ditch the aesthetic. a guide to finding your personal style!

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2024

Комментарии • 66

  • @klo3885
    @klo3885 2 года назад +79

    This video literally came at the perfect time! For everyone else out there, I also highly suggest thinking of things that YOU like (no matter the "aesthetic") and then making that your own "aesthetic". Social media creates an aesthetic...why can't we just make our own?

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад +4

      yes exactly this!! taking elements from different fits and creating your own personal aesthetic

  • @6olivias
    @6olivias Год назад +31

    "dont let your mind trick you into thinking you don't like something that you actually like." bomb advice!! don't let your mind trick you into thinking PERIOD lol

  • @happyxrich
    @happyxrich 2 года назад +31

    I felt like a minimalist(I don't overdo with my colour(neutrals) or style. Ive started ordering fits based on that. For the first time,I tried yellow pants and blue shirt,I loved it. I'm just gonna give it time to see if I really like it. Not gonna restrict myself

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад +5

      yes! same, tryna add colors into my wardrobe, baby steps but try new thingssss

  • @ShatteredRippleBooks
    @ShatteredRippleBooks 2 года назад +8

    Ditch the aesthetic is great advice. My personal style is such a mishmash of different things. I just add whatever I like to my outfits. For ages I've been trying to define style. Now I just say I'm a hippie because that encompasses so many different looks and is as much about attitude and freedom of expression as anything else.

  • @katanamainn
    @katanamainn 2 года назад +12

    you’re personally my favorite youtuber. it’s like i’m having a conversation w my older sister. i always look forward to your next drop, i love it here! ❤️

  • @davistarr
    @davistarr 2 года назад +6

    This was just what I needed, I was also stuck in this "aesthetic" sycle but never really knew how to get out if it, but you gave everything to get me started❤️

  • @johnneladderley2474
    @johnneladderley2474 2 года назад +8

    Fantastic tips Sakaela 👏🏾👏🏾... stopping myself from mimicking people's styles who have the opposite body type as myself has been the biggest hurdle for me to overcome developing my personal style...but I am getting there. I am just thankful that there are more people on Social Media that looks like me.
    Another awesome video Sis, always so helpful 👍🏾. Thank you so much for sharing sweets, take care and have a good night 🤗💕.

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад

      that’s a hard thing for me still too, but we’ll both get there! 💓

  • @laurazapata8610
    @laurazapata8610 2 года назад +7

    I definitely needed this😩 I’ve been trying to find my style for so long.

  • @katelynn9525
    @katelynn9525 2 года назад +6

    this came at the most perfect time omg thank you!

  • @katanangel
    @katanangel 2 года назад +2

    yesss absolutely love your style you’re the only youtuber whose style is closest to mine & also i get inspo from literal video game character theres inspo everywhere as long as you feel confident in what u wear

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад +1

      literally there’s inspiration in EVERYTHING!!

  • @kadijhastrong8787
    @kadijhastrong8787 10 месяцев назад

    This very helpful , I struggled with body image, sometimes it comes and goes

  • @danabenjamin3864
    @danabenjamin3864 2 года назад +1

    Glad to see you’re still making videos!:) I haven’t come across your channel in so long!

  • @jahauri
    @jahauri 2 года назад +2

    can we get tips on putting things togetherr :( like its that part for me like i want to get out wearing matching sets because im so addicted lmaooo

    • @jahauri
      @jahauri 2 года назад

      or in other words how to plan an outfit or your way of planning out fits

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад +1

      i’ll incorporate it in my next styling video!

  • @larachrw
    @larachrw 11 месяцев назад +1

    YOU ARE AMAZING THANK YOU BABE🤍

  • @melanie-v7y
    @melanie-v7y Год назад

    thank you for this video it is really what i needed to hear

  • @karadumk2352
    @karadumk2352 2 года назад

    Love the video very needed. Couldn't decide what my aesthetic is i guess a mixture of streetwear and chic.

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад

      honestly don’t even have to try and label it, you just like what you like!

  • @nevaehitaliaaa
    @nevaehitaliaaa 2 года назад +3

    sakaelaaa🥰🥰

  • @trudykamati1572
    @trudykamati1572 2 года назад +2

    I really love your videos and your vibe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Midnightbeautyxo
    @Midnightbeautyxo 2 года назад

    You're so pretty❤️🎀
    Subscribed✨

  • @stoicxsm
    @stoicxsm 2 года назад +3

    My favorite Melanin Queen ♥️

  • @AfricanBarbie21
    @AfricanBarbie21 2 года назад +1

    Your channel is so inspiring 🥰🥰 let me go get my bad b onnnnn

  • @hejahejhejahej6264
    @hejahejhejahej6264 2 года назад

    Love ur channel and style!

  • @ctrazyctrazy3263
    @ctrazyctrazy3263 2 года назад +2

    Much luv 💕

  • @princessstackz4453
    @princessstackz4453 2 года назад +2

    Love youuu

  • @princess___dess
    @princess___dess 2 года назад +1

    Can you please do a sneaker collection video 😭😭😭

  • @SaltWataDawta_
    @SaltWataDawta_ 11 месяцев назад

    I heard the 🇧🇲 and I instantly subscribed.

  • @thobiiii
    @thobiiii 2 года назад

    Best timing .😘

  • @JM-ee6uq
    @JM-ee6uq 2 года назад

    Love this! Where’s your top from?

  • @kutlotinky4353
    @kutlotinky4353 2 года назад +2

    Finally 💃

  • @trudykamati1572
    @trudykamati1572 2 года назад +1

    First comment ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Chee235
    @Chee235 Год назад

    Are you parent’s American? You kinda sound like us but different. Anyway thanks for the video.

  • @hear4thevybes201
    @hear4thevybes201 Год назад +1

    What accent do you have ?? Omg

  • @olatomiwasobande3371
    @olatomiwasobande3371 11 месяцев назад

    i love how confusing ur accent is

  • @karadumk2352
    @karadumk2352 2 года назад

    Love the video very needed. Couldn't decide what my aesthetic is i guess a mixture of streetwear and chic.

    • @sakaelajahstice
      @sakaelajahstice  2 года назад

      don’t even try to label it, it’s just you!