A very compelling depiction of the real costs of infidelity. A broken man. A broken family. All because a selfish woman had to sleep with a coworker a few times. I liked how the husband did not want to hear the whys or justifications. It doesn't matter why, or when, or how many times. It only matters that she did. And that destroyed several lives.
Absolutely the most realistic story I’ve heard on RUclips!!! Women don’t seem to comprehend the damage done when they’re unfaithful. Nothing can ever be the same after it becomes known. He tried to reconcile her affair but couldn’t look at her face when having sex because he would FOREVER see her looking back at her AP. You NEVER get over it. You’re NEVER stronger for having gone through it. You’re just broken. The absolute best you can hope for is learning how to manage the pain.
neither do men. It was just sex, it didn't mean anything is poor justification and is meaningless. I was bored and wanted excitement also sucks. If you reconcile the replacement relationship is hollow and lacks the trust and respect required to be a love affair. An orgaam is measured in seconds, hurt is measured in lifetimes.
@@mikemorse8609 "it was just sex". The more the betrayer down-plays and claims the treason is "meaningless", the worse it actually is. The more "meaningless" the affair is says that their actual relationship was of so little value the betraying partner was willing to toss it for something "meaningless".
A w§ore only cares about herself. She had a long going affair, hided it, never cared about the consequences for him. He tried, but he no longer could live with that shi1load of scum. Had she ended the affair, confessed to him, maybe she had had a chance. Her friend said it - what did you expect? A w§ore aka vvoman never cares, not about the young kids, not about the family, not about - and that is sure 100% of the time, about her husband. Cheating w§ores are egoistic a§§holes, who only think about themselves. Only if they face the deserved consequences (lonliness, pain, suffering because she now is a overloaded single mother), they regret that they got caught. They think "why had he to find out, it worked so good for me". THAT is the final stroke who break the camels back.
What took so long? Other than the children he shud have kicked her out that 1st night? Of course she Won! She cheated on Him but still wins in the divorce!
It might be that he wasn't attractive anymore, many men let themselves go, and assume they are still "good to go" . I love men, but they need to work to be attractive, just as women do. We aren't all whores. The next woman will also be a person of her own.
that he still sleeps with a betraying wioman in itlelf is amzing. would my wife betray me I wouyldn't ever touch her with a poile, sullied; besides I'd divorce instantly, no questions asked. it may sometimes, rarely, possible to forgive, never to forget, and imahges will haunt the bretrayed spouse forever. once trust is broken it is for good
There was a reason why she was cheating...Loneliness...Horny for something else....Wanted out of marriage....Excitement...If he had not asked her about it she would still be with the guy. She stopped seeing her lover because she had to not because of love for family. That's what I thought bothered him.
I don't understand why the majority of guys who contribute to these threads feel justified in criticising men who post stories and experiences and don't immediately go scorched earth. Here's a reminder 1. The story may be a work of fiction. Or 2. It's NOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. So it's not your business how they choose to deal with it or why. There are 2 children in this relationship. I have no idea why she cheated or if her husband had anything to do with her decision. What I do know is that if she had issues she should have discussed them with her husband rather than cheating but she didn't. The children didn't ask for or deserve this $hit storm. Nor did they deserve to have mom and dad at each others throats. Fair play to the husband for how he handled it. He decided separation/dovorce was best moved on and introduced his new partner to his children in a sensitive way.
The women in these stories are idiots. They have great husbands and they cheat on them. Most cheating is when there is a lot of turmoil at home. It isn’t realistic, but it makes a good story.
Actually the story was clear and on point. Moral: Fuck Around and Find Out. For acting on her selfish desires, the cheating wife lost the man she actually loved... or at least thought she loved.
@@dboggs175 If you have an emotion based cpu you can, especially when most women dont get the education and conditioning how to handle and control their emotions instead of being controlled by them , like most men do with their aggression and other primal urges . A new intense emotion can easily overshadow a deep old one until the system gets a shock but then its to late .
@@MrOssyan That makes the argument that women just can't help themselves. Bullshit. That is the victim model so many use like they are children and simply don't know better.
‘Hope’!?!? She unilaterally decided to add another man into their marriage. Was she ‘in love’ with her husband while she had another man inside of her? Was she thinking of her husband while she cleaned her lover’s semen from her thighs? Please. Hope is not a course of action. The only course of action is divorce. ‘Matt’ is a simp for even trying to reconcile.
Nope, it was clear from second 1. Either he had tortured himself through the rest of his life, propably exing himself or divorce. He was the kind of guy who - a.) do not forgive such behaviour b.) can´t live with a cheating LIAR. The Liar is the problem. The affair, he may have forgiven her, but that she lied, that she lied so often (24/7 for months or years?) broke it. If you have no trust - and he as a cheated on person have ZERO trust in the w§ore - you can´t survive long in a relationship. And he TOLD her. If she had left her job, had written a timeline with all brutal honest details, had she went to IC, had given up all rights on property and kids - to show him - you can trust me NOW and if not, you nuke me - a sign that make clear she give away all "advantages" because she REALLY want to be with him, maybe he could have start to begin (!) to trust a bit, later more. But that also had meant - she need to work on herself for the rest of her life, 24/7
It's easy to make remarks if you haven't been there. Love and affection doesn't just disappear or die in an instant. Been there I know what it's like. Emotions take a very long time to die.
A very compelling depiction of the real costs of infidelity. A broken man. A broken family. All because a selfish woman had to sleep with a coworker a few times. I liked how the husband did not want to hear the whys or justifications. It doesn't matter why, or when, or how many times. It only matters that she did. And that destroyed several lives.
i agree
Absolutely the most realistic story I’ve heard on RUclips!!! Women don’t seem to comprehend the damage done when they’re unfaithful. Nothing can ever be the same after it becomes known. He tried to reconcile her affair but couldn’t look at her face when having sex because he would FOREVER see her looking back at her AP. You NEVER get over it. You’re NEVER stronger for having gone through it. You’re just broken. The absolute best you can hope for is learning how to manage the pain.
neither do men. It was just sex, it didn't mean anything is poor justification and is meaningless. I was bored and wanted excitement also sucks. If you reconcile the replacement relationship is hollow and lacks the trust and respect required to be a love affair. An orgaam is measured in seconds, hurt is measured in lifetimes.
@@mikemorse8609 "it was just sex".
The more the betrayer down-plays and claims the treason is "meaningless", the worse it actually is.
The more "meaningless" the affair is says that their actual relationship was of so little value the betraying partner was willing to toss it for something "meaningless".
good to see a man with self respect and he followed through with dumping her and moving on.
Choices , Cheaters always think about themselves
Her pain what about his pain. She’s not in pain because she clearly doesn’t love her husband and totally no respect for him.
A w§ore only cares about herself. She had a long going affair, hided it, never cared about the consequences for him. He tried, but he no longer could live with that shi1load of scum.
Had she ended the affair, confessed to him, maybe she had had a chance. Her friend said it - what did you expect?
A w§ore aka vvoman never cares, not about the young kids, not about the family, not about - and that is sure 100% of the time, about her husband.
Cheating w§ores are egoistic a§§holes, who only think about themselves. Only if they face the deserved consequences (lonliness, pain, suffering because she now is a overloaded single mother), they regret that they got caught. They think "why had he to find out, it worked so good for me". THAT is the final stroke who break the camels back.
she sure felt it there at the end there didnt she .
Its over see an attorney and let them go. They are gone anyway.
always astounds me a mother could cheat when she has young kids at home and no feelings for them---especially when they grew in her body.
Well they also sit back and watch their husbands play daddy to kids she knows isn't his
Cheaters are the nastiest people on the planet and they never ever deserve any happiness ever again because they don't deserve any.
Yet another woman who failed to consider the consequences of her infidelity.
As long as cheating wives win in divorce court, men shouldn't bother with marriage.
How could he sleep with the 304 again? Never ever forgive a cheater for any reason.
That stripped down version of a decent story was done rather well.
Do you know where I can find the longer version? Thanks
Great story ! I stopped kissing my Girlfriend when she cheated . And I stopped frontal sex so I didn't have to look at face . Shortly we broke up .
I really admire your ability to present information in such a detailed and interesting way. Great job!
Do you know where I can find the original full length version of this story?
What took so long? Other than the children he shud have kicked her out that 1st night? Of course she Won! She cheated on Him but still wins in the divorce!
Only surprised it took that long.
They always go to their secret most powerful weapon Tears and Crying!
Shouldn't have done what you did !
It might be that he wasn't attractive anymore, many men let themselves go, and assume they are still "good to go" . I love men, but they need to work to be attractive, just as women do. We aren't all whores. The next woman will also be a person of her own.
that he still sleeps with a betraying wioman in itlelf is amzing. would my wife betray me I wouyldn't ever touch her with a poile, sullied; besides I'd divorce instantly, no questions asked. it may sometimes, rarely, possible to forgive, never to forget, and imahges will haunt the bretrayed spouse forever. once trust is broken it is for good
There was a reason why she was cheating...Loneliness...Horny for something else....Wanted out of marriage....Excitement...If he had not asked her about it she would still be with the guy. She stopped seeing her lover because she had to not because of love for family. That's what I thought bothered him.
A wimp husband and an immoral wife...good partners.
I agree
I don't understand why the majority of guys who contribute to these threads feel justified in criticising men who post stories and experiences and don't immediately go scorched earth.
Here's a reminder
1. The story may be a work of fiction.
Or
2. It's NOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. So it's not your business how they choose to deal with it or why.
There are 2 children in this relationship. I have no idea why she cheated or if her husband had anything to do with her decision. What I do know is that if she had issues she should have discussed them with her husband rather than cheating but she didn't. The children didn't ask for or deserve this $hit storm. Nor did they deserve to have mom and dad at each others throats.
Fair play to the husband for how he handled it. He decided separation/dovorce was best moved on and introduced his new partner to his children in a sensitive way.
Wait, what. 2 Decent stories in one day?
The women in these stories are idiots. They have great husbands and they cheat on them. Most cheating is when there is a lot of turmoil at home. It isn’t realistic, but it makes a good story.
Pathetic story. Poorly composed.
Lyn should have Douglas stayed in the House.
Dude you are a pos for giving her false hope!!
rather jumbled and disjointed story
Actually the story was clear and on point. Moral: Fuck Around and Find Out. For acting on her selfish desires, the cheating wife lost the man she actually loved... or at least thought she loved.
@@user-OJBB lost her meal ticket. Can't love someone and do that to them.
@@dboggs175 If you have an emotion based cpu you can, especially when most women dont get the education and conditioning how to handle and control their emotions instead of being controlled by them , like most men do with their aggression and other primal urges . A new intense emotion can easily overshadow a deep old one until the system gets a shock but then its to late .
@@MrOssyan That makes the argument that women just can't help themselves. Bullshit. That is the victim model so many use like they are children and simply don't know better.
This was a sorrowful story. I kept hoping that Matt and Lynn would get back together. One could always hope.
‘Hope’!?!? She unilaterally decided to add another man into their marriage. Was she ‘in love’ with her husband while she had another man inside of her? Was she thinking of her husband while she cleaned her lover’s semen from her thighs? Please. Hope is not a course of action. The only course of action is divorce. ‘Matt’ is a simp for even trying to reconcile.
I’m sure as she was on her back with her other man on top of her she whispered in his ear how much she loved her husband.
Nope, it was clear from second 1. Either he had tortured himself through the rest of his life, propably exing himself or divorce. He was the kind of guy who -
a.) do not forgive such behaviour
b.) can´t live with a cheating LIAR. The Liar is the problem. The affair, he may have forgiven her, but that she lied, that she lied so often (24/7 for months or years?) broke it. If you have no trust - and he as a cheated on person have ZERO trust in the w§ore - you can´t survive long in a relationship.
And he TOLD her. If she had left her job, had written a timeline with all brutal honest details, had she went to IC, had given up all rights on property and kids - to show him - you can trust me NOW and if not, you nuke me - a sign that make clear she give away all "advantages" because she REALLY want to be with him, maybe he could have start to begin (!) to trust a bit, later more. But that also had meant - she need to work on herself for the rest of her life, 24/7
God will NEVER bless an adulteress relationship or the adulterer.
And dude is a wimp for not immediately filing for divorce
1000%
Nope, you have no family, no kids, nothing to lose. If you had, you wouldn´t write such bs.
It's easy to make remarks if you haven't been there. Love and affection doesn't just disappear or die in an instant. Been there I know what it's like. Emotions take a very long time to die.