How to ACTUALLY get girls (in 2 steps)
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The 2 things you need to ACTUALLY get girls
The 2 Things Needed To Get Girls
How To Get Girls In Just 2 Steps
Use These 2 Things To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams
Every Man Needs These 2 Things
Don't read the comments, actually watch the video. The 2 things are not what you think and the people commenting below did not watch 😆
Lol
So many glazers pop in just to comment their opinions
Like me
@@Not_J_69420 bruh i was joking.
People do watch the video, but they comment trash anyway, or they just came with excuses for not to do the work
@@MAR2TV say that to my face
Good stuff man. I'm 10 years single age 35. but I have had hot woman before. Just messed it up with my insecurities. I turned into a bitch. You are right though.
You can read the learners book on how to drive for years, but unless you actually drive you will never become a good driver. You can watch these videos all you like, but unless you actually approach girls, fail, learn and repeat, you will not improve. Repetition is the mother of skill
well said brother
and Pain is the best master of them all.
Very well said
You watch cory wayne😂
You compare things to humans. It is not the same operating machine and interacting with humans. Anyway, there are prostitutes and there is no need to approach girls to boost their fragile egos and waste your time.
I don’t know anyone in any generation who wasn’t confused and had anxiety about dating, living and getting by thru life. It’s called your 20s. You need the struggle to grow up and realize. Stop sweating the small stuff. Cause that’s all it is.
life in general is too expensive too. But also girls have TOO many options
Agreed, but also we can admit we should have more options, and that should be the focus, not the options afforded to others. What do you think?
Become the best option
what inflates a woman's ego is when they link both attraction of men & retention of men, this causes woman to confuse that the abundance of having a lot of options opens a door to multiple potential successful relationships but this is false because attraction and retention are two completely different subjects. its the job of a man to interview and determine the eligibility or requirements a woman must obtain in order for men to lead a successful relationship. Men are smarter we know when a woman has hoe tendencies or trauma or past history off rip just by talking to them
@@alexpivniouk8421best option out the 3 she’s already sleeping with ?
For the record, dating isn't easier in your 30's.
It's never easy, you need to overcome all your weaknesses and have a lot of luck at the same time in order to be successful.
Thank you for warning the youngins these older mf’s be tripping
It isn't, but the same principles can be applied as in your 20s to make it better. Turning 30 doesn't magically make things doubly difficult overnight.
Nor more difficult at least for me.
Or in your 40s
11:28 let’s not act like females get rejected, let’s be real even if they do they will hit on their 2nd or 3rd option and forget the main dude they liked even existed.
When Im bored at home, I love going for a long walk in the afternoon, from my neighboorhood to the city, just because, go to the city for no reason, get an icecream and walk, you never know who you might meet along the way bross
Yo finally, I’m so happy u uploaded
Welcome back Denmo, missed your uploads 🤝
thanks G back to regular programming
i hope your socializer community skyrockets haha
1) good looks
2) have masculine energy/be dominant
you're welcome
0 out of 2 ...
@@giveitatry951😂😂
1) good looks
2) good looks
Nothing else matters, not one bit.
I swear as soon as you open your mouth, even if you are attractive, and some shit comes out, attraction goes away (perhaps even if you are a greek god)@@sunderland7069
@@sunderland7069limiting belief
Trim shave jack looking lit but clean the best💪🏼🔥
Great video yet again
Incredible video and very correct points as well🤝👏👍!!
Thanks man I use to be such a Chad when I was in high school. I lost my confidence back in 2021 due to a bad break up. I’m locking back in. Thank you for the motivation. If I ever see a video again I hope to tell you I did and I found the one.
Missed you bro❤❤
Preparation and oportunity.
Well, yeah, that's all that is needed to be successful in anything in life.
What it comes down to is looks and running the numbers AKA numbers game
It’s kind of like when two teams play each other, the best team always wins.
Do a video for choosing the right career as a teenager please Denmo
The only difficult part is what you do after getting her number cause most of them flake
Because they have many options. Dating apps, social circles, ect. That's why it makes sense that it HAS to be a #'s game. They have a numbers game going on as well.
@@conlawmeateater8792which is why I don’t bother to begin with ! 🤙
Honestly I don't scoop the ice cream with my hands, I find it to be far more effective to use the claw method. That way I have a firm grip on the ice cream I need and can dip it in whichever toppings I need before eating it.
great video
Denmo plz make a video on how to get a girlfriend (or just female friends) then you're 16 and in high school. Also it'd be nice if you mention how to talk to girls and invite them out if you are in the same class and in the first few weeks you weren't really talking to them (that's what happened to me)
Also I love how you made videos of you aproaching girls grayscale. Doesn't hype me up so much now
One way to make friends is to talk to them like them a question, help them and ask for help.
Go through his videos thez actually a full guide he made specifically for that which u want
@@motherhoodsbeauty9279 Yeah I already did this. I just can't figure out what to do next. Like asking for a pen and then asking them out would be weird, but I just can't make a normal conversation
@@delronmackay1473 Actually? Could you send the link plz?
Very good video jack
Rocketlike content! 👏 Getting to the root of every problem is the only effective way!
The thing I dont like about dating or attraction courses is that you gotta find confidence and charisma within cause you cant fake it it wont last
I’m 16 and i feel so ahead of the game because of your vids thanks man
Let’s go I’m 16 too :D
Focus on school little fellas, you’re too young
r u approaching girls bro?
@@besiari2105 I was until I got an abundance of girls to decide on
@@jacobrogers4619its okay to start young
I think it's also important to learn female psychology too, and how attraction works. All the black pill channels are polluting the next generation of men. They don't know how attraction actually works. They think it's all about looks. When I was 18 I was listening to David DeAngelo all day. It shined light on my dark soul.
Cope
@@NBackTA What does cope mean? Some kind of next generation term? I'm 38
@duelnback Stop repeating twitter language. Makes you look dumb.
I'm not where I want to be, but I'm still trying
Thank you so much for this bro
We should never do the bare minimum
Let the preparation meet opportunity
Bro, with working from home. Im really struggling with dating. I guess I need to make time to get out more. I was going out alot more before all this covid shit.
Man I swear Covid ruined my routine
99% of men quit dating advice videos just one video before finding the one that will fix them
Gotta milk out a few more interactions from the normies
Good advice. I would buy the course but I’m broke as shit.
Denmo in a nutshell: "You must have a girlfriend. Unless you have a girlfriend, there'll always be a lack inside of you. Humanity will die out if you don't have a girlfriend. And never enjoy being alone."
i mean, what do you expect from someone trying to sell dating courses
@@ricardomilos10 Yeah, it's his business model
I love being alone it’s the best shi ever !
No need to worry about cheating, games, manipulation, narcissism, lying, money, etc and etc !
@@Rtb323ok so what are you doing here? This video is not for you. Why bother with making a comment? I see these comments but its like these people try to cope by "proving" to others how they dont want to have a gf because they cant get one.
@@Lordani66 videos on the internet are for everyone since it’s on a “public” platform. This video may not be for me. But it’s interesting forsure.
1•Tall & good looking (mostly)
2•Conficence (be willing to do whatever is necessary)
3. I am actually just tall and good looking so i wanted to feel special hahaha but yeah watch the video first
Wait.. you’re telling me I can walk outside just in two STEPS!?
First step is to be physically attractive.
@@thealiminop7571 Yes being taller is definitely a benefit because you need to pass the height threshold. I think wearing shoe lifts will help, but not if you’re like 5’4. I definitely recommend shoe lifts if you’re between 5’7 and 5’11 though, if you’re under 5’7 though you’re kinda screwed.
@@thealiminop7571 it’s okay just go for a woman who’s like 4’10.
It's really simple, the key, if you want it, is to take ACTION men
Even if youre butt ugly?
I'd would go ask girls out but i don't wanna get called a creep like I've always seen on the Internet soo..
how do i approach a group of girls when i am interested in 2 of them in the same group of friends
Bro this is a bit off topic but you look so unfamiliar without the beard.
I personally would go for the beard. It really fits you
I did grind to get a girlfriend got a friend s with benefits more than okay though
“hey! So nice of you to reach out. I want to be completely transparent and let you know that I am seeing someone but I loved chatting and wish you the best!”
Who sent that? 😂
Im indeed very talanted at scoping ice cream with my bare hands, and i want to thank you that my talent finnaly gets appreciated
"It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first"
I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken.
I thought that was bang-on right there.
and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex.
It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys.
He said:
"Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving."
That pissed me off more when I read that.
Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills, the way he behaves around others, has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. Men need to focus more on the behavioral aspect than women do when it comes to attracting someone it seems. The main reason why i hate that, is because guys, men, can unfortuneately be labeled creepy or weird in interactions or social situations with women, even if the guy, man, never meant any harm, was never trying to hurt the woman, the reverse isn't true though. The way a man talks or behaves in a conversation or in an interaction between a man and a woman is what makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around.
And due to men always having been expected to walk up to women and open our mouth, it makes more sense for the man to need to practice but not the woman.
If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy, it seems., as in, make someone feel uncomfortable.
Men have to do all the practicing and all the learning, women just have to exist and automatically have dudes lined up wanting to be with them, that doesn't take any training or practice or trial and error or learning
Oh believe me, I've met more than a fair share of attractive girls who exhibited behavior or said dumb shit in the first few interactions that turned me off.
Women definitely have it easier finding a date, but vetting dates and building a relationship takes all the same effort for a woman that it does for a man. On the flip side, I've seen some of the more attractive girls become jaded after getting all sorts of attention from guys, and persistent douchebag orbiters who won't take no for an answer. It's easy to dismiss their complaints coming from a guy, saying "you're complaining about being popular!" but if you get unwanted attention constantly, it can get tiresome. However, I think the whole gender war is NPC BS and a waste of time and energy.
All in all, I don't necessarily think dating is overall easier for women than men. It's more difficult in different areas, but I must confess that getting a date is definitely easier for girls than guys.
I'm glad that people like Denmo put out content like this to help young dudes who feel lost or frustrated in the dating world
well one thing that is definetley true, women never risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy, but men do unfortuneately, women can get away with not understanding social boundaries with men, but men can't get away with it around women, due to how reality dictates that men have to be the ones to make advances on a woman@@Leitis_Fella
I often find myself paraphrasing a very underrated line from The Matrix: "Stop thinking about trying to talk to girls and talk to girls!"
In all seriousness, I actually found myself a girlfriend not long ago because I was putting myself out there more and making approaches. While it didn't last, I'm even more fired up because it proved that my progress this year is translating to results. Instead of getting upset and butthurt about her ghosting me, I have just put myself back out there while I continue to work on myself. My next night out isn't until November 3rd, but until then I'll keep up the approaches for practise.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take gents. Make 'em count!
I'm 53 years old, and I theory about the dating and courtship problems that seem to have cropped up in the past couple of decades.
What else, besides internet/social media, has changed in that time?
For the past couple of centuries, at least, young people used to go out dancing.
That's the main way people got together, from the minuet, to the waltz, to salsa, to the Lindy Hop, to the Sock Hop, to the New Wave club, to the Rave....
Hip-hop killed actual dancing, replacing it with THOTS grindingvtjrir asses on dudes that just standing there pelvic thrusting .
Maybe I'm just old, but I still get women.
Very few are worth getting, though.
18:20 dopamine from phone, instead of the value of real human intrest /contact. This is so to the point of todays world. Thank you tot this sharp observation. Hope it helps more people to realise and maybe act upon.
Good morning brother
Trying my shot at being myself and just owning my adhd and non-stop talking when they arent and listening to them when they talk, and the girls kinda are digging it? I dunno what I'm doing but I guess it works lmfao
Its better go fight with a blunt sword then stay back in the kingdom sharpening it,
Yeah you should sharpen it but useless if it never sees battle
Have u been in Bali?
Money and status
Saved you all the time
*Looks
I just did a exam for university and it did not go well. I just dawned on me while I was watching this video. I have been studding wrong. I forgot how to do it for some reason and I have not been using the most effective methods. I feel like and idiot. I also need to go to therapy and fix my current mental health issues
I talk to girls but after sometime i feel like not talking to them and i thought they just loose interest in me cause they just never talk first. Can u help me with that?
If they're not talking to you or reciprocating in the conversation then they aren't interested. Women make it easy for guys they actually like.
@@oldscratch3535 what to do next then 🤷🏻♂️
@@vegetagaming3557 Withdraw your time and attention and move on to the next girl.
Always prioritize girls that show interest in you. Quickly discard the ones that don't.
@@vegetagaming3557on to the next one brother
Me eating ice cream while watching this video 👁👁
1. Get attractive
2. Make a deal
1. Be me
2. Be Palpus
Bro I`m just tired to be lonely and fantasizing every day! I wished if I haven`t cared about girls like we do in childhood.
Sometimes I even think it`s better to accept I should be single for the rest of my life rather than going to approach some random unknown girl in the streets that may destroy me.
Getting a girlfriend to not be lonely sure is about love. Can't handle your own thoughts, huh?
Can relate so much, man. 😔
Jack my brother, try wearing gold jewelry over silver you’re a summer tone.
I notice that youre right, maybe gold tone fits better on jacks skin, Im brown, what works better for me, silver is too white?
@@MAR2TV gold suits brown skin tones typically as it falls under that summer tones category.
Bracelet or a necklace
thanks brotha will do
Gold beat inflation
Money & looks 👌
People at 40 don´t even know, not just people under 30, the founder of alibaba didn´t know what he wanted or his purpose until after 40....There´s no age at what you should accomplish what.
Cool vid
hitting girls pick up line prank video
Scoop your hand with ice cream
so the 2 things are
preparations and opportunity ?
Pushin P in a nutshell
And stop watching fresh and fit and andrew Tay video
Some time ago I was heartbroken, so I started to look on the internet for answers, I discovered fresh and fit an other similar creators, I related to some of the examples that they were talking about, so I start to engage in the content, started to resent mi ex because i believed that she did me wrong,, the I discovered Denmo and my mind start to change, I was the problem, I wasnt ready, she is a normal person, but fresh an fit and all that shit made me belive that every girl is a villain, dont watch that poison..
Who?
@@MAR2TVthey do have some valid points though about modern women
You shaved? Pretty sure you used to have a furry growth on your face.
I work 12 hours a day most days, even on weekends, I live somewhere where there are no yoga classes, no cooking groups, or whatever the hell. It's 4 hours to the nearest place that does. Any women within three decades' age of me around here are leaving for college or work. I'm comfortable and happy here overall, I'd just like to find somebody to share it with. I wish dating apps actually worked. I don't 'expect' somebody to come to me, it's essentially my only hope.
Its weirdly easy lol, its called just ask
Lol. By "get girls" I actually thought you meant "understand" them. Hmm...imagine that.
How to ACTUALLY get girls:
1) be attractive like Denmo
2) say words
Thanks for helping us with step 2, but we already know how to make noises with our mouths.
Words to a woman are like magic. If you can make her feel things with your words, she’s practically yours. You gotta make them wonder and worry and sometimes cry. These are the typical types of voids married women for example subconsciously express, because the man who married her STILL doesn’t realize leading a woman isn’t the same as leading a man - you gotta lead her with emotions. They want a story and want to live within that story.
@@johntravers2321 lol no bro. The exact same words are interpreted differently based on how you look.
I went out with two girls once. One girl thought I was hot, and her friend thought I was ugly. I ended up taking the one girl home to smash.
While laying in bed afterwards, she told me when they went to the bathroom together, her friend said I was sooo annoying and wouldn’t stop talking. The girl I smashed said I was “confident, charismatic, smart, and interesting.”
I’m literally saying the same words, and it’s interpreted 180 degrees differently by two girls.
It was pre-decided whether my words would have value, and that pre-decision was from my looks.
@@The.Harsh.Truths Going after women who have pre-selected you is effortless. Keeping her around without getting booty-whipped is going to be where you specifically fail. You’ve just made this whole process lust-driven and so that is why you are going to lose her attraction towards you later on.
@@johntravers2321 nice assumption but wrong. I’ve been seeing that girl for over a year now. She wants it to get serious, but I’ve left her as part of my rotating roster.
I don’t think you know who you’re talking to. I was a pretty famous Quora writer on dating, and a well known expert in this space.
Happy to answer any questions you have, but you’re brainwashed by guys like Denmo. The truth is that women decide whether they’d smash you in the first second they meet you, and the words that come out of your mouth can rarely sway her after that. Unless those words are “I’m rich and famous.”
This guy is part of the game grift on RUclips where he tries to sell how to game women, so of course he’s going to play up the impact game can have on your results. Game can help, but not a lot. You’re better off going to the gym and getting promoted at work.
He forgot to mention that if you don't look attractive enough no amount of "preparation" would get you the result you want instead you would get the same result over and over again. If you look attractive enough you don't need to prepare or have game to attract girls. i am not saying don't improve your communication skills, its important but I am tired of these people ignoring looks as if its not a core piece in your dating life
no its not. ur message clearly signifies that u have never approached girls. i got a girl (really average looking guy). u can get to. u r a cockroach who is not getting out of his home.
He knows this, he just has to pander to his female and normie audience or how else will get views? Looks are everything.
@@NBackTA fellow black piller haha
Please grow an epic stache
1) being tall
2) having a masculine face
Saved your time
Biggest slayer I personally know is my cousin (400+ bodies) and he's 5'9
I've found dating just isn't worth it.
Why?
@@patrickc8007 What do you mean why? What advantages are there to being in a relationship.
After how many attempts?
@@stillwinslowthecatjustwith8310good on you man, women are just problems
im getting sex. and loving it.
❤
okay , alll you say is good , how to practice ?
go and talk to the very first girl u see on street. doesn't have to be a young girl. but any human. just go do that
@@vasudevmaheshwari1210 what should be the goal At first?
Take the black pill, Saled.
Im still waiiting for that one line that get her wet
Eh Pass I got plenty of other things to chase in life.
Every time I see a video of u remind me to be suidical
Same
I read Suidical as suicidal
That's a new one for the vocab
Let me guess.. another RUclipsr with a drawn out generic video trying to sell you a course?
Fell asleep on the minute 2 .. woke up on minute 4 ... fell asleep on minute 6 ... This video is too long
besides... I dont want a woman.. Im jjust interested in money and die in 5 years.
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Step 1: have a 6+ inch d
Step 2: be 6 ft tall
jkjk
I'm both 6in+ and 6ft+, doesn't work man ;)
I have both were are my women?
@@Szpareqhow do I get a six inch man I think I’m on 3.5
@@delronmackay1473 you don't because it's genetics. 3.5in AFAIK is enough for a woman, especially if she's a smaller one. If you find one that finds you funny, manly and somewhat attractive, she will be fine with a small dick
Step 1: talk to girl you like.
I’m glad so many comments are blindly swallowing this BS and being real with themselves.
Move on gentlemen, and find peace.