How to speak so that women want to listen

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

Комментарии • 48

  • @Nwannebuike
    @Nwannebuike 3 месяца назад +10

    Your acronym H.A.I.L doesn't only attract women but all genders, everyone needs the in-built H.A.I.L personality around. Thanks for this acronym, it's very insightful.

  • @GoldfarmUg
    @GoldfarmUg 3 месяца назад +4

    I really appreciate..... your teachings have made me to find a true and genuine fiancé

  • @mdusompisi9686
    @mdusompisi9686 3 месяца назад +1

    Excellent teaching. Thank you so much Jessica 🌟🙏

  • @albertaeshun7961
    @albertaeshun7961 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow
    Honesty
    Authenticity
    Intergrity and
    Love ❤. Thanks sis 😘

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      My pleasure 😊

  • @FavourSantana
    @FavourSantana 3 месяца назад +2

    Am I the only one feeling tempted to write these points down? Jessica, this was a wonderful video. Could you take a deeper dive into the aspect of voice usage?

  • @briar35981
    @briar35981 3 месяца назад +5

    The biggest challenge here will be actually finding a woman that isn't already talking. A recent flight to LAX placed me in front of two ladies who had first met on the flight. They literally talked for 5 1/2" hours. Even talking while eating their snacks. Thank you Bose noise canceling headphones. The key here is to listen all you can. They really don't two shits about what you have to say.

  • @francisgkmamuzu5048
    @francisgkmamuzu5048 3 месяца назад +15

    I met a lady in church almost a month ago and we began to talk. I expressed genuine interest in her and along the line, lately, she started replying very late to my messages. She tells me how “busy” she is. How busy can one be in the day? Sometimes, she does not answer my calls, but sends straightforward messages to me. This is someone whom I have shared my past broken relationship with and she knows I am going through a whole lot in life. This is how I am being treated. I needed true love based on pure friendship, loyalty, respect and trust, and not sex. I'm truly broken to pieces again and I don't know what to do, whether to keep pursuing her or distancing myself. I also don't want to be loved out of pity. It's the worst thing I could expect someone to do for me.

    • @kelvinkonadu2967
      @kelvinkonadu2967 3 месяца назад +10

      real bro,just distance yourself and value yourself more

    • @callmeappiah112
      @callmeappiah112 3 месяца назад +16

      The only woman you have to be vulnerable with is your mother. Never tell any other woman your struggles, present or past. They can’t handle it.

    • @kelechi9438
      @kelechi9438 3 месяца назад +3

      Leave her

    • @DeborahAgyeiwaa-v2n
      @DeborahAgyeiwaa-v2n 3 месяца назад +9

      Hey. So sorry to hear about this. This is so challenging and I encourage you to be firm in heart to deal with the challenge. There are few psychology behind women ignoring men yet some are more practical. It's good you shared your past life because you wanted to meet a genuine partner. This is a turn off for some ladies. I advice that you give her some space. Love is not given but earned. Give her some space, shift your attention from her to doing other things that keep you happy. Sports, work, outing etc. Just keep busy. Open to other people and be confident. Do not just begin sharing your tough times until you've won all the confidence of the listener. If you give her that space and she comes back reaching to you, fine. If not, remember there are so many fishes in the sea. Don't be abused by someone else's attitude. Once again, sorry.

    • @francisgkmamuzu5048
      @francisgkmamuzu5048 3 месяца назад

      @@DeborahAgyeiwaa-v2n Thank you, Deborah. I really appreciate it.
      I hope to catch the right fish at the opportune time. God bless!

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 3 месяца назад

    Absolutely brilliant episode
    H.A.I.L 💯
    Thanks Jess!

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow... thanks for the great content.personally i hate lies.❤ Jessica your explanation is always great!i appreciate

  • @abubacarrgibba3883
    @abubacarrgibba3883 3 месяца назад

    Wow that's beautiful, always on point,
    You're the best Jessica 🎉

  • @martinyeboah5526
    @martinyeboah5526 3 месяца назад

    Very educative and insightful teachings I always enjoy listening to your content

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 3 месяца назад

    Always brilliant interesting and straight to the point are the least thing to be said about Jessica! Your advice is always so aligned and attuned with the whole problem and the purpose of your video and yes I love not only your voice but many other things too!
    Cosmic blessings and lots of love and happiness to you always!❤❤

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 3 месяца назад

    Bless you Jessica,I found this video a good source of advice and I needed reminding of important stuff,in my experience Women are very tuned into wether or not I've been paying full attention and hate it if I've only been half listening,keep up the good work x

  • @GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100
    @GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100 3 месяца назад

    🌟 Your video beautifully captures the essence of building strong connections. The way you emphasize turning towards our partners during those small moments of connection is truly inspiring. Keep spreading this wisdom! 🙌🏼

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 3 месяца назад +1

    Your intro is 👌🏾

  • @jalwalruai8781
    @jalwalruai8781 3 месяца назад

    This is so helpful

  • @similarcreatures4366
    @similarcreatures4366 3 месяца назад

    This was very well executed , my question is do you have topics or points to also help women communicate better with men as well because this was quite informative Which is much appreciated.

  • @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950
    @forextraineronlinesanmitho9950 3 месяца назад +4

    Also your eyes

  • @YalaMan01
    @YalaMan01 3 месяца назад

    Well done ✅

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 3 месяца назад

    Great video

  • @konadukwameobed
    @konadukwameobed 3 месяца назад

    Dear Os, please can you make a video on this "Love " the real framework of it and how it works and it's falls.... thank you ❤

  • @tambim1624
    @tambim1624 3 месяца назад

    Man such a complicated explanation of something that is natural and happens insticntively.
    A great treatise for a phd paper.....word salad if you are out here in the real world

  • @lazarusmunganga2823
    @lazarusmunganga2823 2 месяца назад

    H.A.I.L 🤝

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm 3 месяца назад

    Thanks 😊😊😊

  • @Pjblaze
    @Pjblaze 3 месяца назад

    First to watch

  • @Pjblaze
    @Pjblaze 3 месяца назад +1

    First to comment

  • @the_lee_effect
    @the_lee_effect 3 месяца назад

    First here

  • @YourDay67
    @YourDay67 3 месяца назад +1

    Nice
    Why called it soccer instead of football

  • @articlegomino7852
    @articlegomino7852 3 месяца назад

    I love Jessica. So please in terms of the complaints , what if the lady's sense of communication is very poor and you keep complaining. She tells you she will change but still nothing seems to change. What do you do

  • @Pjblaze
    @Pjblaze 3 месяца назад +20

    Why should have to work so hard to get a woman.. ?????

    • @iboroakan8748
      @iboroakan8748 3 месяца назад +6

      @@Pjblaze I stopped stressing myself long ago, you don't need to do much to impress anyone who is interested in you.

    • @wethepeoplegh
      @wethepeoplegh 3 месяца назад +3

      Exactly

  • @robertwamutu3880
    @robertwamutu3880 Месяц назад

    Thanks Jesca. However this video stops at: avoid excuses and hangs up. Do something please