not an Isis costume, they both kill, steal and destroy with no remorse.
The twins are so beautiful honestly #kidgoals 😍😍😍
Nathan Cifuentes AND YOU'RE ONE UGLY BIGGOT! Have a nice life.
Nathan Cifuentes Your so idiotic they are beautiful children you my friend need to get a life
Love their way of parenting :)
I know
agreed, their children are very adorable!
Sebastian Restrepo Brain washed? sorry to inform you that YOU are the one who is brainwashed. The society and their stereotypes brainwashed you. EVERYTHING IS GENDERNEUTRAL. That means that anyone can do anything if it doesn't hurt someone else
can i spit on u
it's not gonna hurt you ;)
bellfitsu I wish my mom was like this with my brother even if he cry's she yells at him and says only girls cry your bout a girl. he's only 3
Im so tired of all the comments saying "They'll be bullied! They'll be laughed at!" Maybe instead of putting the fault on the kid, how about holding bullies responsible and to teach kids to be respectful and kind
This video made me cry. Parenting done correctly.
So true!
I cried too. This is child abuse :-(
+Jack Jameson Because allowing children to be themselves is totally child abuse.
+vasyan People like you are what's wrong with the world. They're literally just letting them wear dresses, they aren't encouraging them to have sex with other guys. My god get a grip.
+vasyan it's not that. it's letting them the oportunity to grow up normal and happy, and to be free, and to feel special and to be whatever they want. it's actually what they need. it's way better than hating your child just because they want something else rather than what you wanted. You anD I, will never understand completely bc it's their-fucking-life.
This is so amazing
+Super Fantastic Poplang why?
+Jaz Pendletee so i thout
+THEADMIN my fetish???im just happy that some people aren't locked in a small mind box and allow their kids to be whatever they want but no i guess ur daddy had a whip over you so you wouldn't wear pink or maybe not be a mean ass bully
+XOXDomagoj idk cancer spreading is amazing
+XOXDomagoj It's not amazing, It's disgusting. This idea was put forward by a sociologist named John Money, it has horrific consequences. Children should be guided until there old enough to make their own decisions. Experimenting on kids is evil.
I don't plan on raising my kids gender neutral. But if my son wants to dress as a princess then so be it. Why would I, or anyone else, be telling him what he likes? It makes no sense.
As long as they’re *LETTING* the boys play with them. That is a very, very key word. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with boys playing dress up if they’re *CHOOSING* to do so.
Why would people have a problem with this? These children are happy and a child's happiness is important. They should enjoy their childhood instead of having their true feelings suppressed because of societal standards.
+peroxidepizza its called cyanide
I'm surprised she could even get them to sit still long enough to put make up on them.... they were running around like crazy.
That's a proof that the boy himself wanted to wear makeup.
why can't every parent be like this?
+ASHTON RC because not everyone is mindsick
Macedonian fighter
like you, just kidding you're probably a good person and you can parent your kids your own way
Because not everybody can be a "neutral" parent #libertyofspeach
MrDuro09 you're autistic. You can put even spell "speech" right.
+vortex gamez14 says the person who literally can't even spell idiots. Honestly, I think it's great what these parents are doing. If you don't, that's fine, but really that comment makes no sense whatsoever. How the hell would boys wearing what they want instead of what society pushes on them lead to extinction of the human race?
That's how I'll raise my kids one day
same....
Me too, we need to let kids be themselves
Me too!
Samee!
That's right 💖
I mean, why not? They're not hurting anyone. Girls are allowed to wear pants, so boys should be allowed to wear dresses
Elsa with a nerf gun and Ana with light sabers is probably the most fun looking thing ever
If my son is happy wearing a skirt, I'm happy too.
I'd like my kids to be happy and not forced.
I want my kids to feel accepted.
If my son wants to wear skirts, I'll go shopping with him so he chooses skirts he likes. ❤️❤️❤️🥺
I want u as my parents ,im a crossdresser boy and never really tell ny parents because they would beat me up
This is so cool since as an effeminant man myself I was limited alot with what I could play with as a boy and I was really confused back then. I think it's important for effeminant boys to be themselves so they can enjoy their childhood to the fullest and also not be confused and be happy with who they are.
Those boys are the cutest things !
PHANDOM
+Dan and Phil edits PROTIP
that sounds like a very peado-ey comment
+xXtRiBeYXx you view it like that but it's not
+Dan and Phil edits cancer
this is really great. these gross comments make me wish these parents raised everyone on RUclips- they need it.
signof thetimes you are saying that I should be sissyfied. No way m8
vortex gamez14 You have a wrong idea you portray all men as masculine and all females as feminine? Feminity and masculinity are part of the personality. Not sure if you even let your boys cry.
+vortex gamez14: but, Daaarling....YOU'd be FAAAAABULOUS !!!
I'd let my kids break gender roles in an environment where they wouldn't be heavily criticized for it.
If the children chooses to were this i don't care
If there parents make them were this without their permission
I would be concerned
I'm reminded of myself really. when I was the boy's age, I was always into boy stuff and I'm a female. I've always been, preferring short hair, marvel, DC, comics, bassically little boy stuff. Mom and dad allowed it so it was Gender Neutral parenting definitely. I still don't feel like I identify as a female still much meh, I'm happier like this then what I was born with.
Tops to those two wonder and rather adorable little boys.
+Asto shut the fuck up
polkadotcumentary
Naw, it's fine. :D I ignored them.
polkadotcumentary
You are offended by that?
Wow, how pathetic you people have become.
Asto
I think they weren't offended but said that in defense. Also, there is a thing called Gender identification, mate. I've been identified as a guy even though I learned to except that I was born a girl. So yeah.
Shrimp Trash
"shut the fuck up" is a very overt response.
This is basically letting your child get bullied
+Duck Dude If they get bullied, isnt for let them play with whatever they like, is the others child's parents fault, for the sexist and no respect education...
+Chikaru Wynn naw its for the them dressing like that, kids can be more cold and mean then you can ever imagine and setting them up for something like that is one of the cruelest things you could do
+Chikaru Wynn
You're mostly wrong, but even if the bully is a product of bad parenting, that doesn't make it any less of a problem. These kids ARE going to get bullied. Studies show that peer-to-peer bullying has a far higher chance of causing anxiety related disorders than even parental abuse/neglect at home.
I'm a girl, and as a child my little brother and I would always swap our toys and costumes. It seems perfectly natural to (to me at least) to let your child play with whatever toys they want to no matter their gender. Sure we both had a preference for our own toys, but I liked playing with his toy cars and action figures as much as he liked playing dress up in my princess dresses. I applaud their parents.
I wish my mom was like this she wouldn’t allow me to wear a shirt because the sleeves were to long and that was considered “boyish” I’m just glad my dad would let me
I was raised like this and for the most part I did typically feminine stuff but for a while I shopped in boys sections etc. and knowing my parents didn’t care helped me a lot. I grew out of it but I would probably be a lot less secure in myself if I wasn’t aloud to change my tastes
Man I wish my parents were like this... so accepting and nourishing their child’s growth
Men in the past used to wear dresses also women can wear boy clothes so why not?
Exacto
Exactly
The parents aren’t pushing gendie nonsense. And the boys look like they’re having fun it’s cute :)
I'm pretty disgusted at all the racist and homophobic comments on here. Why can't everyone be as free and accepting as these wonderful parents??
+Wckdlysassy You're a pretty confused person aren't you?
I wish clothes would be gender neutral like why are people so against of Boys wearing dress it's not that big deal and let them feel free for who they really are people should stop being against it.
3:29 is me though “ after I stopped laughing.”
I’m a cis female, but my brother and I were just like this as kids. When people bought me girl stuff and him boy stuff we just mixed it and played together. I vaguely remember him shooting me with a Nerf gun while in a dress 😂😂
Kids are kids. Their imaginations are beautiful, and it’s the job of their parents and teachers to foster their creativity regardless of their gender 💕
God you AMASING 👏👏👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🍉👏🏳️🌈🏳️🌈👏🏳️🌈👏
My son wears dresses sometimes and has preferred the color pink sence he was 6 months old. I let him choose his clothes and toys. He is high iq and helps the special needs child in his class. He's an amazing kid. Why dose anyone care what he wears if he's a good child? And my brother wore my dresses as a kid and he thinks the videos are funny and is married and had a beautiful newborn daughter with his model wife joy. It's about letting kids be kids and not limiting them to gender. They play with what's fun not just boy toys or girl toys
Err, do kids have an IQ?
When you want a girl but get twin boys instead.
Nah not really as she is being gender neutral instead of jus dresses and plus u copied that and it's just boring now
looks very '' neutral '' ... gimme a break
Clothing has no gender. Men also once wore long garments.
This form of parenting is AMAZING.
yeah, because everyone knows the best form of parenting possible is to expose your children to abuse and bullying simply to support your ideology
+N Volpe maybe if other parents would teach their shitty kids not to bully we woldn't have this problem
+Savannah Nissel maybe don't try to abolish idiots from the world and try to avoid their idiocies from affecting your kids
+N Volpe Maybe if parents socialised children correctly to accept and understand each other's differences (much like this gender neutral parenting) bullying would be less of a problem.
+MrDuck Because of social constructs. Clothing has no gender. Society could have said that apples are for boys and oranges are for girls. If that were the case, you'd be arguing against boys eating oranges? It's pointless, stupid and closed minded. If a boy wants to wear a dress, so be it. If a girl wants to wear a "boy's" jumper so be it.
Clothes are clothes. Toys are toys. Playing with one or the other doesn't determine your sex, gender identity, or sexual orientation. Trucks don't make you a straight, hard-working stereotype of a man, and dolls don't make you into a delicate, docile stereotype of a woman. To those who can't understand that, I feel pity.
HOLY FRICK AS A NONBINARY PERSON WHO IS NOT ALLOWED TO BE MYSELF IM SOOOOO FREAKIN HAPPY FOR THESE KIDS!!!!