Casanova conman: how Hamish McLaren swindled women out of $70 million | 7NEWS Spotlight

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  • Опубликовано: 27 май 2019
  • This story originally aired on May 26, 2019.
    Hamish McLaren may be Australia’s greatest ever conman - he stole women’s hearts and then their life savings, and stashed $70 million away somewhere in the world. So who the hell is Hamish - and how did they bring him down?
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @loviesmith3949
    @loviesmith3949 4 года назад +519

    Note to self: If his showing you he has money; yet is spending YOUR money..RUN!!!

    • @zarasbazaar
      @zarasbazaar 4 года назад +24

      They didn't know he was spending their money. They thought he had invested it for them.

    • @Jen1112111
      @Jen1112111 4 года назад +2

      you need to rewrite what you just said

    • @sirnathanstorernbsn
      @sirnathanstorernbsn 4 года назад +1

      Lovie Smith EXACTLY!!

    • @danielobara4692
      @danielobara4692 3 года назад +3

      @@zarasbazaar those women were blind. All women are blind when it comes to love.

    • @agathapoirot5373
      @agathapoirot5373 3 года назад +4

      @@danielobara4692 And men.

  • @jettycomlego
    @jettycomlego 2 года назад +174

    big props to the guy who searched him up and found him as a runner. Scammed the scammer. You love to see it.

    • @Gizmos457
      @Gizmos457 2 месяца назад

      Hi what's this called please see I can look it up.

    • @susanmoorhead8762
      @susanmoorhead8762 Месяц назад

      I assume he went to jail or prison for a hood long time. He certainly was crafty and
      convinced many who were needy and vulnerable. The man in London who “smelled a rat” with Hammish was the smart one… skeptical. There are female scammers too, who go after men with money. Maybe a widow or divorcee.
      People want to believe in a charming man or woman. They are flattered, and maybe feeling lonely. One of you mentioned making a lot of money before making a
      commitment. Smart idea, but if a single snd young woman got pregnant in a first marriage with her spouse, it’s really important that she gives her child a secure environment and access to mommy. I know we are all different, but most if us don’t have that kind of money. I guess the scammers wouldn’t get interested. Never tell a new man how much you have, especially if you have a lot. That’s like catnip for a scammer!

    • @theobservereffect33
      @theobservereffect33 Месяц назад

      He has a good friend.

  • @leet.6149
    @leet.6149 3 года назад +422

    Had a boyfriend in college who "borrowed" $5 here, and $10 there. When the total got to $50 and he had never paid back a dollar I ended it. It's a sign of disrespect in my opinion. I consider that my $50 lesson that I've never had to repeat.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад +24

      50 measly bucks? Lol. I bet he was testing to see I you were a keeper. You failed.

    • @dimmacommunication
      @dimmacommunication 2 года назад +56

      @@GUITARTIME2024 Not really, depends on situation .
      I had a friend flashing expensive clothes , I have this I have that blabla...
      Always freeloading , hey do you have 5 here , 5 there... you just recognize the pattern when you are alert.
      The eyes never lie.
      If you are asking for 10 bucks while you have 400€ shoes and you always brag about money you should give me a reasonable explanation.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад +7

      @@dimmacommunication point taken.

    • @dimmacommunication
      @dimmacommunication 2 года назад

      @@GUITARTIME2024 Sorry if I wrote a long post 😂

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад

      @@dimmacommunication lol

  • @mizera_mykle
    @mizera_mykle 3 года назад +373

    What stays most with me is the goodness of the one woman whose neighbor paid off her 8 figure mortgage and was willing to await payment when she sold her home. That depth of kindness is wonderful, they were not asked but learned of the dilemma and offered. I feel so bad for men and women wanting no more than to be part of a couple and end up swindled.

    • @learningenglishthroughtran8540
      @learningenglishthroughtran8540 Год назад +5

      7 figures

    • @KJ-lb4tj
      @KJ-lb4tj Год назад +8

      @@learningenglishthroughtran8540missing the point.

    • @charwest9449
      @charwest9449 Год назад +12

      He may have done it out of the goodness of his heart, but he likely also didn't want the property values to fall in his neighborhood. And he knew she was good for it, and would repay him upon sale. If the bank foreclosed, it would be sold for a much lower price.

    • @kimthreadgold2755
      @kimthreadgold2755 Год назад +3

      Real wealth

    • @JBizzle123
      @JBizzle123 10 месяцев назад +18

      Right! I had major brain surgery & my neighbors didn't even offer to bring up the trash bin from the curb! Lol 😂

  • @marywilson4938
    @marywilson4938 5 лет назад +506

    Thank God the man with the disabled child got his money back

    • @AamyieEcker
      @AamyieEcker 5 лет назад +22

      Mary Wilson he scammed the scammer. Love it

    • @jamesrandy8298
      @jamesrandy8298 5 лет назад +7

      that guy with disable kid... sorry too said.. he also a Ex scammer... google research it up u find him..

    • @yukiefromoz2573
      @yukiefromoz2573 5 лет назад +5

      @@jamesrandy8298 Nope, did not find anything on Simon Shone. Post a link.

    • @vanidaknutson4616
      @vanidaknutson4616 5 лет назад +1

      But the money he was scammed out of was someone else's money. At least it was put to good use. I'm sure the victims wouldn't mine it was for the disabled child.

    • @marywilson4938
      @marywilson4938 5 лет назад +4

      @@clt5991 , they didn't get their money back, if they did that would have been great too! However, we are thankful the man with the disabled child did.

  • @ReginaDillard
    @ReginaDillard 4 года назад +1626

    What I’ve learned after my own share of mishaps, is you never tell someone specific details about what you want in a partner. I always say, “I know exactly what I want. I’ll allow you to show me the qualities you have as we progress”. That way, they can’t shape themselves into the image of the person you’ve shared with them, they have to present the true qualities they have. Listen twice as much as you talk.

    • @samoriab5999
      @samoriab5999 4 года назад +61

      Thats why you are single

    • @sarahd1457
      @sarahd1457 4 года назад +207

      @@samoriab5999 There is nothing wrong with being single.

    • @samoriab5999
      @samoriab5999 4 года назад +29

      @@sarahd1457 thats why you are single..

    • @sarahd1457
      @sarahd1457 4 года назад +122

      @@samoriab5999 And that's exactly what I want, hun.

    • @samoriab5999
      @samoriab5999 4 года назад +24

      @@sarahd1457 I dont believe you, hun

  • @vittorianesse
    @vittorianesse 4 месяца назад +18

    I had a housemate like that. Put on his suit every day to go to his “job” at KPMG. One day I came home early to find him on the couch. I called reception next day and they’d never heard of him. We kicked him out and I only lost a few hundred, but if it weren’t for instincts and swift action it could’ve been worse. Beware.

  • @jstone247
    @jstone247 7 месяцев назад +20

    Casanova?
    He doesn't deserve a second look!

  • @Perivale
    @Perivale 4 года назад +154

    To all the folks who have been scammed out of money, please do not beat yourself up, these people are very good at their game, and know that the humiliation does go away. Went through something like this and it made me a stronger person.

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад +7

      Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

    • @christinemomy8018
      @christinemomy8018 2 года назад +10

      @@ericephemetherson3964 so youre aware of the divorce settlement? Or are you divorced and bitter?

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад

      @@christinemomy8018 Neither one. I have never been married. Never sought to marry any member, saturated of lying and exclusively self-mariginalized, deception infested society of opposite sex.

    • @kutie216
      @kutie216 Год назад +4

      @@ericephemetherson3964 Most women who have wealth got it from their families or from their ex husbands. I’m a woman and I know that is true for a fact. It’s kind of embarrassing for them admit to being scammed by some random dude who showed interest.

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 Год назад +1

      @@kutie216 We are all random.

  • @katarinanoren2867
    @katarinanoren2867 4 года назад +745

    My heart broke when the first woman’s son said he wanted to know if Hamish ( the fugly casanova) faked his love for him. 💔💔💔💔

    • @katarinanoren2867
      @katarinanoren2867 4 года назад +30

      Clown World devastating 💔 I feel sad for his girlfriend too who were groomed by this ugly old man. I kind of feel sorry for the women too, it’s easy to say “ I would never get caught up in such a scam “ when you are not in their situation. I think it’s easier than we want to believe.

    • @clownworld3913
      @clownworld3913 4 года назад +20

      @@katarinanoren2867 Groomed, big lol. She thought she had snagged James Bond.

    • @katarinanoren2867
      @katarinanoren2867 4 года назад +13

      Clown World a very ugly James Bond 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @brettholt6277
      @brettholt6277 4 года назад +7

      All of us with a soul felt the same way.

    • @hoosainsalie7106
      @hoosainsalie7106 4 года назад

      @will lol exactly was thinking the same thing

  • @tangomcphearson74
    @tangomcphearson74 Год назад +124

    Hamish is a total sociopath. period. I'm happy these women at least escaped from him and found the truth. Court Systems need to put people like this away for a long, long time to stop them from damaging others.

    • @billmiller3425
      @billmiller3425 Год назад +3

      I agree and they should also lock up the MEN!

    • @onidoremc9490
      @onidoremc9490 9 месяцев назад +1

      Damn smart conman

    • @leoniea138
      @leoniea138 6 месяцев назад +1

      He is going to be more clever when he is out of the lockup....then make a grand comeback with a better scam....there will be foolish women falling again...

    • @AK-xj2di
      @AK-xj2di 3 месяца назад

      ​@leoniea138 sadly yes😢

  • @francesgray5545
    @francesgray5545 3 года назад +128

    It’s when I watch programmes like this I’m glad I’m paranoid 🙏🏼

    • @donnakerr4997
      @donnakerr4997 2 года назад +3

      Yes ,paranoid and poor too.

    • @unknownpatriot7426
      @unknownpatriot7426 2 года назад +2

      @@donnakerr4997 😂😂😂😂

    • @precisiont5188
      @precisiont5188 Год назад

      Crooks like him make women paranoid which makes it difficult for ethical men to gain their trust.

    • @Liverpool5095
      @Liverpool5095 2 месяца назад

      Then you're seeking out something to back up your ignorance. These are ultra rare situations. It's like me seeking out and watching all the many videos online of dogs mauling little children and then saying "This is why I hate dogs and dogs are evil". Same mode of oversimplified ignorance.

    • @KOBA971
      @KOBA971 2 месяца назад

      The best comment 😂

  • @aminus3765
    @aminus3765 4 года назад +835

    He got jailed for 16 years yesterday. Justice!

    • @bosbosloo780
      @bosbosloo780 4 года назад +27

      Waarom what about the victim money? Can they get some back

    • @paulrussellevans
      @paulrussellevans 4 года назад +55

      Not long enough by far he'll be out in no time :( He is truly the worst kind of criminal, as soon as he's out he'll be right back at it, it's what he does :(

    • @myunknownland9272
      @myunknownland9272 4 года назад +14

      Ruined lives for 16 years

    • @alihs1
      @alihs1 4 года назад +66

      I would do 16 years for 70 million

    • @nostromov7892
      @nostromov7892 4 года назад +20

      @@alihs1 Nah, people lose their minds in prison (no matter how cushy, behind bars).

  • @katinkiplinkyplonk4933
    @katinkiplinkyplonk4933 5 лет назад +1078

    Hamish should run for government. He wouldn't feel out of place.

  • @celticstar5049
    @celticstar5049 3 года назад +167

    He is a narcissist, no empathy and no soul. I hope these ladies can find peace and move on and have a good life

    • @deekircher21
      @deekircher21 2 года назад +3

      More than a narcissist, he’s a psychopath

    • @SeaTeaSnow
      @SeaTeaSnow 2 года назад

      Psychopath… narcissists tend to be pathologically insecure, angry, malicious intentions to bring down others.

    • @christar9527
      @christar9527 2 года назад +6

      Probably a sociopath. Didn’t they say that he took on different personalities along with the aliases? At any rate he was very manipulative and had zero remorse or concern about anyone else.

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад +4

      Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Год назад +2

      @@ericephemetherson3964 . Are you Karen's ex-husband? You seem to have a real 🐝 in your bonnet about her.

  • @Jesusisalivetoday1
    @Jesusisalivetoday1 3 года назад +39

    I'm one of these women... just a different conman!!! Thankyou for sharing ladies... you've no idea how much hearing you sharing means to me. I pray that your lives are beautiful from here on in....A xx 🙏💜

    • @melanieah5501
      @melanieah5501 Месяц назад +1

      So am I. Conned out of £10k through threats and controlling & coerced behaviour. He was a professional petty criminal and scumbag.

  • @wadisanaa
    @wadisanaa 4 года назад +2672

    I cant even trick my girlfriend to buy me large pizza with three toppings.

    • @gladgirl9918
      @gladgirl9918 4 года назад +42

      wadi gaji 😂😂😂 🍕

    • @georginamannor4373
      @georginamannor4373 4 года назад +24

      😀

    • @sallybasto1930
      @sallybasto1930 4 года назад +31

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @crackerjack_1390
      @crackerjack_1390 4 года назад +39

      Learn how to put it down really really good and they will do anything for you. Lol

    • @wadisanaa
      @wadisanaa 4 года назад +23

      @@crackerjack_1390 lol glad she is not reading this

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis 5 лет назад +306

    Messing with a person’s heart is the worst, not the money. These ladies were vulnerable and sincerely thought they had found a good mate. Being conned out of money is just pouring acid on a wounded heart. Glad to see them helping each other to heal.

    • @t.j.7789
      @t.j.7789 2 года назад +12

      I don't really think so! Beck KNEW something was going on or was OFF with him having coffee in coffee shops with her son's girlfriend!!! She felt something was off. You can get over someone "messing with your heart." If you really NEED that money to live, I think that's worse!!!

    • @lilmar1710
      @lilmar1710 2 года назад

      @@t.j.7789 oh shut up

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад +6

      Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dolar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process.

    • @Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi
      @Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi 2 года назад +5

      It is the money because it wreak their life!!u get over broken heart!

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад

      @@Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi Greedy women do not deserve to be sorry for.

  • @jellybean1252
    @jellybean1252 3 года назад +313

    These women were seduced by his status, and his projected affluent image. If he looked poor , I bet they would not given him the time of day.

    • @MrDhandley
      @MrDhandley 3 года назад +33

      Unfortunately you are correct.

    • @mariamacebekhulu2629
      @mariamacebekhulu2629 3 года назад +14

      Well said

    • @ezza1236
      @ezza1236 3 года назад +16

      And now Every man after this will be blamed

    • @denaupton8789
      @denaupton8789 2 года назад +39

      What a crock! The women are the ones who had money. They were after a relationship

    • @nickisnyder3450
      @nickisnyder3450 2 года назад +37

      None of the woman he went after were poor....or he would not be interested in them. Yes he had to appear to be rich to be in their class....but these woman were not after $

  • @lnlywriter9618
    @lnlywriter9618 2 года назад +574

    A TRUE gentleman NEVER asks for money. Never.

    • @urbanyouths
      @urbanyouths Год назад

      Ok, simp.

    • @sheldonpearce2365
      @sheldonpearce2365 Год назад +19

      Dahm right bruva

    • @urbanyouths
      @urbanyouths Год назад

      @@sheldonpearce2365 The supreme gentleman doesn't pay for anything and allows the free liberated womyn to.

    • @pearlrodrigues372
      @pearlrodrigues372 Год назад +37

      This is true, real men work 6 jobs to earn their own money, they'll never ask money ever from someone they love.

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 Год назад +20

      Never talk about money in relationships

  • @KC1up
    @KC1up 4 года назад +268

    I don’t see how he passed for 41. He clearly looks at least 50. I guess people will believe what they want to

    • @shecoop6633
      @shecoop6633 4 года назад +12

      Kristen C exactly! Minimum 50.

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania 3 года назад +6

      Some people don't age that well. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ThorBB
      @ThorBB 3 года назад +14

      Yes. It is not uncomon for a lot of women to accept almost ANYTHING when she realize he had a lot of money

    • @sbtopjosh7841
      @sbtopjosh7841 3 года назад +8

      Yet women believed him. You women are too emotional sometimes you look past the face.

    • @largol33t1
      @largol33t1 3 года назад +1

      Which is probably why he was able to swindle so many people.

  • @BrendenParker
    @BrendenParker 4 года назад +408

    The world is run by remorseless psychopaths like this specimen.

    • @janetcampbell9286
      @janetcampbell9286 4 года назад +16

      No he's a narcissist. They love themselves, put blame on you if the relationship becomes shaky & they feel that if you are naive enough to trust them, then you deserve the con that they run on you. They leave a wake of financial & emotional devastation. If he was also a psychopath, he would have physically or psychologically tormented or threatened her and/or her son! psychopaths sometimes attempt to cover up these cons with killing the women! She's fortunate that he didn't do that as well!

    • @fredlachy
      @fredlachy 3 года назад +7

      Not approving of what he did. But where did these single mothers get there assets? Divorce raping an ex husband.

    • @HeatherDMorris
      @HeatherDMorris 3 года назад +6

      @@janetcampbell9286 I agree . He is a narcissist not psychopath

    • @HeatherDMorris
      @HeatherDMorris 3 года назад +3

      @@fredlachy maybe they worked to get it ..like I do ?

    • @coiledsteel8344
      @coiledsteel8344 3 года назад +2

      Men AND Women

  • @marlenefunk2137
    @marlenefunk2137 3 года назад +131

    I am 76, have owned my own companies, traveled the world and been engaged 5 times. I just cannot say "I do!", and they were all good men. The one thing that would have saved these women was in realizing that all the feeling of "love" is nothing more than a chemical reaction we cause in our self. It is the same reaction you get from chocolate, ice cream and many other things. It works when you like something enough to keep repeating it. Same reaction you get with drugs. Your body releases endorphins, dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin, which together, make you feel very happy. So what we call "love" is not real. It is what makes the rest of the relationship that is real. To know you have a "real thing", you have to get past what you believe to be "love", as it simply is not real.

    • @myrnagrijalva3042
      @myrnagrijalva3042 2 года назад +14

      I have been hurt so much, primarily because I refused to see the red flags and did not bother to ask God if it was the person he had created for me. However, just as miserable I have been, how much hurt and disappointed I've been through, I believe good people exist, and love is real

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 2 года назад +31

      How cynical!! love when real is better than chocolate and drugs, its actions of care, respect and shared interests and values. Maybe you have never been in love?

    • @fredahwiwu5219
      @fredahwiwu5219 Год назад

      So spot on its all a chemical reaction which tricks you to behave stupidly

    • @szuszapatagonia1130
      @szuszapatagonia1130 Год назад +15

      @@charlottebruce979 May be you missunderstood Marlene Funk ? She didn't say love = chocolate, etc. She says: "It is what makes the rest of the relationship that is real."

    • @cor3944
      @cor3944 Год назад +15

      She is referring to the chemical action of bonding. That’s why in earlier times a young woman always had a chaperonne and never get bonded before marriage.

  • @callofnerds
    @callofnerds Год назад +18

    You can see how the son was even incredibly charmed by him... so sad :(

  • @danjacobsen7645
    @danjacobsen7645 4 года назад +86

    My wife’s brother borrowed $300 from me 30 years ago. Within a month he paid back $200 of it. Still owes $100 and I’ve never said a word but I’ve never borrowed any more money to family or friends. It was the best $100 I’ve ever lost. Let this be a warning to others.

  • @crackerjack5210
    @crackerjack5210 5 лет назад +335

    Scammed the scammer! that's a beautiful thing, well done!

    • @padmasalam5267
      @padmasalam5267 5 лет назад +12

      Cracker Jack yes indeed! Sometimes you have to play the fool, to fool the fool, who is trying to fool you. Poetic justice I suppose. Oh! jolly well!.............xxxxxxxxxx.

    • @debadev2179
      @debadev2179 5 лет назад +7

      That’s the best .

    • @keyboardwarrior4859
      @keyboardwarrior4859 5 лет назад +1

      Spoiler alert

    • @Coco_au
      @Coco_au 4 года назад +1

      Cracker Jack I highly recommend for you to watch a Bollywood movie it is called Ladies versus Ricky Bahl, scammer and scammed women’s drama, I felt like I was watching that movie in different version.

    • @crackerjack5210
      @crackerjack5210 4 года назад +4

      He has just been sentenced to a minimum of 12 years in prison.

  • @monikazendek2430
    @monikazendek2430 2 года назад +80

    Don’t ever feel silly, you are dealing with a type of intelligence that is beyond our understanding. A master manipulator. By the way, I simply love Henry! What an unpretentious person! For a rich guy! She should marry him

    • @mkast2815
      @mkast2815 2 года назад +1

      So she could do to Henry what Hamish did to her?

    • @bojangles2492
      @bojangles2492 2 года назад +8

      @@mkast2815 that is not what she said, I don't know how you interpret it that way.

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 2 года назад

      I kind of think it's counterproductive to call these criminals "intelligent." They're morally bankruptcy, not intelligent. They don't think better, they think in a distorted way.

  • @gentlebull7242
    @gentlebull7242 2 года назад +18

    I always question people's motives when they're around me. When it's too good to be true, I tend to run away as fast as I could.

    • @sugakookie6303
      @sugakookie6303 Год назад +1

      Yep, I can relate, when they fall “in love” in less than a week…and oh can I borrow a bit of money for my dog’s surgery… 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @wonderwoman1199
    @wonderwoman1199 5 лет назад +1722

    When a man doesn't introduce you to his family, his siblings and has no friends... Ladies : beware.

    • @kiput3647
      @kiput3647 4 года назад +72

      what if you have none

    • @wonderwoman1199
      @wonderwoman1199 4 года назад +97

      @@kiput3647 no colleagues you can get along with? No friend from work? Then you are anti social and shouldn't be with s lady coz you'll torture her. And instead should get a dog. Peace

    • @jackiehammond5231
      @jackiehammond5231 4 года назад +30

      Wonder Woman good advice!

    • @onkgopotsejita2934
      @onkgopotsejita2934 4 года назад +16

      Many people like that around Wonder Woman, they are called hermits or recluses they are either woman or man though.

    • @gavinslater2047
      @gavinslater2047 4 года назад +9

      wow you are so right

  • @pinkivy93
    @pinkivy93 5 лет назад +484

    If a woman has low self esteem or going through a low period, she may open herself to predators such as this. Family and friends sometimes can not even break the grips of the predator on her. 😞

    • @koketsophalane3915
      @koketsophalane3915 4 года назад +25

      pinkivy93 ud be suprised on how slick this ppl are..high self-esteem or not,they will get through to you

    • @celinamilian
      @celinamilian 4 года назад +6

      Bulls hit, greed makes you open up

    • @soniag4516
      @soniag4516 4 года назад +28

      True that. My mother had passed and my dad was in a tragic accident leaving him a para-plegic. I was clinically depressed and only 20. Here came this male gold digging moocher convinced my sister that he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. She arranged my marriage and within 10 years he wiprd me out, my business two homes and other assets devoured by him and his family from India. After three children and 8 more years of abuse I walked away with my children, a broken down vehicle, thousands of dollars in debt, my body too sick to work, no friends nor family who would stand with me i started crawling out of the deep hole. That was 25 years ago now life is great again and I'm a grandma of two absolutely adorable girls who I love as the apples of my eyes. None of my kids talk to him or have seen him since 1998.

    • @pinkivy93
      @pinkivy93 4 года назад +8

      Intruder naw......... These women already had money but I can see your point. However, some women who have low self esteem are not exposed to supposedly rich men like this. They will take even the poorest specimen of a man if he says and does the right things.

    • @pinkivy93
      @pinkivy93 4 года назад +10

      Sonia G Women are so much stronger than they think that they are. Men like this break down women to their very core and rebuild them to not see their horrible flaws. Thank goodness there is always a flicker of intuition and fight down in a woman’s core. I am so glad that you survived and prospered with a happy life.

  • @user-uj1hl4ho8c
    @user-uj1hl4ho8c 3 месяца назад +3

    This kind of story is a million dollars lessons for anyone. Much appreciated for delivering this story.

  • @varietyofree2471
    @varietyofree2471 5 месяцев назад +8

    Soooo, we're just going to skip over the fact that this man is a child predator?? 😐 I get that the main story is him scamming women/people (and I don't know if the age of consent is that young where they're from), but everyone seems to be overlooking something that's also pretty serious and really sick. 😒

  • @rectify2003
    @rectify2003 4 года назад +161

    Poor Women 😢
    What wonderful neighbours to help the Lady not lose her house. ❤️

    • @ethanricafrenteyamammoto647
      @ethanricafrenteyamammoto647 3 года назад +5

      That’s how sophisticated the rich can be when your In trouble, I bet she does not even have to pay any of it back”.
      🎈
      Instagram ARTISANAL ARTISTIC ARTIST

    • @graguitar6493
      @graguitar6493 2 года назад +5

      Nothing poor about them. They were targets as they were shallow gold diggers in the 1st place

    • @omara4726
      @omara4726 2 года назад +6

      @@graguitar6493 finally someone with common sense

    • @CJ-nz8it
      @CJ-nz8it Год назад

      @@graguitar6493 how are the women hold diggers when they had loads of money to start off? Typical man victim blaming as usual

    • @tee228
      @tee228 22 дня назад +1

      pretty sure she took that house from her husband through a divorce

  • @annaesmaili4867
    @annaesmaili4867 5 лет назад +171

    Omg . His stepsons girlfriend . So sickening. The poor woman . He not only betrayed her but her son as well . Sickening

    • @annaesmaili4867
      @annaesmaili4867 5 лет назад +24

      Kevin Burrow A 16 year old girl ?? Are you being serious ? He’s a grown granddad ffs . He has the responsibility to decline any acts of foolishness on the girlfriends part . No typical sleazy sickening act of a sleaze bag old man . And a man does all the chasing . Woman don’t chase men , in this case 16 year old girl doesn’t chase older men . No the older men bring her into this by showing off with their wealth and being flash . She’s a young girl . Inexperienced. So yeah his fault all the way . Sickening !

    • @user-rn3bb3dj4p
      @user-rn3bb3dj4p 5 лет назад +4

      @Kevin Burrow typical of women, chase the glitz and glamour

    • @annaesmaili4867
      @annaesmaili4867 5 лет назад +9

      Kevin Burrow Yes I understand this . I think that the money will turn heads from any woman at any age .look this is the sons mother who is telling us this . So even though she was a mature woman she had her guard down . Imagine a 16 year old !?
      No I wouldn’t dream of sleeping with my boyfriends dad even if he had all the money in the world . It’s not he done thing . It’s creepy

    • @agg5984
      @agg5984 5 лет назад +9

      @Kevin Burrow he groomed that child.

    • @andrewparry1474
      @andrewparry1474 4 года назад +4

      Wasn't just the 16 yo girl. Perfectly happy to drag all these kids into it without any conscience what so ever, even a disabled kid, needing an operation. Couldn't not be a psychopath!

  • @pigeon51
    @pigeon51 2 года назад +50

    How Tracy believed he was 41 is beyond me 😳

    • @user-oe1mb9hu9i
      @user-oe1mb9hu9i 6 месяцев назад +2

      Gold digger ... YES she was conned, but as you say; she fell for the 41 lie and the cars and luxury life style and she said it herself, HE was her future !!!

    • @FM-jo1jh
      @FM-jo1jh 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@user-oe1mb9hu9i she had her own money, maybe she wanted an equally successful man but I don't think she was a gold digger per say. He was dying his hair too so likley why she belived he was only 41. I wouldnt know that's what someone looks like in their 40's and I'm in my late 20's.

    • @user-oe1mb9hu9i
      @user-oe1mb9hu9i 6 месяцев назад

      @@FM-jo1jh Sorry miss, but you've just opened up a whole new business for me !
      Making young 20 year old women think I'm 41 by simply dying my hair !!! LOL.
      Unfortunately for me, the young women in my neck of the woods all know what a 40 to 50 to 60 year old looks like.
      Don't you have parents ?

    • @KonstantinaVlahos
      @KonstantinaVlahos 4 месяца назад

      @@user-oe1mb9hu9iher future - using her own money. She thought she’d found a solid, caring and equally hard working partner

  • @Sckvictor
    @Sckvictor 2 года назад +31

    Narcissists mirror their targets, that's why it's easy for people to believe that they are in love with them. They pretend to like what you like etc. However, the mask always falls off at some point and you get a glimpse of the true evil that they are. Very sad!!😭😭

    • @caroleminke6116
      @caroleminke6116 10 месяцев назад

      It’s exactly like a hall of mirrors & they just look for those who will also mirror them in return 😂

  • @sevenwilliams3485
    @sevenwilliams3485 4 года назад +1438

    my dad always told me to never give a man money.

    • @stacey4u2luv
      @stacey4u2luv 4 года назад +99

      @Jones Jones I always told my 3 sons to treat women as ladies, to treat them right, pay for dates, get to know them, do not rush things and at the same time beware of users and abusers and women that just want to take them for a ride. When younger that education comes first before women. That they have to take care of themselves first because if they don't nobody else will. Plus, to never rush into fire and get to know someone well first for many reasons i.e. scammers, users, disease etc....

    • @bhuvvai5491
      @bhuvvai5491 4 года назад +67

      Sweet heart he is training u to become a gold digger...get money..only inflow..no outflow

    • @imfunaplaymahgames8880
      @imfunaplaymahgames8880 4 года назад +60

      SEVEN WILLIAMS you’re dads absolutely right!!

    • @danarmando537
      @danarmando537 4 года назад +10

      What about orgasms?

    • @rosemariemcgowan6388
      @rosemariemcgowan6388 4 года назад +25

      Your Dad sounds a sensible man x

  • @Heygirlhey70
    @Heygirlhey70 4 года назад +51

    He found woman who were just getting out of divorces, very vulnerable. They probably felt beating up by the divorce and here he comes swoops in to save the damsel in distress...🤷‍♀️

    • @tee228
      @tee228 22 дня назад +1

      clearly they werent beaten up by the divorce if they had 100s of thousands to lose

  • @cherrymetha3185
    @cherrymetha3185 2 года назад +12

    Men like him don’t work alone . If he’s conned investors out of $70 million and more , then there are a few people in the operation , who are the brains & he’s the hustler . He’s also the ‘fall guy ‘ . I wondered be surprised if he didn’t stay that long in p.rison . He probably has quite a few million stashed away , like the Cayman Islands or Jersey .

  • @jez5855
    @jez5855 2 месяца назад +1

    I love how at the end, the two girls refer to themselves not as victims, but survivors... Very powerful.

  • @11Christys11
    @11Christys11 4 года назад +72

    "He's a dick....don't you think?". Best line in the documentary. And yes, I do concur sir!

  • @twany442
    @twany442 5 лет назад +130

    I've always said that a beautiful smile can be the most deceiving thing a person can offer you, because you never know the true intentions behind it.
    A a multitude of sins can be hidden behind the most beautiful charming smile.

    • @lillianlilo7447
      @lillianlilo7447 5 лет назад +6

      Like many others I too have a beautiful smile. I also have morals, ethics and integrity. To say that people with a nice smile is deceiving is the biggest judgement call I've ever heard.

    • @prayerpower1585
      @prayerpower1585 4 года назад +2

      @@lillianlilo7447 Antoine said a beautiful smile *can* be the most deceiving thing a person can offer, not that it is or always is. You should take his words to heart, lest you be susceptible to being conned by someone with a beautiful smile, assuming they have morals and ethics and integrity just because you have those qualities and also have a beautiful smile.

    • @prayerpower1585
      @prayerpower1585 4 года назад

      Truth

    • @mariamacebekhulu2629
      @mariamacebekhulu2629 2 года назад

      Well said

  • @annasanta9103
    @annasanta9103 2 года назад +20

    Thank you so much Simon and thank you to Simon's friend Steve, two of them really did some due-diligence , good friends do that, we protect friends to ensure that no one will take us like a fool. Thank you SIMON and STEVE !!!!!!

  • @victoryismine9297
    @victoryismine9297 3 года назад +16

    We all need discernment in relationships.

  • @persephone2706
    @persephone2706 4 года назад +226

    Henry was a gem. Best part of this documentary.

    • @nnj6918
      @nnj6918 3 года назад +15

      Thank God Karen had some real friends

    • @pallabidutta968
      @pallabidutta968 2 года назад +11

      Yeah with his English humour.

  • @Bigglesworth78
    @Bigglesworth78 5 лет назад +25

    The people who were scammed were not stupid. That scammer was a manipulative pro.

  • @jaynemann987
    @jaynemann987 2 года назад +8

    This proves love is a temporary stage of psychosis

  • @cor3944
    @cor3944 Год назад +4

    This should be teached on school, not only how to stay away from drugs.

  • @catschlo799
    @catschlo799 4 года назад +150

    36:24 „We scammed the scammer!“ Well done!

    • @jillsmcfarland2001
      @jillsmcfarland2001 3 года назад +5

      With friends from Goldman sax its doable.

    • @charithelson7203
      @charithelson7203 3 года назад +2

      Imagine how much luck they had to locate him just by looking up large Australian events?

    • @pinkyyyyyy05
      @pinkyyyyyy05 3 года назад

      😆

    • @joydot7620
      @joydot7620 3 года назад

      British men. Pay attention.

  • @shanec9840
    @shanec9840 4 года назад +417

    I wish they had interviewed his parents since they're both still alive, and I wish we had more inside information about where he came from, how he grew up, siblings, former schoolmates, etc. .

    • @samlsd9711
      @samlsd9711 4 года назад +9

      why? All what he did has nothing to do with his parents.

    • @HypnoticHollywood
      @HypnoticHollywood 4 года назад +12

      Conmen find influence in themselves, not their family.

    • @persephone2706
      @persephone2706 4 года назад +69

      Yeesh, the dude was just wondering how this man actually grew up.

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 4 года назад +33

      Try would be interesting to get to the root of his behaviour

    • @zikebucan1785
      @zikebucan1785 4 года назад +20

      Sam LSD of course your upbringing plays major role in how you behave as an adult, you idiot

  • @MrBeachwaves
    @MrBeachwaves 3 месяца назад +3

    While it’s terrible that these folks fell victim to this con man, it’s important to remember that while $100 000 is a lot of money for most folks, a lot of these women are from families in a league of they’re own where $100 000 is only a drop in the bucket.

  • @samirv3716
    @samirv3716 3 года назад +49

    People like him rule the world because there emotionless and relentless. It’s the simple survival of the fittest rule, and these sociopaths are the most advantageous nature’s mutation for our modern human society.

    • @pa4765
      @pa4765 2 года назад +1

      Wow, that certainly is the scary truth which is why I place my faith in God and not in the world.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Год назад

      @@pa4765
      Yeah, I place my faith in the tooth fairy. It helps me a lot to be delusional and bonkers.

  • @andthereisntone3454
    @andthereisntone3454 5 лет назад +139

    Keep him in prison until he gives up the money, forever if needs be.

    • @JamConcerned
      @JamConcerned 5 лет назад +6

      Probably in an offshore account or a Swiss bank account. The Swiss probably having billions of unclaimed funds

    • @nostromov7892
      @nostromov7892 4 года назад

      @Lynette Scribner Even if the government "finds it" they won't report it (all?) and -find a way to- keep it, because it's Australia. xF

    • @AB-lq1zd
      @AB-lq1zd 4 года назад

      @Lynette Scribner He got 12-16

  • @veaudor
    @veaudor 4 года назад +30

    If you have money, alot of it, beware of strangers who are a little too friendly.

  • @dopeblacktherapist
    @dopeblacktherapist 3 года назад +23

    It was super cringe when they pulled up his picture and she drooled over his "beautiful eyes" I'm sitting here like 0_o to each their own

    • @tanit7741
      @tanit7741 2 года назад +2

      He looks Neanderthal

    • @amber40494
      @amber40494 2 года назад +3

      I don't think she drooled, she just remembered the feeling and probably secretly wanted to vomit.

  • @KT_571
    @KT_571 2 года назад +8

    With this much charisma and talent with convincing people, he could have truly made money/wealth, legitimately!

  • @nurumohamed7138
    @nurumohamed7138 4 года назад +151

    Ladies! Ladies! Ladies!
    Alarm bells right from the start!
    Such perfection *DOESN'T EXIST!*

    • @catherine9808
      @catherine9808 4 года назад +1

      The Fab Chef 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @justme4609
      @justme4609 4 года назад +1

      Yes, it does. Just not for you.

    • @claudiahasievera4636
      @claudiahasievera4636 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @samoriab5999
      @samoriab5999 4 года назад

      Secret: you can't tell em that...they would rather die single than believe that.

  • @saifernandez8622
    @saifernandez8622 4 года назад +314

    the most dangerous kind of psychopath, smart and with great charisma.

    • @roshnirandhawa5238
      @roshnirandhawa5238 4 года назад +18

      Add good looking and they're deadly

    • @floraelizabeth1589
      @floraelizabeth1589 4 года назад +6

      My ex exactly.

    • @denniero6904
      @denniero6904 3 года назад +10

      @Tien Hoang exactly. The true psycho's are on top positions. Snakes in suites.

    • @agathapoirot5373
      @agathapoirot5373 3 года назад +6

      @Tien Hoang Absolutely. The one sitting at the White House and his minions : narcissistic, megalomaniac sociopaths

    • @samdobie6748
      @samdobie6748 3 года назад +6

      @@denniero6904 True psychopaths can be found in anywhere

  • @rebels42wynn83
    @rebels42wynn83 Год назад +15

    After watching this, my heart truly aches for those victims. This dude was just so cold-hearted and greedy.

    • @jovitavillalpando9127
      @jovitavillalpando9127 5 месяцев назад +1

      It’s not his fault he only does to them what they let him do to them

    • @rebels42wynn83
      @rebels42wynn83 5 месяцев назад

      @@jovitavillalpando9127 -SO TRUE ON THAT!!!!

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@jovitavillalpando9127. Jeez. Can you hear yourself? Unbelievable.

  • @pauljackson9716
    @pauljackson9716 Год назад +10

    A methodical thought through process, the antithesis of the scammer. Simon and Steve turned the table.

  • @taitjones6310
    @taitjones6310 5 лет назад +445

    The funny thing about all this is that if he had just actively invested the money he was pilfering he probably could have become what he was pretending to be.

    • @taitjones6310
      @taitjones6310 5 лет назад +6

      @Jerry Rawlings umm, everybody is pretending. That why is called "playing a role"

    • @poonambhatia3627
      @poonambhatia3627 5 лет назад +8

      Talt Jones He probably is.Some people get a kick out of ripping someone off.And these ladies were asking for it!They didnt have much between their ears, did they?

    • @DeniseEggertwaterlily
      @DeniseEggertwaterlily 4 года назад +25

      @@poonambhatia3627 I wouldn't be that hard on these women. They all had been in broken marriages or broken relationships; they were grieving the loss of their relationship and they were feeling lonely and alone. Con men usually swoop in and and take advantage of those who are in a vulnerable state. These women might have been programmed that they were of less value, without a man. They could've been programmed to find a man ASAP to be fulfilled.
      When I announced to my parents that I was going to nursing school to become a professional nurse, they told me that I needed to find a husband , get married, and have children because I was an old maid of 21. I didn't pay any attention. I have always been a nonconformist.

    • @realtalktina
      @realtalktina 4 года назад

      How would you have actively invested the money?

    • @olympiaziermann8608
      @olympiaziermann8608 4 года назад +7

      I don't think anyone can legally invest money without identity 🤔🤔

  • @Jean-gf3fi
    @Jean-gf3fi 5 лет назад +136

    the WORST thing that you can steal is someone's heart!!!! nasty piece of work that man

    • @studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272
      @studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272 4 года назад

      Jean and women never do that - they are all divine these women neither have taste nor intuition - the guy looks like a snake

    • @888alp
      @888alp 4 года назад

      STUDIO BENCIVENGA Marcus Bencivenga 🤣🤣

    • @kristinburton4953
      @kristinburton4953 4 года назад +5

      I'd rather have a broken heart than a broken bank balance. You need cash to buy a tub of icecream to help heal the heart. I'd rather someone leave me broken hearted than unable to afford the icecream to get over it.

  • @debbieaustin7072
    @debbieaustin7072 Год назад +25

    Very interesting documentary. Frightening how you can be duped. My mum always said to me if it seems to good to be true listen to your instincts.

  • @frankokash6988
    @frankokash6988 3 года назад +11

    Boy he got them Chucky eyes! 👀 what the hell u mean “it was those eyes 😍”?!!

  • @constanceweaver2891
    @constanceweaver2891 4 года назад +281

    He called himself Mr. James at The James hotel 😂😂😂 I’m weak afff !!!

    • @rosarioperez7509
      @rosarioperez7509 4 года назад +19

      It’s his narcissism move. Agree as he’s a bit full of himself only laughing at his own joke.

    • @chickwithaguitar6876
      @chickwithaguitar6876 4 года назад +3

      What an EGO! Lol.

    • @katarinanoren2867
      @katarinanoren2867 4 года назад +2

      Constance Weaver brilliant guy that Henry 😂😂

    • @WisdomTooth1987
      @WisdomTooth1987 4 года назад +3

      I'm mr. Hilton .

    • @Litetorture
      @Litetorture 4 года назад +7

      Okay!!!! Mr. James!!!! FLATLINES!!! LMAO!!! The only men who can get a dime from me are my two suns and they don't even ask-they work!!!

  • @AR-ws1gr
    @AR-ws1gr 4 года назад +208

    I’m glad Karen had a wealthy neighbor to help her. What an terrible loss that would have been

    • @joeydelrio
      @joeydelrio 2 года назад +30

      thank the Lord she didnt have to sell her multi million dollar mansion and go live in a home that would have still been way more than the rest of the world.

    • @grahamdowdell4356
      @grahamdowdell4356 2 года назад +9

      Yeah so glad she got to keep her $11M house.

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад +10

      Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

    • @antzpantzz8490
      @antzpantzz8490 2 года назад +8

      Obviously her wealth didn't come frome good business acumen. I would have smelled a rat immediately upon hearing his investment proposition

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад

      @@antzpantzz8490 I do not trust one single woman in this world.

  • @newyearlight5756
    @newyearlight5756 3 года назад +9

    One thing people need in relationships, DISCERNMENT.

  • @karasimon6766
    @karasimon6766 Год назад +6

    When it said he was 41 I laughed. He looks 60. How could an attractive young girl fall for that?

  • @maximillion8442
    @maximillion8442 4 года назад +165

    I love these women's supportive friendship SO MUCH! From victims, to survivors, to advocates for one another and others as well ❤️

    • @muzwot9603
      @muzwot9603 2 года назад +7

      I wouldn't go as far as to say that they deserved it, but they CERTAINLY asked for it by being so gulliible and status driven (perhaps not the sixteen year-old girl though, she can be forgiven for her inexperience).

    • @bstr-ey6wl
      @bstr-ey6wl Год назад

      🤣🤣🙏

  • @jessicablundell5104
    @jessicablundell5104 4 года назад +186

    I love Karen's friend Henry. WHAT A BLOKE

    • @jackiehammond5231
      @jackiehammond5231 4 года назад

      Jessica Blundell my Too!

    • @sallybrite1530
      @sallybrite1530 4 года назад

      With $ signs in his eyes. I get that a desperate, middle-aged woman could fall for all that. But a guy?

    • @peterflanagan5901
      @peterflanagan5901 3 года назад

      You like him for ££$$€€

  • @newbooks9858
    @newbooks9858 Год назад +8

    Tip to lonely ladies: con artists who are psychopathic or antisocial will con you out of money and scam you in every possible way. Love is a good excuse to steal from you.

  • @gracendunge9212
    @gracendunge9212 5 месяцев назад +3

    When someone always talks about their achievements, its a sign that they're faking it. Real success speaks volumes, you don't need to speak for people to tell that you're successful.

  • @agustina3493
    @agustina3493 4 года назад +319

    Nobody should sign a paper before or without reading it, even if it is somebody very close to you, you always have to read what you sign!

    • @katarinanoren2867
      @katarinanoren2867 4 года назад +11

      Agustina agree although she assumed he was working for the bank who issued those documents. It’s always easy to be cautious after the fact. Poor women.

    • @agustina3493
      @agustina3493 4 года назад +10

      Kat Kat OK but no matter what, even if it’s your father or somebody close to you, we should read documents before signing, no matter what!

    • @annie_xo
      @annie_xo 4 года назад +5

      So true. I know a man who was conned by his own daughter and her husband because he trusted them and didn’t read through a contract they set up for a shady property investment thing. Cost him several thousand euros he’ll never see again.

    • @brooklynn52dee38
      @brooklynn52dee38 4 года назад +3

      Agustina,, Hindsight is 20/20, easier said then done. Not all are as perfect as you come across to be.

    • @claudetteearle3052
      @claudetteearle3052 4 года назад +4

      Listen. If it involves my home or money. I'm not giving over anything or putting my name to anything, especially if it's substantial, that I've not taken some time to look over, so he would not have bothered with me. He'd have left me alone. Because I don't believe in mixing up my finances with anyone, except the bank and I would visit the bank so I know I'm in the right place.
      He'd be charming and I'd be just as charming in telling him how I operate. I suppose I might also have missed good opportunities in the past because of my oh, so cautious attitude. I'm one of those people who would rather give money, than lend, so might have given him some money if he needed it, which couldn't be much because, as I'd see it, he's not my responsibility; furthermore, I don't like men who 'eye up' women's money, especially if he's not bringing anything liquid to the table, I wonder about their self-respect as a man....sorry...I consider these things.
      Perhaps too cautious, come to think of it.

  • @oluwaseyia8548
    @oluwaseyia8548 4 года назад +319

    Now people talk about Nigerians involve in dating scams however this dude from Australia acquired over $70 million over the course of his quest in swindling money from women across the world.

    • @RibbonVintageGirl
      @RibbonVintageGirl 4 года назад +6

      Don't forget Anna Delvey

    • @SuperKwame1
      @SuperKwame1 4 года назад +35

      Whites were doing it way before some Nigerians copied it! Con in English not Yoruba or Ebo!

    • @SuzLa1
      @SuzLa1 4 года назад +3

      @PearlPerlita Venegas Watch Scambait Central. They try to meet the scammers.

    • @Badrobot1500
      @Badrobot1500 4 года назад

      @PearlPerlita Venegas Not true as some do.

    • @bobsmith5441
      @bobsmith5441 4 года назад +12

      @ejiro okri We're all people. Good and bad everywhere. Don't fall for this tit and tat on race. Rise above it.

  • @rjchavers9267
    @rjchavers9267 3 года назад +3

    Everyone needs a friend like Simon's.

  • @appechhabista8879
    @appechhabista8879 3 года назад +10

    People have actually died in plane crash and 9/11. How could he even make that story up? Its disrespecful and disgusting.

  • @nicolekrowitz72
    @nicolekrowitz72 4 года назад +130

    Max 41? Omg he looks 60!

    • @googleuser2609
      @googleuser2609 4 года назад +8

      Yeah he probably lied about his age.

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 3 года назад +1

      Not necessarilly some people age badly! Ive seen one of my classmates a few years after we left high school he look like he was 40 years old, and he was only around 18 years old! He look like he was drinking heavilly and smoking , so this just made him looking even older!

    • @happydayz7857
      @happydayz7857 3 года назад

      His wrinkles are deep set and if he’s 41 he looks really bad. Maybe he spent some years on the street homeless. Very worn down skin on his face.

  • @annrrf1464
    @annrrf1464 4 года назад +148

    I feel for Bec's son. He was deeply hurt

    • @huzcer
      @huzcer 3 года назад +1

      Hamish was tappin that tight piece

    • @annrrf1464
      @annrrf1464 3 года назад +1

      @@huzcer loser

    • @huzcer
      @huzcer 3 года назад

      @@annrrf1464 you've hit the wall hard I'd say invisible woman

    • @annrrf1464
      @annrrf1464 2 года назад

      @@huzcer I can tell your dad did the same to you.

    • @huzcer
      @huzcer 2 года назад

      @@annrrf1464 take your noxious and dry wizard's sleeve elsewhere

  • @Fairy71128
    @Fairy71128 5 месяцев назад +3

    One of the huge red flags that these ladies missed is that he did not introduce them to his friends/family circle that would collaborate his story, because it was all lies. He also never invited them to his place, because he had none. some of these women were in a relationship with him for over 2 years... He knew well how to pick vulnerable victims, who would dismiss all red flags... What is also very typical, that the last victim after his arrest wanted HIM to tell her the truth. Him telling the truth... Seriously? These types are pathological liars. Telling the truth for them is like admitting that they are losers. they keep lying until the last breath.

  • @sbtopjosh7841
    @sbtopjosh7841 3 года назад +6

    It took a man's ability to think logically to outdo another man.

  • @estatic_elaine727
    @estatic_elaine727 3 года назад +170

    As a young girl, my father was never around so to have someone coming in my life, being that father figure all for a scam would be devastating. I hope that disgusting manipulative man gets what he deserve and pray that the family heals from all of it

    • @cheanarchist2381
      @cheanarchist2381 2 года назад

      Yer those poor boys dealing with that scum bag , would give anyone trust issues , & even coming for his own girlfriends total scum

    • @Dragon_rls
      @Dragon_rls 2 года назад +6

      Hamish is my personal hero.

    • @agbangbekelvin7938
      @agbangbekelvin7938 Год назад

      😳

    • @dianekeegan5250
      @dianekeegan5250 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Dragon_rlsdo explain why please

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@dianekeegan5250Rather NOT hear from another nut

  • @cathycronje4848
    @cathycronje4848 5 лет назад +156

    If it seems too good to be true, then ...

    • @anandygittens268
      @anandygittens268 5 лет назад +6

      It's too good to be true.

    • @JerseyLynne
      @JerseyLynne 5 лет назад +6

      @Jack Xerox you Bozo

    • @mindfulclarity169
      @mindfulclarity169 5 лет назад +3

      @@anandygittens268 is that what women here have to keep reminding themselves because they believe in empty romantic promises? Yes.

    • @paulsuprono7225
      @paulsuprono7225 5 лет назад +2

      @@JerseyLynne We are all . . . potentially Bozos ! 😱😬😭

    • @paulsuprono7225
      @paulsuprono7225 5 лет назад

      ALWAYS REMEMBER . . . 'If it sounds to good to be true . . . , it probably isn't !'

  • @Sinsteel
    @Sinsteel 9 месяцев назад +23

    There's a lot of image-conscious self-delusion going on here. He dressed up in a suit, rented flash cars, apartments, and that was all women needed to see. As soon as Tracy saw him in prison clothes, all her emotions for him were gone - how telling. In other words, she fell in love with the window dressing.

    • @El_.5794
      @El_.5794 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah, unfortunately most shallow women tend to admire the outside appearance of a flashy lifestyle, a good talker and attractive personality . They love that in men first, somebody who can sweep them off their feet in the extravagance and over spending without knowing and realizing it’s all their money that was spent

    • @assmonkey9202
      @assmonkey9202 2 месяца назад

      Facts 0 sympathy for any of these dumb women

    • @sunnyday8254
      @sunnyday8254 2 месяца назад +2

      "..... falling in love with the window dressing"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @pauletterhamjus3933
      @pauletterhamjus3933 2 месяца назад +1

      That and losing all her money.

  • @jjsquirdlesupastar3875
    @jjsquirdlesupastar3875 Год назад +5

    My mom was robbed for almost 450,000. Men like this need jail. Permanently

    • @samanthanelson5143
      @samanthanelson5143 Год назад

      Why? She's an illiterate. She doesn't get to be rewarded with strife for being an arrogant illiterate.

    • @jjsquirdlesupastar3875
      @jjsquirdlesupastar3875 Год назад

      @@samanthanelson5143 who is illiterate

  • @thatjlyn
    @thatjlyn 4 года назад +68

    Warren Buffet said a true fiduciary heart is rare. Don't trust someone because of looks or money. Look at their long term actions.

    • @wiseup8729
      @wiseup8729 4 года назад +3

      He doesn't even take care of his own granddaughter. She's a nanny. I think he's a jerk.

    • @insearchof9903
      @insearchof9903 4 года назад +1

      That saying coming from an ugly guy...rich but ugly

    • @wiseup8729
      @wiseup8729 4 года назад

      @@insearchof9903 don't do that. So rude.

    • @EnglishTeacher1998
      @EnglishTeacher1998 4 года назад

      She is not his granddaughter

    • @wiseup8729
      @wiseup8729 4 года назад

      @@EnglishTeacher1998 What?

  • @atheistmommy3710
    @atheistmommy3710 5 лет назад +106

    My heart breaks for this mom of 3 boys and all the others he scammed. It's scarry that people like this man live among us, and most of the times they camouflage well, by the time they are being exposed damage is already done.

    • @tomerph
      @tomerph 5 лет назад +1

      Atheist Mommy you can thank god u weren't scammed oh ~~~wait a problem

    • @unavailble2024
      @unavailble2024 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@tomerphjudgemental much😂

    • @ruthiesmith6770
      @ruthiesmith6770 6 месяцев назад

      WOMEN WHY ARE YOU SO DESPERATE ! CHECK THEM OUT FIRST

    • @Chief_Brody
      @Chief_Brody 5 месяцев назад

      *scary

    • @8PMFORMULA
      @8PMFORMULA 5 месяцев назад

      She had a good husband and betrayed him. Don't feel sorry for her.

  • @shelleym7321
    @shelleym7321 3 года назад +47

    When your man sends you videos calling you •my love” or “my wife” it might be because that video is getting sent to multiple women ;-)

  • @sherrylawrencelewis2544
    @sherrylawrencelewis2544 Год назад +6

    ****I wish there was a website where these crooks and conmen could be listed along with proof. This would mean women could go and check new partners' so-called details****

    • @HughBond-kx7ly
      @HughBond-kx7ly 2 месяца назад

      Yes why not.There was a U/tube channel for sex offenders in Aus called MAKO but it got pulled for some reason.

  • @brgmnn
    @brgmnn 5 лет назад +407

    "Hamis" means "fake" in Hungarian.

    • @southwoodside
      @southwoodside 5 лет назад +12

      Hamish is Gaelic for James.

    • @Girl-101
      @Girl-101 5 лет назад

      mackenzie
      I never knew that, I should due to me being Scottish as Gaelic is spoken in parts of Scotland! Back to school for me...🤓🤓

    • @dannyswift6519
      @dannyswift6519 5 лет назад +4

      @@southwoodside yes same as sheamus in ireland gaelic

    • @southwoodside
      @southwoodside 5 лет назад +2

      @@dannyswift6519 Seumas is the nominative case, Hamish is the vocative case. Strictly speaking a person ought to to be referred to as Seumas when discussing him, and addressed as Hamish when talking to him, but, in Scotland the English version is almost always Hamish. Weird.

    • @southwoodside
      @southwoodside 5 лет назад +2

      @@Girl-101 Yes. Alasdair is the Gaekic for Alexander. Iain is Gaelic for John. Rory is an Anglicised version of Ruaridh, which means Roderick. Calum is Gaelic for Malcolm. Mairi or Mhairi means Mary. Sine, or Sheena, translates as Jean.

  • @jadore1339
    @jadore1339 4 года назад +250

    I don’t trust myself with my money let alone a stranger.

  • @jerrybowers8833
    @jerrybowers8833 6 месяцев назад +3

    Omgosh! I sat through this glued to this video, and then the last three minutes there is no sound????? WTH?

    • @cherylween4973
      @cherylween4973 5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh really? I thought there was something wrong with my phone or earbud! I'm glad I saw your comment to explain it.

  • @melliecrann-gaoth4789
    @melliecrann-gaoth4789 3 месяца назад +3

    His steps son’s girlfriend, flicking a 16 year old on the bum with a tea towel 🤢🤮. I am single since my covert abusive ex husband eventually moved out with me paying half his rent. It’s all my low self esteem that stopped me getting involved with someone else. I have 2 girls. I was paranoid. It is so horrible- it’s no win. I would not date. Women who accept they are worthy of a decent relationship in their new life are then used by a disgusting individual.

  • @HankiMaus
    @HankiMaus 5 лет назад +203

    Wow... when these women talk about their experiences with this man, you can literally feel their pain... so sad.😔 I honestly feel for them.

    • @poonambhatia3627
      @poonambhatia3627 5 лет назад +1

      But then they thought with their p.....s!

    • @franklinfranco7070
      @franklinfranco7070 4 года назад +3

      I love it we men pay more thrn this in history

    • @speakupify
      @speakupify 4 года назад +6

      I dont feel any sympathy

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 2 года назад +6

      Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Год назад +2

      @@ericephemetherson3964 . She brought it with her own money prehaps. You seem to be one of those woman haters.

  • @peskyfly6087
    @peskyfly6087 4 года назад +150

    Guys like this make it harder for men who actually respect women and want to treat them right.

    • @emailfromme4275
      @emailfromme4275 4 года назад +11

      Do you know where to find those men?

    • @peskyfly6087
      @peskyfly6087 4 года назад +4

      @@emailfromme4275 I'm one of them, but already married.

    • @TrueCrimeReport
      @TrueCrimeReport 4 года назад +2

      No he makes it easier, just be a bullshitter

    • @felixfox5806
      @felixfox5806 4 года назад +1

      Life's for living as well as for learning.. my advice... Learn hard

    • @felixfox5806
      @felixfox5806 4 года назад

      @@emailfromme4275 yeah their with Peter pan

  • @elsvaughn7959
    @elsvaughn7959 7 месяцев назад +1

    I really love Bec & Tracy's friendship. At least there's one real relationship that came from this ❤

  • @petecross22
    @petecross22 8 месяцев назад +2

    Isn’t sleeping with a 16 year old a crime? This whole piece kind of slides past that development. To me that’s much worse than any fraud he committed.

    • @Leon-th6nl
      @Leon-th6nl 8 месяцев назад

      in some places the age of consent is 16

  • @michaeltuffin5002
    @michaeltuffin5002 3 года назад +34

    The hurt in that young guys heart has made me tear up

  • @Whol3NothaL3v3l
    @Whol3NothaL3v3l 3 года назад +69

    This man put a serious con on this family! My heart goes out to the mother and her sons.

  • @josephotremba5759
    @josephotremba5759 3 года назад +4

    I feel terrible for these women. What a cruel thing to do to someone. I feel the pain in a different way. Hope they find someone that brings them true happiness. Nothing someone has should make someone happy. Everyone should vet more.

  • @Sinsteel
    @Sinsteel 9 месяцев назад +3

    Jane is deeply scarred by having allowed herself to be wined and dined by an older creep, driven around in a Porsche, and (clearly unwilling) participated in towel-flicking flirtation.
    I hope some day she'll be able to get over this abuse.

    • @trivial50
      @trivial50 3 месяца назад

      Exactly. Nobody every brings that up about cases like this. Cheated on her boyfriend with his own stepfather.