This is a perfect example of someone who has a great life but doesn’t realize it until they lose it and they have to deal with the consequences of their actions
Wendy IS isolating her daughter from her Dad and the child WON'T forget it and WILL start to distance herself more and more from her and she has earned it.
I've sat with so many older single women and I can tell you this... they're miserable. There's not one of them that doesn't regret not accepting a proposal, or a life with a guy they knew 10-20 years before. As men, we tend to find younger women, because that's generally what we want. As older women, the options they have to choose from, dwindle year after year, starting around 30 years of age. This story also hits on a HUGE problem, and that social media. It's nothing but lies, deceit and fantasy, constantly fuelled by filters and fake photos, by the gender that thrives on one upping each other. Hashtag "the perfect life " Hashtag "living my best life " The problem doesn't even apply to only single women either, because we all know that women in relationships pull the same silliness. It poisons women's hearts and minds, makes them feel like their lives are less, and that they're missing out on some great experience. Another great story.
This story sounds like something covered in SSM about a year ago. That video was linked to a Daily Mail article about a married woman who had done the same thing. Left her husband to party it up in Miami. A few years later, she returned to her ex...and found that he'd moved on. She was full of regrets. I believe in that article she hadn't taken her child with her though.
The glitz, glamour, what some might call "living," never lasts. If it did, Hollywood would have the longest lasting marriages and most fulfilled people.
If the mother is constantly out, leaving the child behind with their own parents, then the other bio parent of the child should be able to sue for custody and/or send the child support to the grandparents directly. Also, alimony is a joke. Breaking the wedding vow (like any contract) shouldn't benefit people who break them.
Some people are never happy. The lady in this video wasn't happy when she was married, and is miserable now that she is single. I just can't imagine what it is like to live life like this.
That's the life Y O U CHOSE Toots AND you ruined what you had. Good! Y O U deserve it. Also Gentlemen, NEVER NEVER EVER accept an under employed/ un employed woman who contributes zero to the finances.
You kind of lose either way. She's either a stay at home parasite wife, bored, cruising Tinder on the sly or she goes to work and gets involved with a co-worker. The only solution these days is to stay single. Women are not marriage material any more, if they ever were.
Great analogies in this one. All the doors she thought were open to her were revolving doors, she was too busy looking at others lives to live her life, universe telling you that sometimes what you have is worth more than what you want and finally the classic grass is greener where you water it. These are words of truth and wisdom.
Then she will be 40, then 50 and chances are she will still be alone. You know she'll never settle for less than Prince Charming. Shocking that men don't want single/divorced mothers, who would have thought.
That was heartbreaking to get through, even for one of these stories. For someone to willingly choose such a path was like watching a train wreck in slow motion.
Social media and reality tv have ruined how some women view relationships. Stability and security is more important than exciting parties and Instagram likes.
I think the fact the highest status kind of guy she could grab is a SEMI-famous DJ & a RETIRED athlete should've told her she wasn't as much of a coach as she thought; even BEFORE the kid came into the picture.
Not a single ounce of sympathy for this ungrateful woman. She wanted out and got divorced getting awarded the house, alimony and primary custody with child support, but then dumps the child on her parent to go out partying. The court system really screws over men and so many women wonder why men in droves are done with marriage. The guy should sue for primary custody after getting married since his will be the more stable environment for the child.
Idk why she would divorce, but then want her daughter. Being a mom would weigh her life down more than being a wife. And why would giys wanting to stay casual be an issue? If she wanted a steady relationship, she already had that.
Lesson for life INSTA, FACEBOOK, TIK TOK etc. are NOT the real Life. Those "Friends" dont give a F about the real you! It's just a meaningless Dopamine rush. This liveing your best life catch Frase (meaningless dates, Partys) ruined more People then you can count.
She thinks the grass is way greener on the other, as soon as she's on the other side it's a barren wasteland, now years later she comes to the realization she squandered everything and for what a flash in a pan former athlete she calls a DJ in Miami, you know the old saying goes "Another Woman's trash is another woman's treasure" she just can't fish out what's in the trash after someone else picked it out of there 17:39
she 27 or 27? And why would someone who wants to have rooftop parties take a kid and be a single mum? Surely she would want him to have primary custody? Good story. Think a lot of girls need to listen to this. Who am I kidding, thier beyond saving.
This is a perfect example of someone who has a great life but doesn’t realize it until they lose it and they have to deal with the consequences of their actions
1. Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose. 2. Wherever you go, there you are.
Wendy IS isolating her daughter from her Dad and the child WON'T forget it and WILL start to distance herself more and more from her and she has earned it.
My ex tried that……my youngest maintains a relationship with both of us but my oldest hasn’t spoken to her in 18 years
Pretty much a walking example of "be careful what you wish for, you might get it".
I've sat with so many older single women and I can tell you this... they're miserable. There's not one of them that doesn't regret not accepting a proposal, or a life with a guy they knew 10-20 years before. As men, we tend to find younger women, because that's generally what we want. As older women, the options they have to choose from, dwindle year after year, starting around 30 years of age. This story also hits on a HUGE problem, and that social media. It's nothing but lies, deceit and fantasy, constantly fuelled by filters and fake photos, by the gender that thrives on one upping each other. Hashtag "the perfect life " Hashtag "living my best life " The problem doesn't even apply to only single women either, because we all know that women in relationships pull the same silliness. It poisons women's hearts and minds, makes them feel like their lives are less, and that they're missing out on some great experience. Another great story.
This story sounds like something covered in SSM about a year ago. That video was linked to a Daily Mail article about a married woman who had done the same thing. Left her husband to party it up in Miami. A few years later, she returned to her ex...and found that he'd moved on. She was full of regrets. I believe in that article she hadn't taken her child with her though.
Its so pathetic when people think "clubbing" is their best life.
It shows you how shallow and vacuous some of these simpletons are.
But it's good, let natural selection take its course.
I mean WTF😂😂😂😂????
The glitz, glamour, what some might call "living," never lasts. If it did, Hollywood would have the longest lasting marriages and most fulfilled people.
Amen.
Her: "All of my friends are getting ran through. I want to get ran through too!"
If the mother is constantly out, leaving the child behind with their own parents, then the other bio parent of the child should be able to sue for custody and/or send the child support to the grandparents directly.
Also, alimony is a joke. Breaking the wedding vow (like any contract) shouldn't benefit people who break them.
Some people are never happy. The lady in this video wasn't happy when she was married, and is miserable now that she is single. I just can't imagine what it is like to live life like this.
Wendy is getting what she deserves.
Exactly, she was a selfish woman that didn't appreciate what she had.
That's the life Y O U CHOSE Toots AND you ruined what you had. Good! Y O U deserve it. Also Gentlemen, NEVER NEVER EVER accept an under employed/ un employed woman who contributes zero to the finances.
You kind of lose either way. She's either a stay at home parasite wife, bored, cruising Tinder on the sly or she goes to work and gets involved with a co-worker. The only solution these days is to stay single. Women are not marriage material any more, if they ever were.
Great analogies in this one. All the doors she thought were open to her were revolving doors, she was too busy looking at others lives to live her life, universe telling you that sometimes what you have is worth more than what you want and finally the classic grass is greener where you water it. These are words of truth and wisdom.
Just another example of why no man marries. Men get screwed in divorces. Women are not worth the trouble and expense of divorce.
This is a classic example of "Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it"
TRUTH!
The house, primary custody, child support AND alimony...
And then people wonder why men are avoiding marriage.
And parking her child with her parents much of the time. It's disgusting thr bias against men in family court.
Then she will be 40, then 50 and chances are she will still be alone. You know she'll never settle for less than Prince Charming.
Shocking that men don't want single/divorced mothers, who would have thought.
Believe it or not, sometimes your boring life is someone else's dream.
That was heartbreaking to get through, even for one of these stories. For someone to willingly choose such a path was like watching a train wreck in slow motion.
If that's the way you feel divorce him without taking half his shit.
This is a selfish woman who will end up with a daughter that hates her.
Social media and reality tv have ruined how some women view relationships. Stability and security is more important than exciting parties and Instagram likes.
I think the fact the highest status kind of guy she could grab is a SEMI-famous DJ & a RETIRED athlete should've told her she wasn't as much of a coach as she thought; even BEFORE the kid came into the picture.
Smart man “I don’t do single moms”😂, why is living you best life always spreading legs for females
well you got the life you wanted why are you upset?? you didn't want the day in and day out of being married
Hold up. Women claim they are better parents and how men aren't yet they believe it's not the best life to be a mother lol
Not a single ounce of sympathy for this ungrateful woman. She wanted out and got divorced getting awarded the house, alimony and primary custody with child support, but then dumps the child on her parent to go out partying. The court system really screws over men and so many women wonder why men in droves are done with marriage. The guy should sue for primary custody after getting married since his will be the more stable environment for the child.
Idk why she would divorce, but then want her daughter. Being a mom would weigh her life down more than being a wife. And why would giys wanting to stay casual be an issue? If she wanted a steady relationship, she already had that.
Lesson for life INSTA, FACEBOOK, TIK TOK etc. are NOT the real Life. Those "Friends" dont give a F about the real you! It's just a meaningless Dopamine rush. This liveing your best life catch Frase (meaningless dates, Partys) ruined more People then you can count.
Old plumber proverbs: the grass is greener over the septic tank…..
Basically the green grass is usually on a pile of crap.
Now this was a great story.
She thinks the grass is way greener on the other, as soon as she's on the other side it's a barren wasteland, now years later she comes to the realization she squandered everything and for what a flash in a pan former athlete she calls a DJ in Miami, you know the old saying goes "Another Woman's trash is another woman's treasure" she just can't fish out what's in the trash after someone else picked it out of there 17:39
Growing up in the 60’s I remember the adults saying “ they are splitting up because of the 7yr itch” lol
“iT’s nOt fAiR!”
Shiny object syndrome.
she 27 or 27? And why would someone who wants to have rooftop parties take a kid and be a single mum? Surely she would want him to have primary custody?
Good story. Think a lot of girls need to listen to this. Who am I kidding, thier beyond saving.
Oh poor Wendy. She got WALL marks on her face.
A true life story!!!
As Nickelback sang "Are we having fun yet?"
Alimony is just a scam.
It's a form of slavery.
There is no more every other weekend. 50 50 is the norm
Ask and you will receive.
Typical modern married Woman, divorces her Husband to find herself......with somebody else's money
Another goofball 😅😅😅
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