"It seems your wife made a real effort to make things right in your marriage. Remember that forgiveness is a sign of true strength" You know what baffles me about these sorts of comments? Mending and forgiveness both require the sinner to CONFESS HONESTLY THEIR TRANSGRESSIONS. Yet the people posting these messages tend to forget that OP's wife never admitted to her unfaithfulness.
Facts! I forgave my sister and mom for things they refuse to apologize for. Not for them but for me and my sanity and sanctification in hopes they repent. I have not forgotten nor do I speak to them. My sister isn’t even allowed in my house anymore because she brings termoil and demons every single time. I love her dearly and I pray for her repentance but by no means does that mean I will stay in union with her. Period. I just reached out to my mom after almost two years just to make sure she is well and alive. She didn’t call me directly but one of my brothers to relay that she is in deed alive. I was ok with that. Again I love my mother and honor her that does not mean I will continue a relationship with her in my adult years with kids of my own whom she harms in various ways. I have forgiven a cheater before but as I am mature and steady with my relationship with God idk if I would. I think if my husband came home distraught after the fact and confessed and we prayed I might. If I found out in any other way, I do not think I could ever forgive and move on, it would be the end of the marriage. I completely agree with you.
The thing is those people who comment that sort of thing 9/10 wouldn’t do the same thing. They’d get revenge or end their marriage.. they wouldn’t show the forgiveness they preach for others to show.
Exactly, I hate the excuse "It happened a long time ago". The law might have statute of limitations, but the heart does not. It's unhealthy to live with hatred in your heart obsessing 24/7 over the wrongs done to you, but you don't have to forgive even though you can forget sometimes. Simple fact is that the affair might've been the original betrayal, but every day during and every day that follows where the cheater stays silent, robbing the victim of a chance to make an informed decision and have any choice, is keeping the betrayal of the affair alive, so it may as well have happened yesterday rather than years ago.
@@greysky8307 I once quantified an affair mathematically as (x×y+1)^z, with x being the number of times, y being the number of partners, and z being the number of years (months if
“Forgiveness is a sign of true strength” You know what else is a sign of true strength? Keeping your legs closed to anyone but your husband. Oh, also not staying with someone who you forgave for disrespecting you which’ll lead to possibly more disrespect since you allowed them to do it once already.
These no fault states are so stupid. That sort of law is disgusting, people going through abuse and infidelity never get the outcome they deserve from a divorce. Yes they get the divorce but the person who was abusive and disloyal shouldn’t gain anything from a divorce. The man who originally created that law was obviously a rubbish person who’s done wrong to his past wives and believed everyone should get away with things.
Definitely a case close for divorce. She was never going to tell you since she hasn't since it happened (for doing it for three years!!!)...secrets like this is awful to carry. She needs to know what she did is wrong since you said she did things that are 'indescribable and unsanitary.'
First off she had an affair for 3 years and called it off on the third year then spent an entire year with her husband never telling him anything yeah no she never intended to tell him she planned to take it to her grave and to those saying to forgive but never forget no don't forgive and don't forget if you forgive them then it tells them they can get away with it
Don't know. Maybe a sense of power over others based on some insecurities. If they're first to comment,they beat everyone else and won some form of race in their minds making them number 1.
What the hell is with those responses. "Forgiveness is a sign of true strength." "It happened 4 years ago but you said it was a great marriage." ~Godzilla had a stroke reading this and Freaking died~. Sure, it was a great marraige, but she cheated, how the hell is it going to be a 'great marriage' after learning that? What kind of drugs are these people taking? Or in a twist of events did they skimp on their medications they should be taking? I suggest they go seek help immediately. As for the last 2 posters? I shall grant them the highest honor I can bestow, an imaginary cookie and digital headpats.
Any man who is thinking of marriage should indeed do his homework. He will see very quickly that it is about the dumbest thing a man can do today. Due to wives not being able to keep their legs closed and the unfair divorce laws it is a total no-go for any man. Stay single. Do not climb into that sausage machine.
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just because an affair happened years ago doesn't mean it never happened bruh- like to me think of cheating as bullying... bullying has severe long term affects on kids who have been bullied I myself have developed self esteem issues, trust issues and attachment issues because of it... the same goes for cheating... just because it happened years ago doesn't mean it doesn't affect them... and also the first woman being like 'young and stupid and forgiveness is a sign of true strength...' definitely a cheater....
Facts! I forgave my sister and mom for things they refuse to apologize for. Not for them but for me and my sanity and sanctification in hopes they repent. I have not forgotten nor do I speak to them. My sister isn’t even allowed in my house anymore because she brings termoil and demons every single time. I love her dearly and I pray for her repentance but by no means does that mean I will stay in union with her. Period. I just reached out to my mom after almost two years just to make sure she is well and alive. She didn’t call me directly but one of my brothers to relay that she is in deed alive. I was ok with that. Again I love my mother and honor her that does not mean I will continue a relationship with her in my adult years with kids of my own whom she harms in various ways. I have forgiven a cheater before but as I am mature and steady with my relationship with God idk if I would. I think if my husband came home distraught after the fact and confessed and we prayed I might. If I found out in any other way, I do not think I could ever forgive and move on, it would be the end of the marriage. I completely agree with you.
Well she did some apparently unsanitary things, so while I agree we all have our kinks, doing something that could jeopardise your partner and yourself, is wrong. I think he was upset about what she did and then came to him after doing something vile. If she has those kinks, she either does them with her partner, either leave and find someone who will accept her kinks and they both enjoy it… But it’s not fair to OP and it’s disgusting…
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"It seems your wife made a real effort to make things right in your marriage. Remember that forgiveness is a sign of true strength"
You know what baffles me about these sorts of comments? Mending and forgiveness both require the sinner to CONFESS HONESTLY THEIR TRANSGRESSIONS. Yet the people posting these messages tend to forget that OP's wife never admitted to her unfaithfulness.
Facts! I forgave my sister and mom for things they refuse to apologize for. Not for them but for me and my sanity and sanctification in hopes they repent. I have not forgotten nor do I speak to them. My sister isn’t even allowed in my house anymore because she brings termoil and demons every single time. I love her dearly and I pray for her repentance but by no means does that mean I will stay in union with her. Period. I just reached out to my mom after almost two years just to make sure she is well and alive. She didn’t call me directly but one of my brothers to relay that she is in deed alive. I was ok with that. Again I love my mother and honor her that does not mean I will continue a relationship with her in my adult years with kids of my own whom she harms in various ways. I have forgiven a cheater before but as I am mature and steady with my relationship with God idk if I would. I think if my husband came home distraught after the fact and confessed and we prayed I might. If I found out in any other way, I do not think I could ever forgive and move on, it would be the end of the marriage. I completely agree with you.
The thing is those people who comment that sort of thing 9/10 wouldn’t do the same thing. They’d get revenge or end their marriage.. they wouldn’t show the forgiveness they preach for others to show.
Exactly, I hate the excuse "It happened a long time ago". The law might have statute of limitations, but the heart does not. It's unhealthy to live with hatred in your heart obsessing 24/7 over the wrongs done to you, but you don't have to forgive even though you can forget sometimes. Simple fact is that the affair might've been the original betrayal, but every day during and every day that follows where the cheater stays silent, robbing the victim of a chance to make an informed decision and have any choice, is keeping the betrayal of the affair alive, so it may as well have happened yesterday rather than years ago.
@@greysky8307 I once quantified an affair mathematically as (x×y+1)^z, with x being the number of times, y being the number of partners, and z being the number of years (months if
@@greysky8307 remember there is no statute of limitations for murder so neither should there be for cheating spouses
No fault divorce is ridiculous! It literally encourages a spouse to cheat!
“Forgiveness is a sign of true strength”
You know what else is a sign of true strength? Keeping your legs closed to anyone but your husband. Oh, also not staying with someone who you forgave for disrespecting you which’ll lead to possibly more disrespect since you allowed them to do it once already.
Forgiveness isn’t a free pass
No wonder it was a woman who said this nonsense lol
These no fault states are so stupid. That sort of law is disgusting, people going through abuse and infidelity never get the outcome they deserve from a divorce. Yes they get the divorce but the person who was abusive and disloyal shouldn’t gain anything from a divorce.
The man who originally created that law was obviously a rubbish person who’s done wrong to his past wives and believed everyone should get away with things.
Him saying he thought Reagan was one of our best presidents is why I'm laughing at him leaving his marriage poorer than he intended.
Definitely a case close for divorce. She was never going to tell you since she hasn't since it happened (for doing it for three years!!!)...secrets like this is awful to carry. She needs to know what she did is wrong since you said she did things that are 'indescribable and unsanitary.'
First off she had an affair for 3 years and called it off on the third year then spent an entire year with her husband never telling him anything yeah no she never intended to tell him she planned to take it to her grave and to those saying to forgive but never forget no don't forgive and don't forget if you forgive them then it tells them they can get away with it
It's honestly concerning how many people care about commenting first on a youtube video
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Don't know. Maybe a sense of power over others based on some insecurities. If they're first to comment,they beat everyone else and won some form of race in their minds making them number 1.
"Local Man Concerned About Harmless Game"
@@zacharyrollick6169”…confirmed to have too much time on their hands to be worried about minor things such as said game.”
Why do you care
Never immediately put anything in your wife's name
What the hell is with those responses. "Forgiveness is a sign of true strength." "It happened 4 years ago but you said it was a great marriage." ~Godzilla had a stroke reading this and Freaking died~. Sure, it was a great marraige, but she cheated, how the hell is it going to be a 'great marriage' after learning that? What kind of drugs are these people taking? Or in a twist of events did they skimp on their medications they should be taking? I suggest they go seek help immediately. As for the last 2 posters? I shall grant them the highest honor I can bestow, an imaginary cookie and digital headpats.
Any man who is thinking of marriage should indeed do his homework. He will see very quickly that it is about the dumbest thing a man can do today. Due to wives not being able to keep their legs closed and the unfair divorce laws it is a total no-go for any man. Stay single. Do not climb into that sausage machine.
Of course the woman says to excuse the cheating
They were probably using each other like a toilet
You took this video from the find your alpha channel. Word for word 😂
gotta love the find your alpha channel
This guy's got the better AI voice + Minecraft ambience 😂
@@Vendzor Except find your alpha doesn't use AI at all.
You do realise people just read out the post from Reddit? There’s plenty of people who post the same stories with the exact same words.
@@rhiarebecca2000 this includes find your Alpha's personal opinions,that's stealing content
Lol unsanitary things... Sounds like some Bass to mouth happened .. 😮😅
2 girls 1 cup
Absolutely gross 🤢
Yeah, i was thinking the same, but it could be something milder and the guy is just a prude.
@@arthurmiranda8896 that IS true.
No fault divorce is a horrid idea
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just because an affair happened years ago doesn't mean it never happened bruh- like to me think of cheating as bullying... bullying has severe long term affects on kids who have been bullied I myself have developed self esteem issues, trust issues and attachment issues because of it... the same goes for cheating... just because it happened years ago doesn't mean it doesn't affect them... and also the first woman being like 'young and stupid and forgiveness is a sign of true strength...' definitely a cheater....
Facts! I forgave my sister and mom for things they refuse to apologize for. Not for them but for me and my sanity and sanctification in hopes they repent. I have not forgotten nor do I speak to them. My sister isn’t even allowed in my house anymore because she brings termoil and demons every single time. I love her dearly and I pray for her repentance but by no means does that mean I will stay in union with her. Period. I just reached out to my mom after almost two years just to make sure she is well and alive. She didn’t call me directly but one of my brothers to relay that she is in deed alive. I was ok with that. Again I love my mother and honor her that does not mean I will continue a relationship with her in my adult years with kids of my own whom she harms in various ways. I have forgiven a cheater before but as I am mature and steady with my relationship with God idk if I would. I think if my husband came home distraught after the fact and confessed and we prayed I might. If I found out in any other way, I do not think I could ever forgive and move on, it would be the end of the marriage. I completely agree with you.
Remember to never list to advise from women about women especially about relationships
Cheat is cheat, it's a betrayl of the highest order
But what is the fetish?👀😂 I don’t know if I wanna know or not but yeah curious ngl😂
I bet it is poo or pee
The writing patterns makes this feel fake as fuck
Move to an at fault state wait a month then start divorce
Kink shaming is not cute.
Well she did some apparently unsanitary things, so while I agree we all have our kinks, doing something that could jeopardise your partner and yourself, is wrong.
I think he was upset about what she did and then came to him after doing something vile.
If she has those kinks, she either does them with her partner, either leave and find someone who will accept her kinks and they both enjoy it…
But it’s not fair to OP and it’s disgusting…
Ha ha first
Ha ha pathetic
Ha ha pathetic.
Congratulations! You are my inspiration.
Imagine having nothing going on in life that commenting first is somehow an achievement.
No, you weren't the first person to stick a carrot in their bum