what is most annoying are the vloggers and apologists claiming Thais are honest, can be trusted and do not steal. I learned a lot in my 8.5 year in Chiang Mai .Naivete is the one thing to not bring to Thailand
That is Thailand in a nutshell, has been for many years, he played into it and got bit. I know many blokes like him but they never learn. Not showing romantic interest in the Thai women got me a long way over there. They respect you more. If you want a Thai romance, head to the rural areas.better chance of finding real love.
@@bigal2417 Not all bar girls are bad, only the ones you have met. 555 I have a few German friends who have been ruined by German women. German law is on the woman's side. Financial castration yaah!
@@janstrater3731Marry your childhood sweetheart by all means but if you've never fallen in love with a prostitute from a different culture, you haven't lived at all.
Lesson to be learned in the land of smiles… The low hanging fruit is rarely the sweetest. No sympathy for the blokes who end up with a bar girl and get ripped.
Exactly and why so many foreigners cannot get that through their thick head. Thais will fuck you dry and borrow money, rack up huge debts etc until its all gone. Like months to a flame.
Good story about good and bad in Thailand. Coincidently, John mentions his barber Verne giving him the idea of Thailand following his trip. Verne was actually in Thailand for my wedding in August 99. I got one of the good Thai ladies and we celebrate 24 years married this year living in Pattaya for the last 15.
What a tragic story ,good video I think this is a good idea for your channel meeting with expats sharing there experiences,I have been married for 26 years to alady from issan.we have had our ups and downs but are very committed to each other.
I can't feel sorry for any moan anywhere that ends up being screwed over by a woman. I am an American I've been married and I've been screwed over right here at home.. I've lost hones here and money and cars and furniture and savings and 401K.. so it happens and it only happens because us men do not treat our relationship like a business.., You protect yourself or you end up screwed.. it's really that simple. I recon my marriages and women in general have cost me easily 1.5 million U.S. in my life time. I've never been out of America... but I can assure you of this I won't ever get screwed over again by anyone..
@Mackem & Thai Indeed, unfortunately. I've just had an agen f**k off with a deposit for a house. I have the receipt, I have messages from the agent agreeing they owe me the money, but my lawyer and cops says its a civil case. It will cost more in court fees than the deposit. Thai justice in an oxymoron.
@@formertenant9276 Most! I have been looking for a wife here not bar girls. I can tell you after meeting and sharing time with over 40 to 50 Thai ladies I know what I'm talking about. Money not love is no 1 here love is about number 5 or 6 down the list!
Absolutely gutted for this guy but hes come through it and I wish him all the best for the future, Unfortunately its happened to hundreds of blokes in Thailand too, it's never love at first sight with these thai woman just money and support never get married...
For someone who has alcohol , drugs and schizo problems she still seems to have her faculty's for turning up and weedling money from him whether in england or thailand . She sounds like a nightmare and i bet its not over yet , it never is with her kind ! . . . .
The first questions I always ask a foreigner when I hear these horror stories is. Where did you meet this Thai woman? Did you ever make any attempts at learning Thai? If you can not speak Thai you should never be messing with any Thai woman. If she is a bar girl or has anything to do with foreigners there should be numerous red flags. Been with the same Thai woman twenty two years. She spoke very little English when we met. You are only asking for trouble if you deal with women from the foreigner tourist slums. Hua Hin, Phuket, Chiang Mai, Pattaya, Koh Samui etc.
@@bigal2417 no family too brain wash him, caretakers looking after the house. Never build a house in Thailand unless you are smart or prepared to lose it. Never do divorce or custody in your home country, use Thai courts, cheaper, part of the Hauge agreement, men get custody 85% of the time.
2002 first trip Aged 26............. the memories back then were Crazy, me and me m8s still reminisce always, stories that many would think we were lying, but young men back then and how good the exchange rate was we were proper Wild.....Pattaya was so much better in many ways back then....... Never ever fell in love with none, understood the Game early on and survived thank God.....-)
First of all, you should always be on the side of caution. Don't rush into marriage, buying property, or anything where your money is on the line. In Thailand, you can establish a corporation, which is very easy to do. Purchase the property in your corporation name. Don't date & marry bar girls. There are so many good and wholesome ladies in Thailand. I hope you lonely guys in Thailand watch this video and learn from this Expat mistakes...
Dont these people learn..I've been here 30 years and these mugs still appear....you wouldn't do this in the uk trusting a bird with the same form...why do it here....
My Thai wife of 6 years stole 2 million from my bank account.She also stole two cars and three bikes.She found a boyfriend in Bangkok two years ago and started to steal.The Police are after her.Watch out for Nisachon Promchantuek or Fang Hyslop.She is evil.
I hope her new boyfriend sees this.He is with a evil theft that will probably cheat on him and steal his eventually.Her family will help her.I will smile when Fang goes to prison.
@@MackemThai apparently Thai wife borrowed money against the house etc from mafia to gamble on pyramid scheme without old boys knowledge until they came knocking.
@@karlw241 well he was smart enough to reverse mortgage the house liquidate assets & negotiate payout deal and leave country with most of his coin some poor cunts get proper asse fukd.
All these people who don’t do there research and use common sense. You wouldn’t put your house or life savings in your girlfriends name in your own country, so why would you do that here in Thailand? Always buy condos, bikes, cars etc in your name. Always put houses in company name. Yes you have 49% but you remain in full control through the allocation of shares. Give them the preference shares and you keep all the ordinary shares as they have more voting rights. Don’t be stupid and you won’t lose your assets.
Lots of story’s like this in Asia.😢 Also my Thai wife starts heavy gambling after 4 happy married years and things got worse. Luckily we did not have kids.😅
Well many us are grateful that he has the courage to share. None of us will ever be as wise as you but hearing a few cautionary tales makes some of us a bit safer.
sorry what happened to you buddy. you appear to be way more smart now. you work your whole life and a person steals half of it by taking half your pension. I sincerely hope you recover finally!
Erreemm -- I think that Ereeemm....the guy Ereeemm---telling a story Ereemm.....should be best friends Erreemm ---with Wayne Rooney....Erreeemm.....anyway....Ereeemm
I hear many stories of thai women dumping their kids. In a society where family dependency is the norm, is this driven by drugs use and mental issues? Maybe more often with a ครึ่ง baby (mixed race) ?
Let's be very clear, it was not your house. A non Thai cannot own land or business in Thailand. You were the person who financed the purchase for a third party. Now you know how incredibly thoughtless it is to include a third party liability with any form of wealth. Unfortunately you are not alone. It is simply delusional to pay for something you don't own. Enjoy Thailand, it's a great place to live, but don't invest your wealth in anything, do not get married, accept that what you spend is precisely that, spent.
That's proper harsh story, but it's so common happens here in Philippines also. As with everything you only hear bad news but hardly ever the success stories which far out weigh the bad experiences people go through, it's totally bad luck. Even with all the shit she put you through looks like you've come out the other side and doing well a change for the better
Happy new year to you. What a great story about real life in Thailand. The guy has had a tough time but has really pulled through - typical northern person . Can’t wait to hear the next instalment. Cheers. 🙏🍺😎🇹🇭🇬🇧🎄🛵
what is most annoying are the vloggers and apologists claiming Thais are honest, can be trusted and do not steal. I learned a lot in my 8.5 year in Chiang Mai .Naivete is the one thing to not bring to Thailand
I’d never trust a Thai
Been happily coming here for 24 years
They are untrustworthy
Most Thais are honest. My #1 rule avoid the tourist slums as if my life depended on it.
@@destinationsroadslesstraveled 🤣🤣🤣 a honest Thai will tell you most are looking for money.
Most Thai men hate ferang
many thai man beat womans,drink en use drugs
@@destinationsroadslesstraveled This has got to be a joke! 🤣
That is Thailand in a nutshell, has been for many years, he played into it and got bit. I know many blokes like him but they never learn. Not showing romantic interest in the Thai women got me a long way over there. They respect you more. If you want a Thai romance, head to the rural areas.better chance of finding real love.
Never truer words "they never learn".
Once is bad, twice is stupid, after that, you deserve what you get (or lose). Me included
Depends which women you show interest in. Most are fine. Go with bar girls you shouldn't be surprised if this does happen .
@@bigal2417 Not all bar girls are bad, only the ones you have met. 555
I have a few German friends who have been ruined by German women. German law is on the woman's side. Financial castration yaah!
What could go wrong maried to a prostitute from a 3rd world country? 🙈
@@janstrater3731Marry your childhood sweetheart by all means but if you've never fallen in love with a prostitute from a different culture, you haven't lived at all.
Lesson to be learned in the land of smiles… The low hanging fruit is rarely the sweetest.
No sympathy for the blokes who end up with a bar girl and get ripped.
Just think, he could have been sat home every night watching Coronation Street, really enjoying life...
Ha ha nice one
Good to hear that he's been there for his kids & also got back on his feet again & rebuilding his life......
If you can't own a house, don't buy one, just rent.
Exactly and why so many foreigners cannot get that through their thick head. Thais will fuck you dry and borrow money, rack up huge debts etc until its all gone. Like months to a flame.
Settle with a Condo. Many farangs knew of Thai land ownership and still got involved.
Many of these older farangs 80+ to leave house behind as a legacy since they hate everybody back home family members.
I retired here at age 28 and just live in hotels.
@@drdavinsky Yeah, why bother
Good story about good and bad in Thailand. Coincidently, John mentions his barber Verne giving him the idea of Thailand following his trip. Verne was actually in Thailand for my wedding in August 99. I got one of the good Thai ladies and we celebrate 24 years married this year living in Pattaya for the last 15.
It doesn’t happen to all foreigners at all. One needs to be more prudent when moving in certain circles.
Good on you mate sticking by your children not a easy thing to do so keep well and i take my hat off to you. Cheers
What a tragic story ,good video I think this is a good idea for your channel meeting with expats sharing there experiences,I have been married for 26 years to alady from issan.we have had our ups and downs but are very committed to each other.
Thanks for your comments and well done it’s along time !
I sent her money so she didn't have to work.5555
I’m pretty sure this guy was the last James Bond! Good story
I can't feel sorry for any moan anywhere that ends up being screwed over by a woman. I am an American I've been married and I've been screwed over right here at home.. I've lost hones here and money and cars and furniture and savings and 401K.. so it happens and it only happens because us men do not treat our relationship like a business.., You protect yourself or you end up screwed.. it's really that simple. I recon my marriages and women in general have cost me easily 1.5 million U.S. in my life time. I've never been out of America... but I can assure you of this I won't ever get screwed over again by anyone..
Agree bud
If you can't afford to lose it don't spend it/invest it. It's never your house, never your land and never your car/motorbike.
Not quite..., vehicles you can own in your name.
Been there, unfortunately. I walked away and started again. The courts just do not want to know.
At story that will be repeated over and over
@Mackem & Thai Indeed, unfortunately.
I've just had an agen f**k off with a deposit for a house. I have the receipt, I have messages from the agent agreeing they owe me the money, but my lawyer and cops says its a civil case. It will cost more in court fees than the deposit.
Thai justice in an oxymoron.
@@asc.445 Good description
What do people expect if you marry a bar girl... come on lads?!
tis true
Makes no difference if shes is a bar girl or not. They have one thing in common all Thai ladies want Money No 1 in the list of what they want.
@@iansfunvids not all.
@@formertenant9276 Most! I have been looking for a wife here not bar girls. I can tell you after meeting and sharing time with over 40 to 50 Thai ladies I know what I'm talking about. Money not love is no 1 here love is about number 5 or 6 down the list!
@@iansfunvids My Thai wife loves me and I got nishpence
Absolutely gutted for this guy but hes come through it and I wish him all the best for the future,
Unfortunately its happened to hundreds of blokes in Thailand too, it's never love at first sight with these thai woman just money and support never get married...
Thanks for sharing mate wish you the best 👍
For someone who has alcohol , drugs and schizo problems she still seems to have her faculty's for turning up and weedling money from him whether in england or thailand . She sounds like a nightmare and i bet its not over yet , it never is with her kind ! . . . .
The first questions I always ask a foreigner when I hear these horror stories is. Where did you meet this Thai woman? Did you ever make any attempts at learning Thai?
If you can not speak Thai you should never be messing with any Thai woman. If she is a bar girl or has anything to do with foreigners there should be numerous red flags.
Been with the same Thai woman twenty two years. She spoke very little English when we met. You are only asking for trouble if you deal with women from the foreigner tourist slums. Hua Hin, Phuket, Chiang Mai, Pattaya, Koh Samui etc.
a good man doing the best for his children good luck to you and your family
strange hearing this story, i have been there myself, cost me 2 houses i had built, a new car, and large plot land, this is Thailand
Many stories like that I think Tony
Ahaahaah This is what a lot of western women do to men, take all !!!!
The next one you might put in company name
Got the house in my Sons name, find a good lawyer..
@@bigal2417 no family too brain wash him, caretakers looking after the house. Never build a house in Thailand unless you are smart or prepared to lose it. Never do divorce or custody in your home country, use Thai courts, cheaper, part of the Hauge agreement, men get custody 85% of the time.
2002 first trip Aged 26............. the memories back then were Crazy, me and me m8s still reminisce always, stories that many would think we were lying, but young men back then and how good the exchange rate was we were proper Wild.....Pattaya was so much better in many ways back then....... Never ever fell in love with none, understood the Game early on and survived thank God.....-)
Patong was Gods gift to men ..
Common Gold a fat bloke in Boston got you by the balls 😂
Great insight lads fair play to yous both ❤🇮🇪
never settle down.
Good on ya mate, keep ya head up
First of all, you should always be on the side of caution. Don't rush into marriage, buying property, or anything where your money is on the line. In Thailand, you can establish a corporation, which is very easy to do. Purchase the property in your corporation name. Don't date & marry bar girls. There are so many good and wholesome ladies in Thailand. I hope you lonely guys in Thailand watch this video and learn from this Expat mistakes...
Facts
Buffalos dead ...need money...😂
Uncle sick.
😂
Dont these people learn..I've been here 30 years and these mugs still appear....you wouldn't do this in the uk trusting a bird with the same form...why do it here....
Dumber than a brick perhaps?
Guys get taken in the Philippines also ! Why don't they learn from others mistakes ?
they don't believe it can happen to them lol
Women, alcohol and the hard landing in Thailand...................thousands did the same .
My Thai wife of 6 years stole 2 million from my bank account.She also stole two cars and three bikes.She found a boyfriend in Bangkok two years ago and started to steal.The Police are after her.Watch out for Nisachon Promchantuek or Fang Hyslop.She is evil.
Wowzer
@@MackemThai I didn't see it coming after 8 years together.She was very clever.I was groomed.She will have to eat prison food very soon.
I hope her new boyfriend sees this.He is with a evil theft that will probably cheat on him and steal his eventually.Her family will help her.I will smile when Fang goes to prison.
Sorry about that wish you all the best
I’ve never heard a story like this ever before in my life. I’m shocked.
Lived in Thailand for 15 years heard it so many times
This could have never happened in Pattaya...
Horror stories been going 23 years to, never got involved best policy in my humble opinion.
Like this guy!
I'm sure I met this guy through a mutual mackem friends.... Peter 'mackem' Barnes ? And Davey Ross? The kids part definitely rings a bell?
You most certainly will have
These stories are not uncommon between Thai and Farang marriages in Thailand .
Happens to many guys before, every day.
my old man got fuked over same way too. 2x houses 2x cars and even moped
Now that is horrendous
@@MackemThai apparently Thai wife borrowed money against the house etc from mafia to gamble on pyramid scheme without old boys knowledge until they came knocking.
So he never learned. If he did his research and used his brain he would still have those things.
@@karlw241 well he was smart enough to reverse mortgage the house liquidate assets & negotiate payout deal and leave country with most of his coin some poor cunts get proper asse fukd.
Just came across your channel, excellent video
Sorry happy new year to you and your wife.
☆ No Risk,No Fun ☆😉
Tough story from a good man.
All these people who don’t do there research and use common sense. You wouldn’t put your house or life savings in your girlfriends name in your own country, so why would you do that here in Thailand? Always buy condos, bikes, cars etc in your name. Always put houses in company name. Yes you have 49% but you remain in full control through the allocation of shares. Give them the preference shares and you keep all the ordinary shares as they have more voting rights. Don’t be stupid and you won’t lose your assets.
Exactly..If you wouldn't do something in your home country don't do it here either...
Amazing how many dumb foreigners both men and women arrive in Thailand daily. Zero common sense!
Lots of story’s like this in Asia.😢 Also my Thai wife starts heavy gambling after 4 happy married years and things got worse. Luckily we did not have kids.😅
Seen a few Thai ladies hooked on gambling in australia.
Wish my sons mother would bring mine and leave him on the doorstep. She's trash!
She's blackmailing me as we speak.
Think you might be wiser to just rent out the Uk place. Prices will only increase and you will always have a base there if ever you should need it.
A sucker lands every minute
This is minor in comparison to the amount of damage foreign men have done in Thailand.
Interesting interview but those explosions are bad for my nerves.
I did think afterwards they were a bit loud ! Thanks for the comment and subscribing.
Yep mate far to loud enjoyed the vdo
Many of these older farangs 80+ to leave house behind as a legacy since they hate everybody back home family members.
I remember meeting Thai girls in the London 80s Thay where working in dose M parlour s back then.. 😉 ☺️.. 😳 😅
“I only work cashier”!😂
Smh, how was she allowed to live in the U.K. after she abandoned her kid and scammed this gentleman. Wtf is wrong with this picture
Dude the volume jumps right up on the into and outro
Ok will sort next video thanks for the comment
Bruhhhh I'm sorry this is Hilarious 😂 😃 😄 😁 🤣
how many thai centric yt channels are there now? 4 billion?!!?
They like to dramatise the mundane, anything to earn a penny....
what a fool, one would think with his story he would be embarrassed to tell it.
Well many us are grateful that he has the courage to share.
None of us will ever be as wise as you but hearing a few cautionary tales makes some of us a bit safer.
Thailand land of freedom + condition ... so get info from the beginnig ....
i don't advice him to sell his house in UK Greetings from the Sultanate of Oman
sorry what happened to you buddy. you appear to be way more smart now. you work your whole life and a person steals half of it by taking half your pension. I sincerely hope you recover finally!
Mine is really different 99% !!!
Always rent , then you can move when you want and invest the money to pay the rent -simple golden rule
Erreemm -- I think that Ereeemm....the guy Ereeemm---telling a story Ereemm.....should be best friends Erreemm ---with Wayne Rooney....Erreeemm.....anyway....Ereeemm
Life..
You wouldn't buy a house that you can't own in the UK, so why do it in a foreign country..?
Can you interview me please. I’m a 31 year old retiree
Gosh... Not another dull RUclips channel
Sure you'll find a lovely Thai lady to give you some investment advice.
loan sharks cannot be beat. and the house was hers. with women and houses always rent never buy. some men never learn.
Build house 🏠 in essn.....lol.hahaha.
Some people are born victims
Crazy story.
I hear many stories of thai women dumping their kids. In a society where family dependency is the norm, is this driven by drugs use and mental issues? Maybe more often with a ครึ่ง baby (mixed race) ?
If your wife sold your house to the mafia, then your house is really gone. Buy new one lol. Best not mess with mafia
Those old draculas want some fun!!!!!! Goooooood for them what happens!!!!!!
A yobs progress
Mama’s baby daddy’s maybe.
Scary
Let's be very clear, it was not your house. A non Thai cannot own land or business in Thailand. You were the person who financed the purchase for a third party. Now you know how incredibly thoughtless it is to include a third party liability with any form of wealth. Unfortunately you are not alone. It is simply delusional to pay for something you don't own. Enjoy Thailand, it's a great place to live, but don't invest your wealth in anything, do not get married, accept that what you spend is precisely that, spent.
1st
What's knew
Another poor farang stolen by bad thai lady...
SMB 😄
What a wasted life... So sad
Mafia lol Muppets
Are you still with Bozo?
That's proper harsh story, but it's so common happens here in Philippines also. As with everything you only hear bad news but hardly ever the success stories which far out weigh the bad experiences people go through, it's totally bad luck. Even with all the shit she put you through looks like you've come out the other side and doing well a change for the better
Unfortunately the good stories are quite boring.
@thomasauslander3757 truth...not many abound.
Happy new year to you. What a great story about real life in Thailand. The guy has had a tough time but has really pulled through - typical northern person . Can’t wait to hear the next instalment. Cheers. 🙏🍺😎🇹🇭🇬🇧🎄🛵
Thanks for that and happy new year to you hope it’s a good one. Next part is good you will enjoy it.
Good luck my son . London geezer here and sad but nice ending to this geezers life up to now.
Good job this has subs.
is there dog shit under the table attracting all the flies?
Bad time to be a mackem when the toon rule the roost..