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3 Crazy Mind Games Girls Play On Guys (You Won't Believe Them)
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2022
- These are 3 crazy mind games that girls play on guys with the main intention of shifting power and getting YOU to chase HER, instead of the other way around.
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In short the MIND GAMES are:
1. She acts uninterested, so men must MIRROR the behaviour.
2. She wants you to prove yourself, so DON'T give in.
3. She wants you to invest everything, but gives you nothing so REFUSE.
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Mind games are an illusion. That's people just hiding the fact they don't have heart. That's all
She actually wants to invest everything into you, taking you’re the right bloke
mind games might come from guy side too tbh. Why only blaming girls?
Don't chase women, it's a very unfulfilling experience. Spend that energy on becoming a better version of yourself.
Starting doing that after my last breakup and I couldn’t be happier with the results I’m seeing already. There really is so much more to life than what meets the eye.
So true. I learned this the hard way! Ha!
I still haven't reached the abundance the stage , to actually get fed up of girls
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@@abhijayskumar1 Usually when dudes talk like you that’s typically a clear sign they haven’t been broken hard enough if even at all, but every guy gets his turn to be broken to the point of soullessness and redirection. It’s a matter of when, not if. Do yourself a favor and prevent that heartbreak and betrayal trauma your soon to experience from a woman by listening to the wise men within your age group and the ones that came before you. Better yet you could simply put all your faith and trust in God instead of in the idea of obtaining or fulfilling something you desire by chasing women.
The best way to get girls without chasing them - is to literally not chase them.
Because, if you do chase them, they’re going to want to run - it’s human nature!
So instead, you should focus on your Purpose, and your Passion. Women love a man on a Mission.
If you got something going on in your life - they’re going to want to be part of it - that’s also human nature!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Or they just give up and move on to the easier guy, the one that's giving them the attention, LOL.
@@sethaldrich6902 I hear ya! Lol
Remember the old saying: You'll always lose money chasing women. You'll never lose women chasing money...
Thats the Incel recipe
@@sethaldrich6902 this be true. I think the key is finding the right balance. You want to talk and communicate and potentially set up things with women but not at the detriment of your progress🔥
Let go of them, both man or woman who likes playing mind game tends to have mental issues, just run away from them!
Exactly stop giving damage people a chance to damage your life
Absolutely right bro 👍👍
Unfortunately girls play all sort of games but most men don't get them ....and some are pretty harsh...
I hear ya - Kiril!
This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with these days - because they could possibly ruin your life, and perhaps the career that you’ve worked so hard for.
You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
We don’t have to get these crap
thats why silence is power..
I let them play their games by theirselfs by simpely ignoring them lmao. Got better things to do than waste my time on some dumb childish games.
Yes, girls find me very direct and harsh. Some of them liked me for that reason, yet didnt get a chance to be with me. I know what I want and what my value is :)
tbh many guys play games with girls too, let's be honest
What I figured out is the only way to win the game is to not play the game at all. Get to a point where, if you were not to have sex every again in your life that would be fine with that or if you never had another relationship with a woman that this would be no problem for you. If you do this, as soon as a woman starts to try and manipulate, control or mess with you, you will detect it from a mile away and as such you'll shut her down by not falling in line and engaging with her tactics. Trust me, they will go insane with rage, seething inwardly(and not understanding why themselves). They will then try to act out against you in a passive aggressive manner, but when this happens all you do is call it out for what it is and ask them to explain why theyre being passive aggressive with you? What it comes down to essentially is dragging out into the light what women want to keep hidden, if you allow it to be kept hidden they'll control you and make you subservient but if you expose what shes doing and shine a light on it, they wont know what to do, they'll be lost for words and will grow even more angry. When all is said and done you win and they lose. They lose because they couldve had a great relationship with you but they also lose because their tactics failed and they were defeated. That type of woman is not someone you want in your life anyway, shes not humble, shes manipulative. A truly humble woman wont do any of these things. By doing this you test and filter women, they think theyre testing you but in fact they are the ones being tested.
Man..... This isn't only 100% on point. The way you articulated it. Someone needs to hack Cosmo and plaster this comment on the cover of every online issue.
My ex was exactly like the situation you describe, now im with an amazing guy and we love and respect each other.
Both sexes have they ways to manipulate, women tend to do it a little different.
Eoin Brennan out here doing the Lord's work!
My tips are: always be prepared to walk away, put in equal effort not more than her, be busy, don't text constantly maybe 2-3 per day max, don't reveal your schedule, don't over compliment, don't give gifts unless you are actually in relationship, don't let her be the focus of your life, fuck her good, don't ask about the status of your relationship, don't be but hurt by stuff (for example you were due to do something together but she cancelled), just say ok cool. All games fellas but you have to play them if you want women.
Exactly, and even in a ltr, after you’ve gotten the women and live with them, still maintain frame. Shit I lost mine after about year 6 . You can never let up on the gas pedal of maintaining frame
@@mgene8093 what do you mean by that? And what happend when you lost frame
@@ElDjiouf because they constantly are testing you too see if you slip up on your frame. shit test after shit test randomly. slip up too many times and bam before you no it frames lost and there calling you out etc when before they wouldn't dare doo that shit. I thought well damn ive been gaming my women etc for years I can relax...sike! think again. the tests are for life with a women in a relationship.
@@mgene8093 But are still with her or did she broke up because of it
@@ElDjiouf nope we split. she got too much attitude when my frame slipped and it ended because she couldn't stop with the constant disrespect.
If she's playing games, it's a red flag! Because think about it, what would the entire relationship look like? Most of all, what would a marriage look like? Think about that! Mature women are always the way to go in my opinion!😉
depending if u want to settle wit her or have fun
Yeah
They ALL play games, to one degree or another. Every last one of them. Know that and you’ll be better prepared
@@Opportunist.00 no loser a women who plays games is a lost cause smh you don't get it till put up with it
Where's the mature women? What do they look like?
Young men:
• Your peers don’t want you to be better than them.
• Your girl doesn’t want you to keep improving because she fears you will leave her
• Your parents don’t want you to take big risks.
Be ruthless in your vision.
Because Nobody cares as much as YOU DO.
currently facing this at home
cute copy paste come up with some OC if you want people to click on your channel
That's right man. Words of wisdom.
@@monkmodeclub 🤣 damn
damn, i just realized this in my late 20s. My parents want me to be succesful but not to the point of me getting out of their control.
You deserve every bit of wealth you've made from this channel.
I being with my girl for 8 yrs and I treat her like shit and she loves me.
And before I used do everything for my ex and she cheated on me.
So this is really truth full....
Or.... Full of Truth
Facts. I just got out of a 7 year ltr. Treated her like gold, year 4 when we moved in she changed on me like a motherfucker. I 100% lost my frame, and realized you can never let your foot off of the gas pedal in maintain frame and just acting like you don’t give a shit. Once you act like you really care etc, it’s check mate she’s got you
You must have a good balance between treating her well and shit. I dont think you only treat her like shit
I had to learn the hard way tbh
But overtime i began to realize that it's worth it and i shouldn't rush it
i've been single for almost 2 years and it has helped me understand certain things
SO with that being said
Don't rush things my gurus have patience and focus on your priorities and what you wanna accomplish.
I always HATED the game. Ever since school. Mainly because I didn't know it. Consequently I never got girls. So...at some point...I gave up. Like...just flat out gave up. Stopped trying altogether.
Now I'm in a relationship and I can only ask myself one question.
What the hell happened?
It was never about game. It’s all about lookism. You didn’t get more girls because you weren’t attractive enough
And what all girls that play mind games don't realise... is that a confident high value man will find their childish, trivial, boring games incredibly tiresome.
Mature men don't play games. Instead, they cherish a strong and honest relationship with one woman. Great relationships are never built on games and power struggles, but on character, trust and reciprocity. If mastery and masculinity are topics that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos shared on the Mastery Order Channel to challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood and to become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
At this point in time if you’re still chasing women and thinking you’ll find one to hold down or one to hold you down you might as well consider your life a Walt Disney movie because you’re living in a fantasy.
Obviously Bro .... Mind games should be for casual things. But for marriage settlement Mind games doesn't work. Yess it is necessary to look attractive at first but more importantly be original.
But unfortunately if one want to get his ideal girl for marriage. He must have gone through or lived with many girls so as to be able to choose wisely when it is time for settlement. (For the better judgement)
@@varunking6766 when to stop with games
The Buddhist have an interesting saying ... " Let go or get dragged. " 😂
Just don't play with them. If you have to fulfill a need well there's easier ways to do it . Just be safe . Life is fantastic as a single guy
that's the hassle, women show interest, when you approach they ignore or just bring you down.
Yes young fellas 18-25 do not let them have more power focus on yourself even super hot bitches will respect you once you’re a buff dude with a big ego.
I really appreciate your knowledge coz in real life lots of things I learnt from you my brother.
Love from india
When you got heart you don't have to play games. It's just hard for people to say how they feel it takes heart to get your words together. Nothing wrong with women. Some just lack heart. Just like men. So they pride makes them play games. All pride means is you don't want to lose. All heart means is I just love you.
There is one catch: Feelings.
One can know what he wants, when he feels for her the theory of using this knowledge becomes a struggle. Plus when she does not respond in the way he wants (according to this theory) it might get even worse.
It's better to include: Do not focus on one particular woman (or on women at all).
If she asks if you want to be a friend. Say no. Simple
Why ?......can you just explain.....I might learn
@@emmanueletim3029 because her intentions is only to be friends. And for you it’s not the same. But for her you will be another fish in the sea. Trust me it always works. You want something serious ask her out and then you will get your answer.
Thanks for sharing! I really like this channel. Keep it up!
I'm not far from average....
Bench press for reps after losing an organ ( colon ) and almost dying clinically twice: 250 for reps on bench now. Went from 122lbs body weight to 204 lbs, had to have multiple blood transfusions to stay alive.
Maybe for some it won't be reps on bench, but reps in inserting yourself into life. I took swing dancing lessons, and danced with a 27 year old M.D who was a female. Put yourself out there, Take yoga etc.
Yoga HURTS!! LOL! Good shit!
These dude's want to get women who are thin and in shape when they never stepped foot in the gym.
Yeah huge problem when you give all your attraction to the ugly girls, they end up liking you and the girl you want will totally back off no matter what you do, in order to not step on the friends claim over you. Seen it many times and had it happen many times.
And the her chasing you thing def doesn't work now a days, they'll just give up and move on to an easier guy, which there are a ton now a days.
I agree to you bro. I want to share some suggestions based on my experience that...
1. Be a tough one before initiating a conversation. Remember a girl in reality don't know that how she is looking to you.
2. Once when conversation start, play the switch games that is act like ... One day inferior other day superior...one day asking then rejecting ... One day appreciate then next day low/average.
3. Don't be a desperate one unless she is in mood to hear that
4. Remember your self respect but don't get always triggered because of that.. accept the insult if tolerable then reflect it back other day.
5. Be yourself/original after a good connection established.
#) work for many girls in parallel. As a backup or Factor of safety 😅😅
I'm not a master of dating.I'm just an average guy and these are my experience based points.
if you act like you like my friend that means you're off limits for me anyway. giving your attention to someone i care about will make me ship the two of you, i will not consider you a possible partner for myself.
@@varunking6766 strange logic, you contradict yourself several times
Indeed when I saw the Video title I didn‘t want to click on it cause to me „what they really want“ is just the wrong question to ask. Set your own standards and play your own game. So the question is: What do YOU want? Find out and then be selective and test women on your own.
"Fucking mind games, enough!" - Half Light
I asked z as girl out who thirst trapped me for months. Now that I’m ignoring her she butt hurt on her social media. She’s butt hurt I didn’t chase her. Lol
I know that this is, like you said, is very much a part of the laws of attraction. I'm not going to jump to any conclusions, but ignorance is also a key factor in the laws of attraction. Personally, I've ignored a few gals who may, or may not have been interested in me. Yes, it doesn't always help, but there were a few sparks that I shared with a gal from church who was a good ten years younger than me, and I didn't exactly play the chase game with her, but it felt much more like the two of us had butterflies for the other.
Ignoring girls does not mean “ignorance” lol
@@rajs128 Guess I should've stated the difference between ignoring someone intentionally and ignoring someone as a means of someone who's trying to get your attention. ;-)
Dam 10 years?
You are confusing power with authority. Power is strength and 95% of the time you will have power of the women. It's the authority in the relationship we should be concerned with. Remember, the man is the head of the household which means he holds the authority of the house. However, he loves his woman and makes sure she has everything she needs and she is taken care of. It's because men can't do that anymore in which women have to play these "games" when in reality these are weed out methods.
The Theme song is on point.
When I was 43 I lost 55 lb and became a 190 lb at 6 ft 1 in. I was also quite fit and bicycle commuted 40 or so Miles every day. I'm also the same age as Kurt russell. The reason I mention that is because my whole life, even in my teen years, people told me I look like Kurt russell.
So I had an experience when I turned 43 and lost that weight that allowed me to see first hand what you were talking about at the beginning of this video. My brother and I went to an upscale bar in the late afternoon in Bellevue Washington that was packed with people. As we sat at the bar ordering our single malts, I looked around the room and I couldn't believe how many beautiful women I made eye contact with. It suddenly hit me like a brick: They were all looking at me. It's not that I was looking at them.
But to be clear, I had also been cut loose by my wife of 20 years the month before, and I figured I was done with women. The good news is that less than a month later I went to my 25-year high School reunion and found the love of my life to whom I've been married now for 24 years and it only gets better. And no, we never dated in high school. We only knew of each other.
and the reason I'm here at all, is because every now and then your videos show up in my feed and I have to admit that your wisdom for young men is the best I've seen anywhere at all. It's quite shocking actually. If I had known back then what I know now, I never would have had the problems I had 25 and 50 years ago. On the other hand, I also would have been dangerous to women. I honestly did not know what I was bringing to the table. I know it now because, even at my age, I actually now look like a young Kurt russell. I aged a lot better. 🤣
By the way, just a side note. After I lost the weight I cut my hair in a crew cut. I would actually have complete strangers come up to me when I was walking in downtown Seattle and asked me if I was a guy named Howie long. I had to look him up on the internet. He did look like me it was kind of spooky.
Nice work.
This chick was trying to get my attention while I was driving, but I just acted aloof. It drove her crazy-- she chased me for miles and even got her friend to pop my tires, forcing me to stop. She even got a judge to say I have to see her at this special date called a "hearing," she totally wants me bros. Keep on the path, we're all gonna make it.
This golden comment deserves far more attention XD
What's the status now!!!
Lol
This is facts 🙏 thanks brother!
Men leads, it’s that simple it’s in the Bible. If she ain a Proverbs 31 female ain takin ha serious period.
Great breakdown!
Play game's --- I'm out!!!!!!!! Rather die alone then be with a bullshitter!!!!!!
I love this channel, very imformative and true
Reject modernity and embrace musclenity 💪🏻
Nah, on my view of things, it's about merging the two. We can't devolve!
Me, a woman clicking on this video:
*my motives are above your understanding*
Edit: BROS WHO HURT YOU
We need more vids from far from average based on this concept
Great topic,my friend.thanks
loved ur videos, please do more about habits, beliefs, subconcious etc
If you are into such topics and if mastery and masculinity are things that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos shared on the Mastery Order Channel to challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood and to become the kind of man you would admire and look up to.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
Let me give a background story of the girl I like: her name is roo, she's short, asian, 22 years old. She works at Amazon but according to my uncle she went to school to become a high school teacher but that didn't work out.
I didn't see her for about 3 weeks, until yesterday when she pulled up on her bike and asked me to go to her mother's b'day party. We Sang karaoke together, she picked out a bunch of love songs. I didn't make a move since her friends and family were observing us. I got up to head to the bathroom when I heard her sister or cousin call me jealous. I am jealous, jealous how close everyone there is, jealous of their culture, and jealous of her talking to other guys. I ended up leaving drunk and quiet, she followed me outside, rubbed my back and said she'll see me later. What should've I done different? 🙏
l felt this many years ago and you sir have now put it into words and saved a lot of guys hopefully from heart ache.
Isn't there anyway to get them to play our game instead of us playing a game that they are so good at that men don't know that they are losing a majority of the time?
This right here bruh! I've been so infuriated over the past couple of weeks after discovering about their stupid games. And wat makes me even more angry is that they say we should make these low values hoes play by our rules but we're the ones giving up to their stupid games 😠. And they don't even care if u don't understand or don't even want to play the game, they just keep disrespecting u until u're fed up and explode. Now I don't even care about no fucking law anymore I'ma start beating up these bitches, I'm waiting for another one hoe to disrespect me 😡
And this is why men use to slap the taste out of a woman's mouth in the old days. Its all about respect
That is wat I'll be doing from now on they better not cross the line again 😤
Every situation involving any woman ur even remotely attracted to, or attracts a women becomes a game.. i didnt know i was in one and she kept shifting and moving into my line of sight thts ur 1st type, second type is ur with her and she continuously plays games inside ur own relationship.. why my whole life older men in relationships around me just threaten to kick her out or drop the whole thing because they got tired of tht sh and dont feed into it
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Ur ❤️ is atomic and dynamic
But some suspense and
Happy ending climax.
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Together We💎💍💪 can achieve that.
Settle at Coonoor. FARM HOUSE 🏠
I LIKE TAMIL CULTURE. ITS REALLY APPEALING! They have genuine respect towards Feminity and show real respect from the 💖 heart' and
Not like Mallu
Hypocrites...
Back biting, gossiping.
Breach of Trust....all hell
I hate Kochi coz every one is Over Smart and Hypocrites liars
Thank you and God bless...
I wish I knew how to do all this and maybe something would finally work for me.
I could never understand why people like chasing someone. I never chased anyone in my life. Anyone that understands their values doesn't chase.
Not when u a have a perfect male body with all the juices goin on, on the inside.
Cell phone more important than real life? Walking away. Ignored? Ok, she's a lost cause. Walking away. A female will throw herself at you if you're her first choice, and if you aren't, have the self-respect to walk away.
Get out there lads and play the game. Start chatting, see how it goes. Don't expect to be any good at first. Keep working it, you'll get better and you'll bag a player. 👍
You are right bro ... I was shy/inferior in school days but at the age Of 23 I started flirting & chatting.... Yeah that's working well it is unbelievable.
No one else is going to talk about the God of War intro?
That's a really cool dramatic entrance 🔥🔥🙌🙌😁🙌🔥😁🙌😁🙌
that aloof mind game... you do it to me once, not twice. i'm not playing that game. too much fish in the sea
Be her student, learn her and later become her master
Someone please tell me if this is a coincidence. Just saw an ad of a woman giving tips on " how to win women over" when I clicked this video. Funny cos I was just told not to listen to such tips from women
But why is it that women are the first ones to say they don't want to play games and that's all they do
Why are liars always the first ones to say they dont lie? and thats all they do
Somehow I get so many texts but then say they don't know anything or act super dumb 😂
Also good video!
that is not a crazy mind play at all, but thanks for the information anyway, effort is apreciated
These are facts bro..I've been with my mother for 15 years gave her the power and basically became a puppet ...she took everything I loved doing watching sports,my hobbys etc... I stopped getting 🙀 all while I was handling the Bill's on my own so I had to walk all way ...If your good guy You get treated like shit not only tht but you'll be less attractive in her eyes
Kings intro 💪🏻
*sigh* Basically you’ll never find peace until you’re dead, these type of videos make me realise giving attention n giving my everything makes them lose attraction then tbh i don’t want that relationship or them either than being hard to get or being patient makes me less of a man then im great dying alone will be painful but sorry me following certain regious paths n certain morals don’t allow me to.. it is a harsh reality i know but i just can’t accept a life where i can’t share my emotions *cuz a man is suppose to be strong* instead bottle it up cuz no one gives a shit me trying to find happiness in that persons happiness is just gonna end up making them lose attraction whats the point this doesn’t seem like a peaceful life where i have to walk on eggshells with my significant other i don’t disagree on control but sometimes i do too end up breaking down n thats where even alone i try not to cry cuz a man doesn’t cry weird thing for me but its engrained in me but i would want someone whom i can sit down n feel comfortable to let myself be vulnerable when stuff hits hard i guess thats never gonna happen
I feel the same way bro
Nop sorry bro never gonna happen. Wat I've discovered from my own observations is that these hoes don't even want u to laugh at them let alone cry!
Honestly what should we guys do or be to make ladies happy😂. Other than having the lion mindset okay..... Make them chase us and so on.
Someday girls are gonna go for girls at a certain point just bcz we are not good enough for their strange mentalities😂😂.
Girls take it easy on us.
For the person who liked my comment
Am i wright or wrong?
U totally wrong
Wrong.
You are wrong.
Not all women like the company of other females. Especially their more attractive friends or if some other women is flirting with the guy she wants. Women play really messy games on their own gender as well.
The stuff I hear says “make men chase you”… I think we are all gonna end up single if no one “chases” 😆
If a girl ask me to buy her a drink (wich didnt hapened so far) i would probably have a little game with her. I would not be flirting with her, but be just normal. I would ask what drink she wants, turn to bartender order my drink and say that i would like one more… than turn to the girl and ask „what did she wanted” (like i alredy forgot). Then i would hand her drink… and just move on. Thats it. The point is I would treat her just like some random dude asking me for cigarette. The point is i would re-frame situation in: i am kind person, who is not affraid of couple of bucks BUT the same time - i am not interested in her or any reward, i am busy and have things to do, and she is just some dude that forgot her wallet.
or say to her ladies first - I bet she would have bought you one
Intro is bad
I agree.
Awesome Intro!!!
Women would have a way easier time if they were more decisive with desire. It's such a waste of energy the amount of time they spend on pretending.
For example I make it clear on my dating app profile that I'm a FWB guy. So a woman whose profile goals say she's looking for a "relationship" opens me playing off like she's not sure.
So I tease her that she's 100% sure based on her writing but I'll initiate so she can tell her GF's she had "no choice". That got her laughing and within 5 messages she's trying to sell me on why I should drive to her place. 🤣
Learn from your mistakes. Don’t trust her.
Or have a healthy and normal amount of resilience for the things that occasionally happen in this life. Jesus.
Yeah women are into power not love or rather maybe power is love to them not sure.
You said it all my gee
100% accurate
Once you ignore their games, they will even come back in a sly way to want to buy you things or do things for you just to get some form of power back. Then when you give in, then it's back to square one😂
@@kenice6200 my wife does that with sex then if we ever do it is back to square one.... and they love to say shit like I won't do this that or the other because you don't treat me right all because you reacted in anyway to shotty way they treat you.
Aggression = Attraction to them
Doesn't even have to be love
I don't think they are capable of loving where there isn't any aggression.
I appreciate your facts man they're really indie
If mastery and masculinity are topics that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos shared on the Mastery Order Channel to challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood and to become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
Great video....
I'm 44 and have been playing this game with women for over 20 years
Lost interest over a decade ago
Why did u lose interest?
Everything describe in this video is relate to where highly emotional intelligence is you're best friend.
Girls: Please stay away from me
These "alphas": Okay brothers now she doesn't actually want to call the police, what she really wants...
do not ever chase ! know your value! dont waste your time whit ladies who plays mind games ...
Hey, I am just curious, how do you make your videos? What software do you use? Cheers
Hey brother! I love your channel and I found it definitely usefull, but untill a certain point. I think these things are universally true for all men and women, but things become more complex and messy when you are an immigrant or foreigner in another country. I myself lived in Europe for years and recently moved to the USA. I always found it that foreigners are more disadvantageous when it comes to date due to different sorts of discriminations. Even I'm a person always physically trained, educated (I'm still a student) and socially active, i feel a "white guy" gets more attention just because of skin color (at least at first glance). I think these are unfair advantage of male competition and makes a unhelthy society. Could yoy plaese make a video about it?
Thanks!
Bro the only reason people look at you differently is cause you expect them too, if you came on here for benefit and not to play the victim then I can give you some advice. Be yourself, worry about how people feel, not what they think. There will always be someone that doesn’t like you or is jealous of you. Don’t let outside things get in the way of your school.
In the day and age we live in white people are being discriminated against only for being white, other politicians putting labels on them like if their are white they are automatically racist and bigoted. Which them saying that is itself racist. If you want to be successful in the social hierarchy, just keep watching these videos. The people that look at you and only see your skin color are the type of people you should stay away from. School, money, and girl is what you should worry about, friends that you need will reveal themselves.🙏🏻🙏🏻
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And the notion the people get treated differently based on their skin color is racist itself. For example if you look at a white guy and think “ Oh this guy probably has way more friends, and gets way more puss, it’s probably because he’s white” that is a little racist don’t you think. The way the media portrays a lot of tragedies as racially or politically motivated, I believe, is the reason for this preconceived way of thinking.
Everybody making stereotypes offensive, I feel, is another reason for all of this confusion. If you are apart of a race, it is okay to accept the stereotypes that come with it and don’t take offense when people make jokes aligned with those stereotypes because you can turn around and make the same joke about how white he is. This culture of victim hood is going to be the downfall of America. People no longer want to take responsibility, we’ve gotten too soft. Making up problems because we forgot how good we have it. Poverty for Americans is an iPhone and a happy meal, we’ve advanced so much that we no longer have real things to complain about. People 200 years ago had to fight for they’re life on a daily basis, and at the end of the day they ate at the table with a smile on their face. Nowadays you’ll see people crying in the middle of a McDonald’s because someone misgendered them. It really blows my mind the way us Gen Zers can’t get a grip. I can at least. If you read this thank you it took like 30 minutes to write. I just want the best for people and the best for the greatest country today and forever, America. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
thats the victim mindset of losers
@@jebrutledge7624 I appreciate the time to spend on writing this positive advices, but believe me I was thinking as you were untill just very recent. I was strongly disagree wirh people who were complaining about discrimination, but once it hit me I just felt as they were. It is true that it is mostly abouy how do you perceive things but man, you can't understand it untill you experience! Just as an example, tinder have statisric of women's responde rate to guys from different ratial background and u can see hiw biased is that. I do not overrate or ubderrate anybody due to their skin colour but I can say it is reall common in western culturet
Anyways thanks for sharing ur thoughts!
Nah man, it's nothing about you and everything to do with USA girls, they are not the type of women anyone should be dating.
That works as insecurity and the more you feed it the worse it does to you.
If you think something works against you, for example prejudice, just make it less visible or take away the focus, ignore it because if you treat it as less important other people will also notice it less and the relationships become better because you focus on the person and not the background.
I just don’t play games. No point in chasing a girl who’s not upfront.
Intro is awesome
“Society has framed females being more valuable than men,” I’d like to know where you got that information
Also a lot of these, what if she doesn’t like you? You’re treating women like they are a puzzle to be solved, if you are interested in her and she is interested in you go talk to her! Simple isn’t it? I doubt women will put all this effort to “get you to chase her”.
For your last point the “prove yourself to me” game, I think it’s valid. You’re getting her to trust you. Isn’t that what you want? For her to trust you and be interested in you?
Also, I’d like to know your sources for these ☺️
Shut up woman!
If you've ever written an essay, you'll know that common knowledge doesn't require sources.
@@_fadingcolorsI’m asking for his real life experiences with women. (I could have worded that better, my mistake.) Because all of these interactions he’s supposedly had with women are very unlikely.
@@harm7453 What happens with a lot of women, especially attractive ones, is that they're constantly showered with attention by guys that when a man doesn't place value on her based on her looks, it makes her try to seek validation in other ways
Get more involved with females and u'll totally understand wat FarFromAverage is trying to teach.
This is priceless
Thats what its called. Invest everything and get nothing. I coulnt put my finger on it, but it seemed like they wanted me to invest. Yes, invest thats what to call it. I just basically only put energy into myself which does me alot of good, but i dont think i chace them enough. Im just like feet kicked up sittin back workin on me only and i get health in return. Im after health, i have it. When a woman finds out how old I actually am, theyre off by 10 years on the guess. Its all highway miles baby! 😃 I have what they really want, is health. While theyre gettin old with wrinkles and cigarettes, not me.
I’m baffled 😕 who has time for mind games. People will do reverse psychology man or women. But adults don’t play games.
How do you get women to respect you- the one and only secret that has been hidden and forbidden. You guys ready to hear the truth? Do not play the game. Game is a bad behavior that is reinforced within people. Imagine right now you play the game and accept the games that women play and life is all going to be a game; fun fact it will be a headache for you and the women will always make you look bad. I do not play the game - haven't played any games in 2018. I still get women who try to so hard for me to approach them but for me I refuse to speak to someone who does not want to speak to me regardless of the "hints"; might as well be self respect that I have for my self.
Aren't women objectively more "valuable" than men? From an evolutionary perspective, a community can lose way more men than it can women and still preserve enough reproductive potential to survive as a community / tribe.
Thats why we have traditionally done all the more dangerous jobs and traditionaly havent allowed them to risk their lives in war etc...
Im no expert and I know this notion is old fashioned, not PC, and less relevant than it once was... but I just cant help but feel its true and always will be.
So, there must be a way to acknowledge how precious they are without appearing to place them on a pedastool or lose respect / attractiveness.
Time to reexamine that thousand years old past bias. We have overpopulation right now. So no, they arent more valuable today. The mess single mothers make shows that even with kids men are necessary. We are equal in the present.
Should we try to pay for the first date?
keep it cheap and test if she offers to help pay?
If you pay for the first date she’ll expect it always… Or not. It’s really all dependent on the person I think
When I really like someone and know they are hard on money I won’t accept their offer to pay …. But then it makes me wonder about the future too and if they won’t be able to keep themselves/ a family afloat
@@alana1119 Thanks for the response.
So you think maybe 50/50 or pay for ourselves is best?
Finally I'm getting closure that I always needed...now I'll show you bitches
As a woman you are right on some things but not on the explanation/backstory behind it haha. Yes women play the game to make the men chase the women but not for a power dynamic, I do this ‘game’ because if I’m the one chasing the guy that makes me feel musculine and doesn’t feel right to me. Maybe you can ask a female friend about these things while editing a video? Maybe it will give some accurate perspectives?
It goes both ways
I'm oblivious to it all. I'm too busy. But interesting to know what others go through without all the constant chatter and moaning on.
Epic ass music what the hell 🤣 my mans livin up to his channel name
More videos please sir
Such a backwards world...
Yeah still wondering why I was brought into this mess
You are angel for man community
I just mostly ignore all that stuff. I see it and recognize it, but do not play.