I think it boils down to your social life... Since you have no friends or just others around you, you have more time to sink into your thoughts and that's where u begin to overthink... Try to come out of the house and get fresh air... And don't beat yourself up ♥️
When your heavily depressed it's impossible to not think about yourself! That's a part of the illness! When depression takes over your life you have no control.
I really need friends, but everyone thinks I'm weird, i started to watch ur videos, and u made me feel better, because I thought there was no one like me, then I just found u. Believe, u saved me... I'm from Venezuela, and not only the economical situation has destroyed my life, there were my parents too and the people didn't like me, u know? I was completely alone and u made me see the good and the reality at the same time. I truly admire u...
What you said makes a lot of sense, I have a friend who's depressed and she acts self centered and uses the words you said too, so this is helping me to understand her better, thanks for the video.... hope you're doing well.
I have been depressed for months. People don't even want to talk to me. I even got fired because I'm too depressed to keep up rhe pace. Now I'm more depressed cause I don't have a job
I have dealth with depression for a long time. In my class everyone is friends with everyone. I find it funny that in my six years in that school, i am the only one that does not have any friends. But i do try to talk to them and also try to step out of my confort zone.
same here mate :) i got no friends to was bullied through high school all the way to college i guess it still has a massive impact in my adulthood which studies show that it does.
I think maybe it's deeper than self focus. We could be focused on others 23 hours a day but we still have an hour which we do for ourselves. Perhaps it's learning to be alone with you and happy with yourself when you are alone because ultimately you are always there and will be alone most of your life, we all are, we can't have someone always there for us but who is always there for us is us at the end of the day. Self focus can be very good if you treat yourself like a friend, not an enemy, ultimately will help you grow. Even if you find flaws it's about loving yourself enough to accept them and if you can maybe even over come those flaws. It's not easy to love and accept yourself it takes work but all work pays off and it's not hopeless :)
I perceive depressed people this way. Basically, they are self obsessed and a black hole of energy vampirism for those around them. And recently, we are entering into a space where everyone is supposed to magically know people are depressed, intervening WHILE never saying the wrong them to them or making any suggestions to them about how they might engage in life. When I see that someone is depressed, I avoid them like the plague or give them resources for help. If I see them spontaneously seeking the help, I will continue to engage. If they do not do this, I let them go. If you arent careful, these people will pull you into their pit. Are they worth that?
Man your channel is awesome. Currently I feel like I'm a joke and loser. I'm currently in a hard time with my job and I feel like giving up because nothing i do feels correct.
@@lemecnivespinosa3928 @LemEcniv Espinosa - There is no god, no satan, no jesus, never has been, & never will be. Why do you think it's called a "faith"? Since the idea of some supernatural, celestial being in the 7th century, not a single person has been able to come up with a shred of evidence that such an entity exists. Why would that be? If you think you can cure Depression by some Mystical Fantasy you would be the richest person in the world. Depression is a serious medical illness not some twisted "belief". Do you believe in Superman, Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny, how about the Tooth Fairy?
hey kenny ...why do you not go teach english language around the world? English is the most spoken language in the world and i realized you can communicate very well and i think you are talented enouth to do that. go to the world and teach english , be respected and happy. if you want it you can come to brazil...
Kenneth I have a question for you, how can you love anyone else, if you don't love yourself? and don't you think people will be afraid of you if you don't love yourself or if you hate yourself? Because if you hate yourself then I'm sure they probably think you probably hate them too. And the other thing I wanted to say is that the body of Christ is one body but many members and all the members have need of one another so if you're a member of the body of Christ it's really kind of forgive me for saying the word stupid for you to say that you don't need anybody, or that you don't want to meet anybody, because we're meant to need one another
I think it boils down to your social life... Since you have no friends or just others around you, you have more time to sink into your thoughts and that's where u begin to overthink... Try to come out of the house and get fresh air... And don't beat yourself up ♥️
You are my favorite RUclipsr. Keep up the good work, you're doing an amazing job. Shot out from Brazil!
Thanks for talking about this kinda stuff man, everything on RUclips about depression is so filtered. Keep it up, your honesty is your strength!
When your heavily depressed it's impossible to not think about yourself! That's a part of the illness! When depression takes over your life you have no control.
I really need friends, but everyone thinks I'm weird, i started to watch ur videos, and u made me feel better, because I thought there was no one like me, then I just found u.
Believe, u saved me... I'm from Venezuela, and not only the economical situation has destroyed my life, there were my parents too and the people didn't like me, u know? I was completely alone and u made me see the good and the reality at the same time.
I truly admire u...
What you said makes a lot of sense, I have a friend who's depressed and she acts self centered and uses the words you said too, so this is helping me to understand her better, thanks for the video.... hope you're doing well.
I have been depressed for months. People don't even want to talk to me. I even got fired because I'm too depressed to keep up rhe pace. Now I'm more depressed cause I don't have a job
Ur so articulate and smart. U put me to shame.
I could relate to everything you said. Thank you so much for sharing.
I have dealth with depression for a long time. In my class everyone is friends with everyone. I find it funny that in my six years in that school, i am the only one that does not have any friends. But i do try to talk to them and also try to step out of my confort zone.
same here mate :) i got no friends to was bullied through high school all the way to college i guess it still has a massive impact in my adulthood which studies show that it does.
I think maybe it's deeper than self focus. We could be focused on others 23 hours a day but we still have an hour which we do for ourselves. Perhaps it's learning to be alone with you and happy with yourself when you are alone because ultimately you are always there and will be alone most of your life, we all are, we can't have someone always there for us but who is always there for us is us at the end of the day. Self focus can be very good if you treat yourself like a friend, not an enemy, ultimately will help you grow. Even if you find flaws it's about loving yourself enough to accept them and if you can maybe even over come those flaws. It's not easy to love and accept yourself it takes work but all work pays off and it's not hopeless :)
Angel Youles Wow! You should be a guru people will listen to your amazing words.
Hey, i hope you are doing better after your grandma passed on. I think you are strong!!!! Stronger than you think
Thank you! I'm doing better now.
Kenneth Stahl yay im happy you are doing better!
I perceive depressed people this way. Basically, they are self obsessed and a black hole of energy vampirism for those around them. And recently, we are entering into a space where everyone is supposed to magically know people are depressed, intervening WHILE never saying the wrong them to them or making any suggestions to them about how they might engage in life. When I see that someone is depressed, I avoid them like the plague or give them resources for help. If I see them spontaneously seeking the help, I will continue to engage. If they do not do this, I let them go. If you arent careful, these people will pull you into their pit. Are they worth that?
Agreed. Doing volunteer work helps.
Man your channel is awesome. Currently I feel like I'm a joke and loser. I'm currently in a hard time with my job and I feel like giving up because nothing i do feels correct.
Just found your channel, Love it 😊
Great advice, going into an interaction without any expectation that anyone will think anything about you. I’ll try that as an exercise, thank you :)
some very wise points
Kenneth, have you watched RSDTyler? Im sure you have, but if you haven't, maybe check it out. Maybe that will help.
I'm depres cuz i'm. Heading 2 be cripple soon & family kicked me out, evrybody leavead me.. & soon i'm gonna lose my jobe because of The andemic..
5 subs away from 5000 man.
I hope you are well.
I love this video,it kinda sounds like me you talking about.
Great video♥️🌸
1 Peter 5: 7 Give all your worrys and cares to god, for he cares about you.
LOL!! ....... I tried to find god for over 6 decades to give my worries, but he's Nowhere to be found
@@montesa9136 it's because theres something wrong in your heart.You did not seek him you aren't humble enough to call upon him.
@@lemecnivespinosa3928 @LemEcniv Espinosa - OMG!
Not some religious summon PLEASE!
Save this kind of talk for your church .....
@@montesa9136 you tried to seek him i know but in your own understanding not with your heart thats why you still feel that empty void.
@@lemecnivespinosa3928 @LemEcniv Espinosa - There is no god, no satan, no jesus, never has been, & never will be. Why do you think it's called a "faith"? Since the idea of some supernatural, celestial being in the 7th century, not a single person has been able to come up with a shred of evidence that such an entity exists. Why would that be?
If you think you can cure Depression by some Mystical Fantasy you would be the richest person in the world. Depression is a serious medical illness not some twisted "belief". Do you believe in Superman, Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny, how about the Tooth Fairy?
hey kenny ...why do you not go teach english language around the world? English is the most spoken language in the world and i realized you can communicate very well and i think you are talented enouth to do that. go to the world and teach english , be respected and happy. if you want it you can come to brazil...
I agree
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Kenneth I have a question for you, how can you love anyone else, if you don't love yourself? and don't you think people will be afraid of you if you don't love yourself or if you hate yourself? Because if you hate yourself then I'm sure they probably think you probably hate them too. And the other thing I wanted to say is that the body of Christ is one body but many members and all the members have need of one another so if you're a member of the body of Christ it's really kind of forgive me for saying the word stupid for you to say that you don't need anybody, or that you don't want to meet anybody, because we're meant to need one another
I didn't put the word meet in there, the word is need, that's the word I said
Yo Dawg at least you're intelligent, 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿 that's an important quality
A lot of intelligent people are lonely. Are you sure that's such a great quality to possess?
Bobby Pom I'd rather be smart and lonely