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  • @AETV
    @AETV  3 года назад +26

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  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 3 года назад +584

    I’m always so impressed by the people who help with these homes. Very selfless.

    • @DancingDevil89
      @DancingDevil89 3 года назад +8

      I wish I could volunteer to help out. I'd do it in a heartbeat.

    • @tubeva1977
      @tubeva1977 3 года назад +7

      I would help to. Deffinetlly.

    • @ASTPlumbing9090
      @ASTPlumbing9090 3 года назад +7

      You don’t have the mental illness and are blessed as such. Hoarding (OCD Disorders) is such a damaging and brutal way of life.

    • @doctorderpage2848
      @doctorderpage2848 3 года назад +10

      Dorothy is pure gold.

    • @JesseLynnLibertarian
      @JesseLynnLibertarian 3 года назад +2

      Ikr? The *real* MVPs!

  • @pocu321
    @pocu321 3 года назад +241

    I love the shorter, edited versions of the episode. It gets to the gist of it and I get to see the before and after quicker which inspires my cleaning.

    • @burly636
      @burly636 2 года назад +2

      Me too!

    • @thecatsawaystudio405
      @thecatsawaystudio405 2 года назад +1

      I’m with ya - when you’re in scrolling mode, a short 10 minutes works!

    • @mariet8434
      @mariet8434 2 года назад +1

      Me too!

    • @carach734
      @carach734 2 года назад +1

      Yep!!!! Me too!

  • @MamaT160
    @MamaT160 2 года назад +66

    I can't imagine having 14 kids, but I do know what it's like to lose a child. It's been more than 30 years and I remember every detail of the weekend my baby girl died. Life goes on, and I've been tremendously blessed in every way. But there was never anything, and never will be anything, to fill her space in my heart.

  • @yesiownfrodo
    @yesiownfrodo 3 года назад +152

    Nice to see family HELPING instead of criticizing and wanting to put someone in a home. Good for them. She needs aftercare, of course. I feel hopeful about her.

    • @BabuskaDoll
      @BabuskaDoll 2 года назад +17

      The full episode has the criticisms and family bickering. The mom caused Sarah to have dissociative personality disorder and they also claimed abuse by her. One of the sadder episodes when watched in it’s entirety

    • @nativeamericanfeather9948
      @nativeamericanfeather9948 2 года назад +5

      They only showed what they wanted you to see.This is an episode that stayed with me. I was abused & neglected. I admire her kids strength ♡

    • @charlottestockham9529
      @charlottestockham9529 2 года назад +3

      And the father, the other half of this sad situation is where? No accountability for him, I guess.

    • @katphish30
      @katphish30 Год назад

      Some of these people are severely mentally ill and need to be put in a home for their own protection.

  • @chocolatekyppcookie
    @chocolatekyppcookie 3 года назад +85

    "Thank u for not throwing up yet!"
    I loved that

    • @babynoodle42
      @babynoodle42 2 года назад +2

      Dorothy is one of my favorite people on this show. Her and Matt always create the much needed comic relief, they have the best dry sense of humor.

  • @layuma6884
    @layuma6884 3 года назад +222

    When I feel lazy to clean I use hoarders as motivation 🤣 I watch one episode and then get moving

  • @sevan4059
    @sevan4059 3 года назад +462

    Losing a child even when you have other children will not be any less difficult. It's hard to move passed losing your child...

    • @kimpancheri9889
      @kimpancheri9889 3 года назад +40

      @Sevan 405
      Losing a child is not less difficult despite having other children .And you never truly get past losing your child .As the mother of four & losing one , I do know these things personally .

    • @desertstorm2156
      @desertstorm2156 3 года назад +19

      @@kimpancheri9889, May the Almighty give you all the strength ♥️♥️♥️ Huggs to you ♥️♥️♥️

    • @shahlioness1972
      @shahlioness1972 3 года назад +16

      I know this pain

    • @reenym3577
      @reenym3577 3 года назад +27

      You never quite get over the child you lost. You heal some and move on and are so grateful for the ones you have but that sense of loss is never really filled. I know this first hand.

    • @soniayt5858
      @soniayt5858 3 года назад

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @camdenamen
    @camdenamen 3 года назад +129

    Hoarding is such a complicated condition and definitely a mental health one. Trauma, bereavement, grief etc can all lead to it and recovering takes time and effort. I myself had an issue after losing both parents and grandparents suddenly. It’s taken years to come to terms with and it’s only recently I feel change in myself. I no longer hoard and want to make my home a happy one again. Please don’t judge those who do hoard especially if you don’t know the root cause of why they do it.

    • @itsgoldhelga
      @itsgoldhelga 3 года назад +6

      You did great, and I wanna say that I'm so proud of you. Hopefully happiness and blessings will surround you for the rest of your life. Keep going! 💜

    • @violette80
      @violette80 2 года назад

      Well put! Proud of you!

    • @r5ndom551
      @r5ndom551 2 года назад

      How are you doing today!?

    • @r5ndom551
      @r5ndom551 2 года назад

      How much would u say grieving & crying out the pain, helps? Or what else?

  • @hollywarehouse7938
    @hollywarehouse7938 3 года назад +143

    I have no one. I hope this lady realizes finally how BLESSED she is....

    • @didi012578
      @didi012578 3 года назад +15

      Hugs to you

    • @gracetoglory5020
      @gracetoglory5020 3 года назад +5

      🌹

    • @jameswilson3991
      @jameswilson3991 3 года назад +14

      please join a club go to a gym ,,, find a voluntary job you will meet lors of new people and make friends good luck from linda in scotland

    • @sludgebeastt
      @sludgebeastt 3 года назад +4

      i dont know you, but all my love goes out to you. 🙏🏼🖤🖤🖤

    • @aliyamoon80
      @aliyamoon80 3 года назад +3

      Big love to you, Holly. Do you need help?

  • @minicat3640
    @minicat3640 3 года назад +86

    Watching these episodes makes me so thankful for the average but clean apartment I live in.

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 3 года назад +1

      @Eren Cox What’s your point? I hope you make sure your children live in a clean environment and have good example to follow in their adult lives.

  • @maryhudson3727
    @maryhudson3727 3 года назад +22

    The very ending of mom saying thanks in tears is priceless☺

  • @bigb853
    @bigb853 3 года назад +233

    So tragic. Depression takes over- her house, her personal appearance- even the way she walks just oozes sadness.

    • @happydays59
      @happydays59 3 года назад +9

      And ill health.

    • @almavera966
      @almavera966 3 года назад

      Vero

    • @kayavibes
      @kayavibes 3 года назад +9

      So true! Depression is another silent killer and not sure why her family is acting they way they are

    • @nativeamericanfeather9948
      @nativeamericanfeather9948 2 года назад

      She probably also feels bad about abusing her kids when they was younger too!

  • @CourtneyJasmine07062
    @CourtneyJasmine07062 3 года назад +287

    Here I am going crazy when there are three dirty dishes in the sink 🤷🏾‍♀

    • @Keule_angenehm
      @Keule_angenehm 3 года назад +5

      Good for you 👍

    • @sandysmom100
      @sandysmom100 3 года назад +14

      DO YOU have ocd / hoarding disorder? That's the theme here. It's a real psychological illness .

    • @patricemarie2960
      @patricemarie2960 3 года назад +3

      So, life is hard to take? 14 kids?, unless you're a superwoman, you dug the grave too early?? tic

    • @renegademomof15kidz
      @renegademomof15kidz 3 года назад +1

      SAME here!!!!

  • @dennyfrontier
    @dennyfrontier 3 года назад +25

    What a big, loving and beautiful family they all are. I hope they are doing well

  • @benedicaatutti5715
    @benedicaatutti5715 3 года назад +81

    I just want to see one episode of hoarders that doesn’t have trash everywhere. Sad that every single person has experienced a tragedy. So sad. Thank God there are programs like this that help. We need more follow up episodes!!! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @lemonkissed201
      @lemonkissed201 3 года назад +6

      i think there was actually an episode like that! where he would put everything in big giant trash bags, but didn’t have trash everywhere

    • @addicted367
      @addicted367 3 года назад +6

      A tragedy is usually what triggers it.

    • @alisonlee3314
      @alisonlee3314 3 года назад +4

      Yes. I'd like to revisit some of these homes after a few years. I hope they are all doing better than before.

    • @frothe42
      @frothe42 3 года назад +4

      @@alisonlee3314 If you look at the some of the people they revisit, many have hoarded worse than before, and worse, they absolutely DO NOT CARE.

    • @girlgirl3412
      @girlgirl3412 3 года назад +5

      There’s one with a bunch of teddy bears lol

  • @winterlighthome
    @winterlighthome 3 года назад +123

    I would hope that a property management company would be handling the rentals. She would be a terrible landlord for tenants to have to deal with directly.

    • @MegaMermaidgirl
      @MegaMermaidgirl 3 года назад +11

      i agree she cant handle herself. had all those kids and none of them dealt with the mess til now when out of control

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged 3 года назад +11

      MegaMermaidgirl you must be new to either hoarders or to assuming that someone can be forced to throw away things that doesn’t belong to them!

    • @MegaMermaidgirl
      @MegaMermaidgirl 3 года назад +3

      @@sarcasticallyrearranged your tag fits you

    • @miltoncat
      @miltoncat 2 года назад +4

      They found the rest of the kids under the hoard!

  • @Ladystardust555
    @Ladystardust555 3 года назад +220

    “Cooking is really interesting” Proceeds to grab instant noodles and put them in the microwave 😂😂😂

    • @mariecon3006
      @mariecon3006 3 года назад +6

      No place to cook for the moment

    • @johndh2485
      @johndh2485 3 года назад +26

      🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ she goes from her house, down the stairs, to an apartment to use the microwave, than down a couple of steps to go to eat her noodles... you know all the work,. energy and risks she is taking... So yeah... COOKING IS INTERESTING

    • @Lianel402
      @Lianel402 3 года назад +10

      This poor woman is far from healthy on any scale, so it’s stands to reason that her food choices won’t be either. Sad and nothing to laugh about. 😢

    • @antimatterwave3747
      @antimatterwave3747 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dickymcbutts7585
      @dickymcbutts7585 3 года назад +2

      and she eats cup noodles with a spoon?! tf who does that

  • @judyshallstrom415
    @judyshallstrom415 3 года назад +24

    Trauma seems to trigger so much. Grief without help is just tragic. I wonder why her children didn't intervene sooner. Once the anger is there, will making mom any madder and end up with this?

    • @trishr.3986
      @trishr.3986 2 года назад +1

      They lost a brother. Their own pain is difficult and knowing hers too. If you haven’t been there you should be grateful you have no idea.

  • @bigsmalls8354
    @bigsmalls8354 3 года назад +84

    How many years of residual income has she lost!

    • @standingfortruth4043
      @standingfortruth4043 3 года назад +17

      It's not even about the money, how many years she lost living like that and also unecessary time on working..

  • @itzsheena5941
    @itzsheena5941 3 года назад +18

    It's nice how everyone came out to support her instead of criticizing. Now let me get off youtube and see if I have anything that needs cleaning.

  • @pt2913
    @pt2913 3 года назад +125

    I really like this mental health professional. I think some of the others on the series are too passive with the hoarders. He pushes them into making positive decisions for themselves

    • @wilmaknickersfit
      @wilmaknickersfit 3 года назад +5

      It's Dorothy who I don't think has the right attitude towards the hoarder. She's just a bully. The other professional organiser Standolynn(?) is much more suitable for these situation.

    • @frothe42
      @frothe42 3 года назад +8

      @@wilmaknickersfit I don't think Dorothy is a bully at all, most of the time she's too passive.
      All I know is I would be grateful to get rid of stuff, but I I would need help to keep it clean.

    • @ElizabethT45
      @ElizabethT45 3 года назад +4

      Robin can be that way too. In most of her episodes she has her forehead all crinkled up with sympathy as the hoarder boo hoos about losing their stuff.

    • @TahtahmesDiary
      @TahtahmesDiary 2 года назад +1

      @@ElizabethT45 Sympathy is how you get them not to reoffend. She’s thinking about the future, not just the present.

    • @TahtahmesDiary
      @TahtahmesDiary 2 года назад +2

      It’s odd tbh how you all think you know more than the trained professionals with decades of experience who say just being pushy isn’t the only or best way.

  • @georg.pl_
    @georg.pl_ 3 года назад +227

    Aaaand there I go, cleaning the bathroom right now instead of tomorrow. It‘s the same as „My 600lb life“ making me work out again. A little RUclips-Motivation often does the trick 😉

    • @diewiese7545
      @diewiese7545 3 года назад +6

      Haha, same here 😃

    • @jackiekane6489
      @jackiekane6489 3 года назад +3

      I do that,when I come home and my daughter wd be cleaning her room, it wd motivate me to jump in and start my own project, but unlike these videos , our house was clean , maybe the floor needed a mop or a curtain needed it’s annual washing, but to anyone coming in,it was always presentable, maybe had to quickly make a bed type thing, so thankful I keep things nice

    • @tabathastaples7884
      @tabathastaples7884 3 года назад

      Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Pastor Murray is an Anointed Servant of GOD who teaches the Word of GOD with Authority!!!!!!!

    • @katrinastuckey2102
      @katrinastuckey2102 3 года назад +1

      Same!!!

    • @renegademomof15kidz
      @renegademomof15kidz 3 года назад +2

      @S JLA I do the EXACT same thing!!! I scrub my house every day after watching these!!!

  • @mississippimud7046
    @mississippimud7046 3 года назад +7

    It takes a special soul to give of their time and energy to help someone in such dire straits.

  • @intuitivemeena
    @intuitivemeena 2 года назад +17

    I wish the show would spend more time on the after results. Like actually give us a walk through room by room slowly. This is why we watch 🥺

  • @MelliaBoomBot
    @MelliaBoomBot 3 года назад +19

    In previous hoarding clips, I;ve been pretty unforgiving of the family that "loves" the hoarder because they should have stepped in more. But here I really feel the general frustration and dysfunction. Its funny how Kathy brushes her teeth and so can keep them clean but it's clutter and not letting go that sums it up. She is not a dirty person but a person who needs control back in her life. God bless them.

  • @juneebennett22
    @juneebennett22 3 года назад +17

    It must be so nice to have such loving children. ❤️

  • @francesmarrasso5256
    @francesmarrasso5256 3 года назад +30

    I can't imagine what it's like to lose a child .. I have 1son who when he reliazed I was depressed and started hoarding came in to my home and cleaned even if I didn't want it 🤗

    • @jeisselima
      @jeisselima 2 года назад +4

      Your son is a gem 💎

  • @Sw-ke9xn
    @Sw-ke9xn 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for helping hoarders! They truly need your kind, loving and selfless help! You are my heroes! ❤️

  • @ABCEasyas--
    @ABCEasyas-- 3 года назад +91

    All that for Cup of Noodles.

  • @Luv2u01
    @Luv2u01 3 года назад +15

    Ive had some hoarding issues tho not to this extent. I catch myself and clear it out plus I am very particular about cleanliness and won’t tolerate filth. I’ve recently cleared out excess in fact. I couldn’t imagine letting it get to the point of the situations in these episodes and putting a situation like this on my kids. Very heartening episode tho. God bless them all.

  • @susiefairfield7218
    @susiefairfield7218 3 года назад +25

    Kathy couldn't see how she had nine awesome kids, omg! I would love to have daughters like hers, because she lost her third oldest Son, she just shut down. Glad they helped her

  • @alpacamama
    @alpacamama 3 года назад +82

    I watch these shows to motivate my own cleaning lol

  • @pamelamckenzie2685
    @pamelamckenzie2685 3 года назад +5

    Bless the family that help their lovely mum.

  • @ES11777
    @ES11777 3 года назад +6

    I’m always so happy to see how nice the house is at the end! Hope it STAYS this way, though. All these people need a follow-up, that’s for sure.

  • @beepboopbeep4801
    @beepboopbeep4801 2 года назад +10

    Ain't not a single person should be having 14 kids but it came in handy when cleaning all of it lol

  • @sueperez21
    @sueperez21 2 года назад +3

    Awe Kathy, how wonderful to have your home nice and clean. What beautiful spaces to rent out and maybe rent out your dance studio. To make some money for yourself and finally relax and retire. Enjoy your life ❤ How blessed 🙏 to have a big , loving family to support you.

  • @amiblack8294
    @amiblack8294 3 года назад +24

    I'M PROUD OF YOU, KATHY :) I know that was hard to do and you should be so proud of yourself!! You are blessed to have the support of your family. I wish you happiness and continued mental health! God bless :)

  • @lunazeppeli8340
    @lunazeppeli8340 3 года назад +4

    OH MY GOOOOOSH! I have that EXACT same hairpin! Really hope she can keep a hold on staying organized!

  • @bookbeing
    @bookbeing 3 года назад +28

    It's hard to see people risk losing everything just to hang on to a bunch of garbage!

  • @michaelglover2871
    @michaelglover2871 3 года назад +33

    "Thank you for not throwing up yet".
    👁👄👁

  • @katlynrw93
    @katlynrw93 Год назад +1

    Aww. She reminds me of the lady on home alone who feeds the pigeons at the park❤😊

  • @emmamoffat867
    @emmamoffat867 3 года назад +16

    So many of the hoarders have lost children, it's so tragic

  • @latoyiab79
    @latoyiab79 3 года назад +87

    14 children??? I have 4 and I'm tired lol

    • @zippydodahquirk9039
      @zippydodahquirk9039 3 года назад +12

      I know right. Geez I can't even imagine having that many children.

    • @alinam5092
      @alinam5092 3 года назад +34

      Looks like she was also hoarding children, not just garbage.

    • @okashagnosis
      @okashagnosis 3 года назад +7

      @@alinam5092 don't say like this

    • @allwhatilove914
      @allwhatilove914 3 года назад +9

      I have 1 and I have been trying to convince myself of having a second one for the last 4 years...

    • @joysimmer9706
      @joysimmer9706 3 года назад +15

      I'm number 9 of 15!! I love being in a big family. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @novemberrain2184
    @novemberrain2184 3 года назад +11

    Sign me up for the cleaning. Super therapeutic to throw all that junk!

  • @ashleywhite2163
    @ashleywhite2163 3 года назад +28

    I'm always impressed with people who have 4 or more kids like wow you must have major patience lol

    • @nativeamericanfeather9948
      @nativeamericanfeather9948 2 года назад +3

      She was abusive to them:/ ..I raised 4 amazing kids completely by myself from newborn & to now. My oldest is 22. I didn't have a lot of patience back then but I did what I had to do 💝

    • @rarecuts3832
      @rarecuts3832 Год назад +2

      The last few would've slid out like a bar of soap

    • @bkgdnoize111
      @bkgdnoize111 Год назад

      Mormons without a doubt and it isn't always in the best interest to keep having babies after having several when the mother is above a certain age. I have seen the harms from this. No judgement though they seem lovely

  • @skywoman6674
    @skywoman6674 2 года назад +1

    When ever I feel to tired to clean my home I watch a few episodes of Hoarders and it motivates me to clean Everytime!

  • @meganh4011
    @meganh4011 3 года назад +23

    This was a great episode watch the whole thing

  • @AmandaJane229
    @AmandaJane229 3 года назад +8

    I love seeing the transformation, who gets involved, how the transformation is achieved (not f***ing easy) and especially the love that accompanies that transformation. Well done Kathie, you're amazing. ❤🧡💛💛ex~hoarder me. Recovery is so much better. I'm not fully recovered either.

    • @RainbowFlowerCrow
      @RainbowFlowerCrow 2 года назад +2

      I hope that things get better for you💛 Don't give up....keep trying every day! 🤗

    • @AmandaJane229
      @AmandaJane229 2 года назад +2

      I appreciate your kind support. Still got some ways to go. It's getting better each day. Thankyou.

  • @frasersgirl4383
    @frasersgirl4383 2 года назад +1

    Watched a bunch of episodes yesterday and my house is cleaner today than it’s been in years! Need to clean? Watch a couple of these!!

  • @tj921able
    @tj921able 2 года назад +2

    This was a sweet episode, thank you for sharing it.

  • @QuestForDetails
    @QuestForDetails 2 года назад +4

    hey...to the film crew, and the editors ,...just wanted to say , your work is excellent, think you all should know that if this note finds its way.

  • @earthrocker48
    @earthrocker48 3 года назад +12

    Imagine having so many siblings you go by numbers.

    • @joysimmer9706
      @joysimmer9706 3 года назад +1

      I have 14 siblings (There are 15 of us, I am the 9th) but we never go by numbers. Lol lol

    • @kristiegottman7299
      @kristiegottman7299 3 года назад

      There are 4 girls in my family and my mom calls us daughter 1 2 ,etc

    • @caroljohanson2807
      @caroljohanson2807 3 года назад

      I’m number 6

  • @fluffiz5428
    @fluffiz5428 Год назад +2

    5:24 "thank you for not throwing up yet" kinda killed me

  • @lupinaocean4326
    @lupinaocean4326 3 года назад +67

    The children could have helped her along the years. They just left her like that. My mom is also a hoarder after loosing her 2 child, as the last remaining sibling, when I visit her I throw away trash that she accumulates. She never finds out about it because she doesn't remember it was there.

    • @okashagnosis
      @okashagnosis 3 года назад +1

      I can clean up the house

    • @AnarchoFeminist
      @AnarchoFeminist 3 года назад +4

      My step-mom is the same way, it got worse after her mom died. Whenever I am in there to drop off food, I take out the plastic food containers she hordes and she never notices.

    • @Liitebulb
      @Liitebulb 3 года назад +23

      You know nothing about their family dynamics. Many parents aren't good people just because they're sick

    • @freelove9890
      @freelove9890 3 года назад +10

      She shouldn't have abused them by Making them live this way.

    • @lupinaocean4326
      @lupinaocean4326 3 года назад +3

      @@Liitebulb I had a pretty bad childhood myself. Over the years I learned compassion, and forgiveness, specially for those who have wronged us. Maybe for some it is hard to overlook, but having compassion is the key.

  • @connietransference4940
    @connietransference4940 3 года назад +114

    I'm a psychologist and Dr. Tolin is the only psychologist on Hoarders who actually addresses the hoarding disorder with the hoarder. The others just are weak and never educate about the disorder itself.

    • @coolbeans8878
      @coolbeans8878 3 года назад +5

      He's my absolute favorite on the show

    • @shirleypena4133
      @shirleypena4133 3 года назад +4

      @connie transference I noticed that! In my book he is miles ahead of the other psychologists on this show.

    • @jenniferwelch
      @jenniferwelch 3 года назад +7

      can't say for sure as it's edited down; don't know what's addressed behind the cameras

    • @phamiru
      @phamiru 3 года назад +3

      Respectfully disagree- I think he's very sensationalist and aims to make a "show" of it for A&E. I don't think he truly has the hoarder's best interest in heart.

    • @kimberlyeley5816
      @kimberlyeley5816 2 года назад +6

      Dr. Robin Z does a good job too

  • @nanettewilcox8961
    @nanettewilcox8961 3 года назад +6

    FAMILY SUPPORT!!!
    BEAUTIFUL!!💜💗

  • @l_b8029
    @l_b8029 3 года назад +8

    I watch this while I literally have a mental break down if I don’t clean for 2 days.

    • @RadCenter
      @RadCenter 3 года назад +1

      Strangely, that's the other side of the same coin. Both hoarding and extreme cleanliness are obsessive-compulsive disorders.

  • @meganritz
    @meganritz 2 года назад +5

    Whenever this series talks about renting or selling these houses and apartments they have cleaned, it makes me wonder just how many places I have been in that have a coat of paint covering a wall of mold, or at some point had a dead rat in the fridge I am currently using. Every time I move I go over all surfaces in a new place with bleach, but I know some porous surfaces still have gross things lurking.

  • @fionaclacken2024
    @fionaclacken2024 3 года назад +12

    I’m praying for a good outcome 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jeanettesledge5490
    @jeanettesledge5490 3 года назад +4

    That was a awesome job, I pray God keeps her strong enough to continue and keep it clean

  • @BasicYTHandle
    @BasicYTHandle 5 месяцев назад +1

    If I'm understanding correctly, the family & crew ONLY cleared the rentable areas and did not even touch her personal living area, which is the entire upstairs.

  • @angelinavernam1939
    @angelinavernam1939 3 года назад +2

    Dr. Tolin is not afraid to speak, I like that!

  • @user-cn5wv6mf4g
    @user-cn5wv6mf4g 2 года назад +3

    That was a beautiful story! I love that family

  • @prophetezekiel
    @prophetezekiel 2 года назад +7

    Ive not even watched it more than a minute, and Im thinking 14 children and not one of them can come and clean the bathroom for an afternoon?

  • @kizpaws
    @kizpaws 3 года назад +2

    Why oh why am I SO addicted to these videos... sigh ...

  • @sophiajoyceferry7150
    @sophiajoyceferry7150 3 года назад +2

    WOW You guys have done the MOST AMAZING WORK cleaning up this 🏠
    YOU GUYS ARE THE BOMB 💥

  • @Proudtobegerman
    @Proudtobegerman 3 года назад +8

    She started hoarding early....connecting children 😂😂😂😂

  • @amazingseniors5770
    @amazingseniors5770 3 года назад +5

    Im decluttering my home since I started watching your videos. I dont want to called mentally ill.

  • @thabeautiful1
    @thabeautiful1 3 года назад +7

    Maybe it's just me but I would not want to rent an apartment under a hoarder

  • @ЕкатеринаСёмина-у4н
    @ЕкатеринаСёмина-у4н 3 года назад +10

    Her children chucked all the things but I don't think she really felt why she was in danger and how to work with this desire to keep things (because I am sure she still has it). They did great together, but hoarders really need psychological help too.

  • @cyanstar9118
    @cyanstar9118 Год назад +1

    This episode kinda hits close to home because we’re 14 siblings in the family and I can’t imagine my mother being in this condition

  • @JudiE7722
    @JudiE7722 3 года назад +14

    Usually the hoarder won’t allow the family to touch their stuff. But get a stranger and it’s a different matter 🤨

    • @trishr.3986
      @trishr.3986 2 года назад

      Do you want your children to judge you? Do you want to know you’ve let them down? Wouldn’t you rather have a neutral voice for all of you to release pressure? Someone to take a position without blaming? Be real.

  • @gc8024
    @gc8024 3 года назад +3

    The sons face. Was so mad , his face went red. Lol 😂

  • @Codisrocks
    @Codisrocks 2 месяца назад +1

    The only reason people have 14 kids is that they expect to lose a few.

  • @debidehm9129
    @debidehm9129 Год назад +2

    This lady can go from apartment to another to make food, go to another to eat, etc...yet has to sit while everyone else is working? This happens in so many of these cases. I also hate when the hoarder finally lets go of the furball or whatever an everyone claps and says “good job” like the person is a 5 year old.

  • @ericwardell6639
    @ericwardell6639 3 года назад +20

    Her microwave was surprisingly clean

  • @kellyb7578
    @kellyb7578 Год назад +1

    What a waste of good property

  • @burly636
    @burly636 2 года назад

    Dorothy is so kind.

  • @moya-btahiti895
    @moya-btahiti895 2 года назад +3

    Why asking television to clean and film this????
    10 kids alives and NO ONE is able to clean their Mum's house?????????
    That's a shame!!!!

    • @evegrinstead2893
      @evegrinstead2893 2 года назад

      It's more than just cleaning her house, she clearly has mental issues. And as if she would let them!!!!

  • @maryhudson3727
    @maryhudson3727 3 года назад +2

    You know the show 8 is enough well 14 is a tripled dose of blessings.❤

  • @anamadera6769
    @anamadera6769 2 года назад +8

    Omg, she is hoarding children as well... Respect for all of them being so supportive and the woman wanting to make the change, but there is something so weird about how they call themselves 11th or 8th child...

  • @evelynsaungikar3553
    @evelynsaungikar3553 3 года назад +4

    The team never seems to say, “you can keep this OR that”, or, “you have 10 of these, how many can you let go”, or, “let’s take a picture of this, and let the thing go”. Always seems to be all or nothing, and a lot of pressure. Not letting the person learn, to be able to do it on their own.

    • @LucyLynette
      @LucyLynette 3 года назад +5

      Agreed. I spend a lot of time wondering why photo albums of removed items never feature. Things like that are important tools the hoarder can use for the rest of their lives.
      Also, the legitimate collections rarely get any attention. One hoarder loved decorative butterflies, and had them all over, from lawn ornaments to fridge magnets. They weren't anywhere close to being the bulk or core of the hoard, but I didn't see a single butterfly in the "after" shots. They even bought her a new, boldly printed comforter, but not a butterfly pattern. Floral. I can bet she went nuts buying new butterfly items as soon as the cameras left. Respecting the tastes of the person and leaving them something of their favorite things (say half the fridge magnet butterflies) teaches them to set limits for themselves, and discourages immediate re-hoarding of loved items.

  • @Cheirosa81
    @Cheirosa81 Год назад

    The afters are glorious!

  • @janesmith9024
    @janesmith9024 2 года назад +2

    Well done. I hope she can keep it like that and let out the apartments and dance studio and have time to work part time rather than part time if she wants that and look after herself. I have found taking a photograph eg of my children's toys before throwing them away helped as I can look at them through the photo

  • @katerinagiannioudi401
    @katerinagiannioudi401 6 месяцев назад +1

    If her 14 children gave an hour of their time, the house woyld be clean!

  • @cindyc3183
    @cindyc3183 3 года назад +1

    This is so sad. God bless her. I pray she gets better.

  • @charlawillson5654
    @charlawillson5654 2 года назад +1

    Wanted to see more of the house. What a neat family!!!

  • @snelson2418
    @snelson2418 3 года назад

    The final clean-up would be so satisfying!

  • @abrustanolfie2366
    @abrustanolfie2366 3 года назад +2

    wow, 14 children!!!!
    Everything she has is way above average in numbers.

  • @scouser2010ify
    @scouser2010ify Год назад +2

    She owns all that space and could be making money off apartments

  • @deannaking3485
    @deannaking3485 Год назад +1

    This makes me sick. I am a victim of Kathy's. This house should have been condemned. It is full of black mold, very dangerous black mold. I lived in the main house on first floor and had the whole basement. The mold was throughout the whole place. I became very Ill. My son became very Ill. Even my dog will I'll. Upon calling in a Montana state mold inspecter, I was told it was the worst strain he had seen. After checking contamination of all area surfaces I was told to take my son and leave. Not to take anything out of home. I lost everything out of my 4 bedroom home. All furniture, all keepsakes, all of my children's things, clothes photos, everything. As I was so I'll I was not able to take any action. She has put my family's life in danger and all who she rented to. What is worst is that by cleaning up her hoarding, now she has surely causing life time lung and brain damage to how many more. The video shows my kitchen... And no wallpaper etc has even been removed. As I have learned about black mold I can guarantee that her mental issues have evolved so extremely since I moved out. Her not taking responsibility for black mold is unforgivable. Anyone living in her house is in grave danger. Please be advised. 😢😢😢

  • @snackgila
    @snackgila 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this video.

  • @Ay-B
    @Ay-B 3 года назад +4

    Dorothy is so great! Wish I could hire her.

  • @rhodorayao487
    @rhodorayao487 3 года назад +6

    I think there is something really wrong with the mind of an extreme hoarder. The house will be full of bacteria, germs, insects and dirt if you live like this even for a week. I hope they will always be given help.

  • @kerrasa5231
    @kerrasa5231 3 года назад +5

    I’m pregnant with my first child & I honestly don’t see how she did it 13 more 😂😂😂😂

  • @jpats6124
    @jpats6124 3 года назад +4

    A hoarder will not accept help from family members. If she terrorsed them when they were younger, nobody is going to tackle this problem.

  • @JVIEW32
    @JVIEW32 2 года назад

    I love how the word "stuff" is thrown around so much on this show.

  • @YSL421
    @YSL421 3 года назад +4

    Old age makes people very stubborn and illness makes it worst

  • @charlottestockham9529
    @charlottestockham9529 2 года назад +1

    14 children and OBVIOUSLY no one cared enough to let her live like this for so long. Wtf.