Love Behind Bars: Michaela's Journey With Her Death Row Fiancé (Prison Documentary) | Real Stories

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2024
  • "Death Row Dates" double episode:
    Ep 1 - The story of Michaela, a divorced mother of three from Essex who is engaged to Jody Lee Miles, a convicted murderer who is currently awaiting execution on America's Death Row.
    Ep 2 - The story of Sandie, a twice-divorced grandmother who is one of more than 100 British women who is married or engaged to a prisoner awaiting execution on death row in America.
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  • @Bluenariangirl
    @Bluenariangirl 3 месяца назад +345

    If she put a fraction of the effort she spent on Jody into being a better parent and getting a job - maybe she wouldn't feel imprisoned in her own home waiting for the phone to ring.

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад +8

      Judge Judy there.

    • @DM-sd1fg
      @DM-sd1fg 3 месяца назад +14

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @gypsyrobin516
      @gypsyrobin516 3 месяца назад +15

      Right on &Blue! She lives off the system literally n she’s a horrible mom n role model to her daughters smh !

    • @judymccoy6688
      @judymccoy6688 2 месяца назад +4

      Looks like a very nice home too! How can she afford it since she doesn't work! Maybe the government should look into it! 😮

    • @kiwigirlNZ
      @kiwigirlNZ 2 месяца назад +8

      @@judymccoy6688Maybe she inherited the house, or bought it when she was younger? You know nothing about her background.

  • @kathy8013
    @kathy8013 3 месяца назад +351

    They always toss out the comment, "We feel for the victims' families as well," as an afterthought. You get to flirt with your killer boyfriend all day...while the families of the victims suffer horribly.

    • @ingabrown3916
      @ingabrown3916 3 месяца назад +16

      I hope the kids get to live their lives on London time 🕝🕘🕓

    • @gypsyrobin516
      @gypsyrobin516 3 месяца назад

      I think she’s a very stupid n selfish woman! What kinda role model is she to her daughters smh ! Inmates n especially death row inmates don’t deserve to even smile imo!

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 3 месяца назад +19

      IKR!? Just when I think that I have picked some prime A holes for boyfriends, I watch this and feel a little bit better about myself. Is this just me?

    • @user-fh2qr1qq4i
      @user-fh2qr1qq4i 3 месяца назад +10

      A laughing stock

    • @julieannesimms981
      @julieannesimms981 3 месяца назад +3

      @@gigi9301 me too

  • @meredithknight-bx8gt
    @meredithknight-bx8gt 3 месяца назад +117

    43, unemployed & in a phone relationship with a murderer. You are waisting your time, time you can’t get back

    • @1fan689
      @1fan689 2 месяца назад +8

      😂 Well, when you put it like that!

    • @jullyaneb.def.30
      @jullyaneb.def.30 Месяц назад +6

      I thought she was older 😮

    • @MichaelsAurora
      @MichaelsAurora Месяц назад +10

      43 really? Gosh…. But seriously with all the men available she chooses a murderer? Wow…

    • @captaincorleone7088
      @captaincorleone7088 Месяц назад +9

      @@MichaelsAurora That she chose a death row inmate when she could've had a normal relationship with someone speaks volumes about what she wants out of a man and relationship. Yeah, I thought she was much older too...

    • @chellynn7052
      @chellynn7052 26 дней назад +2

      I know. IM 43!! I don't look as old as her! I was surprised. I guess when you dont work .. and spend all day on phone, you do things that make you look older. Lol

  • @dianehardison2133
    @dianehardison2133 4 месяца назад +458

    She says her first priority is her children, especially her younger child. How can that be the case if you won’t leave your house except for 20 minutes to buy groceries. Your younger child needs you. You are a hostage to a death row inmate, and your children are paying the price.

    • @clean-freakcleaningco.2500
      @clean-freakcleaningco.2500 3 месяца назад +76

      Exactly!! And not getting up until 1pm. How is she taking care of a 12 year old if she’s not getting out of bed until the afternoon??

    • @louloulaalee1581
      @louloulaalee1581 3 месяца назад +1

      She's lazy and obsessed with a murderer 🤮

    • @jenniferthompson6280
      @jenniferthompson6280 3 месяца назад +41

      and she sleeps in til 1 pm...yeah she's in denial

    • @inkybluecompanionanimalres7795
      @inkybluecompanionanimalres7795 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah. And giving hi. 1-800 erotic calls

    • @nennixx8331
      @nennixx8331 3 месяца назад +14

      and you judging a live on a 40 minutes you tube video is so much better.

  • @motleymama6587
    @motleymama6587 2 месяца назад +43

    This woman has the emotions of a dramatic teenager! Her hissy fits on the phone, her obsession over talking to this killer. Ignoring her kids to boot. She loves chaos.

    • @trickortrump3292
      @trickortrump3292 Месяц назад +4

      Total borderline personality. The mood swings, the overreactions to everything. Flies all the way there, visits him once, then has a total meltdown and says she’s never going to see him again and then goes back everyday. I was married to someone like that. It’s utterly exhausting.

  • @HLB313
    @HLB313 4 месяца назад +215

    The older daughter is bang on. “But you’re the mother”. Her mother said she could ask her anything then kicked off when she asked what she wanted to know which was very valid about how it doesn’t affect just Jodie.

    • @gabe_2544
      @gabe_2544 3 месяца назад +33

      The gaslighting of her daughter was disgusting.

    • @jennjagaimo
      @jennjagaimo 3 месяца назад +34

      "Don't even ask that" = I lack the emotional maturity to plan for future scenarios. I expect my daughters to pick up the pieces when my poor life choices lead to undesirable outcomes.

    • @vindheimar2631
      @vindheimar2631 Месяц назад +1

      @@gabe_2544 exactly! I hope the children gets help

  • @Winter-Lake
    @Winter-Lake 3 месяца назад +212

    (11:06) she allows her 12 year old daughter to speak to a death row murderer. That is not making your children priority and extremely dangerous to a 12 year old little girl. He has nothing to lose and everything to gain. Its one thing to involve yourself with a convicted murderer, but to involve your little girl....
    I wouldn't trust him with my house plant.

    • @gypsyrobin516
      @gypsyrobin516 3 месяца назад +9

      Amen!!!!

    • @carolyndavison6095
      @carolyndavison6095 3 месяца назад +16

      I look at that as child abuse. She’s stupid to think her child won’t be affected by allowing her to talk to a convicted murderer on Death Row. Unemployed? Who in blazes paid for her trips to the US?

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 3 месяца назад +2

      I think its a stupid idea, but extremely dangerous? Bombs are extremely dangerous

    • @TyanaAlexandra
      @TyanaAlexandra 3 месяца назад +5

      @@carolyndavison6095 The production sometimes funds the trips to make better stories for TV

    • @polly6336
      @polly6336 3 месяца назад +10

      Her whole life is about him, not her daughter. She can't or won't leave the house when she's in England, her sleep/ wake pattern is as if she was in the USA and her focus is just him. It's all very unhealthy. Who is really present for her daughter? Mum chose this stranger over her child.

  • @JC-gj7lg
    @JC-gj7lg 3 месяца назад +165

    Goes to bed at 2.30am wakes up at 1pm, only ever leaves the house for 20 minutes but her kids come first? Mad woman

    • @lil_debbie
      @lil_debbie 3 месяца назад +12

      Let's her baby talk to her death row fiancé SMH

    • @JC-gj7lg
      @JC-gj7lg 3 месяца назад +12

      @lil_debbie it's unbelievable. Very unhinged

    • @ChristineAllan-yu3de
      @ChristineAllan-yu3de 3 месяца назад +6

      I'm wondering why she doesn't have a cell phone???

    • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
      @AfricanWifeinPakistan 3 месяца назад

      ​@@ChristineAllan-yu3de Someone else mentioned the episode is very old.

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl Месяц назад +1

      That’s so sad for her children.

  • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
    @AfricanWifeinPakistan 3 месяца назад +94

    12year old daughter and she wakes up at 1pm 😢. What a mom.

    • @juliejulie3821
      @juliejulie3821 2 месяца назад +3

      I thought that !!! Disgusting !!!

  • @whybutwhy4137
    @whybutwhy4137 3 месяца назад +67

    Many people suffer childhood trauma and sexual abuse but never go on to murder someone.

  • @animalia9114
    @animalia9114 3 месяца назад +129

    Instead of looking for a job and connecting with her kids she chats with her inmate bf every day for hours.It's like an addiction to escape reality. She is truly delusional but I wish her to heal one day

    • @aidamartinez2445
      @aidamartinez2445 3 месяца назад +12

      If she had a job and had to put food on the table… She wouldn’t be spending money and time on a death row prisoner INSTEAD OF HER CHILDREN

    • @annadembowska1160
      @annadembowska1160 3 месяца назад +5

      She is a special case

    • @helenmapleston628
      @helenmapleston628 2 месяца назад +2

      I think it’s her escapism from reality. It’s totally irresponsible to let your daughter of 12 to speak to your death row boyfriend. Its ridiculous. It’s not living its living a make believe life . Her whole life revolves around him . Her daughter the eldest one has more sense . How can she afford to fly to America and stay and get new clothes ?. Not a bad life really.

    • @scottnewton9619
      @scottnewton9619 2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly right, she is purely and simply just escaping reality.

  • @kikilola2954
    @kikilola2954 4 месяца назад +222

    Way to set an example for your girls mom. Setting the bar real high.

    • @TLC717
      @TLC717 3 месяца назад +17

      Not the bar.... the bars😂😂😂

    • @gypsyrobin516
      @gypsyrobin516 3 месяца назад +2

      💯💯💯 disgusting!!

    • @Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi
      @Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi 2 месяца назад +6

      I think the older girl has sense but the younger one could end up in an abusive relationship when she is older.

    • @AACE73
      @AACE73 Месяц назад

      @@TLC717 😂 genius comment!

  • @Armelleee
    @Armelleee 3 месяца назад +50

    Keeping a picture of him being put in handcuffs smiling while getting arrested by an officer is crazy lol

  • @irismckay6472
    @irismckay6472 3 месяца назад +76

    Loneliness is such a powerful emotion. It's obviously driving this woman to go down a rabbit hole that does not serve her children well. She says she feels trapped, which is true. "Who in their right mind is involved with someone on death row?" No one. Her loneliness has trapped her in a dysfunctional relationship, which is hurting her children. God help them.

  • @dianamassimo
    @dianamassimo 4 месяца назад +209

    I feel bad for these women. I believe they need mental help.

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад +3

      Did you actually watch it?

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro 3 месяца назад

      This is what woman do with sh00ters & stuff either it's wild.

    • @happydays59
      @happydays59 3 месяца назад +12

      I feel bad for the murdered victims in every case.

    • @dianamassimo
      @dianamassimo 3 месяца назад +2

      @happydays59 That too.

    • @IrishHoopers
      @IrishHoopers 3 месяца назад +13

      I think they need to grow up. They don't have poor mental health, they're just addicted to drama and enjoy a fantasy relationship because they're too immature for a real one.

  • @lisajeter9511
    @lisajeter9511 3 месяца назад +77

    This women thinks she is in control but she is the one being used and fooled. I can only feel sorry for her.

  • @leannedoherty5244
    @leannedoherty5244 2 месяца назад +22

    Her 'kids come first'.. she visited the graves of children to impress her man, yet can't sit down and have an adult conversation with her oldest daughter who is clearly worried about her mother. Who's coming first?

  • @a.a.12945
    @a.a.12945 4 месяца назад +104

    U felt sorry for these people but not your own children? Gross

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад

      Judge just there. Get a life.

  • @Nat-lg2ks
    @Nat-lg2ks 3 месяца назад +63

    She doesnt want a husband. She wants a friend that wont leave

    • @mariemiles7287
      @mariemiles7287 Месяц назад +4

      And many do. You wouldn't believe how many, when you look into it 😢

    • @jocekhiy626
      @jocekhiy626 Месяц назад

      ​@@mariemiles7287yep

    • @jocekhiy626
      @jocekhiy626 Месяц назад +2

      Yep they don't have to deal with the everyday nuances of a real relationship i suppose but still get a form of attention.

  • @2Old2Care
    @2Old2Care 4 месяца назад +238

    9 Minutes in and I already think this woman is unhinged. "Dating" a death row inmate is just the icing on the cake.

    • @amandanegrete1306
      @amandanegrete1306 3 месяца назад +11

      Indeed.

    • @iap-ug3oy
      @iap-ug3oy 3 месяца назад +1

      What is wrong with women like this …Is she so desperate for a man……very uneducated and a total disgrace to her family….” No one should take a life “ but the person she is talking to took a life …Silly person. She needs help…

    • @osajohnson1957
      @osajohnson1957 3 месяца назад +3

      Maybe it's, "The Specialness", she seeks?

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад +4

      Get a grip. She loved him.

    • @2Old2Care
      @2Old2Care 3 месяца назад +11

      @@diane5522 You another one who spends her time falling in love with death row inmates?

  • @aussiegirl654
    @aussiegirl654 4 месяца назад +176

    These women don't realise the prisoners are more than likely writing and receiving many visits and letters from other women.
    The first women doesn't devote her time to her children, she could of holidayed with her girls,yet she probably spends all her money on a guy that is a killer. The second bloke looks like a player to me.
    I've known a few people in prison they will play people to pass the time and money sent to them.
    I looked up Sandy Blanton, and she passed away in 2013.

    • @bassimprovjams3772
      @bassimprovjams3772 4 месяца назад +19

      That’s so true, I watch a bunch of prison channels and a lot of them have spoken on this and watched inmates do just that, it’s sad that these woman just want love and are finding it like this, it’s just going to end in heartbreak probably

    • @TheNinnyfee
      @TheNinnyfee 4 месяца назад +22

      Just as men outside of prison, by the way.

    • @crystalhogan3834
      @crystalhogan3834 3 месяца назад +19

      She not the only one he talking to and getting money 💰 from

    • @Nina_Rihs
      @Nina_Rihs 3 месяца назад +6

      Did you read the letter? Every single sentence is so manipulative. For further information just google Reginald Blanton…🙈

    • @alex-qd6of
      @alex-qd6of 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Nina_Rihsthat's a different person

  • @AnayhiasMimi4619
    @AnayhiasMimi4619 4 месяца назад +117

    What's up are they short of criminals in England😂😂😂😂

    • @dsteb250
      @dsteb250 3 месяца назад +9

      Maybe they’re only short of supposedly innocent criminals 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

    • @AnayhiasMimi4619
      @AnayhiasMimi4619 3 месяца назад +1

      @@dsteb250 LMAO

    • @janina8559
      @janina8559 3 месяца назад +25

      They don’t have a death penalty there so she may one day have to meet them 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @kellychilds8683
      @kellychilds8683 3 месяца назад +9

      @@janina8559 Thats it exactly! Our prisoners probably dont seem as glamorous to them in some weird way....

    • @janina8559
      @janina8559 3 месяца назад

      @@kellychilds8683 it’s actually a fetish for some women to find killers attractive so if they are on death row she doesn’t have to worry about them knocking on her door 🤷🏼‍♀️.

  • @Ij-jan
    @Ij-jan 4 месяца назад +163

    I wonder how much money she puts on his commissary.😅

    • @updownstate
      @updownstate 3 месяца назад +6

      I think I replied to the wrong comment, sorry.

    • @Gurl-5150
      @Gurl-5150 3 месяца назад +8

      You know it's quite a bit.

    • @baepy
      @baepy 3 месяца назад

      ​@@updownstatewhy was he in jail?

    • @updownstate
      @updownstate 3 месяца назад

      Attempted sexual abuse.@@baepy

    • @DM-sd1fg
      @DM-sd1fg 3 месяца назад +9

      Probably tax paper money as she does not work.

  • @BiPolarBear128
    @BiPolarBear128 3 месяца назад +76

    shooting someone in the back of head is self defense ??? seriously ??? how ?

    • @SusanRaickle
      @SusanRaickle 3 месяца назад +9

      No. It wasn't self-defense. This happened in the county where I live

    • @maymagnolias2493
      @maymagnolias2493 3 месяца назад

      That's exactly what I thought lol. Like .... 🤨 Mhmm. Sure. I just want to know the pathology of these women. Why are they addicted to these men.....a hundred questions about this lol.

    • @RodneyDangerfield-tg6tx
      @RodneyDangerfield-tg6tx 3 месяца назад +5

      The guy had eyes in the back of his head..

    • @Ann65.
      @Ann65. 3 месяца назад +2

      @@SusanRaickle Sorry Susan.
      I know that when crime, particularly such a heinous crime is close to home, it hits you in the gut!

    • @whoswhoatthezoo9372
      @whoswhoatthezoo9372 3 месяца назад +5

      He ran at him … backwards

  • @Felicity2121
    @Felicity2121 3 месяца назад +154

    Jodi has probably got another 3-4 women on his phone list 🙄
    Plus this documentary is years old.

    • @lil_debbie
      @lil_debbie 3 месяца назад +16

      Wonder if they're still together 🤔 😂

    • @lauraturner9281
      @lauraturner9281 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@lil_debbie😂

    • @swallowedinthesea11
      @swallowedinthesea11 3 месяца назад +11

      @@lil_debbie On October 12, 2018, Jody was murdered in his sleep by another inmate who had made a shiv.

    • @chrissyknowsitall5170
      @chrissyknowsitall5170 3 месяца назад +4

      ​@swallowedinthesea11 NO WAY!!! I wonder if they were still together. How old is this video?? Thank you so much for letting us know about what happened to him.

    • @ljcooper-cornell59
      @ljcooper-cornell59 3 месяца назад

      From her comment, "you dont know how many people ive known that have been excuted you wouldent go there;” would suggest shes a serial death row romantic lol. !!!!

  • @nena8692
    @nena8692 4 месяца назад +136

    I understand why she did not tell her daughters. What I don't undetstand is how hateful she was when her daughter asked her a question. The daughter was concerned with her mother's feelings and the mother reacted horribly.

    • @rachelbowskill4165
      @rachelbowskill4165 3 месяца назад +14

      I agree 💯 with you . The poor daughter deserves to be loved and supported yet this mother goes off on one and it's not fair . Feel sorry for her daughter 😔

    • @scratchy1704
      @scratchy1704 3 месяца назад +8

      She behaves like a child actually. A lovesick one.

    • @IrishHoopers
      @IrishHoopers 3 месяца назад

      That's insulting to children, she acts like an idiot

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 3 месяца назад +7

      It's disgusting and creepy 😳 He said he loves talking to the 11 year old...because they have "the same mentality "

    • @judymccoy6688
      @judymccoy6688 2 месяца назад +3

      Because she is CRAZY!

  • @beckyx8133
    @beckyx8133 3 месяца назад +30

    I was shocked when she said her kids were her priority..like how? If she stays in bed till 1pm she isn’t getting up with her kid for school in the morning, she isn’t taking her daughter out and doing things with her if she won’t leave the house for more than 20 mins. The poor child.

    • @scorpiohughes2383
      @scorpiohughes2383 Месяц назад +2

      I wasn't shocked, people believe the lies they tell to themselves & others!!! Smh

  • @christinewhitfeld7939
    @christinewhitfeld7939 3 месяца назад +75

    I think these women like a ' safe' relationship... One that can never become real. They seem to attach this to a belief that they alone can transform and save the prisoners. All they need is the love of the right woman. But this is delusional. If they could see those prisoners in the days before their arrest, would they truly give them a second glance? It is twisted. It can only end in tears... And it will.

    • @maxmanx1294
      @maxmanx1294 3 месяца назад +7

      I didn't think of that & am glad you pointed out the "safe relationship." I bet you're spot on.

    • @hannahwootton6491
      @hannahwootton6491 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah no proper commitment no real life issues that's a great point

  • @bexsee80
    @bexsee80 3 месяца назад +52

    Why would you frame a photo of him in handcuffs and put it on the mantlepiece Odd!

  • @elkiesavage6038
    @elkiesavage6038 3 месяца назад +31

    This mother has serious mental issues and I feel so sorry for her eldest daughter who is honestly the parent in this situation

  • @kellychilds8683
    @kellychilds8683 3 месяца назад +35

    Cripes people, this is a real life lesson in making sure our girls grow up with some self respect!!

  • @iloveschicken6527
    @iloveschicken6527 3 месяца назад +46

    Smoking cigarettes, drinking wine , eating shrimp and taking a trip to America yet doesn't have a job? 💩🤮

    • @cemoihonay
      @cemoihonay 3 месяца назад +3

      Amazing how everyone online knows about the financial situations of people they don't know. 😂

    • @iloveschicken6527
      @iloveschicken6527 3 месяца назад +10

      @@cemoihonay Amazining how they literally show their lifestyle on social media for all to see!

    • @cemoihonay
      @cemoihonay 3 месяца назад +4

      @@iloveschicken6527 How do you know what savings, income or past jobs she had??? Maybe she won the lottery?!
      You literally have no clue yet here you are, DOH.
      But hey, what would one expect with a user name like yours. 🤷

    • @iloveschicken6527
      @iloveschicken6527 3 месяца назад +5

      @@cemoihonay 🤡

    • @juliejulie3821
      @juliejulie3821 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh it’s just crazy !!! Like a bunch of 14 year olds !!! Staying upp all night flirting with killers !! Great ….. 😫

  • @GamerGodPlayz-vx6im
    @GamerGodPlayz-vx6im 3 месяца назад +28

    This is always been mind-blowing to me??? Just why why would you reach out to a murderer???????? INSANE 🤣😢

    • @Sophie-gm7iy
      @Sophie-gm7iy Месяц назад +2

      I think it's because she knows that it'll be less likely that a death row inmate would leave her. The average man would've left her by now and she knows it.

    • @GamerGodPlayz-vx6im
      @GamerGodPlayz-vx6im Месяц назад +1

      @@Sophie-gm7iy it's really sad that people think they need a man

    • @MARINELSANTOS
      @MARINELSANTOS 15 дней назад

      I'm thinking maybe these women are so sad and they're a bit desperate for love. Maybe these women tried to have relationships with normal men but didn't work out. And prisoners are the ones who won't leave them. They're a bit crazy in my opiniona and have fascination with criminals.

  • @its_Emily384
    @its_Emily384 3 месяца назад +29

    Let’s hear the first woman’s views on the death penalty if one of her family was a fatal victim …

  • @donnyreiss1180
    @donnyreiss1180 4 месяца назад +92

    3:15 no body has the right to take any bodies life but your inmate boyfriend thought different

    • @laurensmith0710
      @laurensmith0710 4 месяца назад +7

      The monster who abducted, raped, and took the life of my 18 y/o cousin in 1997 was found guilty on all 3 counts and sentenced to death. However, on his last appeal, he was found “not competent” for execution. He will sit on death row for the remainder of his disgraceful life with his stupid pet cat

    • @Annsunshine30
      @Annsunshine30 4 месяца назад +3

      Great point!

    • @nennixx8331
      @nennixx8331 3 месяца назад

      a law written by a state, that then kills its own people. And that makes sense to you? When you agree with death penaltie doesnt that conflict with that law somehow?

    • @nennixx8331
      @nennixx8331 3 месяца назад

      @@laurensmith0710 Iam sorry whta happened tou your cousin. death penaltie will never stop those crimes from happening. If it would, usa must be crime free. when in fact it has one of the highest crime statistics in the western world. I think , the way the us treatens its weakest people, reflects on how americans treatens each other. If the State has no respect for the life of its own people, why should americans have respect for each others life.

    • @dorindadouglas2847
      @dorindadouglas2847 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@nennixx8331What are you talking about?? What law? Nobody said anything about a law.

  • @helenperry3072
    @helenperry3072 3 месяца назад +60

    For an unemployed person with 3 children her house is very nicely furnished

    • @valhipkiss4011
      @valhipkiss4011 3 месяца назад +15

      Tax payer funded ,no doubt .

    • @ItsMeTracy2023
      @ItsMeTracy2023 3 месяца назад +12

      And a trip to visit him.

    • @donnajeanheim-mcwhite4210
      @donnajeanheim-mcwhite4210 3 месяца назад +1

      Wonder why, hmm?!

    • @gaykid80
      @gaykid80 2 месяца назад

      Benefits must help this lunatic.

    • @brookebickley6873
      @brookebickley6873 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@ItsMeTracy2023 production for the show probably paid for her trip to see him to make the show more appealing/interesting/exciting.production for the show probably paid for her trip to see him to make the show more appealing/interesting/exciting.

  • @paulogilvie6477
    @paulogilvie6477 4 месяца назад +162

    This lady needs to watch a few seasons of Love After Lockup.

    • @lynnflynn5591
      @lynnflynn5591 3 месяца назад +17

      I've watched Love After Lockup. While the man is incarcerated, it's the woman who has the power because she doles out his commissary money. The relationship doesn't last outside of prison because, with his new freedom, he can't abide by the rules of parole and breaks them - drugs, alcohol, violence, etc. Not a good relationship foundation.

    • @alex-qd6of
      @alex-qd6of 3 месяца назад +8

      @@lynnflynn5591 and sleeping with every woman who'll have him.

    • @JannyAllen-fz8cu
      @JannyAllen-fz8cu 3 месяца назад +5

      @@alex-qd6of not all man are like that

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee 3 месяца назад

      ​@@JannyAllen-fz8cu girl bye

    • @mobilemandy8495
      @mobilemandy8495 3 месяца назад +3

      They'll never be after lockup for this guy tho 😂😂

  • @buleberryjam177gaming7
    @buleberryjam177gaming7 3 месяца назад +77

    How is a death row inmate allowed to speak to a 12 year old minor on the phone ? This is abuse. The 22 year old is an adult and can make her own decisions.

    • @gatdemun
      @gatdemun 3 месяца назад +13

      My thoughts exactly . That’s all he’s after. Prison shouldn’t allow it

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 3 месяца назад

      Exactly. Him giggling 😮and saying he loves talking to her "because they have the same mentality " groomer pedophile.

  • @dkas24
    @dkas24 4 месяца назад +77

    The people allowed to have and raise children is beyond me.

    • @Annsunshine30
      @Annsunshine30 4 месяца назад +7

      What shocked me the most also!

    • @nikkimarland87
      @nikkimarland87 3 месяца назад +6

      So you wish you lived in a place where only certain people are Aloud to pro create wow

    • @juicyjules7409
      @juicyjules7409 3 месяца назад +5

      Yes

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад +1

      Why? Her daughter loves her.

    • @Mathilda5xp
      @Mathilda5xp 3 месяца назад +2

      Allowed

  • @donna6949
    @donna6949 3 месяца назад +47

    These ladies have set their standards at the lowest level possible

    • @IrishHoopers
      @IrishHoopers 3 месяца назад +2

      Probably the only people who wants them

  • @donnyreiss1180
    @donnyreiss1180 4 месяца назад +72

    9:52 she says her children always come first but she just said she doesn’t like to leave the house, only for 20mins because she might miss a call from him and the kids aren’t stupid they know he is prison, and now she has got the kids on the phone with him

    • @pamelahepp4994
      @pamelahepp4994 3 месяца назад +3

      And she lives her life on American time! The one daughter is twelve !!!

    • @annenelson5656
      @annenelson5656 3 месяца назад +3

      She can’t leave her house in case he calls? Has she heard of cell phones? I know they have them in England because I’ve used mine. Pitiful woman.

    • @lisacundiff8029
      @lisacundiff8029 3 месяца назад

      ​@@annenelson5656Some prisons don't allow phone calls to cell phones, so could be that..also the cost of international call to cell may be too high(?). I know when my boyfriend was transferred to a new prison..I could no longer receive calls from him on cell, so I had to get a land line(hadn't had one in years..no need). Then another one wouldn't allow calls on cell phone unless it was a "contract"phone. Again hadn't had contract phone for years, as they were way more expensive than my prepaid and I got way less but off I went to get one or we can no longer talk. I spent alot of $ so we could talk

    • @MysticalLibra
      @MysticalLibra 3 месяца назад

      It was evidently recorded years earlier, I was wondering the same at first...lol
      This was before cell phone were carried by almost everyone.

    • @sharai73
      @sharai73 2 месяца назад +1

      @@MysticalLibrait was 2009 we all had mobile phones in the uk by then. I think it’s probably more to do with the cost of calling a cell/mobile phone internationally back in 2009 he could probably only call her landline

  • @mariannemexico2523
    @mariannemexico2523 2 месяца назад +13

    I am writing prisoners 23 years, unfortunately this woman will only understand that once that man if ever gets released he will not want her...as he will have the freedom to choose who he wants...this is in 900 thousand letters i have explaining to me in detail how they have to take these unattractive women and play the game for the money she sends....he has probably 20 others...i have books out on this matters...its very sad. she gives him hope and he is grateful. thats it

    • @sharai73
      @sharai73 2 месяца назад +1

      What’s your books called I’d be interested in reading them

  • @marissathomas9327
    @marissathomas9327 3 месяца назад +8

    The Second Lady is completely UNHINGED !! How we go from one man on death row to another 😑

  • @suemcgregor9248
    @suemcgregor9248 4 месяца назад +58

    It will all end in tears, she says she puts her kids first but lies to them and is serving a sentence. Even if the Death sentence is commuted, he'll probably never get out and her kids will never trust her completely again. Such a waste

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 3 месяца назад +1

      I agree

    • @kirstymclaren1420
      @kirstymclaren1420 3 месяца назад +1

      Jody did have his sentence reduced to life but no news on them

    • @Sue-hr9fm
      @Sue-hr9fm 3 месяца назад

      @@kirstymclaren1420 this was years ago and I’m sure this lady passed away

    • @kirstymclaren1420
      @kirstymclaren1420 3 месяца назад

      @@Sue-hr9fm Sandie unfortunately did pass way over a decade ago, I was talking about Jody and Michaela

    • @Sue-hr9fm
      @Sue-hr9fm 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kirstymclaren1420 oh ok I knew one of them did thank you iv not heard anything about them either I’m in 🇬🇧

  • @user-wm1pi1ix2i
    @user-wm1pi1ix2i 3 месяца назад +44

    Women who engage in relationships with prisoners without knowing them prior to incarceration have serious mental issues. FACTS. Where is the father of those girls? They need a responsible parent

  • @whatchannel3679
    @whatchannel3679 4 месяца назад +46

    Delusional.. gosh what a mess. Lies to the kids, lies to herself. This is no way to live. How sad and selfish to the kids

  • @somersetflower
    @somersetflower 4 месяца назад +34

    What would you think, Michaela, if someone murdered or maimed a member of your family ?

  • @KrispyChanges
    @KrispyChanges 3 месяца назад +11

    Another middle aged female from the UK unemployed smoker with children. How in the heck do they get money for cigarettes prison calls travel to the US on top of paying bills. I work 2 jobs and still can’t move out on my own.

  • @emilyemily444
    @emilyemily444 3 месяца назад +12

    These two women have all the emotional maturity of, a 13yr old girl with daddy issues & such strong pick me vibes, the first one can't stand having her daughters take up any of her precious time😒

  • @anitagoodman4657
    @anitagoodman4657 3 месяца назад +12

    So she goes and leaves presents for all the angel children, but ignores her own very much alive ones.

  • @Highflite20
    @Highflite20 4 месяца назад +99

    I can’t wrap my head around having a fiancé that is on death row!!! I am single but definitely need to meet a local man that I can see on a regular basis and build a life together!!!

    • @connierenna-xf9um
      @connierenna-xf9um 4 месяца назад +12

      Yah, I mean we know ALL relationships will end for one reason or another, but this literally has a pre written death sentence literally!

    • @1fan689
      @1fan689 4 месяца назад +12

      Probably a similar reason to why women go after married men. They need therapy

    • @retrochickt7947
      @retrochickt7947 3 месяца назад +3

      That's what I always wanted-A boyfriend I can see in person.

  • @marigolds49
    @marigolds49 3 месяца назад +56

    UK Welfare must pay very well

  • @evanickamir2671
    @evanickamir2671 3 месяца назад +25

    🤮keep that baby girl off that phone with that strange man! imprisoned man! killer man! deathrow inmate!🤮
    it's sad and scary! that kiddos get stuck with weird "parents"!😡😭

  • @fyandrews
    @fyandrews 3 месяца назад +13

    Still married to her third husband, also on death row. Enough said.

    • @iloveschicken6527
      @iloveschicken6527 3 месяца назад +5

      He was executed and she passed away as well.

  • @pooscifer
    @pooscifer 4 месяца назад +29

    she honestly probably just needs a job/sense of purpose

  • @susiemerrall124
    @susiemerrall124 3 месяца назад +16

    Feel sorry for her children, they shouldn't have to be worrying about how she would cope if he is executed...

  • @Karlucci7
    @Karlucci7 4 месяца назад +133

    Both of these women live in another country and neither of them work. How did they afford to travel to the US, pay for prison callsn etc?

    • @docbell959
      @docbell959 4 месяца назад +1

      probably a combination of divorce raping previous husbands, and leeching off the single mothers pension

    • @Heather420
      @Heather420 3 месяца назад +34

      I don't know about the phone calls but my guess would be the show paid for them to visit. It wouldn't make much of a show if they didn't go see them

    • @rondavandorsser8651
      @rondavandorsser8651 3 месяца назад +15

      I don't think that is any off our business !

    • @muddydog6605
      @muddydog6605 3 месяца назад +9

      That's their business, why would you think it's yours?

    • @Karlucci7
      @Karlucci7 3 месяца назад +67

      @@rondavandorsser8651my mistake. They made the very public film so I didn't realize that would be private.

  • @donnyreiss1180
    @donnyreiss1180 4 месяца назад +31

    19:07 she does seem moody and she is not even the one in jail

  • @donnajeanheim-mcwhite4210
    @donnajeanheim-mcwhite4210 3 месяца назад +9

    If she doesn't tell her daughter he's in prison,
    Then she knows it is WRONG!!
    That poor child, with a Mom that's nuts!

  • @buleberryjam177gaming7
    @buleberryjam177gaming7 3 месяца назад +45

    Sandie is a player loving being in control of these inmates without any real commitment, there is a reason she is on her own in real life.

    • @marigolds49
      @marigolds49 3 месяца назад +7

      Truth

    • @helenperry3072
      @helenperry3072 3 месяца назад +6

      That’s exactly what I was thinking it’s an easy relationship 👍

    • @user-qy5qu4uv5k
      @user-qy5qu4uv5k 3 месяца назад +7

      She died suddenly about ten years ago.

    • @KrispyChanges
      @KrispyChanges 3 месяца назад

      @@user-qy5qu4uv5k wow.

  • @gabrieladickson2826
    @gabrieladickson2826 3 месяца назад +13

    Hard to watch without Judgment

  • @sirpagandetyptoft6793
    @sirpagandetyptoft6793 3 месяца назад +14

    her 1st priorities are her children but she doesnt get up til 1pm 😆

  • @lbar9720
    @lbar9720 3 месяца назад +9

    Well isn't she lucky to have never lost a loved one to murder; it's easy to say the water isn't hot if you're not sitting in the hot water!! Her attitude is shameful!

  • @linzisouthernwood482
    @linzisouthernwood482 2 месяца назад +8

    Leaving 'tacky' ornaments on his babies grave. NO ✋️

  • @shirleythompson8251
    @shirleythompson8251 3 месяца назад +11

    Her daughter is much more mature than her.
    I feel her mother has completely distanced herself from real life and is trying to live in her own fantasy world.
    There must be a reason for her to be escaping from her own responsibilities. Surely something has triggered this selfish behaviour 🤔

  • @lolitre881
    @lolitre881 3 месяца назад +11

    My late father asked me once as a woman, why would women seek love with an inmate. My only explanation is that these women can't hold down a regular relationship so they feel safer this way. They essentially get to call the shots because the incarcerated guy isn't going anywhere. He has very little to occupy his time each and every day and ergo, enjoys the flattery of women on the outside. I think these women are sadly deluded if they think that if/once freed, they will live with their glorified pen pals happily ever after. I suppose there is an element of financial incentive too - flatter a woman and get more commissary. I don't think these relationships are ever destined to work upon release. No disrespect but a love-lusting guy is not likely to settle down with a ready-made family. He's more likely to say 'So long and thanks for all the fish' before straying off with women of a more suitable age and someone more outgoing and exciting. So in essence, I sometimes wonder if these men are actually looking for more of a mother figure.

  • @Parismel
    @Parismel 3 месяца назад +12

    As a former female correctional officer in a male prison, I can say this woman is walking a precious line.

    • @whoswhoatthezoo9372
      @whoswhoatthezoo9372 3 месяца назад +5

      Same here ! I’ve seen plenty of ladies like these every weekend turning up for visits, they enjoy having a boyfriend/husband on a part-time basis. No having to do his washing, cleaning, no fighting, no cooking, they enjoy the spicy love letters back and forth, the list is virtually endless. As the inmates date of release gets closer,some of the ladies aren’t quite so keen, and by the time the guy gets released the girl has gone and no one has a forwarding address. ( I’ve also seen some of the guys with at least 2 families. One lot troop in, in the morning and the 2nd lot come in after lunch ). With having to book visits in advance, there’s no way they can get caught out. 😮

  • @donnyreiss1180
    @donnyreiss1180 4 месяца назад +25

    now they r never going to believe u because u lied to them, they will have a hard time trusting u and others because of this

    • @lynnflynn5591
      @lynnflynn5591 3 месяца назад +3

      Worst of all, the 12 year old girl has an emotional attachment to a murderer who will ultimately be put to death. 💔

  • @dheider9109
    @dheider9109 4 месяца назад +48

    Make your children your hobby.
    You are wasting time , effort and money on someone who doesn't deserve it!
    Get your priorities straight!
    You will regret this.

  • @cherylclark915
    @cherylclark915 3 месяца назад +8

    The first lady is in la-la land.
    My husband wasn't on deathrow, but he was mentally institutionalized because of all the years he did do inside the walls of prison.
    He did 29 years altogether but in different different stents.The longest term he did was 13 yrs., for a murder rap, I'm not a zombie because he Got it over charge from murder to manslaughter in his appealing process.
    And after he got out that is the time when I met him, back in 1999.
    He went back in 2001 and got 9 yrs. he did 7yrs. I waited for him, and married him in prison in 2006. He was released in 2009, too only go back in 2011.
    He got out that time in 2016.
    Here's my point, he then commented suicide in 2021.
    His death sentence. Due to mental issues, he wasn't willing to admit to in order to get the Necessary, and badly needed help for, instead he couldn't deal with it and took his self out of it. 😢
    He was 63 years old. No one, including myself could have ever thought he would let alone could do that to himself.
    So, wake up pls. men in prison go though a lot, and once out some can't even function in society again like they once had.
    Metal health is apart of this and many men get out having more problems within themselves than they will admit to themselves let alone too anyone else. And the suffer bc of it.
    I went through all of this with him, hoping one day we would grow old together bc he convinced me we could and would. I spent all of my & 40's and most of my 50's believing in this lie. 😢

  • @lynnzino3284
    @lynnzino3284 4 месяца назад +23

    The victim was at the wrong place at the wrong time Disillusionella!!!!!!!!!

  • @Joeythejew
    @Joeythejew 3 месяца назад +18

    I was incarcerated in from 2011 to 2017 and I got into some trouble in 2012 and went to northern branch which is Marylands maximum security penitentiary an I remember during my time at that prison maryland finally removed the death penalty from the state an seeing them move the inmates one at a time all day from the death row cell block back into population it was a surreal moment.

  • @missriverrat
    @missriverrat 4 месяца назад +44

    You watched a botched execution of a murderer lady. She voices no sympathy for the families these people have taken loved ones from. She’s neurotic. Can’t even watch the rest of this after the first few minutes. Unhinged.

    • @julietarossetti7426
      @julietarossetti7426 3 месяца назад +6

      You missed a real treat if you thought the first woman was a lunatic...

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 3 месяца назад +2

      It was actually a very nice story.

    • @ttnz3932
      @ttnz3932 3 месяца назад +6

      A nice story about a delusional lady

  • @bugmanjollykk
    @bugmanjollykk 4 месяца назад +26

    She sure knows how to pick 'em

  • @marshmalotoast
    @marshmalotoast 2 месяца назад +7

    She is avoiding real intimacy and being hurt through this impossible relationship but she is also damaging her relationship with her daughters. She needs councilling, a job and to find herself without needing the attention of a man.

  • @suann9790
    @suann9790 3 месяца назад +15

    So she told her daughters the truth only a couple of days before filming started?? Or maybe I should say, she told them only because filming started.

  • @chipdiamond5104
    @chipdiamond5104 3 месяца назад +17

    Reg knew who killed his victim but he had to hold the "g code," right to his death. YAHH, OKAYYYY🤣🤣🤣 I guarantee Reg 💯 would've thrown his mother under the bus if the police would've believed him...

  • @miriamwilson9542
    @miriamwilson9542 3 месяца назад +10

    She has a lovely home....for an unemployed woman.....

    • @iloveschicken6527
      @iloveschicken6527 3 месяца назад +3

      Indeed and smoking cigarettes, eating shrimp, drinking wine and traveling to America! 🤮💩

  • @suelawson7273
    @suelawson7273 2 месяца назад +8

    This is not what the UK benefit system was designed for

  • @RenaWith
    @RenaWith 4 месяца назад +41

    And now you got to ask yourself, Why do I have a need to save someone? Why do I fall for unavailable men? Why do i have a need to feel traped? And you go back to your childhood and you realise there was somone unavailable (a parent?)who you tried to save from themselves or addiction or similar. And you realise you are only trying to heal your core wounds so you're putting yourself through the same relationship over and over again. Heal core wounds and set yourself free from the prison you have now created for yourself. Emdr, Narp.

    • @sher1749
      @sher1749 4 месяца назад +2

      Exactly. This reminds me so much of "codependent no more" book

    • @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644
      @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644 3 месяца назад +1

      Totally agree with yr analysis. She is tne product of a disturbed childhood and severe problems with her father maybe abandoned young

  • @gatorgal2276
    @gatorgal2276 3 месяца назад +9

    Her oldest daughter is quite wise.

  • @leneo1731
    @leneo1731 3 месяца назад +10

    What you dobas an adult is your business.
    However to involve your 12 year old daughter is just so outrageous!
    Not okay on any level.
    Keep your kids out of these prison relationships!

  • @jennifertyler858
    @jennifertyler858 4 месяца назад +21

    I can understand the falling in love with aspect,but someone on death row no way. You never have a chance for a real life with them. My mother met my stepfather after he,d been released from a 20+year stint for armed robbery (armed because he said he had a weapon but didnt). I definitely had my reservation, but he treats her better than anyone else she's ever been in a relationship with,just a super sweet guy who made a real bad decision while addicted to heroin.

    • @julietarossetti7426
      @julietarossetti7426 3 месяца назад

      No chance of a real life with them is the attraction for these women; it's a psychological affliction.

    • @sharai73
      @sharai73 2 месяца назад

      Sweet story ❤

    • @Flaschenteufel
      @Flaschenteufel Месяц назад +1

      Those silly little armed robbery thoughts while high on heroine. Definitely a keeper. Also totally believable story about his sentence. :)

  • @micheledoran2472
    @micheledoran2472 3 месяца назад +7

    There is something seriously wrong with someone who wants a relationship with someone who has taken someone else's life. Who cares if a killer dies in an uncomfortable way, do they consider their victim, no they bloody don't. This woman clearly can't have a normal relationship, she doesn't care about her innocent children. This is all wrong, you can't love someone you've never even met or spent actual time with them.. Ridiculous

  • @tia2all501
    @tia2all501 2 месяца назад +5

    This First Lady is not living in reality. If she was living under the same roof as her dream husband he wouldn’t be wonderful as she’s thinking now

  • @emmajo8318
    @emmajo8318 3 месяца назад +8

    I cant stop thinking of Elaine Figgis 😂

  • @leannedoherty5244
    @leannedoherty5244 2 месяца назад +6

    The misplaced loyalty is real. These ladies need to get a job and some self esteem.

  • @user-il6ys7hy1g
    @user-il6ys7hy1g 3 месяца назад +8

    How can they afford to go there and they don't work !!! I work so hard and can't afford to go on holiday ffs

    • @user-kg5vw6df7o
      @user-kg5vw6df7o 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Stop crying your making me laugh 😅😅

  • @markusalexander754
    @markusalexander754 3 месяца назад +6

    My god she is so immature! It's totally embarrassing... why doesn't she get a job! And spend more investment in her kids. Is she getting off being with a murderer! Living in another country. If you can't tell your kids he's on death Row then that says it all. Think her eldest daughter is more mature. Yet mention he may die and that changed she got rather nasty with her daughter, not good at all. This is painful to watch. Feel for both her kids, very selfish women

  • @SeaGlassAndKiss
    @SeaGlassAndKiss 4 месяца назад +31

    So toxic poor daighters.

  • @michhaynes7272
    @michhaynes7272 3 месяца назад +16

    Your children don't come first. Your life is dedicated to this in mate, you can't even talk about him being put to death so what will you be like when he does? Your own daughter thinks you will fall apart! You have had your 12 year old build a relationship with someone who will probably be put to death, how will that affect her. And if he did get out, are you going to have this murderer around your children, my guess would be yes and that's terrifying to me. You need to talk to a specialist in my opinion because I think possibly your choice to do may be connected to your past crappie relationships. I just hope this causes minimal damage to your children because this is already affecting them, and I personally worry for them! They both still need you.

  • @mollymcdonald1949
    @mollymcdonald1949 2 месяца назад +5

    Having watched the whole thing, I'd say she is a total drama queen. I think she also thinks she is incredibly intelligent (which is not the case listening to her).

  • @deanbrandt2748
    @deanbrandt2748 2 месяца назад +6

    Sorry but what is the point of having a long distance relationship with a death row inmate…they are just torturing and kidding themselves. They live in a fantasy world. They will never be able to physically hang out with each other, make love…no nothing. Then bring her daughter in the picture….she’s sick and should seek some professional help. She’s just making it all worse for everyone involved.

  • @juliehandley8963
    @juliehandley8963 4 месяца назад +51

    How can she afford to go over there yet dont work ,

  • @mariaarvaniti2633
    @mariaarvaniti2633 3 месяца назад +5

    This is so toxic for all parties involved except the inmate!

  • @buleberryjam177gaming7
    @buleberryjam177gaming7 3 месяца назад +11

    Seems her life is so empty that she has latched onto a murderer on death row, unbelievable delusional to call this a relationship 😂 it's her kids I feel sorry for having her as a role model.

  • @gianna5869
    @gianna5869 3 месяца назад +7

    This woman has serious issues. First she goes on and on bout how in love they are then she bitches about being trapped ! Well here is a solution stop talking to him then you can go "out " and stop feeling your in prison too. she als likes the power she can just hang the phone up when angered and he can do nothing !

  • @jillianelliott4654
    @jillianelliott4654 3 месяца назад +5

    She doesn’t need her kids in her care!! She clearly is neglecting them. smdh

  • @carolinecheatham1087
    @carolinecheatham1087 3 месяца назад +8

    What silly women! I only feel sorry for the people that were murdered and their families.

  • @claireobrien9348
    @claireobrien9348 3 месяца назад +7

    this woman contradicts her self every time she opens her mouth