Thanks for your insightful video. I have a beautiful young wife. She has most all the symptoms of a covert narcissist. We have been married since 2009 and ever since her mask dropped she has blame shifted every problem with her teenage daughter onto me even though I have never been allowed to discipline her daughter. Ever since our marriage and any behavior issues with her daughter I was never allowed to be involved with her daughter. Her daughter has grown up to be 17 years old and now until recently her daughter would project her problems onto me. I have always been made to feel it's her daughter and the wife against me. Now I have been getting along great with her daughter Sarah. On Sarah birthday last week she didn't want to go shopping with her mother she chose to go with me instead. So I took Sarah shopping and let her buy things that she wanted on Sarah birthday my narcissist wife went into a rant yelling at me saying that I brainwashed her daughter and put her against her own mother and all I was trying to do was show her daughter Sarah love hopefully to repair our relationship. Sarah mother would complain that I didn't do anything with her her daughter but when I do I get blamed for turning her daughter against her. All I am trying to do is show Sarah love. I seem to always be in a no win situation. On top of all this a few weeks ago I saw my wife texting someone in an app but the app on top left corner said Bumble with the dating app insignia. I have been suspicious of her cheating on me for 8 months now. I also woke up to find her on what appeared to be tinder looking at a man's profile. I thought I was a strong man but these developments have crushed me. After all this in still love the wife and even offering her a new suv. I am about ready to give up on her completely she doesn't let me kiss her or touch her no intimacy which seems like a sudden change that occurred about 8 months ago. I need to cut my losses and move on we have an 8 year old son that I use to be very close too but I feel she has been trying to turn him against me also. My narcissist wife must have another man she doesn't have any emotional need for attention from me and even seems repulsed by me. It hurts so bad that seems only way I can deal with the rejection is meet someone new to get my mind off my wife yes I know it's wrong I don't know how to cope. I feel rejected and less than. I still love her and keep wishing for the good old days
So true. Never finish anything. Leave a mess for someone else to deal with but huge opinions about everything.
God bless you mightly ❤️❤️❤️
All three of my siblings are chronic movers. What you say is true.
Thanks for your insightful video.
I have a beautiful young wife. She has most all the symptoms of a covert narcissist. We have been married since 2009 and ever since her mask dropped she has blame shifted every problem with her teenage daughter onto me even though I have never been allowed to discipline her daughter. Ever since our marriage and any behavior issues with her daughter I was never allowed to be involved with her daughter. Her daughter has grown up to be 17 years old and now until recently her daughter would project her problems onto me.
I have always been made to feel it's her daughter and the wife against me. Now I have been getting along great with her daughter Sarah. On Sarah birthday last week she didn't want to go shopping with her mother she chose to go with me instead. So I took Sarah shopping and let her buy things that she wanted on Sarah birthday my narcissist wife went into a rant yelling at me saying that I brainwashed her daughter and put her against her own mother and all I was trying to do was show her daughter Sarah love hopefully to repair our relationship. Sarah mother would complain that I didn't do anything with her her daughter but when I do I get blamed for turning her daughter against her. All I am trying to do is show Sarah love.
I seem to always be in a no win situation.
On top of all this a few weeks ago I saw my wife texting someone in an app but the app on top left corner said Bumble with the dating app insignia. I have been suspicious of her cheating on me for 8 months now. I also woke up to find her on what appeared to be tinder looking at a man's profile. I thought I was a strong man but these developments have crushed me. After all this in still love the wife and even offering her a new suv. I am about ready to give up on her completely she doesn't let me kiss her or touch her no intimacy which seems like a sudden change that occurred about 8 months ago. I need to cut my losses and move on we have an 8 year old son that I use to be very close too but I feel she has been trying to turn him against me also.
My narcissist wife must have another man she doesn't have any emotional need for attention from me and even seems repulsed by me.
It hurts so bad that seems only way I can deal with the rejection is meet someone new to get my mind off my wife yes I know it's wrong I don't know how to cope. I feel rejected and less than. I still love her and keep wishing for the good old days
Don’t give up on that boy. Hang in there friend.
Leave her immediately. she hates you and it will only be worse. I hope you are not with her anymore