LOVE IS A GIFT - Christmas Short Film

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
  • LOVE IS A GIFT.
    *The official and original home of this film.*
    A short film about a man counting down the days to Christmas so he can continue his yearly tradition sparked by a tragic moment from the past.
    Written & Directed by Phil Beastall. Starring Chris Ilston and Natalie Martins.
    Thanks for watching!

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  • @chrisilston
    @chrisilston 5 лет назад +98

    Thank you for everyone's kind comments and likes on 'Love is a Gift' - It was a pleasure to be a part of and my heart goes out to all of you who have related to this film and lost loved ones. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas. x

    • @barrymcgloan4641
      @barrymcgloan4641 Год назад +2

      I hate this video (in a good way) breaks me every time 😭😭😭😭😭
      Such a strong message, please don't ever do a video like this again

    • @davebumpus9154
      @davebumpus9154 10 месяцев назад +4

      Sir, I watch this video every year at Christmas. Lost my mother in 2001, very tough to go through. And I mean for anyone. My favorite parts of this video are the counting down the days, when she calls you poppet (I think that’s right, I’m from America so not sure lol), and when she says this will be my last tape and, through tears, you’re grown enough that you know inside you have to accept it. With tears in your eyes, your face is saying ok, I understand momma. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video. You changed peoples lives with your work. I appreciate it, and you sir. Ty Dave

    • @elisabethairey4241
      @elisabethairey4241 9 месяцев назад

      Can you please tell me the name of the music please🙏

    • @cathyprice2029
      @cathyprice2029 9 месяцев назад +3

      I lost my mum at 13, the pain never dies a friend sent me this, very emotional over it just turned 30 x

    • @johnshoesmith2646
      @johnshoesmith2646 8 месяцев назад +1

      Truly amazing.

  • @Asiablue
    @Asiablue 5 лет назад +517

    My mum died seven years ago. I’d give anything to hear her voice again. I’d love to make a coffee for dad and sit with both of them for an evening of game shows on the TV. The heart is a place of memories that can never be replaced. Love to all, and Merry Christmas.

    • @paulhardman373
      @paulhardman373 5 лет назад +4

      💝💘💗💖💟💜

    • @giajbd
      @giajbd 5 лет назад +24

      My Mom died 3 years ago and my Dad died 3 weeks ago today. Yesterday was my first holiday, (Thanksgiving), without a parent to share it with and so I didn’t celebrate or do anything special or go anywhere, nor was I invited to go anywhere. I stayed home and cleaned out their file cabinet to look for important papers. When I want to hear my Mom’s voice I listen to the recording on their answering machine, and I listen to a voice mail my Dad left me in Sept. to hear his voice, it’s all I have. Losing parents hurts like hell.

    • @sallyconrad8466
      @sallyconrad8466 5 лет назад +14

      @@giajbd I am so sorry for your losses. I lost my mom and dad in an accident 20 years ago, in late October. We were very close, with no unsaid words. We were lucky that way. Still, facing both of their birthdays and Thanksgiving in late November, and Christmas like minutes afterward, was incrediby painful. Seek out friends, a listening ear, a place to be. It helps. Hoping for peace for you.

    • @imdumpster2055
      @imdumpster2055 5 лет назад +10

      I'm very sorry to hear that.I wish you hope in the midst of sorrow,I wish you love in the midst of pain. Remeber there is always people who care.

    • @giajbd
      @giajbd 5 лет назад +4

      Sally Conrad, thank you. giajbd

  • @fob1xxl
    @fob1xxl Год назад +26

    I relieve those words in my heart every year since 2017. That was when I lost the love of my life after 40 years of being together. There wasn't a day that went by where we didn't say "I love you" to each other. Love is truly a gift and I was so very fortunate that God's gift came to me 12/31/77 on New Years Eve. I was so lucky to have been loved.

  • @janicegallagher8426
    @janicegallagher8426 5 лет назад +56

    My mum died 42 years ago, i was 13 i would give anything to hear her voice again..

  • @vintagebrew1057
    @vintagebrew1057 5 лет назад +50

    Another year without my wonderful Mum. I still look for you in crowds. Love never dies.

  • @mrartweeks
    @mrartweeks 4 года назад +13

    Did not expect to wake up on a Sunday morning bawling my eyes out. Lost my mama in 1995. If you are a smoker, please quit while you still can. Because you might leave behind many that love you.

  • @CLASSICALJAJ
    @CLASSICALJAJ 8 месяцев назад +5

    I lost my Mam only 8.5 days ago - I’ve always loved this and I keep replaying videos over and over.

  • @Clissoldkid
    @Clissoldkid 5 лет назад +28

    I came here via the ITV News website, which said "The £50 Christmas video that will make you cry".
    Yeah, right, I thought.
    But yeah - they were right.

  • @patroch11
    @patroch11 4 года назад +6

    My mum died in 1984 when I was 25: she died of a heart attack and had no time to say anything: not even goodbye. I love to pretend she would have done this same tapes had she had the time. This short is so powerful: Love is indeed a gift that no one should ever underestimate.

  • @tudorfanman2620
    @tudorfanman2620 5 лет назад +197

    Beautiful. And for all us 'boys' who'll be missing their Mum on Christmas Day.

    • @christinerose4839
      @christinerose4839 2 года назад +1

      Truly heartfelt condolences to all missing there mums in the U K and moms in the U S or anywhere in this world🌲

    • @williamzondersen
      @williamzondersen 2 года назад

      Beautiful- True.

  • @04AiZ
    @04AiZ 5 лет назад +34

    I wish I could hear my Mum's voice again.. She died 23 years ago and I'm almost 30.

  • @maryanneb1122
    @maryanneb1122 5 лет назад +195

    Thank you....my 37 year old son was murdered this January, it would be what I would say to him...as a Mum...

    • @pauliewalnuts3040
      @pauliewalnuts3040 5 лет назад +19

      Maryanne Beare My god, how utterly awful for you. Sending you love x

    • @maryanneb1122
      @maryanneb1122 5 лет назад +4

      Paulie Walnuts Thank you so much Paulie..I truly appreciate it🙏🏼xxx

    • @pauliewalnuts3040
      @pauliewalnuts3040 5 лет назад +6

      Maryanne Beare I will make sure I give my mum an extra squeeze when I see her. Thinking of you Maryanne x

    • @maryanneb1122
      @maryanneb1122 5 лет назад +7

      Paulie Walnuts Please do...I had my lovely son stay with me for 20 precious days b4 he left on his trip..it will be exactly a year tomorrow when I said goodbye to him at Heathrow.
      Have wonderful squeezes whenever you can🙏🏼💕Take care xxx

    • @teamcrumb
      @teamcrumb 5 лет назад +4

      xxxxxxxxxxxx to you Maryanne, so sorry for your loss xx

  • @TheIrishSetterGal
    @TheIrishSetterGal 5 лет назад +97

    I lost my mum at age 16, I'm now 55 and this has made me miss her even more. To hear her voice once more would be the best Christmas present ever. I'm a blubbering wreck - awesome video - thank you for doing it xx

    • @dlamb2840
      @dlamb2840 5 лет назад +2

      Denise Armstrong you are not alone. This film hit me like a hammer. I’m 55 as well and lost my mum on 27/11 /04. It’s a long time now, but still tears me apart.
      I wish you well. X

    • @Johnny-sj9sj
      @Johnny-sj9sj 5 лет назад +1

      Denise, me too. My mother passed in 1986 and I miss her every day. I have a big stack of tapes, the old reel-to-reel of family home conversations. I have never heard them, not just because I haven't got an old-fashioned tape-player, but I'm not sure how I could handle it. Damn. All this feedback about this most touching video has kick-started my search for a tape-player. Best wishes and thank you for your comment.

    • @nartarlyiatremaynne1239
      @nartarlyiatremaynne1239 2 года назад

      Denise I concur with your sentiment 100%.
      Your Mummy missed your prom, teaching you to drive and assisting you on wedding day.
      My Heart goes out to you. 💟💟💟💟
      Australia

    • @sarahw3007
      @sarahw3007 2 года назад

      I hear you Denise im the same would love to hear them x

    • @charlesmandus574
      @charlesmandus574 Год назад

      I am 56 now, lost my mother in 2013, all of a sudden my monitor looks very blurry. I miss my mom too. Excellent commercial.

  • @iBDWR
    @iBDWR 5 лет назад +384

    I've never seen a short film this powerful before in my life! You are a bloody genius for making this 😭

    • @teamcrumb
      @teamcrumb 5 лет назад +2

      it's not an advert!

    • @lorraineedwards2371
      @lorraineedwards2371 5 лет назад +2

      @@teamcrumb It may not be an advert as such but it carries s most important message. Simple and real. This man could make beautiful adverts for the right people. Not having a company pay millions when people on our streets are homeless and cold. 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀

    • @shaedesigns2198
      @shaedesigns2198 5 лет назад +6

      teamcrumb Actually.....it’s been billed as a Christmas commercial/short. Even the guy who made it said as much-he was inspired by a Christmas commercial and came up with this as his take on the whole Christmas commercial THING😉He said the product/gift he was hoping to promote was/is”LOVE”.

    • @marion3386
      @marion3386 3 года назад +1

      My son is 32 and I wish I could send him a message when I’m gone not to soon I hope. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Xx

    • @lance9249
      @lance9249 Год назад

      @@marion3386 Start recording

  • @SCP01986
    @SCP01986 5 лет назад +121

    Now this is a Christmas advert. I almost lost my mother to stage three cancer two years ago and she's still with me today, what a fantastic film to dedicate to the families of those who have lost loved ones. Love is forever.

    • @jon-ue6rf
      @jon-ue6rf 5 лет назад +3

      My mum has stage 4 and I fear this will be her last Christmas :-( this video touched me in ways Ive not been before, I lost my dad in 2010 and I wish I had tapes of his voice, what a good idea his mum had, keep strong people....

    • @catherinerostanti1738
      @catherinerostanti1738 5 лет назад +1

      Semi Perfect Cell. I lost my lovely Mum a couple of months ago and your comment is really thoughtful and sincere, thank you.

    • @Squab1972
      @Squab1972 2 года назад +1

      My mum died on 8th December 2021, I have a memorial ring with her ashes so that she is close to me, I miss her everyday and would give anything for one last conversation with her.

  • @shazzalinda6
    @shazzalinda6 5 лет назад +16

    A reminder that Xmas isn't about how much you spend or how much you want, it's not about material goods it's about those that matter to you, those you've lost, and to appreciate those you have now. I miss you every single day Dad, I love you so much 💔

  • @lmbetteridge1974
    @lmbetteridge1974 5 лет назад +67

    My mum died 30 weeks ago. I am struggling to remember her voice. We had planned to video her, but the cancer and sepsis took her 8 weeks into a three month terminal diagnosis. Thank you for such a beautiful video. I am crying heavily, which I needed as I haven't cried in a while, no tears would come. You deserve success from this poignant video.

    • @nickoxley2746
      @nickoxley2746 5 лет назад +1

      Lots of love to you Lisa

    • @markr8604
      @markr8604 5 лет назад +2

      Awwww shizzzz. This breaks my heart Lisa. I hope you find the beauty in her passing. In that I mean those moments you're alone... And DO remember the little things, I'm sure they will come to you. All the best x

    • @lmbetteridge1974
      @lmbetteridge1974 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you Nick and Marky.

    • @teamcrumb
      @teamcrumb 5 лет назад +1

      much love to you Lisa xx

    • @peterwarn3578
      @peterwarn3578 5 лет назад +2

      They never leave us. We just can't see them. But they always are around us . God bless .

  • @paulshut34
    @paulshut34 Год назад +3

    If this doesn't bring a tear to your eye, nothing will.

  • @robertrigney2257
    @robertrigney2257 5 лет назад +1

    This to me is what Christmas is all about.. reflection remember respect. We are visitors for a short time and when we lose someone. Anyone that pain is never far away.

  • @riblomf1982
    @riblomf1982 5 лет назад +146

    whoever is chopping very strong Onions near me please stop.... pass the tissues. I applaud this sir, well done

  • @Tracy137
    @Tracy137 5 лет назад +47

    My mum died ten years ago this year and yet I'm still sitting here bawling my eyes out at this because it was the most touching thing I've seen this year. I miss my mum more now than when she first died because I think I was just numb, despite the tears I shed back then. It didn't feel real and I kept expecting her to come back and say 'Gotchya!' or maybe I was just wishing she would. But now, my daughter's grown up from the nearly 11 year old the year she died to 21 now and I realise......I can't talk to her like I did and there is NO coming back; I've gone back to the last ten years . I would give ANYTHING for just one more hug, and a single chance to say "mum, I'm sorry for all those times I was a little cow and I might've hurt you. I'm so sorry...." So if your mum is still with you - please, give her a hug. If there's anything you want to say - do it NOW. Don't regret not saying it like me. THANK YOU to Phil Beastall for this wonderful video. John Lewis could learn so much from you on what REALLY matters to people at this time of year.

    • @samrichman4544
      @samrichman4544 5 лет назад

      Sending you love xx

    • @MsPinkwolf
      @MsPinkwolf 5 лет назад

      Your mum knows you didn't mean those things. We all say things we regret. My children did to me but I know it's just part of growing up and I don't love them any less for it. Please don't feel bad about it.

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 5 лет назад

      @@MsPinkwolf & Sam Richman -- thank you both. You're very kind. I know my mother in law says I'm a pathetic weakling for still missing my mum after so long (but my husband and daughter do too). My mum was my best friend too though and we were super close and I still miss our daily chats. So thank you both for helping me not feel like a failure because I still miss her enough to cry sometimes. THANK YOU.

    • @MsPinkwolf
      @MsPinkwolf 5 лет назад

      You are not weak and your mother in law doesn't sound very nice. There is no time limit on how long you can miss someone. I lost my dad 10 years ago and still miss him so much too.

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 5 лет назад +1

      @@MsPinkwolf - I'm so sorry for your loss - I know what the death of a beloved parent can do and the whole it leavs behind. She's not and neither was her late husband. She never lets a chance go to tell me what a failure I am and how much she hates me and that I'll probably die before (I'm not in good health even though I'm only 53, but she is 95 so I'm hopeful I can outlast her), when I was suicidal some years back she made a big thing of how much better off my husband and daughter would be without me....."they could start again". She won't be missed, much like her husband isn't. I think that's why my husband misses my mum so much - she was like a real mum to him and absolutely adored him.....Its coming up to her birthday which is why I think I get so melancholy...SORRY, I'm so sorry. I'm so selfish.....I really am sorry your dad's not with you either, I really hate anyone going through such pain..

  • @topgmotiv8tion
    @topgmotiv8tion 5 лет назад +8

    I lost my mum 21st december 2005, i was 22 at the time. Thought about her pretty much every day since, i can still hear her voice and laugh when i think of her. RIP MUM, until we meet again X.

  • @GlenCassar1
    @GlenCassar1 2 года назад +1

    I miss my mum. It’ll be 6 years next week. Even though I’m 30 all I want is a hug from her and to be able to chat to her and hear her voice

  • @Vampirebear13
    @Vampirebear13 4 года назад +2

    My Mom died Dec.16th,2018 & this really tears me up. Great video.

  • @J-L79
    @J-L79 5 лет назад +4

    I can't remember my dad's voice at all but wish he could have met my daughter....
    He died when I was 20 and I think I miss him, I say I "think" because my memories of him are him mostly being unapproachable because of work.
    But at least I'm not angry anymore...
    When he was in hospital he turned into the "dad" I wish he would have been all along, instead of an unapproachable father.
    I also missed my chance to say goodbye "literally by minutes" he didn't recognise me at all.
    That anger and guilt ate away at me 24 7 besides other issues at that time, leaving no room for grieving or happiness or anything positive.
    Instead I did everything possible to drive out that feeling even if it destroyed who I was, because bad memories felt better than the anger and guilt that poisoned me.
    I was honoured by his last gesture.
    Nurses said that when he was in a coma, he fought and held on very hard until I got to the hospital. I whispered some words to let him know that I was there and he let go.
    In a way, I'm happy that he didn't see what my life is like now, apart from the one thing I'm most proud of "my daughter", something tells me that he would have made a better grandfather.
    Bittersweet time of my life. So much wasted time on anger.
    A close cousin passed away on Christmas eve 2 years later. She didn't even get a chance to spend Christmas with her new baby" the kid she always wanted" another emotional shit storm. Between the two losses I spent too much time being angry and depressed and kept away from family, which led to my first big panic attack, but that's what it took to make deal with the emotions.
    It's a beautiful, powerful and emotional film, well done to the people involved...
    Happy Christmas to all

  • @fionabrett1109
    @fionabrett1109 5 лет назад +34

    Absolutely magnificent. My Ma died in 1997 and her birthday genuinely...Christmas Day. She died in the spring so I always get some daffodils or narcissi for her day. Now I have 3c ovarian cancer I am feeling more distressed than usual by the crass commercialism of Christmas. This beautiful film has restored some balance. Thank you.

    • @clareandebonyx
      @clareandebonyx 5 лет назад +3

      please don't let trivial stresses make you upset, live your life the best you can now. fight and love and smile, take each day as it comes as life is beautiful even If you sometimes feel otherwise. you will beat this.

    • @fionabrett1109
      @fionabrett1109 5 лет назад +2

      @@clareandebonyx Thank you SO much! I have just made a small photographic book as therapy. I will contact my local Maggie's centre and will run the idea past my medical team if it will help other women. I used to be half a star as an exhibiting photographer ( monochrome )so working in digital/colour has been positive. :-)

    • @kuldeepjsingh6786
      @kuldeepjsingh6786 4 года назад

      @@fionabrett1109 please tell me what is your health condition today

    • @kuldeepjsingh6786
      @kuldeepjsingh6786 4 года назад

      @@fionabrett1109 i will pray 4 u and within small period of time u will be fine and healthy believe me

    • @fionabrett1109
      @fionabrett1109 4 года назад +1

      @@kuldeepjsingh6786 Thank you.I hope all is well in your life. Fiona

  • @Rudi1752
    @Rudi1752 5 лет назад +1

    What a gift! Wish I could listen to Dad, he was only 30 when cancer took him away from his 9 year old son!

  • @ethansissyshouseofgames5914
    @ethansissyshouseofgames5914 5 лет назад +7

    Lost my dad 11 years ago to cancer. I can remember him recording his singing onto cassettes. I wish I could hear his voice again..just one more late night talk. But I know he's in a much better place. Love you dad always.

  • @DanLTjoe
    @DanLTjoe Год назад +8

    I watch this one every year and it never fails to impress me and make my eyes water up!❤️🥺

  • @christopherhendry1571
    @christopherhendry1571 3 года назад +5

    Although this is a predominantly Christmas advert I am revisiting this again now on mother's Day. I lost my mum 9 years ago in may. She was a beautiful kind hearted selfless lady who always put others before herself. It sounds strange but I regularly watch this advert to make myself cry. I still don't feel I have fully mourned or accepted that she has gone. This really hits home to me. All I can say to people is really make the effort to spend time and love your mum's because once they have gone all you will have left is guilt and regret for the things you didn't do. ♥️

  • @nartarlyiatremaynne1239
    @nartarlyiatremaynne1239 2 года назад +1

    Our neighbors Mummy died 3 months ago and watching this made me brave and I took a small decorated christmas tree and invited him for Christmas eve dinner and for Christmas day to join with our family.
    We both wept and hugged as he exclaimed that he was too sad to celebrate Christmas.
    My Darling husband invited Carter to come on dog walks to the park with him at around 5pm each evening and have a swing and slide and a giggle.
    My heartfelt gratitude for opening my heart to someone who may be on their own.
    Australia

  • @robfriar6570
    @robfriar6570 2 года назад +1

    My Mom died on September 15, 1982 between 9:30 and 10 p.m. on a Saturday. Before she died, I asked for her forgiveness for the times I didn't appreciate all she did for me out of love. That brought some peace but here are times when my heart aches for her. I know, I truly believe I'll see her again. But I beg those who might read this, please don't put off speaking words of love, appreciation and seeking forgiveness, if it's needed. let someone know NOW and not after a death, how much they mean to you.

  • @clansome
    @clansome 2 года назад +41

    After the last couple of years we've had, this will be very poignant to anyone and everyone who has lost a loved one. I first saw this in the run up to Christmas 2019, who knew then what was just around the corner. Think it was a Facebook share where I first saw it and I've shared it many times since then. This deserved awards then and still deserves them now. A CLASSIC.

  • @silvia1403
    @silvia1403 3 года назад +11

    This video is one of the best I've ever seen in my whole life. It describes love at its purest. ❤️

  • @Squab1972
    @Squab1972 2 года назад +1

    I lost my mum recently, I would give anything to have one last conversation with her and tell her how much I loved her.

  • @aliciaarguelles9340
    @aliciaarguelles9340 5 лет назад +1

    Beautiful ... I cherish my phone mailbox.. every saved message .. ❤️

  • @Wastelander86
    @Wastelander86 5 лет назад +72

    11 Dislikes? How can anyone dislike this? Brilliant story and the true meaning of Christmas. John Lewis should definitely hire Phil Beastall for their future Christmas adverts. Well done, liked and subscribed.

    • @nehan65
      @nehan65 2 года назад +3

      probably accident. Easily done on mobile devices. Ive done it myself by mistake.

    • @barrymcgloan4641
      @barrymcgloan4641 Год назад +2

      I only dislike it because it makes me cry every time 😭😭😭 such a strong message. Best Xmas advert ever

    • @nartarlyiatremaynne1239
      @nartarlyiatremaynne1239 Год назад +1

      Jason I concur with your sentiment 100%♡
      Australia

  • @GianfrancoDeG
    @GianfrancoDeG 5 лет назад +5

    That's love. That's life. This is the only real spirit of Christmas.

  • @rjschu
    @rjschu 5 лет назад +1

    My mom died in 2004. My stepmom died in 2012 and a woman who was like a 2nd mother to me also died in 2012. I wish I could have one more day with them. Their deaths have taught me to cherish my family and friends and not take anyone for granted. Great job Phil. Thank you...

  • @autumnwhispers5810
    @autumnwhispers5810 2 года назад +1

    This why we are creating a safe place to capture these voices so they will never be lost!

  • @dawid96442
    @dawid96442 4 года назад +10

    When I heard "Hi Chris it's mum" I started crying. So beautiful film. I had to watch it on part. Merry christmas everyone 🎄

  • @mufubeats2950
    @mufubeats2950 2 года назад +3

    It’s that time of year when I come back and watch this short film and have a little cry. I struggle to cry and crying is healthy. This video helps me release the anger and upset I hold onto.

  • @damianpittam
    @damianpittam 5 лет назад

    My mum died in 1985 when I was 11. I would give anything to hear her voice again.

  • @jonwilliams6821
    @jonwilliams6821 9 месяцев назад +2

    2023 and I'm back here again. This is so powerful. What I'd give to hear my mums or dads voice again.

  • @wufflesthespider
    @wufflesthespider 5 лет назад +11

    Lost my Mum 7 years ago now, I'm a broken man watching this. Absolutely beautiful film Phil. Thank you.

    • @wufflesthespider
      @wufflesthespider 2 года назад

      You "hearting" my comment has just reminded me about this gorgeous film. Thank you again.

  • @theTruthLifeNWay
    @theTruthLifeNWay 5 лет назад +1

    I don't remember my Mum's voice, I was 3 when she died, She was 28, June 29th 1984.
    Love and Miss you Mum more than words could ever say.
    A hole in my heart that no one could fill.
    Until we meet again, For that coffee and chat I've always dreamed of and yearned for.
    Bernadette McGuinness
    21 July 1955 - 29 June 1984
    Love Never Dies ❤

  • @Brouven
    @Brouven 5 лет назад

    I lost my mum on Christmas Adam, this will be my third Xmas without her! To hear her whisper I love you just one more time would be worth more than all the money in the world... Her passing wasn't a peaceful one and it left my family broken - the sadness of it all really hits home this time of year so yeah I can relate to this video.
    If you still have your mum or dad, cherish the Dickens out of them, because when they're gone they're gone. 😭

  • @SuperCHERISHED
    @SuperCHERISHED 2 года назад +6

    Touching! The man’s home looked so clean, organized and attractive. He indeed had a very precious gift from his mother.

    • @barrymcgloan4641
      @barrymcgloan4641 Год назад

      That what you took from the video? Fuckun hell 😭😭😭😭😭 guy had a clean house, he did miss his mum though

  • @smthompson89
    @smthompson89 Год назад +15

    Every year around Christmas I’m reminded of this, and it never fails to make me bawl like a baby. Very, very good. 👌🏼

    • @samerwehbe1773
      @samerwehbe1773 Год назад

      Me too

    • @samerwehbe1773
      @samerwehbe1773 Год назад

      Its my second year watching the video

    • @K-M1
      @K-M1 11 месяцев назад

      Gets me every time. Only Christmas advert/short film to ever make me cry.

    • @smthompson89
      @smthompson89 11 месяцев назад

      @@K-M1genuinely have to mentally prepare myself to watch it. It’s so simple yet brilliant at the same time.

    • @samerwehbe1773
      @samerwehbe1773 8 месяцев назад +1

      And today its my third year❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @michaelkeely4229
    @michaelkeely4229 4 года назад +1

    I lost my mother 9 years ago I would do anything to be able to hear her voice again the holidays are just not the same without her but one day I will see her again I hope everybody has a merry Christmas a Happy New Year be nice to each other

  • @Morphious117
    @Morphious117 Год назад +2

    My mom died 21 years ago and I’ve watched this every year for last few years since it came out, around this time when it’s my birthday. Makes me cry every time such a lovely short movie. Love you mom

  • @karofont3659
    @karofont3659 5 лет назад +6

    Whoaaa. This is how you make people cry and all emotional. John Lewis watch and learn cause you’ve lost your way

    • @antoniademetri
      @antoniademetri 5 лет назад

      Karolina Fontaine ruclips.net/video/pSLOnR1s74o/видео.html

  • @1J4ck1
    @1J4ck1 3 года назад +3

    at this time of the year I come back and see again this wonderful video. I cry my eyes out and then share it with friends on facebook. I haven't lost any of my parents and I feel privileged for that. thank you for this reminder that love is above all, the greatest gift

  • @Jinka1950
    @Jinka1950 2 года назад

    Heart rendering. 55 yrs ago December 20th My dad was killed in the coal mines. His funeral was Xmas Eve morning. An indelible mark on my life ….. forever.

  • @robertsnare1411
    @robertsnare1411 4 года назад +2

    Seemingly, there’s 111 people with no heart or soul. One of the most powerful things I’ve ever seen.

  • @garethsmith6793
    @garethsmith6793 5 лет назад +7

    Greatest Christmas ad ever, I know it's about his mum but God it makes me think of my dad, I just wish I could thank him personally

  • @Jayke1981
    @Jayke1981 5 лет назад +21

    Just caught the end of your interview on GMB this morning, so to get the context, I had to search for your video. Man, I'm in tears! It's almost 10 years since I lost my mum, and I lost my dad at Christmas 21 yrs ago, and this really gets you in the feels. Brilliantly made, brilliantly edited. Needs more recognition. Great job, Phil.

  • @cm2130
    @cm2130 3 года назад +1

    It’s my birthday tomorrow and coincidentally my name is Chris, my mom died back in 2000 and this short movie always brings a tear to my eye. Love you mom

  • @begovac5414
    @begovac5414 2 года назад +1

    Years ago my cousin went for a military service.When he got his vacation,he decided to come home.His mother died night before a day he supposed to come.When he was exiting the bus,our cousin running to him told him that his mom died.He couldn't believe it.My parents brought him into our home.I was seven years old.He was sitting on a chair and he was crying so loud.I was just staring at him.As I grow older and busy with our life's,one day I was home alone and that memory come to me so I started crying like him.Very sad storie.

  • @davechard1143
    @davechard1143 4 года назад +6

    Probably the most powerful and emotional short video I have ever seen.

  • @Danmako75
    @Danmako75 5 лет назад +5

    Lost my mum about 6 years ago now. Sitting here balling my eyes out. Thank you, don't forget the love. Merry Christmas.

  • @paulhutton8197
    @paulhutton8197 2 года назад +2

    Totally crying my eyes out. I lost my mom. To hear her voice at Christmas, I would give anything. Truly touched me heart.

  • @freyanoor6794
    @freyanoor6794 Год назад +2

    I have watched this straight after attending an Awards evening presented by Phil as an ex Alumini at his Denbigh secondary school. He knows how to capture the feelings around loss and his clip is short and poignant. Thank you Phil.
    Cherish your loved ones, life is so fragile. 😢❤

  • @noelleconway4733
    @noelleconway4733 5 лет назад +4

    My mother died just after Christmas when I was 9 years old. This has made me cry my eyes out. Fantastic x

  • @danlucas4190
    @danlucas4190 5 лет назад +22

    Just Wow! Took me completely by surprise and brought tears to my eyes. What an amazing advert for life. Take a bow Phil, that's truly amazing!

  • @kayleighholland877
    @kayleighholland877 5 лет назад +2

    My 8 year old son and I both cried watching this! Very powerful message.

  • @carginagh13
    @carginagh13 5 лет назад +2

    Found myself watching this again today. Thank you.

  • @moonbeamtipi5598
    @moonbeamtipi5598 4 года назад +6

    Oh my God, this just made me tear up totally. To all of those who miss their loved ones, I am so sorry for you. Take care of those you love, and always make time count. Wishing everybody a beautiful Christmas.

  • @adudewithachannellifeisgoo4566
    @adudewithachannellifeisgoo4566 5 лет назад +7

    I just saw this featured in an ITV news segment and I immediately came to RUclips to watch it in full, gotta say this really is beautiful, simple and powerful 👌👏❤️

  • @onlychildtonia67
    @onlychildtonia67 5 лет назад

    My mom died two years ago from Uterine Cancer. This video just reminds me how much her death still hurts. I’m crying while typing this. Losing a loved one is no joke. You’re just forced into a new way of life. It’s a new and different reality. Powerful short film.

  • @rasabuca610
    @rasabuca610 Год назад +1

    I'VE NEVER SEEN A SHORT FILM THIS POWERFUL BEFORE IN MY LIFE. BRAVO 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @davidthompson-trace9458
    @davidthompson-trace9458 2 года назад +7

    I never tire of watching this video because it packs so much into two minutes and conveys the message of what it is about so well. Hats off you Phil, Chris the actor and Natalie who was brilliant at voicing Chris' mother's recorded message.

  • @threecats8219
    @threecats8219 5 лет назад +4

    Ripped my throat out; shed many tears.

  • @electrojones
    @electrojones 5 лет назад

    My mother died a few years ago and I think of her every. Single. Day. You never forget.

  • @KopCole
    @KopCole Год назад

    You don’t realise just how much you’ll miss her till she’s no longer here. My mum passed in 2019 and there’s not a day that passes I don’t think of her. To hear her voice call my name would be the most amazing gift I could receive at Christmas. Awesome vid.

  • @EmmaaSmithh12
    @EmmaaSmithh12 5 лет назад +17

    Fantastic! The only short film that’s needed every Christmas to remind us, Love is all we need!!! Great job Phil xx

  • @lolasmith3348
    @lolasmith3348 5 лет назад +3

    This video makes me cry every time I watch it. So powerful. Keep your loved ones close xx

  • @burrows499.
    @burrows499. Год назад +1

    I spent Christmas alone this year and gave my mum a hard time because of it. Then stumbled upon this. Jesus! What a prick I have been!

    • @samantharossiter8808
      @samantharossiter8808 Год назад

      Hey there is still time - ❤️ you’ve realised your mistake petal now go gently and make it up with your mum x god bless you x

  • @avyi1962
    @avyi1962 5 лет назад +2

    Sobbing my eyes out. lost my mum 7 years ago and miss her every moment. would love to hear her voice. Despite the sadness this is a beautiful advert. thank you

  • @P5MPresents
    @P5MPresents 5 лет назад +4

    Absolutely beautiful, it shows that true creative genius comes from the heart and not the wallet.

  • @caroloneill4302
    @caroloneill4302 5 лет назад +4

    What a wonderful and thought provoking short film. Thank you

  • @Kanders3552
    @Kanders3552 5 лет назад +1

    I lost my mom in a snorkeling accident on April 4th, on April 1st she had her accident. It was 2015 and I was 16 turning 17 in May. I'd give any day to hear her voice. She was 58 years old and she rescued my sisters and I. My sisters and I were adopted from Russia. I was an only child until she adopted me with 3 other girls. I'd love to have recordings of her.

  • @popazz1
    @popazz1 5 лет назад

    Thank You, what a beautiful, heart warming film. For my parents, Dorothy Mary Dixon .. 07/10.1922 - 19/02/1982 and John Robert Dixon : 27/06/1928 - 23/06/1983. Still missed today. Treasure those you love.

  • @rebeccaameyofficial
    @rebeccaameyofficial 5 лет назад +4

    watching this again because I felt like I needed a good cry

  • @TomMcClean
    @TomMcClean 5 лет назад +37

    Hey Phil,
    You are the man!
    Well done!
    I wish you and the wife and kids a lovely healthy, safe family time this Christmas.
    Best wishes from belfast

  • @Greenockianx
    @Greenockianx 4 года назад +1

    Very moving. Beautifully considered and presented.

  • @easypianobeautifulmusic2974
    @easypianobeautifulmusic2974 4 года назад +2

    That really got me crying😢 This is a beautiful story.......love is a gift from above........all i have to say now is... this story is a reminder for all of us to remember love is a blessing a gift and all that you need to have

  • @CrypticCharm
    @CrypticCharm 5 лет назад +4

    my dad died two years ago, i would give anything to have dinner with him, make him a cup of tea and just hear his voice again.

  • @DancinJim
    @DancinJim 5 лет назад +5

    This video literally made my heart jump out my chest, and I almost had a panic attack. Really had to get it together after the initial moments with the cassette recorder.

  • @zanablueivzv6047
    @zanablueivzv6047 5 лет назад +2

    I lost my Dad 5 years ago, since then Christmas is just not the same 😢...What a beaitiful video, saw it on Itv this morning, every time I watch it I can’t stop crying. You are an incredible soul! ♥️

  • @althelas
    @althelas 5 лет назад +1

    Last year my youngest sister died suddenly. She was my only link to the rest of my family and we called each other every other week to chat and for her to tell me all the new crazyness that had happened at my parents and my siblings. For weeks after her death I would grab my phone on Saturday and start to dial her number until I remembered that she is not there anymore. The only thing I have from her is a voicemail message she left me a few weeks before her death and I dread the day when the phone dies and the message is gone. Thank you for this video to show us what Christmas is really about. No matter how many gifts are under the tree or how expensive they are nothing can replace the people we loved and lost.

  • @fencingsculptor
    @fencingsculptor 5 лет назад +3

    Really well executed short. Beautiful, beautiful work.
    Also, I am now an absolute snotty, wreck of a mess.

  • @julieandrews7219
    @julieandrews7219 5 лет назад +5

    Well done what a lovely film with an important message....I lost my dad this year.....I've just sobbed and hugged my dog....he looks a bit worried x

  • @entrelesmainsdupotier-arte5167
    @entrelesmainsdupotier-arte5167 2 года назад

    2014-2022 ! j'ai versé des larmes. As a mum I had Tears! tears, tears! great job.

  • @AndrewPkr
    @AndrewPkr 5 лет назад

    Well I wept and wept once I realised what was going to happen. I lost my mother to cancer on Christmas Eve morning eight years ago (2010). Christmas has never been the same, not sad just not the same. We see her every Christmas Eve and say our thanks for having such a special and wonderful person in our lives who fought bravely till the end. The night before she died my mum apologised for 'spoiling' all the future Christmases to come.....I am glad to say it hasn't, it's a moment to stop and be grateful for all that she had done for us. My mother loved Christmas with her children and grandchildren and it is that memory that we all remember. Cherish those you love and build memories that will last through the dark times for they will pass, I am glad I did. Merry Christmas.......

  • @S.Jwelsh
    @S.Jwelsh 5 лет назад +8

    This was published 4 Years ago, shame its not getting all the credit, better late than never I guess. And Thoughts to all those that have lost their Parents or loved ones over the Christmas period

  • @ultimateklubber
    @ultimateklubber 5 лет назад +46

    And the 2018 Christmas ad award goes to.......

    • @teamcrumb
      @teamcrumb 5 лет назад +3

      it's not an advert, it's just a sweet film

  • @govcalif
    @govcalif 5 лет назад +2

    The single tear speaks more than any posh John Lewis ad ever will.

    • @christopherhendry1571
      @christopherhendry1571 3 года назад

      The thing is he is not trying to sell us anything that's costs us money only very simple values keep your loved ones close and tell them you love them

  • @lorraineedwards2371
    @lorraineedwards2371 5 лет назад

    Lost my Dad many years ago. My Mum is still here but health is failing and I dread the day she leaves us. To me it's the same need with my Dad. I would so love to be with him one more time and give him the biggest loving hug. Talk with him. We didn't get s chance to say goodbye he was taken suddenly. Who can ever prepare for such a loss. The bottom fell out of my world on loosing my Dad and the rest of my world will cave in also when my Mum goes too. Thankyou for such a lovely heartwarming tear jerking and thought provoking video. £50 and by a genius. Firms like John Lewis etc. could learn a good lesson here. A lesson on how simple love is to behold. Also the meaning of the Christian Christmas. These days it's lost to who has the best trainers or who has the latest video games etc. I never always had what I wanted but I was happy with my lot. Especially with my Mummy and Daddy there for us. It's not the same anymore for many reasons, all the wrong reasons. Your video shows how it really should be. Sending you all the love in the world for Christmas and a good New Year. Blessed be. 🐞🐞🐝🐝🌹🌹🥀🥀🌷🌷🌺🌺🏵️🏵️🌼🌼💮💮🐞🐞🐝🐝🐝

  • @seagreentangerine2065
    @seagreentangerine2065 5 лет назад +10

    I've just seen your powerful & very moving Video over on The Daily Mail. There are no words, it's possibly the most poignant and emotional film I've watched in a very long time. I am soo thankful I saw it today💕🎆