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  • @dianethompson2458
    @dianethompson2458 Месяц назад +44

    Hoarding is a mental illness, and people who suffer from it, in my opinion, should never be judged. The compassion shown by the cleaners was so gracious of them. No one is perfect. My house is spotless, and all of my possessions were recently moved to my new furnished room in the back of a mini van. That being said, I have very severe anxiety which causes me to clean all the time. We all have issues of one kind or another. We all hope to be treated with care and compassion. Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself was the one lesson that my British Gran taught me that I follow to this day. Thanks for reading this. Best wishes to all three hoarders for a better life from Canada.

    • @janehoefle5151
      @janehoefle5151 Месяц назад +1

      Honor ALL men...KJV. I've come to learn honoring does not mean agreeing. But I agree it is important people are respected.

    • @GrinderMagee
      @GrinderMagee 19 дней назад

      You must be a person who has never been abused by one of these “mentally ill” people. The clutter is just one part of their sick mental and emotional abuse.

  • @vivianblack2951
    @vivianblack2951 Месяц назад +37

    I was selling my father's house that my brother messed up and the real estate man came into the house and lectured me about the mess. I lived 8 hours away, my Dad had just died and I was in tears. I fired that guy and hired a woman who listed the house and helped with resources and was sympathetic to the situation, instead of being judgemental. Sometimes you have to earn your commission more than other times.

    • @coolcat121999
      @coolcat121999 6 дней назад

      Happy you fired him he didn’t care about you just saw dollar signs

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 Месяц назад +11

    Near O'Hare airport. I just took 2 bags of stuff to the e-recycling. Another box is ready for Goodwill. Every day, I get rid of at least 20 items. Clothes, papers, tchotchkes, they just pile up. 3 of us are in a 2BR apartment. Tina, Al's wife

  • @shainazion4073
    @shainazion4073 Месяц назад +40

    These shows have really helped those of us that hold onto things to let go!!

    • @ScubaFanatic60
      @ScubaFanatic60 Месяц назад +2

      Amazes me how hoarders get so upset when things they haven't seen or used in years are in the trash pile and they decide they really need each item. It's definitely a mental disorder.

  • @painpatientsaddiction3640
    @painpatientsaddiction3640 Месяц назад +26

    My heart goes out to anyone that suffers from that. After my mom died 2 years ago I can't seen to motivate myself to do things. I know things need done but it's so hard

    • @carolg.6838
      @carolg.6838 Месяц назад +4

      Speaking from my own experience, grief and depression are very difficult. Two years is not very long at all after the death of a parent, the first year was the most difficult. Might help to do routine thjngs like dishes, laundry, eatingvwell fthese don't require decisions) And eating well...even if you don"llt want to. I

    • @greendodgy
      @greendodgy Месяц назад +3

      It's okay to ask for help.

  • @kreh1100
    @kreh1100 Месяц назад +27

    These cleaners are angels ❤❤❤

  • @sophiegolden
    @sophiegolden Месяц назад +15

    I m on a no buy, In reality, it s really difficult, it s a real addiction...but I m proud of myself... In the same time I declutter and organize my home. Those videos are really welcomed 👍🏻

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell1678 Месяц назад +16

    There's always loads of excuses for these hoarders; I'm in my 70's, I have chronic Osteoporosis. Like many, I've lost loved ones too, and my marriage ended, yet my home is spotless and clutter free. Hoarding, being a mental health issue can't be cured, and 90% of hoarders will continue to hoard and re hoard for the rest of their lives.

    • @triggeredcat120
      @triggeredcat120 Месяц назад +7

      It’s considered a mental illness. People cope with things differently. You should have a little more compassion from such a comment of ignorance.

    • @17lage
      @17lage Месяц назад +8

      As a former hoarder myself, I can tell you the reason behind making "excuses" is mostly due to shame and embarrassment. It's hard to tell people that you hoard because of mental illness, or that you're afraid of further loss or because you suffer depression. It's so much easier to say that you suffer MS or arthritis, people tend to understand better if its due to physical rather than mental pain. You'd be surprised at how many people think mental illness isn't real.

    • @samanthastaley8836
      @samanthastaley8836 Месяц назад +4

      Just like drug or alcohol addiction, hording is never cured, you take it one day at a time. I have lived in a clean home for just over a year. I will notice clutter starting to build and then panic clean. It's going to take me a long time to become "normal" but I'll always be a horder

    • @GrinderMagee
      @GrinderMagee 19 дней назад

      They gaslight, manipulate, lie and abuse their loved ones for DECADES to justify the behaviors. You have to experience it firsthand to understand how demented the minds of these sick people can be.

  • @patriciahadley2374
    @patriciahadley2374 Месяц назад +10

    What kind of pension do these people have to be able to buy so many things?

  • @kenpage1107
    @kenpage1107 Месяц назад +30

    Seth isn't a hoarder, he's just lazy.

    • @rubyruby1847
      @rubyruby1847 Месяц назад +7

      I agree. Seth and his wife just need to regularly fill a few garbage bags and do some basic housework. They're not hoarders. They're just not cleaning up after themselves.

    • @susanpeters1092
      @susanpeters1092 27 дней назад

      And they got a free clean up!!!

  • @SweetUniverse
    @SweetUniverse Месяц назад +15

    My mother was the same. She had emotional attachments to things- not people- to objects & she died that way.

    • @prrr446
      @prrr446 Месяц назад +7

      I feel for you. It is sad.Wish you well.

    • @greyferguson9319
      @greyferguson9319 Месяц назад +4

      Less stuff, more life

    • @natalieholdsworth4420
      @natalieholdsworth4420 Месяц назад

      I’m sorry to hear this , I hope you are in good place

    • @GrinderMagee
      @GrinderMagee 19 дней назад

      It’s the same for many people with hoarding disorder. Their own children don’t mean a thing compared to a bin of “stuff”. Just like a crack head. The difference is, people can understand how dangerous crack heads are, they think hoarders just need help cleaning, but it’s much more than that.

  • @deniseroe5891
    @deniseroe5891 Месяц назад +7

    I agree with Cass And Tea, my son gives up and does the cleaning. My daughter in law is messy, neither was raised to live like this. She has trouble getting rid of clothes and has kept 80% of clothes from their kids in case the next one needs them. Thankfully I am more of a purger sometimes to my detriment. I have lost both parents and in December I lost my husband. I don’t have an attachment to stuff, it was to the person.
    This is a mental illness and they need therapy along with cleaning.

  • @mamabear1187
    @mamabear1187 Месяц назад +8

    These make me so sad: but I watch them to make sure I never get like this…

  • @katsiduzynski488
    @katsiduzynski488 Месяц назад +6

    If Seth could just get rid of the legit food garbage, keep his stovetop area clean, that would be a huge positive step. The rest can follow as he learns to be neater.

  • @stanleycostello9610
    @stanleycostello9610 Месяц назад +5

    I love the way Mary says "Lass" to Joy.

  • @juliecox984
    @juliecox984 Месяц назад +43

    Can’t think right due to the mold.

    • @simply.clutterfree
      @simply.clutterfree Месяц назад +6

      It looked like the kitchen was full of mold?

    • @cathtf7957
      @cathtf7957 Месяц назад +6

      Very dangerous and debilitating breathing any mold.

  • @annamariehewitt3173
    @annamariehewitt3173 Месяц назад +2

    Hoarders consider each piece in their Hoard to be a living breathing entity that they have a personal relationship with...

  • @felly5702
    @felly5702 Месяц назад +6

    Barbara is not a hoarder,she has a big trauma .

  • @heidihernandez5895
    @heidihernandez5895 Месяц назад +3

    By far my fav episode. I think joy is so sweet and would be fun to get to know.
    The young man, where is the wife? She couldn’t face the camera and help?

  • @kathleenlucht1921
    @kathleenlucht1921 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you. All worked very hard! 🌹

  • @user-yo5ui5lw7p
    @user-yo5ui5lw7p Месяц назад +8

    If the man's wife is a cleaner,why hasn't she cleaned her own home?😒He couldn't have made all that mess himself.🤨Also,I think Barbara has anger issues&needs help.😖Joy seems like a sweet lady.😊

    • @heidihernandez5895
      @heidihernandez5895 Месяц назад +1

      That’s what I was thinking.

    • @TessJordan-lp5sc
      @TessJordan-lp5sc 4 дня назад

      Why does everyone seem to think it should be the wife? She cleans all day long! Last thing you want to do is clean some more, when the other person in the relationship is just leaving everything for you to do alone.

  • @heikemckelvey6863
    @heikemckelvey6863 Месяц назад +3

    His wife is a cleaner and she's OK with that? What is the one woman doing with strollers, toys as she doesn't have children?

  • @frothe42
    @frothe42 Месяц назад +4

    I wouldn't have done an evaluation until all the hoard has been rid of.

  • @donnasummers6534
    @donnasummers6534 Месяц назад +6

    17:57 lazy lazy lazy. Throw stuff away. The wife being a cleaner why wont she help clean their house.

    • @TessJordan-lp5sc
      @TessJordan-lp5sc 4 дня назад

      Likely because she feels like Seth takes it for granted that she will do the cleaning, when both of them should be doing their part. I used to clean for a living, and all day long I would clean up after other people. You know what I didn't want to do when I got home?

  • @in9170
    @in9170 Месяц назад +1

    Those clean as a whistle cleaners and Seth’s cleaners were incredible. The truths Seth’s cleaners told………they need to make the time to work together to cleanup every day….50|50 🎯🎯🎯🎯Seth’s Mum 🎯🎯🎯🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-zt5do4mi9d
    @user-zt5do4mi9d 2 дня назад

    One positive about hoarders,no one can break in! Great security!!!

  • @prrr446
    @prrr446 Месяц назад +9

    Chapeau! This man is the first hoarder i hear say he is lazy. I compliment him for his honesty! All these people have too much to spend and do have overweight.

  • @DominionFenrir
    @DominionFenrir Месяц назад +2

    I feel so bad for Barbara. What a sad lot in life.

  • @greyferguson9319
    @greyferguson9319 Месяц назад +10

    So many items to donate and help other people. Hoarding seems sort of selfish.

  • @trinitywahyu8740
    @trinitywahyu8740 29 дней назад

    The hoardes are angels when they give their things away to the people in need. ❤❤❤

  • @gulnarayun
    @gulnarayun Месяц назад

    Oh, I do like the fact that the team's brought Mary on board! I remember her from one of the previous episodes.

  • @theropesofrenovation9352
    @theropesofrenovation9352 Месяц назад +7

    If she won't let go of anything, then leave. Let her brew on that!

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 Месяц назад

    JOY has never been ahead of her hoard and neither has any of these other people. To say "shopping is my life" is about the saddest thing a person could say. Buy someone else something instead of adding to your hoard.
    At least the guy admits that he's lazy. Finally an honest individual. From my experience with men, most of them would never change their sheets or clean the toilet. Men are basically hunter gatherers and somewhat piggy.

  • @user-zt5do4mi9d
    @user-zt5do4mi9d 2 дня назад

    I made a previous comment about this before watching it nothing funny about grief I know from experience l have had to much grief I know I'm alone in this best wishes to all going through this

  • @DRventura333
    @DRventura333 Месяц назад

    It's always when someone passes or someone is very ill and you are the caretaker. But it doesn't stop to detriment of many, either mentally or physical illness/incapacity, due to the hoarding. Hope she is able to release the pain of her Son and Husband's loss.

  • @grinning_owl
    @grinning_owl Месяц назад

    @24:45 "We just don't have the space." That statement defines the "REAL" problem. It's not that so-called hoarders have too many things and should remove some from their homes. It's just that they need more space in which to house the things they have acquired and wish to keep. If a person owns one million dollar bills but has only enough space in his/her wallet to hold 100 bills, the solution is not to throw or give away those bills that won't fit in that space, but to obtain a more spacious wallet.

  • @Benj343
    @Benj343 19 дней назад

    I compulsive clean and it sucks my kids suffer not sure what's worse

  • @montypython32
    @montypython32 Месяц назад +2

    Take the people somewhere away from their homes and let the cleaners get on with their jobs obviously the cleaners can put aside personal papers

    • @gerdaoomens2878
      @gerdaoomens2878 Месяц назад +7

      That will not change anything for the hoarder, no it s a illness..they do need to see the root of their habbits..

  • @carstenkh
    @carstenkh Месяц назад +1

    Most of the hoarders are plain and simply lazy, they sit and complain, get up and start clearing out - garbage first of all.....

  • @prrr446
    @prrr446 Месяц назад +4

    The cleaners ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤! ! !

  • @paulademarco1585
    @paulademarco1585 Месяц назад +2

    No one contact donation places to pick up items?

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 Месяц назад

      Most donation facilities won't take hoarder items simply because of the risks of bed bugs, roaches, mouse excrement and urine, fly and other insect dirt....they can't have that filth contaminating their facilities, and who in their right mind wants to try and clean it all?
      No laundry facilties want the obviously mistreated and nasty-filthy garments in their places of businesses, not with all the awful things the fabrics must harbor, including such things as hanta virus from mice, not to mention what rats have likely done to everything!

  • @anemarie2984
    @anemarie2984 Месяц назад

    I Wonder where they find the money ? GIVE ME A HINT ?

  • @patriciaducharme7801
    @patriciaducharme7801 Месяц назад +3

    Who pays for this?

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 Месяц назад

    I'd like to have all of the cash these people have spent on "stuff". They must be loaded to be able to keep buying and buying. If they would put that energy into doing something for the poor or volunteer to work in a soup kitchen they might feel "happy." Doing for others always makes YOU feel good.

  • @user-bh3bo6de7q
    @user-bh3bo6de7q Месяц назад +4

    Hoarding is the most selfish disorder

  • @17lage
    @17lage Месяц назад

    What's the point of blurring out the company names when they say who they are anyway??

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 Месяц назад

    These people have odd taste in decorating. Nothing seems to go together and there is a mish mash of all kinds of colors and textures. WOW, not my cup of tea.

  • @prrr446
    @prrr446 Месяц назад +3

    The second woman was not that tired to not go shopping 🤣 I should get extremely tired to fill up my home like that.Both ladies better go to a hair dresser. They both can look so much better! They have extremely many clothing but do not have any sophisticated fashion style. They simply have no clue. They both are ready for a make over.

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 Месяц назад

      You're hyper critical of them, but you are very obviously utterly imperfect. English may not be your first language, but if you're going to make rude and unkind comments, then at least learn proper grammar and syntax before you make them!

    • @cathtf7957
      @cathtf7957 Месяц назад +3

      When you have anxiety disorder, greif and depression, maybe you don't care too much about yourself.

    • @ScubaFanatic60
      @ScubaFanatic60 Месяц назад

      I'm so glad I don't enjoy shopping. I don't browse on Amazon, I get what I went on there to buy.

  • @ghhtdesfh
    @ghhtdesfh Месяц назад

    Hoard, hoard, hoard!

  • @MsAdrienne1990
    @MsAdrienne1990 Месяц назад

    seth is either adhd or on spectrum, clearly visible, why u do not prove thsi inormtaion,not is fault for this mess

  • @paulademarco1585
    @paulademarco1585 Месяц назад

  • @marionbowler5440
    @marionbowler5440 Месяц назад

    👍🍁