Having an unfriend option will be really nice, even just for one side - you remove them from your list, but your name stays in theirs so if they eventually come back to play the game, they could find you and rekindle that friendship. So far I only blocked people who annoyed me, asked my phone number, or griefed me for spending time with other people, but not with them. The second one is really annoying like seeing one of your friends hang out with other people, but instead of saying hello and join them or go away to look for someone free to hang out with, they start to scold you for being a poor friend. x) Having little tolerance for such low-key toxic manipulators.
I see you often commenting on sky content! but I don't have that many friends in sky, so I haven't encountered many issues, I'm sorry for any problems with yours tho
@@heatherwild2627 ooh, thank you, don't worry I'm fine. :) I don't think I have a consistent friend group, but I have some people who often come to see me, or whom I can join, and they will accept me to their candle run so that surely helps. As for getting friends, I usually offer candles to someone who was helpful during a candle run, like if I was alone or with someone, for example, helped to burn a tree at wasteland or opened a door, they do not always accept it, but over time you'll find people to hang out with. ^^'
I sometimes blocked moths who offered me their candle but then they never went back online and just stayed as moth in my constellation for hundred years I'm sad 😔
They might be busy or they don't have time to play. I myself never has blocked a friend, even a moth. Because you never know, that moth is gonna be a great veteran
@@anannoyance1037 Oh don't get me wrong, I often checked on them but after months of lighting them up and see them still inactive, I have to make way for new players. I can't keep on waiting for them dead ones tbh 🤷♂️
I had this friend... lets call her Mars. I met mars while sitting at a bench in prophecy caves. I was with a different friend, and we were unaware that we could see chats from other benches. We saw her chatting with another friend and we started to converse with her and her friend as well. I started hanging out with her more, and she introduced me to many friends who are still my friend to this day. I started to notice a difference between her and the people she’s introduced me to. Hanging out with the people she’s introduced me to instead of her... almost felt like a breath of fresh air. Mars would constantly pick on me. I didn’t realize it wasn’t normal to constantly be insulted on a regular basis until I met these nice people. I tolerated her calling me dumb and stupid and whatnot until one day when I told her something personal. I told her about me being trans. She started calling me “princess” and other things that triggered my dysphoria. I tried my best to keep my cool, even coming up with harmless nicknames to tease back at her. But my teasing was nothing compared to her verbal abuse. I finally had blocked her. According to people who haven’t blocked her, she’s simply vanished off of sky and discord. She’s never online. Now I hang with much better people, and I don’t plan on welcoming her back into my life.
There's a reason why all assets, cosmetics, and items in sky are gender neutral and accessible to everyone. It's a safe space to explore, create, and build friendships. If anyone changes that, it's time to reconsider their friendship. Congratulations on your transition by the way. It's a very brave thing to be open about it, even if it's to a stranger on the internet. I hope your transition brings you as much peace, comfort, and support as you need =)
thats not bad. The only person i blocked for harassment would deliberately go up to people (especially those laying down) and spam emotes to make it look really innapropriate. Spamming kisses are fine so long as if someone makes it clear they are uncomfortable with it you stop.
"Sky is no place for having bad blood" I only have bad blood with my friend when she buys a new cape when I'm offline like bro I wanna watch you waste ya candles on ugly capes and clap for you😔💔
I blocked this friend of mine a while ago. She would teleport to me all the time. If I was chilling at home talking with friends, she would call me and my friends lazy and ask why we wouldn't go on candle runs (ironic since she came to me asking for a cr). And if I was on a candle run, she would ALWAYS go afk. I don't mind ubering someone if they're busy and need to afk but at least give a heads up. A cr that usually takes 2 hours almost always ends up taking twice the time because she would go afk for more than half an hour at a time. Once, I ended up getting really fed up as she was afk so I left her (this was in dreams village so it wasn't anywhere dangerous). She joined me later and started having a proper go at me for leaving her, saying it was rude and that I was a bad friend. I straight up told her that she was the rude one and that if she had a problem with me leaving her on cr, she could solve this issue by candle running alone. She then called me an a hole and I blocked her on the spot. Honestly, in hindsight, she was such a bad friend: always afk, insulted others, begged for hearts, also was really micro aggressive towards me (I'm ethnic chinese) and I'm surprised I even tolerated it for as long as I did. Life's short, there's not enough time for blatant disrespect from others.
Yeah..But I don’t think you’re rude..I always leave them at wasteland since they always tag along and afk for 2~3 hours when I could finish run in 1 hour or so
I kinda have the same story, I once had a friend and they constantly joined me and some of my other group friends, they were rude as sht they they do this role playing like thing where they pretend to kill me, they also harassed my other friends, block people who use candles to friend them, (back when they weren’t ruse I decided to use invite to friend them) I became sick of them then blocked them, also I had a yt channel and I realized the person who sent a hate comment to me was that same “friend” and after blocking them they found out after a bit and started talking sht abt me because I blocked them, and bruh it ain’t my fault you’re a rude sht “friend”, and they even once insulted one of my friends piano playing during a candle run like I- And they still haven’t changed since.
hey, sorry for interuption, but can you uber me sometimes in sky?.. it's hard to me keep concentration, so I usually can't do full cr and if you helped me it'll be nice 🥺. if you don't wanna to, it's okay..
@@seokstrash5894 a micro aggression is a comment that’s offensive but not necessarily explicitly or intentionally. an example would be like telling a black woman “you’re so pretty for a black girl!”; it’s meant to be a compliment but it just insinuates that black women are usually unattractive and it’s hurtful/racist
I adopted a 10 yr moth before.. I showed him what to collect in the game and he was kinda adorable. Until he started tping to me constantly and grabs my hand without consent. Once I carried 3 people during a wl run (my friend brought her 2 other friends with) and then this kid came to tp to me and grab my hand, i didnt mind at first although it was already hard to control a run with alot of people especially when leading. And then the kid started whining that he already collected all the wl there despite the fact I told him we are doing wings. So I let go of his hand and told him he can fly on his own if he doesnt need my help anymore and just explore or follow me from behind. But everytime I let go he grabs back to the point I bonked walls since the controls got weird (too many passangers makes it hard to press the toggle button when it overlaps with other sky kids for me). I explained that it was hard to control everytime he grabs my hand. But he does it anyways 6 times during the run.. I blocked him.. sorry kid. I know it was kinda rude to block u but I told u over and over again and yet u didnt care.
I have a sky friend told me his story about a girl he met, lets name my sky friend "Ben". Ben told me that the girl he met make him uncomfortable, the girl is asking him to give his number to her and she want him to be her boyfriend. I told Ben to block her, he said he will do that.
Burning big plants is not easy. 😭 I am sorry but I always fly way up and drop down the plant. Once the player was so frustrated with me and himself came up, leaving his own place behind. I was embarrassed af for being so unskillful at flying. Edit:- After taking advice from people about training in rainforest, I have improved. I do sometimes get stuck under plants while trying to climb it, but I have improved tremendously. I sometimes burn the big plant from crying emote place alone.
Thats not your fault tho...and i dont think the player are frustrated he probably just want to help you or in a rush try to practice burning plant at the end of forest with the big plant( ◜‿◝ )♡ you will get used to it
Hi! If you find it hard to burn the plants, you can help with keeping the plants from growing. If the other player is done burning their side of plant and you still have a hard time burning yours just fly to them and make point emotes, asking them to burn the other side too while you keep the side that is already burnt from regrowing. While they do that, don’t forget to deep calls to recharge them and keep your candle on. For me it’s better to do this compared to completely giving up and left the player to burn the plants alone. That’s just my experience when I’m burning plants with new players 😊 hope it helps!
@@nisahusnaa7578 Aww. Thankyou for replying. I will try this too. I mostly burn one side, if I successfully land, and keep holding one side from growing again. But since I play solo many times and encounter people who waits for me to burn plant, I get nervous.
Im surprised many people met some horrible people, I guess Im lucky or smthg because I've never met anyone or befriended anyone that is toxic or just bad person. Anyways, I hope you guys that encounter these type of people would have the courage to just block them because thats the right thing to do! 🌟
@@johjoh6429 well, toxic people to me is basically people that made you uncomfortable or make you do stuff you dont want to or shame you. -Like for example, begging for hearts. Not heart trade but they straight up ask for one for free since you're their 'friend'. (and im talking about daily free heart, they ask everyday even though they know you're saving up for stuff) -Or another example, ask you about privacy questions when you said you dont want to answer. -Another example, call you bad names/down grade you like 'You're so bad at candle running, you took so long and its only wasting my time.' -And maybe even wanna keep you for their own/Keep you away from your friends. Like they dont want you hanging out with your friend cuz they want you to only spend time with them. Many-many more examples but i think you can understand from my few examples. Hope it helps, really 🌟❣️
I had a moth that I raised with my boyfriend in sky. Ofc we had a good time. we took her everywhere, we taught her how to candle, we helped her make many friends and taught her how to do so much. When me and my boyfriend went inactive in sky to focus on other things. It took us a few months to get back into sky but when we did she joined us non stop begging for help with cr and and giving her hearts because she was broke. She got every ts. she continued to beg. we always took her because of course she was still gonna be our little moth. she grew stronher everyday. she eventually learned how to candle herself and stopped coming to us. if she did she wanted to flex on what she had and what we didnt. We slowly got more distant because of her lack in care. If she asked for cr shed tell us how slow we were. or if we played music shed tell us she could play it better. In reality. she had no idea how to use the music keys. ofc she is a child and is younger than us both but there is no excuse to say things like that to other players. especially if they are people who got you to that very spot you are. Ps. Ally. If you see this I hope you change your attitude.
I only block people if I see that they haven’t been on in a few months(so I can make space for more friends). But the one time I seriously blocked someone was because they kept trying to talk about religion with me; I got uncomfortable and ended up blocking them.
People who bring in politics and religion into video games are so weird? Like im fine talking about that stuff with my VERY VERY CLOSE IRL FRIENDS. But online friends??? Like man stfu i don't even know your birthday 💀
There's this guy I had befriended who kept asking me and my friend if we were muslims, if we spoke arabic and where we lived. He also tps to me whenever he can and although my friends try to befriend him by code to make communication easier, he acts like he doesn't know how to and changes the topic. I think I should block him, but he sends me hearts every once in a while. Any advice?
There’s this one person I met on Sky, he was one of the first people I had ever met on Sky. And he also showed me almost everything I know about Sky. He and I would CR daily, talk, go to Eden together, and collect WL together. At first I thought it was great, and that he was really my best friend on Sky. But after sometime, I made new friends, and I still enjoyed (let’s say his name is Carrot) Carrot’s company, but I also wanted to spend time with my other friends as well, not just him. Everytime I went online, he would join me, or just be there waiting for me to come online. Everytime I’m trying to spend time with some of my other friends, he always joins, and just tags along. I personally wouldn’t mind it that much, but my friends then have to uber like 4 people, including Carrot, and I don’t want to make things difficult for them. Some of my friends have also complained that Carrot randomly joins, and doesn’t even friend them. So basically it’s like having a stranger join us each day that doesn’t talk. When I offer Carrot to also communicate with my friends, and not just me, he only says “Hi” to them and nothing else, even when my friends are talking to him. It’s literally a one-sided conversation. It’s like he can’t carry a conversation with anyone else but me. He’s toxically clingy, and it’s gotten to the point I’m annoyed by him. I get that he’s a shy and introverted person, but he ALWAYS joined me. Always. I don’t think it’s healthy for him to wait for me to come on the game everyday, and then join me only, whenever I’m online. There’s also other issues, that don’t revolve around him not wanting to talk to anyone else - there’s also problems such as when we CR, like whenever we CR, and we have other people, he doesn’t make sure we all get the wax, and only makes sure he himself got it. When you CR, you need to make sure everyone is getting the wax. He is also very slow at grabbing hands, there’s been several instances where we finished burning the big plant in GW, and he did not grab my hand instantly, and me being the person I am, I wait for them to grab my hand, even though there’s krills around us, ready to attack. Instead, he waits for ME to offer my hand, and just stands there when we have other people there who are waiting for him to grab hands. Like no, I’m sorry. I’ll offer my hand, of course I will, but not every single time, especially if you’re fully capable of grabbing my hand to make things easier for everyone. So, what I ended up doing, was blocking the person. I used to see him as a best friend, we have so many pictures of our Sky kids together, but the toxic friendship that we had, and that Carrot couldn’t seem to understand, was just too much for me. I was able to put up with this for a year, but after a year, I just had enough of it. I even talked to Carrot about how just spending time with me, and only me was not good, and that it’d be nice if he was more open to other people. I know it’s not easy for some people to talk with new people, let alone become friends with them, but I know for a fact that just relying on me to make them happy was something that I couldn’t let continue. I’m not sure if this person knows I blocked them, because as much as I’m angry and just really pissed off everytime I see them, I don’t want to hurt their feelings. Carrot has never said or done anything rude to me, in fact, he’s always been such a great friend. But there’s a limit to our friendship, and he just doesn’t get that. I always unblock him around 3-4am for me, to light his candle, because I know he’s usually asleep at that time, and then I block him again. Sometimes, I keep him unblocked for a whole day or two, and let him CR and hang out with me, despite the fact that I don’t really enjoy it. Because as I said, I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I just hope he can find more friends than just me.
This recently happened to me, i met this sky player at home (?) and we didn't unlock chat since they added me. Weeks ago, this sky player latched on me and i said to my friends that my "friend" will join going to the office. When we got there and collected the wax, they suddenly unlocked our chat box and we became friends. We did a few duo runs, we had fun, i even added them on discord. I asked them how old they are and they're 9 years old (They're 10 now btw they just had their birthday). I'm look cool okay, i just said to them to be safe online cause they're so young. A few days has gone by and i asked two of my friends to add them, and they agreed. We had our first run (4 of us) and suddenly this kid just started lecturing us how to play like "go over the gate it's easier." or "Do the chibi glitch." like? We know??? We just brushed it off and then the next day (?) my friend messaged me to go on sky and i did because they wanted to show me the boat an ex friend planted. The kid and my friend apparently started a fight??? The kid said to me "Why aren't you protecting me? he's ignoring me." and i'm ??? in this one server i have all of my friends there and of course i'm overwhelmed on what's really happening. The kid suddenly got pissed and accusing me of being not a good sister etc. Now i talked to my friend and they said that the kid is shutting him and my other friend who's talking to each other, MAY I ADD IT'S VERY DISRESPECTFUL. My friend even said to me that they said Hello to the kid and even hugged them. Before that i talked to the kid why and they said "You wouldn't understand, i'm a KID." and it got to the point when i'm still TYPING, they said "oh so you guys aren't talking, well then fine i'll leave." and i'm so shocked about what happened. Okay then the next next day, me and my friends were farming a little bit at GW. The kid suddenly teleported to me and i said Hello to them and hugged them and asked how are they. The kid said they're still ignoring my friend because of what happened etc. and then me and my friend were on discord and i was telling them about this kid who got mad at us, and decided to put the chat table and talk a little bit. My friend joked around about Xiao being hot in the chat and of course we laughed cause it's a joke. Suddenly this kid said "Why are you saying that in front of a 10 year old?" and i'm ??? my friends and i were confused ?? i even said in the chat that it's a joke and it's lighthearted. The kid went on rambling about THEM getting r*ped in the chat without even knowing the meaning of the word, also get this, they're saying "BAKUGO'S MINE BACK OFF." when we got to the topic of favorite boy characters in BNHA. Then suddenly they started shutting ALL of my friends up and saying they're an idiot etc. They even said that they HATE jokes. In the end the kid got mad at me and started guilt tripping the hell out of me and saying they'll block me, of course i didn't care and said go ahead. I blocked them too at the end. I HATE HATE HATEEEE THE WAY THE KID TREATED MY FRIENDS. I had enough defending the kid to my friends, i wish they'll grow from this and become a better person in the future.
The only time I blocked someone was because they would constantly come to me every time they were online and, as a reserved person, sometimes I just want to be alone. We had a language barrier as well so it was hard to talk and explain to them I need privacy. After we talked once and it didn't work, my social battery was completely drained and I just blocked them :/ I felt super bad immediately after, but now I know I was looking out for myself so I don't regret it. Still, sucks.
Dude i'm having the same exact problem. I like doing my own thing by myself most of the time and I groan whenever they join me. I mean it's real constant. And on top of that, they get mad at me for not understanding them (they can only speak Japanese). I'm so tempted to block them but I don't think I have the heart to do it lmao
i had someone like that too but what annoyed me about them is they always wanted to lead and didn't let me lead like ever. but i haven't seen them online since new season started. if i block them i might ave to block one of the mutuals too. since they used to be friends first. also yes language barrier.
Off topic but I want to write something wholesome. I always finish my candle runs right after the reset. Sometimes my friend brings me along for candle runs through places I’ve already been through, but instead of leaving them, I help them with burning plant trees and lighting candles or just coming along the ride and thanking them in the end as a sign for appreciation! Also! I went online and my friend was talking someone, they were about to go on candle and they said that they just needed one more heart for a spirit cosmetic. So once they left, I gifted them a heart
" online harassment " me: *aggressively hugs and spam kisses at my friends when they get on.* also me: *starts having life crisis after watching this video.**
I remember meeting this girl, let’s call her Cheesecake. I was playing with some friends and this chibi came up to me and lit my candle, then my friend said it was one of her friends, which was cheesecake. Everything was going really good actually, Cheesecake even opened up to me about how one of her friends kept on saying he didn’t want to be friends anymore and was saying rude stuff. And of course, I gave her advice and told her some tips and you know, I helped her out. After that she started acting weird. She would usually be online and ignore me, I would talk to her and she would act as if I weren’t there I’m front of MY friends and her friends. It was really embarrassing and heartbreaking. But since I’m a person who doesn’t like to be rude to others no matter what, I kept talking to her. Until one day, I joined to do my daily quests and she was with a bunch of friends, so I said hi. That’s when she told her friends to wait for her and everyone suddenly stopped texting, no more chat bubbles. She went up to me and said “can you like leave now? Please thank you” and just walked away and sat with her friends. That’s when everyone started spamming chat bubbles, I assumed they where laughing, some where doing the yawn emote and other the laugh emote. That moment was disgusting, I instantly blocked her. I’m never accepting her again. Don’t want to see her or know about her.
I don't have that many friends on sky, I wish I did, but a week ago I got a friend who constantly pressed the hug icon. I'm a 15 year old girl and he told me he was a 19 year old boy. I didn't mind his age because my best friend on Sky is 21, and she's pretty cool, but then he constantly was asking for hugs and then asked me if id ever have a relationship with someone his age. It was grosss and I blocked him I block friends who have been inactive for a while, or who I just don't play with
I don’t have many friends either because I’m a new but I wouldn’t mind being your friend :o I also share same experience everytime someone finds out I’m a girl they insist on adding me on Instagram and start saying they have “feelings” it makes me so uncomfortable when we barely know each other. It’s a good thing you blocked him because he’s unable to respect boundaries, some people think this is a gateway game so they can date
It's so sad that even in sky harassment and abuse cases are common That happened to me too, and also some friends: guys asking me social media when they discovered that I'm a girl, boys acting flirty for no reason and trespassing boundaries
@@eri4232 so true, but as a old player i can tell you that making good friends can take a while but it's not impossible (Also we can be friends if you want to)
I've never personally had a need to block anyone. Reading the comments, it's been enlightening. I honestly had no idea some players felt this way. I tp to a lot of my good friends when I go online, never saw it as a problem as they do it to me too. I never realized that some didn't care for kiss bombs, I do it because I think it looks cute. (Same goes for hugs) . I am nearly 25, busy with work and school and I've taken time off for months due to life, and I didn't know it was seen as inconvenient. (Not to say you can't block anyone if you wanted to make space. That is your choice to make). I enjoy the interactive part of this game, and sure sometimes I want to play alone. But I take honor in those who want to join me. To each their own I suppose, unless I feel seriously uncomfortable (which I havent) I guess I don't feel the need to block someone. I was just surprised at some of the comments as it's not something that ever crossed my mind.
So far I’ve only blocked people who gave me their number and were like “give me a call some time :)” or asked me to be their “lover” as if sky is some kind of dating app lol even when I deny it, they still act persistent about it. That’s when I block when they don’t take my rejection seriously :/
I've had a lot of experience like you did😢 and it just makes me question... I'm pretty sure that many people has already blocked these creepers, just like how we did. And somehow they never learn..? Very weird. Maybe their brains are made out of dicks.
I read that people don't like it when their friends are AFK during Candle Runs. And I just remembered that a couple of times I accidentally fell asleep while they were driving me. And when I woke up and saw that I was sitting somewhere alone, I was so embarrassed that I left my friends. At least, I try to always thank them for their help and apologize for such situations. And also due to the fact that English is not my native language, I can't always maintain a dialogue with friends, because I just don't know what to answer. I think they might think I'm rude because I don't say anything, but I feel embarrassed about that too. If you are my friend or future friend, please excuse me.
Just to be clear - You don't have to be friends with someone who doesn't make you feel happy. It doesn't matter what the reason is that's holding you back, if they make you feel bad, block them. Sky is supposed to be enjoyable and peaceful. People that don't keep the peace should not be on Sky. Unfortunately you can't make them stop playing, but you can stop them from having contact with you. Don't hesitate. Do it.
There was this 10-year old kid I met in valley citadel. I was doing runs alone and then suddenly a moth with red cape added me and I accepted (because I added ikemen too when I was moth). She took me literally anywhere and then vanished. The next time we met (been a while since we met ingame) she offered me hand at home, I don't wanna be rude so I accepted. She then dragged me to wasteland and sat on the bench, and the first thing she told me was "Can you give me pass?" I was like lol, sorry my friend gave me this pass so she was like ok. I then suggested some stuff how to get it, since I can't give her one :( but then she asked if she can add my friend. I didn't want her to feel bad so I just said yes. Then another time I was with my girlfriend, this kid tped to me, lit my gf and then added her. Next thing I knew they were chatting and the kid was acting close. Sometimes she insists to take us on candle runs only to vanish in the middle of it. There were times when she was rude to me and my gf, and she kept asking me and my gf for hearts. At first I was fine with it, but one of those times I suggested we trade because I am in need of heart too, she said ok and then left. One time the three of us: me, my gf and the kid, were doing run in wasteland (I uber them), the kid was rude to my gf, so I told her off (not in a rude way) and she's like "Don't pressure me I'm just a kid" and then vanished. Sometimes when she does that, she comes back to apologize, and I accept it then tell her what she did wrong. We lasted for weeks like that. Until she kept on repeating the same thing, does something rude, vanishes, and then says sorry again. This kid even asked my gf for pass, and begged her for hearts which I didn't like too much because all she did was take, not even giving back a single heart to say thanks. Then the last moment I saw her was when I couldn't take it anymore. I was ubering her but then she vanishes. Please note that I am in a hurry that time and I told her we need to finish runs fast, also she's the one who asked me to uber her even though I said I am busy. So she tps back and I fled to her way so she can come to me, but then before I could reach her, she said b*j and then disappears again. I blocked her after that because that was disrespectful. I even treated her like a little sister, but I have tolerated her long enough. Even my gf told me she was bossy and rude to her. Lmao sorry I just can't with this type of attitude.
Just this week I blocked a long time “friend” It’s just toxic already. I wanted to be understanding and all but I guess it is too much. I tried at first to adjust with that friend: once she veers to being sad about whats happening to her real life, I will ask her for us to play together (candle run, quest etc) my thinking was that’s the only thing I can do; listen and let Sky as a game do its charm. This works in most days. But it came to a point that she rants about me and what we are doing in Sky. Suddenly will tp to you and expect she gets her way. Her side comments and snarky remarks made it awful for me and friends with me. Good thing I have not introduced her to my core Sky friends. Which made me realize to be very careful about your Sky group of friends too.
New player here, so far everyone I met has been very kind. Some brought me around to collect Winged Light and I always thank them at the end of each tour. I think, online friendship, is easily taken for granted as we, the players, do not really know the person behind the screen. After watching this video, I can understand why the creator and some people in the comment section, block other players. I personally would not block anyone but I get why some want to do that. It's not okay for anyone to just demand others to take them for CR and not even a "thank you" at the end of it. I have some veteran friends that have been playing for a long time, and even when I teleport to them, I always observe what they're doing first. If it seems like they are with their friends, I will not interrupt and play on my own. This is how one is supposed to play the game, I believe. ༼ つ ◕‿◕ ༽つ
back then ( a few weeks ago more specifically ) when I just played sky, I made a lot of moth friends. We played together for a day or too and then I never saw them online ever again :( To this day , I haven't blocked them and I don't plan too because I'll feel guilty. I'm just sad that they left just like that. Never saw them online and their looks are still the same
I literally have the same problem 😞✊ I once met this moth is forest who just friended me. We sat down on a bench and talked. We also get some spirits. I was helping this moth do Vault and Eden, getting seasonal spirits, wl, and cr. We did 2 of the quests in season of assembly. After that my moth friend just said see you later and went offline. I was ready to bring her for the next quest but she was never online since then. I miss her 😭✊
I met someone that act and dress like a moth he keep begging for hearts so i gave him daily its not a trade tho since he never gave me any but i dont really mind since he lied to get heart which seem pretty desperate so i just gave him out of pity he still doesnt know that ik hes a veteran🤭 lmao
I've blocked over 50 people by now. I'm a veteran player and have been on Sky for over a year. When I first joined the game, I would help many new players on their moth journeys, and some of those people grew to become veterans as well and some of my best friend's. But, it is very rare that a moth continues with game play, so these days I will accept a moth's invite, and then if we haven't unlocked more friendship levels by 4 days, I block. 2 months ago, I had over 100 in my constellation. Half of them wouldn't show up because you can only see so many at a time. It became extremely stressful for me to log on every day and see all of those 'friends' that I had. I felt like I was picking and choosing sides if I joined one but not the other, and I knew that a good chunk of them were all mutual and would be playing together. So after much debating, I decided to block all the people I rarely talked to/played with. That was probably the best decision I've ever made when it comes to Sky, because I've never been more happier about my game play. Now, I know that all the roughly-30 people I see on my constellation are actual friends that care about/want to be with me. There's no more stress and I can live my life with my good friends. Do what's best for you and your game play. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise; if you want to have 5 friends, go for it! If you want to have over 100, good for you! ❤❤
Once, I became friends with this person and at first they seemed really fun and cool. They taught me how to play a couple songs in sky and we did a few candle runs together. Then one day they warped to me and we unlocked some friendship nodes (I spent like 12 candles), and then they said "can I caress you". I thought that it was typo and they meant to say "carry" so I pressed the carry emote. They were like "Haha no. Not carry. Caress. It's spelled different". I told them I was a minor, and they said they didn't care. I was super disgusted and sad because I had just spent candles on them and they had seemed like a really cool person before that moment :(. Needless to say, I blocked them. Rest in peace to my candles. If anyone sends you unsolicited sexual messages, especially if you are a minor like me, its important to block and report them to keep you and other players safe.
Ngl sounds like the kind of mistake I'd make because my english is trash For a long time (well,,, until now actually) I though caress and pet was the same thing because in french its the same word for both lol
@@johjoh6429 you were right the first time!! caress isn’t a sexual word, it does mean “pet”. however, it can be used sexually. and if a stranger (or somebody you aren’t close to) says it to you, it’s very creepy and has suspicious undertones. same with the word “touch”. you can easily say you touched somebody’s hair and it doesn’t sound bad, but saying to someone “i want to touch you” or “can i touch you” sounds very weird in some contexts.
i am still a moth and got adopted by a veteran just few hours after i started playing. she’s too nice she kept showing me beatiful sceneries and helps me with a lot. she teaches me how to fly like a pro. she also initiates hug whenever we meet.
i blocked this one girl who was 13 and whenever i would tp to hang out with her she would always have some kind of problem she would rant to me about. i was okay with listening for a while but then she would just keep complaining about everything and that life is "meaningless" and would quickly bash whatever i had to say on the matter. so i gave up and blocked her. i just can't deal with the constant negativity.
I always feel very bad asking to trade hearts with my friends, i always send their heart back right away.. but i just feel like I'm bothering them.. I hope we can buy hearts too like candles :')
I blocked this friend I didn't really talk too, but some times when I was online they would beg for hearts. I thought it would be mean to just block them on the spot when they asked again, so I told them that I was gonna block them because they didn't give any hearts back and I didn't really talk to them (Stupid move). They started spamming crying emjois and saying that it was too being mean to just block them on the spot. But I blocked them anyway, when I did they did a bunch of crying and angry emotes. I didn't really care 🤭. I am sometimes glad that there's a block button
a few months back i had a friend named uhh, i'll call him "frill" i met him in a server from another friend i rarely talked to but she invited me anyways, this "frill" guy was seen as the cold-hearted edgy type of dude, but he grew close to me quickly and we had a lot of fun talking together he was what you'd call an "ikemen" on sky. i wasn't really interested in him as i had a boyfriend at the time, but after about 2 weeks of talking, he told me about how he would constantly lead other young girls on (girls who are about 10 and he was 16) and i was really disgusted by it since i have trauma from situations like that. when we were on a call in discord he was flirting with me a LOT, it's was really fuggin disturbing and i wanted to vomit. that same night i blocked him on discord and sky and i told my (now ex) all about it. i wanted to bawl my eyes out since he sounded like he was 20 it was such a gross situation so anyways stay safe on the internet yall
My 'friends' are either inactive or have blocked me and some of them never light my candle so I'm always thinking of blocking them but at the same time I'm thinking 'but what if I couldn't play for some days and some of the people on my friend tree thought I was inactive and blocked Me? That wouldn't feel really good and I wouldn't want them to feel that way.' so I'm just not gonna do anything and overthink over here lmao. Edit: I'm blocking every single one of them 💀🤙🏻
if they blocked u they probably gonna forget about you, I had a lot of friends but they stopped playing (me included but I came back and they dont), I blocked all the ghosts and the people I couldn't remember at all, I'll start making new friends now
Hello, im pretty new in sky.. Can you tell me what's the function of lighting friends light, is it the one icon above their head? I didn't not the purpose of it, so i didn't press it, not until 2days ago.. I was trying to give a gift to a new friend, but couldn't bcs we didn't rlly grow our friendship..so i lit the candle hoping it is some kind of gift too😅
@@saycheeseee9934 dunno how to explain properly but u can collect it when friends send to you and it adds to your hearts, not one heart each but a few fragments like the candle lights
@@LyraTesni sorry im asking a lot of questions ≥﹏≤ i know that it's the heart,but what about the candle light icon on top screen/player's head? I realized it light up the star of your friend, in the constellation. Is that what it is for?
MM YES TIME FOR SCARY FRIEND STORIES, so VEEERY long comment ahead for yall who can relate☠️ so.... this one moth tho ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ actually, she took one look at me and offered me a candle in homespace. cant resist those candles 🥺 As soon as I sat her down in prairie lobby, she said "I need 4 hearts and those candles from Eden". 🖐️(👁️💧👄💧👁️)🖐️ i ended up taking her to Eden because she was scared. i wasn't carrying table and was candle broke, so i used up all my table spells to talk to her, and i congratulated her at the end of orbit. The moths i uber usually say something about how nice the music was or how sad and intense Eden was, or they say thank you --- but this moth just seemed very bummed about losing her wings before anything else? i did tell her beforehand that it was part of being reborn. The next few days after that, she would always teleport to me. I didn't mind, because I'm always happy to see my moth buddies, ask them abt new instruments they bought and stuff... but then she would always offer her hand, or spam the angry emote and cry emote when I'm with other friends. I've had to cut cr with some ppl because she wouldn't leave me alone until i took her to fetch all the wings... At that point, she spam honked/screamed so much that i named her Eren Jaeger 😭🤺🤺🤺 I unlocked chat with her. Dunno if that was a good choice??? She did seem to enjoy talking to me when I carried her on runs. It was wholesome, even 🥺 Though... Everytime I stopped to reply, she would just tell me to hurry up.. even if she knows I don't speak her language and needed a translator. But anyway, that was the routine. Along the way, i just started bringing her with me on candle runs with other friends... Or hoping the server would split for a few minutes. One time, my bestie teleported to me while I was carrying Eren Jaeger (lmao). Eren kept telling me "Please let go of your friend's hand", or "Please leave them behind". Obviously she ain't gonna be ordering me around since I'M the one taking her on full, unpaid runs ಠ‿ಠ so I just said, "Why? No, It's okay for (friend) to come." Everytime I stopped to talk to my bestie, or asked my bestie about her day, Eren would just spam "Let's go goooo", "I would like my wings as soon as possible" or "drop your friend" in the chat. It frustrated me so damn much, and I didn't have the heart to go rabid on anyone lmao so i just shut off the game and continued talking to bestie on ig. I felt guilty for that, so I compensated Eren with a valley run afterward. Now, yesterday was probably the last straw. I was in a group of sky kids for wasteland. Around seven other people were with me for wax, and we were paying one uber in hearts. Eren teleports to me, of course. She kept latching on (even if she didn't hold any trade with the uber) and telling me to "Go with me right now, please. Please please please". I told her again and again, "I can't right now, I'm in a group, etc etc... But if you wait a while, I can do a run with you later" And after saying I was unavailable, she told me, "You're bad!😭 Why won't you come with me. I can't play the game later, please understand" We made it to the ark, I paid my uber in advance and just... Closed the game and took a breather. I came back in a few minutes, teleported to her and explained again why I couldn't come. I asked her why she "couldn't play the game later" (maybe due to homework, curfew, parents),,, I just wanted to understand her better. She just said, "It's nothing for now. Let's start with the first world (asking for wings in isle of dawn)". I hope she didn't say it just to make me leave my group uber. Much later, I came back on, greeted some of my good Japanese friends... And she teleports to me again. She said, "Please stay with just me today". At that point, it was almost midnight in my country, so I told her it was getting late. "Oh nooo,, please please please" she said. I WAS ON MY LAST FEW BRAINCELLS BRO DHDHSHHSEJHDJS We just had a long convo, with me explaining why I'm not always available in the nicest way I could manage. I didn't even have the heart to tell her "I DON'T FEEL LIKE A FRIEND, I FEEL LIKE A BUTLER,,, I lead everytime we run - and everytime we run, you tell me to hurry and get your wings for you dijdhwhdhw you bring random friends with you when I lead, but you get upset when i bring my own friends g 😭🦧 IF U WANT YO WINGS SO BAD, GET IT URSELF OR GET A FASTER UBER WHEN U GO TO EDEN PLS, WHY DO U GO TO EDEN THRICE A WEEK 😭😭😭 you never ask me about anything besides wings IAHSHSHHDBW" >:""""D even after i tried being polite she just called me a bad person, took my hand and tried to ditch my friend, told me that i should stay with her because she hasn't seen me in four days. Told me again and again that she needed me so much. Then she told me, "Are your other friends more important than me?" Like 👁️👁️ YO I NEVER SAID THAT 😭☠️ After a while she finally accepted that i needed to go. Her last words? "Fine. But you said you'd teach me the chibi glitch. I have the mask. So teach it to me now." I did, half-heartedly. And then she let me go, asking me to stay with only her tomorrow. Well... "Tomorrow" is today. So I came here to reaffirm my own decision to block her XD I'm a bit sad that she missed the point of the game. It's not a competition for wings and cosmetics. The goal is to have fun, make friends and do quests together... :(
there was this kid who always ruined the vibe and would just outright make all of us uncomfortable and triggered (in a way it triggers unpleasant memories) we were just vibing in sanctuary when she just came up to us and said she wanted to kill herself like yikes- her reasoning is even so shallow because of a crush turning her down what really made it the final straw for me was when she glorified being numb while we were candle running in hidden forest, she just went with us and shared her life story for some reason (which is uncalled for btw since we never really hung out w her a lot, she just decided to pour this out at us), my friend got really uncomfortable so we all had to leave she'd even be completely annoying by spamming about leading for gw
Basically: be a nice person. Don't afk, show your appreciation, don't beg for hearts, don't spam hate, don't act annoying, don't beg for candle runs. Sky is a place to make friends, so make friends like you would irl.
I had to once block a child of 8 years old because he would not only teleport constantly to me or my friend waiting for us to get online, without letting us play by ourselves, but would vent to us, ask us to be his new mothers, insult me or my friend when the other wasn't present, get angry and leave for no reason and then come back and get angry because we didn't wait for him and other stuff Like I get it, he's a child but jeez Also saying all of his personal stuff to two adults it's not the best idea honestly
I remember in my moth days, there were these two skykids who kept booing me and making fun of me because i wasn't a good harp player. And at the time I was only just figuring out how the instrument system worked, so i was practicing songs and stuff. It kinda pissed me off so i just ran into a portal and never saw them again 👀
I’m a 50 year old player. It took me a while to figure the game out. The whole friends thing seemed confusing at first but there a lot of things that need to be done with more than one person. I’ve spent time just waiting for someone to come help unlock a door and thats annoying. This was a helpful video.
Aaaaa thank you for making this video, cause I’m a bit uncomfy when thinking about blocking people in sky, but this video helps me realize that it’s fine to do so! I think I’ll only block 2 people for now. One of them was giving me their number (that made me uncomfortable) and the other demanded that we unlock to piggy back (but I was the one who was unlocking the tiers). This was when the days of fortune was coming and I really wanted to get everything, but they pushed it on me. I was a bit hesitant, but thanks to this video I’ll probably block them now.
It makes me pissed that sky doesn’t want to implement a zen mode for the game. I’ve ever been so overstimulated that I had no choice but to block all my friends (about 300 of them) for a week. :’D
As a gratitude veteran I have had my fair share of people harassing me. I’ve blocked most of them at this point because I just realized that they’re not gonna be nice and all. What bothers me is how people will only friend me just because I either look cool or AKA and Ikemen or I have the owl hair and wearing the gratitude pendant. I’ve had people hop online immediately and they wouldn’t leave me alone. They would spam their honk sound affect and use the kissy emote which if you do over use it and you’re someone I just met, I’m obviously gonna get uncomfortable. If you were a close friend I wouldn’t mind. If I’m being honest, sky has become a bit toxic and all. I’ll tolerate somethings but not all of them. But people just friending me because I look cool or I’m a Gratitude veteran and not actually interacting with me is a big pet peeve of mine. Another issue are those that think like...how do I put this Basically there are players that think I’m more than just a friend like I’m a loved one or...partner sadly. And this is a huge problem because I am with someone, I am not single and the fact that people are looking for partners on sky is really not okay let alone are asking me if I like them...like more than just like them. Sometimes I would love to gain the courage tell these people that I now regret excepting their candles that “ If you’re looking for a date, go on an actual dating website not some game that has a lot of minors in it”. And there is this one player in particular that I might have to block because I think they have gained feelings for me, which I do find a bit concerning since we don’t talk that much. And I’m pretty sure they know how old I am...I know they’re an adult that’s for sure and I’m still a minor. But this is what makes me want to leave sky. The fact that Sky used to be a safe place for me and what I was wearing or the pendant I had didn’t matter til later on, which is now. And yeah I know I can just change the way I look but here’s the thing. Sometimes people will think I’m lying when I say I’m from gratitude because most of those player have left the game either because of personal reasons or they got bored or they just decided to move and their journey had finally come to an end with sky. So I wear it as a way to symbolize that “hey I’m an old player or veteran” I’m sorry for my rant but I had to get that off my chest and all..
Honestly I haven’t been in a bad relationship with a player before but I have a good relationship with someone before. I named her Yanny she helped me through a lot. She help me to the Sky puppy, when I was a moth and I’m not really good at flying she hold my hand and flew to the place I wanted.
I block people often. I accept all candles from moths, but they also means I need to make room. If someone has never visited me or I've never visited then after a few weeks, they get blocked. It's not personal!
Actually, I have friend. But I always solo run candle. Because I'm too shy to ask them to candle run with me. And I know how hard to collect heart and candle so I decide to do it myself. But yeah, I feel lonely. But it's fine because I don't want to disturb someone. And I don't want them to feel uncomfortable towards me because I'm a kind of person who always Swearing and made a Dirty jokes and I'm energetic. So yeah, being alone is better for me. ^^ Edit: I always show my true self when I'm very close with someone. Someone who accept what Am I and what my true personality is. I love friends. I love everyone. I'm happy when I light there candles, because I want to see there true form. Then I'm gonna bow for ‘Thank you’ because I see how amazing they are. Theeee elders is so cool. I love moth and elders.
i remember this time i dressed as a male (ikemen) and usually i dressed as a female but i met this friend and i helped her complete the season of dreams village and when we finished we went home and i have her a whole bunch of cute affections that were things like blow kiss emotes or the adoring one and she took that personally and spammed the praying emotes and the refuse emotes so i stopped doing it because she was obviously uncomfortable. and her friend later took her away. so i left to forest and she followed me there and expected for me to cr her there. it turned out as a mess,, a few weeks or months later we met and it felt awkward asf but she seemed to not even know who i was, it was odd. so i cr her in gw and we went back home and she took me somewhere in vally oob and she spawned the blushing emotes and got super close and tried to make it look like we were kissing so i also felt uncomfortable and used the refused emote and did the laugh one to laugh it off later and she starting crying in the corner and she flew away so i returned home and went to prairie and she tp to me and blocked me face to face and help my hand as a stranger so i disconnected and went to hide at a realm and she unblocked me so she could find me so i went offline,, and told my friend how weird it was and they told me i should block them so i did shortly after and never saw her again. i feel f r e e d o m 🌚🌚😻✨✨✨
Whoa.. after reading all these comments, I'm really glad that I haven't interacted with toxic players much. Most of my blocked friends are just moths who never come online-
One day I ordered the new seasom pass, and someone watched me. So they demanded me to give me a season pass and they would give me 200 hearts. I knew something was up but i left after they began demanding for a while.
I've only ran into one rude person making fun of people like ikemen, moths, ect and claiming that they themselves were just superior and I told them they were rude and they got really mad and basically bit my face off, the person removed the table so we could no longer talk so they left and I hung out with my friends
When I was a moth another moth offered to become friends with me. When we became friends he kept pulling me away from my brother! I didn’t understand how hand-holding worked, so he almost kidnapped me multiple times. My brother and I ran away from him thru a portal, and he chased after us and honked aggressively! We all got into a honking match. 😂 I blocked him for being a creep.
hdjshah I get dragged a lot by people but I feel so bad so half of my game experience is them just dragging me around where they want 😭 it makes me so sleepy
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I block people sometimes to have a run by myself & unblock them once I'm done. There is only 1 person on my chart that I wouldn't do this to because she is always a pleasure to play with. & also best friend in sky. Everyone else can get the button if I don't want to be bothered.
Oh wow, I have the exact same set-up! Except, my bestie and I share a mutual friend whom we often talk to and there was one time they tp-ed to her while I was with her AND I had forgotten to unblock them from the previous solo run... I ended up having to explain myself. I've had to block my bestie from then on, whenever I want to solo...
(Sorry if there's some mistakes, I'm still learning English 😅) Ok, I'm going to tell my block list story too. This is going to be truly long, so get comfy :') I have four people blocked: • Two of them are the first friends I had in Sky (there should be 3, but I can't find the third one in my constellation lol). After more than 7 months they are still moths, and they don't light my star back, so I blocked them for being inactive. • Another one is a player who, judging by their cosmetics, seems that has been playing for more time than me (but for some reason they always had only 8 stars in their cape). Everytime they logged in, they teleported to me. If I was alone, they interrupted my CR. They didn't take my hand, just stay in the same place for approximately half and hour, doing emotes, dancing, etc. If I tried to go, they started doing cry and angry emotes, making me feel bad. If they saw me with another friend (even if the other friend just auto-held hands with me in front of them), they started again doing crying and angry emotes and running away. I was once able to talk with them using a chat table, and I discovered that they didn't speak Spanish or English. I tried to communicate with them using Google translator. I discovered they were only 8 years old. I didn't want to block them because they were only a child, but they eventually stopped login in, so I thought "well, then I guess they won't notice if I block them °\_(0_0)_/°", and so I did. • The last friend I blocked was probably the worst. I befriended him because he could speak Spanish (my native tongue). The same day I befriended him, he started asking things like: "How old are you?" I'm 18 (they are a few years older than me). "Do you have a partner?". I told them that I don't, but that I already like someone in real life. Strange questions, but I thought he was just curious and that those questions were something he asked to everybody. Some time later, he joined me in my CR ocasionally. Sometimes a girl who was a friend of him joined us too. My friend used to speak to the girl in a romantic way, so I thought they were a couple or something (now I think they actually weren't, just continue reading) Another time jump, my friend joined me in one of my CR. He saluted me saying things like "Hello precious😘" or "You cute😍". I continued thinking "well, maybe he is trying to be kind", so I just answered to everything with "thanks☺️". He started leading the CR in Prairie. Meanwhile, he continued asking things like: "What's your favourite food?", "Do you like spicy?", "I am a spicy boy, but I can be sweet too if you want", "What does make you fall in love for someone?"… I saw what he was trying to do, so I just answered everything with little interest or just with a "I don't know". All I could think was "I hope you log out soon, because I will definetly block you when I have the opportunity". I am 18, but it still feels uncomfortable to have a stranger older than you flirting with you in an online game. Finishing Sanctuary Islands, his last question was: "Can I try to make you fall in love for me?". I obviously didn't want that, but I didn't want him to feel bad, so I just answered: "Um😅". He inmediately said: "It's ok, I know that's a "no", don't worry" I thought: "Ok, he got it, I guess he is going to stop flirting with me from now on. I'll forgive him the block then" The next day, he joined me again… And continued flirting with me anyways :( I finally decided to block him. I just unblock him for a few seconds to light his star, so he doesn't suspect anything. I would report him, but then I would have to warp to him, and I honestly don't want to know anything about him again… EXTRA: A person I don't know if I should block or not. It's a player who can't talk in Spanish and barely talks English (let's call them "X" because there are a lot of people involved in this story). X used to join me in my CR. Everytime I accepted and entered a realm, they started to unhold my hand every few seconds and fly on their own. One time, I was with X and two more good friends of mine. I had already finished Wasteland on my own (the daily quests were there that day). We were in Vault, and X then said "Can you help me with daily quests?". I told them "Right now I'm not the one leading, when we finish Vault I'm helping you". We continued the CR. X was unholding their hand every second (as usual), making me and my other friends going slower. I could only think: "Damn it, X, you are not a moth anymore, stop acting like that", but I just stayed quiet. In telekinesis spirit room, my friends were getting ready to do rocket trick but then, X unheld my hand AGAIN, but this time they sit in that five people table and started talking with a stranger, insisting on being their friend (the stranger didn't want to) and ignoring the rest of the group. My friends were spamming honk to X, and I felt so guilty for bringing X with us that I started doing the "sorry" emote to my friends, until I eventually told them: "Go without me guys 😓". They did rocket trick and X finally stood up from the table, following the stranger they were trying to befriend. The stranger, X and me took the elevator. While we were going up, X told me: "Tell your friend (X was refering to the stranger) to befriend me". I answered "They aren't even my friend". I made X hold my hand and started doing "sorry" emote to the stranger. I had told my friends to continue without me just because X's childish behaviour. In a silent anger, I finished Vault. We returned home and the first thing X said was: "Now you can help me with daily quests :D" I took their hand, we went to Wasteland, we jumped to the storm, we landed, I was going to do the first quest… And X then disconnected without warning. And they didn't even return. X is lucky that I have lots of patience, or I would have blocked them that instant. Also, X doesn't log in as frequently as they used to, and they even light my star sometimes, so I'm good with it… For now.
@@MariaRuiz-mx3tz Te resumo: Mi lista de bloqueos se compone de: • Dos bloqueados por inactivos. • Un niño de 8 años bloqueado por hacerme sentir mal cuando me veía con otros amigos. • Uno que trataba de ligar conmigo, aunque le dije varias veces que no lo hiciera. Y el extra de abajo del todo es alguien (al que llamaremos X) a quien no he llegado a bloquear y no sé si debería. X me acompañaba mientras recogía velas en la Bóveda con otros amigos, y no dejaba de soltarse de mi mano. Al final les tuve que decir a mis dos amigos que siguieran sin mí porque X estaba empeñado/a en hacerse amigo/a de otro jugador random que había en el servidor. Terminé la Bóveda a solas con X, y nada más acabar me dijo que si le ayudaba con las misiones de ese día (ya me había preguntado un par de veces mientras estábamos en la Bóveda). Decidí ayudarle y nada más entrar en los Páramos a hacer las misiones se desconectó y no volvió.
@@blancor8831 jaja no te preocupes en resumirmelo mi inglés es pobre pero creo que si entendí, yo la verdad bloqueó a las personas por que no se hacer interacciones sociales y siempre e estado acostumbrada a farmear y hacer tareas sola 😌
Theres a guy on my const i renamed "idontlikeyou" when i was a few months in as a moth and i still have no idea what they did now. Ive been playing since enchant and from the longest time ive been playing this game i rarely even bother to block people.
I’ve been a solo player for about 2 months now. I love it, but getting hearts is extremely hard. I rarely ask my few friends to trade, due to being afraid of seeing as a beggar :(
I blocked a sky fren because it was really uncomfy when we were together i don't know if they are not good at english but it still made me uncomfy and i kinda feel guilty about it but they keep complimenting me from every little thing and even told me they miss me and love me even tho we just met it really made me uncomfy to the point that i had to block them😔
I dream of a button that will make me temporarily invisible to my friends, because sometimes I really want to play solo or I need to finish cr as quickly as it possible cause I have to back to work, and not stand and chat for hours in one place. I don’t want to block friends, but sometimes I need more personal space, sometimes I just want.to.be.alone... And this is not because my friends are some kind of bad, no, they are sunshines, just often I don't have enough strength to communicate. So I want this magic button that would hide me from my friends for a while
If I have to beg for hearts I usually give hearts as well or wait until my next cr and send it over friend constellation. I’ve learned that, as a chibi, most of them have the right to be very loud without much consequence as long as it’s preceded by a bow, and they’re not afraid of spam honking. Honestly, those people (chibis) have helped me a lot with not being so anxious and I kinda am one of those people now. R.I.P i’m only about a month into sky but it feels like it’s been way longer than that. + yes I have the chibi mask, it was basically the first cosmetic I went for.
My irl friend blocked me on sky because I didn't die with him when we first encountered the krill. Its not my fault my brain knows to run when it sees a red light :(.
I block when they’re thirsting over me or wouldn’t leave me alone, once I had someone added me because my style is to their liking, after that, they won’t leave whenever they see me chasing after me into realms and going as far as spam honks when I’m being dragged by my friend to the point they complain about it. Players who flex and get the items you want not because they want it, but just show they can rub salt on your wound gets an instant block too :)
3 of my best skyfriends blocked me ;-; tbh I was feeling a little left out by them bc of language barrier but they do know english very well they just dont use english often bc idk , then one out of those 3 friends also felt left out by the 2 of them bc they just push her out of their friend group sometimes and that 1 friend i told her my side of the story so we became closer than my 2 pther best friends then one day they (3 friend) never came online for some reason but one day I was checking if they did block me or not so I check my 3 friends normally in friend cosntellation if I was at home space for a while and there was no sign they were online but I keep seeing that their outfits kept changing even though they are not online and I check on them very often if Im not busy and thier outfits still change and their stance even though I just checked a few minutes ago 🥺🥺 should I block them back? Did they really block me? Thank u for hearing me out Edit UwU : so much likes thank u ❤
I recommend that you just block them. You shouldn't be worrying about people that treat you like that, if they really wanted to be friends then they wouldn't have blocked you. You'll make new friends that will treat you better than them!
Ive lost connection on sky too many times to the point that they think I’m afk 😭. To all my friends, I never intend to leave y’all. I’m just not blessed with good wifi :,)
I blocked some, mostly moths who don't go on anymore for 1 month.. but there was this one girl, who was so toxic. First off at the time I just recently got my GW elder hair and I was wearing it 24/7. Chilling in prairie and playing the guitar suddenly a player came up and sat down listening, when I finished I simply wanted to light them. Revealed the player who I wouldn't know until maybe 3 weeks later was the most toxic player I have met. We were just spamming emotes, having fun. Then she wanted to friend me, ok sure. I named her butterfly, since she had the butterfly cape. After a few more spammed emotes, I had to leave and I said my goodbyes. Came back tomorrow, light my friends up and when I lit her up she suddenly went online, at the time 'yay someone to hangout with'. After greetings, I got my table and we started to chat "hello^^" "hi" "how are you?" "Can u candle run for me?" "Oh umm, sorry I cant." "Why not?" "I just wanna hangout and chill, candle running is very tiring lol" "oof well, I need it, so can you?" "Sorry haha no, u can ask in discord tho" "whatever, bye" and then she left.. Few days later she teleported to me "Hey are you a boy or girl?" "Oh me haha I'm a girl, hbu?" "But your wearing the golden hair..?" "So? Doesn't mean I can't wear it.." "that's just giving someone mixed signals you know.." "..." "you sure u aren't a guy? U know pretending to be a girl is a pervert right??" "Umm... I'm a girl yes." "What's ur name then?" "Can't say, just call me orange :)" "orange... Really?" "Hahaha yess" "your weird.." "yes I am hehe" "k, see ya.." While I was hanging out with my main friend group, "yo, let's make a deal? you give me hearts everyday since I need it for the forest hair and I'll give you hearts everyday when u need a hair, deal?" "Umm why not just trade everyday?" "Cuz I need to save some candles, duh" "well I also too" "how much you got?" "Just about 103 candles.." "that much?! Your being greedy, I only have 5 candles and you won't give me a heart cuz u need to save?" "Well yeah, sorry, I'll send u a heart if I have spare" "so greedy... Like wtf, u can sacrifice those three candles for me!" ".. sorry no can do.." and then she left.. While doing a quick Cr, "imma join, if you don't mind" "oh sure! But I'm just doing this one realm, I'll leave after this" "but can u do one more? And besides u still need to give me hearts!" "I won't give hearts if you don't give them back.." "I need them, ok? Why can't u understand that? God ur so stupid!" "Still not giving them" even while I was candle running she was complaining, mocking my flight skills and being annoying. Ithe time I decided to block her was the time dreams was going to be the next season. I was giving my two best friends their aps that I bought, until "oh, u got the ap? Can I have one plssssss!" "Sorry nope, already gave them to my friends (ur welcome Len and drew)" "why not me??I deserved an ap after all your harrassment!" "Harrassment??" "Yah u won't give me hearts, u won't help me Cr and you won't even give me an ap!!" "... Bye~" blocked, bye bye~
If I was you, I would just block them right from the second story, or first if I am in a bad mood. And if I can, I will tell her how I think about her and then block her right in front of her face.
Once a friend asked me to unlock all the friendship tree. I lied and said: "Sorry, I'm broke, but we can unlock chat" They said: "Ok, I'm saving for something". Some time later they asked the same thing again, and again I said: "Sorry, I'm broke" They answered again: "Ok, I'm saving for something". I'm 99 % sure they would have obligated me to waste my candles if they had known I had more than 50 (I was saving for the TS). Never tell new friends (especially moths) the actual number of candles you have.
Key to not being toxic to other players: -Don't ask for what you aren't willing to do/give back -Don't make people play the game for you, cooperate/take turns, a full cr can be tiring on the person running all the time. Be the kind of person you would like as a friend, reflect on why people might have distanced themselves from you, or better yet- ask why. On the other half, don't grief or troll people who annoy you, if you don't like something say it kindly and firmly. Take the higher road and don't stoop down to "teach them a lesson". I've seen this hypocrisy before and it really bothers me.
I still think that blocked someone because any reason without telling the problem is actually the worst. Umm I know that it's your authority to do it but for the other party which is blocked it will leave an unpleasant and terrible guilty feeling. Especially when they used to be close to each other. I used to be friends with someone she always joined me but she was a little bit odd when we were together. So I told about her behavior to my other sky friends without telling them who it is. I respect her privacy so I never tell them her name, even when they guess right since I believe she's a kind person yeah she is but not with me, but she is always join me. At first I still can tolerate her actions with me, but then sometimes she made me uncomfortable when I was with the person I liked or with other boy friends and when I told this to my friends they told me that this player is toxic and manipulative person. She was trying to made my relationship with the boys worse, I had a boy friend which very cold and then she added him and told me that this boy wasn't cold with her and they became close friend. I was glad that now they were friend but the way she told me that these two closed really makes me uncomfortable, she added every boys that approached me. And told me if they were good boy and I need to be happy to have such relationship with all boys 🙃 But then someday she ignored me and posted an igs telling me dramatic person. I thought that maybe it's for me, so I asked her directly. And apologize if I did wrong. That time she was with the person I liked in that game even though she knew I liked that person, and that person also knew I liked him but Idk why these two ignored me. Even though I kept sending dm and they were online at the same time. I got so heartbroken, I was so shocked when she blocked me on ig and sky for real without respond to my apology. Telling on her igs (my other friends sent this to me) that I need to get a life, she doesn't need a child play. I got so depressed irl lol since I could feel her hates towards me. And since I keep her in my constellation she always leave an unpleasant note, told me the drama queen, playing victim, kids, etc which makes me so uncomfortable. I decided to stop playing sky so she could play with our other friends with peace. I hope someday I could fly on the sky again!
Sometimes it was make me annoying if there's someone who tag along with me but they're didn't burn the tree just tag along with me, but I think at least lit up the light humm
I sometimes just want quiet time to myself so I block even my favourited friends for a few hours... I really wish there was an incognito mode on Sky. Maybe allow us to go incognito for 2hrs a week?
I talked with a stranger with a table that was set by my friend. They kept asking me for ap even though i've said mine was a gift from my friend and i didn't have any ap left. I ignored them because i was trying to talk with my friends, then they got pissed and called me "birdie" for wearing dream's ult mask. Later i found out they also begged my friend for ap and asked my friend to ask me if i could give them ap. Immediately blocked 🙄
i've only blocked inactive players, and although i don't make many friends, i find it more fulfilling to have friends who actively play than having a lot of friends
I had a friend that after playing casually a couple times, came on as I was about done and just *trauma dumped* on me no warning nothing, he was the same age as my little brother and with the pandemic he had no other outlet so I forgave it and listened (I would rather have someone ask for help however they can and I still don’t begrudge that), but after that he would log on the *instant* I’d light his friend star every single time eventually I started lighting his last then logging out as fast as possible because he kept pushing for more non sky info I’d evade and change the subject but it was becoming a pattern, played a couple more times, once he started to repeatedly ignore bigger boundaries and several “No”s once changing the subject stopped working I blocked, should have sooner but I was scared to inflict more pain on a traumatized kid even at my own expense
Thank you so much for making this video! I just blocked a friend who kept warping to me whenever we're both online (it was getting to the point I was dreading playing because they might be online), but I was feeling a little bad about it afterwards. Watching this video helped me feel better, and to ultimately remember it's not a bad thing for me to establish boundaries for myself- I don't need a "good enough" reason, even just feeling mildly uncomfortable is reason enough to block. I'm kinda bummed as this friend seemed nice at first: they showed me how to get to seasonal places and OOBs I'd never been to before, gave me a heart or two for free, and could play nice music- But then, this friend also would often ask me to take them on Eden runs, take them on CRs/getting all dailies, or tell me that we should go somewhere else to do something that they wanted to do- even if I was currently in the middle of doing something else. They would always act disappointed or get snippy/guilt-trippy whenever I tried to explain that I needed some personal space, or didn't want to do what they wanted to do- to the point where I would usually cave to doing whatever they wanted to do, just to prevent that from happening. Otherwise, they would suggest that I log off of Sky if I was tired- seemingly well meant advice, but it always made me feel pressured to log off right after. It made me feel like me logging off was the only way I could have personal space that this friend would actually respect. It also made me feel like I couldn't just keep playing Sky while on my own to destress, which- as a mostly solo player- is the main reason I play the game at all. I considered explaining things to them to see if we could work things out before I had to resort to a block, but, given how they've behaved in the past, I decided it wasn't worth the risk of them guilt-tripping me into feeling like I need to keep compromising my personal space for their sake- or scaring me away from playing Sky altogether.
I also block players. Most often these are inactive players or the one to whom I turn on the light and they do not give me back, and so on several times. There were times when I met rude players and their behavior disgusted me (for example, an adult man who asked me to give him a pass because he had no money. Or those who implied sexual overtones and demands to give my contacts). Or those who made you feel uncomfortable, depriving you of personal space and the inability to talk and spend time with other friends. They demanded attention and got angry if I didn't give it to them. At the same time, when asked to leave me alone, they continued to join in.
block other players if they: - offline too long (longer than 3 months) - never lit back but take the 'lit wax', i saw them online time to time i mean i put so much effort to lit all my sky friends in my constellation, it's not "free wax for your heart bar" 🙄 at least let me know the reason why they don't want to lit back (but still I'm gonna block u) - using badwords too often, make me feel uncomfortable (I still tolerate it sometimes due to cultural reason, like that's just how their accent is)
I had this friend of a experienced sky kid on sky, when playing they’d often hug me, blow kisses the etc and I’d often heart them if they handed hearts. Everything was super fun until I had my friend group on discord that person got “aggressive” like a edge lord trying to gate keep me I finally was able to block them when everybody was sick of the person.
me who never blocked a friend because i love them all and they are all sooo nice to me!! :> im always respectful and nice to my friends, sometimes i even offer them my hand to be my passengers (i sometimes like to be a taxi) and then take them everywhere to give them a free candlerun, because i love to be nice to them. sometimes i like some time for myself though, but if one of my friends shows up im always nice to them ;>
the only person i want to block i feel like i can't because they're friends with my closest friend on sky and i don't want to make it awkward lol, the mutual friend you both have chat unlocked with who won't leave either of you alone is the most uncomfortable thing for me with severe social anxiety, rip
(TW suicide mention) i tend to block people who are inactive or i never see as my constellation is too full. there's only been one person that i purposefully blocked :') they didn't do anything wrong and we were quite close, but they would constantly trauma dump without asking me if i was ok with it ... it was to the point that i felt like i was responsible for keeping them from committing suicide, and as someone with mental health issues myself that was extremely draining and made me feel awful. i hope they are doing well now but it is not fair to dump stuff like that on people w/o asking as you could be triggering them too.
This didn’t have to do with Friends but it bothered me. Prairie is my favorite realm to go to since it’s pretty and has a lot of candles and every now and then I meet some moths. That day I had that daily quest where I had to sit on a bench with a stranger and I did. When I did, I saw the chat bubble and saw that this person wanted to start a convo so I was okay with it. I’m guessing English wasn’t their first language because of the errors but they were nice and said hello and I said it back but the weird thing that made me worry is that they kept on asking what my age was. I said I’m in my 20s (I’m not) so they would stop bothering me and they asked where I live and I just started getting a little uncomfortable but I understand so that people know but I was just a little uneasy. I feel bad if it was a kid but I highly doubt it because of what they were saying but I just said bye and left soon. Whoever is new, please be careful and stay safe out there
I'm reading all the comments here and I finally feel a little less guilty of blocking people (〃∀〃)ゞ I only had 2-3 players blocked, granted they blocked me first and I'm relieved to block them back. I didn't have a good chemistry with one and they often bring up our bad past as often as they felt to guilt trip me, and other mocked me for my sky (heart) commission saying "this for __ hearts??" before blocking me later, and the last one was a friend who I thought was close (friended since I was a moth) but in reality was toxic, too ccompetitive and would constantly manipulate me 😓 I feel much more comfortable online since I've blocked those peeps, thank you for making this video! (❁´◡`❁)
I feel bad when blocking someone it just seems too harsh and breaks our bond so I always try to unlock and check up if they logged back in so suggest tgc adds a unfriend option so we have more space to add friends that are active and not inactives :)
Reading everyone's comments about their experience made me realized how lucky I am in making friends in Sky. Not saying I am not open-minded about being friends with strangers, it's more of "I prefer to stick with my friends because I trust them" Here's some good stories from me! Me and my friends would always help each other in daily quests or schedule runs, like we start with geyser, visiting grandma and then the turtle :D we sometimes like to talk about who's the next travelling spirit and what cosmetic we would like to achieve with our hardworking earned candles ^^ Recently I decided to hangout in prairie for often after doing schedule runs and met pretty cool people, sadly no I didn't friend them because they were minding their own business like playinga instrument, spamming emotes with friends or in general, just watching from the distance. so I'd say , it's pretty relaxing haha and lastly, heart trades, I read people's stories here on how the person didn't return a heart after being gifted one. me and my friend "Riptide" , we both agree to heart trade each other everyday so we can achieve our goals in getting both valley elder hair, both of our skykids are twins so yes, we kept that promise in exchanging hearts :D Hopefully those mean skykids are out of your way in enjoying the game! remember to drink water, take a break and stay safe !!
Who’s like to read about people problems about friends in sky like me 👀..?
yess i haven’t even finished the video and i already spent 30 mins in the comment section 😂 (P.S. sorry sky gaza)
@@ebe5225 haha same
Having an unfriend option will be really nice, even just for one side - you remove them from your list, but your name stays in theirs so if they eventually come back to play the game, they could find you and rekindle that friendship.
So far I only blocked people who annoyed me, asked my phone number, or griefed me for spending time with other people, but not with them. The second one is really annoying like seeing one of your friends hang out with other people, but instead of saying hello and join them or go away to look for someone free to hang out with, they start to scold you for being a poor friend. x) Having little tolerance for such low-key toxic manipulators.
I see you often commenting on sky content! but I don't have that many friends in sky, so I haven't encountered many issues, I'm sorry for any problems with yours tho
@@heatherwild2627 ooh, thank you, don't worry I'm fine. :) I don't think I have a consistent friend group, but I have some people who often come to see me, or whom I can join, and they will accept me to their candle run so that surely helps.
As for getting friends, I usually offer candles to someone who was helpful during a candle run, like if I was alone or with someone, for example, helped to burn a tree at wasteland or opened a door, they do not always accept it, but over time you'll find people to hang out with. ^^'
What's yo number shawty💗
@@xhu9675 bro-
@@lavenderlotuss what. 😗
I sometimes blocked moths who offered me their candle but then they never went back online and just stayed as moth in my constellation for hundred years I'm sad 😔
They might be busy or they don't have time to play. I myself never has blocked a friend, even a moth.
Because you never know, that moth is gonna be a great veteran
@@anannoyance1037 Oh don't get me wrong, I often checked on them but after months of lighting them up and see them still inactive, I have to make way for new players. I can't keep on waiting for them dead ones tbh 🤷♂️
@@bumblyable *u have the guts to block them?*
Same I had a moth friend named Eric but I don’t really see him online
@@anannoyance1037 If I want to keep making friends and spend time with the socially active ones then yes, I will block the ones that are dead 👁👄👁
I had this friend... lets call her Mars. I met mars while sitting at a bench in prophecy caves. I was with a different friend, and we were unaware that we could see chats from other benches. We saw her chatting with another friend and we started to converse with her and her friend as well. I started hanging out with her more, and she introduced me to many friends who are still my friend to this day. I started to notice a difference between her and the people she’s introduced me to. Hanging out with the people she’s introduced me to instead of her... almost felt like a breath of fresh air. Mars would constantly pick on me. I didn’t realize it wasn’t normal to constantly be insulted on a regular basis until I met these nice people. I tolerated her calling me dumb and stupid and whatnot until one day when I told her something personal. I told her about me being trans. She started calling me “princess” and other things that triggered my dysphoria. I tried my best to keep my cool, even coming up with harmless nicknames to tease back at her. But my teasing was nothing compared to her verbal abuse. I finally had blocked her. According to people who haven’t blocked her, she’s simply vanished off of sky and discord. She’s never online. Now I hang with much better people, and I don’t plan on welcoming her back into my life.
We don’t tolerate transphobia here 🏳️⚧️🤍
@@thegreatcornelius4984 Yeah! Trans rights are human rights💙🌸⚪🌸💙
@@thegreatcornelius4984 exactly she deserved a block
deserved.
There's a reason why all assets, cosmetics, and items in sky are gender neutral and accessible to everyone. It's a safe space to explore, create, and build friendships. If anyone changes that, it's time to reconsider their friendship.
Congratulations on your transition by the way. It's a very brave thing to be open about it, even if it's to a stranger on the internet. I hope your transition brings you as much peace, comfort, and support as you need =)
Me who always spam kiss emote to all my friends when i meet them, and ask for hug if we already unlock it:
The video: ONLINE HARASSMENT.
Oh no...
I do it too TnT
We are all the same :’)
I like spamming hugs to my friends. But they are so much older than me so I don’t spam kisses lmao
thats not bad. The only person i blocked for harassment would deliberately go up to people (especially those laying down) and spam emotes to make it look really innapropriate. Spamming kisses are fine so long as if someone makes it clear they are uncomfortable with it you stop.
I don’t have the kissing emote🥲🥲
"Sky is no place for having bad blood" I only have bad blood with my friend when she buys a new cape when I'm offline like bro I wanna watch you waste ya candles on ugly capes and clap for you😔💔
Lol
PFFT
I blocked this friend of mine a while ago. She would teleport to me all the time. If I was chilling at home talking with friends, she would call me and my friends lazy and ask why we wouldn't go on candle runs (ironic since she came to me asking for a cr). And if I was on a candle run, she would ALWAYS go afk. I don't mind ubering someone if they're busy and need to afk but at least give a heads up. A cr that usually takes 2 hours almost always ends up taking twice the time because she would go afk for more than half an hour at a time. Once, I ended up getting really fed up as she was afk so I left her (this was in dreams village so it wasn't anywhere dangerous). She joined me later and started having a proper go at me for leaving her, saying it was rude and that I was a bad friend. I straight up told her that she was the rude one and that if she had a problem with me leaving her on cr, she could solve this issue by candle running alone. She then called me an a hole and I blocked her on the spot.
Honestly, in hindsight, she was such a bad friend: always afk, insulted others, begged for hearts, also was really micro aggressive towards me (I'm ethnic chinese) and I'm surprised I even tolerated it for as long as I did. Life's short, there's not enough time for blatant disrespect from others.
Yeah..But I don’t think you’re rude..I always leave them at wasteland since they always tag along and afk for 2~3 hours when I could finish run in 1 hour or so
I kinda have the same story,
I once had a friend and they constantly joined me and some of my other group friends, they were rude as sht they they do this role playing like thing where they pretend to kill me, they also harassed my other friends, block people who use candles to friend them, (back when they weren’t ruse I decided to use invite to friend them) I became sick of them then blocked them, also I had a yt channel and I realized the person who sent a hate comment to me was that same “friend” and after blocking them they found out after a bit and started talking sht abt me because I blocked them, and bruh it ain’t my fault you’re a rude sht “friend”, and they even once insulted one of my friends piano playing during a candle run like I-
And they still haven’t changed since.
hey, sorry for interuption, but can you uber me sometimes in sky?.. it's hard to me keep concentration, so I usually can't do full cr and if you helped me it'll be nice 🥺.
if you don't wanna to, it's okay..
can u explain what micro aggressive means? i have seen people use it and dont understand
@@seokstrash5894 a micro aggression is a comment that’s offensive but not necessarily explicitly or intentionally. an example would be like telling a black woman “you’re so pretty for a black girl!”; it’s meant to be a compliment but it just insinuates that black women are usually unattractive and it’s hurtful/racist
I adopted a 10 yr moth before.. I showed him what to collect in the game and he was kinda adorable. Until he started tping to me constantly and grabs my hand without consent. Once I carried 3 people during a wl run (my friend brought her 2 other friends with) and then this kid came to tp to me and grab my hand, i didnt mind at first although it was already hard to control a run with alot of people especially when leading. And then the kid started whining that he already collected all the wl there despite the fact I told him we are doing wings. So I let go of his hand and told him he can fly on his own if he doesnt need my help anymore and just explore or follow me from behind. But everytime I let go he grabs back to the point I bonked walls since the controls got weird (too many passangers makes it hard to press the toggle button when it overlaps with other sky kids for me). I explained that it was hard to control everytime he grabs my hand. But he does it anyways 6 times during the run.. I blocked him.. sorry kid. I know it was kinda rude to block u but I told u over and over again and yet u didnt care.
I'm 11 and I've never met someone that stupid in sky😂😂
@@aaliyahkahtaan I’m glad you’re not that kind of person.
@@mysryuza yeah I mean it's common sense😅
I block people cause I can't tolerate their action anymore. And if they go offline for too long
Samee- lmao ur pfp and name-
@@razu0034 upin & ipin but the cartoon is now cursed.
@@moved8751 I know you are malaysian I know who Upin and Ipin is They are my Childhood Shows
I go offline for too long because i'm bored
@@razu0034 true lol
I have a sky friend told me his story about a girl he met, lets name my sky friend "Ben".
Ben told me that the girl he met make him uncomfortable, the girl is asking him to give his number to her and she want him to be her boyfriend. I told Ben to block her, he said he will do that.
I had a friend who had the same thing. After she declined, he blocked her, but then used other accounts to stalk her via her friends☹️
Total creep.
yeah its normal to block that kind of person...
plus sky is not dating game, she must watching too much tiktok
@@lonemagicatz4659 ....lmao ...those tiktoks
that just creepy, good thing your friend block her.
❤️💎 this are for "Ben"
Burning big plants is not easy. 😭
I am sorry but I always fly way up and drop down the plant. Once the player was so frustrated with me and himself came up, leaving his own place behind. I was embarrassed af for being so unskillful at flying.
Edit:-
After taking advice from people about training in rainforest, I have improved. I do sometimes get stuck under plants while trying to climb it, but I have improved tremendously. I sometimes burn the big plant from crying emote place alone.
Thats not your fault tho...and i dont think the player are frustrated he probably just want to help you or in a rush try to practice burning plant at the end of forest with the big plant( ◜‿◝ )♡ you will get used to it
Hi! If you find it hard to burn the plants, you can help with keeping the plants from growing. If the other player is done burning their side of plant and you still have a hard time burning yours just fly to them and make point emotes, asking them to burn the other side too while you keep the side that is already burnt from regrowing. While they do that, don’t forget to deep calls to recharge them and keep your candle on. For me it’s better to do this compared to completely giving up and left the player to burn the plants alone. That’s just my experience when I’m burning plants with new players 😊 hope it helps!
Me too.sometimes I can burn the plants with other players
@@nisahusnaa7578 Aww. Thankyou for replying. I will try this too.
I mostly burn one side, if I successfully land, and keep holding one side from growing again. But since I play solo many times and encounter people who waits for me to burn plant, I get nervous.
@@mikasa9906 You're right. No more skipping even if I am alone haha. I kinda feel embarrass when I fail so it is my nervousness acting up.
Im surprised many people met some horrible people, I guess Im lucky or smthg because I've never met anyone or befriended anyone that is toxic or just bad person. Anyways, I hope you guys that encounter these type of people would have the courage to just block them because thats the right thing to do! 🌟
Same.
@@johjoh6429 well, toxic people to me is basically people that made you uncomfortable or make you do stuff you dont want to or shame you.
-Like for example, begging for hearts. Not heart trade but they straight up ask for one for free since you're their 'friend'. (and im talking about daily free heart, they ask everyday even though they know you're saving up for stuff)
-Or another example, ask you about privacy questions when you said you dont want to answer.
-Another example, call you bad names/down grade you like 'You're so bad at candle running, you took so long and its only wasting my time.'
-And maybe even wanna keep you for their own/Keep you away from your friends. Like they dont want you hanging out with your friend cuz they want you to only spend time with them.
Many-many more examples but i think you can understand from my few examples. Hope it helps, really 🌟❣️
Same
I had a moth that I raised with my boyfriend in sky. Ofc we had a good time. we took her everywhere, we taught her how to candle, we helped her make many friends and taught her how to do so much. When me and my boyfriend went inactive in sky to focus on other things. It took us a few months to get back into sky but when we did she joined us non stop begging for help with cr and and giving her hearts because she was broke. She got every ts. she continued to beg. we always took her because of course she was still gonna be our little moth. she grew stronher everyday. she eventually learned how to candle herself and stopped coming to us. if she did she wanted to flex on what she had and what we didnt. We slowly got more distant because of her lack in care. If she asked for cr shed tell us how slow we were. or if we played music shed tell us she could play it better. In reality. she had no idea how to use the music keys. ofc she is a child and is younger than us both but there is no excuse to say things like that to other players. especially if they are people who got you to that very spot you are. Ps. Ally. If you see this I hope you change your attitude.
Might just be a coincidence but i have a friend named ally in sky🤭
You guys sound like nice sky parents can you adopt me HAHAHAH jk
@@chrislynchua7790 I would lolol
Ngl i want a sky parents like you guys lolol
both you and your boyfriend are great parents ^^ i also hope ally changes for the better :)
I only block people if I see that they haven’t been on in a few months(so I can make space for more friends). But the one time I seriously blocked someone was because they kept trying to talk about religion with me; I got uncomfortable and ended up blocking them.
People who bring in politics and religion into video games are so weird? Like im fine talking about that stuff with my VERY VERY CLOSE IRL FRIENDS.
But online friends??? Like man stfu i don't even know your birthday 💀
Lmao who plays sky to convert someone into their religion 😭😭 I'm religious myself but that's such a weird thing to do
@@nostalgic.roulette LMAO
@@nctsgrass 😭😭
There's this guy I had befriended who kept asking me and my friend if we were muslims, if we spoke arabic and where we lived. He also tps to me whenever he can and although my friends try to befriend him by code to make communication easier, he acts like he doesn't know how to and changes the topic. I think I should block him, but he sends me hearts every once in a while. Any advice?
There’s this one person I met on Sky, he was one of the first people I had ever met on Sky. And he also showed me almost everything I know about Sky. He and I would CR daily, talk, go to Eden together, and collect WL together. At first I thought it was great, and that he was really my best friend on Sky. But after sometime, I made new friends, and I still enjoyed (let’s say his name is Carrot) Carrot’s company, but I also wanted to spend time with my other friends as well, not just him. Everytime I went online, he would join me, or just be there waiting for me to come online. Everytime I’m trying to spend time with some of my other friends, he always joins, and just tags along. I personally wouldn’t mind it that much, but my friends then have to uber like 4 people, including Carrot, and I don’t want to make things difficult for them. Some of my friends have also complained that Carrot randomly joins, and doesn’t even friend them. So basically it’s like having a stranger join us each day that doesn’t talk. When I offer Carrot to also communicate with my friends, and not just me, he only says “Hi” to them and nothing else, even when my friends are talking to him. It’s literally a one-sided conversation. It’s like he can’t carry a conversation with anyone else but me. He’s toxically clingy, and it’s gotten to the point I’m annoyed by him. I get that he’s a shy and introverted person, but he ALWAYS joined me. Always. I don’t think it’s healthy for him to wait for me to come on the game everyday, and then join me only, whenever I’m online.
There’s also other issues, that don’t revolve around him not wanting to talk to anyone else - there’s also problems such as when we CR, like whenever we CR, and we have other people, he doesn’t make sure we all get the wax, and only makes sure he himself got it. When you CR, you need to make sure everyone is getting the wax. He is also very slow at grabbing hands, there’s been several instances where we finished burning the big plant in GW, and he did not grab my hand instantly, and me being the person I am, I wait for them to grab my hand, even though there’s krills around us, ready to attack. Instead, he waits for ME to offer my hand, and just stands there when we have other people there who are waiting for him to grab hands. Like no, I’m sorry. I’ll offer my hand, of course I will, but not every single time, especially if you’re fully capable of grabbing my hand to make things easier for everyone.
So, what I ended up doing, was blocking the person. I used to see him as a best friend, we have so many pictures of our Sky kids together, but the toxic friendship that we had, and that Carrot couldn’t seem to understand, was just too much for me. I was able to put up with this for a year, but after a year, I just had enough of it. I even talked to Carrot about how just spending time with me, and only me was not good, and that it’d be nice if he was more open to other people. I know it’s not easy for some people to talk with new people, let alone become friends with them, but I know for a fact that just relying on me to make them happy was something that I couldn’t let continue. I’m not sure if this person knows I blocked them, because as much as I’m angry and just really pissed off everytime I see them, I don’t want to hurt their feelings. Carrot has never said or done anything rude to me, in fact, he’s always been such a great friend. But there’s a limit to our friendship, and he just doesn’t get that. I always unblock him around 3-4am for me, to light his candle, because I know he’s usually asleep at that time, and then I block him again. Sometimes, I keep him unblocked for a whole day or two, and let him CR and hang out with me, despite the fact that I don’t really enjoy it. Because as I said, I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I just hope he can find more friends than just me.
Your voice is calmer than -Hidden Forest- Daylight Prairie.
Who said hidden forest was calm
@@Qintique Social space, sunny area and the forest clearing.
@@abdoullahfofana7126 the rain stresses me out lol
@@Qintique The 3 spaces I listed is rain free :).
@@abdoullahfofana7126 I know, but still
This recently happened to me, i met this sky player at home (?) and we didn't unlock chat since they added me. Weeks ago, this sky player latched on me and i said to my friends that my "friend" will join going to the office. When we got there and collected the wax, they suddenly unlocked our chat box and we became friends. We did a few duo runs, we had fun, i even added them on discord. I asked them how old they are and they're 9 years old (They're 10 now btw they just had their birthday). I'm look cool okay, i just said to them to be safe online cause they're so young. A few days has gone by and i asked two of my friends to add them, and they agreed. We had our first run (4 of us) and suddenly this kid just started lecturing us how to play like "go over the gate it's easier." or "Do the chibi glitch." like? We know??? We just brushed it off and then the next day (?) my friend messaged me to go on sky and i did because they wanted to show me the boat an ex friend planted. The kid and my friend apparently started a fight??? The kid said to me "Why aren't you protecting me? he's ignoring me." and i'm ??? in this one server i have all of my friends there and of course i'm overwhelmed on what's really happening. The kid suddenly got pissed and accusing me of being not a good sister etc. Now i talked to my friend and they said that the kid is shutting him and my other friend who's talking to each other, MAY I ADD IT'S VERY DISRESPECTFUL. My friend even said to me that they said Hello to the kid and even hugged them.
Before that i talked to the kid why and they said "You wouldn't understand, i'm a KID." and it got to the point when i'm still TYPING, they said "oh so you guys aren't talking, well then fine i'll leave." and i'm so shocked about what happened.
Okay then the next next day, me and my friends were farming a little bit at GW. The kid suddenly teleported to me and i said Hello to them and hugged them and asked how are they. The kid said they're still ignoring my friend because of what happened etc. and then me and my friend were on discord and i was telling them about this kid who got mad at us, and decided to put the chat table and talk a little bit. My friend joked around about Xiao being hot in the chat and of course we laughed cause it's a joke. Suddenly this kid said "Why are you saying that in front of a 10 year old?" and i'm ??? my friends and i were confused ?? i even said in the chat that it's a joke and it's lighthearted. The kid went on rambling about THEM getting r*ped in the chat without even knowing the meaning of the word, also get this, they're saying "BAKUGO'S MINE BACK OFF." when we got to the topic of favorite boy characters in BNHA. Then suddenly they started shutting ALL of my friends up and saying they're an idiot etc. They even said that they HATE jokes. In the end the kid got mad at me and started guilt tripping the hell out of me and saying they'll block me, of course i didn't care and said go ahead. I blocked them too at the end. I HATE HATE HATEEEE THE WAY THE KID TREATED MY FRIENDS. I had enough defending the kid to my friends, i wish they'll grow from this and become a better person in the future.
"Bakugou's mine back off"?! im laughing rn so hard
@@juswife They got so madddd 😭 may i add they also said that we don't know what it's like to fall in love with an anime boy like girl-- 🦟🦟
@@gelliebeanz2256 😭🤚 wouldn't have the nerve to do so, I also doubt that they are 10-
@@juswife Omggg my friends also doubt their age 😩✋✋✋
This just feels like some copypasta and I can't take it seriously
The only time I blocked someone was because they would constantly come to me every time they were online and, as a reserved person, sometimes I just want to be alone. We had a language barrier as well so it was hard to talk and explain to them I need privacy. After we talked once and it didn't work, my social battery was completely drained and I just blocked them :/ I felt super bad immediately after, but now I know I was looking out for myself so I don't regret it. Still, sucks.
I’m going everywhere screaming saying that SKY NEEDS TO IMPLEMENT A ZEN MODE
Dude i'm having the same exact problem. I like doing my own thing by myself most of the time and I groan whenever they join me. I mean it's real constant. And on top of that, they get mad at me for not understanding them (they can only speak Japanese). I'm so tempted to block them but I don't think I have the heart to do it lmao
i had someone like that too but what annoyed me about them is they always wanted to lead and didn't let me lead like ever. but i haven't seen them online since new season started. if i block them i might ave to block one of the mutuals too. since they used to be friends first. also yes language barrier.
@@chrislynchua7790 Or create a new account
Off topic but I want to write something wholesome. I always finish my candle runs right after the reset. Sometimes my friend brings me along for candle runs through places I’ve already been through, but instead of leaving them, I help them with burning plant trees and lighting candles or just coming along the ride and thanking them in the end as a sign for appreciation!
Also!
I went online and my friend was talking someone, they were about to go on candle and they said that they just needed one more heart for a spirit cosmetic. So once they left, I gifted them a heart
" online harassment "
me: *aggressively hugs and spam kisses at my friends when they get on.*
also me: *starts having life crisis after watching this video.**
I remember meeting this girl, let’s call her Cheesecake. I was playing with some friends and this chibi came up to me and lit my candle, then my friend said it was one of her friends, which was cheesecake. Everything was going really good actually, Cheesecake even opened up to me about how one of her friends kept on saying he didn’t want to be friends anymore and was saying rude stuff. And of course, I gave her advice and told her some tips and you know, I helped her out. After that she started acting weird. She would usually be online and ignore me, I would talk to her and she would act as if I weren’t there I’m front of MY friends and her friends. It was really embarrassing and heartbreaking. But since I’m a person who doesn’t like to be rude to others no matter what, I kept talking to her. Until one day, I joined to do my daily quests and she was with a bunch of friends, so I said hi. That’s when she told her friends to wait for her and everyone suddenly stopped texting, no more chat bubbles. She went up to me and said “can you like leave now? Please thank you” and just walked away and sat with her friends. That’s when everyone started spamming chat bubbles, I assumed they where laughing, some where doing the yawn emote and other the laugh emote. That moment was disgusting, I instantly blocked her. I’m never accepting her again. Don’t want to see her or know about her.
Omg that’s really rude , sorry for ya buddy hope u find a good friend
I don't have that many friends on sky, I wish I did, but a week ago I got a friend who constantly pressed the hug icon. I'm a 15 year old girl and he told me he was a 19 year old boy. I didn't mind his age because my best friend on Sky is 21, and she's pretty cool, but then he constantly was asking for hugs and then asked me if id ever have a relationship with someone his age. It was grosss and I blocked him
I block friends who have been inactive for a while, or who I just don't play with
I don’t have many friends either because I’m a new but I wouldn’t mind being your friend :o I also share same experience everytime someone finds out I’m a girl they insist on adding me on Instagram and start saying they have “feelings” it makes me so uncomfortable when we barely know each other. It’s a good thing you blocked him because he’s unable to respect boundaries, some people think this is a gateway game so they can date
It's so sad that even in sky harassment and abuse cases are common
That happened to me too, and also some friends: guys asking me social media when they discovered that I'm a girl, boys acting flirty for no reason and trespassing boundaries
@@krysna5631 it really is sad :( especially when you just wanna make friends and this makes it harder to do so
@@eri4232 so true, but as a old player i can tell you that making good friends can take a while but it's not impossible
(Also we can be friends if you want to)
@@krysna5631 that’s true and yes I would love to :D
I've never personally had a need to block anyone. Reading the comments, it's been enlightening. I honestly had no idea some players felt this way. I tp to a lot of my good friends when I go online, never saw it as a problem as they do it to me too. I never realized that some didn't care for kiss bombs, I do it because I think it looks cute. (Same goes for hugs) . I am nearly 25, busy with work and school and I've taken time off for months due to life, and I didn't know it was seen as inconvenient. (Not to say you can't block anyone if you wanted to make space. That is your choice to make). I enjoy the interactive part of this game, and sure sometimes I want to play alone. But I take honor in those who want to join me. To each their own I suppose, unless I feel seriously uncomfortable (which I havent) I guess I don't feel the need to block someone. I was just surprised at some of the comments as it's not something that ever crossed my mind.
Same indeed! Thank goodness I'm not the only one who felt like this
I agree
Same
So far I’ve only blocked people who gave me their number and were like “give me a call some time :)” or asked me to be their “lover” as if sky is some kind of dating app lol even when I deny it, they still act persistent about it. That’s when I block when they don’t take my rejection seriously :/
I hate creeps like those like wtf 'people have privacy, people NEED privacy, so stop acting like a creep' is what I'd probably say
Had an experience like that! Upon realizing what the guy was after I renamed him to “Krill bait” and promptly blocked+left him lmfao
I've had a lot of experience like you did😢 and it just makes me question... I'm pretty sure that many people has already blocked these creepers, just like how we did. And somehow they never learn..? Very weird. Maybe their brains are made out of dicks.
I read that people don't like it when their friends are AFK during Candle Runs. And I just remembered that a couple of times I accidentally fell asleep while they were driving me. And when I woke up and saw that I was sitting somewhere alone, I was so embarrassed that I left my friends. At least, I try to always thank them for their help and apologize for such situations. And also due to the fact that English is not my native language, I can't always maintain a dialogue with friends, because I just don't know what to answer. I think they might think I'm rude because I don't say anything, but I feel embarrassed about that too. If you are my friend or future friend, please excuse me.
Same ':'(
Just to be clear - You don't have to be friends with someone who doesn't make you feel happy. It doesn't matter what the reason is that's holding you back, if they make you feel bad, block them. Sky is supposed to be enjoyable and peaceful. People that don't keep the peace should not be on Sky. Unfortunately you can't make them stop playing, but you can stop them from having contact with you. Don't hesitate. Do it.
There was this 10-year old kid I met in valley citadel. I was doing runs alone and then suddenly a moth with red cape added me and I accepted (because I added ikemen too when I was moth). She took me literally anywhere and then vanished. The next time we met (been a while since we met ingame) she offered me hand at home, I don't wanna be rude so I accepted. She then dragged me to wasteland and sat on the bench, and the first thing she told me was "Can you give me pass?" I was like lol, sorry my friend gave me this pass so she was like ok. I then suggested some stuff how to get it, since I can't give her one :( but then she asked if she can add my friend. I didn't want her to feel bad so I just said yes. Then another time I was with my girlfriend, this kid tped to me, lit my gf and then added her. Next thing I knew they were chatting and the kid was acting close. Sometimes she insists to take us on candle runs only to vanish in the middle of it. There were times when she was rude to me and my gf, and she kept asking me and my gf for hearts. At first I was fine with it, but one of those times I suggested we trade because I am in need of heart too, she said ok and then left. One time the three of us: me, my gf and the kid, were doing run in wasteland (I uber them), the kid was rude to my gf, so I told her off (not in a rude way) and she's like "Don't pressure me I'm just a kid" and then vanished. Sometimes when she does that, she comes back to apologize, and I accept it then tell her what she did wrong. We lasted for weeks like that. Until she kept on repeating the same thing, does something rude, vanishes, and then says sorry again. This kid even asked my gf for pass, and begged her for hearts which I didn't like too much because all she did was take, not even giving back a single heart to say thanks. Then the last moment I saw her was when I couldn't take it anymore. I was ubering her but then she vanishes. Please note that I am in a hurry that time and I told her we need to finish runs fast, also she's the one who asked me to uber her even though I said I am busy. So she tps back and I fled to her way so she can come to me, but then before I could reach her, she said b*j and then disappears again. I blocked her after that because that was disrespectful. I even treated her like a little sister, but I have tolerated her long enough. Even my gf told me she was bossy and rude to her. Lmao sorry I just can't with this type of attitude.
Was the kid a magician ? Because they keep doing vanishing tricks
Just this week I blocked a long time “friend”
It’s just toxic already. I wanted to be understanding and all but I guess it is too much. I tried at first to adjust with that friend: once she veers to being sad about whats happening to her real life, I will ask her for us to play together (candle run, quest etc) my thinking was that’s the only thing I can do; listen and let Sky as a game do its charm.
This works in most days. But it came to a point that she rants about me and what we are doing in Sky. Suddenly will tp to you and expect she gets her way. Her side comments and snarky remarks made it awful for me and friends with me.
Good thing I have not introduced her to my core Sky friends. Which made me realize to be very careful about your Sky group of friends too.
New player here, so far everyone I met has been very kind. Some brought me around to collect Winged Light and I always thank them at the end of each tour. I think, online friendship, is easily taken for granted as we, the players, do not really know the person behind the screen. After watching this video, I can understand why the creator and some people in the comment section, block other players. I personally would not block anyone but I get why some want to do that. It's not okay for anyone to just demand others to take them for CR and not even a "thank you" at the end of it. I have some veteran friends that have been playing for a long time, and even when I teleport to them, I always observe what they're doing first. If it seems like they are with their friends, I will not interrupt and play on my own. This is how one is supposed to play the game, I believe. ༼ つ ◕‿◕ ༽つ
AAA OMG 😭❤️ God bless you, you're such a nice player! I have friends like you and I appreciate them very much :"D
back then ( a few weeks ago more specifically ) when I just played sky, I made a lot of moth friends. We played together for a day or too and then I never saw them online ever again :( To this day , I haven't blocked them and I don't plan too because I'll feel guilty. I'm just sad that they left just like that. Never saw them online and their looks are still the same
I literally have the same problem 😞✊ I once met this moth is forest who just friended me. We sat down on a bench and talked. We also get some spirits. I was helping this moth do Vault and Eden, getting seasonal spirits, wl, and cr. We did 2 of the quests in season of assembly. After that my moth friend just said see you later and went offline. I was ready to bring her for the next quest but she was never online since then. I miss her 😭✊
@@aeliustar big sad :,) that happens to me too
I met someone that act and dress like a moth he keep begging for hearts so i gave him daily its not a trade tho since he never gave me any but i dont really mind since he lied to get heart which seem pretty desperate so i just gave him out of pity he still doesnt know that ik hes a veteran🤭 lmao
With hearts, I always just gift my friends hearts and don't expect hearts back. Sure, they almost always give one back, but I don't expect it.
Lol i gift hearts to my best friend in Sky everyday so she can get the cape she wants :)
@@shelf2953 That’s so wholesome😔
I've blocked over 50 people by now. I'm a veteran player and have been on Sky for over a year. When I first joined the game, I would help many new players on their moth journeys, and some of those people grew to become veterans as well and some of my best friend's. But, it is very rare that a moth continues with game play, so these days I will accept a moth's invite, and then if we haven't unlocked more friendship levels by 4 days, I block.
2 months ago, I had over 100 in my constellation. Half of them wouldn't show up because you can only see so many at a time. It became extremely stressful for me to log on every day and see all of those 'friends' that I had. I felt like I was picking and choosing sides if I joined one but not the other, and I knew that a good chunk of them were all mutual and would be playing together. So after much debating, I decided to block all the people I rarely talked to/played with. That was probably the best decision I've ever made when it comes to Sky, because I've never been more happier about my game play. Now, I know that all the roughly-30 people I see on my constellation are actual friends that care about/want to be with me. There's no more stress and I can live my life with my good friends.
Do what's best for you and your game play. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise; if you want to have 5 friends, go for it! If you want to have over 100, good for you! ❤❤
Once, I became friends with this person and at first they seemed really fun and cool. They taught me how to play a couple songs in sky and we did a few candle runs together. Then one day they warped to me and we unlocked some friendship nodes (I spent like 12 candles), and then they said "can I caress you". I thought that it was typo and they meant to say "carry" so I pressed the carry emote. They were like "Haha no. Not carry. Caress. It's spelled different". I told them I was a minor, and they said they didn't care. I was super disgusted and sad because I had just spent candles on them and they had seemed like a really cool person before that moment :(. Needless to say, I blocked them. Rest in peace to my candles.
If anyone sends you unsolicited sexual messages, especially if you are a minor like me, its important to block and report them to keep you and other players safe.
ugh gross. I feel like some predators come to sky because they know minors play the game.
Ngl sounds like the kind of mistake I'd make because my english is trash
For a long time (well,,, until now actually) I though caress and pet was the same thing because in french its the same word for both lol
@@johjoh6429 you and me both👉🏽👉🏽
@@johjoh6429 you were right the first time!! caress isn’t a sexual word, it does mean “pet”. however, it can be used sexually. and if a stranger (or somebody you aren’t close to) says it to you, it’s very creepy and has suspicious undertones.
same with the word “touch”. you can easily say you touched somebody’s hair and it doesn’t sound bad, but saying to someone “i want to touch you” or “can i touch you” sounds very weird in some contexts.
i am still a moth and got adopted by a veteran just few hours after i started playing. she’s too nice she kept showing me beatiful sceneries and helps me with a lot. she teaches me how to fly like a pro. she also initiates hug whenever we meet.
Aww
i blocked this one girl who was 13 and whenever i would tp to hang out with her she would always have some kind of problem she would rant to me about. i was okay with listening for a while but then she would just keep complaining about everything and that life is "meaningless" and would quickly bash whatever i had to say on the matter. so i gave up and blocked her. i just can't deal with the constant negativity.
I always feel very bad asking to trade hearts with my friends, i always send their heart back right away.. but i just feel like I'm bothering them..
I hope we can buy hearts too like candles :')
I blocked this friend I didn't really talk too, but some times when I was online they would beg for hearts. I thought it would be mean to just block them on the spot when they asked again, so I told them that I was gonna block them because they didn't give any hearts back and I didn't really talk to them (Stupid move). They started spamming crying emjois and saying that it was too being mean to just block them on the spot. But I blocked them anyway, when I did they did a bunch of crying and angry emotes. I didn't really care 🤭.
I am sometimes glad that there's a block button
Lol should've done the laugh emote I like to be savage
a few months back i had a friend named uhh, i'll call him "frill"
i met him in a server from another friend i rarely talked to but she invited me anyways,
this "frill" guy was seen as the cold-hearted edgy type of dude, but he grew close to me quickly and we had a lot of fun talking together
he was what you'd call an "ikemen" on sky. i wasn't really interested in him as i had a boyfriend at the time, but after about 2 weeks of talking, he told me about how he would constantly lead other young girls on (girls who are about 10 and he was 16) and i was really disgusted by it since i have trauma from situations like that.
when we were on a call in discord he was flirting with me a LOT, it's was really fuggin disturbing and i wanted to vomit. that same night i blocked him on discord and sky
and i told my (now ex) all about it. i wanted to bawl my eyes out since he sounded like he was 20 it was such a gross situation
so anyways stay safe on the internet yall
My 'friends' are either inactive or have blocked me and some of them never light my candle so I'm always thinking of blocking them but at the same time I'm thinking 'but what if I couldn't play for some days and some of the people on my friend tree thought I was inactive and blocked Me? That wouldn't feel really good and I wouldn't want them to feel that way.' so I'm just not gonna do anything and overthink over here lmao.
Edit: I'm blocking every single one of them 💀🤙🏻
if they blocked u they probably gonna forget about you, I had a lot of friends but they stopped playing (me included but I came back and they dont), I blocked all the ghosts and the people I couldn't remember at all, I'll start making new friends now
@@LyraTesni same mate I'm sick of these people, tbh quality is better than quantity.
Hello, im pretty new in sky.. Can you tell me what's the function of lighting friends light, is it the one icon above their head? I didn't not the purpose of it, so i didn't press it, not until 2days ago.. I was trying to give a gift to a new friend, but couldn't bcs we didn't rlly grow our friendship..so i lit the candle hoping it is some kind of gift too😅
@@saycheeseee9934 dunno how to explain properly but u can collect it when friends send to you and it adds to your hearts, not one heart each but a few fragments like the candle lights
@@LyraTesni sorry im asking a lot of questions ≥﹏≤ i know that it's the heart,but what about the candle light icon on top screen/player's head? I realized it light up the star of your friend, in the constellation. Is that what it is for?
MM YES TIME FOR SCARY FRIEND STORIES, so VEEERY long comment ahead for yall who can relate☠️
so.... this one moth tho ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
actually, she took one look at me and offered me a candle in homespace. cant resist those candles 🥺
As soon as I sat her down in prairie lobby, she said "I need 4 hearts and those candles from Eden".
🖐️(👁️💧👄💧👁️)🖐️
i ended up taking her to Eden because she was scared. i wasn't carrying table and was candle broke, so i used up all my table spells to talk to her, and i congratulated her at the end of orbit.
The moths i uber usually say something about how nice the music was or how sad and intense Eden was, or they say thank you --- but this moth just seemed very bummed about losing her wings before anything else? i did tell her beforehand that it was part of being reborn.
The next few days after that, she would always teleport to me. I didn't mind, because I'm always happy to see my moth buddies, ask them abt new instruments they bought and stuff...
but then
she would always offer her hand, or spam the angry emote and cry emote when I'm with other friends. I've had to cut cr with some ppl because she wouldn't leave me alone until i took her to fetch all the wings...
At that point, she spam honked/screamed so much that i named her Eren Jaeger 😭🤺🤺🤺
I unlocked chat with her. Dunno if that was a good choice??? She did seem to enjoy talking to me when I carried her on runs. It was wholesome, even 🥺 Though... Everytime I stopped to reply, she would just tell me to hurry up.. even if she knows I don't speak her language and needed a translator.
But anyway, that was the routine. Along the way, i just started bringing her with me on candle runs with other friends... Or hoping the server would split for a few minutes.
One time, my bestie teleported to me while I was carrying Eren Jaeger (lmao). Eren kept telling me "Please let go of your friend's hand", or "Please leave them behind". Obviously she ain't gonna be ordering me around since I'M the one taking her on full, unpaid runs ಠ‿ಠ so I just said, "Why? No, It's okay for (friend) to come."
Everytime I stopped to talk to my bestie, or asked my bestie about her day, Eren would just spam "Let's go goooo", "I would like my wings as soon as possible" or "drop your friend" in the chat.
It frustrated me so damn much, and I didn't have the heart to go rabid on anyone lmao so i just shut off the game and continued talking to bestie on ig. I felt guilty for that, so I compensated Eren with a valley run afterward.
Now, yesterday was probably the last straw.
I was in a group of sky kids for wasteland. Around seven other people were with me for wax, and we were paying one uber in hearts.
Eren teleports to me, of course. She kept latching on (even if she didn't hold any trade with the uber) and telling me to "Go with me right now, please. Please please please". I told her again and again, "I can't right now, I'm in a group, etc etc... But if you wait a while, I can do a run with you later"
And after saying I was unavailable, she told me, "You're bad!😭 Why won't you come with me. I can't play the game later, please understand"
We made it to the ark, I paid my uber in advance and just... Closed the game and took a breather.
I came back in a few minutes, teleported to her and explained again why I couldn't come. I asked her why she "couldn't play the game later" (maybe due to homework, curfew, parents),,, I just wanted to understand her better.
She just said, "It's nothing for now. Let's start with the first world (asking for wings in isle of dawn)". I hope she didn't say it just to make me leave my group uber.
Much later, I came back on, greeted some of my good Japanese friends... And she teleports to me again.
She said, "Please stay with just me today". At that point, it was almost midnight in my country, so I told her it was getting late. "Oh nooo,, please please please" she said.
I WAS ON MY LAST FEW BRAINCELLS BRO DHDHSHHSEJHDJS
We just had a long convo, with me explaining why I'm not always available in the nicest way I could manage. I didn't even have the heart to tell her "I DON'T FEEL LIKE A FRIEND, I FEEL LIKE A BUTLER,,, I lead everytime we run - and everytime we run, you tell me to hurry and get your wings for you dijdhwhdhw you bring random friends with you when I lead, but you get upset when i bring my own friends g 😭🦧 IF U WANT YO WINGS SO BAD, GET IT URSELF OR GET A FASTER UBER WHEN U GO TO EDEN PLS, WHY DO U GO TO EDEN THRICE A WEEK 😭😭😭 you never ask me about anything besides wings IAHSHSHHDBW"
>:""""D
even after i tried being polite she just called me a bad person, took my hand and tried to ditch my friend, told me that i should stay with her because she hasn't seen me in four days. Told me again and again that she needed me so much.
Then she told me, "Are your other friends more important than me?"
Like 👁️👁️ YO I NEVER SAID THAT 😭☠️
After a while she finally accepted that i needed to go. Her last words?
"Fine. But you said you'd teach me the chibi glitch. I have the mask. So teach it to me now."
I did, half-heartedly.
And then she let me go, asking me to stay with only her tomorrow.
Well... "Tomorrow" is today.
So I came here to reaffirm my own decision to block her XD
I'm a bit sad that she missed the point of the game. It's not a competition for wings and cosmetics. The goal is to have fun, make friends and do quests together... :(
there was this kid who always ruined the vibe and would just outright make all of us uncomfortable and triggered (in a way it triggers unpleasant memories) we were just vibing in sanctuary when she just came up to us and said she wanted to kill herself like yikes- her reasoning is even so shallow because of a crush turning her down
what really made it the final straw for me was when she glorified being numb while we were candle running in hidden forest, she just went with us and shared her life story for some reason (which is uncalled for btw since we never really hung out w her a lot, she just decided to pour this out at us), my friend got really uncomfortable so we all had to leave
she'd even be completely annoying by spamming about leading for gw
Basically: be a nice person. Don't afk, show your appreciation, don't beg for hearts, don't spam hate, don't act annoying, don't beg for candle runs. Sky is a place to make friends, so make friends like you would irl.
I had to once block a child of 8 years old because he would not only teleport constantly to me or my friend waiting for us to get online, without letting us play by ourselves, but would vent to us, ask us to be his new mothers, insult me or my friend when the other wasn't present, get angry and leave for no reason and then come back and get angry because we didn't wait for him and other stuff
Like I get it, he's a child but jeez
Also saying all of his personal stuff to two adults it's not the best idea honestly
Your vice is so relaxing and peaceful 😌
I remember in my moth days, there were these two skykids who kept booing me and making fun of me because i wasn't a good harp player. And at the time I was only just figuring out how the instrument system worked, so i was practicing songs and stuff.
It kinda pissed me off so i just ran into a portal and never saw them again 👀
I’m glad I don’t have bad experiences (yet), the only time I had to block em was that they’re inactive and don’t play sky anymore
I’m a 50 year old player. It took me a while to figure the game out. The whole friends thing seemed confusing at first but there a lot of things that need to be done with more than one person. I’ve spent time just waiting for someone to come help unlock a door and thats annoying. This was a helpful video.
Aaaaa thank you for making this video, cause I’m a bit uncomfy when thinking about blocking people in sky, but this video helps me realize that it’s fine to do so! I think I’ll only block 2 people for now. One of them was giving me their number (that made me uncomfortable) and the other demanded that we unlock to piggy back (but I was the one who was unlocking the tiers). This was when the days of fortune was coming and I really wanted to get everything, but they pushed it on me. I was a bit hesitant, but thanks to this video I’ll probably block them now.
It makes me pissed that sky doesn’t want to implement a zen mode for the game. I’ve ever been so overstimulated that I had no choice but to block all my friends (about 300 of them) for a week. :’D
I adore you ✊😁👈
dear TGC "OFFLINE" mode please 😁✌️
As a gratitude veteran I have had my fair share of people harassing me. I’ve blocked most of them at this point because I just realized that they’re not gonna be nice and all. What bothers me is how people will only friend me just because I either look cool or AKA and Ikemen or I have the owl hair and wearing the gratitude pendant. I’ve had people hop online immediately and they wouldn’t leave me alone. They would spam their honk sound affect and use the kissy emote which if you do over use it and you’re someone I just met, I’m obviously gonna get uncomfortable. If you were a close friend I wouldn’t mind. If I’m being honest, sky has become a bit toxic and all. I’ll tolerate somethings but not all of them. But people just friending me because I look cool or I’m a Gratitude veteran and not actually interacting with me is a big pet peeve of mine. Another issue are those that think like...how do I put this
Basically there are players that think I’m more than just a friend like I’m a loved one or...partner sadly. And this is a huge problem because I am with someone, I am not single and the fact that people are looking for partners on sky is really not okay let alone are asking me if I like them...like more than just like them. Sometimes I would love to gain the courage tell these people that I now regret excepting their candles that “ If you’re looking for a date, go on an actual dating website not some game that has a lot of minors in it”. And there is this one player in particular that I might have to block because I think they have gained feelings for me, which I do find a bit concerning since we don’t talk that much. And I’m pretty sure they know how old I am...I know they’re an adult that’s for sure and I’m still a minor.
But this is what makes me want to leave sky. The fact that Sky used to be a safe place for me and what I was wearing or the pendant I had didn’t matter til later on, which is now.
And yeah I know I can just change the way I look but here’s the thing. Sometimes people will think I’m lying when I say I’m from gratitude because most of those player have left the game either because of personal reasons or they got bored or they just decided to move and their journey had finally come to an end with sky. So I wear it as a way to symbolize that “hey I’m an old player or veteran”
I’m sorry for my rant but I had to get that off my chest and all..
Honestly I haven’t been in a bad relationship with a player before but I have a good relationship with someone before. I named her Yanny she helped me through a lot. She help me to the Sky puppy, when I was a moth and I’m not really good at flying she hold my hand and flew to the place I wanted.
I block people often. I accept all candles from moths, but they also means I need to make room. If someone has never visited me or I've never visited then after a few weeks, they get blocked. It's not personal!
Actually, I have friend. But I always solo run candle. Because I'm too shy to ask them to candle run with me. And I know how hard to collect heart and candle so I decide to do it myself. But yeah, I feel lonely. But it's fine because I don't want to disturb someone. And I don't want them to feel uncomfortable towards me because I'm a kind of person who always Swearing and made a Dirty jokes and I'm energetic. So yeah, being alone is better for me. ^^
Edit: I always show my true self when I'm very close with someone. Someone who accept what Am I and what my true personality is. I love friends. I love everyone. I'm happy when I light there candles, because I want to see there true form. Then I'm gonna bow for ‘Thank you’ because I see how amazing they are. Theeee elders is so cool. I love moth and elders.
i remember this time i dressed as a male (ikemen) and usually i dressed as a female but i met this friend and i helped her complete the season of dreams village and when we finished we went home and i have her a whole bunch of cute affections that were things like blow kiss emotes or the adoring one and she took that personally and spammed the praying emotes and the refuse emotes so i stopped doing it because she was obviously uncomfortable. and her friend later took her away. so i left to forest and she followed me there and expected for me to cr her there. it turned out as a mess,, a few weeks or months later we met and it felt awkward asf but she seemed to not even know who i was, it was odd. so i cr her in gw and we went back home and she took me somewhere in vally oob and she spawned the blushing emotes and got super close and tried to make it look like we were kissing so i also felt uncomfortable and used the refused emote and did the laugh one to laugh it off later and she starting crying in the corner and she flew away so i returned home and went to prairie and she tp to me and blocked me face to face and help my hand as a stranger so i disconnected and went to hide at a realm and she unblocked me so she could find me so i went offline,, and told my friend how weird it was and they told me i should block them so i did shortly after and never saw her again. i feel f r e e d o m 🌚🌚😻✨✨✨
Whoa.. after reading all these comments, I'm really glad that I haven't interacted with toxic players much. Most of my blocked friends are just moths who never come online-
One day I ordered the new seasom pass, and someone watched me. So they demanded me to give me a season pass and they would give me 200 hearts. I knew something was up but i left after they began demanding for a while.
I've only ran into one rude person making fun of people like ikemen, moths, ect and claiming that they themselves were just superior and I told them they were rude and they got really mad and basically bit my face off, the person removed the table so we could no longer talk so they left and I hung out with my friends
When I was a moth another moth offered to become friends with me. When we became friends he kept pulling me away from my brother! I didn’t understand how hand-holding worked, so he almost kidnapped me multiple times. My brother and I ran away from him thru a portal, and he chased after us and honked aggressively! We all got into a honking match. 😂 I blocked him for being a creep.
hdjshah I get dragged a lot by people but I feel so bad so half of my game experience is them just dragging me around where they want 😭 it makes me so sleepy
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Another couple video: Group peeking ruclips.net/video/rVdV7od9RRw/видео.html
Couple Hunter 01 : ruclips.net/video/uOwk6xWnstg/видео.html
Couple Hunter 02 : ruclips.net/video/F7i2V3rF4V0/видео.html
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I block people sometimes to have a run by myself & unblock them once I'm done. There is only 1 person on my chart that I wouldn't do this to because she is always a pleasure to play with. & also best friend in sky. Everyone else can get the button if I don't want to be bothered.
Oh wow, I have the exact same set-up! Except, my bestie and I share a mutual friend whom we often talk to and there was one time they tp-ed to her while I was with her AND I had forgotten to unblock them from the previous solo run... I ended up having to explain myself. I've had to block my bestie from then on, whenever I want to solo...
(Sorry if there's some mistakes, I'm still learning English 😅)
Ok, I'm going to tell my block list story too. This is going to be truly long, so get comfy :')
I have four people blocked:
• Two of them are the first friends I had in Sky (there should be 3, but I can't find the third one in my constellation lol). After more than 7 months they are still moths, and they don't light my star back, so I blocked them for being inactive.
• Another one is a player who, judging by their cosmetics, seems that has been playing for more time than me (but for some reason they always had only 8 stars in their cape).
Everytime they logged in, they teleported to me. If I was alone, they interrupted my CR. They didn't take my hand, just stay in the same place for approximately half and hour, doing emotes, dancing, etc. If I tried to go, they started doing cry and angry emotes, making me feel bad.
If they saw me with another friend (even if the other friend just auto-held hands with me in front of them), they started again doing crying and angry emotes and running away.
I was once able to talk with them using a chat table, and I discovered that they didn't speak Spanish or English. I tried to communicate with them using Google translator. I discovered they were only 8 years old.
I didn't want to block them because they were only a child, but they eventually stopped login in, so I thought "well, then I guess they won't notice if I block them °\_(0_0)_/°", and so I did.
• The last friend I blocked was probably the worst.
I befriended him because he could speak Spanish (my native tongue). The same day I befriended him, he started asking things like:
"How old are you?" I'm 18 (they are a few years older than me).
"Do you have a partner?". I told them that I don't, but that I already like someone in real life.
Strange questions, but I thought he was just curious and that those questions were something he asked to everybody.
Some time later, he joined me in my CR ocasionally. Sometimes a girl who was a friend of him joined us too. My friend used to speak to the girl in a romantic way, so I thought they were a couple or something (now I think they actually weren't, just continue reading)
Another time jump, my friend joined me in one of my CR. He saluted me saying things like "Hello precious😘" or "You cute😍". I continued thinking "well, maybe he is trying to be kind", so I just answered to everything with "thanks☺️".
He started leading the CR in Prairie. Meanwhile, he continued asking things like:
"What's your favourite food?", "Do you like spicy?", "I am a spicy boy, but I can be sweet too if you want", "What does make you fall in love for someone?"…
I saw what he was trying to do, so I just answered everything with little interest or just with a "I don't know".
All I could think was "I hope you log out soon, because I will definetly block you when I have the opportunity". I am 18, but it still feels uncomfortable to have a stranger older than you flirting with you in an online game.
Finishing Sanctuary Islands, his last question was: "Can I try to make you fall in love for me?". I obviously didn't want that, but I didn't want him to feel bad, so I just answered: "Um😅". He inmediately said: "It's ok, I know that's a "no", don't worry"
I thought: "Ok, he got it, I guess he is going to stop flirting with me from now on. I'll forgive him the block then"
The next day, he joined me again… And continued flirting with me anyways :(
I finally decided to block him. I just unblock him for a few seconds to light his star, so he doesn't suspect anything. I would report him, but then I would have to warp to him, and I honestly don't want to know anything about him again…
EXTRA: A person I don't know if I should block or not. It's a player who can't talk in Spanish and barely talks English (let's call them "X" because there are a lot of people involved in this story). X used to join me in my CR. Everytime I accepted and entered a realm, they started to unhold my hand every few seconds and fly on their own.
One time, I was with X and two more good friends of mine. I had already finished Wasteland on my own (the daily quests were there that day). We were in Vault, and X then said "Can you help me with daily quests?". I told them "Right now I'm not the one leading, when we finish Vault I'm helping you".
We continued the CR. X was unholding their hand every second (as usual), making me and my other friends going slower. I could only think: "Damn it, X, you are not a moth anymore, stop acting like that", but I just stayed quiet.
In telekinesis spirit room, my friends were getting ready to do rocket trick but then, X unheld my hand AGAIN, but this time they sit in that five people table and started talking with a stranger, insisting on being their friend (the stranger didn't want to) and ignoring the rest of the group. My friends were spamming honk to X, and I felt so guilty for bringing X with us that I started doing the "sorry" emote to my friends, until I eventually told them: "Go without me guys 😓".
They did rocket trick and X finally stood up from the table, following the stranger they were trying to befriend. The stranger, X and me took the elevator.
While we were going up, X told me: "Tell your friend (X was refering to the stranger) to befriend me". I answered "They aren't even my friend". I made X hold my hand and started doing "sorry" emote to the stranger. I had told my friends to continue without me just because X's childish behaviour.
In a silent anger, I finished Vault. We returned home and the first thing X said was: "Now you can help me with daily quests :D"
I took their hand, we went to Wasteland, we jumped to the storm, we landed, I was going to do the first quest… And X then disconnected without warning. And they didn't even return.
X is lucky that I have lots of patience, or I would have blocked them that instant. Also, X doesn't log in as frequently as they used to, and they even light my star sometimes, so I'm good with it… For now.
Demasiado texto y poco nivel de inglés de mi parte😔
@@MariaRuiz-mx3tz Te resumo:
Mi lista de bloqueos se compone de:
• Dos bloqueados por inactivos.
• Un niño de 8 años bloqueado por hacerme sentir mal cuando me veía con otros amigos.
• Uno que trataba de ligar conmigo, aunque le dije varias veces que no lo hiciera.
Y el extra de abajo del todo es alguien (al que llamaremos X) a quien no he llegado a bloquear y no sé si debería. X me acompañaba mientras recogía velas en la Bóveda con otros amigos, y no dejaba de soltarse de mi mano. Al final les tuve que decir a mis dos amigos que siguieran sin mí porque X estaba empeñado/a en hacerse amigo/a de otro jugador random que había en el servidor.
Terminé la Bóveda a solas con X, y nada más acabar me dijo que si le ayudaba con las misiones de ese día (ya me había preguntado un par de veces mientras estábamos en la Bóveda). Decidí ayudarle y nada más entrar en los Páramos a hacer las misiones se desconectó y no volvió.
@@blancor8831 jaja no te preocupes en resumirmelo mi inglés es pobre pero creo que si entendí, yo la verdad bloqueó a las personas por que no se hacer interacciones sociales y siempre e estado acostumbrada a farmear y hacer tareas sola 😌
Block X
4:02 "and does not contain any violence or fighting"
me, begrudgingly staring at the krill
Theres a guy on my const i renamed "idontlikeyou" when i was a few months in as a moth and i still have no idea what they did now.
Ive been playing since enchant and from the longest time ive been playing this game i rarely even bother to block people.
"The youngest player I've ever met in Sky was 11"
I started playing when I was 11, and for a few months I thought everyone were kids lol
I’ve been a solo player for about 2 months now. I love it, but getting hearts is extremely hard. I rarely ask my few friends to trade, due to being afraid of seeing as a beggar :(
I blocked a sky fren because it was really uncomfy when we were together i don't know if they are not good at english but it still made me uncomfy and i kinda feel guilty about it but they keep complimenting me from every little thing and even told me they miss me and love me even tho we just met it really made me uncomfy to the point that i had to block them😔
Should've been only a little harsh on them and say: people need privacy, so respect that.
I dream of a button that will make me temporarily invisible to my friends, because sometimes I really want to play solo or I need to finish cr as quickly as it possible cause I have to back to work, and not stand and chat for hours in one place. I don’t want to block friends, but sometimes I need more personal space, sometimes I just want.to.be.alone...
And this is not because my friends are some kind of bad, no, they are sunshines, just often I don't have enough strength to communicate. So I want this magic button that would hide me from my friends for a while
Agreed I recommend playing BeTa lol peaceful in beta 🤓
@@SKYGAZA2020 oh yes, I play it 🌚🌚🌚
I really Agree. "OFFLINE" mode 😁✌️ let's suggest it to TGC when they do survey and need input. Or through their discord.
I think the reason why there's no unfriend option is so that you can't unfriend someone and then send them a link to get free chat XD
If I have to beg for hearts I usually give hearts as well or wait until my next cr and send it over friend constellation.
I’ve learned that, as a chibi, most of them have the right to be very loud without much consequence as long as it’s preceded by a bow, and they’re not afraid of spam honking. Honestly, those people (chibis) have helped me a lot with not being so anxious and I kinda am one of those people now. R.I.P i’m only about a month into sky but it feels like it’s been way longer than that.
+ yes I have the chibi mask, it was basically the first cosmetic I went for.
Ah yes I agreed with all of those things :)
And also, I can see ur channel growing 👀✨ nice content keep it up! 👀✨💞
My irl friend blocked me on sky because I didn't die with him when we first encountered the krill. Its not my fault my brain knows to run when it sees a red light :(.
I block when they’re thirsting over me or wouldn’t leave me alone, once I had someone added me because my style is to their liking, after that, they won’t leave whenever they see me chasing after me into realms and going as far as spam honks when I’m being dragged by my friend to the point they complain about it.
Players who flex and get the items you want not because they want it, but just show they can rub salt on your wound gets an instant block too :)
Watching this was painful because the person being the "blocked" example is exactly how I looked for a few months
3 of my best skyfriends blocked me ;-; tbh I was feeling a little left out by them bc of language barrier but they do know english very well they just dont use english often bc idk , then one out of those 3 friends also felt left out by the 2 of them bc they just push her out of their friend group sometimes and that 1 friend i told her my side of the story so we became closer than my 2 pther best friends then one day they (3 friend) never came online for some reason but one day I was checking if they did block me or not so I check my 3 friends normally in friend cosntellation if I was at home space for a while and there was no sign they were online but I keep seeing that their outfits kept changing even though they are not online and I check on them very often if Im not busy and thier outfits still change and their stance even though I just checked a few minutes ago 🥺🥺 should I block them back? Did they really block me? Thank u for hearing me out Edit UwU : so much likes thank u ❤
For your peace of mind, just block them too. You’ll find other players in Sky sooner or later.
I recommend that you just block them. You shouldn't be worrying about people that treat you like that, if they really wanted to be friends then they wouldn't have blocked you. You'll make new friends that will treat you better than them!
Wait. So if sky kids block you, they still appear on your friends list?
@@thatjayskyig5071 ok I'll do it
@@cindyle821 thank u :3
Ive lost connection on sky too many times to the point that they think I’m afk 😭. To all my friends, I never intend to leave y’all. I’m just not blessed with good wifi :,)
I blocked some, mostly moths who don't go on anymore for 1 month.. but there was this one girl, who was so toxic. First off at the time I just recently got my GW elder hair and I was wearing it 24/7. Chilling in prairie and playing the guitar suddenly a player came up and sat down listening, when I finished I simply wanted to light them. Revealed the player who I wouldn't know until maybe 3 weeks later was the most toxic player I have met.
We were just spamming emotes, having fun. Then she wanted to friend me, ok sure. I named her butterfly, since she had the butterfly cape. After a few more spammed emotes, I had to leave and I said my goodbyes. Came back tomorrow, light my friends up and when I lit her up she suddenly went online, at the time 'yay someone to hangout with'. After greetings, I got my table and we started to chat "hello^^" "hi" "how are you?" "Can u candle run for me?" "Oh umm, sorry I cant." "Why not?" "I just wanna hangout and chill, candle running is very tiring lol" "oof well, I need it, so can you?" "Sorry haha no, u can ask in discord tho" "whatever, bye" and then she left..
Few days later she teleported to me "Hey are you a boy or girl?" "Oh me haha I'm a girl, hbu?" "But your wearing the golden hair..?" "So? Doesn't mean I can't wear it.." "that's just giving someone mixed signals you know.." "..." "you sure u aren't a guy? U know pretending to be a girl is a pervert right??" "Umm... I'm a girl yes." "What's ur name then?" "Can't say, just call me orange :)" "orange... Really?" "Hahaha yess" "your weird.." "yes I am hehe" "k, see ya.."
While I was hanging out with my main friend group, "yo, let's make a deal? you give me hearts everyday since I need it for the forest hair and I'll give you hearts everyday when u need a hair, deal?" "Umm why not just trade everyday?" "Cuz I need to save some candles, duh" "well I also too" "how much you got?" "Just about 103 candles.." "that much?! Your being greedy, I only have 5 candles and you won't give me a heart cuz u need to save?" "Well yeah, sorry, I'll send u a heart if I have spare" "so greedy... Like wtf, u can sacrifice those three candles for me!" ".. sorry no can do.." and then she left..
While doing a quick Cr, "imma join, if you don't mind" "oh sure! But I'm just doing this one realm, I'll leave after this" "but can u do one more? And besides u still need to give me hearts!" "I won't give hearts if you don't give them back.." "I need them, ok? Why can't u understand that? God ur so stupid!" "Still not giving them" even while I was candle running she was complaining, mocking my flight skills and being annoying. Ithe time I decided to block her was the time dreams was going to be the next season.
I was giving my two best friends their aps that I bought, until "oh, u got the ap? Can I have one plssssss!" "Sorry nope, already gave them to my friends (ur welcome Len and drew)" "why not me??I deserved an ap after all your harrassment!" "Harrassment??" "Yah u won't give me hearts, u won't help me Cr and you won't even give me an ap!!" "... Bye~"
blocked, bye bye~
sorry that happens to you, they are rude as hell, they are literally the one who harassed you, good that you blocked them!
If I was you, I would just block them right from the second story, or first if I am in a bad mood.
And if I can, I will tell her how I think about her and then block her right in front of her face.
Once a friend asked me to unlock all the friendship tree.
I lied and said: "Sorry, I'm broke, but we can unlock chat"
They said: "Ok, I'm saving for something".
Some time later they asked the same thing again, and again I said: "Sorry, I'm broke"
They answered again: "Ok, I'm saving for something".
I'm 99 % sure they would have obligated me to waste my candles if they had known I had more than 50 (I was saving for the TS).
Never tell new friends (especially moths) the actual number of candles you have.
Key to not being toxic to other players:
-Don't ask for what you aren't willing to do/give back
-Don't make people play the game for you, cooperate/take turns, a full cr can be tiring on the person running all the time.
Be the kind of person you would like as a friend, reflect on why people might have distanced themselves from you, or better yet- ask why.
On the other half, don't grief or troll people who annoy you, if you don't like something say it kindly and firmly. Take the higher road and don't stoop down to "teach them a lesson".
I've seen this hypocrisy before and it really bothers me.
I still think that blocked someone because any reason without telling the problem is actually the worst. Umm I know that it's your authority to do it but for the other party which is blocked it will leave an unpleasant and terrible guilty feeling. Especially when they used to be close to each other.
I used to be friends with someone she always joined me but she was a little bit odd when we were together. So I told about her behavior to my other sky friends without telling them who it is. I respect her privacy so I never tell them her name, even when they guess right since I believe she's a kind person yeah she is but not with me, but she is always join me. At first I still can tolerate her actions with me, but then sometimes she made me uncomfortable when I was with the person I liked or with other boy friends and when I told this to my friends they told me that this player is toxic and manipulative person. She was trying to made my relationship with the boys worse, I had a boy friend which very cold and then she added him and told me that this boy wasn't cold with her and they became close friend. I was glad that now they were friend but the way she told me that these two closed really makes me uncomfortable, she added every boys that approached me. And told me if they were good boy and I need to be happy to have such relationship with all boys 🙃
But then someday she ignored me and posted an igs telling me dramatic person. I thought that maybe it's for me, so I asked her directly. And apologize if I did wrong. That time she was with the person I liked in that game even though she knew I liked that person, and that person also knew I liked him but Idk why these two ignored me. Even though I kept sending dm and they were online at the same time.
I got so heartbroken, I was so shocked when she blocked me on ig and sky for real without respond to my apology. Telling on her igs (my other friends sent this to me) that I need to get a life, she doesn't need a child play. I got so depressed irl lol since I could feel her hates towards me. And since I keep her in my constellation she always leave an unpleasant note, told me the drama queen, playing victim, kids, etc which makes me so uncomfortable. I decided to stop playing sky so she could play with our other friends with peace.
I hope someday I could fly on the sky again!
I hope you can come back to sky again and make new beautiful memories!😁😄
Sometimes it was make me annoying if there's someone who tag along with me but they're didn't burn the tree just tag along with me, but I think at least lit up the light humm
I always bow and gift a heart if I probably can
I sometimes just want quiet time to myself so I block even my favourited friends for a few hours... I really wish there was an incognito mode on Sky. Maybe allow us to go incognito for 2hrs a week?
I talked with a stranger with a table that was set by my friend. They kept asking me for ap even though i've said mine was a gift from my friend and i didn't have any ap left. I ignored them because i was trying to talk with my friends, then they got pissed and called me "birdie" for wearing dream's ult mask. Later i found out they also begged my friend for ap and asked my friend to ask me if i could give them ap. Immediately blocked 🙄
😂😂😂 @birdie, I would have laughed a bit, so ridiculous
i've only blocked inactive players, and although i don't make many friends, i find it more fulfilling to have friends who actively play than having a lot of friends
I see these stories of toxic people on sky, and I’m kinda sad, but I haven’t run into anyone like that, and hopefully I won’t.
I had a friend that after playing casually a couple times, came on as I was about done and just *trauma dumped* on me no warning nothing, he was the same age as my little brother and with the pandemic he had no other outlet so I forgave it and listened (I would rather have someone ask for help however they can and I still don’t begrudge that), but after that he would log on the *instant* I’d light his friend star every single time eventually I started lighting his last then logging out as fast as possible because he kept pushing for more non sky info I’d evade and change the subject but it was becoming a pattern, played a couple more times, once he started to repeatedly ignore bigger boundaries and several “No”s once changing the subject stopped working I blocked, should have sooner but I was scared to inflict more pain on a traumatized kid even at my own expense
your game looks so... crisp, idk how to describe it other than that word XD it looks nice
Thank you so much for making this video!
I just blocked a friend who kept warping to me whenever we're both online (it was getting to the point I was dreading playing because they might be online), but I was feeling a little bad about it afterwards. Watching this video helped me feel better, and to ultimately remember it's not a bad thing for me to establish boundaries for myself- I don't need a "good enough" reason, even just feeling mildly uncomfortable is reason enough to block.
I'm kinda bummed as this friend seemed nice at first: they showed me how to get to seasonal places and OOBs I'd never been to before, gave me a heart or two for free, and could play nice music-
But then, this friend also would often ask me to take them on Eden runs, take them on CRs/getting all dailies, or tell me that we should go somewhere else to do something that they wanted to do- even if I was currently in the middle of doing something else.
They would always act disappointed or get snippy/guilt-trippy whenever I tried to explain that I needed some personal space, or didn't want to do what they wanted to do- to the point where I would usually cave to doing whatever they wanted to do, just to prevent that from happening. Otherwise, they would suggest that I log off of Sky if I was tired- seemingly well meant advice, but it always made me feel pressured to log off right after. It made me feel like me logging off was the only way I could have personal space that this friend would actually respect. It also made me feel like I couldn't just keep playing Sky while on my own to destress, which- as a mostly solo player- is the main reason I play the game at all.
I considered explaining things to them to see if we could work things out before I had to resort to a block, but, given how they've behaved in the past, I decided it wasn't worth the risk of them guilt-tripping me into feeling like I need to keep compromising my personal space for their sake- or scaring me away from playing Sky altogether.
I also block players. Most often these are inactive players or the one to whom I turn on the light and they do not give me back, and so on several times. There were times when I met rude players and their behavior disgusted me (for example, an adult man who asked me to give him a pass because he had no money. Or those who implied sexual overtones and demands to give my contacts). Or those who made you feel uncomfortable, depriving you of personal space and the inability to talk and spend time with other friends. They demanded attention and got angry if I didn't give it to them. At the same time, when asked to leave me alone, they continued to join in.
block other players if they:
- offline too long (longer than 3 months)
- never lit back but take the 'lit wax', i saw them online time to time
i mean i put so much effort to lit all my sky friends in my constellation, it's not "free wax for your heart bar" 🙄
at least let me know the reason why they don't want to lit back (but still I'm gonna block u)
- using badwords too often, make me feel uncomfortable
(I still tolerate it sometimes due to cultural reason, like that's just how their accent is)
sad to see people having negative experiences on sky
I had this friend of a experienced sky kid on sky, when playing they’d often hug me, blow kisses the etc and I’d often heart them if they handed hearts. Everything was super fun until I had my friend group on discord that person got “aggressive” like a edge lord trying to gate keep me I finally was able to block them when everybody was sick of the person.
me who never blocked a friend because i love them all and they are all sooo nice to me!! :>
im always respectful and nice to my friends, sometimes i even offer them my hand to be my passengers (i sometimes like to be a taxi) and then take them everywhere to give them a free candlerun, because i love to be nice to them.
sometimes i like some time for myself though, but if one of my friends shows up im always nice to them ;>
the only person i want to block i feel like i can't because they're friends with my closest friend on sky and i don't want to make it awkward lol, the mutual friend you both have chat unlocked with who won't leave either of you alone is the most uncomfortable thing for me with severe social anxiety, rip
(TW suicide mention)
i tend to block people who are inactive or i never see as my constellation is too full. there's only been one person that i purposefully blocked :') they didn't do anything wrong and we were quite close, but they would constantly trauma dump without asking me if i was ok with it ... it was to the point that i felt like i was responsible for keeping them from committing suicide, and as someone with mental health issues myself that was extremely draining and made me feel awful. i hope they are doing well now but it is not fair to dump stuff like that on people w/o asking as you could be triggering them too.
This didn’t have to do with Friends but it bothered me. Prairie is my favorite realm to go to since it’s pretty and has a lot of candles and every now and then I meet some moths. That day I had that daily quest where I had to sit on a bench with a stranger and I did. When I did, I saw the chat bubble and saw that this person wanted to start a convo so I was okay with it. I’m guessing English wasn’t their first language because of the errors but they were nice and said hello and I said it back but the weird thing that made me worry is that they kept on asking what my age was. I said I’m in my 20s (I’m not) so they would stop bothering me and they asked where I live and I just started getting a little uncomfortable but I understand so that people know but I was just a little uneasy. I feel bad if it was a kid but I highly doubt it because of what they were saying but I just said bye and left soon. Whoever is new, please be careful and stay safe out there
I'm reading all the comments here and I finally feel a little less guilty of blocking people (〃∀〃)ゞ
I only had 2-3 players blocked, granted they blocked me first and I'm relieved to block them back. I didn't have a good chemistry with one and they often bring up our bad past as often as they felt to guilt trip me, and other mocked me for my sky (heart) commission saying "this for __ hearts??" before blocking me later, and the last one was a friend who I thought was close (friended since I was a moth) but in reality was toxic, too ccompetitive and would constantly manipulate me 😓
I feel much more comfortable online since I've blocked those peeps, thank you for making this video! (❁´◡`❁)
I feel bad when blocking someone it just seems too harsh and breaks our bond so I always try to unlock and check up if they logged back in so suggest tgc adds a unfriend option so we have more space to add friends that are active and not inactives :)
Reading everyone's comments about their experience made me realized how lucky I am in making friends in Sky.
Not saying I am not open-minded about being friends with strangers, it's more of "I prefer to stick with my friends because I trust them"
Here's some good stories from me! Me and my friends would always help each other in daily quests or schedule runs, like we start with geyser, visiting grandma and then the turtle :D we sometimes like to talk about who's the next travelling spirit and what cosmetic we would like to achieve with our hardworking earned candles ^^
Recently I decided to hangout in prairie for often after doing schedule runs and met pretty cool people, sadly no I didn't friend them because they were minding their own business like playinga instrument, spamming emotes with friends or in general, just watching from the distance. so I'd say , it's pretty relaxing haha
and lastly, heart trades, I read people's stories here on how the person didn't return a heart after being gifted one. me and my friend "Riptide" , we both agree to heart trade each other everyday so we can achieve our goals in getting both valley elder hair, both of our skykids are twins so yes, we kept that promise in exchanging hearts :D
Hopefully those mean skykids are out of your way in enjoying the game! remember to drink water, take a break and stay safe !!
Wow the graphic on your phone is ✨✨