Gender Neutral Parenting: Why Shouldn’t Our Sons Wear Dresses?
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A COUPLE who allow their twin boys to wear dresses and play with dolls say their relaxed parenting will make their sons better fathers. Gabriella and Joe Haughton-Malik allow their five-year-old twins, Caleb and Kai, to make their own decisions when it comes to dressing up and choosing their toys. And as well as toy guns, cars and lego, the excitable twins also love princess dresses, dolls houses and playing hairdressers. As well as playing dress up, Kai and Caleb also enjoy playing with each other’s hair and having their nails done. And rather than rebuke such ‘feminine’ behaviour, Gabriella, 33, and Joe, 34, encourage their sons to be creative and express all sides of their personality without restriction.
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I ran around my house naked until I was 3, I think they'll do fine
I made a lasagna naked when I was little
y'all are pretty dank.
but yeah they're just having fun and will grow out of it. I was a tomboy for most of my childhood now I'm in the middle of tomboy and girly.
That’s what my little sister does
Kyle John
XD
True.
"if they were girls and wanted to wear trousers and play with cars, no one would blink an eye."
Yes they would
And any good parent should stop girls from playing with cars
Dolls for girls
Cars for boys
Deal with it
@@anpleidhceeireannach9498 Why?
@@yeehaw861 LOL "why?"
@@anpleidhceeireannach9498 please explain why "dolls are for girls and cars are for boys"
@@yeehaw861 LOL
You need someone to explain that to you LOL
How dare those parents! I would never let my kid ride a scooter without a helmet.
2:43 for anyone wondering
he was so fast lol
1:22 "as long as it's safe"
😂😂😂 love it
Smilefied omg lol
Im so embarrassed , my mother really told me that i had to go change my little brothers slime because it was pink😑 literally freaking pinkkk! I was in utter shock .
Ew, through the mum away
That is not ok to do.... If you brother wants pink slime then he can have pink slime nothing wrong with it.
@@notanymoreahahha9604 throw but yeah
TRULY SHOCKING PARENTING
HOW COULD YOU LET THEM WEAR ODD SOCKS. SHAMEFUL.
XD
horrifying
I know shocking!!!
+Happyman1773 Odd socks? What are you talking about? He's got another pair just like them!
😂😂😂
If a girl wears a pirate costume... everyone thinks it's cute but when a boy wears a princess costume... everyone thinks it weird
I mean seriously
Roblox funtimeyt it is,because dresses weren't labelled to both genders
@@celebritytakeover69 Well, for ur information dresses and skirts were designed to be for men, but women started using them. 😊
@@celebritytakeover69 All sorts of historical figures (MALE!) wore dresses, kilts and skirts. These "female" fashions weren't always "female".
@@oreo6769 scotish lads
@@cheese6899 not only scottish tho, many cultures still have men wear some type of skirt like clothing
They aren't forcing the children to be like this so it's fine and the children are choosing to be this way so I'm fine with it . Rather my boy wear a dress then jake Paul merch.
Lmao huge burn on Jake Paul's part
So your okay with your husband wearing a dress to...
@@nikap5628 - If my husband wanted to wear a dress, I'd be fine with it. Why wouldn't I be? It's an article of clothing. As long as it covers all "private parts" it's fine. I genuinely don't understand why it would be a problem? I wear mens tailored shorts and buttons downs, and look hella fly. I get compliments CONSTANYLY, way more than when I wear dresses. Why would I have a problem if he wanted to wear a dress? I support my husband in any choice he makes as long as it's not detrimental to him or anyone else. What piece of cloth he puts on his body isn't detrimental to anyone, so what's the issue?
Well I'm not okay with my husband or my son wearing a dress..
Parents shouldn't allow their children to do or wear whatever they want..
@@nikap5628 it's not hurting anyone. It's self-expression. Why do you have such a problem with it? I'm genuinely trying to understand. I'm a parent, my oldest is almost 11 and my youngest is 4, both boys. My 4 year old has blue highlights in his blonde hair, and silver toenails at the moment. He's very much "boy", but I allow him to express himself however he wants. He's got his own feelings, wants, ect. Who am I to cramp his style as long as he's not hurting anyone or doing anything permanent... What is your aversion to men/boys doing/wearing "girl" things? Traditionally MOST "girl" things were meant for boys. Who/what does it hurt? Why shouldn't men/boys wear "girl" things? Again I'm genuinely trying to understand, not argue, or try to push my beliefs on others. I simply don't understand why it's such a big deal....
My cousin wore a princess dress for two years when he was younger, now he is a footballer. Whatever will be will be ya know?
People will call me a “tomboy” or I act like a boy, but I also enjoy dolls. Barbie dolls, Bratz dolls, American girl dolls, LOL dolls, OG dolls, etc.
I don't get it? Why are people mad? I was raised in a very Christian household but I (female) still had a remote control Hummer, army men, and a skateboard. Whilst my sister had barbies, nail polish, and dresses. It's whatever you wanna do. Hummer truck or Barbies, it's just a toy. The only way I can imagine there being an issue is if the parents were trying to force their boys into feminine things when they didn't want to do that, or vice versa.
Gabrielle Smith thats called being a tomboy hun
Gabrielle Smith FINNALY someone who I can say "I can agree!" To!
Gabrielle Smith THANK YOU!!
LivB 08 EXACTLY like if your a girl but dont wanna be called that, thats ok. If your a Christian, you should know God wants you to be happy no matter what
Tomboy still rides on the stereotype that it's for boys. Not the fact that it's a marketing ploy.
Unlike the others in the comment section, I agree with letting children have free reign on clothing and toys.
Agreed
So, basically don't parent them?
+Captain Beefheart being a parent doesn't mean you control everything. you have to let a kid explore what they want.
Kindly fuck off, you neo nazi little shit
i really disagree with this, at least partially. I mean if they let them do this in public then they are a horrible parents. the kids would surely be bullied.
Honestly, I think this is absolutely brilliant. It’s also really nice to hear this coming from an “average” couple, and not one where one or both are trans or questioning their gender (seemingly, at least).
Kovu is a unicorn ..!? Kovu? is that *the* unicorn child!?
Kovu!!!
Yes, I totally agree, these parents are amazing!
Ps, I love your videos
KOVU
Kovu is a unicorn yess
Elsa with a nerf gun.. I’m living for it
@Unicorn_ Fire 😂
Yeee
Lmao, they got a good imagination right there 😂😂
And with the lightsabers
I remember one time me and my sister wrestled in Anna and Elsa dresses
I don't understand why people are so against this. The parents are not forcing the boys to wear dresses and be stereotypically "girly" they are just letting them wear what they want
it's because these kids will eventually grow up to be men. We need strong men who know how to conduct themselves in society and not be confused as to what is right. act like a man
Brian S I just don't believe gender is black and white. I don't think that men need to have this extremely masculine show on all time. And most importantly I don't think that this should be an issue in society at all.
Blair Hinckle :)
well said
Blair Hinckle black and white? i don't know what you mean by that.
Let the kids be kids. It won't affect their sexuality.
These parents are raising their children CORRECTLY.
So many parents NEED to take a leaf from their book.
Andddd there the the person who thinks breaking out of gender roles is a bad thing. Listen dude, you can clearly see the kids being HAPPY and ENJOYING themselves! If these were little girls you wouldn't be saying anything! So there is no abuse, just your narrow mind.
No theyre not,they introduced them to dresses and dressed them up like that as babies and it stuck with them. They didn't see a dress and said "I want that"
Zurisaday Prado i saw sonic and i wanted to collect everything about him and i’m a girl 🤷🏽♀️
jasmine render,even though I dont care,same though 😂😂
I think the idea is that "raising them as the gender they were born" doesn't need to include the idea of labeling pieces of fabric. Whether something is sewn together at the legs or open at the legs has nothing to do with someone's masculinity or femininity - it's all just cultural stuff we made up. There's nothing wrong with showing your kid what options they have for toys or clothing, and letting them make their own identity. Often times, I'll bet the kid will pick a mix of both in different ways. But that doesn't make them any less of the gender they were born. Pink or blue, skirt or shorts, it has nothing to do with being a boy or a girl in the grand scheme of things, and it's ridiculous that such a thing is part of our culture to begin with. It's such a pointless shallow thing to care about.
I was raised this way and it was amazing. My brothet would wear my tiara and princess shoes and I would wear overalls. We didn't care about any stereotypical girl or boy stuff. We were just kids having fun.
how did you turned out
Capitan Awesome I turned out to be a pansexual transman and my brother turned out to be a straight dude. Idk about my sister yet, since she is 7. It doesnt matter much anyways, since children dont learn negative behavior about gender expression from their own innocent minds.
@Matthew Blome ???
@Matthew Blome No, we weren't forced to be anything. We were just normal kids.
Danny Bailey I and my sister were raised this way. My dad would let me and my sister wear whatever we wanted (back when clothes were actually suitable for kids and no ten year old thots because I was born in 2004) and he honestly didn't care what me and my sister played with in terms of toys. He didn't care if it were Barbie dolls or cars, neither did he care if we played video games like Ratchet and Clank, Lego Star Wars or Bratz: Forever Diamonds. As of today, because of my background, I just turned out to be genderfluid and demisexual panromantic. Honestly, I'm happy that my dad let me be free in clothes and stylistic choices compared to anyone else.
Yes this is beautiful. If the boys like it then why not let them wear dresses? Great parenting.
*****
If you give me some reasonable arguments against these boys wearing dresses, then maybe I'll actually listen to what you have to say.
+Super Fantastic Poplang Nah thanks, I'm good.
+milo lugo your saying that they probably feel "pressured to do it" other families that don't do this with their children tell their kids "pink is for girls l, you can't play with dolls, princesses are for girls, ect." don't you think that those kids feel pressured to only like "boy" things
+milo lugo the problem is to call things "girl" things. Society chose to categorize objects as girl things and boy things. Also, these boys don't seem to be pressurized. They seem happy. There shouldn't be girl or boy toys, clothes or colour. It's just stupid that we have to be what our gender is supposed to be because society decided. I'm a woman and I'm fine with it, but I like "boy" stuff and I don't like to shave but I do so no one judges me on the street. It's stupid.
this isn't great parenting. What's the plan when these boys hit puberty? what will their parents say when they ask why in the hell they went along with this? not to mention, have it shown on the Internet? do any of you progressive parents think about any of that?
People are saying 'the mother must have wanted a girl, that's why she's doing this'... did you not watch the video? The sons make a conscious decision to dress however _they_ please, it's great that she's letting them be themselves instead of forcing them to dress or act a way that they don't want to.
u just earned a like i respect you boys and girls SHOULD have equal rights cause its 2018 now. still everyone doesnt care ik u wont reply but if u see this ur a good man.
Rabbi Foreskinstein No. It is not.
The boys are reflecting their mother’s ambition to experiment. The father is a wimp to tolerate/encourage this.
EricLehner so glad you said it!!!! They aren't making the choice to please themselves, they are doing it to please their parents. Key is that they are embarrassed to dress so outside the home.
George Braithwaite Yeah kids should whatever they want but I'm but allowed to have my opinion on it.
Look at how happy they are! They’re having so much fun and not hurting anyone.
Rhiannon exactlyy
Rhiannon spreading these cancerous ideas on RUclips will hurt the entire next generation of children
All I see is love and open-mindedness. You're the cancerous one here.
Minister Almec she's commented a nice comment what are u talking about?
Minister Almec The only reason people believe it's bad is because people like you are spreading hate towards it. There isn't anything wrong with it.
It is true no one blinks an eye if a girl plays with toy cars our run around outside or play in the creek or woods. I am sorry but dresses and girl toys do not determine what you are or will grow to like sexually.
Juan Johnson what are you sorry about? You are completely right
Ya
Ik
I believe that the world would be so much better without all the gender stereotypes
Souhail Naji you are sertanly right band the gender stereotypes
Ætlas I'm interested in finding out why you think that's the case. Why?
that it the boy become a princess
Souhail Naji k
Souhail Naji ikr
I don't see anything wrong with this...this doesn't make you gay..when I was a young girl I used to want to have short hair like my brother and wear football gear like him as well so my mom cut my hair like a boy and I wore football gear and played with my brother and father, obviously I grew out of it and I turned out fine I'm not gay nor has it affected me at all...
almost every little goes to that stage if they have an older brother its natural just till around the ages of 8-11
There's nothing wrong with being gay either
Chode Master how so
Carly Kennedy Are you homophobic? You said "I turned out fine", so being gay is not fine?
Chode Master Eh no? How?
Girls can wear pants, shorts, etc., and people don’t make a big deal of it. But when a boy wears a dress, skirt, or anything stereotypically to a girl, people make a big deal over it? We are all humans and somehow it has become our nature to categorize certain things with certain genders? The world isn’t perfect and will never be, but I’m glad to see improvements are being made. 💕
It's nice to see the parents not telling them their trans just because they like stereotypically girl things. Boys can wear dresses, makeup, and do girly things to!
My little cousin likes girly stuff 😅
I like this comment ☺️
No
I sort of agree, but do not believe that the majority of cases of trans kids are driven by the parents. I have never heard of a case of parents forcing their child to think they are trans, mainly because the amount of effort it actually takes to go through the process of transitioning (even just socially, not biologically) is much, much more than people assume. Yes it is important to recognise gender expression is different from gender identity, but we still need to recognise people's gender identities.
most of the time parents treat their kinds according to their sex and even them people turn out to be trans so being trans has nothing to do with how you were raised, but your self expression does
It's hypocritical that people think that when girls wear boy clothes and play with toys targeted for boys, it's alright and kind of cute. But when a boy does it, it's gay and shameful. That's sexist. The parents of these boys are saying that she's giving them the opportunity to be who they want. Nothing wrong with that. Honestly everything you do in the world is going to give you hate and someone is going to talk about you. So she's not setting them up to be bullied. People need to teach their kids the difference between right and wrong. So that's not her doing of setting them up to be bullied, it's the other children's parents that need to be an adult and not teach their children to be rude.
But a couple of hundred years ago, girls wearing masculine clothing and engaging in masculine activities wasn't "normal" in society. Society's not static - it evolves, usually by rebellious activities becoming more mainstream.
+tRigs15: Ohhh, THAT's Right: No one's EVER Heard of ANYONE...ANYWHERE...being bullied, etc, for ANYthing, OTHER than 'wee-lads-in-frocks'...IN'nit?!?!? Do CONSIDER Entering into reality, Ducks...!!!
@@tRigs15 setting kids up to be bullied and made fun off? Um Dude people make fun of you and bully you no matter what they do.... People get bullied for girls liking boys toy or boys liking girls toys..... teen pregnancy, braces, name choice, glasses, hair colour, skin colour etc. Just let kids be who they want to.
I personally give zero shits what anybody-little kids especially-wear or do. Why should I care if the fabric strips a body is wrapped in are shaped specific ways?
yay! Huffelpuff!
Well said! If some chunks of fabric makes people happy, it doesn't matter what other people think (with the exception of vulgar or offensive words/images (well, in places there's a dress code at least)).
Gender neutral parenting is just how you raise kids.
It's normal parenting ,really.
my mom, my brother and me were getting sunglasses and my mom didn't let him get "girls" glasses
@@crybaby_k12_portalz It's not normal but it should be normalised
Why should dresses been seen as “girl thing” in the first place? Stop stereotyping everybody.
wish my parents would be this open with my dressing up and allow me to express my self as much as these nice parents have
Its really all up to u, If U express to your parents that u want to wear a dress and tell them how much, they will come around and let you wear one. And first just around the house so as to not get bully-ed. And if not just wear one and let them see you and keep putting one on everyday no matter how much they say not to,
as a young boy my parents let me wear little dresses around the house and gradually became more femm for 5th grade holoween i was tinkerbell my aunt would also help me do makeup and would let me wear her stockings and pantyhose with big wedge sandals totally supportive of my femm desires as a boy
Every boy should have the option to wear what ever he wants and be himself.
well i'm almost an adult (18 where i live) so i don't have to worry about punishment but i'm still stuck in this house and could be kicked out. i do dress up at school however people are sometimes rude about it but ignore them all and have become "invulnerable" to it in a sense i mean it does tick me off still but i know there's nothing wrong with being myself so. but ill be hopefully getting a job and leaving this house to go be myself and be happy in life for once.
You have to ease your parents into it a little at a time. Wear something a girl wears, style your hair like a girls, Paint your nails a light or neutral color. Then let them see as much as you can with something girlie on. Thars what a friend of mi
Theses are the best parents ever
Yessss
So true!
Insane Mushroom r u answering to ur own comm now or wut lol
Why is there so much hate? What the hell is wrong with a boy wearing a dress?!
This is how I want to be when I have kids. I wish my parents had been like this.
I don't understand why this is even having a discussion because it's so fucking obvious! It's not controversial, it's simply letting their kids decide what clothes to wear!!! And no it's not because the mother "wanted a girl", she lets her sons wear dresses because they want to wear dresses! Great parenting!
Although I'm a female and still like feminine things, as a child I liked to watch superheroes like Teen Titans, dress up as Robin and Dick Grayson, play with cars and toys, and watch Kim Possible and read DC Comics. See? Nothing is really meant for a specific gender. These are 'boy things' and still enjoy them. Even dresses can feel glamorous to males. Who doesn't want to feel like a million bucks? ;D
I do all that too! I LOVE superheroes and cars...I think that's because I've been raised around four brothers. XD
@@NoName-vn4jh im sure there are girls who have no brothers can love the same things
87% = Why r ppl so triggered??
22% = I love these parentsss
1% = Actual hate
em......87+22+1=110%...
Judging by the number of dislikes, it's way more than a mere 1% of people who are hateful and bigoted.
But people who are against the sort of things like in this video are in fact bigoted and homophobic and such. The Alt-Right should start being honest with themselves and with the rest of the world.
I don't get their flip-flop behavior... They actively go out of their way to be terrible, uncaring people; then get upset when everyone else calls out on their mean-spirited, oppressive actions.
The Alt-Right should stop being cowardly and instead be self-aware of their prejudice nature. Own up to it and be open about it.
JanetFunkYeah it's just their opinion..
Now if only it added up to 100% 🤔🤔🤔
See, this is great parenting. Letting the kids be who they want to be. Look how happy they are!! Clothes don’t have a gender!!
So much idiocy in the comments makes me cringe.
xXNoOneImportantXx the transphobic comments or the supportive comments make u cringe?
miscellanimations I think supportive
Carolina Gonzalez oh....
Same
Your a Tare and I rebuke you. You are the seed of satan.
If my son wants to wear a dress, I really wouldn't care. If my daughter wants to be superman, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't force my kid to try and act like the other gender. Kids like what they like, who cares.
Can i get uhhhhhh.... MORE PARENTS LIKE THEM????
Parent machine broke.
Carson Zahhack
2 homestucks in a row damn
Boneless Pizza
Can I get uhhhhhh...LESS PARENTS PIEK THIS JESUS CHRIST
Can your parents stop reproducing people like you. :)
This is amazing! Kids shouldn’t have labels forced on them and should be able to do whatever they want (as long it’s you know, safe). These parents are doing great!!
These parents are allowing their kids to be whoever they want to be from day to day and showing them they will love them no matter what. Amazing.
"After I stopped laughing…". It wasn't just the words she said, it was her delivery and the look on her face. Classic. And you know what, good for them for letting their kids figure out who they are on their own with the love and support of what seems to be very stable and smart parents. The boys may end up growing out of liking dresses and growing into liking different costumes. I commend the boys parents for thinking little bit outside the box and making sure the kids are happy and healthy. Those of you who think that what they're doing is wrong probably think that because of The way society as a whole has affected you - all of us, and still plays a role in our every day lives.
yeah if a little girl can dress as Darth Vader, why can't a little boy dress as Princess Leia or something?
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I think letting them do that is perfectly fine, as long as you aren't forcing the dress on your boys it's fine.
Stupid Fangirl it doesn’t sound like they are
i think this is great! a common opposing argument to this is "well i wouldnt raise my kids like this bc they will get bullied," but the truth of the matter is that theres nothing wrong with a boy wearing a dress-- theres only something wrong with how boys wearing dresses are received by others. we need to raise nonjudgmental people bc the real issue is bullies, not a boy wearing dresses or a girl playing with cars :)
+JohnEgbertEctoBiologist hello
it appears as though i've found a homestuck
you have the same thoughts on gender-neutral matters as i do which is also hella cool
JohnEgbertEctoBiologist
Homestucks appear in the most random places
Also I agree
Amazing parents!
No, you're what's wrong with the world
+TheDragonOfPoe Well aren't you a mature person. Why would you encourage your child to harm another child? Grow up you idiot.
+Brennan ɾօաҽ I feel bad for the AIDS your gonna get.
+TheDragonOfPoe Are you a nazi?
+TheDragonOfPoe The dumb should stay off the internet
Im so tired of all the comments saying "They'll be bullied! They'll be laughed at!" Maybe instead of putting the fault on the kid, how about holding bullies responsible and to teach kids to be respectful and kind
I mean, why not? They're not hurting anyone. Girls are allowed to wear pants, so boys should be allowed to wear dresses
awwww. they look so happy in the dresses!
Hansel And Gretel sorry heather
Veronica open the door
Heather, Heather, Heather..
"..Veronica?"
I love the replies 😂 because of heathers the musical and movie I love my name because it's veronica and thats when I started liking my name.
I don't know why this is downvoted so much. If little girls can play with boy toys and dress in stereotypically boy costumes, why can't the same go for little boys playing with stereotypically girly stuff? As long as the boys aren't being pressured or discouraged by the parents to do something they don't want to do I see no problem with this.
I wish clothes would be gender neutral like why are people so against of Boys wearing dress it's not that big deal and let them feel free for who they really are people should stop being against it.
As long as they’re *LETTING* the boys play with them. That is a very, very key word. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with boys playing dress up if they’re *CHOOSING* to do so.
This video made me cry. Parenting done correctly.
So true!
I cried too. This is child abuse :-(
+Jack Jameson Because allowing children to be themselves is totally child abuse.
+vasyan People like you are what's wrong with the world. They're literally just letting them wear dresses, they aren't encouraging them to have sex with other guys. My god get a grip.
+vasyan it's not that. it's letting them the oportunity to grow up normal and happy, and to be free, and to feel special and to be whatever they want. it's actually what they need. it's way better than hating your child just because they want something else rather than what you wanted. You anD I, will never understand completely bc it's their-fucking-life.
I completely agree with this. If this is what the child wants to play with then why should you stop them? Just because they were dressed in dresses and playing with girls toys doesn't mean it's wrong. Doesn't mean that the child will change their sexuality or anything, as the mother stated very clearly, "Sexuality is based on genetics and not the environment". I applaud this family for providing their children with freedom and not restricting them to one half of Toys R Us because it's pink or it has a princess on it.
People, in my opinion, should be able to live their lives freely. Not criticized by society, I want people to be happy with themselves.
I'm a hetero man who lives alone. I find wearing skirts very comfortable and own at least 10 of them. I wear them alone at home because if go outside that way, everybody would see me as weird thing and I would depressed.
@@rogersbonettmb I can see that why you're alone now lol
@@rogersbonettmb Don't let others get you down if you want to wear a skirt then wear one people who judge others for it are the ones who have problems... I see nothing wrong with it.
@@opheliajonesmccoy2909 thank you so much for answering me. I'm curious whether or not you're woman since most of women or man don't think like that.
@@rogersbonettmb I'm a female and pregnant with my first son but I let my daughters play with what they want weather it's a doll or a truck...
This is so cool since as an effeminant man myself I was limited alot with what I could play with as a boy and I was really confused back then. I think it's important for effeminant boys to be themselves so they can enjoy their childhood to the fullest and also not be confused and be happy with who they are.
beautiful
+Super Fantastic Poplang Go back to leafy
NOT! in my opinion
usmcreyes40 Well guess what, no one asked for your opinion..
+AngrySchoolbag What an ignorant comment.... comment sections solicit opinions. try again.
+usmcreyes40 yes? I just said my opinion about your comment,
why are people so pressed about little boys wearing dresses like it doesn't affect you at all and the parents obviously aren't forcing them into anything so just live your life yeah
+Kathryn Hurley Because people are entitled twats that need to judge everything they know nothing about.
That's how I'll raise my kids one day
same....
Me too, we need to let kids be themselves
Me too!
Samee!
That's right 💖
I see so many comments defending the parents in the video, but where even are all these hate comments? Lmao.
Loriayle in the "newest first" section. I just saw a comment saying that "boys shouldn't wear dresses make up or nails, because it will make them tumblr SJW cringe"
What is Lmao ?
This person commented on someone's comment and said
Dolls for girls
Cars for boys
Deal with it
1. I totally agree with this parenting and 2. I LOVE THEIR NAMES :D
what are their names??? i didn't hear them.
Artemis Kalliope and Kai
same
Pinkz Diamondz isn’t is Caleb and kai
@@squirrel6102 yeah it can be spelled either way tho
if they want to use dresses and shit let them , i played with cars and toy guns and here i am lol
I was raised like this and for the most part I did typically feminine stuff but for a while I shopped in boys sections etc. and knowing my parents didn’t care helped me a lot. I grew out of it but I would probably be a lot less secure in myself if I wasn’t aloud to change my tastes
Men in the past used to wear dresses also women can wear boy clothes so why not?
Exacto
Exactly
Why does society have to pull other boys back from wearing what they want? This is supposed to be a free country not a country where people raise their kids to bully other kids on what they wear 😐
Yo, if I ever become a mum I would SO follow this to some extent at least. It's my kid's well-being that matters, not their gender or identity
Well, let's hope you never do so.
Indigo Cyanide oh im a 6 month old bobcat and my parents accept me, at the end of the day it’s only the child’s well being right?
Their kids aren’t experimenting with gender or identity though? They just like the dresses. There’s nothing wrong with that!
If the children chooses to were this i don't care
If there parents make them were this without their permission
I would be concerned
I am sometimes against this depending on their age. There is a video of a 2-3 year old boy who is not really able to make his own decisions. And his parents are literally putting pink tutus and fairy wings on him, when he can barely speak. These boys are old enough to undertsand and think for themselves so really, i am not against them.
I'm against putting any child barely able to talk in dresses, dresses are so damn uncomfortable
theres just a huge hole in this kind of argument, because the other options is forcing them to wear typically "male" clothes.
@@rileyrussell9321 yeah, like when you see pictures of toddlers shoved into tiny suits, and they clearly look very uncomfortable
I hope those boys become a staple of acceptance in our society in the future.
This will never be accepted.
Chode Master just shut the hell up. If feminist could be accepted by public, why not us? Just wait and see.
Way to go pone. :3
Sorry that will never happen our society its awlays getting worst(only a fact)
Sadly that's the way of life. Even if most people accepted them there will still be negativity
The hate in the comments is disgusting. Although, the positivity in the comments is uplifting and I strongly agree with their parenting. Let kids be kids, rather them wear whatever and do something feminine or masculine then for example be a bully or hurt someone for that matter. They will grow up and teach their kids that it's ok to be different and be equal. Which is what this world needs in the future.
Neon_Pixel you don't get it do you *face palm*
I don't see much for hate in the comments. You probably just came here expecting hate and using the little there is as an excuse to exaggerate it.
3:29 is me though “ after I stopped laughing.”
How is this "gender nuetral" when they're only exposed to one specific gender norm?
If the boy wants to wear nail polish, so be it. But if he also wants to go and play some "WW2 scenario" playground, so be it.
I'm surprised she could even get them to sit still long enough to put make up on them.... they were running around like crazy.
That's a proof that the boy himself wanted to wear makeup.
I'd let my kids break gender roles in an environment where they wouldn't be heavily criticized for it.
I’m a trans man, growing up I was forced to only buy female clothing. As I got older I started stealing my brothers clothes and it felt right. I’m going to raise my kids gender neutral so they can have the choice I never did
Justin E. Shier yay! Thats nice.
If my son is happy wearing a skirt, I'm happy too.
I'd like my kids to be happy and not forced.
I want my kids to feel accepted.
If my son wants to wear skirts, I'll go shopping with him so he chooses skirts he likes. ❤️❤️❤️🥺
I want u as my parents ,im a crossdresser boy and never really tell ny parents because they would beat me up
This kind of thing is quite common and fairly normal in my country (Japan). I mean the kids have the right to choose however they want dress or do their hairs. It's not hurting you or anybody else. Well...unless you are a homophobic and sexist bigot from Russia still living according to the fascist and patriarchal tradition from the 1940's. Just saying.
yeah but u still make russian recipes
People are not bad in Russia. Half my family life’s there. Just cause the government is bad, doesn’t mean the people are.
i played with legos and im a girl.
so what? i liked flying my lego airplanes and making them crash.
+Iggy-chan that is a toy that both boys and girls play with. if you were smart you could see on some of the lego boxes that are on sale at stores,, some have girls on them.
Scott Merlin i never played with the girl ones though. those things are weird..
true that, and yes the girl ones are weird cause they are mainly marketed towards guys, i think most time is spent on making guy lego sets but idk
i love action figures, comic books, marvel/D.C. comics superheros and star wars.
+Kathryn Cayne same and I also like video games
we need more parents like this
Mimi P. No... We don't, this is absolute dilution... This is madness
Pennywise The Dancing Clown its called loving your kids no matter what they like to do/wear
Pennywise The Dancing Clown dilution? These kids are so happy and confident, the only times that was corrupted was when they went out into public and encountered people like you.
Pennywise The Dancing Clown The kids aren't forced to being dressed in dresses. Nobody bats an eye when a little girl wants to act like a boy we call them "tomboys" but if boys do it it's "OMG UR GONNA TURN EM GEEEAAAY THEY'RE GONNA BE CRAZUYY".
No we don’t. You’ll ruin your kids life when they get into a school
NOW THAT, IS GOOD PARENTING!
I don't plan on raising my kids gender neutral. But if my son wants to dress as a princess then so be it. Why would I, or anyone else, be telling him what he likes? It makes no sense.
this video has meaning I like it
also they are so cute I want to raise my kids like this when I have some
But Your Dead Alois Trancy....
Beatrice Loves Ciel! Thats why they will be zombies
Not Spider-Ghost-Demons?
Yes that is exactly what they will be
I was kind of raised this way and I love it!!
Elsa with a nerf gun and Ana with light sabers is probably the most fun looking thing ever
*Why Shouldn’t Our Sons Wear Dresses?*
because they are going to get the crap kicked out of em
in school and bullied to hell..
Then teach your fucking kids that it's okay to wear things outside gender stereotypes. It's simple really.
+Crimson Insanity That's the parents of the bullies fault then, no?
+I Am A Pigeon No not really
I'm pretty disgusted at all the racist and homophobic comments on here. Why can't everyone be as free and accepting as these wonderful parents??
+Wckdlysassy You're a pretty confused person aren't you?
This is parenting done right! 👏👏👏
Chris Yup
Chris nope 👎🏿 👎🏿👎🏿
You think it's wrong parenting just because it's not common. First of all, not the majority =/= wrong, and second of all, boys used to wear dresses. When did we stop letting boys wear dresses? If you think it's so weird for parents to allow their boys to wear dresses, then surely it must have been weird when some parents first decided their boys SHOULDN'T wear dresses, yes?
Times change, what's normal changes. You're just out-dated.
Alex Baldwin You idiot. They weren't "dresses". They were robes.
Chris I agree with you buddy
It's not gender neutrality. It's very well forgotten old. Yes, a few centuries ago little boys, who are aged lower than 10, wore dresses. And older boys and men wore shorts with silk (100% opaque) pantyhoses.
I'm reminded of myself really. when I was the boy's age, I was always into boy stuff and I'm a female. I've always been, preferring short hair, marvel, DC, comics, bassically little boy stuff. Mom and dad allowed it so it was Gender Neutral parenting definitely. I still don't feel like I identify as a female still much meh, I'm happier like this then what I was born with.
Tops to those two wonder and rather adorable little boys.
+Asto shut the fuck up
polkadotcumentary
Naw, it's fine. :D I ignored them.
polkadotcumentary
You are offended by that?
Wow, how pathetic you people have become.
Asto
I think they weren't offended but said that in defense. Also, there is a thing called Gender identification, mate. I've been identified as a guy even though I learned to except that I was born a girl. So yeah.
Shrimp Trash
"shut the fuck up" is a very overt response.
I'm a girl, and as a child my little brother and I would always swap our toys and costumes. It seems perfectly natural to (to me at least) to let your child play with whatever toys they want to no matter their gender. Sure we both had a preference for our own toys, but I liked playing with his toy cars and action figures as much as he liked playing dress up in my princess dresses. I applaud their parents.
I’m so happy for these boys praise their parents
I have zero problem with this
Same
Do they know what gender neutral means? It means that it's the same type of thing that doesn't apply to any gender, for example, a t-shirt.
If it's a matter of letting kids letting whichever type of clothing they want, despite the gender application of the clothes, it's a question of is cross dressing ok and should it be socially acceptable, LET ME STRESS THIS, I couldn't care less about what a kid or adult wears if they're happy with it, BUT I HATE when people say that a boy in skirt is gender neutral clothing, or a girl with Nike clothes is gender neutral clothing WHEN THE LITERAL DEFINITION OF GENDER NEUTRAL is "suitable for, applicable to, or common to both male and female genders." Meaning a type of object that is commonplace in both genders NOT the opposite gender of an object using that object.
The whole "gender neutral" thing here is referring to the mix of things they wear and play with and avoiding gender stereotypes.
It's not saying that the dresses they wear make their upbringing gender neutral, but their general lifestyle is because their gender doesn't change how they should live their lives.
The way they are brought up is not focused around the fact that they are boys and nor would it focus around their gender if they were girls.
care to explain?
Anyone past the age of 10 knows the general purpose of a dress, on sight you can tell it was made for a girl
u wot
the princesses with lightsabers
I like it
Disney better catch up when we gonna see a Frozen and Starwars cross over?!
My parents raised me like that and I can tell that it was their best decision. Let kids do what THEY want not what SOCIETY want them to do.
Exactly
I’m a cis female, but my brother and I were just like this as kids. When people bought me girl stuff and him boy stuff we just mixed it and played together. I vaguely remember him shooting me with a Nerf gun while in a dress 😂😂
Kids are kids. Their imaginations are beautiful, and it’s the job of their parents and teachers to foster their creativity regardless of their gender 💕
God you AMASING 👏👏👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🏳️⚧️👏🍉👏🏳️🌈🏳️🌈👏🏳️🌈👏
So many of the people in this comment section are disgusting, let them be children, they're happy and they have a supportive loving household. So many people are so full of hate.
These comments are actually shocking, especially the highest rated one. These people aren't progressive or nut bags, they're just normal well balanced people. jeeze
Ah allowing your kid to be confused about their gender and being fucking gay is ok but teaching them to be boys and one day men is terrible.
lol what? when did I say any of that. And how does a little kid in a dress have anything to do with sexuality. And why is their sexuality anyone's business anyway? It's fucking not.
Gaylien I don’t understand why girls can be more boyish when they are younger but boys can’t be more girlish. I wish society would just let them do as they please. It’s a total double standard.
Man I wish my parents were like this... so accepting and nourishing their child’s growth
Great parents! Sad that letting your kids explore different interests is so uncommon it's newsworthy. I see little girls dressed like superheroes on halloween and no one makes them feel uncomfortable, so why can't these boys be princesses? Oh yes, because being a female is still considered degrading. Society needs to change.