Part 1- I Was R*Pe Twice By My Own Cousin!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @Tibetgal
    @Tibetgal  2 месяца назад +343

    Thanks so much everyone for your kind words and showering loads of concern. We have a responsibility to spread awareness among us that’s the main motive of speaking up. Please take care of your love ones. Your time and protection will nurture them. Once again, thank you all.🙏

    • @achonzing2945
      @achonzing2945 2 месяца назад +43

      Hello sister,
      Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother or father or parents should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them.
      Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂

    • @timothy9649
      @timothy9649 2 месяца назад +14

      Sis You are from Arunachal Pradesh?😢😢God give you thousand strength.

    • @inaholikiho3486
      @inaholikiho3486 2 месяца назад +1

      Feels like being a boy is a cursed in this generation
      Everyone looking around and says stay away from boys you don't know what they'll do because there
      Boys

    • @meyachang2135
      @meyachang2135 2 месяца назад +7

      Great awareness Sister I appreciate you.
      N I love you❤👍

    • @pongbowangnaw4981
      @pongbowangnaw4981 2 месяца назад +9

      Strong girl, very strong 👏

  • @pineapplepizza6
    @pineapplepizza6 Месяц назад +34

    It takes tons of courage to confess about it on this big platform.
    If people judge you for this then they are the cheap minds.
    Thank you for being open minded and i wish you good luck!

  • @tseringyangkyi9739
    @tseringyangkyi9739 2 месяца назад +157

    You are one brave young woman. I hope you find a peace with your past. Sending you lots of healing power. ❤

    • @theconqueror1010
      @theconqueror1010 2 месяца назад

      She have sex with him several times n how can u say that it's a rape? And yes I'm sure she might be already in class 8 or 9. Only boys have to be the victim?

  • @Noryang2731
    @Noryang2731 2 месяца назад +305

    People commenting why you slept on the same bed and that you should have screamed are so ridiculous. She was clearly very young plus no prior knowledge about this subject, also most of the kids during those times had no one to teach them about bad touch. Hence, scared, confused, shocked and ashamed were among the emotions she was probably experiencing during that unimaginable time. Why share this now some asked? Well, she is a grown up now with a lot more knowledge and courage. She can fully comprehend what she went through as a child in her own grandparent’s house!!! I am so sorry you went through this trauma, but applaud you for being the bravest among all. Stay strong. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Dipankarmoktan-bl3kk
      @Dipankarmoktan-bl3kk 2 месяца назад +1

      Yep😮

    • @dangjungsalnang8190
      @dangjungsalnang8190 2 месяца назад +8

      Ladies sharing same bed with gents is very risky' naturally 90% chance of happening 'so be strong don't worry carry on your life.

    • @john8753
      @john8753 2 месяца назад +2

      Yeah but I didn’t watched it fully
      Is it harassment or actual rape?

    • @YuRi_PlAYz_YT
      @YuRi_PlAYz_YT 2 месяца назад

      Nope I'm a male i do share bed bet I don't do stuff like this​@@dangjungsalnang8190

    • @m.d.l_sGaming
      @m.d.l_sGaming 2 месяца назад +6

      She was enjoying too maybe or she fell for money ... because speaking in youtube infront of the world n can't shout/scream at that time ... don't do for fame sisters it's a shame go to police station n report.

  • @Josen-nabam-officials
    @Josen-nabam-officials 2 месяца назад +64

    Most of girls face this kind situation in their young age, i think parents are responsible for this , they should take care of theirs kids and understand , i hope after watching this video upcoming parents will understand well and take care of it

    • @Hingnaeatandvlog
      @Hingnaeatandvlog 2 месяца назад

      You are meitei i hope u know what i mean

    • @Josen-nabam-officials
      @Josen-nabam-officials 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Hingnaeatandvlog and u r also a video creator You didn't learn how to talk with strangers i thought video creators will know about such things but u are spoiling reputation of youtubers bro just go and get some education of manner and decipline i hope u understood what i mean

    • @Hingnaeatandvlog
      @Hingnaeatandvlog 2 месяца назад

      @@Josen-nabam-officials why so butthurt dear ?

    • @Josen-nabam-officials
      @Josen-nabam-officials 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Hingnaeatandvlog why did u called me meitei ? Without knowing me ??

    • @Josen-nabam-officials
      @Josen-nabam-officials 2 месяца назад

      @@Hingnaeatandvlog shut up your mouth nonsense people

  • @achonzing2945
    @achonzing2945 2 месяца назад +150

    Hello sister,
    Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother and parents who loves their sister should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them.
    Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂

    • @jums1o
      @jums1o 17 дней назад

      it can be ur own brother also

  • @tibetpema700
    @tibetpema700 2 месяца назад +105

    Never ever trust anyone if it’s comes with kids. I never trust cousins & relatives. Humans mind made the world so dirty. Parents should take responsibility on this.

  • @tawanglumpa4410
    @tawanglumpa4410 2 месяца назад +52

    This is so painful.... I request to each and every parents kindly enlightened your children....

  • @nizlens
    @nizlens 2 месяца назад +86

    It literally boils my blood to even hear how he being ur cousin have the audacity thick skin monster , disgusting Disgusting… stay strong u ain’t in fault u were young, so so proud of you for being vocal ❤

  • @pnoknlee4880
    @pnoknlee4880 2 месяца назад +24

    Screaming is first step to save.

  • @Chak77
    @Chak77 2 месяца назад +33

    Everyone should scream scream scream loudly 😢in such situations 😢and let everyone hear it…

  • @sonya.healandhearty
    @sonya.healandhearty Месяц назад +4

    You are so brave. Thank you for sharing. Those of us who have been through this feel less alone because we've spent years internalizing the shame and guilt which wasn't even our fault

  • @IndigenousOfNepal
    @IndigenousOfNepal 2 месяца назад +35

    I’m sorry that you had to go through this pain. I’m hoping and praying for you that you get justice and heal 🙏🏻 Love from 🇳🇵🇺🇸❤️

  • @majaizaki
    @majaizaki 2 месяца назад +35

    Feeling sorry for u dear😔that's the bitter truth of our society. From the inner core of my heart I appreciate for ur brave and courageous step👏. I hope that each Individuals specially girls, parents will gain good awareness knowledge from this video.May God bless you each single day dear sister. Whenever I see this kinda videos, my eyes are filled wid tears automatically.😭. My prayers will always be wid u.
    Tc sister , lots of love from ITANAGAR.⭐⭐💫💫💫✨💛WISH U AllTHE VERY BEST FOR UR FUTURE AHEAD.

  • @Noryang2731
    @Noryang2731 2 месяца назад +11

    Wow... some are even saying it's not rape since she didn't scream or stop her cousin. She was a small child!!!!! Any physical relationship with a child is called a RAPE!

  • @tenzinlobsang2715
    @tenzinlobsang2715 2 месяца назад +27

    I hope this wont happened to anyone.u r brave enough to explain the incident to those who have been through n rise their voices to get the justice.stay strong

  • @IRIKLOLLEN.-cd7is
    @IRIKLOLLEN.-cd7is 10 дней назад +1

    Sharing beds with cousins, brothers, sisters and even sometimes distant relatives is one of the worst practices that our tribals people followed. I hope people will be aware of all such things and they'll be more careful.

  • @PetraKhozKhiphuru
    @PetraKhozKhiphuru 2 месяца назад +10

    I should say you are brave woman because you have shared the feeling of what actually happened. Since, many of the people don't even have a guts to come up and they are having depression all of their life's.. New subscriber my sister ❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @chemitsering4869
    @chemitsering4869 2 месяца назад +12

    Tashi Delek to Karma Zompa lak. You look’s so simple and really kind hearted. Its so difficult time in school going time. Cousin so bad. He is Bhuddisium and he knows all the Gewa Ten and megewa sixteen. He is soo sinful. Really he should be alive in the Tibetan community. I never heard like this happened in Tibetan community. Your cousin is really sinful person. Actually your cousin has not aloud to merry to any girl. Why he has a bad manner, nobody knows. Now the his bad actions sure get punishment. Please take good care of yourself. You are educated and try to further studies and try help girls child of future advisor needs. Thank you so. much. And now all the parents and grandparents try to save girl child innocent please.

  • @namgyaldivinelaninetsang6298
    @namgyaldivinelaninetsang6298 2 месяца назад +18

    I know in our community so many Tsseeekyo, molester, rapist are there. So sorry for this horrible incident. Good that you spoke out. You have no lump feeling in your heart. I know you still have difficulties. Dear try to be pray mantras.
    Actially i still see siblings, to father, son they are hugging and kissing like lovers do. Thats why within family such incident happens

  • @k11i9m13
    @k11i9m13 26 дней назад +2

    I am so sorry to hear what you went through… I hope you get justice and I pray the perpetrator be punished for his hideous crime… it takes a lot of courage for anyone esp women to speak the unimaginable that’s happened to them… I pray you heal from this horror 😢

  • @rhubenkasilingam6733
    @rhubenkasilingam6733 2 месяца назад +19

    sorry to hear. thanks for this awareness...from Rhuben, Malaysia

  • @alexlama-vs9ro
    @alexlama-vs9ro 2 месяца назад +9

    I feel so sorry for you, may god bless you.
    More power to you!

  • @jampa166
    @jampa166 2 месяца назад +14

    Good on you that you are strong enough to share it and to educate others. Know that you are not to be blamed…. Take care.

  • @Bunny_1991
    @Bunny_1991 2 месяца назад +5

    it's very important to let your kids know about bad touch. educating them is very important. we can't trust anyone. please educate your kids and protect them

  • @2024doglover
    @2024doglover 2 месяца назад +26

    I am sure there are many who faced the same in our society but they don’t speak up.

  • @luckysherpa9079
    @luckysherpa9079 2 месяца назад +16

    i wish i can give you a hug 🫂
    it takes so much courage to speak about your trauma.you’re so strong.i hope you heal from this incident soon even if it’s pretty hard to forget . people wonder why we choose bear over a boy this is the reason!! sending you positive vibes and energy. ❤❤

  • @JustanotherTenzin
    @JustanotherTenzin 2 месяца назад +7

    We should teach our young girls to speak up when something like this happens and teach them good touch bad touch from young age. Let’s not hesitate to teach them about sex or sexual abuse from young age. Let’s teach our young boys to treat women with respect and how they should behave with them. It’s our responsibility as a parent. I feel sorry for u but sharing this needs even more strength so kudos to u.

  • @With_tenzin
    @With_tenzin 2 месяца назад +26

    You are incredibly brave for sharing your story. Your strength and courage are truly inspiring. Sending you love and support always.

  • @Peniba
    @Peniba Месяц назад +48

    You should talk about this with your family. Not social media.

    • @JangminthangSingul
      @JangminthangSingul Месяц назад

      You fool ! Don't you know she has the biggest family members globally now. You hypocrite, instead of encouraging and helping her, you did this to her. Shit !?
      We ought to support one another, especially the poor and weak victims. No ?

    • @pemanordenbhutia6506
      @pemanordenbhutia6506 Месяц назад +4

      😢look first ,she took a decision ,thats a bif deal ,and she wants to let the culprit know that she stills remember, first understand then reply

    • @Samsam-2006
      @Samsam-2006 Месяц назад

      @@Peniba yes, 💯I agree with you

    • @Samsam-2006
      @Samsam-2006 Месяц назад +1

      @@Peniba what a shameless family!

    • @kaiii126
      @kaiii126 Месяц назад

      It happened years back so it doesn’t matter any way now family won’t do anything but blame it on you

  • @PKSema
    @PKSema 2 месяца назад +21

    There are two stages where a male and a female get involved sexually. 1. Is intimation attraction unconsciousally and 2. Is when you are being forced to do something that you are not willing to do. So in your case, it was an accident not RAPED, since you didn't tried to save yourself because you clearly said that you felt something wrong,so you just had to run out or shout. But you didn't do that, you just kept quiet and let that happen to yourself. Now you are sharing that incident because you still feel that was wrong and we really support you and have sympathy but we can't accept that you have been RAPED. That's all. Precisely you are too late to share your incident and expecting for justice with wrong illigation.

    • @SumoSumeria
      @SumoSumeria Месяц назад

      Wow dude what a mentality 👏👏👏 its an accident for your own mother and sister just accident right...what an awful person you are......

    • @TafaTajo-m9q
      @TafaTajo-m9q 25 дней назад

      Exactly

    • @user-il1le8wo1g
      @user-il1le8wo1g 17 дней назад

      Truee....... Even I was thinking about the same....

  • @yumnnagasuded2478
    @yumnnagasuded2478 Месяц назад +3

    Brave girl, so sorry to hear that .i can feel the trauma you had so far ' the darkest years of life'...but knowingly why did you go when your cousin invited at his place on the third time aside 😞 anyways thanks for disclosing your testimony to the world its very educative.... God has given us the power of forgiveness 🙏 i wish your cousin a good luck deserve his own KARMA😢 kindly expose him to satisfy the pain you had then & now. praying for you dear🙏

  • @ultralight5550
    @ultralight5550 2 месяца назад +14

    I feel so sorry for you for what happened to you and I really wished that you will heal from this and be free from this trauma. I really wished you the best for Ur future

  • @tenzintara6013
    @tenzintara6013 3 месяца назад +14

    We understand your feeling & we are with you !

  • @Lostinfant
    @Lostinfant 26 дней назад +12

    I was 9 years old when I was raped several times by two cousin brothers individual at that time I didn't even know what intimate thing was called I had no idea what they were doing to me I was just a helpless kid that time only after years later I realized what they hv done to me and I felt so disgusted and very Hurtbroken I was detached with everyone nobody in my family knows about this nor any of my friends knows about this I hv never shared this thing since I'm afraid they will take me in a disgusting way but seeing this video I felt like telling it.

    • @Tibetgal
      @Tibetgal  26 дней назад +4

      Thank you so much for sharing with us and believing on us. You are courageous and I really appreciate your bravery. It is not too late to share. The perpetrators will face the consequences. May they realise their crimes and rest god is there to punish them.

  • @lee__Naga
    @lee__Naga 2 месяца назад +24

    After the first incident u could have realised and not share the bed after all so that the second time won't happened

    • @gabudoze4841
      @gabudoze4841 2 месяца назад +3

      You are right I agree with you

    • @borlongkironghangh3291
      @borlongkironghangh3291 2 месяца назад +7

      Right, she also finding chance to close him. Sorry, its my opinion.

    • @isirijamatia3
      @isirijamatia3 Месяц назад

      True he invited her to watch movie why did she went if she knew he will try to raped again

    • @chawangpadikhonbou2875
      @chawangpadikhonbou2875 Месяц назад

      100℅ right

    • @Lionessev
      @Lionessev Месяц назад

      Yes very true.

  • @amanaoyuh3867
    @amanaoyuh3867 8 дней назад

    I'm so sorry sister. Even in our places such things happen a lot.

  • @toketosumi597
    @toketosumi597 2 месяца назад +3

    Sister were all with you...we love you and never back down or never feel low on yourself coz the world is with you and we're against that monster and we'd like you to expose his identity and disclose this incident more to your loved ones dear ones far and near ones💪🏻♥️

  • @Future_Sight69
    @Future_Sight69 9 дней назад

    Man this is so sad she carried this burden all this year without able to shared to anyone Poor soul I pray God that u heal from all those horrible past ❤

  • @tenwangchuk4490
    @tenwangchuk4490 2 месяца назад +210

    On that time I was your teacher at your school. I couldn’t imagine such incidents happening to you on that time. You are best student in your class, I still recall your achievement in school. I am so sorry for you. Take care 🎉

  • @sonamlonden7574
    @sonamlonden7574 2 месяца назад +25

    My god 😞. I couldn’t believe such bad things happened to u my dear old friend zompa, god how could a cousin who shares same blood line can do that to u , I pray may karma hit him badly, may god give him wisdom to understand the grave mistake he made .
    U are and was one of the bravest n strongest girl I kno zompa . Fighting don’t forget what ever happens ur frends are here for u

  • @tenzinsonam8408
    @tenzinsonam8408 2 месяца назад +8

    It is sad to read the comments of people with poor conscience.

  • @mytribalexperience1958
    @mytribalexperience1958 13 дней назад

    Thank you for ur bravery... This will encourage many other NE women to come out n save our girls.... There's sooo many such cases existing.. even parents turn their heads on their own daughter in the name of having a good relation with kins and shame to society..... It creates a big trauma for the girls n it the worst thing that can happen.. u r sooo brave god bless u

  • @TechaHongsha-n2h
    @TechaHongsha-n2h 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the courageous to speak out the incident. God bless you my child.

  • @AngeeK143
    @AngeeK143 2 месяца назад +2

    I wish you love and healing. And appreciate you for your courage. It may not be easy to share your story with the world. This will encourage more girls to be brave.

  • @paulinusyangmaso2028
    @paulinusyangmaso2028 2 месяца назад +5

    You are brave and honest. May God forgive you.

  • @lovingtara6491
    @lovingtara6491 16 дней назад

    Be courageous. This can help many to come up and speak out. Cheers to your courage and keep encouraging others 🌸🙏🏼

  • @bhuyarab2255
    @bhuyarab2255 2 месяца назад +21

    You are one strong girl 💪🏼 It's gud tht u showed ur bravery..Well done and Tc sister..

  • @a_chau
    @a_chau Месяц назад +1

    Please stand strong. My gratitude with you. Love from Indian from UK 💗

  • @rinchenfamily7538
    @rinchenfamily7538 2 месяца назад +11

    Gal you must know him how u felt at that time.
    You must confront him eye to eye and ask a question.

  • @yaphoakonyak9085
    @yaphoakonyak9085 7 дней назад

    Thankyou sister for sharing you are such a strong woman. And yeah don't be worry not you but God see everything and he will really punish him for his sin

  • @pedenlepcha912
    @pedenlepcha912 2 месяца назад +6

    You are one of the strongest lady to speak up about your horrible past

  • @FIVE_5308
    @FIVE_5308 2 месяца назад +2

    If the the boy and girl cousin are still young they make mistakes....the fact is they will swear not to d the same mistakes again....its the temptation that force them....that is why we get matured

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 2 месяца назад

      This poor girl is traumatised for life but yeah let’s excuse this as “boys will be boys”

  • @gaithaingamrongmei879
    @gaithaingamrongmei879 2 месяца назад +3

    Your cousin is arrogant he even treat you like this 😢 you should upload your cousin photo you don't have to be scared of upload his photo stay strong be brave.. he wìll get what he did later.. full support sister💪💪

  • @alone3943
    @alone3943 Месяц назад +1

    It happen with me also ....
    He was my cousin too (but auncle)
    I couldn't even speak up .....I've told my family...but I'm not close with my uncle ..........
    Those traumas kept me silent

  • @vision-tirap-studio2038
    @vision-tirap-studio2038 9 дней назад

    No doubt, Teenagers are prone to fall in sex but in her case, grandparents are responsible for whatever happened with her. ❤😊

  • @Chinaout777
    @Chinaout777 2 месяца назад +618

    Show your cousin face infront of social media.

    • @Tenzinkollegal
      @Tenzinkollegal 2 месяца назад +20

      Yea ....

    • @dhargey
      @dhargey 2 месяца назад +33

      Game Over! Better best forgotten! But, learn from mistake some of the girls. 🙅🏻‍♀️

    • @meerathakur1-k4p
      @meerathakur1-k4p 2 месяца назад

      Yes​@@Tenzinkollegal

    • @Usweloajxbeb
      @Usweloajxbeb 2 месяца назад +18

      Expose him

    • @Ex_Gusion_User
      @Ex_Gusion_User 2 месяца назад +12

      Right bro

  • @YitumGadi
    @YitumGadi 2 месяца назад +3

    If it is authentic, it's punishable.. God bless you sister...

  • @m.khotoringa3297
    @m.khotoringa3297 2 месяца назад +2

    You are a brave girl , rarest of rare , a girl / women of present generation , today's society need you to educate innocent girl childs keeping aware of situation for security of all women and girls 👍🙏

  • @bhukarma19595
    @bhukarma19595 Месяц назад

    Brave girl, we are proud of you. Hope your life goes well forever. Tashi Delek🙏

  • @saniyazahra8392
    @saniyazahra8392 Месяц назад

    Islam is a very good religion, in Islam Leave the non-male talk even it is not allowed to sleep in the same room with your brother or your father, and that is why girls in Islam are strongly encouraged to stay in veil. I Love Islam❤

  • @tashichodon2786
    @tashichodon2786 2 месяца назад +14

    Proud of you that you can speak up

  • @kunganamgyal5942
    @kunganamgyal5942 2 месяца назад +7

    i wish this will never happen to any others ever and i specially pay you a gratitude to stepping forward with such a courage which will help to change many unfold real incident of of an innocents who still carry such a weight in their hearts .thank you and i humbly wants to wish you carry on the message for the many others and GOOD LUCK

  • @dhargey
    @dhargey 2 месяца назад +10

    Girl you are so amazing, just the way you are…. So sad. Good luck next time, be alert every moment. Thanks God, that you are alive. Take care urself. 🫸🏻🥴

  • @bhoepaybhu7538
    @bhoepaybhu7538 2 месяца назад +2

    Saw such a brave girl in our society... Good sis, proud of you. It need lots of guts to share such bad experience..

  • @lemrenaga
    @lemrenaga 2 месяца назад +61

    Can't blame only the boy 😢😢😢

    • @Weedielarry
      @Weedielarry 2 месяца назад +3

      Exactly

    • @KuveCreo
      @KuveCreo 2 месяца назад +13

      She might loss her voice at that time.... Who knows she might have some kind of feelings towards him too... This can't be called rape... Seeking for support behind 🤪

    • @wangsahamstrike1719
      @wangsahamstrike1719 2 месяца назад +10

      Ya, why she excepted second time. According to me both are agreed n plan 😊

    • @AmongYim-ek2ke
      @AmongYim-ek2ke Месяц назад +5

      Ya and now called it a rape 😂 n why telling in youtube instead go and complaint to police..

    • @quanpamai1550
      @quanpamai1550 Месяц назад

      Hmm.. proprietor is him and has his full right😂

  • @ongernie7216
    @ongernie7216 2 месяца назад +2

    Good luck to you. Feel sorry for you. You have to avoid such situation. If you are not too careful. Than there is nothing anybody can help you.

  • @DrakarpaLamaKhyimsar
    @DrakarpaLamaKhyimsar 2 месяца назад +6

    Ohhh my poor child😂, l am so sorry to hear your story, but am impressed with your courage. I can imagine how hard it myst have been to decide sharing this story, by doing this, you are helping, supporting and inspiring many other victims.
    Much love❤❤❤

    • @Dang_it_99999
      @Dang_it_99999 2 месяца назад +15

      Why that laughing emoji
      💀

    • @gif2.00
      @gif2.00 2 месяца назад +1

      She looks someone not used to emojis 💀​@@Dang_it_99999

    • @lifesucks2222
      @lifesucks2222 2 месяца назад

      So true that laughing emoji looks insulting to her trauma telling...better learn how and where to use emoji first

  • @JamesBaite-e6n
    @JamesBaite-e6n 2 месяца назад

    I'm deeply touched my sister.
    Be happy please, you have support from me.

  • @nt_editz3743
    @nt_editz3743 2 месяца назад +1

    God give u the courage n thanks for sharing your experience....wish every family members including friends teach their child and friends and spread awareness of this kind of creapy evil monster being behaviour....hope ur dream come true...n wish ur cousin got punishment for such act🙏

  • @trilaywangmo785
    @trilaywangmo785 2 месяца назад +4

    U r really strong Women with good heart…I can‘t imagine to forgive someone who does such hurtful, disgusting things….

  • @rajanigurung8885
    @rajanigurung8885 2 месяца назад +1

    My God at that time u were only eight or nine years old. It means u was like a child.U did not know what was happening? That devil cousin must be punished.Now a days it is pokso act. This act is very powerful. I'm praying for u. So parents be careful if u have little girl or daughter at ur home. In most child rape cases rapist are family members. 😭

  • @nakudevishmamavlog6010
    @nakudevishmamavlog6010 2 месяца назад +2

    Iwill pray for you... you will get through this...😊😊

  • @WilsonsebWilson
    @WilsonsebWilson 2 месяца назад +5

    There is a twist first time okai but second time you could have ignored and third time when he invited you to watch movie how can you happily go with him to his room to watch movie??even though you love movies..and that too watching till at 11..12 midnight??

  • @wallamborkynjing5179
    @wallamborkynjing5179 2 месяца назад +1

    Good you speak out. In fact that bad incident should be publicised in sex education to save many vulnerable sisters😢

  • @apohsalym8084
    @apohsalym8084 2 месяца назад +20

    The great mistake here is you accepted him for the second time. I don't understand whose falls😅

  • @Thairingdao_Thaosen
    @Thairingdao_Thaosen Месяц назад

    I pray God heals you and everyone who has been through it🙏

  • @YoungHemsworth
    @YoungHemsworth 2 месяца назад +4

    If you have already done before and feel dark why did you allow him for the nxt?

    • @yesheytshomo153
      @yesheytshomo153 9 дней назад

      Hello can't you hear that she was just 8 or 9 yrs old..
      Just imagine if it was you or someone close to you. How would
      you feel.
      By the way what u mean by allow, do gals allow someone to rape? Really sick ppl around.
      And that devil needs to get punishment for his deeds.

  • @dawazangmogurung7067
    @dawazangmogurung7067 2 месяца назад

    Honestly never trust anyone... I can understand as a woman how u might have gone through in such a traumatic situation unable to share with anyone...small girls in those days were really very innocent(timid, shy, etc..)unlike present generation

  • @xmlnaga5617
    @xmlnaga5617 2 дня назад +1

    God can to anything just pray 🙏

  • @vincelateholland2251
    @vincelateholland2251 Месяц назад

    I know how it feels to be vulnerable without knowing a knowledge of bad touch feeling not helpful whn bad things is happening with us I hope i could share tht things but hiding those things from many years its hunting within me 😓

  • @Penkaiofficial
    @Penkaiofficial 2 месяца назад +16

    Im shocked by seeing ur honest,, anyway new subscriber from nagaland

    • @nervy7823
      @nervy7823 2 месяца назад +1

      Bro please improve your English

    • @Penkaiofficial
      @Penkaiofficial 2 месяца назад +2

      @@nervy7823 lol barking to yourself _ r u getting invay? Or did I done any sentiment which goona hurt you? Shame on u_ don't judge other for no reason. Teach that to ur father or mother

    • @nervy7823
      @nervy7823 Месяц назад

      @@Penkaiofficial wahaha youtuber who cant take criticism

    • @nervy7823
      @nervy7823 Месяц назад

      @@Penkaiofficial backward laura toila ama

    • @Penkaiofficial
      @Penkaiofficial Месяц назад

      @@nervy7823 haha

  • @neisalhousa1649
    @neisalhousa1649 2 месяца назад +1

    Feel so sorry for that. May God bless you. New subscriber here.

  • @TaYakun14
    @TaYakun14 2 месяца назад +4

    Bro u r speaking up after like 14-15 years? but ok i can feel ur pain n what u have been through! we all are here for u
    Be brave

  • @sonamongmubhutia.3689
    @sonamongmubhutia.3689 Месяц назад

    U are so strong achhaa stay strong u inspire each and every women 💖

  • @tseeerrriing
    @tseeerrriing 2 месяца назад +4

    Be strong girl... god bless u..

  • @hi-xe5kc
    @hi-xe5kc 2 месяца назад +1

    You are a brave girl.Wish you peace in future life

  • @luffytaro6161
    @luffytaro6161 2 месяца назад +5

    You could have yelled for help scream.... come on man not just once but twice 💔

    • @pemaaage7992
      @pemaaage7992 2 месяца назад +5

      Omg...she was just a 9 years old at that time, he was not a stranger. He was a cousin whom she trusted. At such young age, it must be very frightening and comfusing too. It is not as easy as you think. Plus people are different. Try to put yourself in her shoes, if you were 8-9 years old.

    • @bachelorronte3853
      @bachelorronte3853 2 месяца назад

      ​@@pemaaage7992Then let us encourage other children to shout out loud for help

  • @TashiPassion
    @TashiPassion 2 месяца назад +2

    Great job speaking up now, it's never late. But you have to reveal his identity so that he doesn't get away. And this may also save someone from becoming victim

  • @tenzinnyidon2332
    @tenzinnyidon2332 Месяц назад +1

    be strong and take care of yourself. you are doing grate.

  • @wowvlogstibetanvlogger_rinzing
    @wowvlogstibetanvlogger_rinzing 2 месяца назад +5

    I feel like you need to expose him for real. Karma zomba it’s really sad to know that u went through such experience and u still stoop up strong. But for real you need to expose him and show him what he really deserve .

    • @SKLifeCaptured
      @SKLifeCaptured 20 дней назад

      She is fake.... trying to gain views and subscriber

  • @lovingtara6491
    @lovingtara6491 16 дней назад

    I think with your experience and hardships of hidden trauma , you can help many victims. Why don’t you create a platform and start speaking in your own language and create a community. My prayers to you and many others who doesn’t dare speaking out

  • @TseringPaldon-u6g
    @TseringPaldon-u6g 2 месяца назад +10

    First night unexpected happened you didn't imagine in your life Afraid fear Nervous you didn't Scream for help. Understand......but don't understand about second time when you know everything you still share the bed...

    • @Bhutenzin89
      @Bhutenzin89 2 месяца назад +3

      Not everyone is vocal, some go inside a shell.

    • @tenzinchokey1391
      @tenzinchokey1391 2 месяца назад +4

      she is a child back then. did you hear that. are you the perpetrator or his wife?

    • @Tashi.16-r7k
      @Tashi.16-r7k 2 месяца назад +1

      Imposter detected!! Come from your real id

    • @Blinkzdawn
      @Blinkzdawn 2 месяца назад +2

      She was liking it that y she didn't scream

    • @lendimewyim150
      @lendimewyim150 2 месяца назад

      Promotional video😂

  • @michaeljames4875
    @michaeljames4875 Месяц назад

    Parents or guardians should update themselves and should learn how to guide their children. By speaking about sex openly, we can get somewhere. Neglecting it is not good. Letting them find and learn about sex from their friends is worst.

  • @Buddha-bless123
    @Buddha-bless123 26 дней назад +1

    Hi you should ask the police no need to social media it can very bad influence on Tibetan children .. pls stop this things RUclips to earn money 😢 such lost your everything

  • @JimiChyawasherpa
    @JimiChyawasherpa 24 дня назад

    Don't worry sis past is past just move on and be strong in ahead ❤❤❤❤wish I live healthy and happy

  • @bittergourd8904
    @bittergourd8904 2 месяца назад +6

    You blame yourself. You did nothing wrong. It is normal to feel that you made a mistake. You are a victim. You are a very brave and strong woman. 😢I cry with you.

  • @renodd-yr8jm
    @renodd-yr8jm 2 месяца назад

    I am proud of you. May God bless you and help you to heal your brokenness and help you to forgive him.

  • @youtubelak4080
    @youtubelak4080 2 месяца назад +3

    Sry to hear that & thank you for your courage sharing. May you be blessed by Buddha and heal completel💪🏼, he will be punished by karma too. Take care wish you have a sunflower bright future with true smile around your everyday life🌻🌈

  • @hironikabasumatary6661
    @hironikabasumatary6661 2 месяца назад

    While watching your video and hearing your story I felt very sad . Thats why we should not trust anybody in this world