Hey y'all! I wanted to thank everyone for all the love and support I've been shown from this video! 🩷 I do want to clear up something I said. I mentioned being born ON the land, and that is not true. I was born at a midwifes house in a town near by, and brought home to the land. I know it's not that big of a deal, but I wanted to make sure I clear that up. There was an old trailer where my house currently sits, and that's where I was brought home to. ( My sister, Heather, actually WAS BORN in the old trailer. ) My Dad bought the mobile home I spoke about in this video, when I was around 1 years old. I hope this clears things up. I' m sorry for the confusion, my emotions were high when I was filming this video. Regardless, this land has always been home.
Ofcourse the land is yours. Get an attorney like anyone else would. You and your siblings are not to be trampled on THAT DAMN BAD! GET TOGETHER WITH YOUR SIBLINGS AND GET AN ATTORNEY NOW. YOU WILL BE SO WEALTHY AND HAPPY ❤🎉
Let me be the one to tell you that "Your Dad would not be upset with you for selling his house"❤"Your Dad would understand that you and your sisters have been put into a terrible position by your relatives"❤You did not choose this, you did not deserve this, you and your sisters are trying your best to overcome a very heartbreaking situation❤I understand your sadness because that land is where you were raised, where you were raising your child but I feel like you need to reframe this for yourself. Accept that it's probably always going to hurt but that you have to move forward to a new dream now🌻You and your sisters have the opportunity to live close together, your family will still be close, so that wasn't taken from you🌻I pray that one day all four of you will all live together on a shared property if that's what you all want🌻You're going to overcome this, you're going to thrive from doing so. From what I see looking in as a new subscriber you are a lovely, God centered person who has chosen to rise above what your Aunt has done and move on without being vindictive🌻That speaks a lot to your character and to the daughter your Dad raised. I think that he'd be "immensely" proud of you and your sisters for how you're all handling this. It's a big job for a man to raise four girls on his own, there are never enough bathrooms for one. Our Dad used to joke that he had to go to the bathroom at work because our bathrooms were always occupied and when they weren't he faced a bathroom strewn with curling irons, blow dryers and makeup🌻I know this hurts, the pain on your face and in your voice is palpable. My heart broke for you❤Once you are all off the land and your Dad's house has been sold you and your sisters might consider speaking with an attorney regarding your Grandma's will if it's already written and as she now has dementia she cannot rewrite a valid will to eliminate her first will and if you choose not to consult a lawyer that's fine too. Your situation is not hopeless even though it's sad. I think that your Dad is right there watching out for you and it's okay that you talk this out with him🌻A loving Dad would never want his children to feel guilt about selling his house, he doesn't need his house anymore. I'm pretty sure that he'd be more concerned that his family was doing well and that the tight family bond that he obviously raised you with was still intact🌻I'm watching your videos backwards because I wanted to find out why you were moving. From the two videos I've watched I can see that you are a good, kind and caring person🌻Sorry for rambling on but I just felt that you needed some support. Keep your family close, stick together, take care of each other🌻Hugs❤
Get an attorney. Your aunt can't change or make your grandma change her will because she nows has dementia. You and your sisters will inherit his part when she dies. The land is still your grandmas while she is alive. Your aunt has no say. Stay put. Don't leave.
I agree. Do you have access to legal aid? I’m not a lawyer but I am pretty sure that any changes to a will can only be made when the person is of sound mind. This is to prevent, people like your Aunt, from taking what is not theirs . I think you should NOT budge. Please get some advice.
This is very good advice. My father changed his will after my grandmother died. He and his brother inherited her home. My uncle has no children, I’m an only child. My dad had a will that said if he passed away the house would go to his brother & vice versa. But my uncle is 14 years younger than him. So I asked my dad if he wanted his half of the house to go to his brother and not me & he said no not at all. So I brought him to change the will. The lawyer wouldn’t let me come in the office with him & had to establish he was of sound mind at the time. I ended up with $80k when he passed.
@@lindamoore8850 If there is no will it will go to her children. Her Dads portion will be spit up between his kids. It happened to me when my Dad died before his mother.
in my 78 years I see things like this happen is so sad. My mother died poor her long life took everything to keep her living in the end I was thankful that she was without anything not that my brother or I needed anything but I told myself in my 20's I would Neve fight over money period.
My dad did a will for the reason that his 2nd wife made 3 girls treat me like cinderella sometimes. They told him and their mom everything I did and said. I was never given a chance to explain things. When the older girl graduated from high school, they didn't allow me to talk on video that they were making. My dad wife and her girls are two faces. I don't have a good relationship with them or my dad wife. It's took me years to get over the fact that they don't want me around their so-called family. Because of that, I miss out on a lot of things that my dad's so-called family did. When his mom died of cancer, he realized that he needed to have a relationship. Then, when his dad died years later, he started making a will. He made so no one could touch my money because it's in a trust fund that someone overseas with a lawyer. That made his wife 3 girl mad. That they wouldn't get some, and if they found out they were getting some amount of money, they got mad. Also, he put in will that no one can test the will. That means no one, not even my mom or his wife 3 girl. Not even the government can take his house, the land the hause is attracted to or the rest of family land when both of them are gone. I am slowly now getting a release with my dad 3 sister. I would love to have a relationship with his brother and his wife. Who knows, only time will tell. How everyone will act when my dad passes away. I feel like his wife won't even contact me or care I'm there. I'm his only true blood daughter, and I think that has something to do with things. Who knows for sure.
But, you be surprised at how many family will use other family members for money, from not being honest and, paying a family member back! People will lie to not owe other family members back! It ends up costing to one bad extreme to another. People get hateful and greedy and take advantage of especially family members. Friends will do the same, although it’s sad and very unfortunate and, you can’t always control the situation! 10:16
Both my parents have now passed. The family home was to be sold and the money divided equally among their children. One of my siblings has also passed, so we all agreed that his share be given to his children. Family is more important than money. Your aunt is greedy, putting money first. This is the first video I've seen on your channel, if your grandma is still living, would she consider changing her will? I hope you find peace and happiness. No one can ever take away your memories. Xx
This is the first time I’ve come across your channel and when I tell I FEEL YOU, I truly FEEL YOU! Because THIS EXACT situation is happening to me and my family regarding our land when my great Uncle passed away, he was going to split it between his kids, grandkids, and my mom and my uncle. Unfortunately my Aunt took advantage of the situation and now has control over the land and will not let us even buy any of the land! She’s starting to build some Air B&B’s on our property that’s been ours since 1985! And my aunt doesn’t even live near my family! She lives 3 hours away! Just know that GOD always prevails and for those who are greedy and try to take things in their own hands, will have to deal with the man upstairs. Keep your head up, I will add you to my prayer list and just keep God close to your heart and talk to him everyday! He WILL take care of you! Xo
You may not have the land your dad wanted to leave you. But, the legacy he left, which bonds you and your sisters together is more valuable than any money in the world. Keep focused on your goal of buying acreage together and you will achieve it.
I am 63 years old and have learned over the years family is sometimes your worse enemy. Hope everything works out for you and your siblings I know you're hurting sending good wishes
Your dad would be so very proud of you, and it sounds like he raised some phenomenal girls who have become strong women. God bless you, and I am looking forward to your new journey, as I hope you are.
People change when someone passes away, and it's sad. Money, possessions, and property become more important than family. We've had 2 family members sell out to the highest bidders on our families land. That is not the way it was supposed to be. I'm sorry you're being treated this way. You hold your pretty head high. You're a good person, and good things are going to come your way.
I’m reading comments and I agree it’s sooo wrong. But y’all if her grandma never put it in her dad’s name sadly I doubt there is anything she can do. This is horrible and I pray that God blesses y’all! Do t let this make u better sweet grl. Allow God to heal cause God has something bigger in store for y’all!!! He won’t allow this to happen without a reason. I promise he has ur back.. prayers!! ❤
I totally agree. The will could have been worded to cover the girl in case dad died. A good attorney would have covered that. Who knows why he or she didnt.
I stumbled upon your video. I have been listening to your story. I am so sorry about the passing of your father. I am glad that you have your 2 sisters and the three of you need to lean on each other. Your dad would be / is proud of you and your sisters. The other seem to be about the money, aland and all about property… well they will have to explain to Our Maker one day . I wish you all the best! May God show you grace , compassion and an abundant amount of Love. God Bless, Dana
You could contest this by going to court I can hear that you hold fond memories at the place and that is beautiful you are a strong person and this is a shocking thing and alot has changed and sad to hear there is alot of issues stay string ❤
I'm a new sub and I just want to let you know that I am praying for you sweetheart. Your dad sure did raise some good girls. Stay close to one another.
Hugs sweetie. I raised my kids in East Texas. My kids went to school in Jefferson. You are so blessed to have the love of your sisters. I understand the hurt you’re going thru. You are about to make beautiful new memories and you will always have your memories with your dad. Of course I don’t know the entire story but some people are just selfish. Legally your grandmothers will can’t be changed because of the dementia but it would be an expensive legal battle once she dies. Karma has a way of coming around so you will probably get to hear about it in your Aunts life. Just give it to God and he will give you the peace you need. Jan
It’s beautiful how you & your sisters are so close. I wish my brother, sister & I were closer both geographically & relationally. Y’all do have something special for sure. I believe your dad would be proud, too. Also, I admire you for not fighting about it. Let God fight for you if there is fighting to be done & you’ll always get the win.
Away Girl sent me over. It’s no accident that I “arrived” here on the 31st….the day your house gets moved. I feel God wants me to tell you, everything is gonna be alright. And yes, your Dad is proud of his girls. Hold your head up and know that, God has you in the plan of His hands. BLESSINGS!!!
My mom passed last year and my sister took her to a lawyer before she died and changed her will. The thing was it was not how my parents as a collective had agreed to do things. If your Grandma is still alive you can get her to divide the land now. Or you can move forward with your own lawyer. If I am guessing correctly your Aunt is her primary care giver and this is influencing what your Grandma does out of fear. If you can relive her fear you can move forward in a direction that will help you.
Yeah, family are so, awful when, it comes to this kind of of thing, my mom went into the hospital and, my stepdad ended up having Alzheimer’s and, while my mom was in the hospital and have him change his will! Needless to say, that she got nothing and, no one got nothing because, by the time my mom passed my mom kicked out all my step- dad’s family out of the house because, his son came down and,the minute my mom and, aunt went to turn their back he started snooping into things and, they caught him. My mom came down sick so, her family took care of her till she passed. Then, when, my mom passed that same step- brother and, his wife came to the funeral,they didn’t care to ask how me and, my brother were, for them it was handing out their number and, trying to find out about the will, which he wasn’t going to leave nothing to his kids. It would have been all mine and, my brother’s. But, after they then, ask about the will then, they expressed their sympathies to him and, almost 10 mins later they came to me when, I was standing by myself, I thought it was the rudest thing. She and, his kids aren’t hurting, she had a good job and, her husband had a good job and, all her kids married into money. People just get greedy hungry when, it comes to money. That is money hungry! 0:27
❤🙏🏻 Prayers for you and your family Sorry for your loss your Daddy He is your beautiful Guardian Angel up in HEAVEN Watching over you and family GOD Bless you and your family Put everything in GOD hands he will take care of the rest🙏🏻❤
I've been through that. My family treated me like they didn't know me. Period. I was able to Keep the family home. However, I have no relationship with my family. It hurts but I had to see it for want it is not what it was. You must move forward.
The law would look at a will first. If there is no wIll, the land will go to your aunt. if your grandmother has dementia, she can't sign over anything or change anything any longer. If your aunt also has POA over your grandmother, I'm afraid you are out of luck.
That is truly sad! I am so sad! I would check with a lawyer first! You and your sisters might be able to get her dad’s part . And those who pass that are grandmothers children their children might be entitled as well! Something worth to checking into! I so sorry they are not letting you guys stay on the land! ! Hate to say but I have a feeling karma will get your aunt !
I’m praying for you and your sister. Move on to your happiness and leave all the drama behind. You are right, but you and your sister will be fine. Go after your happiness and embrace your peace. You will be the better for it.
so sorry you are going through all of this on top of losing a parent. Lost my mom last year and still grieving, I get grief. I hope it all works out for you and you can find some peace. Keep vlogging, I vlog daily and it's helping me cope. New Subbie.
Your aunts going to get EVERYTHING she deserves! Wow you’re such a sweet soul. I can’t believe your aunt would be so nasty, ugly and MONEY HUNGRY to do this to ya’ll. She’s gone get everything she’s got coming to her I promise you that!
I’m new to your channel and am sorry to hear about what you are going through. My only advice is take lots of pictures of how it is now before they move the trailers off so that you can look back and remember what it looked like to you now. That way it will always stay a special memory in your heart that no one can take from you ❤ Sometimes life doesn’t goes the way we expect but that’s because God is making a path to a better one. Hang in there, it will get better 🤗🙏🏻
First time watching your video.and the moment you started talking about your situation.i said omg im not the only 1 going through this.i can sympathize with you 100%! It hurts when family mistreats you.
I'm so sorry you and your sisters are having to deal with having your Aunt not follow through with what your father had wished for. About eight years ago I went through something similar. My younger sister talked my mother (who had dementia) into changing power of attorney to her from my older sister. This happened quickly...in just one night. She took our inheritance that was supposed to be split equally between the three sisters and got herself a brand new Jeep. I really don't know what happened with the rest because my older sister and I no longer speak to her. But I can say that what others in the comments here are saying is true. People can get mean spirited and even greedy when loved ones pass. I am so glad to hear that you have your sisters to keep you strong. At this point in my life the only blood family that I have left is my older sister but she moved two states away. Thank goodness for my husband of 34 years who is my best friend. I pray for you and your sisters that things go smoothly and you can have peace in your new home.
Baby Girl at the time of death the true “family” shows their colors. Money means more to so many. God will take care of the greedy. GUARANTEED. One of my brothers stole my mom, liters and hid her in a Nursing Home. Every day she made me promise her she’d never go in a Nursing Home, and I’d never let him take her. The police were no help. She passed within 10 months of being put there. The brother who did it?? He’s suffers like a dog, and at deaths door. You girls stick together! You WILL BE BLESSED. Hugs- Rebecca 🩷😘😘🩷
I’m so sorry you are going through this. God is watching over you and he will get you through this. Jesus is also watching your aunt is more than likely very disappointed and unhappy with your aunt. Greed is very real and money is the root of all evil. Keep the faith and stay strong. God bless you 💗🙏
My heart breaks for you by the way new subscriber here my dad was such a big proponent my whole life of especially since we were up blended family. My mom was married prior to marrying my dad. I had four girls involved. Never my dad was their dad was mine and my brothers Like I said, my dad was a big proponent my whole life of not letting material things come in between family no matter what never have a fallen out with love ones over material things because you can’t take it with you when you gone and family is the most important thing. You would think that with those views and that advice throughout my whole life that things would’ve been handled properly within my own family sadly, it wasn’t but I was raised by good people and I love my family dearly so after many tears, lots of heartache I chose to be the bigger person and let it all go, because I can’t take it with me and I do love my family so very much in the end. My conscious is clear. I know the truth and I can live with it. Yes, I can. Please let this be a big hello and wake up to how things done legally in writing black-and-white, don’t care who it is family or not business is business. End of story, looking forward to your new journey! P.S. I’m driving and I’m speaking my text so I apologize for a punctuation and misspelling.
what state do you live in - - - i may be able to find you a pro bono attorney DP NOT leave the land - - make the aunt get a court order to remove you... Grandma has dementia - - - a court will not make you vacate.... DO NOT LEAVE THE LAND - - - make the aunt force you
It's up to you what you want to do. It does depend on what's in your grandmothers Will. If the inheritance only goes to living children, unfortunately I don't know if there is anything you can do.
Yes...although I think a legal case for ownership could be made if Dad paid for the home. If he paid for a house built on Grandmother's land she might be entitled to the value of the build. I hope she gets some legal advise.
I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope your Aunt gets whatever she deserves in life for causing this. Terrible what money does to people. My mother did this to my family because my grandparents trusted her. I will keep you in my prayers and I know you will get through this💜
I would have this litigated…but here’s what I takeaway from your clip. I’m glad that all of you and your sisters will be together. That’s just priceless…I know it would make your dad proud for sticking together! Good luck and remember, your most precious assets are your family ❤️
I subscribed! You Tube sent your channel to me. Right or wrong an attorney will need probably 30% to 40% of your award - if you are awarded something. The way you are handling things sound good if that works for you. Just get things in a legal document regarding land and moving onto land. You have to protect yourself and your future. So for sure - please do that! Now you are a parent, so learn from your Father’s mistake of not having a legal Will. I had 2 sisters growing up and things change. As a parent, you will be showing your child - by your actions - how to handle these difficult situations. Oh yes! God listens to prayers and will work miracles before your eyes but it may be years down the road or it could be soon. Never know. Just do the best you can and listen to your Father’s voice in your memories. Sorry things are rough right now and please rest when you can! Life will always be full of change and you’ll be caught off guard but you are strong! Be self confident but always be open to Learning new ways to do things. Good job of Not over-sharing! Excellent Job!❤ I’m so proud of you and I don’t know you.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. My mom died in 2021 and although there is no land involved, I got very few of my mom's possessions. I had to move almost 5 hours away to get any peace. My thoughts and prayers are with ❤
Any lawyer will tell you she has no say in anything! Just because she "wants" things her doesn't mean that will happen. Definitely get a lawyer. Prayers for you
I am a new subscriber - feel so badly for you. I am not a lawyer - but there is a tort law called undue influence. If your aunt as persuaded your grandmother when she has memory issues, then you may have a case. I give you credit though for gong with your heart - good for you for taking care of each other - I am sure your father would be proud of you all! He would want you together - that is his legacy and it is one you all are passing along to your kids.
If the land & properties are only listed in your grandmother’s name, after she passes, the estate is usually divided between the surviving children and/or the offspring (you & your sisters) of any deceased children. Check the deeds to the properties to ensure your grandmother is the only person listed as the sole owner and if there’s any names listed as beneficiaries. If anyone is listed as having “rights of survivorship”, only those people (and their heirs) are entitled to the property once your grandmother passes. Of course, run it through a lawyer to how you go about making claim to the estate if your grandmother passes without a will.
This is so terrible. I love my niece and nephew so much! I’d never not be fair with them. Your aunt should be ashamed and hold her head down low. Don’t let this ruin your life though. It’s so important for you to find your joy and hold on to it. A joyful heart is the backbone to achievement and success. I’m so glad you have a sister that is good with you staying on her land. I would share anything I have with my sis but she would be telling me that I need to figure things out for myself.
It’s for certain you are hurting. It was in your dad to make sure his estate was in order. Probate will determine the legality of an outcome and if you don’t agree consult with an attorney. Sometimes, things don’t seem fair but the law doesn’t deal in “seem” We only hear one side and it’s maturity to know there are always 2 sides. Sorry you have to move. Maybe, when the dust settles, you can come to terms with what is and move forward (and upward) from there.
Hello, I am new here. My heart really hurts for you! Does your grandmother have anything in writing? I am so sorry for your loss of your Dad. Your Dad is watching and I bet he is very proud of you and your sisters! I feel that you are doing the right thing. Your aunt is being selfish. She is taking advantage of your grandmother (her mother) seeing, she has dementia. I am so happy that you have your sisters. Everything will work out. You are truly blessed to have such amazing sisters. I lost my mom and dad years ago. I only have one sister, that is very selfish. I will be praying for you all! 🌹🙏
Grace, this is my first time here. I am so very sorry you and your sisters have to deal with this. Hold your head up, seek some help. No matter which direction you go stay positive. You and your sisters stay together and be happy. Remember your dad is always with you and will guide you. You girls have got this.
Hi there. New subscriber here. 😊Amy (Away Girl Vlogs) sent me. 🥰 I'm so glad she mentioned your channel to us, you seem so sweet and genuine! I look forward to watching more of your videos! 😉
I know exactly how you are feeling, my mom passed away in January. My grandmother is still alive but illegally gave my mom her inheritance early, which was a house and land. My mom had 4 kids, that the house/land was intended to be divided between.. after legally transferring the property into my moms name, my brother then inherited everything and promised us girls (3 of us) that we would get a pay out or that he would will the property to us… hasn’t happened, and won’t happen… my mom put lost of work into that home and he has already let it go, has gotten married and the new wife doesn’t want us around, my uncle who was born and raised there can not come onto the property, my still living grandmother is not even allowed to spend the night there when she comes to town for a visit.. she lived there nearly 50years and now has to get a hotel room… it’s not fair, I wanted and tried to do what my mom wanted but i was ignored and played like a fool… is girls inherited 1800.00 each which we used to pay my moms taxes so they don’t come after us… so at the end of the day, we get nothing but an even more broken family. I miss my momma!!
I'm so sorry that happened to you. 💔 Death brings out the worst in people. As if it's not enough to be grieving a loved one, people want to knock you when your already down. My prayers are with you and your sisters. 💛
I lost my dad almost 5 years ago. My dad had my sibling and i from age 10. I am going through this. My stepmother sold the land, houses, and items. She died in December. We only got a very small amount of money so far. Please get a lawyer!! Grandmother isnt able to have a say. Yes honey, you got cheated. You guys can fight this together. I wish i could talk to you and your sisters.
Seek tht advise of a good attourney in your state. If your grandmother has it in her will that your dad and aunt get her estate, then since your dad is gone his inheritance goes to HIS kids (in the state where I live). And if your granmother has dementia she can't make changes to the will now. If she does, after she dies you and your sisters can contest the will and explain her mental condition and how the aunt manipulated her. If you have proof that she is manipulating your grandmother for financial gain, you can call adult protective services. There are many of us out there in the same boat, dealing with the same things you are so just know you are not alone. It's called elderly exploitation and it's considered a form of abuse. Hang in there!
Sweetheart, A lot has been placed upon your shoulders at a young age. We don’t know how, but God is going to bless you in your life and the life of your sisters. God saw all of this coming, and he wants you to trust him completely with all the changes in your life. Your future is right in the palm of his hand, and his hand is strong! I’m old enough to be your grandmother, and God is still showing me that I must trust him to care for me with every loss in my life. Sudden, unexpected events that seemed impossibly sad and hard have always been replaced with a different sort of joy. Do I mourn for how things used to be? Sometimes, but when I look backwards I see so much to be thankful for. I pray for you that you take hold of God’s hand and don’t let go. “ Yet I am always with you. You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with your council, and afterward, you will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven, but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:23-26
I'm here from away girls channel. It's probably best you leave. I feel your aunt would have just caused you problems. I'm so sorry about your dad, he rest in peace 🙏. Things will get better for you, so glad you have your sisters to be there for you. I have an aunt that's nothing but a trouble maker, she's horrible so I feel you girl. Prayers for you and your sisters ❤️
So sorry for your loss .. and your aunt is going to get all the Karma she deserves! This is so evil and greedy on her behalf smh .. … best wishes to y’all
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like he was a jewel. Unfortunately, so many times when someone passes and there’s no will, even though there are verbal wishes things like this happen. It seems like there’s always that one person. That’s all I’ll say about that. In the end, this can be God’s way of telling you, hey, I have even better plans for you. You may not see it now, but it will all work out. As long as you and your sisters are doing the right things, it will work out. I’m thankful your sister has agreed to let you and your other sister come live with her. You have handled this situation with grace and dignity. The possibilities are endless with what will happen. Hang in there. I know you will get through this.
I’m so sorry for your loss. The outlook doesn’t look good for you or your sisters. If your grandmother doesn’t have a will or have it written down and notarized then the aunt will get it all. I know you don’t want to move but it will be for the best. A home can be anywhere it’s what you make it.
I dont know the history with the grandmother but it is HER land. It does not belong to your Aunt or your Father and your father certainly would have had no right to "will" it to you if he never owned it. People who plan the rest of their lives around property they dont even own should know better. Grandma can leave her property to her cat or a perfect stranger if she chooses, it is not "family" land. 3 generations down thinking you are entitled to anything at all when Grandma passes, that just floors me. Make your own way! If Grandma is not of sound mind, which some others have implied, someone should get involved to protect HER assets and provide for HER care because it sounds like everyone is all riled up about her acerage not Grandma herself. Shame on anyone who PLANS their future on the death of another and especially the Aunt for taking advantage of the situation if she does have dementia.
I'm so sorry sweetheart. I have a question. Did your dad have a last will in a testament or anything like that? Even if your dad wrote out a letter stating his last wishes. This isn't right and it sickens me. Your dad sounded like a wonderful daddy. Sending prayers your way. 🙏🏼 📿 🕯 😢❤
I agree. Plus she mentioned she has dementia… Might be something the court will have to decide. Is there a will? When my dad died, I assumed we’d get his part when my grandma died. When she died we didn’t and I talked to the lawyer handling the estste. They didn’t know about sone assets and things. We ended up getting our dads part (wasn’t much $ cause my uncle bought the property at low price set). I would talk to a lawyer. I just found the channel and this is the first video. Id not move off the land. Id stay out and get a lawyer. Possession is 9/10th of the law. Don’t leave!
I wish I had a relationship with my sister they way you do. We talk but not a lot. She is four yrs younger then me I left home at 17. Came back every couple yrs. Never should have left the last time because I lost my son to dcfs and I never knew what they were ND about. But he home now. Grown and doing grown things.... Girl your fine. Just talk you got this
I my heart breaks for you and your situation. I really wish that your family could work this out within the family. Unfortunately, you probably need to get a lawyer, and that would make for a sticky situation to live in afterward. I could say many things about your aunt. However, not knowing her myself, I would never do that. That being said, it does sound like she wants it all for herself. Pray on it. God will help to see you through. Let him put forgiveness in your heart and possibly in your aunts, too. God bless
I would definitely look into it if I were you.. But to be honest, since your grandmother is still alive, I wouldn't think there would be anything you could do.. I would at least check into it! I hope you can find some peace.. it's rough losing your parent
Your dad’s assets would go to you kids. Do not leave. Call an estate attorney and request a free 15 minute consultation. You can get advice to stop them in their tracks. Once you leave, no coming back. Fight for your dad.
Hey y'all!
I wanted to thank everyone for all the love and support I've been shown from this video! 🩷
I do want to clear up something I said. I mentioned being born ON the land, and that is not true. I was born at a midwifes house in a town near by, and brought home to the land. I know it's not that big of a deal, but I wanted to make sure I clear that up. There was an old trailer where my house currently sits, and that's where I was brought home to. ( My sister, Heather, actually WAS BORN in the old trailer. ) My Dad bought the mobile home I spoke about in this video, when I was around 1 years old. I hope this clears things up. I' m sorry for the confusion, my emotions were high when I was filming this video. Regardless, this land has always been home.
Ofcourse the land is yours. Get an attorney like anyone else would. You and your siblings are not to be trampled on THAT DAMN BAD! GET TOGETHER WITH YOUR SIBLINGS AND GET AN ATTORNEY NOW. YOU WILL BE SO WEALTHY AND HAPPY ❤🎉
I agree. Do not leave the land. Contact an attorney now.
Let me be the one to tell you that "Your Dad would not be upset with you for selling his house"❤"Your Dad would understand that you and your sisters have been put into a terrible position by your relatives"❤You did not choose this, you did not deserve this, you and your sisters are trying your best to overcome a very heartbreaking situation❤I understand your sadness because that land is where you were raised, where you were raising your child but I feel like you need to reframe this for yourself. Accept that it's probably always going to hurt but that you have to move forward to a new dream now🌻You and your sisters have the opportunity to live close together, your family will still be close, so that wasn't taken from you🌻I pray that one day all four of you will all live together on a shared property if that's what you all want🌻You're going to overcome this, you're going to thrive from doing so. From what I see looking in as a new subscriber you are a lovely, God centered person who has chosen to rise above what your Aunt has done and move on without being vindictive🌻That speaks a lot to your character and to the daughter your Dad raised. I think that he'd be "immensely" proud of you and your sisters for how you're all handling this. It's a big job for a man to raise four girls on his own, there are never enough bathrooms for one. Our Dad used to joke that he had to go to the bathroom at work because our bathrooms were always occupied and when they weren't he faced a bathroom strewn with curling irons, blow dryers and makeup🌻I know this hurts, the pain on your face and in your voice is palpable. My heart broke for you❤Once you are all off the land and your Dad's house has been sold you and your sisters might consider speaking with an attorney regarding your Grandma's will if it's already written and as she now has dementia she cannot rewrite a valid will to eliminate her first will and if you choose not to consult a lawyer that's fine too. Your situation is not hopeless even though it's sad. I think that your Dad is right there watching out for you and it's okay that you talk this out with him🌻A loving Dad would never want his children to feel guilt about selling his house, he doesn't need his house anymore. I'm pretty sure that he'd be more concerned that his family was doing well and that the tight family bond that he obviously raised you with was still intact🌻I'm watching your videos backwards because I wanted to find out why you were moving. From the two videos I've watched I can see that you are a good, kind and caring person🌻Sorry for rambling on but I just felt that you needed some support. Keep your family close, stick together, take care of each other🌻Hugs❤
Get an attorney. Your aunt can't change or make your grandma change her will because she nows has dementia. You and your sisters will inherit his part when she dies. The land is still your grandmas while she is alive. Your aunt has no say. Stay put. Don't leave.
I agree. Do you have access to legal aid? I’m not a lawyer but I am pretty sure that any changes to a will can only be made when the person is of sound mind. This is to prevent, people like your Aunt, from taking what is not theirs . I think you should NOT budge. Please get some advice.
This is very good advice. My father changed his will after my grandmother died. He and his brother inherited her home. My uncle has no children, I’m an only child. My dad had a will that said if he passed away the house would go to his brother & vice versa. But my uncle is 14 years younger than him. So I asked my dad if he wanted his half of the house to go to his brother and not me & he said no not at all. So I brought him to change the will. The lawyer wouldn’t let me come in the office with him & had to establish he was of sound mind at the time. I ended up with $80k when he passed.
Agree with this. I know you’ve moved already but please speak to an estate or probate attorney.
Aunt coukd have power of attorney
Check the laws in your state. You and your sisters should be entitled to your dad's part of the land and homes. Don't be bullied.
The land wasn’t his, it belongs to her grandmother
I came to say this. When your Grandma passes you and your siblings should get your Dads share.
@@savesquish1 the land will go to whoever her grandmother designates
@@lindamoore8850 If there is no will it will go to her children. Her Dads portion will be spit up between his kids. It happened to me when my Dad died before his mother.
@@savesquish1 correct
Someone has to say it……your aunt sounds greedy. She has a cold heart. She should do what’s right. Family comes before money!
in my 78 years I see things like this happen is so sad. My mother died poor her long life took everything to keep her living in the end I was thankful that she was without anything not that my brother or I needed anything but I told myself in my 20's I would Neve fight over money period.
Does your grandmother have a will? If she does have a Will, who is the executor?
My dad did a will for the reason that his 2nd wife made 3 girls treat me like cinderella sometimes. They told him and their mom everything I did and said. I was never given a chance to explain things. When the older girl graduated from high school, they didn't allow me to talk on video that they were making. My dad wife and her girls are two faces. I don't have a good relationship with them or my dad wife. It's took me years to get over the fact that they don't want me around their so-called family. Because of that, I miss out on a lot of things that my dad's so-called family did. When his mom died of cancer, he realized that he needed to have a relationship. Then, when his dad died years later, he started making a will. He made so no one could touch my money because it's in a trust fund that someone overseas with a lawyer. That made his wife 3 girl mad. That they wouldn't get some, and if they found out they were getting some amount of money, they got mad. Also, he put in will that no one can test the will. That means no one, not even my mom or his wife 3 girl. Not even the government can take his house, the land the hause is attracted to or the rest of family land when both of them are gone. I am slowly now getting a release with my dad 3 sister. I would love to have a relationship with his brother and his wife. Who knows, only time will tell. How everyone will act when my dad passes away. I feel like his wife won't even contact me or care I'm there. I'm his only true blood daughter, and I think that has something to do with things. Who knows for sure.
But, you be surprised at how many family will use other family members for money, from not being honest and, paying a family member back! People will lie to not owe other family members back! It ends up costing to one bad extreme to another. People get hateful and greedy and take advantage of especially family members. Friends will do the same, although it’s sad and very unfortunate and, you can’t always control the situation! 10:16
Both my parents have now passed. The family home was to be sold and the money divided equally among their children. One of my siblings has also passed, so we all agreed that his share be given to his children. Family is more important than money. Your aunt is greedy, putting money first. This is the first video I've seen on your channel, if your grandma is still living, would she consider changing her will? I hope you find peace and happiness. No one can ever take away your memories. Xx
This is the first time I’ve come across your channel and when I tell I FEEL YOU, I truly FEEL YOU! Because THIS EXACT situation is happening to me and my family regarding our land when my great Uncle passed away, he was going to split it between his kids, grandkids, and my mom and my uncle. Unfortunately my Aunt took advantage of the situation and now has control over the land and will not let us even buy any of the land! She’s starting to build some Air B&B’s on our property that’s been ours since 1985! And my aunt doesn’t even live near my family! She lives 3 hours away! Just know that GOD always prevails and for those who are greedy and try to take things in their own hands, will have to deal with the man upstairs. Keep your head up, I will add you to my prayer list and just keep God close to your heart and talk to him everyday! He WILL take care of you! Xo
Get yourselves a good lawyer.
Your Grandmother is being over ruled by your aunt
She knew what yr dad had done.
Well, it sounds like the aunt is trying to undermine the grandmother! The Aunt is using her mother to her advantage! I have seen it before! 13:11
You may not have the land your dad wanted to leave you. But, the legacy he left, which bonds you and your sisters together is more valuable than any money in the world. Keep focused on your goal of buying acreage together and you will achieve it.
Lawyer up and dont move for now. Family playing this game isnt family anymore. Dont let them manipulate you. Stay strong.❤❤❤
Stupid advice.
@@dianaray1470 why seeing a lawyer is bad???
I am 63 years old and have learned over the years family is sometimes your worse enemy. Hope everything works out for you and your siblings I know you're hurting sending good wishes
People really show their true colors when money's involved. Im so sorry your aunt is doing all of that 😞
Your dad would be so very proud of you, and it sounds like he raised some phenomenal girls who have become strong women. God bless you, and I am looking forward to your new journey, as I hope you are.
Thank you 💜 It means alot to me to read that.
No matter if you have to move, fight for your part of the land, even if monetary, get an attorney!!
So glad you have your sisters to help you through this.
People change when someone passes away, and it's sad. Money, possessions, and property become more important than family. We've had 2 family members sell out to the highest bidders on our families land. That is not the way it was supposed to be. I'm sorry you're being treated this way. You hold your pretty head high. You're a good person, and good things are going to come your way.
I think your right.. Thank you for such kind words, and I'm sorry you had to go through it too.
Same with me too. All my little sister want all of money for herself. She never speak me again for 8 years now. Break my heart.
Yes. A tale as old as time. Very sad!😢
If you were born there on the land, are you not entitled to your Dads share? Shocking how greedy people never have enough. I would take legal advice
My sister started in on my when she heard my mom died. She got a lawyer and we ended up giving her the estate. Its fine. I’ve moved on. Good luck!
Oh sweetheart, god has big plans for you and your family. He will guide you through this new chapter. 🙏 💜
Amen 🙌🏼 Thank you for your words of encouragement 🩵
I am going through something very similar.. I am praying for you !
I’m reading comments and I agree it’s sooo wrong. But y’all if her grandma never put it in her dad’s name sadly I doubt there is anything she can do. This is horrible and I pray that God blesses y’all! Do t let this make u better sweet grl. Allow God to heal cause God has something bigger in store for y’all!!! He won’t allow this to happen without a reason. I promise he has ur back.. prayers!! ❤
I totally agree. The will could have been worded to cover the girl in case dad died. A good attorney would have covered that. Who knows why he or she didnt.
I stumbled upon your video. I have been listening to your story. I am so sorry about the passing of your father. I am glad that you have your 2 sisters and the three of you need to lean on each other. Your dad would be / is proud of you and your sisters. The other seem to be about the money, aland and all about property… well they will have to explain to Our Maker one day . I wish you all the best! May God show you grace , compassion and an abundant amount of Love.
God Bless,
Dana
Your dad is watching down on his girls with a proud smile on his face. God Bless
I think so too 💛
Grace, I'm sorry you're going through this. It's a blessing that you & your sisters have each other 🩷
I'm so sorry for your loss of so much. ❤ I believe you need to have your thyroid tested, not to scare you but help you.
You could contest this by going to court I can hear that you hold fond memories at the place and that is beautiful you are a strong person and this is a shocking thing and alot has changed and sad to hear there is alot of issues stay string ❤
So so very sorry for the loss of your dear sweet Dad...Prayers ascending for your comfort 🙏🙏🙏
I'm a new sub and I just want to let you know that I am praying for you sweetheart. Your dad sure did raise some good girls. Stay close to one another.
Thank you 💜
Hugs sweetie. I raised my kids in East Texas. My kids went to school in Jefferson. You are so blessed to have the love of your sisters. I understand the hurt you’re going thru. You are about to make beautiful new memories and you will always have your memories with your dad. Of course I don’t know the entire story but some people are just selfish. Legally your grandmothers will can’t be changed because of the dementia but it would be an expensive legal battle once she dies. Karma has a way of coming around so you will probably get to hear about it in your Aunts life. Just give it to God and he will give you the peace you need. Jan
Such a sad story, I am so sorry 😞 maybe somewhere down the road this ends up being some sort of “blessing in disguise”. I’ve had many of those.
I am so sorry for you all. Going through the loss of your dad n now this. But God's has you. He knows what he is doing. Take care n all will be OK. ❤
Amen 🤍
Find an attorney. Do not leave the property.
I’m so sorry for your loss and the added stress u r going through I just found your channel today I’ll b watching so see u shine bright in the end ❤
It’s beautiful how you & your sisters are so close. I wish my brother, sister & I were closer both geographically & relationally. Y’all do have something special for sure. I believe your dad would be proud, too. Also, I admire you for not fighting about it. Let God fight for you if there is fighting to be done & you’ll always get the win.
Don’t leave until you have a lawyer
agree with Rhonda, you need to talk to a lawyer, I believed that's not entirely correct.
Honestly I’d never speak to my aunt again. She showed who she is.
Away Girl sent me over. It’s no accident that I “arrived” here on the 31st….the day your house gets moved. I feel God wants me to tell you, everything is gonna be alright. And yes, your Dad is proud of his girls. Hold your head up and know that, God has you in the plan of His hands. BLESSINGS!!!
My mom passed last year and my sister took her to a lawyer before she died and changed her will. The thing was it was not how my parents as a collective had agreed to do things. If your Grandma is still alive you can get her to divide the land now. Or you can move forward with your own lawyer. If I am guessing correctly your Aunt is her primary care giver and this is influencing what your Grandma does out of fear. If you can relive her fear you can move forward in a direction that will help you.
watch the video. Her Grandma is still alive, she's 90 with dementia.
No ethical lawyer would change anything when the person has dementia.
Yeah, family are so, awful when, it comes to this kind of of thing, my mom went into the hospital and, my stepdad ended up having Alzheimer’s and, while my mom was in the hospital and have him change his will! Needless to say, that she got nothing and, no one got nothing because, by the time my mom passed my mom kicked out all my step- dad’s family out of the house because, his son came down and,the minute my mom and, aunt went to turn their back he started snooping into things and, they caught him. My mom came down sick so, her family took care of her till she passed. Then, when, my mom passed that same step- brother and, his wife came to the funeral,they didn’t care to ask how me and, my brother were, for them it was handing out their number and, trying to find out about the will, which he wasn’t going to leave nothing to his kids. It would have been all mine and, my brother’s. But, after they then, ask about the will then, they expressed their sympathies to him and, almost 10 mins later they came to me when, I was standing by myself, I thought it was the rudest thing. She and, his kids aren’t hurting, she had a good job and, her husband had a good job and, all her kids married into money. People just get greedy hungry when, it comes to money. That is money hungry! 0:27
Hey Grace, I will be praying for your family and your move. Your Dad is very proud of you girls❤
Thank you 💜
❤🙏🏻 Prayers for you and your family
Sorry for your loss your Daddy
He is your beautiful Guardian Angel up in HEAVEN
Watching over you and family
GOD Bless you and your family
Put everything in GOD hands he will take care of the rest🙏🏻❤
I’m so sorry you are going through this through all of this
I’m so sorry hun… I would retain an attorney. Prayers up for y’all 🙏🏻❤️ They need to respect your dads wishes ❤
I am so sorry , sendin Prayers
So sorry you’re going through this!
This is so crazy. I was literally just watching one of your videos!
Thank you 💜
I've been through that. My family treated me like they didn't know me. Period. I was able to Keep the family home. However, I have no relationship with my family. It hurts but I had to see it for want it is not what it was.
You must move forward.
Thank God you sisters have each other to lean on!
So Sorry For Your Loss My Condolences
Thank You 💛
The law would look at a will first. If there is no wIll, the land will go to your aunt. if your grandmother has dementia, she can't sign over anything or change anything any longer. If your aunt also has POA over your grandmother, I'm afraid you are out of luck.
In TN the CHILDREN inherit at least 50 percent of what the dad left.
That is truly sad! I am so sad! I would check with a lawyer first! You and your sisters might be able to get her dad’s part . And those who pass that are grandmothers children their children might be entitled as well! Something worth to checking into! I so sorry they are not letting you guys stay on the land! ! Hate to say but I have a feeling karma will get your aunt !
I’m praying for you and your sister. Move on to your happiness and leave all the drama behind. You are right, but you and your sister will be fine. Go after your happiness and embrace your peace. You will be the better for it.
so sorry you are going through all of this on top of losing a parent. Lost my mom last year and still grieving, I get grief. I hope it all works out for you and you can find some peace. Keep vlogging, I vlog daily and it's helping me cope. New Subbie.
Your aunts going to get EVERYTHING she deserves! Wow you’re such a sweet soul. I can’t believe your aunt would be so nasty, ugly and MONEY HUNGRY to do this to ya’ll. She’s gone get everything she’s got coming to her I promise you that!
I'm so sorry for all you are going through.
just found your channel, thank you for sharing your story. you have my prayers =)
I’m new to your channel and am sorry to hear about what you are going through. My only advice is take lots of pictures of how it is now before they move the trailers off so that you can look back and remember what it looked like to you now. That way it will always stay a special memory in your heart that no one can take from you ❤ Sometimes life doesn’t goes the way we expect but that’s because God is making a path to a better one. Hang in there, it will get better 🤗🙏🏻
First time watching your video.and the moment you started talking about your situation.i said omg im not the only 1 going through this.i can sympathize with you 100%! It hurts when family mistreats you.
I'm sorry your going through this too. I pray things get better for you.
I'm so sorry you and your sisters are having to deal with having your Aunt not follow through with what your father had wished for. About eight years ago I went through something similar. My younger sister talked my mother (who had dementia) into changing power of attorney to her from my older sister. This happened quickly...in just one night. She took our inheritance that was supposed to be split equally between the three sisters and got herself a brand new Jeep. I really don't know what happened with the rest because my older sister and I no longer speak to her. But I can say that what others in the comments here are saying is true. People can get mean spirited and even greedy when loved ones pass. I am so glad to hear that you have your sisters to keep you strong. At this point in my life the only blood family that I have left is my older sister but she moved two states away. Thank goodness for my husband of 34 years who is my best friend. I pray for you and your sisters that things go smoothly and you can have peace in your new home.
My heart hurts for you. Your sister is an angel to share her land with you and your other sister. I’m new to your channel from SC.
Get a lawyer. This very muddy water you are in.
Baby Girl at the time of death the true “family” shows their colors. Money means more to so many. God will take care of the greedy. GUARANTEED. One of my brothers stole my mom, liters and hid her in a Nursing Home. Every day she made me promise her she’d never go in a Nursing Home, and I’d never let him take her. The police were no help. She passed within 10 months of being put there. The brother who did it?? He’s suffers like a dog, and at deaths door. You girls stick together! You WILL BE BLESSED. Hugs- Rebecca 🩷😘😘🩷
You need a lawyer. ASAP. I completely understand your situation. Very similar scenario for me.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. God is watching over you and he will get you through this. Jesus is also watching your aunt is more than likely very disappointed and unhappy with your aunt. Greed is very real and money is the root of all evil. Keep the faith and stay strong. God bless you 💗🙏
My heart breaks for you by the way new subscriber here my dad was such a big proponent my whole life of especially since we were up blended family. My mom was married prior to marrying my dad. I had four girls involved. Never my dad was their dad was mine and my brothers Like I said, my dad was a big proponent my whole life of not letting material things come in between family no matter what never have a fallen out with love ones over material things because you can’t take it with you when you gone and family is the most important thing. You would think that with those views and that advice throughout my whole life that things would’ve been handled properly within my own family sadly, it wasn’t but I was raised by good people and I love my family dearly so after many tears, lots of heartache I chose to be the bigger person and let it all go, because I can’t take it with me and I do love my family so very much in the end. My conscious is clear. I know the truth and I can live with it. Yes, I can. Please let this be a big hello and wake up to how things done legally in writing black-and-white, don’t care who it is family or not business is business. End of story, looking forward to your new journey! P.S. I’m driving and I’m speaking my text so I apologize for a punctuation and misspelling.
what state do you live in - - - i may be able to find you a pro bono attorney
DP NOT leave the land - - make the aunt get a court order to remove you... Grandma has dementia - - -
a court will not make you vacate....
DO NOT LEAVE THE LAND - - - make the aunt force you
Texas
So sorry for your loss and for what you are going through.
It's up to you what you want to do. It does depend on what's in your grandmothers Will. If the inheritance only goes to living children, unfortunately I don't know if there is anything you can do.
Yes...although I think a legal case for ownership could be made if Dad paid for the home. If he paid for a house built on Grandmother's land she might be entitled to the value of the build. I hope she gets some legal advise.
@caronadams4486 I thought she said it was a double wide, which is movable.
I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope your Aunt gets whatever she deserves in life for causing this. Terrible what money does to people. My mother did this to my family because my grandparents trusted her. I will keep you in my prayers and I know you will get through this💜
I would have this litigated…but here’s what I takeaway from your clip. I’m glad that all of you and your sisters will be together. That’s just priceless…I know it would make your dad proud for sticking together! Good luck and remember, your most precious assets are your family ❤️
New sub. Came from away girl. I’m so sorry I can feel your pain. Prayers for you and your family. ❤️
I subscribed! You Tube sent your channel to me.
Right or wrong an attorney will need probably 30% to 40% of your award - if you are awarded something.
The way you are handling things sound good if that works for you.
Just get things in a legal document regarding land and moving onto land. You have to protect yourself and your future.
So for sure - please do that!
Now you are a parent, so learn from your Father’s mistake of not having a legal Will.
I had 2 sisters growing up and things change. As a parent, you will be showing your child - by your actions - how to handle these difficult situations.
Oh yes! God listens to prayers and will work miracles before your eyes but it may be years down the road or it could be soon. Never know. Just do the best you can and listen to your Father’s voice in your memories.
Sorry things are rough right now and please rest when you can!
Life will always be full of change and you’ll be caught off guard but you are strong! Be self confident but always be open to Learning new ways to do things. Good job of Not over-sharing! Excellent Job!❤ I’m so proud of you and I don’t know you.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. My mom died in 2021 and although there is no land involved, I got very few of my mom's possessions. I had to move almost 5 hours away to get any peace. My thoughts and prayers are with ❤
Praying for each of you. Praying this is not the end, and God will in some eay intervene on behalf of you and your sisters. ❤ 🙏
Any lawyer will tell you she has no say in anything! Just because she "wants" things her doesn't mean that will happen. Definitely get a lawyer. Prayers for you
I came here from Away Girl, my heart goes out to you sweetheart❤❤❤bless your sister's, God knows all, sees all.🙏🙏🙏
I am a new subscriber - feel so badly for you. I am not a lawyer - but there is a tort law called undue influence. If your aunt as persuaded your grandmother when she has
memory issues, then you may have a case. I give you credit though for gong with your heart - good for you for taking care of each other - I am sure your father would be proud of you all! He would want you together - that is his legacy and it is one you all are passing along to your kids.
If the land & properties are only listed in your grandmother’s name, after she passes, the estate is usually divided between the surviving children and/or the offspring (you & your sisters) of any deceased children. Check the deeds to the properties to ensure your grandmother is the only person listed as the sole owner and if there’s any names listed as beneficiaries. If anyone is listed as having “rights of survivorship”, only those people (and their heirs) are entitled to the property once your grandmother passes. Of course, run it through a lawyer to how you go about making claim to the estate if your grandmother passes without a will.
This is so terrible. I love my niece and nephew so much! I’d never not be fair with them. Your aunt should be ashamed and hold her head down low. Don’t let this ruin your life though. It’s so important for you to find your joy and hold on to it. A joyful heart is the backbone to achievement and success. I’m so glad you have a sister that is good with you staying on her land. I would share anything I have with my sis but she would be telling me that I need to figure things out for myself.
It’s for certain you are hurting. It was in your dad to make sure his estate was in order. Probate will determine the legality of an outcome and if you don’t agree consult with an attorney. Sometimes, things don’t seem fair but the law doesn’t deal in “seem”
We only hear one side and it’s maturity to know there are always 2 sides.
Sorry you have to move. Maybe, when the dust settles, you can come to terms with what is and move forward (and upward) from there.
I am sorry for your losses. I will say one thing. God did not put you in this situation. Selfish people did.❤️
Hello, I am new here. My heart really hurts for you! Does your grandmother have anything in writing? I am so sorry for your loss of your Dad. Your Dad is watching and I bet he is very proud of you and your sisters! I feel that you are doing the right thing. Your aunt is being selfish. She is taking advantage of your grandmother (her mother) seeing, she has dementia.
I am so happy that you have your sisters. Everything will work out. You are truly blessed to have such amazing sisters. I lost my mom and dad years ago. I only have one sister, that is very selfish. I will be praying for you all! 🌹🙏
Grace, this is my first time here. I am so very sorry you and your sisters have to deal with this. Hold your head up, seek some help. No matter which direction you go stay positive. You and your sisters stay together and be happy. Remember your dad is always with you and will guide you. You girls have got this.
Hi there. New subscriber here. 😊Amy (Away Girl Vlogs) sent me. 🥰 I'm so glad she mentioned your channel to us, you seem so sweet and genuine! I look forward to watching more of your videos! 😉
I know exactly how you are feeling, my mom passed away in January. My grandmother is still alive but illegally gave my mom her inheritance early, which was a house and land. My mom had 4 kids, that the house/land was intended to be divided between.. after legally transferring the property into my moms name, my brother then inherited everything and promised us girls (3 of us) that we would get a pay out or that he would will the property to us… hasn’t happened, and won’t happen… my mom put lost of work into that home and he has already let it go, has gotten married and the new wife doesn’t want us around, my uncle who was born and raised there can not come onto the property, my still living grandmother is not even allowed to spend the night there when she comes to town for a visit.. she lived there nearly 50years and now has to get a hotel room… it’s not fair, I wanted and tried to do what my mom wanted but i was ignored and played like a fool… is girls inherited 1800.00 each which we used to pay my moms taxes so they don’t come after us… so at the end of the day, we get nothing but an even more broken family. I miss my momma!!
I'm so sorry that happened to you. 💔
Death brings out the worst in people. As if it's not enough to be grieving a loved one, people want to knock you when your already down. My prayers are with you and your sisters. 💛
@@EverydayGrace. that is so true! Praying for your family as well, life can be so cruel. But we know the one who can make it all better!
I lost my dad almost 5 years ago. My dad had my sibling and i from age 10. I am going through this. My stepmother sold the land, houses, and items. She died in December. We only got a very small amount of money so far. Please get a lawyer!! Grandmother isnt able to have a say. Yes honey, you got cheated. You guys can fight this together. I wish i could talk to you and your sisters.
🙏🙏🙏🙏 You and your sisters will be the ones who will be blessed, God takes care of his children.
Seek tht advise of a good attourney in your state. If your grandmother has it in her will that your dad and aunt get her estate, then since your dad is gone his inheritance goes to HIS kids (in the state where I live). And if your granmother has dementia she can't make changes to the will now. If she does, after she dies you and your sisters can contest the will and explain her mental condition and how the aunt manipulated her. If you have proof that she is manipulating your grandmother for financial gain, you can call adult protective services. There are many of us out there in the same boat, dealing with the same things you are so just know you are not alone. It's called elderly exploitation and it's considered a form of abuse. Hang in there!
I feel for you 💔 My heart is so broken from losing mine😢
Sweetheart,
A lot has been placed upon your shoulders at a young age. We don’t know how, but God is going to bless you in your life and the life of your sisters. God saw all of this coming, and he wants you to trust him completely with all the changes in your life. Your future is right in the palm of his hand, and his hand is strong!
I’m old enough to be your grandmother, and God is still showing me that I must trust him to care for me with every loss in my life. Sudden, unexpected events that seemed impossibly sad and hard have always been replaced with a different sort of joy. Do I mourn for how things used to be? Sometimes, but when I look backwards I see so much to be thankful for.
I pray for you that you take hold of God’s hand and don’t let go. “ Yet I am always with you. You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with your council, and afterward, you will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven, but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:23-26
Let God fight your battles. He'll definitely take care of your mean old aunt! You're in my prayers.
I'm here from away girls channel. It's probably best you leave. I feel your aunt would have just caused you problems. I'm so sorry about your dad, he rest in peace 🙏. Things will get better for you, so glad you have your sisters to be there for you. I have an aunt that's nothing but a trouble maker, she's horrible so I feel you girl. Prayers for you and your sisters ❤️
And DONT MOVE OUT! That’s your ownership she can’t kick you out. Stay there and talk to an attorney.
So sorry for your loss .. and your aunt is going to get all the Karma she deserves! This is so evil and greedy on her behalf smh .. … best wishes to y’all
Where I live the law states the children will inherit the property if their parent dies. Check with an attorney.
Children cannot inherit property that the decedent does not own. It is Grandma's land. Dad cannot give it to her.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like he was a jewel. Unfortunately, so many times when someone passes and there’s no will, even though there are verbal wishes things like this happen. It seems like there’s always that one person. That’s all I’ll say about that. In the end, this can be God’s way of telling you, hey, I have even better plans for you. You may not see it now, but it will all work out. As long as you and your sisters are doing the right things, it will work out. I’m thankful your sister has agreed to let you and your other sister come live with her. You have handled this situation with grace and dignity. The possibilities are endless with what will happen. Hang in there. I know you will get through this.
I’m so sorry for your loss. The outlook doesn’t look good for you or your sisters. If your grandmother doesn’t have a will or have it written down and notarized then the aunt will get it all. I know you don’t want to move but it will be for the best. A home can be anywhere it’s what you make it.
My dad got custody of my brother and I. He died in 1997 from cancer. All these yrs and it still hurts a lil to talk about him.
I dont know the history with the grandmother but it is HER land. It does not belong to your Aunt or your Father and your father certainly would have had no right to "will" it to you if he never owned it.
People who plan the rest of their lives around property they dont even own should know better. Grandma can leave her property to her cat or a perfect stranger if she chooses, it is not "family" land. 3 generations down thinking you are entitled to anything at all when Grandma passes, that just floors me. Make your own way!
If Grandma is not of sound mind, which some others have implied, someone should get involved to protect HER assets and provide for HER care because it sounds like everyone is all riled up about her acerage not Grandma herself. Shame on anyone who PLANS their future on the death of another and especially the Aunt for taking advantage of the situation if she does have dementia.
I'm so sorry sweetheart. I have a question. Did your dad have a last will in a testament or anything like that? Even if your dad wrote out a letter stating his last wishes. This isn't right and it sickens me. Your dad sounded like a wonderful daddy. Sending prayers your way.
🙏🏼 📿 🕯 😢❤
Does your grandmother's will specify that her land is to be divided between her living children only? If not, get a lawyer and don't move out yet.
I agree.
Plus she mentioned she has dementia…
Might be something the court will have to decide. Is there a will?
When my dad died, I assumed we’d get his part when my grandma died. When she died we didn’t and I talked to the lawyer handling the estste. They didn’t know about sone assets and things. We ended up getting our dads part (wasn’t much $ cause my uncle bought the property at low price set). I would talk to a lawyer. I just found the channel and this is the first video.
Id not move off the land. Id stay out and get a lawyer. Possession is 9/10th of the law. Don’t leave!
I wish I had a relationship with my sister they way you do. We talk but not a lot. She is four yrs younger then me I left home at 17. Came back every couple yrs. Never should have left the last time because I lost my son to dcfs and I never knew what they were ND about. But he home now. Grown and doing grown things.... Girl your fine. Just talk you got this
I my heart breaks for you and your situation. I really wish that your family could work this out within the family. Unfortunately, you probably need to get a lawyer, and that would make for a sticky situation to live in afterward. I could say many things about your aunt. However, not knowing her myself, I would never do that. That being said, it does sound like she wants it all for herself.
Pray on it. God will help to see you through. Let him put forgiveness in your heart and possibly in your aunts, too. God bless
I would definitely look into it if I were you.. But to be honest, since your grandmother is still alive, I wouldn't think there would be anything you could do.. I would at least check into it! I hope you can find some peace.. it's rough losing your parent
Your dad’s assets would go to you kids.
Do not leave. Call an estate attorney and request a free 15 minute consultation. You can get advice to stop them in their tracks.
Once you leave, no coming back.
Fight for your dad.
I think it’s law that the land IS yours- even if you can’t live there in peace-‘then the property will be sold and the money will be yours