Now that's how it's done...wemens gain is men's stupidity...all they do at that point is to drop a pill 💊 in your drink and guess what...game over...never drink with strangers...ever...
If you know you will be engaging in this kind of activity. Then get two different hotel rooms. Have one close to the action. The other one far away with all of your belongings. You won't have a problem with theft or a girl waiting on you in the lobby making a seen. Problem solved
Very informative video never been but have friends that have so trying to learn as much as possible to have a good time without over doing it thank you for your personal time to put this info out there✌️✌️ and cheers
Some great insights and observations in this interview. I’m a non-drinker, so if I come to Pattaya or Bangkok, I’m content to suck on a Coke and people watch during the day, then get two girls for an over-nighter. That’s good advice about avoiding the freelancers.
Bryan flowers absolute legend . This is very informative. Funny enough I have been away from Thailand for two years and haven’t had a drop of alcohol. I seem to turn into a raging alcoholic when in Thailand . Why would anyone need to string a working girl along like there is some kind of love affair . Why do that ? These guys are either narcissists or they have a very low self esteem playing with these girls heads but what they don’t realise is they are the ones being played by hardened pros who have been there thousands of times .
I got a lot from this vid, I’ve done my Pattaya apprenticeship years ago but always good to have the basics fresh in my mind. Definitely a must see video before going back to Pattaya
@@geofreypetersonofficial bits I already understood. Eg. Cleanliness, presentation, respect and savvying the cultural differences. What you presented is something all visitors would be wise to tap into.
Hi Geoff. New sub. Great content mate. Coming to Phuket on Monday for sandbox. I’ll be in Thailand for a month. Cannot wait. I’ve made all the mistakes in Thailand but that’s life. Now I’ve learned just to have fun, be a good guy and be truthful . The Thai people are cool. Hopefully see you in Pattaya . Good luck with all your projects.
Basic common sense when it comes to taking women especially freelancers back to your room never have money or valuables outside of your safe including jewellery watches ect-they can't stel much when you don't have anything lying around...
when i worked up in Laem Chabang i would warn new guys as much as i could before they headed down to Pattaya on leave. Classic words of warning, Bar girls dont need love but lots didnt listen to me. Funny but the japanese Snack girls here in Okinawa often go to a gaijin (western) bar after work to find a western guy to sit and drink with as they want a change from sitting with japanese salary men all evening.
A lot of good advice. Either way your all to often swimming in a shark tank while your have a few drinks and that can be very overwhelming. So be on your guard with how much your spending on anything. Many good but also many just out for the dollars and they are very good at what they do. Have fun for one or two nights then get out of Dodge City...fast!!!!$$$$
The 3 day rule is unaffordable now! Don't worry about it. To take a girl longtime for 3 days of barfines and her salary will be close to 14,000 baht! What schmuck is going to pay that? And thats not including her expenses for 3 days! This city is so fucked! It will cost you between $500-$600 US Dollars to take a girl from Soi 6 for 3 days! INSANE! You can watch her play on her phone all day and text other guys right in front of you at Top dollar!
Good convo dudes ! Honestly, what you mentioned at 22:30 definitely frustrated me last time I was there ! 😅 Like, there's almost some favouritism from some of the girls towards certain types of guys e.g. White, Korean, tall, athletic etc. Not saying that my looks are under par, but I definitely felt certain girls were too reserved around me whereas with other guys they were the complete opposite lol .. but its interesting you say that its a test to see how I react .. I never thought of it that way. However, some of these guys just have "it" e.g. 6 pack, charm, charisma, outgoing personality, dress sense etc - & both parties are suckered in to it or play along with it very well. Oh, & that last story about the 5k baht ! - Oh boy, that was almost me 😅
That’s very interesting. I was in Pattaya a few years ago and was nothing like I see in all the videos today. Of course a few years ago was 1975! Hahahaha. Of course I was Air Force too.
"The sex is free..........you are just paying them to leave". I'm stealing that. Forget the 3 day rule........one at most! Far too many of them to just pick one for 3 days. I'm only going back when the soapys are open. 2 with a bottle of Johnny Walker works for me. Thailand is a great weight loss plan if you eat good street food, plenty of noodle soup and walk everywhere. I lose 10 lbs every trip.
Geoffrey and Bryan that was one informative chilled out video lads loved it!! I thought you was a loud arrogant yank at first but you're just as chilled and down to earth as Bryan.... Il be in Thailand for my first time in two weeks cups off tea on me lads 😇😇
this guy sounds like he knows what he's talking about, great video. Anyone know...how does bangkok compare to pattaya? is it worth going to pattaya just for this reason? or is bangkok fine
When I was young, I imagined myself playing the white knight (mostly for a latin girl). Perhaps a bit narcissistic, but as I've aged, I've realized it's not so simple. You can't just ride in and bring someone out of poverty. You kind of can, but there's whatever psychology they develop from being in poverty (hoarder, possibly dealt with abuse, language/communication issues). As told by the Doors in Hyacinth House, "I need a brand new friend who doesn't bother me / I need someone ... who doesn't need me".
name a few bars where they are not BLASTING the MUSIC !!! I hate trying to talk to a GOGO girl where you have to SCREAM at each other in hopes to be heard !
@Bryan I have a couple questions I'D Love for you to answer if you would Plz., 1) Are the Girls STD & drug tested say weekly or monthly? 2) How much salary do they earn on Avg. for working at 1 of your many Bars?, then Plus I assume her share of lady drinks would be added to her salary? Plus whatever she earns if she wants to prostitute herself out to random men, Correct ? 3) If a woman were happy with simply earning a salary, her share of lady drinks & tips. Would you still hire her OR is her prostituting a requirement in order to being hired? Because I've never seen any video addressing these & other similar type questions, Thanks in advance
Soi 6 looks interesting to me. I like the open bar scene. I'm not really into the lounge style bars with the girls dancing on stage. What do you think of Soi 6 and simalar.
I've spent over 20yrs in Thailand was married to a thai I'm from UK.divorced now have a beautiful daughter with her who's 21 now i must have been with a 1,000 girls during that time from the bar and the beach and never had a problem or cought anything
Glad to hear Soi6 back into action. Was there in 2018 and totally loved it. However, I've seen some live streaming videos from Soi6 in some case girls inside the bar which is really crazy for privacy. Is this still happening? Also, have Covid added any restriction to the so called "guest friendly" hotels or things are still the same?
@@geofreypetersonofficial yes, I meant update. Again your video was actually quite good because I'm the guy who is recently divorced and would spill his entire life to a unsuspecting lady.
1:35 The vast majority of the men are probably not pretending and they're doing it because being needed is something that men crave a lot just like women crave being wanted
Never been but it's on my list. Now that things are opening up again. Traveling is becoming a focus. I'm curious to know how to pick up a tour guide? That's All is be interested in. A nice girl to show me around, translate and a buffer between the aggressive ladies.😁
@@geofreypetersonofficial Haven't actually made a plan yet. The last plan I had would have put me in the Philippines right when things closed and I would have been trapped. I had a 4 week scooter tour planned. It's been a while since we could put traveling on the agenda. Still months away for me.
Many of us find it hard to not have an alcoholic drink at a bar, particularly if you are looking for female company. Alcohol, the social lubricant that helps remove shyness. Some guys are naturally ultra confident and forward. I envy those type of guys. But I just can't do it. Too introverted. I need several drinks to feel comfortable and talk freely. May seem silly for those who don't have confidence issues. Then of course lady drinks on top. And if the mood and chemistry feels good enough, asking the lady to go with you. By that stage bar bin is up there and then bar fine and her fee on top. Hence why I limit going out at all now here as I am on lower end of income stream and costs me an arm and a leg. Mostly I just drink from time to time and not have a lady. Can be lonely here as a result (still better than home country). I don't like the online dating sites with loads of fake photoshopped profile images. It's a lottery what they really look like and often charge above the odds and don't reply. Prefer to see the person beforehand in a relaxed setting. Not blaming anyone. My choice. Just the way it is for many of us.
@Bryan Flowers interesting. A lady chooses a profession that entails rythmic movement, sensual expression, and skills of titilation, yet.. does nothing? Hope you are sending that one back to the village
I don't do multiple girls. I do one at a time. Just be honest with them up front. If you make me happy with boom boom I'll put you money in your hand. When I buy a girl a lady drink I also buy a couple more girls a drink as well and tell them I'll be back for them next time. I make sure the girl I end up bar-fining hears it so she understands that I'm a 'butterfly' not looking for Long Game so no hearts are broken.
No need to drink to have fun. Been there done that for many years. I tend to have less troubles more money and fewer regrets when I don’t drink 👍🏻
Oh me too bro, preaching!
@@geofreypetersonofficial I’m a 100%’r if we gonna turn up we turning up to 11. I’d rather smash instead. 😁
Now that's how it's done...wemens gain is men's stupidity...all they do at that point is to drop a pill 💊 in your drink and guess what...game over...never drink with strangers...ever...
@@geofreypetersonofficial coool video , ty
Same here. Apparently there's a bunch of us. Lol
Take Two so they can talk to each other and not get bored of YOU.
LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you know you will be engaging in this kind of activity. Then get two different hotel rooms. Have one close to the action. The other one far away with all of your belongings. You won't have a problem with theft or a girl waiting on you in the lobby making a seen. Problem solved
What a refreshing laid back honest video! Love to see a video about what much older guys need to expect and the doe’s and don’ts ! Respect!👍🏻
The Honesty of this guy is refreshing!!!
Thanks my
Man!
Very informative video never been but have friends that have so trying to learn as much as possible to have a good time without over doing it thank you for your personal time to put this info out there✌️✌️ and cheers
Appreciate that! Lots more to come
You’ve got good content man. This was a top informative video.
I like how real this guy is I’d go to his bars just to have w him I need someone when I go that has vet experience
Great interview. Important viewing for anyone falling into the blame game.
this man you interviewed....no nonsense, blunt, to the point and no BS.....all Westerners need to watch this video.....
like your style brian,your honesty.
Some great insights and observations in this interview. I’m a non-drinker, so if I come to Pattaya or Bangkok, I’m content to suck on a Coke and people watch during the day, then get two girls for an over-nighter. That’s good advice about avoiding the freelancers.
Bryan flowers absolute legend . This is very informative. Funny enough I have been away from Thailand for two years and haven’t had a drop of alcohol. I seem to turn into a raging alcoholic when in Thailand . Why would anyone need to string a working girl along like there is some kind of love affair . Why do that ? These guys are either narcissists or they have a very low self esteem playing with these girls heads but what they don’t realise is they are the ones being played by hardened pros who have been there thousands of times .
Thanks for your insight im happy When people understand/get what we were talking about
cool video ,ty
Legend ?, you give the guy too much credit. He is a pimp, that's a fact jack
Awesome 👍
In other words buy the girls lots of drinks in my bars before you ask them how much .. great philosophy so caring !!
It means spend time build report dont rush
@@geofreypetersonofficialbuild RAPPORT.😉
I got a lot from this vid, I’ve done my Pattaya apprenticeship years ago but always good to have the basics fresh in my mind. Definitely a must see video before going back to Pattaya
Lol here to help 🥸
Great advice from Brian Flowers 😬👍🏼
BF.....legend...... As always, speaks total sense 👍🙂❤
Excellent. Understanding, respectful and informative. Been visiting for many years. Still I got a lot from this. Thx. Fred.
Sense youve been visiting for years im Curious what parts did you find informative and useful?
@@geofreypetersonofficial bits I already understood. Eg. Cleanliness, presentation, respect and savvying the cultural differences. What you presented is something all visitors would be wise to tap into.
@@fredkleckham6864 thanks fred
@@geofreypetersonofficial Ill give you a yell next time Im over.
great perspective given, thank you!
This guys are so chill, I can sit and chat with them for hours. New viewer here, thanks for the great info✌️
Welcome aboard!
Hi Geoff. New sub. Great content mate. Coming to Phuket on Monday for sandbox.
I’ll be in Thailand for a month. Cannot wait. I’ve made all the mistakes in Thailand but that’s life. Now I’ve learned just to have fun, be a good guy and be truthful . The Thai people are cool. Hopefully see you in Pattaya . Good luck with all your projects.
Mistakes are bound to happen especially in Thailand 😂
Can you guys explain what you mean a bit more? Have never been there but would love to go and have fun.
Basic common sense when it comes to taking women especially freelancers back to your room never have money or valuables outside of your safe including jewellery watches ect-they can't stel much when you don't have anything lying around...
when i worked up in Laem Chabang i would warn new guys as much as i could before they headed down to Pattaya on leave. Classic words of warning, Bar girls dont need love but lots didnt listen to me.
Funny but the japanese Snack girls here in Okinawa often go to a gaijin (western) bar after work to find a western guy to sit and drink with as they want a change from sitting with japanese salary men all evening.
That sit and drink thing in japan is so silly to me. I guess people are starving for company. And the saying is ‘bar girls cant eat love’ ! :)
A lot of good advice.
Either way your all to often swimming in a shark tank while your have a few drinks and that can be very overwhelming. So be on your guard with how much your spending on anything. Many good but also many just out for the dollars and they are very good at what they do. Have fun for one or two nights then get out of Dodge City...fast!!!!$$$$
Thanks for the video gents from down under 🇦🇺
The legend Pattaya pariah mentions the 3 day rule in one of his superb vlogs
The 3 day rule is unaffordable now! Don't worry about it. To take a girl longtime for 3 days of barfines and her salary will be close to 14,000 baht! What schmuck is going to pay that? And thats not including her expenses for 3 days! This city is so fucked! It will cost you between $500-$600 US Dollars to take a girl from Soi 6 for 3 days! INSANE! You can watch her play on her phone all day and text other guys right in front of you at Top dollar!
Solid advice!
If you go in as a Butterfly you can't get accused of being a Butterfly later🤣
But you can be a Helicopter, Satellite or Sky Lab as the Ladies say 🤣🤣🤣
Float like a butterfly bang like a son of a B
Great interview and very much in depth! I wish i had watched your video before dating a Thai bar lady 😞
whats the difference between a soapie, gentlemens clubs, go gos etc?
Good convo dudes ! Honestly, what you mentioned at 22:30 definitely frustrated me last time I was there ! 😅 Like, there's almost some favouritism from some of the girls towards certain types of guys e.g. White, Korean, tall, athletic etc. Not saying that my looks are under par, but I definitely felt certain girls were too reserved around me whereas with other guys they were the complete opposite lol .. but its interesting you say that its a test to see how I react .. I never thought of it that way. However, some of these guys just have "it" e.g. 6 pack, charm, charisma, outgoing personality, dress sense etc - & both parties are suckered in to it or play along with it very well. Oh, & that last story about the 5k baht ! - Oh boy, that was almost me 😅
What a great video. Solid no-nonsense advice and insight by someone who knows.
That’s very interesting. I was in Pattaya a few years ago and was nothing like I see in all the videos today. Of course a few years ago was 1975! Hahahaha. Of course I was Air Force too.
Lol this guy!
My mom was a bartender in Vegas my whole life, mind games
Hi
I remember her
"The sex is free..........you are just paying them to leave". I'm stealing that. Forget the 3 day rule........one at most! Far too many of them to just pick one for 3 days. I'm only going back when the soapys are open. 2 with a bottle of Johnny Walker works for me. Thailand is a great weight loss plan if you eat good street food, plenty of noodle soup and walk everywhere. I lose 10 lbs every trip.
Omg yes
❤taught me something
Where is link to Brians Channel please Geoff.
My favourite Brian quote, "You're spoiling my mood!" Ha ha!!!!
Hi Geoff, I just wanna thank you you wer pointed to so many great things
Your welcome bro. Are you new to my channel?
Geoffrey and Bryan that was one informative chilled out video lads loved it!!
I thought you was a loud arrogant yank at first but you're just as chilled and down to earth as Bryan.... Il be in Thailand for my first time in two weeks cups off tea on me lads 😇😇
Damn good interview
this guy sounds like he knows what he's talking about, great video.
Anyone know...how does bangkok compare to pattaya? is it worth going to pattaya just for this reason? or is bangkok fine
Where is Bryan’s spot? Please tell
What a couple of classy guys 😂 😂 😂
Haha I assume you're being sarcastic
This was fantastic thanks to the both of you
Nothing better than the Soapy
When I was young, I imagined myself playing the white knight (mostly for a latin girl). Perhaps a bit narcissistic, but as I've aged, I've realized it's not so simple. You can't just ride in and bring someone out of poverty. You kind of can, but there's whatever psychology they develop from being in poverty (hoarder, possibly dealt with abuse, language/communication issues). As told by the Doors in Hyacinth House, "I need a brand new friend who doesn't bother me / I need someone ... who doesn't need me".
Which bars does Bryan run?
Oddly enough, right on, in that scene, take at least 2.
OGs in the game
This is real talk for those of you that don’t know …
Gs that know, KNOW
🙏🙏
29:15 “bought the ladies some little Yakult milks” I nearly spit my drink out on that one 🤣🤣🤣
name a few bars where they are not BLASTING the MUSIC !!! I hate trying to talk to a GOGO girl where you have to SCREAM at each other in hopes to be heard !
thai style is to be louder then the next bar. Not logic lol
What specific area do you suggest for newbies to begin their experience like for example what is the name of your bar and its location. Thanks
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@Bryan I have a couple questions I'D Love for you to answer if you would Plz.,
1) Are the Girls STD & drug tested say weekly or monthly?
2) How much salary do they earn on Avg. for working at 1 of your many Bars?, then Plus I assume her share of lady drinks would be added to her salary? Plus whatever she earns if she wants to prostitute herself out to random men, Correct ?
3) If a woman were happy with simply earning a salary, her share of lady drinks & tips. Would you still hire her OR is her prostituting a requirement in order to being hired?
Because I've never seen any video addressing these & other similar type questions, Thanks in advance
Point 3. Bar owner is a glorified Pimp, and don't let them tell you otherwise
Great info! Aloha 🌴🤙🏽
This conversation is so great!!!!
Soi 6 looks interesting to me. I like the open bar scene. I'm not really into the lounge style bars with the girls dancing on stage. What do you think of Soi 6 and simalar.
Best Soi in Pattaya, just not for lightweights..
When in Thailand do the panda 😉😂
EatShootnLeaf
I've spent over 20yrs in Thailand was married to a thai I'm from UK.divorced now have a beautiful daughter with her who's 21 now i must have been with a 1,000 girls during that time from the bar and the beach and never had a problem or cought anything
Sounds like a functional family
I am 79 years old and planning my next trip to pattaya with my 22 year old grandson! Still living the dream!
It’s generally cheaper to pay for it than it is to get it for “free”..😅
Wise words
1,000 baht short or long time ?
Where’s best place to find freelancers
Great information and interview.. Thank you!
This is a really informative vid.
After you bar fine a girl do negotiate for a price before you do it, or do you tip her like in the Philippines?
Glad to hear Soi6 back into action. Was there in 2018 and totally loved it. However, I've seen some live streaming videos from Soi6 in some case girls inside the bar which is really crazy for privacy. Is this still happening? Also, have Covid added any restriction to the so called "guest friendly" hotels or things are still the same?
Once your here anything goes as usual
what happens when a girl is seeing 2 or 3 men and your out with her and 1 of the men see you what would happen then?
Thanks great video
Amazing video!!!!! New subscriber here. Which bars are his
Nice video fellows. Would you consider to do a reboot in six months?
Reboot? You mean an update?
@@geofreypetersonofficial yes, I meant update. Again your video was actually quite good because I'm the guy who is recently divorced and would spill his entire life to a unsuspecting lady.
@@bornahyard1 lol, they are trained to handle that. ☺️
@@geofreypetersonofficial trained therapist you say? 😆 Just my luck.
I would love to possibly own a bar there. Any suggestions? Please and thank you
Are they all full bars? Like can I order a Pina colada or daquri in them?
3 day rule , never keep one for over 3 days. Even if you like her. Get rid of her and get another one in a few days.
Good advise.....
In other words, let them know you're a butterfly (helicopter). LOL
Just wondering do they have karaoke bars English words 80's 90's music can you meet girls there?
Anything is possible
Great interview and Q&A = new sub
That’s Ammmmazzzin! Thank you! Lots of cool stuff Browse the channel
Luv it Bri👍
What bars does he own I'll be sure to go .
Where can i get soapies?
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another good chat guys
the amount of ads on this video is insane
1:35 The vast majority of the men are probably not pretending and they're doing it because being needed is something that men crave a lot just like women crave being wanted
Be a good customer, get a great girl.
too experts in one frame.. ooh yeah 😅
The best girls in Pattaya ain't in the bars.....
I buy 1 drink for a girl , and short time subject is broched! Yes or no? But I'm 79 years old! I got no time to waist!
Solid
Great info vid...By the way, what bars does Bryan own?
night wish bars mainly soi 6
Never been but it's on my list.
Now that things are opening up again.
Traveling is becoming a focus.
I'm curious to know how to pick up a tour guide?
That's All is be interested in. A nice girl to show me around, translate and a buffer between the aggressive ladies.😁
Hey Frank when are you planing on coming to Thailand?
@@geofreypetersonofficial
Haven't actually made a plan yet.
The last plan I had would have put me in the Philippines right when things closed and I would have been trapped.
I had a 4 week scooter tour planned.
It's been a while since we could put traveling on the agenda.
Still months away for me.
@@franktaylor7617 ok reach out when your ready and I can help
Out
I’ll be there in JULY
Many of us find it hard to not have an alcoholic drink at a bar, particularly if you are looking for female company. Alcohol, the social lubricant that helps remove shyness. Some guys are naturally ultra confident and forward. I envy those type of guys. But I just can't do it. Too introverted. I need several drinks to feel comfortable and talk freely. May seem silly for those who don't have confidence issues. Then of course lady drinks on top. And if the mood and chemistry feels good enough, asking the lady to go with you. By that stage bar bin is up there and then bar fine and her fee on top. Hence why I limit going out at all now here as I am on lower end of income stream and costs me an arm and a leg. Mostly I just drink from time to time and not have a lady. Can be lonely here as a result (still better than home country). I don't like the online dating sites with loads of fake photoshopped profile images. It's a lottery what they really look like and often charge above the odds and don't reply. Prefer to see the person beforehand in a relaxed setting. Not blaming anyone. My choice. Just the way it is for many of us.
IT’S EASY TO SAY YOU WANT 2 GIRLS BUT WILL IT STAY UP.
Haha you gotta be tactful
@@geofreypetersonofficial and the blue helper pills!
Supr Kmgra
@ 33.05 Bryan says " she's a starfish".... what does that mean?
@Bryan Flowers interesting. A lady chooses a profession that entails rythmic movement, sensual expression, and skills of titilation, yet.. does nothing? Hope you are sending that one back to the village
"sex is free, you pay them to leave" perfect
The David atenbury thing would be amazing
David ATTENBOROUGH?
What do you mean? Just curious, as I'm a fan of his.
Is Bush Mountain still going??
“Farang men bar” 😂🤣😂 Hey sexy lady! Come come have drink! 😂🤣😂
Maybe a good skit for my channel 😂
@@geofreypetersonofficial that would be fun to see!
Id sign up for it I'll love st tho mostly, not through choice own lol😂
Any hotel recommendations in Pattaya
Browse my channel
What is Bryan's bar name. Is it in pattaya?
cause hes saying take lots of women he owns the bars
Nice to see you guys get together!
I don't do multiple girls. I do one at a time. Just be honest with them up front. If you make me happy with boom boom I'll put you money in your hand. When I buy a girl a lady drink I also buy a couple more girls a drink as well and tell them I'll be back for them next time. I make sure the girl I end up bar-fining hears it so she understands that I'm a 'butterfly' not looking for Long Game so no hearts are broken.
What would you say is the difference between Soi 6 and Soi 8
Two Soi’s 🤣🤣🤣
soi 6 has rooms above the bars for sex. 8 is just bars
It's all about money 💰👀