the truth about dating in new york city | stories + advice
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- Опубликовано: 7 мар 2020
- I've been wanting to film this video FOR SO LONG but was worried it would come across as superficial... but this is a raw, truthful look at what dating in New York City is like - the good, the bad + the ugly. Let me know if you'd like to see more videos in this series, featuring my friends! XO Katy
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Hey guys! I've been wanting to film this video FOR SO LONG but was worried it would come across as superficial... but this is a raw, *truthful* look at what dating in New York City is like - the good, the bad + the ugly. Let me know if you'd like to see more videos in this series, featuring my friends! XO Katy
HelloKaty what was your longest relationship in NYC?
Katy, please make this a series!!. This video was so awesome and unfiltered, my gosh i love it
Katy, you never need to worry about being superficial since you really stand out as one deep feeling and thinking RUclipsr!
GIRL-TALK is a really deep topic: inside-out! The Girly Cliques of NYC is a HOT topic these days!
Jess Lee I totally agree! I would love for this theme to become a regular series!
Is it shallow that Ill only date hot women 18-25 and need more than 1?
“By the time I get home from work and the gym it’s like 8 o’clock and I just want to watch the bachelor...” okay but ME.
For some odd reason, I’m getting Kourtney Kardashian vibes from Colby. 🤣 Loved this little video though! Great advice and loved hearing all of your experiences! 😌
This is definitely a HUGE COMPLIMENT to her, she loves the kardashians + reality TV hahahaha
I literally went to the comments to see if anyone else was thinking that too lol
its that voice
Same, that’s what I was thinking !!
Maybe because your name is Kim!
PLEASE make this a series!!!!!! loved the conversation surrounding dating in your 20s in a city, was so relatable and entertaining to watch. like sitting down with my own friends, def keep up this content!
I literally felt like I was just hanging out with you guys! Please make this a series!
Julia needs to make her own channel
Jessica greetings from Panama how área you
I feel like New York is a different beast, bc it’s pretty easy to meet people without apps in smaller college towns. I prefer to date mutual friends, but my current boyfriend of a year was actually my coworker at the campus gym.
I would definitely have values, but go into things with NO expectations bc then it’s harder to be disappointed when you aren’t expecting a fairytale or rom com
Your second paragraph is underrated.
major sex and the city/how to lose a guy in 10 days vibes
Solomia Laba Guy here. idk why i kept watching but definitely see this.
Oh, yes!
Man I totally relate to Julia downloading and deleting I did that with dating apps and I do it all the time with Instagram, it's just cleansing and liberating to completely uninstall and/or delete the account!
Won’t you rather just get out of it and go back later instead of losing all your matches by deleting it?
Same here, it gets to a point where you don't want to see it anymore. I was saying it earlier but playing games with your date is a way better way to get to know them without the pressure of having to come up with a crazy conversation, I feel like letting everyone know this tip: www.kibugame.com
Katy, thank you so much for filming and posting this. I have had the the exact same experience with dating in the city. It sucks and that makes it so easy to get stuck in the mindset of thinking "wtf is WRONG with ME, why is nothing working?". Your video really helped remind me that my experience is the norm and also is the reality of dating in the city. Thanks so much for being you, making me videos, helping other people, and making me feel less alone:) Love your videos, and definitely looking forward to the rest of the series.
this was so good, would watch it again in a heartbeat
I've always been so curious about how different dating must be in a big city. It's definitely something I want to experience because it seems more fun/casual than in a smaller area, but it does seem like you take more hits and experience more dating fails.
Please bring Julia and Colby to your podcasts too!
i LOVED this video!!! i hope you guys get together and film more! your friends seemed so comfortable on camera too and i loved all the stories/advice. definitely so relatable!!
Wait katy I've subscribed for several years and these type of sit-down group talks videos are AMAZING. Best ever!!
Love this new series!! Can't wait to see more :)
Julia is my spirit animal! This video was so fun!! Cannot wait for the next one!
Eek I haven’t even watched it and I’m excited, reminds me of your old videos with your high school friends!
Keep these coming, loved this!
Love this new series! And am sooo excited for more of these types of vids! 💕🌷
Katy, you have to have them more often! This was a great video 💛
this reminded me of your old guy advice videos from when you were in high school! been watching for a long time, please make this a series!!
THANK YOU so much for making this video!! What a breath of fresh air to listen to 3 successful women talk about the reality of dating in NYC. Please make a part 2 :)
Love how real this is!
Love these type of videos! So raw and real 💖
AHHH FINALLY!! I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH WOWOOW!! I live in NYC and have gone on several dates and everything seems to just fizzle out after the first date or two so this was very refreshing, thank you!!
You should try cooking and cleaning for your date. That might keep them.
you girls are so awesome! Thanks for the tips I LOVED watching this!
Loved loved loved LOVED this!! Please make it a series
omg this reminds me of katy's old ASKING HS BOYS YOUR QUESTIONS videos so long ago
I love Julia! I think she’s so cute !
Yay! Been waiting for this 😍👏🏼
loved this and am looking forward to the next videos in this series!! :)
This is a whole mood ! I need more !
loved this video!!! i loved your friends being in the video! y’all are all SO cute i love you!!!!!!🥰🥰
I LOVED this video. Colbie and Julia are the realest.
ive never had a problem meeting someone out and about. making eye contact usually does the trick
I would love to see more videos like this
MORE OF THIS CONTENT PLS
I actually think you are SO funny Katy!! 💜I love listening to your podcast and you make me laugh every single time
LOVE this so much!!! you and your friends have the best advice!! I always feel like I'm alone when guys ghost me but I have to realize I'm not
Love you Katy!! Also your friends are awesome!!
Julia is an absolute GEM 💎
Loved this!! Please make more!
Great video and advice!! So so relatable!
Love this video ! thank you for getting me through this isolation
Best video on RUclips rn. I love love love this
Loved this.! 💜 take care Katy
Why is Katy literally the prettiest girl?! Katy, you look so stunning ❤️😍
LOVED this video! Would love it if you had your friends on your podcast too, just chatting away about your life and friendship.
I loved this!! Defenitely more videos with friends :))
Loved this content!! Reminded me of your high school guys advice to girls videos.
hii
YES Katy!! Loved this video!
i just discovered this channel and oh my god where was i? i love this video and the energy you have with your friends. this was like therapy for me.
Omg love this! I’m so bad at talking about myself so dating is a good way to try things out I guess
Literally such a good video!
Loved this so much!!
I love this!! DO MORE!!
I love this. Feels so relatable to my friend group. Shows the girls should support and nurture their girlfriend groups.
100% I feel like dating apps are cool to meet someone but there is better to get to know them. Kibu is a cool game for that but im sure there are lots of others. www.kibugame.com
Katyyyy a podcast episode guest starring your friends + giving gals in their 20s advice would be amazing!!
love julia!!! and colbie!!! have them more on ur channel plzzzz
As a dude new to dating in NYC I really enjoyed this. You guys are hilarious and it makes the whole thing less intimidating
Hey ladies! Love this video. You guys totally nailed the question about why some guys suck here, they have FOBO aka fear of better options!
I sat down to watch like a couple minutes, and ended up watching the whole damn thing. This was awesome!! More like this if you can :)
-Love from a quarantined Canadian
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS
Girl on the right is extremely genuine
Definitely a great video. Editing on point as well
*if the convo fizzles out*
Aka “He’s just not that into you!”
What an awesome video! Please, please do more of these!!!!!
Julia needs a RUclips channel - I'm readyyyy for it! 😍
Love this style of video. Your friends seem really cool.
really?
Ok, this needs to be a series!!!
I love your honesty about your self image. I can assure you that you all look way above average.
Loved this video 😍
CAN YOU MAKE THIS A SERIES PLZ I LOVE YOU GUYS
Love this! - also, girl in the middle reminds me of Kourtney Kardashian so much!!!!
I really really enjoyed this! I dont even live in NYC and it was still so interesting for me :)
I love everything about this.
I love this series please do more episodes
I love your friends!!
Lots of times we do not know what we want until we get it... we may not picture ourselves with someone shorter etc but the heart wants what the heart wants and I think we should all be open to someone's personality instead of their appearance. xxo
I love Julia! I feel like her and I have very similar views on life.
colby sounds like kourtney k!!!
Love this!!!! Can’t wait for the next one 👏🏼👏🏼
Please make more videos like this!! 💗
"someone over 6'. If theyre 5'11", she can tell" 😂
That was amazing!!
The cutest friend group!
I wish I had this kind of confidence when I was young, but I just went mute anytime a guy talked to me. I have social anxiety disorder and I'm only just starting to date now in my 30's after years of therapy and medication :( A deep sense of grief for the missed experiences.
When the video first started, I was watching Colbie thinking it was Katy and then I was very confused
Colbie is your TWIN
Haha i didnt notice until you pointed it out but youre right lol
I really thought they were sisters...
Julia is so pretty!!!
your stories are so funny!! lolll
Love it, keep it up girls
Your friends are so cool 🥰
julia is so pretty
"Hunting for Chad in NYC can be so tough!"
chads wouldn't date these girls lol too average
julia pls create a channel
I feel like that fits the bill in other places (guys worst in nyc than other parts), umm yeah alwys alwys look fly going to the store ladies, ALWAYS I do not care if I am the only one in Valentino heels, look your BEST (as you learned regret it when you come looking like yesterdays trash). Great video. xox.
love.
Where are Colbie’s pants from?? So cute!
my pants are from Zara!