Married Guy Brings Home An OUTSIDE 11 Year Old Son to his Wife OF 13 YEARS!!!
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Well said bro.. how many strangers don't we deal with on the daily weekly or monthly basis and we put up with them and gossip about resolving dramas? And she couldn't give the boy a chance? They was both wrong like you said but she looking worse.
What are your thoughts?
Firstly, the child is right there, that whole argument with the child in plain sight like this makes my heart weep. The woman is angry and I get that, I would be too if it happened to me, but arguing about the child in front of said child is not the way to go. She should get a divorce and move on, if it were me, it would be a come to Jesus moment, and I would accept said kid but the husband and I would be doing some serious therapy sessions. Like the kind of therapy that if he doesn't improve he's gone.
Spoken like a true woman
That’s not her business. The man brought that kid in there to do just that. Limit how she can respond to not feel like she’s harming him. It’s a manipulative tactic.
I can’t get enough of listening how you explain things. First off i agree and i think your channel is going to grown quickly. You have the perfect balance that people need. Everybody on RUclips is so one sided.
It's definitely should not have been a conversation in front of the child. The husband was wrong for just bringing this child into the house with the wife not having a clue. Of course, I'm sure she went into shock and emotions flared. Of course the first thing would be divorce in her mind for him lying for however long he knew the child existed... this is a tough one because with her not having any kids of her own being a stepmom may not be for her and could be a mental strain for this young man...my heart feels for him...but I do admire the husband for wanting to take his son...boys need their fathers or at least a real man in their lives...They should definitely seek counseling and maybe there's a chance the marriage can be saved after all has settled down.🙏🏽
Hey, so, the right decision was to divorce him. You fell for a few manipulative techniques even though you pointed out some.
1. 11 years of hiding a child is 11 years of lying. She was right. You were wrong to call it “one situation”. He would have had to lie about where he was, what he was doing, who he was with. In a relationship TRUST is important. Him breaking that trust for 11 years is bad. She will now have to be in a relationship where she is constantly wondering if he is doing what he says.
2. His “the kid is here now so it is what it is” is a HUUUUGE red flag. You expect her to be angry. So demanding her to accept it and just get over it is leaving her to carry the emotional baggage. While you continue to do what you feel like. Best believe he will not want to have a proper discussion where he is left to feel at fault or handle having to manage her emotions over the whole thing. He will just want her to disregard her emotions to “keep the relationship”
3. The child’s presence was one that was directly meant to calm her. Recognize when it would take your two seconds to go, “hmm maybe it’s best to wait in the car” but that man not only didn’t, he kept the kid around for the whole argument. You are asking her to be more mature than the man. WHICH IS THE SAME THING HE IS ASKING IF HER WHEN HE IS USING HIS OWN KID AS A MEANS TO MANIPULATE HER.
4. “Throwing away 13 years….” “….letting your emotions decide” if that is what you got from this you have a lot of growing up to do. Recognize that when someone picks up a camera to record an emotional moment like this with their spouse, it’s because he’s done bullshit like this before. She wants it on camera. She wants to make sure there is no means to gaslight anyone in the future. He can’t lie about jack. So she had some emotional control. You just didn’t notice it. Her emotions aren’t deciding. She made the best logical decision. If you can’t trust your man. You’re wasting time imagining a future with him. Trust is extremely hard to regain. You can get forgiveness, but trust is something else. Finally, years in ANY relationship are not collectibles. If the relationship is unhealthy(i.e. something like trust is lost) you need to end that there. Only acrimony awaits that relationship. Stop trying to imagine the kid is going to be so nice and compliant. That means nothing. HE WILL NOT BE TAKING CARE OF THAT KID. She will. She will have to pause her life to manage someone else’s kid. Not him. She. Which brings me to my next point.
5. Men who behave like this will always do this with people who they expect to pick up the pieces. I.e. he is not just messing up one thing and trying to fix it. She has to do the work to fix it. He will not be involved any more than he was when that kid was with his actual mother. He will be expecting her to clean up after him, make sure he does his homework, event planning etc. why? Because that’s exactly what self absorbed men who have entire secret families do. They do not want to do the grunt work. You hinted at this when you suggest the kid would be so compliant and nice. What you didn’t realise is how draining that shit is. Especially when he is asking her to do it for a kid that isn’t hers.
7. “He had the kid during a break”. Riiiiiiiiiight, yeah, trusting his word on that now. Definitely.😂😂😂. She doesn’t know that from his word and with all the lying any discussion isn’t worth that.
8. Please ladies. Do not follow this at all. LEAVE. Do not fall for the sunken cost fallacy. Don’t take care of no woman’s kid.
Note, the man says, “nobody wants kids” in front of his own kid. He was not going to be taking care of him iN ANY WAY.