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I'd CRY if somebody took my baby sisters flowers and replace them with fakes, and then PAINT HER GRAVE!?? Can't imagine defacing a grave, especially a kids.
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That color changing foam is so similar to what I bought from the Dollar tree store and the first thing that came to mind was this was a bathroom cleaning product. She's using the product inconsistent with the labeling by using it on various graves. Painting the grave is very lazy on her part. She should really request permission from any surviving family if there is any. The Clean Girl has a savior complex.
She's also using scrub daddies to aggressively down with that abrasive product. Seriously, people get degrees in how to properly restore and care for various stones and odor objects, it's not simple. And everything she is doing is the exact opposite of what you should do
This broke my heart. When she took the flowers out I genuinely gasped. Those flowers could have been special, considering they were still there despite being dried out.
Yeah, they could have some sentimental value. Some people have special plants, like a gift from a family during wedding sorta thing. That they kept their entire life, and wanted on their grave...And she tore it up.
Imagine dying of cancer, and then some knock-off barbie comes to your grave and says "Needs to be pinker," defaces your grave, and then reads it for 0.5 seconds
Please, please, PLEASE do not clean any toys found on a child's grave. Some of these toys are ones that were owned by the child and some parents can see you as washing part of their child away when you do this. With how brightly colored her cleaning products are and the fact she makes them herself, it wouldn't surprise me if it had dyes in them that could ruin them as well. If you ever notice, most respectable grave cleaners don't show themselves washing the toys.
Many cemeteries do not allow fake flowers. Only live, unplanted flowers are allowed and the cemetery cleans them out each week. So taking out the real, even if they are dead, and replacing them with fake is most likely against policy.
it is a free job. it is still tasteless and wrong, but unless you would be willing to accept a job with no pay as long as you can post footage of it for the possibility of getting paid IF it goes viral, then you can understand that it is indeed free
"Was she pretty?" I can't. People are upset about what killed her and Dorris in the forest, but this line? "Was she pretty?" THAT is the most disgusting question in my opinion.
Imagine this kind of person on the literal funeral, completly stranger, passing away then throwing their "Oh, was this person pretty?" Completly the same, but in this way she did nobody wont jump on her in a fury
Many years ago, my baby died during childbirth. He was buried in the children's section of a cemetery alongside graves of hundreds of other babies. Over the years, grieving parents left teddies for their beloved babies. One day the cemetery needed to move the teddies to perform maintenance nearby. MONTHS before they were even touched, the cemetery attempted to contact as many parents as possible to inform them of the situation, and signs were placed near the graves to alert parents and visitors that their precious teddies would need to be moved, and would be lovingly and respectfully placed under a nearby tree (or parents could do it themselves). This is how serious it is to handle the tributes that are placed at gravesites... ESPECIALLY when a child is involved! I cannot fathom a random stranger handling such precious keepsakes, let along 'washing' them. I hope someone sues her.
I am so sorry for your loss and you make a very good point touching anything on a grave that was put there for a reason is a big deal because that was placed there in the love for that person who passed away good on that cemetery for making sure that parents and other family members were alerted because I can see how that could cause a panic for someone
"What killed her?" Bro, my jaw DROPPED. To say that so flippantly. She absolutely does not care, and that's clear from how she paints the grave stones, but. Ugh. AWFUL. Terrible vibes.
i get asking: oh... what happened? but asking like: oh howd she DIE? 🤪 sometimes i do accidentally bc well im an IDIOT but its never intentional i swear D:
@Jewelzbabiii how did they pass away is preferable 100%. It also shows that she didn't take the time to research the actual person whose grave she is cleaning.
But the thing is she has made many spirits angry in that graveyard. The great distress and torment they must feel watching someone do that to your resting place is like watching a bully smash your phone while other bullies pin you down and all you can do is scream and cry which can't be heard by the living which increases the torment of the spirit.
I’m speechless. Many cemeteries don’t allow fake flowers - she clearly ripped out the roots of actual flowers that recently bloomed. And don’t get me started on painting them…so disrespectful.
It's a good policy honestly, the world has enough plastic pollution, don't need more microplastics breaking down into the ground water or plastic getting broken off and strewn about.
Clearly the graves aren't forgotten i think people just like to let them as natural as they can to show how old is this and how much time is passed without that person
8 years ago my dad passed away and each cemetery visit along the way I would bring fresh flowers for my old man, cleaning supplies for obvious reasons and a small bag of candy as a offering to other visitors. Cleaning the grave is a therapeutic for me and my mom. I think we would have an emotional breakdown if someone stole that from us for clicks.
Yeah, you don't know someones pattern. She didn't even take the time to do the research on who they were. If she did that she'd see they had family alive or not. Even painting the graves, if you have the wrong paint and god forbid its the right one, she made a nightmare of it! You need outdoor paint or itll run off and now people who do clean the grave have a shit time cleaning that mess she just made. And if its the right kind, you're gonna have a horrible time removing it. Shes very dense.
Yes, my husband & I clean his late father & grandmother’s headstones & replace wilted flowers, a couple times a month. We take our kids to help sometimes too. We would be LIVID if we went & found someone had desecrated his grave! It’s absolutely disgusting!
I grew up helping my parents clean my grandparents' grave, and there was beef between my mother and my aunts about it and the decorations and flowers all the time. (Who didn't visit enough, who took my flowers, who took mine, etc...) If anyone else dare to touch this grave, there would be a murder.
It's actually so gross. Her "cleaning product" is just Kaboom with her label over the can, and she changed the color in post, and it's an abrasive bathroom cleaner. Not for graves. I'd be appalled if I found out she desecrated one of my families graves, and the painting them is just terrible, like, is it even paint for outside? All around gross behavior.
I was suspecting that it was just a foaming cleaner with color correction in post. Like, you can see when she puts it on the plushies that her white shoes are the same color of the foam
15:28 I noticed this can is an OxiClean foam she uses on the stuffies, I wonder if that is what she is using on the graves stones too? Are Kaboom and OxiClean the same product? I'm not familiar with either of them.
@@nancyneyedly4587 They're definitely different products. Kaboom is a bathroom foam cleaner that sprays on purple and turns white when you're supposed to rinse.
I mean I am no expert on finding information on dead people, BUT I am just gonna go out on a limb here and ask: Have you thought about asking the staff at the church about the deceased person?! Like "Hey I found this grave and I wanna clean it. Is there a relative to this deceased person I can contact? Do you know anything about the deceased?"
@@Xarfax321I had to do it once for a school project. Those have info but depending on how long ago it was you would have to do that, or go into city records. We went into archives… Even for people in the military it can be difficult. The veteran I was doing my report on was hard to find…a mention or two in newspapers of old microfilm machines. Will say…it is actually a fascinating thing. Uncovering the life of someone who you never knew about…someone who may not even have family left.
Tbf you can sometimes find public obituaries if you google a name, depending on how common the name is. I found my grandparents' obituaries online a while back, and neither of them were famous.
You know you can find obituaries online by searching the person's name, the location they lived, and the location they died, right? I search my grandparents obituaries every now and again.
For anyone curious. According to the National Park Service "Cleaning stones should be done with the gentlest means possible. It should never be the intent to make a grave marker look “new”. Even with the most careful technique, cleaning may accelerate deterioration or cause loss of original material. Only use soft brushes and gentle cleaners, such as water or a non-ionic cleaner (neutral pH of 7). Never use wire brushes, power washers, or harsh cleaners, such as bleach." Their website has a lot of good info on it. Including tips, and how to determine if its even a good idea to clean the grave. Even the most gentle cleaning can do a small amount of damage.
Yes! Just brushing with a toothbrush and water may still cause damage to the original stone. There are some specific products made for cleaning stone. I bought one and have tested it on a small patch of the fence (at home), and I will use it to clean a grave later, and will start with a small test patch to make sure it's not harsh.
@shadowfluff2255 Personally, my bathroom never gets to the point where it's so grim that gloves are necessary. Even for the toilet, I use a brush for the inside that has a handle, so my hand never touches the surface. But a public bathroom is a whole different story. I'd want some sort of protective clothing and a mask, as well as gloves. 😬😂
My Mum had a miscarriage a while ago and we put the remains of her in a cemetery where we have many family members. She did it WITHOUT permission, took out our flowers and more. I hate this girl with all my life
i'm so sorry that happened, it must have been so upsetting to see a STRANGER invaded the privacy of someone you love and defaced their grave in such a way, deceased or not that was wrong and my condolences to your family
I put a teddy bear on my Father's grave. Yes it's in the weather but it's WITH him. If someone took it from him just to clean it without permission and chose to put it on social media in a way that made them so much money... I would feel violated. Watching her rip out the real flowers roots and all was sickening. Shame on her.
@@sail4170 its not just louisiana my guy,i live in slidell but ive been to missipi and texas and seen graves sort of like them(but yest near where i live theres like 4 stacked graves)
I have experience cleaning sealed stone. Most graves are made of granite, marble, slate, limestone, or sandstone. Granite and Marble are igneous rock, aka volcanic rock. They are porous. Slate isn’t as porous as its metamorphic rock, but sandstone and limestone are sedimentary rocks and VERY porous. So these stones are polished and sealed. However, cleaners are either acidic or basic chemicals that are designed to strip grime away. A chemical doesn’t know the difference between sealant and dirt. Most non stone specific cleaner will strip away that sealant layer and get into the rock. Once it’s in the stone it’s not getting out unless it’s power washed out. Depending on the rock, the cleaner can eat away the rock very quickly and drastically. Especially limestone, which easily dissolves in most even considerably mild acids. She’s destroying these graves and I fully believe that the families of the buried loved ones should be able to charge her with vandalism.
Thank you for taking the time to explain this! And I definitely agree. Gravestones are extremely expensive as well. She should pay for any damages her products cause.
@unturned6066 didn't one of the people in this video pass away in 1995? That's 30 years ago. There's most likely still a child/grandchild/sibling walking around at that point no?
If anyone ever did this to one of my family members graves, I would be FURIOUS. Even if I didn't get to know them, or ever meet them, I would be absolutely LIVID.
My daughter died almost 3 years ago. Back in the spring we went to visit her only to find out someone had taken the toys & flowers we'd put there and thrown them away. They decided those things didn't have any value. My youngest daughter told me she'd left sissy a lucky penny and it was gone too. So I was a sobbing mess in the cemetery while my husband is calling to find out why this happened and how we can prevent it. People have no respect.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope whoever did it got chewed out really good for it, that's not right in the slightest. Something similar happened to me this year, too. My great grandmother's cemetery changed their policy earlier this year (changed management, actually) to be far more strict about the things that could be left at a gravesite. My family and I were all deeply affected by them throwing out the decorations (that never went into other gravesites, mind you. Nor played any noise or flashed lights in a distracting way) that were left on her gravestone for the season. We planted live flowers in the spring instead, since that's... pretty much all that's allowed in that cemetery now. It still doesn't feel right, now that I talk about it. GG always decorated for any holiday- Christmas, Halloween, Easter, Thanksgiving. Even when the groundskeepers do it, it hurts a lot. It's just not right
I am so sorry that happened, I went to my husband’s grave and found that the grass crew broke part of his headstone,I sat there and cried for an hour. People don’t realize 1 how expensive grave stones are and how the family really puts a lot of thought into what it says and means to them.
I’m so glad more people are covering disrespectful grave-cleaning channels. They seem fine on the surface but are actually downright disgusting. I remember one “grave cleaner” straight up saying that since the grave was dirty, their family either forgot about them or never cared about them. As someone who has relatives buried hours away due to requests of burying in their hometown, that’s pretty messed up.
That is straight up disrespectful! Who are they to jugde whether or not the person was cared for all because of their grave stone not being well kept. It's called nature. As time goes by, the tombstone will age over time and due to it being outside, it's a no brainer that things such as grass, bushes, snow, rain, etc, will cause the tombstone to look old.
@@moxiemaxie3543 Destruction of property, vandalism, potentially even trespassing since some of these people do it in the dead of night when lots of cemeteries are closed to the public
I’m so glad that you are doing this @tehmimi cause when I go see my my grandparents because they are no longer here so I use water on the grave and clean it that way
BRO. Is she aware what season she's doing this in? Flowers don't grow year-round? Did she realize they were a plant buried in dirt? And even if they were cut flowers set in a vase, LEAVE THEM THERE.
gravestones are a ton of money. I know because when my uncle passed away, we bought one for $3,000 USD. it’s a shame the way she cleans them as if they’re useless pieces of junk. and no, it’s not about the price. gravestones carry the last of our loved ones, and her “transforming” them should be a crime. since she’s targeting a young audience, she’s setting a terrible example for them. these kids will think it’s okay to ruin/vandalize people’s graves as an “act of kindness”. it’s really not.
Because the person DIED. It doesn't make ANY difference what the person looked like. They deserve respect. She may as well have said "I wonder if she was ugly?" @@pollynlyubenova8365
I'm guessing she is already haunted, with thousands of them even if the other graveyards aren't affected by her. There is literally no in-between, it's either you got haunted and be followed for the rest of your life until d3ath 💀
Im a guy and yet it’s sicken me how people, even other women, evaluate the worth of a woman based on how attractive she is. I thought we were pass that outdated mentality.
@@missblank3887 i dont know. Women still are pressure to be pretty according to ridiculous standards. If they don’t, they now get transvestigated because gods forbid that some women are born more masculine. And women who are fat are more likely to be mocked and bullied that fat men because how dare a woman not look like a top model. If beauty is so important then why it’s only women that get punished for being ugly while men can get a pass if they are rich. Why can’t we let outdated beauty standards go?
Honestly, i would CRY if someone took away the drawing that i made as a child for my father, or even the little angel figurines we bought for him. I haven't been at his grave for years because as a minor, I am unable to go there by myself (also I am uninformed of the location sadly. As soon as I'm an adult, I'll visit him). I would be even more pissed off if they did anything to the grave. It's made of marble, so i would also be so freaking mad if someone cleaned it with SUCH TOXIC CHEMICALS. I would much rather see the gravestone dirty and unkept, than perfectly clean with all of the stuff missing, because it means that someone messed with it without our permission. I am his child, a directly related family member. I deserve to have the right to decide about his gravestone, i am SO happy I am not in the same country as this woman
Yeah, is the "Troom Troom" Internet baby talk that does it for me. People only do that to appease the algorithm, and that right there shows me that the goal is to make money and sell product. When you add in the really gross comments ("Was she pretty?" WTF?!?) and *PAINTING* the freaking graves, it's pretty clear that this isn't done out of kindness or care at all. Also, we've had color changing cleaner for years. It's called Kaboom.
I'm glad more people are finally calling this channel out because her videos piss me off. She always says stuff like "it makes ME so sad" she always puts the emphasis on HER, how good of a person SHE is for cleaning the graves and never actually talks about the person who passed, all the while defiling the grave without the families or cemeteries permission I don't think I need to explain why it's disgusting and disrespectful to use dead people to promote yourself and your products all the while gloating on how much of a 'good' person you are for doing it, it's especially vile when she does it with the graves of kids and veterans. Also notice how often she steps on these graves, which is highly disrespectful in a lot of cultures, her cutting that tree and removing the flowers is especially insane to me cause that could've potentially been a memorial tree, which are usually planted as a tribute to the person who died, and most cemeteries don't allow you to use fake flowers. And even IF that wasn't the case, she still most likey cut the tree and removed the flowers without the cemetery and families permission She doesn't give 2 shits about the people who died and their families who may still be grieving, what's important to her is how it will benefit her and how she can sell her products, if she was actually a good person she wouldn't have to constantly repeat it and make every video about her. Not only that but judging how her videos in general seem to be aiming for a younger audience, she's potentially teaching kids that it's ok to be disrespectful and mess in cemeteries It makes my skin crawl to see just how low people are willing to go morally these days in order to get a following or any sort of attention, even if it mean LITERALLY defiling graves
As a person who themselves believes in ghosts and god- same with my family who believes in God as well, I literally think this is wrong on the highest of levels I can't describe, she even records this while doing it! She is recording a gravesite which is sorta disrespectful (depending on what your doing) and makes it 100x worse by PAINTING over the graves and saying awful things like "was she pretty?" and "how did she die?" She is clearly not a professional who has a actual job cleaning graves and just goes to gravesites to deface,dehumanize, and disrespect passed loved ones, that could of been someone's child, or brother, ANYBODY, and here she is ruining a grave.. Lowkey hope a ghost gets pissed and follows her because she is definitely catching the ire of ghosts by disrespecting their graves
It's insane behavior to cut a tree that doesn't belong to you no matter what, because trees are not weeds. They're TREES. At the bare minimum, leave it simply because it's helping capture carbon, give oxygen, cool the surrounding area, and provide a home for insects and other elements of the ecosystem. Even if it's weeds, talk to whoever owns the space first. Even lawn-mowing channels will speak to the property owner first before doing a free job for promotion on social media.
Ohh… I see you are new with the term “Main Character”. What you described is exactly that, a Main Character. A person who does bad things and while doing it he makes an effort to be the attention center.
Imagine dying and a industry cashes in on your death by getting your kids to buy a 80 dollar ikea pine storage box converted to resemble a car interior with drapes stapled to it for 10 grand, and never really experiencing any afterlife whatsoever? Huge money in folklore..and that smiley bubbly weird catholic bouncing around from grave to grave to create before and after shots of a cleaning product is like the icing on a wedding cake after paying a skitzo themed boldfaced liar to act all fancy in a pointy building.
@@truetech4158 There was *no reason* for you to say all that. If you don't believe in honoring the dead, or in God, that is *your business* . You don't have to call an entire massive faith group schizo when absolutely no one was talking about that. You don't have to be a jerk just because you can be.
I kind of hope she gets arrested for this. Imagine how the families feel? They didn’t ask for this, and she didn’t get permission. They are going to be struck with fear, anger, shock and horror.
Typically groundskeepers or gravekeepers are assigned to this type of job. As they are usually in charge of keeping the grounds clean and preventing them from being vandalized or illegally exhumed. Most graves nowadays are typically vaults where ashes are kept, however some still do casket and ground burials some of them even having eco friendly and biodegradable options.
I’m so happy these “grave-cleaning” channels (the disrespectful ones) are getting ridiculed. I was doing a family tree project and I went to visit my great (there’s a lot more greats) grandfather’s grave. I saw some lady cleaning it but there was a piece of broken part of his headstone that wasn’t there before. I noticed the lady was trying to put it back together with super glue and she looked so panicked. I could be wrong but I think she broke his headstone. She ran off when she saw me looking at her and left it broken.
Oh my God I am so sorry about that. If someone did that to one of my family members graves my husband would drag them to the front office and charge them for any damage they caused. I hope they catch that lady who did that and they charge her for whatever damage she did. I am so furious for you and again am so sorry this happened to you and your Great Grandfather. ❤
I especially hate it when "Influencers" go to some homeless people or someone in need saying "I want to bless you today" like they're God or something, no🧢
personally as a nature lover, one of my favourite parts of the idea of being buried is my gravestone aging over the years by cracking and building up dirt, or growing it’s own ecosystem of moss, vines, insects, spiders building webs there, etc… the idea of some random person me nor my family knows removing all of that because they think they know better than my family who « clearly doesn’t care » about me because they let my grave rest instead of being disturbed really irritates me
@@alexissteele5274 exactly, i also personally enjoy helping the ecosystem so the thought of my grave providing a space for as many living organisms as possible is definitely one that would allow me to properly rest in peace
This would p1ss me off! The flowers on my grandmother in law's grave are her dried wedding bouquet flowers!!! My grandfather in law put them there! Don't freaking TOUCH flowers!!!!!
@feuerling wow u lack logic they are saying it's the person's wedding flowers that are Dried kinda like how people dry meat and salt it to make it last longer they are dead but not completely weathering
I lost my little sister two years ago٫ and we left a small wooden box with her favorite teddy bear inside it. This bear is dirty as hell٫ and has some blood on it٫ but that blood is because she had it in her hand when she first tried walking٫ and fell on her face٫ making her nose bleed. The blood on that bear shows a milestone. Also٫ that bear has the word "Hannah" on it٫ which was her name. She wrote that in kindergarten. She practiced for weeks so she could write her name on it٫ just her writing it. If somebody cleaned that bear٫ I would cry for years. Edit: She died in second grade to cancer if you're wondering.
I'm sorry for your loss, and I can feel your pain - if someone decided to clean or take something from my departed relative's grave, I would be angry for years.
How has no one reported her to the cops? I don't know a single cemetary that is open after sundown without special permission At best, she's a trespasser, but she is also desecrating these graves with the paint (the baby toy cleaning was especially heinous with how rough she was being) Everything she is doing is a crime and I dont know how her local police aren't aware of her
Depends on where she lives. Where I'm to there is a gate around the graveyards, but no locks, any one can come in and go as they please. In fact I go though a graveyard everyday to get to work, thankfully I haven't seen someone like her disrespecting the graves.
@@JennieOkami I get that cemeteries have different forms of security, and I've accidentally turned the wrong way and found myself in one in Eastern Europe a long time ago. The difference is it was during the day and I wasn't sneaking in to fiddle around with grave markers You're not allowed in public parks at certain times either, and even national forests require you to have a camping permit if you're there outside of normal operations Just because there's no gate or fence doesn't mean it isn't trespassing. She is 100% illegally present on the cemetary grounds, that's why she slinks around at night or in the older/further parts that are more overgrown She has demonstrated this type of behavior in the McDonald's videos too. She knows she's wrong I'm just shocked the law hasn't caught up to her yet
@@NotAuburn really? That's not what its like here at all. Some campgrounds here do have rangers, but that's because they're hunting grounds or reserves so they're more regulated. as for the parks they don't have times you're allowed or not allowed in there posted where I live. But all of that is beyond the point, since she's doing this during the day. edit: at night too) I was mearly mentioning that we have no security for graveyards here at all. no patrols, no gravekeeper, or even a number to call if something was damaged or tampered with and maybe that's what it's like around where she's to.
@@JennieOkami I wasn't trying to get heated with you, so I apologize if it came off that way. I'm not saying you're wrong, but I've lived many places around the US, and what I have described is usually the case, even if it isn't realistically enforced. Great wide open public parks don't have fencing or security, that doesn't mean you won't get hit with a fine for loitering or being there at 1 am I'm just wondering where she is doing this and if the cemeteries she lives around could be made aware, because quite a few are owned by a church or a municipality and would definitely consider trespassing and vandalism if she's touching the graves At minimum, the fact she hasn't been hit with grave desecration while literally filming the evidence is bonkers because grave stones are owned by the purchaser, so she's screwing with private property if the family bought the stone
Imagine you go back to your hometown and think "I should visit grandmas grave and leave her flowers" and your grandma's grave has been painted white. I would lose it
She claims to have been a professional cleaner for years, yet she seemingly has no concept of the harm certain cleaning products (and techniques!) can have on the wrong material. She either does not care in the slightest or she's lying about her experience to sell her product - a product which, by the way, I have little to no hope for. With her track record, it's probably either bogus, a scam, or a glorified relabel of an existing product.
@@ILoveRedPandas95 Yeah, I was thinking about that too. I used to be a housekeeper, and I can attest PPE is extremely important when working with these types of chemicals, especially if you work with them frequently (like for your _job)._
This makes me really sad and want to cry. I really agree with what you said at one point, it went something like "She's not washing away dirt, she's washing away memories." oh my gosh. it's like precious beautiful memories that are worth so much to that person and their relatives. It's like meaningful memories preserved, but she ruins it. I don't like what this girl is doing. A great thing to do when you go to a grave is to peacefully mourn in silence and appreciate the role they played. I feel so sorry for the people involved with the graves that she ruined.
“Was she pretty?” You’re not 💀 She’s so disrespectful. She needs to grow up and stop being the “nice girl”. “I’m doing this *FOR FREE* guys DID YOU HEAR THAT? FOR FREE?? IM LIKE SUCH A GOOD PERSON!! PRAISE ME!!! RIGHT GUYS!?”
Bro that's going way to far ik she is being a bit disrespectful but u can't be rude with her appearance ik what she said it was rude but it doesn't mean she wouldn't like her/him for their appearance she was just askin' idk why she asked that maybe she didn't mean it like that so plz don't be rude she did nothing to u so yeh that's it I'm not trying to fight aight so plz don't argue with me.
She not only don't do any research about graves or get premissions, but also don't check burial grounds. I renember watching Jarvis Johnson's video about her in which a nativ american woman try to make The cleaning girl leave her people's cementary. Of course cleaning gril just couldn't understend why she was kicked out, even thou that woman told her the reason very clearly.
NEVER. EVER. CLEAN A DEAD CHILD'S TOY. that is so disrespectful! I used to cry when my mom cleaned my toys because I thought she was cleaning the love out of it. That is disgusting!
@@armyshopejust because you didn't cry about your own toys being cleaned doesn't mean a grieving parent or family member of a deceased child wouldn't be absolutly crushed. It's like the essence of the child's soul and memories is being washed away.
She removed fresh flowers from a grave and replaced them with fake ones, which can be a problem when some cemeteries do not allow for fake flowers to be left at graves. Cemeteries will let you know their policies when you enter, so there is NO excuse for violating those policies.
Im actually afreid if this can turn out that cemetery may not know it was someone else who changed flowers and blame the relatives of the dead person. Just imagining it gives me icks
There is an abandoned grave next to my grandfather's (my grandma says all living relatives of the woman who rests there live very far away). Whenever I'm visiting him, I take off any dead leafs that had fallen on her grave and sometimes leave a flower or a candle. I never even considered scrubbing it with any clearing products, let alone painting it, you just don't do crap like that.
A couple of years ago my pet budgie passed away (9.5 years old, had a good run). I buried him in my garden and every 6 months for 2 years I took a little soil from around where he was and place it in a pot. Once filled I started some millet seeds in it, I thought it would be beautiful for him to be part of his favorite food and be part of the other birds. Seeing her rip those plants out I cant help but think of how important those may have been to the person and their family, their symbolism, connection, meaning. It really hurts to think of.
Not only is that super cute but also pretty clever. I really needed a comment like this to settle me down after the anger that was brewing inside me from this video ❤
a beautiful way to continue the cycle and love on your living birds while you honour the one who flew across the bifrost. blessings to you, your kin, and all your feather bebies
Her washing the dolls made me rage. Imagine losing someone you know and maybe that doll smelled like them and seeing that smell of them washed away for a fcking tiktok is disgusting. I'm so sorry to everyone who was a vicim of this cleaning graves without permission bullshit.
@@TehMimii mean judging from you saying that her followers are on the younger side (aka kids) they are most likely gonna steal their moms credit card and buy the product!
I feel like that's unfair, like, there's real criticisms to have but "erm she's monetizing videos of this thing she's doing so it's not ACTUALLY for free" isn't a good one
@@TehMimi Guarantee it's just relabeled Oxiclean (used to be simply called Kaboom) foaming cleaner. You can see in many videos that's what she seems to be using (green lid gives it away). I can tell you from working in the construction industry, specifically on waterjetting equipment, there are a few things you should never use on granite, marble or concrete. 1. Anything acid-based as it etches the concrete. 2. Any kind of oxidizer, such as peroxide which Oxiclean (Kaboom) is based on.
@@kiwi_armswhich begs the question, would she still be cleaning graves without the financial incentive? Would she change the products used in her videos if her viewers criticised her? Considering she is advertising a cleaning product in a video aimed to children, monetisation plays a big part in it.
remind me to add "don't allow unprofessional tiktoker/social media influencers to 'clean' and paint my tomb stone for clout" to my Will when i die someday good lord. Edit: good lord that's alotta likes, very understandable! 921 people don't want their graves bothered!
And I was thinking of adding "Don't let a tiktoker sell parts of my dead body" I don't remember the name of the tiktoker who sold human bones, but between him and her, tiktok has a bad track record when it comes to respecting the dead
I'm pretty sure that when she was cleaning the teddies, she removed them from the graveyard and took them home, what if the family visited the grave during that time and saw their child's stuffed animals missing?
I would sue her if she touched my Dad's grave. He wants it to age naturally, just like him, and I respect his wishes She can go mind her own business and leave other people's stuff alone
Um yup yup yup. She is on RUclips kidd as well, I had to block her on my kids tablets. It's so disrespectful. Thanks for actually pushing this out. My husband and I own a cleaning company and hospitality business. I could never think of like cleaning what she cleans and what products she is using on them. We clean 2nd homes and air b&bs and very very rich peoples homes, we have to do a ton of different products because of the kind of stone well etc you talked about it right when I was writing this. So anyways good lord she needs to just stop
@shaynalange7488 it's insane to me on the stuff that can pass on kids youtube, as it being her voice in that high pitch and how she's dresses. And then hey while your at it grab your mums wallet and you could start cleaning just like me ! It all just feels so disrespectful and just icky you know
How old is your daughter? Please don't let her scroll on tiktok without supervision if she's too young to understand that certain types of content, like this one, are harmful.
@@monbub she only ever scrolls RUclips when I’m right next to her. And like I said, i pretty quickly blocked the channel after a few videos and I think she’s completely forgotten about her existence.
Tik Tok Grave cleaners are so disrespectful they don’t realize those graves are private property and they have NO business in modifying or touching those sites. They should be arrested for trespassing plus what in the world leave the death alone!
She needs to be arrested. This isn't act of kindness. This is disrespecting graves and folks who have lost a loved one. No matter what cleaning products you use, depending on the material the gravestone is made out of, can be acidic and can completely destroy what was there from 10 years to even 100 of years.
The cemetery where my grandpa is buried is run by heartless people. Every year around the Christmas holiday you can purchase wreaths from the cemetery but you can only have the cemetery's wreaths. When I was visiting my grandpa's grave I watched as the workers went to every grave that had a wreath that was purchased elsewhere and removed them. It was so horrifying, disgusting, and vile. There was one wreath that was really painful to see them grab, it was on a fresh grave meaning the person died recently. The wreath was so beautiful and as I watched them take it I felt so sick. All this to say I'm all for restoring graves to their original state by cleaning them but when someone disrespects another person's grave for selfish reasons it is sick and they deserve to be shamed for their disgusting behavior.
Whatever manager or owner implemented the "only our wreaths so we can extract cash from you"... gross, so gross. I can't hold the workers personally responsible because they didn't make the policy, but I DO sure hold the policy-make responsible for that callousness.
13:55 As a Spanish person... She didn't even try to know what the words in the grave meant, which adds more to the disrespectfulness. The actual translation would be something like "Dead but welcome. Lugo Velez, July 23 of 1980" and to add insult to injury, it later says that he was the cementery caretaker of his daughters and family. This made me so sad. May he rest in peace...
@@Picklecheeseawesomesame and idk if it really matters or not but most of the graves she cleans have names that seems Hispanic and it’s just rubbing me the wrong way
Bienvenida in this case is a first name. "Falleció Bienvenida Lugo Vélez" translates to "Bienvenida Lugo Vélez died" in a literal manner or, more appropriately, "Here lies Bienvenida Lugo Vélez".
My mum took her own life yesterday. We couldn't even get a closed casket funeral cause she'd decomposed too much by the time they found her. We decided to cremate her just like she wanted and leave her urn next to my grandpa's grave so anyone who wants to visit her can. I don't really care about it cause it won't change the fact she's gone. I just wish she didn't die in the first place, or at least not like this, not so soon. But I wanted to respect her wishes and maybe it'll bring comfort to some of my family members to be able to visit her at the cemetery. Still, I'd be livid if a complete stranger did anything to even slightly damage or even alter her urn or my grandpa's grave. It'd be so disrespectful to the rest of my family, who might need it to grieve properly. There are living people suffering her loss whose feelings on the matter need to be respected. I don't understand how someone can lack so much empathy and still claim they're doing something good.
@@gyaru_ami_stanSomeone has said she also cleaned their grandmothers grave and cleaned the toy the grandmother had given them as a kid, so the fingerprints were now gone. Clean girl needs to be sued
To add to it, since she is advertising a cleaning product and doesn’t say she painted it, that could be considered as an attempt to defraud customers by lying about the effectiveness of the product.
I also don't like the fact that we don't know what's _in_ the cleaning products. Like just smothering the graves in that cleaning solution then sluicing it away onto the grass, who tf knows what's going into the ground and affecting the local flora and fauna? It's just disrepectful on every level.
See that’s beautiful and nice!! Bless your grandma and her sweet soul, what she’s doing is completely different and it’s more heartwarming and respectful
that would 100% be a crime and I hope the appropraite authorities find her videos see the veterans grave being vanadlised like that and take the appropriate actions
The way I gasped out loud when she used a CHAINSAW to cut down a tree that was growing around a grave.i know somone who has a family tradition to plant a tree next to the grave of a loved one that has passed.they would not be happy if that happened
Now imagine you are a family member of that person and go to visit their grave only to find it PAINTED and your flowers REPLACED without your permission?
Man, this is gross. My reverence for graves go so far that I actively try not to tread on the grass above the deceased's body. Seeing someone doing this for monetary gain and internet fame just seems *_so_* beyond the pale to me. I was flabbergasted when she *_painted_* the headstones! This is so incredibly disrespectful, it's sickening. And if someone did this to one of my loved one's graves, I'd be livid!
Play holy crap if you see coins on top of a veteran's grave do not touch them they have specific meanings Coins on military headstones are a sign of respect and honor for the deceased service member. The denomination of the coin has a specific meaning: Penny: A visitor has been to the grave Nickel: The visitor served with the deceased at boot camp Dime: The visitor served with the deceased at some point Quarter: The visitor was present when the service member died
Yeah I was wondering about it from seeing the white outline as she sprayed the toys, and I honestly wonder if they're specifically doing this to cause outrage, so they keep getting commenters to fìght and pay attention. Like I wouldn't be surprised if she later revealed that these grave fixes were done with the family's permission (because some of the graves she paints were originally painted white) but she left it out so it'd seem more LOL RANDOM and cause reactions.
@@nightmarehound The green room spray that suddenly disappears from the "paint" on the curtain but covered it seconds earlier makes it pretty clear it's edited.
This woman baffles me. I can't even go within ten feet of a graveyard because I'm scared of ghosts and curses, and here she comes in like a tornado, defacing every grave she sees! 😭
Just looked it up on Google how she was repainting the tombstone and it is illegal to do so. it can be damage to the stone, the chemicals that are in the paint, cemetery costs, and vandalism.
Those dried flowers added something to the resting place in my opinion. My passed away loved ones were cremated, but if they were burried and someone would rip out the flowers, I'd be absolutely furious
@@redneckreviews3016 Those "stones" hold beloved memories and cherised moments, which would grant them spiritual connection. Just let people believe what they want to believe, damnit.
I can smell millions of lawsuits she's about to get. I can also smell testimonies from victims and witnesses of her. Let's all unite to stop her from doing this crime she's commiting : disrespecting cemetery's property, and touching properties WITHOUT ALL PARTIES' CONSENT, she has never been held accountable.
ANYONE CAN REPORT HER! DO THAT, - PHONE CALLS, EMAILS, PETITIONS, HANDWRITTEN LETTERS, I MEAN, POSTING A VIDEO LIKE THIS IS GREAT! NOW, JUST REPORT HER, MAKING A VIDEO, ISN'T REPORTING HER!! FIND OUT WHERE SHE LIVES AND REPORT HER TO THE STATE AND OR COUNTY SHE LIVES IN. THE PROOF IS THE TICKTOK VIDEOS.
"How did this grave get so dirty" The Grave: 1947 I don't know maybe because they've been there for a WHILE. It's not gonna look brand new forever. Are you serious?
11:45 this is horrible if you know that some plp put their ashes with potting soil to grow plants out of the deceased and that woman tears off the flowers to put in fake ones .. 😒
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girl you are not in focus for most of this video
I'd CRY if somebody took my baby sisters flowers and replace them with fakes, and then PAINT HER GRAVE!??
Can't imagine defacing a grave, especially a kids.
In one she mows down a TREE PLANED BY THE GRAVE. Like. It was so clearly planted in memory, but she just chainsaws it down.
@@spiderlily723omfg now I want a return 2 earth deal, but as a environmentalist n sum1 whose very connected wit goddess earth, id b turnin in my grave.
I have a hand disability i use phonetic shorthand 2 shorten da amount da amount of typin, thus limitin da amount of pain dis is a copied message
@@spiderlily723 WTF
got news for ya. floral arrangements are stolen ALL THE TIME.
@@vn8600 that dosent change anything, it still feels upsetting not seeing flowers on a grave
She's using an ACIDIC ABRASIVE BATHROOM PRODUCT ON A GRAVE STONE! That'll 100% destroy the gravestone
That color changing foam is so similar to what I bought from the Dollar tree store and the first thing that came to mind was this was a bathroom cleaning product. She's using the product inconsistent with the labeling by using it on various graves. Painting the grave is very lazy on her part. She should really request permission from any surviving family if there is any. The Clean Girl has a savior complex.
Yea, I just found out that old grave stones aren't meant to look new or necessarily very clean.
Yes, it's destructive ... like her video content is.
She's also using scrub daddies to aggressively down with that abrasive product. Seriously, people get degrees in how to properly restore and care for various stones and odor objects, it's not simple. And everything she is doing is the exact opposite of what you should do
She's putting her own vandalism on video and putting it out there for the whole world to witness. Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, is she?
This broke my heart. When she took the flowers out I genuinely gasped. Those flowers could have been special, considering they were still there despite being dried out.
Yeah, they could have some sentimental value. Some people have special plants, like a gift from a family during wedding sorta thing. That they kept their entire life, and wanted on their grave...And she tore it up.
Me too, it's not nice to do that at all
It was so messed up. It’s not her family members and she didn’t get permission from one. This is disgusting. Can’t believe I followed her
Not to discount what you said, but those were silk flowers, so not dried out.
Lalo na favorite nala😢
Imagine dying of cancer, and then some knock-off barbie comes to your grave and says "Needs to be pinker," defaces your grave, and then reads it for 0.5 seconds
"Knockoff barbie" 😭 but seriously yeah its so disrespectful
@@beebul2 is anybody a lawyer here? Because we could address this legally.
@@AmitPatel-sx2zsI want to be a lawyer when I grow up
@@Ssayrn_.A nice!
i thought that cleaning thing was spray paint at first
Please, please, PLEASE do not clean any toys found on a child's grave.
Some of these toys are ones that were owned by the child and some parents can see you as washing part of their child away when you do this. With how brightly colored her cleaning products are and the fact she makes them herself, it wouldn't surprise me if it had dyes in them that could ruin them as well.
If you ever notice, most respectable grave cleaners don't show themselves washing the toys.
Her cleaning product is white. She adds the color in post. Which makes it worse somehow.
@@sadreactsonlyen post ? C'est à dire comme un filtre dans la vidéo ?
Ouah j'aurais jamais cru. On dirait vraiment que c'est rose.
@@sadreactsonly I agree. She is also misleading people about her product that way.
@@mylenazvezta8486 I'm not sure what that says, sorry.
@@sadreactsonly Translate says they believed the product was pink and you saying the colour is added in post is a surprise to them
Ripping out the real flowers aggressively and replacing them with FAKE flowers.. is it me or that feels very weird of her to do that
She didn’t even match the flowers!
Especially flowers that you just trim and they keep growing forever…
Many cemeteries do not allow fake flowers. Only live, unplanted flowers are allowed and the cemetery cleans them out each week. So taking out the real, even if they are dead, and replacing them with fake is most likely against policy.
@@planets_alignyeah I’m pretty sure they had roots!
yeah like if your gonna do that at least just put another pot instead of removing the flowers??
She does it for free. Then posts it on tiktok/youtube and gets paid thousands of dollars for views.
So NOT FOR FREE...
It is free 💀
it is a free job. it is still tasteless and wrong, but unless you would be willing to accept a job with no pay as long as you can post footage of it for the possibility of getting paid IF it goes viral, then you can understand that it is indeed free
@@Diorsvmz without consent of course 😬
@@Diorsvmz It's not free, zoomer
tiktok pays pennies and youtube well depending on how she acts they can all get demonetized in an instant
"Was she pretty?" I can't. People are upset about what killed her and Dorris in the forest, but this line? "Was she pretty?" THAT is the most disgusting question in my opinion.
For real…
Omg great point. She's totally telling on herself there. She could've asked "what did she look like?" instead but nope
Imagine this kind of person on the literal funeral, completly stranger, passing away then throwing their "Oh, was this person pretty?"
Completly the same, but in this way she did nobody wont jump on her in a fury
“Did she like chocolate cupcakes?” Omg what is wrong with this woman, and her baby talk too!
Many years ago, my baby died during childbirth. He was buried in the children's section of a cemetery alongside graves of hundreds of other babies. Over the years, grieving parents left teddies for their beloved babies. One day the cemetery needed to move the teddies to perform maintenance nearby. MONTHS before they were even touched, the cemetery attempted to contact as many parents as possible to inform them of the situation, and signs were placed near the graves to alert parents and visitors that their precious teddies would need to be moved, and would be lovingly and respectfully placed under a nearby tree (or parents could do it themselves).
This is how serious it is to handle the tributes that are placed at gravesites... ESPECIALLY when a child is involved! I cannot fathom a random stranger handling such precious keepsakes, let along 'washing' them. I hope someone sues her.
I am soooooo sorry for your loss of your beautiful child, may they rest in peace.
I am so sorry for your loss and you make a very good point touching anything on a grave that was put there for a reason is a big deal because that was placed there in the love for that person who passed away good on that cemetery for making sure that parents and other family members were alerted because I can see how that could cause a panic for someone
I'm extremely sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace
that's awful, I'm so sorry. May your little angel rest in peace.
I'm so sorry for your loss ☹️ rest in peace to your child🕊️
"What killed her?"
Bro, my jaw DROPPED. To say that so flippantly. She absolutely does not care, and that's clear from how she paints the grave stones, but. Ugh. AWFUL. Terrible vibes.
Oh my god I just got to that part that's so horrible
i get asking: oh... what happened?
but asking like: oh howd she DIE? 🤪
sometimes i do accidentally bc
well
im an IDIOT
but its never intentional i swear D:
@Bushwhack-lmao_xD you're not an idiot lol
"how did they die or pass" is still acceptable , rather than "what killed them ?"
@Jewelzbabiii how did they pass away is preferable 100%. It also shows that she didn't take the time to research the actual person whose grave she is cleaning.
@@cheddarchemist5644 yes , she was honestly kinda creepy to me
My jaw dropped when you said she was painting the graves. That has to be a crime for defacing a grave or something
It is
I am no genius but I pretty sure if I did this I go to jail
NO CUS ME TOO
Misread that as 'defecating' a grave and was so confused.
Defacing graves IS illegal in most places.
And my from understanding a lot of her videos are filmed in Puerto Rico
It's like she's begging to be haunted by at least a dozen angry spirits.
True 😂
But the thing is she has made many spirits angry in that graveyard. The great distress and torment they must feel watching someone do that to your resting place is like watching a bully smash your phone while other bullies pin you down and all you can do is scream and cry which can't be heard by the living which increases the torment of the spirit.
she's about to have all 999 happy haunts sicced on her.
@@JaythePandarendisturbing really
Lol
I’m speechless. Many cemeteries don’t allow fake flowers - she clearly ripped out the roots of actual flowers that recently bloomed. And don’t get me started on painting them…so disrespectful.
I freaking hate fake flowers. For me that's a very great disrespect to give synthetic flowers on a grave.
🥶🥶🥶😭😭😭
It's a good policy honestly, the world has enough plastic pollution, don't need more microplastics breaking down into the ground water or plastic getting broken off and strewn about.
Clearly the graves aren't forgotten i think people just like to let them as natural as they can to show how old is this and how much time is passed without that person
8 years ago my dad passed away and each cemetery visit along the way I would bring fresh flowers for my old man, cleaning supplies for obvious reasons and a small bag of candy as a offering to other visitors. Cleaning the grave is a therapeutic for me and my mom. I think we would have an emotional breakdown if someone stole that from us for clicks.
Yeah, you don't know someones pattern. She didn't even take the time to do the research on who they were. If she did that she'd see they had family alive or not. Even painting the graves, if you have the wrong paint and god forbid its the right one, she made a nightmare of it! You need outdoor paint or itll run off and now people who do clean the grave have a shit time cleaning that mess she just made. And if its the right kind, you're gonna have a horrible time removing it. Shes very dense.
Yes, my husband & I clean his late father & grandmother’s headstones & replace wilted flowers, a couple times a month. We take our kids to help sometimes too. We would be LIVID if we went & found someone had desecrated his grave! It’s absolutely disgusting!
I grew up helping my parents clean my grandparents' grave, and there was beef between my mother and my aunts about it and the decorations and flowers all the time. (Who didn't visit enough, who took my flowers, who took mine, etc...) If anyone else dare to touch this grave, there would be a murder.
Exactly!!
Well clearly they aren't getting cleaned in the first places
It's actually so gross. Her "cleaning product" is just Kaboom with her label over the can, and she changed the color in post, and it's an abrasive bathroom cleaner. Not for graves. I'd be appalled if I found out she desecrated one of my families graves, and the painting them is just terrible, like, is it even paint for outside? All around gross behavior.
Oh my gosh! You’re right! I’m a professional cleaner, and I thought the consistency looked super familiar. That is SO disgusting. 🤮
I was suspecting that it was just a foaming cleaner with color correction in post. Like, you can see when she puts it on the plushies that her white shoes are the same color of the foam
As an ex professional cleaner, that's immediately what I thought too. Super fake product, definitely Kaboom.
15:28 I noticed this can is an OxiClean foam she uses on the stuffies, I wonder if that is what she is using on the graves stones too? Are Kaboom and OxiClean the same product? I'm not familiar with either of them.
@@nancyneyedly4587 They're definitely different products. Kaboom is a bathroom foam cleaner that sprays on purple and turns white when you're supposed to rinse.
“I did some research on her online and I found nothing.”
She’s not a celebrity😭😭😭
I swear my grandma is untraceable (and she's alive!) she's just like that ❤
I mean I am no expert on finding information on dead people, BUT I am just gonna go out on a limb here and ask: Have you thought about asking the staff at the church about the deceased person?! Like
"Hey I found this grave and I wanna clean it. Is there a relative to this deceased person I can contact? Do you know anything about the deceased?"
@@Xarfax321I had to do it once for a school project. Those have info but depending on how long ago it was you would have to do that, or go into city records. We went into archives…
Even for people in the military it can be difficult. The veteran I was doing my report on was hard to find…a mention or two in newspapers of old microfilm machines.
Will say…it is actually a fascinating thing. Uncovering the life of someone who you never knew about…someone who may not even have family left.
Tbf you can sometimes find public obituaries if you google a name, depending on how common the name is. I found my grandparents' obituaries online a while back, and neither of them were famous.
You know you can find obituaries online by searching the person's name, the location they lived, and the location they died, right?
I search my grandparents obituaries every now and again.
I really hate the way she talks, it's just so annoying and condescending, is giving mean girl trying to be nice.
This comment is catty itself. Bullying her voice based off your opinion instead of actual facts
@moxiemaxie3543 do people need to do research on whether or not she's using baby talk? 😅
For some reason, it just sounds like those videos from 123 go or five ninhte hacks
she talks like a combination of dora and the barbies from toy story
@@moxiemaxie3543shes purposefully structuring her videos to cater towards kids. No sane adult would watch her videos with their brain engaged.
For anyone curious. According to the National Park Service "Cleaning stones should be done with the gentlest means possible. It should never be the intent to make a grave marker look “new”. Even with the most careful technique, cleaning may accelerate deterioration or cause loss of original material. Only use soft brushes and gentle cleaners, such as water or a non-ionic cleaner (neutral pH of 7). Never use wire brushes, power washers, or harsh cleaners, such as bleach." Their website has a lot of good info on it. Including tips, and how to determine if its even a good idea to clean the grave. Even the most gentle cleaning can do a small amount of damage.
I definatly want to upkeep when my husband is interned (Gone to soon fm cancer at 46) So thank you for the great place to start proper cleaning info
Yes! Just brushing with a toothbrush and water may still cause damage to the original stone. There are some specific products made for cleaning stone. I bought one and have tested it on a small patch of the fence (at home), and I will use it to clean a grave later, and will start with a small test patch to make sure it's not harsh.
At that point she's intentionally damaging someone else's property that costs a LOT of money. Isn't she liable for that???
Probably that is just disrespectful for not caring people in the graves.
@@moonstonewind I know the feeling of losing a family member from cancer. I had so much faith that she wouldn't die, (my mom). Sending love
As a former janitor seeing her clean public toilets with bare hands is HORRIFYING
I’m not even a janitor I’m an assistant teacher for toddlers and worked in a McDonald’s for three years and I’m APPALLED
I'm not disgusted since she's the one touching it but I can't even clean my own bathroom without wearing gloves or washing my hands several times.
@shadowfluff2255 Personally, my bathroom never gets to the point where it's so grim that gloves are necessary. Even for the toilet, I use a brush for the inside that has a handle, so my hand never touches the surface. But a public bathroom is a whole different story. I'd want some sort of protective clothing and a mask, as well as gloves. 😬😂
Ah, it's okay....
Most bunnies are nasty and immune to most heebie-jeebies!!!!
@@New__TranZ__Order ???
My Mum had a miscarriage a while ago and we put the remains of her in a cemetery where we have many family members. She did it WITHOUT permission, took out our flowers and more. I hate this girl with all my life
Wait so the clean girl actually went to that grave and did that?
i'm so sorry that happened, it must have been so upsetting to see a STRANGER invaded the privacy of someone you love and defaced their grave in such a way, deceased or not that was wrong and my condolences to your family
Can you sue for vandalism?? That was heartbreaking
miscarriage? im i misunderstanding..
@@lotus_flower2001 I think the mom has a miscarriage and they buried the remaining of the infant in a family cemetery
I put a teddy bear on my Father's grave. Yes it's in the weather but it's WITH him. If someone took it from him just to clean it without permission and chose to put it on social media in a way that made them so much money... I would feel violated. Watching her rip out the real flowers roots and all was sickening. Shame on her.
I am so sorry for his loss
Fly high 🕊️❤️🩹🥺
@@Momohime_Chan Thank You so much for your kindness. ❤️🤗🤍
Ready in peace
Rest in peace , I hope you're father is in a better place now . 🙏 ❤️
Honestly if they did that to any of my family members their graves? I'm suing, using their video as evidence.
“Oh wow, there’s TWO people buried here!!”
Girl this ain’t Pokémon Go tf
It’s literally probs fkn Louisiana where people are stacked up above ground, n the people were actually probably blood related 😂 not lovers
@@sail4170 Imagine dying and being buried with your brother and a stranger points at your grave going "woah true love!!"😭
@@nextombz lol its not like you would know that is happening
@@sail4170 its not just louisiana my guy,i live in slidell but ive been to missipi and texas and seen graves sort of like them(but yest near where i live theres like 4 stacked graves)
im confused whats this have to do w pokemon go
I have experience cleaning sealed stone. Most graves are made of granite, marble, slate, limestone, or sandstone. Granite and Marble are igneous rock, aka volcanic rock. They are porous. Slate isn’t as porous as its metamorphic rock, but sandstone and limestone are sedimentary rocks and VERY porous. So these stones are polished and sealed. However, cleaners are either acidic or basic chemicals that are designed to strip grime away. A chemical doesn’t know the difference between sealant and dirt. Most non stone specific cleaner will strip away that sealant layer and get into the rock. Once it’s in the stone it’s not getting out unless it’s power washed out. Depending on the rock, the cleaner can eat away the rock very quickly and drastically. Especially limestone, which easily dissolves in most even considerably mild acids. She’s destroying these graves and I fully believe that the families of the buried loved ones should be able to charge her with vandalism.
Thank you for taking the time to explain this! And I definitely agree. Gravestones are extremely expensive as well. She should pay for any damages her products cause.
She likely picks old graves precisely for that reason.
destroying headstones being consumed by lichen? that are obviously and clearly abandoned? she isn't going and cleaning polished headstones!
@@vn8600 that just means that they'll break even more from this
@unturned6066 didn't one of the people in this video pass away in 1995? That's 30 years ago. There's most likely still a child/grandchild/sibling walking around at that point no?
If anyone ever did this to one of my family members graves, I would be FURIOUS. Even if I didn't get to know them, or ever meet them, I would be absolutely LIVID.
@@StrawberryIceCreamLover What is Livid?
@@goldendiamon google it
@@goldendiamonanother word for mad/angry
@@goldendiamon i think it's a word for being very angry
There's a commenter on this RUclips and unfortunately one of the gravestones she did on was on their family member
My daughter died almost 3 years ago. Back in the spring we went to visit her only to find out someone had taken the toys & flowers we'd put there and thrown them away. They decided those things didn't have any value. My youngest daughter told me she'd left sissy a lucky penny and it was gone too. So I was a sobbing mess in the cemetery while my husband is calling to find out why this happened and how we can prevent it. People have no respect.
I'm so sorry for your loss. People are really so gross sometimes.
I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry that happened to you
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope whoever did it got chewed out really good for it, that's not right in the slightest.
Something similar happened to me this year, too. My great grandmother's cemetery changed their policy earlier this year (changed management, actually) to be far more strict about the things that could be left at a gravesite. My family and I were all deeply affected by them throwing out the decorations (that never went into other gravesites, mind you. Nor played any noise or flashed lights in a distracting way) that were left on her gravestone for the season. We planted live flowers in the spring instead, since that's... pretty much all that's allowed in that cemetery now. It still doesn't feel right, now that I talk about it. GG always decorated for any holiday- Christmas, Halloween, Easter, Thanksgiving. Even when the groundskeepers do it, it hurts a lot. It's just not right
I am so sorry that happened, I went to my husband’s grave and found that the grass crew broke part of his headstone,I sat there and cried for an hour. People don’t realize 1 how expensive grave stones are and how the family really puts a lot of thought into what it says and means to them.
I’m so glad more people are covering disrespectful grave-cleaning channels. They seem fine on the surface but are actually downright disgusting. I remember one “grave cleaner” straight up saying that since the grave was dirty, their family either forgot about them or never cared about them. As someone who has relatives buried hours away due to requests of burying in their hometown, that’s pretty messed up.
Oh my god, how could somebody say something so awful?! That really is messed up!
This isn't illegal in some way? They can create a mass lawsuit at the least
That is straight up disrespectful! Who are they to jugde whether or not the person was cared for all because of their grave stone not being well kept. It's called nature. As time goes by, the tombstone will age over time and due to it being outside, it's a no brainer that things such as grass, bushes, snow, rain, etc, will cause the tombstone to look old.
@@moxiemaxie3543 Destruction of property, vandalism, potentially even trespassing since some of these people do it in the dead of night when lots of cemeteries are closed to the public
I’m so glad that you are doing this @tehmimi cause when I go see my my grandparents because they are no longer here so I use water on the grave and clean it that way
PS. When she pulled the flowers out, she pulled out roots. Someone planted those in the spring. She shoved the fake flowers into the dirt.
Yeah, I would've DEF pulled the roots out and followed with pouring salt water on the dirt....
Those pesky weeds 'n plants refuse to stay DOWN!!!!
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BRO. Is she aware what season she's doing this in? Flowers don't grow year-round? Did she realize they were a plant buried in dirt? And even if they were cut flowers set in a vase, LEAVE THEM THERE.
gravestones are a ton of money. I know because when my uncle passed away, we bought one for $3,000 USD. it’s a shame the way she cleans them as if they’re useless pieces of junk.
and no, it’s not about the price. gravestones carry the last of our loved ones, and her “transforming” them should be a crime.
since she’s targeting a young audience, she’s setting a terrible example for them. these kids will think it’s okay to ruin/vandalize people’s graves as an “act of kindness”. it’s really not.
What do you mean "should be a crime" it literally already is a crime it's called vandalism
I meant like a crime worth arresting. In most countries, you get in trouble for vandalizing, but you don’t spend time in jail.
"Was she pretty?" Wtf
That made my jaw drop to the floor!!
My jaw DROPPED
Like dawg🥲…
I don't get why that's a big deal tbh..
Because the person DIED. It doesn't make ANY difference what the person looked like. They deserve respect. She may as well have said "I wonder if she was ugly?" @@pollynlyubenova8365
This girl is BEGGING to be haunted.
lol. I saw this and jumped
Not only that but is asking to be hated as well
"Oh noooos! I have ghosties! I wonder if ghosts like pink? Let's find out!" Walks off screen....then just her head rolls across the shot.
She's got a bad case of spiritual leprosy, so I don't think she would know she was possessed until she bit herself in the a$$.
I'm guessing she is already haunted, with thousands of them even if the other graveyards aren't affected by her. There is literally no in-between, it's either you got haunted and be followed for the rest of your life until d3ath 💀
I hate the 'was she pretty' comment too, even in death women can't escape it.
Yeah that was so unnecessary
She's projecting. Her own self-esteem is based on whether she feels "pretty" on any given day.
Im a guy and yet it’s sicken me how people, even other women, evaluate the worth of a woman based on how attractive she is. I thought we were pass that outdated mentality.
@@nikogarcia201we're getting there. Slowly but surely.
@@missblank3887 i dont know. Women still are pressure to be pretty according to ridiculous standards. If they don’t, they now get transvestigated because gods forbid that some women are born more masculine. And women who are fat are more likely to be mocked and bullied that fat men because how dare a woman not look like a top model. If beauty is so important then why it’s only women that get punished for being ugly while men can get a pass if they are rich. Why can’t we let outdated beauty standards go?
Honestly, i would CRY if someone took away the drawing that i made as a child for my father, or even the little angel figurines we bought for him. I haven't been at his grave for years because as a minor, I am unable to go there by myself (also I am uninformed of the location sadly. As soon as I'm an adult, I'll visit him). I would be even more pissed off if they did anything to the grave. It's made of marble, so i would also be so freaking mad if someone cleaned it with SUCH TOXIC CHEMICALS. I would much rather see the gravestone dirty and unkept, than perfectly clean with all of the stuff missing, because it means that someone messed with it without our permission. I am his child, a directly related family member. I deserve to have the right to decide about his gravestone, i am SO happy I am not in the same country as this woman
Yeah, is the "Troom Troom" Internet baby talk that does it for me. People only do that to appease the algorithm, and that right there shows me that the goal is to make money and sell product.
When you add in the really gross comments ("Was she pretty?" WTF?!?) and *PAINTING* the freaking graves, it's pretty clear that this isn't done out of kindness or care at all.
Also, we've had color changing cleaner for years. It's called Kaboom.
Pretty sure her product _is_ just Kaboom with her label slapped on. That's why she isn't actually selling it yet.
99% of people making content are doing it to make money
Surely Kaboom could sue her for pretending their products are hers?!
@@AliCatDarling Aparrently, Some comments are saying the color of thr pink spray is just added after the post. Literally editing it if you ask me
@@mumsspaghetti6649 and how exactly is this supposed to excuse her behaviour?
I'm glad more people are finally calling this channel out because her videos piss me off. She always says stuff like "it makes ME so sad" she always puts the emphasis on HER, how good of a person SHE is for cleaning the graves and never actually talks about the person who passed, all the while defiling the grave without the families or cemeteries permission
I don't think I need to explain why it's disgusting and disrespectful to use dead people to promote yourself and your products all the while gloating on how much of a 'good' person you are for doing it, it's especially vile when she does it with the graves of kids and veterans. Also notice how often she steps on these graves, which is highly disrespectful in a lot of cultures, her cutting that tree and removing the flowers is especially insane to me cause that could've potentially been a memorial tree, which are usually planted as a tribute to the person who died, and most cemeteries don't allow you to use fake flowers. And even IF that wasn't the case, she still most likey cut the tree and removed the flowers without the cemetery and families permission
She doesn't give 2 shits about the people who died and their families who may still be grieving, what's important to her is how it will benefit her and how she can sell her products, if she was actually a good person she wouldn't have to constantly repeat it and make every video about her. Not only that but judging how her videos in general seem to be aiming for a younger audience, she's potentially teaching kids that it's ok to be disrespectful and mess in cemeteries
It makes my skin crawl to see just how low people are willing to go morally these days in order to get a following or any sort of attention, even if it mean LITERALLY defiling graves
Maybe they'll all come back to haunt her. I would.👻
@@Oldschoolnana I hope so🙂
As a person who themselves believes in ghosts and god- same with my family who believes in God as well, I literally think this is wrong on the highest of levels I can't describe, she even records this while doing it! She is recording a gravesite which is sorta disrespectful (depending on what your doing) and makes it 100x worse by PAINTING over the graves and saying awful things like "was she pretty?" and "how did she die?" She is clearly not a professional who has a actual job cleaning graves and just goes to gravesites to deface,dehumanize, and disrespect passed loved ones, that could of been someone's child, or brother, ANYBODY, and here she is ruining a grave..
Lowkey hope a ghost gets pissed and follows her because she is definitely catching the ire of ghosts by disrespecting their graves
It's insane behavior to cut a tree that doesn't belong to you no matter what, because trees are not weeds. They're TREES. At the bare minimum, leave it simply because it's helping capture carbon, give oxygen, cool the surrounding area, and provide a home for insects and other elements of the ecosystem.
Even if it's weeds, talk to whoever owns the space first. Even lawn-mowing channels will speak to the property owner first before doing a free job for promotion on social media.
Ohh… I see you are new with the term “Main Character”. What you described is exactly that, a Main Character. A person who does bad things and while doing it he makes an effort to be the attention center.
Imagine dying and you're used to sponsor a pink cleaning product
Apparently it's not even really pink, she's using a store brand foam cleaner and editing it pink in post. I think this product is a lie.
@@disgruntyits definitely not her product, but she probably dyed it pink
Imagine dying and a industry cashes in on your death by getting your kids to buy a 80 dollar ikea pine storage box converted to resemble a car interior with drapes stapled to it for 10 grand, and never really experiencing any afterlife whatsoever?
Huge money in folklore..and that smiley bubbly weird catholic bouncing around from grave to grave to create before and after shots of a cleaning product is like the icing on a wedding cake after paying a skitzo themed boldfaced liar to act all fancy in a pointy building.
@@truetech4158 There was *no reason* for you to say all that. If you don't believe in honoring the dead, or in God, that is *your business* . You don't have to call an entire massive faith group schizo when absolutely no one was talking about that. You don't have to be a jerk just because you can be.
I would definitely be offended by my graveyard being literally preppyfied
I kind of hope she gets arrested for this. Imagine how the families feel? They didn’t ask for this, and she didn’t get permission. They are going to be struck with fear, anger, shock and horror.
LITERALLY, those 2 actually HAVE the cemetery's permission.
Aren’t there people who do this as an actual job? So they don’t damage the grave?
Yes. Usually.
Indeed there are
Yes.
And they even tell you about the person that they're cleaning
Typically groundskeepers or gravekeepers are assigned to this type of job. As they are usually in charge of keeping the grounds clean and preventing them from being vandalized or illegally exhumed. Most graves nowadays are typically vaults where ashes are kept, however some still do casket and ground burials some of them even having eco friendly and biodegradable options.
@15:20 her dramatically spanking a deceased child's stuffed animal feels so wrong
@@zogwort1522 You are obviously a kid
@@zogwort1522 Oh I'm sorry, I though u said that in a malicious way! Dad jokes are the best jokes honestly!
@@zogwort1522 Not necessarily, also dad jokes rulz
@@zogwort1522 If dad jokes really were bad, then dad jokes would still be better than your kind of humour
@@zogwort1522It's not when you consider that toy once belonged to a child that died much too early in life.
I’m so happy these “grave-cleaning” channels (the disrespectful ones) are getting ridiculed. I was doing a family tree project and I went to visit my great (there’s a lot more greats) grandfather’s grave. I saw some lady cleaning it but there was a piece of broken part of his headstone that wasn’t there before. I noticed the lady was trying to put it back together with super glue and she looked so panicked. I could be wrong but I think she broke his headstone. She ran off when she saw me looking at her and left it broken.
I’m sorry she broke his grave :(
Oh my God I am so sorry about that. If someone did that to one of my family members graves my husband would drag them to the front office and charge them for any damage they caused. I hope they catch that lady who did that and they charge her for whatever damage she did. I am so furious for you and again am so sorry this happened to you and your Great Grandfather. ❤
I would be so pissed if someone touched a gravestone of someone I loved.
That’s just horrible. 😨
That person deserves jail time. Or atleast a large fine.
I especially hate it when "Influencers" go to some homeless people or someone in need saying "I want to bless you today" like they're God or something, no🧢
personally as a nature lover, one of my favourite parts of the idea of being buried is my gravestone aging over the years by cracking and building up dirt, or growing it’s own ecosystem of moss, vines, insects, spiders building webs there, etc… the idea of some random person me nor my family knows removing all of that because they think they know better than my family who « clearly doesn’t care » about me because they let my grave rest instead of being disturbed really irritates me
I want to enjoy nature from Beyond the grave.
@@alexissteele5274 exactly, i also personally enjoy helping the ecosystem so the thought of my grave providing a space for as many living organisms as possible is definitely one that would allow me to properly rest in peace
Same, id have to like native flowers planted
@@gardennoob1413 Maybe you'd be interested in reading the comment I added!
@@alexissteele5274 Have you ever considered doing what I posted in my reply? It might interest you too.
This would p1ss me off! The flowers on my grandmother in law's grave are her dried wedding bouquet flowers!!! My grandfather in law put them there! Don't freaking TOUCH flowers!!!!!
How are they preserved and protected against decay? A glass case?
That’s so sweet to put something special
Oh dear heaven, no!
@feuerling wow u lack logic they are saying it's the person's wedding flowers that are Dried kinda like how people dry meat and salt it to make it last longer they are dead but not completely weathering
@@Scoutrooperstudiosthey might be asking how they stand up to rough weather or wildlife
I lost my little sister two years ago٫ and we left a small wooden box with her favorite teddy bear inside it. This bear is dirty as hell٫ and has some blood on it٫ but that blood is because she had it in her hand when she first tried walking٫ and fell on her face٫ making her nose bleed. The blood on that bear shows a milestone. Also٫ that bear has the word "Hannah" on it٫ which was her name. She wrote that in kindergarten. She practiced for weeks so she could write her name on it٫ just her writing it. If somebody cleaned that bear٫ I would cry for years.
Edit: She died in second grade to cancer if you're wondering.
Im so sorry for your loss and i hope she's in a better place now.
Im so sorry for your loss, may her soul fly high
I'm sorry for your loss, and I can feel your pain - if someone decided to clean or take something from my departed relative's grave, I would be angry for years.
I’m so sorry for your loss!I hope you’re doing alright!
I’m so sorry for your tragic loss ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Rest in Peace Your Sister ❤❤❤🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤❤🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤️❤️
Imagine you open up tiktok to scroll through after a long day and you just see your child's grave being defaced
If I was dead and the clean girl "cleaned" my grave ima rise out my grave like Dracula and tell them to STOP
I would've done that to !
If I died I wouldn't let anybody except for my family and groundskeepers
To touch my grave .
I would turn into Carrie fr
New horror movie premise!
Can't help but crack up at the dracula part 😭
Idk if you can bite people as a ghost, but it's something I'd like to do if one of these things ever goes near my future gravestone
How has no one reported her to the cops?
I don't know a single cemetary that is open after sundown without special permission
At best, she's a trespasser, but she is also desecrating these graves with the paint (the baby toy cleaning was especially heinous with how rough she was being)
Everything she is doing is a crime and I dont know how her local police aren't aware of her
Depends on where she lives. Where I'm to there is a gate around the graveyards, but no locks, any one can come in and go as they please. In fact I go though a graveyard everyday to get to work, thankfully I haven't seen someone like her disrespecting the graves.
@@JennieOkami I get that cemeteries have different forms of security, and I've accidentally turned the wrong way and found myself in one in Eastern Europe a long time ago. The difference is it was during the day and I wasn't sneaking in to fiddle around with grave markers
You're not allowed in public parks at certain times either, and even national forests require you to have a camping permit if you're there outside of normal operations
Just because there's no gate or fence doesn't mean it isn't trespassing. She is 100% illegally present on the cemetary grounds, that's why she slinks around at night or in the older/further parts that are more overgrown
She has demonstrated this type of behavior in the McDonald's videos too. She knows she's wrong
I'm just shocked the law hasn't caught up to her yet
@@NotAuburn really? That's not what its like here at all. Some campgrounds here do have rangers, but that's because they're hunting grounds or reserves so they're more regulated. as for the parks they don't have times you're allowed or not allowed in there posted where I live. But all of that is beyond the point, since she's doing this during the day. edit: at night too) I was mearly mentioning that we have no security for graveyards here at all. no patrols, no gravekeeper, or even a number to call if something was damaged or tampered with and maybe that's what it's like around where she's to.
@@JennieOkami I wasn't trying to get heated with you, so I apologize if it came off that way.
I'm not saying you're wrong, but I've lived many places around the US, and what I have described is usually the case, even if it isn't realistically enforced. Great wide open public parks don't have fencing or security, that doesn't mean you won't get hit with a fine for loitering or being there at 1 am
I'm just wondering where she is doing this and if the cemeteries she lives around could be made aware, because quite a few are owned by a church or a municipality and would definitely consider trespassing and vandalism if she's touching the graves
At minimum, the fact she hasn't been hit with grave desecration while literally filming the evidence is bonkers because grave stones are owned by the purchaser, so she's screwing with private property if the family bought the stone
Maybe someone on here could forward the videos of her channel to the police. But one small issue, where is this even located???
She's making Mr. Beast style content. Over exaggerated, obnoxious, and exploitative.
At least MrBeast takes the money he makes and does important useful things with it I mean I don’t wanna watch him but he gives back.
@no-hard-feelings-777 How do you know that he doesn't give out money or food off camera
@no-hard-feelings-777 I think the lawsuit is because of his beast burger
@@Your_friend__Mangano, he is facing a class action lawsuit for starving, un proper hygiene, and dehydration. Some people on the set had seizures.
And what they also have in common is they look like they’re doing the good but are terrible people.
Her painting the grave just makes me so fu- mad- and RIPPING THE FLOWERS OUT AND REPLACING THEM WITH FAKE ONES?! Why- just why-
Imagine you go back to your hometown and think "I should visit grandmas grave and leave her flowers" and your grandma's grave has been painted white. I would lose it
Or seeing the natural flowers you gave to her thrown away and replaced with fake ones. Just, ugh
Why she thinks outdoor graves should be treated with the ‘landlord special’ is beyond me
if someone did that to ANY of my family members graves, even if I didn't know or meet them, I would be FURIOUS.
0:14 SONT TAKE THE FLOWERS :( THAT IS SO WRONG
She put them back I watched the video
@@Iloveruireal ok!
@@0_shelly_the_shell_3 yeah but it is still messed up you shouldn’t be doing that
(Like she shouldn’t change the flowers)
@@Mochazz-tea well yea
She claims to have been a professional cleaner for years, yet she seemingly has no concept of the harm certain cleaning products (and techniques!) can have on the wrong material. She either does not care in the slightest or she's lying about her experience to sell her product - a product which, by the way, I have little to no hope for. With her track record, it's probably either bogus, a scam, or a glorified relabel of an existing product.
It's definitely Kaboom made by Oxiclean
Her site doesn't even disclose the content or intended use of her "cleaning" product.
@@visceratrocar Exactly! It just screams "scam"
And that she's not wearing gloves, apron or anything that other professionals cleaners do
@@ILoveRedPandas95 Yeah, I was thinking about that too. I used to be a housekeeper, and I can attest PPE is extremely important when working with these types of chemicals, especially if you work with them frequently (like for your _job)._
This makes me really sad and want to cry.
I really agree with what you said at one point, it went something like "She's not washing away dirt, she's washing away memories." oh my gosh. it's like precious beautiful memories that are worth so much to that person and their relatives. It's like meaningful memories preserved, but she ruins it. I don't like what this girl is doing. A great thing to do when you go to a grave is to peacefully mourn in silence and appreciate the role they played. I feel so sorry for the people involved with the graves that she ruined.
I had watery eyes for the whole video dude
“Was she pretty?” You’re not 💀
She’s so disrespectful. She needs to grow up and stop being the “nice girl”.
“I’m doing this *FOR FREE* guys DID YOU HEAR THAT? FOR FREE?? IM LIKE SUCH A GOOD PERSON!! PRAISE ME!!! RIGHT GUYS!?”
Anyone who brags about how good they are , aren't
Oh for sure, she's trying to scream about how free she's doing it for like she thinks the family should pay her for her so great service lol.
"guys I'm great watch me put this pink foam on a grave!"
Wow, doing it for free really shows your dedication... to not being that good! HAVE SOME DIGNITY CHILD!
Bro that's going way to far ik she is being a bit disrespectful but u can't be rude with her appearance ik what she said it was rude but it doesn't mean she wouldn't like her/him for their appearance she was just askin' idk why she asked that maybe she didn't mean it like that so plz don't be rude she did nothing to u so yeh that's it I'm not trying to fight aight so plz don't argue with me.
She not only don't do any research about graves or get premissions, but also don't check burial grounds. I renember watching Jarvis Johnson's video about her in which a nativ american woman try to make The cleaning girl leave her people's cementary.
Of course cleaning gril just couldn't understend why she was kicked out, even thou that woman told her the reason very clearly.
Typical entitled white influencer.
I’m so glad she was kicked out… of course she couldn’t understand why though. She’s too busy being a monster and awful human being to see clearly.
NEVER. EVER. CLEAN A DEAD CHILD'S TOY. that is so disrespectful! I used to cry when my mom cleaned my toys because I thought she was cleaning the love out of it. That is disgusting!
I used to clean my own toys, i find it normal
@@armyshope yes, YOU cleaned YOUR toys. Not a stranger to your dead child's toys.
@@shelby6 Yes but I didn't cry even if my mom threw them into the washing machine
@@armyshopejust because you didn't cry about your own toys being cleaned doesn't mean a grieving parent or family member of a deceased child wouldn't be absolutly crushed. It's like the essence of the child's soul and memories is being washed away.
@@missblank3887 i know the girl cleaning graves is being disrespectful
She removed fresh flowers from a grave and replaced them with fake ones, which can be a problem when some cemeteries do not allow for fake flowers to be left at graves. Cemeteries will let you know their policies when you enter, so there is NO excuse for violating those policies.
Im actually afreid if this can turn out that cemetery may not know it was someone else who changed flowers and blame the relatives of the dead person. Just imagining it gives me icks
SHE PAINTED THE GRAVES????? What the f
Vandalism at minimum. Desecration charges depending on the state.
You painted my heart away. Just kidding!! 😢
That made me mad because it will look awful when it peels. I mean it looks bad already.
Acting like a brainless Barbie girl.Disgraceful
i would actually throw hands if someone did that to a grave in my area
There is an abandoned grave next to my grandfather's (my grandma says all living relatives of the woman who rests there live very far away). Whenever I'm visiting him, I take off any dead leafs that had fallen on her grave and sometimes leave a flower or a candle. I never even considered scrubbing it with any clearing products, let alone painting it, you just don't do crap like that.
A couple of years ago my pet budgie passed away (9.5 years old, had a good run). I buried him in my garden and every 6 months for 2 years I took a little soil from around where he was and place it in a pot. Once filled I started some millet seeds in it, I thought it would be beautiful for him to be part of his favorite food and be part of the other birds. Seeing her rip those plants out I cant help but think of how important those may have been to the person and their family, their symbolism, connection, meaning. It really hurts to think of.
I agree!
Also, such a lovely sweet thing to do, to remember your beloved pet 🌈💖
That’s actually so thoughtful and also scientifically backed up. I love your idea with the millet :)
Not only is that super cute but also pretty clever.
I really needed a comment like this to settle me down after the anger that was brewing inside me from this video ❤
a beautiful way to continue the cycle and love on your living birds while you honour the one who flew across the bifrost. blessings to you, your kin, and all your feather bebies
I am a sorry for your loss. One of my pet budgies passed away too.
Her washing the dolls made me rage. Imagine losing someone you know and maybe that doll smelled like them and seeing that smell of them washed away for a fcking tiktok is disgusting. I'm so sorry to everyone who was a vicim of this cleaning graves without permission bullshit.
She should be sued for vandalism.
100% agree. She's a criminal at this point.
nah have a death sentence that would be delayed for 1 second.
I hope so
Worse. Mass destruction of property. +25 years in prison
SHE CAN!! GO TO THE TOP COMMENTS.
She says it’s for free, but she’s making money from the videos she posts. So is it really “free”?
Not only that, but whenever she launches this product she will likely get sales from her followers buying it.
@@TehMimii mean judging from you saying that her followers are on the younger side (aka kids) they are most likely gonna steal their moms credit card and buy the product!
I feel like that's unfair, like, there's real criticisms to have but "erm she's monetizing videos of this thing she's doing so it's not ACTUALLY for free" isn't a good one
@@TehMimi Guarantee it's just relabeled Oxiclean (used to be simply called Kaboom) foaming cleaner. You can see in many videos that's what she seems to be using (green lid gives it away). I can tell you from working in the construction industry, specifically on waterjetting equipment, there are a few things you should never use on granite, marble or concrete. 1. Anything acid-based as it etches the concrete. 2. Any kind of oxidizer, such as peroxide which Oxiclean (Kaboom) is based on.
@@kiwi_armswhich begs the question, would she still be cleaning graves without the financial incentive? Would she change the products used in her videos if her viewers criticised her? Considering she is advertising a cleaning product in a video aimed to children, monetisation plays a big part in it.
remind me to add "don't allow unprofessional tiktoker/social media influencers to 'clean' and paint my tomb stone for clout" to my Will when i die someday good lord.
Edit: good lord that's alotta likes, very understandable! 921 people don't want their graves bothered!
Same.
My gravestone is gonna look like
“Here lies Mae _______, dont fucking touch my gravestone”
And I was thinking of adding "Don't let a tiktoker sell parts of my dead body"
I don't remember the name of the tiktoker who sold human bones, but between him and her, tiktok has a bad track record when it comes to respecting the dead
Same
@@Tera_totallywhat the actual fuck
I'm pretty sure that when she was cleaning the teddies, she removed them from the graveyard and took them home, what if the family visited the grave during that time and saw their child's stuffed animals missing?
I would sue her if she touched my Dad's grave. He wants it to age naturally, just like him, and I respect his wishes
She can go mind her own business and leave other people's stuff alone
Um yup yup yup. She is on RUclips kidd as well, I had to block her on my kids tablets. It's so disrespectful. Thanks for actually pushing this out. My husband and I own a cleaning company and hospitality business. I could never think of like cleaning what she cleans and what products she is using on them. We clean 2nd homes and air b&bs and very very rich peoples homes, we have to do a ton of different products because of the kind of stone well etc you talked about it right when I was writing this. So anyways good lord she needs to just stop
Thank you for blocking her for your kids brains
@shaynalange7488 it's insane to me on the stuff that can pass on kids youtube, as it being her voice in that high pitch and how she's dresses. And then hey while your at it grab your mums wallet and you could start cleaning just like me ! It all just feels so disrespectful and just icky you know
It's wild what can be on the kids RUclips. Even p*rn is on there if you search some terms. You should be aware
@@kimlynch8661 well said
And by chance are you a Ducky fan?
Holy moly. Why is she on RUclips kids? That’s weird
My daughter watched her channel a few months ago and I quickly blocked her from popping up again. Her demeanor is disingenuous 🤢
good on you honestly! she literally only does this for clout it’s disgusting
How old is your kid? Imo you shouldn't let young kids watch things on their own.
How old is your daughter? Please don't let her scroll on tiktok without supervision if she's too young to understand that certain types of content, like this one, are harmful.
@@monbub she only ever scrolls RUclips when I’m right next to her. And like I said, i pretty quickly blocked the channel after a few videos and I think she’s completely forgotten about her existence.
@@monbub i don’t think the parent is quite comfortable with sharing their daughters age.
Tik Tok Grave cleaners are so disrespectful they don’t realize those graves are private property and they have NO business in modifying or touching those sites. They should be arrested for trespassing plus what in the world leave the death alone!
She needs to be arrested. This isn't act of kindness. This is disrespecting graves and folks who have lost a loved one.
No matter what cleaning products you use, depending on the material the gravestone is made out of, can be acidic and can completely destroy what was there from 10 years to even 100 of years.
Factss
The cemetery where my grandpa is buried is run by heartless people. Every year around the Christmas holiday you can purchase wreaths from the cemetery but you can only have the cemetery's wreaths. When I was visiting my grandpa's grave I watched as the workers went to every grave that had a wreath that was purchased elsewhere and removed them. It was so horrifying, disgusting, and vile. There was one wreath that was really painful to see them grab, it was on a fresh grave meaning the person died recently. The wreath was so beautiful and as I watched them take it I felt so sick. All this to say I'm all for restoring graves to their original state by cleaning them but when someone disrespects another person's grave for selfish reasons it is sick and they deserve to be shamed for their disgusting behavior.
I think you can get proof of them doing that and take it to the city council to get them booted and replaced by people who aren't greedy asses
Whatever manager or owner implemented the "only our wreaths so we can extract cash from you"... gross, so gross. I can't hold the workers personally responsible because they didn't make the policy, but I DO sure hold the policy-make responsible for that callousness.
Oh that's FUCKED
Like just leave it!!!! It's already there?!! Rotten
13:55 As a Spanish person... She didn't even try to know what the words in the grave meant, which adds more to the disrespectfulness. The actual translation would be something like "Dead but welcome. Lugo Velez, July 23 of 1980" and to add insult to injury, it later says that he was the cementery caretaker of his daughters and family. This made me so sad. May he rest in peace...
True though, as a hispanic person, i was so pissed off that she thought it was a name.
Amen. Rest In Peace Lugo. I will say no more as I am afraid of being disrespectful to him after seeing the monstrosities of *her* actions
@@Picklecheeseawesomesame and idk if it really matters or not but most of the graves she cleans have names that seems Hispanic and it’s just rubbing me the wrong way
Bienvenida in this case is a first name. "Falleció Bienvenida Lugo Vélez" translates to "Bienvenida Lugo Vélez died" in a literal manner or, more appropriately, "Here lies Bienvenida Lugo Vélez".
Same with me, I'm span8sh and whe I saw that I was MAD
My mum took her own life yesterday. We couldn't even get a closed casket funeral cause she'd decomposed too much by the time they found her. We decided to cremate her just like she wanted and leave her urn next to my grandpa's grave so anyone who wants to visit her can.
I don't really care about it cause it won't change the fact she's gone. I just wish she didn't die in the first place, or at least not like this, not so soon. But I wanted to respect her wishes and maybe it'll bring comfort to some of my family members to be able to visit her at the cemetery.
Still, I'd be livid if a complete stranger did anything to even slightly damage or even alter her urn or my grandpa's grave. It'd be so disrespectful to the rest of my family, who might need it to grieve properly. There are living people suffering her loss whose feelings on the matter need to be respected.
I don't understand how someone can lack so much empathy and still claim they're doing something good.
Im so sorry about this happened. Just wish your mother rest in peace now
She PAINTED gravestones??? And took LIVE flowers??? WTH, I hope she'll understand what she's doing or just will get sued, idk.
there was also someone in the comments saying that she cleaned her grandpa’s grave
@@gyaru_ami_stanSomeone has said she also cleaned their grandmothers grave and cleaned the toy the grandmother had given them as a kid, so the fingerprints were now gone. Clean girl needs to be sued
i hate that she paints the graves cause its not really neccesary they look weird after she paints them white
giving graves the landlord treatment is crazy
Not to mention that paint is going to chip quickly and then the grave will look *really bad.*
To add to it, since she is advertising a cleaning product and doesn’t say she painted it, that could be considered as an attempt to defraud customers by lying about the effectiveness of the product.
I also don't like the fact that we don't know what's _in_ the cleaning products. Like just smothering the graves in that cleaning solution then sluicing it away onto the grass, who tf knows what's going into the ground and affecting the local flora and fauna? It's just disrepectful on every level.
Pretty much the same as Kaboom cleaner.... abrasive bathroom cleaner.....
15:22 im sorry, but did she just spank that plushie? this is truly digusting, i hope she gets karma..
My grandma puts flowers on children’s graves. Ones that don’t get attention. She wants them to feel loved.
See that’s beautiful and nice!! Bless your grandma and her sweet soul, what she’s doing is completely different and it’s more heartwarming and respectful
@@atiwatixx I was so touched when I found out she did that
It’s sad the graves have been forgotten, but at least she remembers them…
good to know your grandmother knows how to be respectful with true intent, everyone deserves to be remembered
If I didn't think it was illegal to go inside the cemetery, I feel like that would be sweet. Props to your gma for doing stuff respectfully.
Wow, that is so sweet
Bless your grandma, she is a good person to me
“He was a war veteran. He deserves *so* much respect.”
* smears entire grave with paint and ruins his plaque *
DEVASTATING!! UTTER SH!T3!!! REPORT HER! THE VA SHOULD BE SHOWN THIS ALONG WITH PPL IN DC! THE VA CAN REPORT HER!! GO UP, I LEFT HER INFO ABOVE.
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that would 100% be a crime and I hope the appropraite authorities find her videos see the veterans grave being vanadlised like that and take the appropriate actions
15:22 Hold up, did she just SPANK a dead child’s teddy bear?!
Even clesniang it can be disrespectful cuz that could’ve been the last thing the kid touched and they basically washed the memory away
I don't think so, the hand looked to be stationary in that shot
And how is that bad exactly?
@@Number1BlueyHater I really hope you’re not seriously asking that
@@Number1BlueyHater I refuse to believe people like you exist
12:18 OKAY BUT PAINT THEM? WHATTTT
She could do this without posting it on the internet. She’s strictly doing it for views. They aren’t “random acts of kindness”
Random acts of kindness are going out and being nice to people without expecting any reward or bragging about it.
The way I gasped out loud when she used a CHAINSAW to cut down a tree that was growing around a grave.i know somone who has a family tradition to plant a tree next to the grave of a loved one that has passed.they would not be happy if that happened
Someone needs to shut this girl down
RIGHT!!! It's so unnecessarily violent/destructive and for what???
FRRRR!! At least have the decency to ASK the freaking cemetery, that’s their property!!
Now imagine you are a family member of that person and go to visit their grave only to find it PAINTED and your flowers REPLACED without your permission?
9:34 end of the sponsorship
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Man, this is gross.
My reverence for graves go so far that I actively try not to tread on the grass above the deceased's body. Seeing someone doing this for monetary gain and internet fame just seems *_so_* beyond the pale to me. I was flabbergasted when she *_painted_* the headstones!
This is so incredibly disrespectful, it's sickening. And if someone did this to one of my loved one's graves, I'd be livid!
Play holy crap if you see coins on top of a veteran's grave do not touch them they have specific meanings
Coins on military headstones are a sign of respect and honor for the deceased service member. The denomination of the coin has a specific meaning:
Penny: A visitor has been to the grave
Nickel: The visitor served with the deceased at boot camp
Dime: The visitor served with the deceased at some point
Quarter: The visitor was present when the service member died
Nah,I'm taking that quarter
dang little bros reply got deleted.. shame on him
someone named mdswitchy378 or something said he was taking that quarter
@@basebig1341 I would,it's a quarter
@@mdswitchy378that's fucked up. Go get money from work, not stealing from the dead.
@@mdswitchy378 That's just sad. You aren't being edgy, you're just being a bum.
She is also definelty editing the cleaning product to become a fun colour. So idk what Will happen when she actually starts Selling it
Maybe it will be the Pink Sauce of cleaning products
Yeah I was wondering about it from seeing the white outline as she sprayed the toys, and I honestly wonder if they're specifically doing this to cause outrage, so they keep getting commenters to fìght and pay attention.
Like I wouldn't be surprised if she later revealed that these grave fixes were done with the family's permission (because some of the graves she paints were originally painted white) but she left it out so it'd seem more LOL RANDOM and cause reactions.
@@TehMimi Beat me to it.
Watch when they package it poorly @@TehMimi
@@nightmarehound The green room spray that suddenly disappears from the "paint" on the curtain but covered it seconds earlier makes it pretty clear it's edited.
This woman baffles me. I can't even go within ten feet of a graveyard because I'm scared of ghosts and curses, and here she comes in like a tornado, defacing every grave she sees! 😭
She has such a strange Nick Jr. tone
Thats a good way to describe it!
She sounds like Troom Troom.
Having her hair in space buns makes her look very performative too.
@@macklyon7476LOL
Just looked it up on Google how she was repainting the tombstone and it is illegal to do so. it can be damage to the stone, the chemicals that are in the paint, cemetery costs, and vandalism.
Especially for aged stone that's already decaying.
Those dried flowers added something to the resting place in my opinion. My passed away loved ones were cremated, but if they were burried and someone would rip out the flowers, I'd be absolutely furious
I swear, if I died and then this girl came and clean my grave, I would just fly down from heaven and says, "You are a danger to the society of graves"
How is she not haunted by angry spirits at this point?!
Don’t worry! Just give it some time
Oh don't worry they will
Yeah I was wondering the same thing but karma will come
Because it's just a stone. Honestly.
@@redneckreviews3016 Those "stones" hold beloved memories and cherised moments, which would grant them spiritual connection. Just let people believe what they want to believe, damnit.
I can smell millions of lawsuits she's about to get. I can also smell testimonies from victims and witnesses of her. Let's all unite to stop her from doing this crime she's commiting : disrespecting cemetery's property, and touching properties WITHOUT ALL PARTIES' CONSENT, she has never been held accountable.
ANYONE CAN REPORT HER! DO THAT, - PHONE CALLS, EMAILS, PETITIONS, HANDWRITTEN LETTERS, I MEAN, POSTING A VIDEO LIKE THIS IS GREAT! NOW, JUST REPORT HER, MAKING A VIDEO, ISN'T REPORTING HER!! FIND OUT WHERE SHE LIVES AND REPORT HER TO THE STATE AND OR COUNTY SHE LIVES IN. THE PROOF IS THE TICKTOK VIDEOS.
"How did this grave get so dirty"
The Grave: 1947
I don't know maybe because they've been there for a WHILE. It's not gonna look brand new forever. Are you serious?
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11:45 this is horrible if you know that some plp put their ashes with potting soil to grow plants out of the deceased and that woman tears off the flowers to put in fake ones .. 😒
UGH! I'm a historian with a special interest in cemetery preservation and this hurts to watch
Thats so freaking cool. I want to clean old tomb stones but don't wsnt to mess it up, wouldnt know ehat to buy or why to get permission from lol.
someone did this to my mothers husbands grandfather and scratched the whole grave up
I would hate if my dad's grave was cleaned without permission. I feel bad for the grave tho 😭
I'd take em to court if I were you. If there was evidence of course.
if I die and in a 100 years if the ghost of this woman comes to "clean" my grave, I'm climbing back from hell to drag her down with me
Same
I'll help
Same here