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He met a Thai girl in Pattaya (the literal sex capital of the entire planet) who was only there for a holiday (LOL) but she also "works" there part time (?) Oh yeah, he "won the jackpot"alright.
"work" - make sex with men - so many videos from Soi 6 Pattaya - 18 y o girls " work " from 3 p m to 1 a m every day with customer. And in Thaifriendly ... they want make as much money they ca make, for " the Family" can buy another car.
No horror stories or stories at mo but I just got back from being chatted up by some girl - told me she has 5 kids who live with her Australian ex husband in Oz and that she looking for love and hasn’t had sex for 7 years since they split 😂😂😂😂😂😂 - also she not getting paid from her job for a month… that was enough… made my excuses and split 💪🏼stay strong gentlemen and stay tuned to Dan 🙏🏻
Paying a salary to a bargirl/freelancer doesn't cut it. It's never enough, just do some math and you know 15k Baht per month is nothing, even 30k won't cut it. One told me she can make up to 5000 USD per month, good luck compensating for that... Most likely she will just grab the money and continues with her job anyways...
Married 22 years with an Issan Thai, let's just say even after those years she still does silly "Thai" things often. She is great, we are doing well in our marriage. but know what you guys sign yourselves up for, its not a girl you marry its an entire culture you end up marrying.
My first was a Sakhon Nakhon province remote village and the people very respectful and non demanding. Myself being Buddhist I wouldn't call anything they do silly, other than actual silly things we do for fun, however it is proper to always give at funerals 100 baht to family and 100 baht to village insurance and they record it in the village books. Weddings just go with the flow and say 500 baht is lots. Over time the relationship lost the romance and she wished me happiness to go find my life. Now with a born Bangkok girl. That surprised me as never thought I would like bangkok. Maybe I just got too isolated in Isan as I was the only farang ? Anyways, both are extremely honest and caring, so although Dan has his audience and stories he focuses on, it is important to remember people like you and me find these wonderful partners in a thai woman 🙏
It is possible to find a good Thai woman but you need to be switched on, understand the culture, understand some of the language at least, understand the differences and learn to adapt, I can only share the stories I get sent in and even the positive ones end up being negative unfortunately, if a relationship is not based on money then as far as I am concerned then the relationship is real, of course it will still come with problems and if 2 people truly love each other they will stay together, learn each other and make each others lives more bright ✨
@@uffetrader8134he should have visited Thailand as tourist first… I even tripped up and ignored red flags on my first trip but no foul no harm done - just gaining more experience returning again later this year for the third time to Thailand
@@junglefe They fall in love with the idealized version of themselves these women mirror back to them. A man who gets zero attention back in the west can become the man of his fantasies in Thailand. It's that ego feeding they're addicted to because it causes the same feel good hormones and chemicals in the brains as drugs do and they will do anything to keep that high. Imagine going somewhere and your treated like a king and then going back home and your treated like nothing more than a peasant. That's the biggest addiction for these guys, the feeling these Thai women give them about themselves. A lot of these old guys don't even get a second glance in the west, they're invisible and even a lot of the younger men are just your geeky average joes back home...in Thailand though they are treated like rock stars as these girls see rich western foreigner who can give them a better life and also they look exotic to these women as they don't really know what's considered good looking here in the west and have different beauty standards when it comes to western men. Asian women who were born in western countries and grew up around western men and culture wouldn't date most of these men.
yeah from the beginning on I knew it... this gonna be Karma... she accepted his lie, cuz she lied from the start also!! would've been better if she got angry about it... she played this game so wrong, it seems often they get to cocky or she knew he wasn't worth the effort cuz she had more richer victims!
We all been there. I had a similar story, met this lady that she told me she was on holiday in pattaya, working with a clothes shop online, she said she had university, no kids, no tatoos, on her 20s, people will say perfect, sharing the first meal, not having aerobics the same day..then with the time i realized all she said was a lie and good to me to stop in time (no university so could not work basically anywhere, money requests more and more, fake pics from hospital, debts every month to pay, shop not existent, battery dead in the nights out, every time i went home she went to pattaya always changing hotels every day or so, party and drink every night, found on dating apps looking for customers). All she said was that was my fault if she did that and she was just a NORMAL GIRL......change your environment and girls you dating and see just a single red flag and run!!!!!!!!!!
From her perspective that behavior is normal. That is normal life for most of them. Once you understand that everything else begins to make sense. They have no concept of meeting a man getting married and building a life together. That concept is completely lost to them. Its fantasy at best. They don't dare entertain that idea for fear of being broken hearted etc.
@@BigBrother04I have. Met a girl who really was a part time classical piano teacher. Went to international school, spoke perfect English, no tattoos, same deal with her.
They are always looking for customers. I had a woman in my bed, and after boom boom, she was looking for new customers. No hiding. Look, if I had done such a thing, she would have said "no respect for women ". I send her off, little bit of decency is nothing to much.
Ploy, Noi, Gai, Lek, Toc, Meow, the list goes on. The same old story, tip go to Thailand just for fun and laughs, Yes be prepared to spend money 💰, although but be much more prepared to stay strong. And never let your guard down, otherwise they'll take full advantage
Dan I’ve been in Pattaya two weeks now and I just want to thank you for all your headsup on this place 🙏🏻🙌🏼 - I’ve heard all the stories from these girls and I just laugh - helps I’m not drinking as I think that is where they get you - did the bar girl scene and not my scene but have done the Lt and St from Link as girls on there tend to speak good English when you hookup - so not falling for any of their bs and playing them as much as they play us 💪🏼🙌🏼🙏🏻
@@pietromora2297 keep tricking yourself into believing whatever you want. Nobody’s talking about purity but having interaction with women who sleep with hundreds of customers per month, is asking for trouble. HIV is real as the numbers of people who died from it. I also know people who contracted illnesses after rooting around so you might be lucky to have dodged a bullet. If there’s no problem in all this Dan wouldn’t have had a channel with myriads of stories of people losing their life’s savings etc. Maine isn’t just an opinion but fact. Screwing around with hookers can cost you your life. If you disagree keep tripping on your hallucinogenics.
Get your blood tested, if your clean and shes not pregnant then all is good and move on. She's not the girl you thought she was so therefore she is not the girl you love.. so move on. Or string her along but with awareness of who she actually is if you can handle it.
4 hours late for a dinner date. Something is wrong with that story already. Any woman, unless she is hard up, would have told you to get lost. Looks like lies from both ends
Lots of things don't make sense, when he gave her money and she returned the balance, how did he know that was not what most girls do, if he was not spending time with bar girls. And I can't imagine a girl waiting for 4 hours at a restaurant.
You said it yourself my fine African friend; "I know she's poison...". Deep down you know what to do but you can't think clearly right now because you've caught feelings, so let us help get you back to planet earth. If you continue with this realationship, you will lose a lot of time, energy and money. You will look back at it later in life with disbelief and disgust with yourself that you let it happen. You'll also look back at photos of this girl and think "why the hell did I think this Isaan scrubber was so beautiful?!". She's put the Voodoo on you pal, and now you need to break the spell and save yourself by getting right away from her. If you stop this now, you'll have learned a valuable lesson without it costing you much, which makes you luckier than most of the other guys who this happens to. I agree with everything Dan said except the bit at the end about finding and dating a good Isaan girl. I strongly disagree with that (sorry Dan). If you do that there's every chance you'll go out of the frying pan and into the fire. Actually, the fact she was a freelancer and was in a situation where her true colours came shining through early on in the relationship is what saved you from being long-gamed and done like a dinner. That's why 'good girls' in Thailand are often even more dangerous, especially if they're Isaan. They're the proverbial 'wolves in sheep's clothing'. Accept defeat, retreat, lick your wounds, learn from your mistakes AND DON'T REPEAT THEM (as so many of us do...). Most of us would kill to be 28 again and living in Southeast Asia. Don't waste it getting dragged into some treacherous Thai chick's drama-filled and problem-ridden life.
Great show Dan! Good story though. Been going to Thailand since 2012. Love it. I usually hook up with my military buddies in Korat then venture out from there. Lots to do and places to see. Hope you and William are doing great. As alway's stay cool 😎 kind and generous! 😊
as always a great video, keep up the good work. Like Dan said, i feel the same. You offer help and a space to live for free if she needs it so thats what she takes... but i dont think there is mutch more with that one girl.
Why would you continue a relationship with a girl who you find out had been lying to you 100% of the time up to that point?? She can’t even talk her way out of it by that point.
Brigitte L Jones. I really love your channel, it's apt captions and clips are brilliantly witty and give lots of laughs. I can't believe without knowing a lot more of Thai culture and some language Western men would get caught up in relationships with Thai women. Holiday fun with some pay for play is all that is realistic. Despite being so amusing you show compassion and try to help these sad silly critters. Well done Dan. You sized up the situation so well with this chap, I could not offer any better advice
Uffff 😢 listen Dan’s last words about the Love and always remember: If it starts with money, stop the relationship. Anywhere in the world. Head over ❤ and I do know, it’s not easy but you can learn it 50/50 head to heart are the best decisions😊
Dan, you have the best “comic relief “ shorts . 😂 This amateur now met a professional player !😅(You can send me dead flowers for my wedding but I won’t forget to put roses on your grave , 😊) Rolling Stones ….
I guess there are a few factors at play here. How low is this guy's self esteem? Not so great I'd suggest. If you continually return, only to be hurt and reminded of why you shouldn't be with your lady, then you are the problem. Not her. Sort your own issues out. Something is broken in you. Can he handle her going off with other guys? Because she will never stop. She may take extended breaks, but she will always use her charms to get money. It's too easy for her. Such a person is never going to be someone you can trust. But, maybe that doesn't matter? Love fades, attraction declines/dies. What do they have in common? He mentions the physical a lot...but not much else. A relationship based on looks along will always end in disaster. So, she may love him in her own way (but not in the way he wants). She can clearly separate her work from the intimacy she has with him (rather common for working girls, many of which have Thai boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands. They are wonderfully practical). But can he? Should he? He seems to have some romantic notions....but these don't last. If i were him, I'd leave her. Find someone with an education and someone he can talk to about more than the relationship. Or he can accept her, as she says, go along for the ride, until the inevitable disaster one sunny day. Because the end will happen, sooner or later.
Leave this woman. Dan is right, she’s just using you for security, don’t date out of your league. She already told you that you aren’t good looking. I consider myself average looking, good income, average build with a good personality. I have a BS and MS in Physics and a high intellect, so I’ve always been able to date 7s, 8s and 9s from multiple ethnicities ever since I was in high school. I’m currently engaged to an Asian girl that is a 9 and she’s incredibly sexually attracted to me. Raw sexual attraction is a key. If a girl is extremely attracted to you, she will break rules for you and be naturally drawn to follow your lead/leadership (this is super important). The next key is being superior to her in almost every category except “looks”. I would give myself a 6 in looks. You don’t have to physically be a 9 to keep a 9, but she must feel strong sexual attraction for you and see you as superior. Also, most of her friends, relatives and family must see you as dominant or superior. This feeds her ego and justifies an age gap (my fiancé and I have a 20 year age gap) or a “looks” gap. Find a girl that meets the basic criteria above for starters. NEVER and I mean NEVER give time to a girl or entertain a girl that isn’t extremely sexually attracted to you. You can see it during your very first interaction and in subsequent interactions. All women like security and money, worldwide… but these things will be secondary to a girl that is attracted to you. Important, but secondary.
Thank you for sharing your story , you love this women , I hope she will change her life style some day and you and her can get married and have a family . The advice from the story teller is also good , yes you can go out with a loyal traditional Thai women that stays with one man only . But from my own experience when you love someone and you feel they love you and you have that special connection. I feel that she loves you , I feel that you have warm good heart and she loves that in you , but she need the extra money . I have had many experiences in Thailand and I can relate to your story . Try to go out with someone , I know most thai women like European, American , Korean or Japanese man , so it might be harder for you but thai women love kind Man, kindness and your beautiful African smile and big heart will take you a long way . Live life , listen to your heart , I had lost few women I really loved in the past and it’s hard for me to feel that again . Love is beautiful but it can be painful because of free lancet life style . Experience something in your area , try and see how it goes my brother . Thai women can be so special , I call Thailand a pleasure lane . Live life and do what makes you happy my brother ! God bless
Good Video Dan 😊. Unbelievable story. I just shake my head. All common sense is out the door. Red flag after red flag. Keep the video's comin. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
This might be an unfair overgeneralization, but after everything I've learned over the years, I think Thailand is good for P4P, but the Philippines is much better if you're looking for wifey material. You can be scammed and taken advantage of in both countries though.
@@BigBrother04 Absolutely agree with you after a year of Dan's stories. I know some Pinay's, I don't know any bar girls. Some seem opportunistic in a sense. Others are good people with jobs. As there is no romantic involvement I can look at it from a different perspective. I really believe that us men, we try to kid ourselves sometimes. 😆Say Pattaya and the bar is called 'The Bruised Apple'......the guy says..."All I keep finding is bruised apples, why is this hapenning?"😆😆😆😆
As long as she doesn’t drain your money and is ok with it that you don’t have a lot money. Enjoy your time with her. Just stick to it with not giving her money. If she really love you she stay with you.
@@lendlalfred7870 i mean he like here. She doesn’t take his money and she knows he doesn’t has money. As long he is happy he can enjoy the time until he isn’t happy. But she should stop freelancing for real 😂
Great video and understanding of the culture. In the western world as well, attractive women expect a man to have money, be generous and provide so they can brag about it.
I know it sounds like good sense, but it’s very hard to tell a guy not to try to get with the absolute prettiest girl he can attract. It almost sounds counterintuitive. We are literally programmed from little boys to try to get with the prettiest girl in the school, the prettiest girl at the church, the prettiest girl on the bus, etc. That’s almost an impossible thing to ask Amanda to do, to purposely get with women less attractive than what’s available to him. True, they are available to him because of his money, but there’s still available to him. Of course, personality and character needs to be taken into deep consideration, and if a slightly less attractive girl is genuinely into me and has better character than a more attractive girl, I would choose the first one. However, all things being equal it’s very unrealistic to tell a man not to get as pretty a girl as he can attract. I think a different strategy should be employed. I think men should try to date as many attractive women as possible at one time, so he can have a smorgasbord of attractive women. If being in places like Thailand, allow men to date women, they could never hope to get back home, then get 10 of them! This will allow a man to get used to the idea of being around beautiful women, and not be as affected by them. This will also give him enough women to sort through, to possibly find one that’s actually into him. No one is going to find the right woman with the very first girl they date. Date 10 or 15 beautiful women, and choose from a healthy selection. If all of them suck, dump them all and get you another 10. Stop hyper focusing on one girl in freaking Thailand! Until she proves herself!
She said she was virgin. She never had a man. But on her back the tattoo read . All my love to stan. She said the bride must be paid But it was all for show. She said that i would get it back when surin gets some snow!!!!
Hi Dan, this was a good story. You have one of the best expat channels on RUclips! Keep up the great work. I read on the US State Department website that most US expat deaths in Thailand are from suicide, drowning and traffic accidents. I'm thinking that many of these suicides may have happened because of men falling in love with bar girls and freelancers.
They are both cut from the same cloth, ploy is doing to Joshua what he did to his Ghanaian girlfriend. It's a good case of karma, ploy is just better at playing the game than Joshua. Good on ploy 😉😅
It would be nice, if we had more than two pictures of the 500 stories you told. We were privileged enough to have a interview with your wife, DAN, which I appreciate. And also the Lady boy picture video was interesting. But it would be nice to know the carnal basis for these mens lust and why throwing their life away.
This channel should be a mandatory class for all foreign men who travel to Thailand or heading to move there. Men who travel there and keep giving money or salaries to these women are being played and not helping any future traveler.
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But I thought foreign Asian women were submissive and and innocent 🙄🥴
He met a Thai girl in Pattaya (the literal sex capital of the entire planet) who was only there for a holiday (LOL) but she also "works" there part time (?) Oh yeah, he "won the jackpot"alright.
She’s not yours, it’s only your turn.
"work" - make sex with men - so many videos from Soi 6 Pattaya - 18 y o girls " work " from 3 p m to 1 a m every day with customer. And in Thaifriendly ... they want make as much money they ca make, for " the Family" can buy another car.
Yes...do not even mind, to meet a woman in Pattaya as girlfriend. There is a reason, why they are there, in the first place!
😂😂😂😂😂
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Dan, your interjectory movie clip commentaries are super funny ! you crack me up
Normal Thai girl does Not mean Normal girl 😂 #thaifacts
Normal for them. But that's a steep learning curve. But likely an attractive one. Lol.
Exactly right.
Normal Thai girl mean bipolar and money crazy....
100% FAXX
No horror stories or stories at mo but I just got back from being chatted up by some girl - told me she has 5 kids who live with her Australian ex husband in Oz and that she looking for love and hasn’t had sex for 7 years since they split 😂😂😂😂😂😂 - also she not getting paid from her job for a month… that was enough… made my excuses and split 💪🏼stay strong gentlemen and stay tuned to Dan 🙏🏻
she loves chocolate man ❤ jack pot ❤
🙄 woe me. Sure Jan, 7 year celibacy! Haha.
Lust-love shuts down the rational mind. It's like a drug. Friends can't shake you off a bad deal. It has to naturally burn out.
Paying a salary to a bargirl/freelancer doesn't cut it. It's never enough, just do some math and you know 15k Baht per month is nothing, even 30k won't cut it. One told me she can make up to 5000 USD per month, good luck compensating for that... Most likely she will just grab the money and continues with her job anyways...
tbh even thought of paying salary to pro**itute is crazy.
@@davis9877 I totally agree, why would anyone in their right mind do that! 😂
@@Nttmfknights in shining armour 😮 feel sorry for them & whatever you give them will never be enough
Never give any money to a woman. Ever. These guys will never learn.
@@davis9877extremely desperate overweight middle aged lonely dudes with plenty of savings
Married 22 years with an Issan Thai, let's just say even after those years she still does silly "Thai" things often. She is great, we are doing well in our marriage. but know what you guys sign yourselves up for, its not a girl you marry its an entire culture you end up marrying.
My first was a Sakhon Nakhon province remote village and the people very respectful and non demanding. Myself being Buddhist I wouldn't call anything they do silly, other than actual silly things we do for fun, however it is proper to always give at funerals 100 baht to family and 100 baht to village insurance and they record it in the village books. Weddings just go with the flow and say 500 baht is lots.
Over time the relationship lost the romance and she wished me happiness to go find my life.
Now with a born Bangkok girl. That surprised me as never thought I would like bangkok. Maybe I just got too isolated in Isan as I was the only farang ? Anyways, both are extremely honest and caring, so although Dan has his audience and stories he focuses on, it is important to remember people like you and me find these wonderful partners in a thai woman 🙏
@@smileoften-ft3hq Maybe you should share your story on here . I think it will help with alot of others to know this
Google most unfaithful women in the world........ guess who ..... Thai women ........
2 two liars find each other ..... perfect .....
It is possible to find a good Thai woman but you need to be switched on, understand the culture, understand some of the language at least, understand the differences and learn to adapt, I can only share the stories I get sent in and even the positive ones end up being negative unfortunately, if a relationship is not based on money then as far as I am concerned then the relationship is real, of course it will still come with problems and if 2 people truly love each other they will stay together, learn each other and make each others lives more bright ✨
Same story, different victim. Young dude, not enough experience. Totally overwhelmed. These women are pros.
And he ignore soooo many red flags!
@@uffetrader8134he should have visited Thailand as tourist first… I even tripped up and ignored red flags on my first trip but no foul no harm done - just gaining more experience returning again later this year for the third time to Thailand
But I don’t get how a person can fall in love just for looks. I thought that never was enough.
@@junglefe😂😂😂😂😂
@@junglefe They fall in love with the idealized version of themselves these women mirror back to them. A man who gets zero attention back in the west can become the man of his fantasies in Thailand. It's that ego feeding they're addicted to because it causes the same feel good hormones and chemicals in the brains as drugs do and they will do anything to keep that high. Imagine going somewhere and your treated like a king and then going back home and your treated like nothing more than a peasant. That's the biggest addiction for these guys, the feeling these Thai women give them about themselves. A lot of these old guys don't even get a second glance in the west, they're invisible and even a lot of the younger men are just your geeky average joes back home...in Thailand though they are treated like rock stars as these girls see rich western foreigner who can give them a better life and also they look exotic to these women as they don't really know what's considered good looking here in the west and have different beauty standards when it comes to western men. Asian women who were born in western countries and grew up around western men and culture wouldn't date most of these men.
once a freelancer always a freelancer
Yup
Liars in love💕. A great match!!!😂
yeah from the beginning on I knew it... this gonna be Karma...
she accepted his lie, cuz she lied from the start also!!
would've been better if she got angry about it...
she played this game so wrong,
it seems often they get to cocky or she knew
he wasn't worth the effort cuz she had more richer victims!
@@g60force you can never know. maybe she was worried he could damage her you know 'future prospects' so kept visits to a minimum.
The first red flag she works in payatta.
Pattaya
If u fish in toxic waters. Expect to catch toxic fish 🐟..
Gr8 place Pattaya for fun & temporary romance only
We all been there. I had a similar story, met this lady that she told me she was on holiday in pattaya, working with a clothes shop online, she said she had university, no kids, no tatoos, on her 20s, people will say perfect, sharing the first meal, not having aerobics the same day..then with the time i realized all she said was a lie and good to me to stop in time (no university so could not work basically anywhere, money requests more and more, fake pics from hospital, debts every month to pay, shop not existent, battery dead in the nights out, every time i went home she went to pattaya always changing hotels every day or so, party and drink every night, found on dating apps looking for customers). All she said was that was my fault if she did that and she was just a NORMAL GIRL......change your environment and girls you dating and see just a single red flag and run!!!!!!!!!!
From her perspective that behavior is normal. That is normal life for most of them. Once you understand that everything else begins to make sense. They have no concept of meeting a man getting married and building a life together. That concept is completely lost to them. Its fantasy at best. They don't dare entertain that idea for fear of being broken hearted etc.
@@BigBrother04I have. Met a girl who really was a part time classical piano teacher. Went to international school, spoke perfect English, no tattoos, same deal with her.
@@spartanx169x broken hearted? It’s only the dough that matters to them bruh!
@@junglefe Exactly thats my point. A real relationship built on love and trust is foreign to them.
They are always looking for customers. I had a woman in my bed, and after boom boom, she was looking for new customers. No hiding.
Look, if I had done such a thing, she would have said "no respect for women ". I send her off, little bit of decency is nothing to much.
Ploy, Noi, Gai, Lek, Toc, Meow, the list goes on.
The same old story, tip go to Thailand just for fun and laughs,
Yes be prepared to spend money 💰, although but be much more prepared to stay strong.
And never let your guard down, otherwise they'll take full advantage
"John the screaming gopher"....ARGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!😂😂😂😂😂
"you not as handsome as white man.." LOL wow... Lmao wtf.
Lost me at that one...
Can't make that shyte up😂
lol ikr
I'm an ugly white guy don't believe her brother.
Love the walk on Dan…Keep’n it fresh…Live from Burriram …🎤
Dan I’ve been in Pattaya two weeks now and I just want to thank you for all your headsup on this place 🙏🏻🙌🏼 - I’ve heard all the stories from these girls and I just laugh - helps I’m not drinking as I think that is where they get you - did the bar girl scene and not my scene but have done the Lt and St from Link as girls on there tend to speak good English when you hookup - so not falling for any of their bs and playing them as much as they play us 💪🏼🙌🏼🙏🏻
What is Link?
Remember the rule of the casino:
"THE HOUSE ALWAYS WINS!!!"
Brits drink too much @@ahayahshouse5344
Yes it's a numbers game, 1 day your number is up, but continue on while you're ahead.
@@dmitriikurilov1569probably means LINE
The first mistake these guys make is going to Thailand for the women.
Please 🙏 not everyone's a Saint.
Absolutely right. They should go there for the boys 😜
@@pietromora2297 sure thang mate if you don’t mind bits of you droppin* off from what you catch!
@@pietromora2297 keep tricking yourself into believing whatever you want. Nobody’s talking about purity but having interaction with women who sleep with hundreds of customers per month, is asking for trouble. HIV is real as the numbers of people who died from it. I also know people who contracted illnesses after rooting around so you might be lucky to have dodged a bullet. If there’s no problem in all this Dan wouldn’t have had a channel with myriads of stories of people losing their life’s savings etc. Maine isn’t just an opinion but fact. Screwing around with hookers can cost you your life. If you disagree keep tripping on your hallucinogenics.
Mine* not maine. Typo.
Get your blood tested, if your clean and shes not pregnant then all is good and move on. She's not the girl you thought she was so therefore she is not the girl you love.. so move on. Or string her along but with awareness of who she actually is if you can handle it.
@@BigBrother04key world claim.... some men walk around scouting for fresh meat to bring abroad to sell......
Can't comprehend why men fishing looking for girls in red fistrict for a humble obedient girl to marry but working in bars
If I was the gopher, I would've screamed "SIMP"!! Beauty queen's return?! Oh lawd have mercy!
4 hours late for a dinner date. Something is wrong with that story already. Any woman, unless she is hard up, would have told you to get lost. Looks like lies from both ends
Lots of things don't make sense, when he gave her money and she returned the balance, how did he know that was not what most girls do, if he was not spending time with bar girls. And I can't imagine a girl waiting for 4 hours at a restaurant.
Africans are always late like that mostly.
@junglefe
Sweeping generalisation to make about punctuality lol. There is such thing as individualism
You said it yourself my fine African friend; "I know she's poison...". Deep down you know what to do but you can't think clearly right now because you've caught feelings, so let us help get you back to planet earth. If you continue with this realationship, you will lose a lot of time, energy and money. You will look back at it later in life with disbelief and disgust with yourself that you let it happen. You'll also look back at photos of this girl and think "why the hell did I think this Isaan scrubber was so beautiful?!". She's put the Voodoo on you pal, and now you need to break the spell and save yourself by getting right away from her. If you stop this now, you'll have learned a valuable lesson without it costing you much, which makes you luckier than most of the other guys who this happens to. I agree with everything Dan said except the bit at the end about finding and dating a good Isaan girl. I strongly disagree with that (sorry Dan). If you do that there's every chance you'll go out of the frying pan and into the fire. Actually, the fact she was a freelancer and was in a situation where her true colours came shining through early on in the relationship is what saved you from being long-gamed and done like a dinner. That's why 'good girls' in Thailand are often even more dangerous, especially if they're Isaan. They're the proverbial 'wolves in sheep's clothing'. Accept defeat, retreat, lick your wounds, learn from your mistakes AND DON'T REPEAT THEM (as so many of us do...). Most of us would kill to be 28 again and living in Southeast Asia. Don't waste it getting dragged into some treacherous Thai chick's drama-filled and problem-ridden life.
I think he should support all of her kids. At least the money would be going to people with potential. He is too stupid to have any potential.
Great show Dan! Good story though. Been going to Thailand since 2012. Love it. I usually hook up with my military buddies in Korat then venture out from there. Lots to do and places to see. Hope you and William are doing great. As alway's stay cool 😎 kind and generous! 😊
Ahh, the land of smiles dreams and night mares. Reminds of me of me.
I’m here in Pattaya for so long and can tell you all the ladies are all up for sale, and yes, they take breaks in between. They can appear harmless
Dan, if you managed to find someone to bonk with your attitude and style, we all have chance👍 keep talking. I love your accent
lol this is a compliment?? Haha
Glad she didn't tell him he's her first.
He needs to cut his losses
He can't!
26:36 She was spitting that hot fire 🔥 game dam lol.. she said something like "the customers have just my body, but you have my heart" lol 😄
excellent and comical delivery.
as always a great video, keep up the good work.
Like Dan said, i feel the same. You offer help and a space to live for free if she needs it so thats what she takes... but i dont think there is mutch more with that one girl.
Why would you continue a relationship with a girl who you find out had been lying to you 100% of the time up to that point?? She can’t even talk her way out of it by that point.
Brigitte L Jones. I really love your channel, it's apt captions and clips are brilliantly witty and give lots of laughs. I can't believe without knowing a lot more of Thai culture and some language Western men would get caught up in relationships with Thai women. Holiday fun with some pay for play is all that is realistic. Despite being so amusing you show compassion and try to help these sad silly critters. Well done Dan. You sized up the situation so well with this chap, I could not offer any better advice
Uffff 😢 listen Dan’s last words about the Love and always remember: If it starts with money, stop the relationship. Anywhere in the world. Head over ❤ and I do know, it’s not easy but you can learn it 50/50 head to heart are the best decisions😊
Good content. I looked back at your first videos from 2 years ago. I could be wrong, but you looked happier. Looked more positive.
Dan with the steep accent. Hahahaha
The Italian Sausage party would have been hard to handle but there girls are great on the spot with the Jedi Mind Trick !!!
Just give her all your money it’s worth it👍👍👍👧
Dan said it all. Date someone local to you
Run for your life mate
This is what happens when you wach to many romcoms 😂
Great story Dan!
Thanks Dan..another great story
Hahahaha good one Dan!
Dan, you have the best “comic relief “ shorts . 😂 This amateur now met a professional player !😅(You can send me dead flowers for my wedding but I won’t forget to put roses on your grave , 😊) Rolling Stones ….
U tube sucks with censorship 🤮
It's a nightmare !!!!
its their tube not you tube
Yooo. This was a great friggin story. Great story telling my man
I am a magician. When a woman tells me "I love you", I will change into a bubble and disappear.
lol mate that was riveting. great delivery
This story is wild
Imagine that, a Thai girl that lives and works in Pattaya is a freelancer!
In Pattaya all they ever will be is bar girls or free lancers.
Let her go. She won't be only for you. She just for the season.
If it was meant to be. There wouldn't be so much red flags and resistance.
Best to take the Thaitanic back to Kenya without the Thai!!! Your a teacher, great future ahead my friend. Don't waste it.
*ghana
same shithole 555 @@UnForeseenandunfortunate
@@UnForeseenandunfortunate sorry, Ghana!
@@BigBrother04 better than with that girl for sure.
@@BigBrother04 unless he wants the gift of their problems.
I guess there are a few factors at play here. How low is this guy's self esteem? Not so great I'd suggest. If you continually return, only to be hurt and reminded of why you shouldn't be with your lady, then you are the problem. Not her. Sort your own issues out. Something is broken in you.
Can he handle her going off with other guys? Because she will never stop. She may take extended breaks, but she will always use her charms to get money. It's too easy for her. Such a person is never going to be someone you can trust. But, maybe that doesn't matter? Love fades, attraction declines/dies. What do they have in common? He mentions the physical a lot...but not much else. A relationship based on looks along will always end in disaster.
So, she may love him in her own way (but not in the way he wants). She can clearly separate her work from the intimacy she has with him (rather common for working girls, many of which have Thai boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands. They are wonderfully practical). But can he? Should he? He seems to have some romantic notions....but these don't last.
If i were him, I'd leave her. Find someone with an education and someone he can talk to about more than the relationship. Or he can accept her, as she says, go along for the ride, until the inevitable disaster one sunny day. Because the end will happen, sooner or later.
listening to this driving my car, I don't know what to do since I'm laughing so hard. had to stop to refresh myself, and writing this. lol
Leave this woman. Dan is right, she’s just using you for security, don’t date out of your league. She already told you that you aren’t good looking. I consider myself average looking, good income, average build with a good personality. I have a BS and MS in Physics and a high intellect, so I’ve always been able to date 7s, 8s and 9s from multiple ethnicities ever since I was in high school. I’m currently engaged to an Asian girl that is a 9 and she’s incredibly sexually attracted to me. Raw sexual attraction is a key. If a girl is extremely attracted to you, she will break rules for you and be naturally drawn to follow your lead/leadership (this is super important). The next key is being superior to her in almost every category except “looks”. I would give myself a 6 in looks. You don’t have to physically be a 9 to keep a 9, but she must feel strong sexual attraction for you and see you as superior. Also, most of her friends, relatives and family must see you as dominant or superior. This feeds her ego and justifies an age gap (my fiancé and I have a 20 year age gap) or a “looks” gap. Find a girl that meets the basic criteria above for starters. NEVER and I mean NEVER give time to a girl or entertain a girl that isn’t extremely sexually attracted to you. You can see it during your very first interaction and in subsequent interactions. All women like security and money, worldwide… but these things will be secondary to a girl that is attracted to you. Important, but secondary.
Good lessons from a veteran in the game. I 100% concur with this in my experience
BS ??
you ignored the first red flag = simp run now
Run!! ...fast! Do not look back bro.
Thank you for sharing your story , you love this women , I hope she will change her life style some day and you and her can get married and have a family . The advice from the story teller is also good , yes you can go out with a loyal traditional Thai women that stays with one man only . But from my own experience when you love someone and you feel they love you and you have that special connection. I feel that she loves you , I feel that you have warm good heart and she loves that in you , but she need the extra money . I have had many experiences in Thailand and I can relate to your story . Try to go out with someone , I know most thai women like European, American , Korean or Japanese man , so it might be harder for you but thai women love kind Man, kindness and your beautiful African smile and big heart will take you a long way .
Live life , listen to your heart , I had lost few women I really loved in the past and it’s hard for me to feel that again . Love is beautiful but it can be painful because of free lancet life style .
Experience something in your area , try and see how it goes my brother . Thai women can be so special , I call Thailand a pleasure lane . Live life and do what makes you happy my brother !
God bless
Said enough with with the lighting
Good Video Dan 😊. Unbelievable story. I just shake my head. All common sense is out the door. Red flag after red flag.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
I'm 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 crying!!!
Understandable . Poor guy. It will be a disastrous ending no doubt 😊
The cutaways have me crying 😂
Yo Dan everything ok... it's been 7days mate!
This might be an unfair overgeneralization, but after everything I've learned over the years, I think Thailand is good for P4P, but the Philippines is much better if you're looking for wifey material. You can be scammed and taken advantage of in both countries though.
My friends 4 year girlfriend turned out to be married the whole time. Lol. All lies. 4 years worth.
@@BigBrother04 Honestly 100x, no exaggeration
@@BigBrother04100x
@@BigBrother04 Absolutely agree with you after a year of Dan's stories. I know some Pinay's, I don't know any bar girls. Some seem opportunistic in a sense. Others are good people with jobs. As there is no romantic involvement I can look at it from a different perspective. I really believe that us men, we try to kid ourselves sometimes. 😆Say Pattaya and the bar is called 'The Bruised Apple'......the guy says..."All I keep finding is bruised apples, why is this hapenning?"😆😆😆😆
Dan i have been there the second holiday in Pattaya. But i think differently now.
Everytime they ask me; "Why are you still single", my answer is; "because i have to protect my money at all costs"
This is great - you should make a movie ! Very funny !😄 😅😢
As long as she doesn’t drain your money and is ok with it that you don’t have a lot money. Enjoy your time with her.
Just stick to it with not giving her money. If she really love you she stay with you.
There is Capital and Emotional capital, beware!
@@jeskg720 thats true but i think he is somewhat aware of it. Maybe it clicks in her head that she needs to stop. We don’t know her like him
I'm sorry but this is bad advice. He should run and don't look back.
@@lendlalfred7870 i mean he like here. She doesn’t take his money and she knows he doesn’t has money. As long he is happy he can enjoy the time until he isn’t happy. But she should stop freelancing for real 😂
Hi Dan.
Good evening 😊
K ....I will now sing you the song ! " Wooking 4 Nub in all Da Wong PrA-sis ....Wooking 4 Nub in all Da Wong PrA-sis"
you are a teacher have a great future. just stop seeing this woman re-group your mind and move on
Another lost Soul.You cant give her up,and you cant live with her.See if you can find somebody else who is not Freelance or Bar Girl.
i like the new intro :D
Run Forrest run!!!!
Got one coming to Manchester, she knows I'm poor Dan she's not a bar girl uptown Bangkok
Oh my…at least he got to show his new g/f to all his colleagues at work 😂😂😂
The golden rule is whoever has the gold rules...
Go intro dan walked in like a boss!
Great video and understanding of the culture. In the western world as well, attractive women expect a man to have money, be generous and provide so they can brag about it.
Looking huge Dan !!! Been hitting the weight room ?
Not exactly a lie, in Pattaya, a normal girl is likely a 304 of one type or another.
I know it sounds like good sense, but it’s very hard to tell a guy not to try to get with the absolute prettiest girl he can attract. It almost sounds counterintuitive. We are literally programmed from little boys to try to get with the prettiest girl in the school, the prettiest girl at the church, the prettiest girl on the bus, etc. That’s almost an impossible thing to ask Amanda to do, to purposely get with women less attractive than what’s available to him. True, they are available to him because of his money, but there’s still available to him.
Of course, personality and character needs to be taken into deep consideration, and if a slightly less attractive girl is genuinely into me and has better character than a more attractive girl, I would choose the first one. However, all things being equal it’s very unrealistic to tell a man not to get as pretty a girl as he can attract.
I think a different strategy should be employed. I think men should try to date as many attractive women as possible at one time, so he can have a smorgasbord of attractive women. If being in places like Thailand, allow men to date women, they could never hope to get back home, then get 10 of them! This will allow a man to get used to the idea of being around beautiful women, and not be as affected by them. This will also give him enough women to sort through, to possibly find one that’s actually into him. No one is going to find the right woman with the very first girl they date. Date 10 or 15 beautiful women, and choose from a healthy selection. If all of them suck, dump them all and get you another 10. Stop hyper focusing on one girl in freaking Thailand! Until she proves herself!
The most expensive girlfriend is a Thai girlfriend. Leave them in the bar boyz!!😂
She said she was virgin. She never had a man. But on her back the tattoo read . All my love to stan.
She said the bride must be paid
But it was all for show. She said that i would get it back when surin gets some snow!!!!
Never love any woman that you can't just walk away when it turns south. Run dude it isn't worth it.
Hi Dan, this was a good story. You have one of the best expat channels on RUclips! Keep up the great work.
I read on the US State Department website that most US expat deaths in Thailand are from suicide, drowning and traffic accidents. I'm thinking that many of these suicides may have happened because of men falling in love with bar girls and freelancers.
They are both cut from the same cloth, ploy is doing to Joshua what he did to his Ghanaian girlfriend. It's a good case of karma, ploy is just better at playing the game than Joshua. Good on ploy 😉😅
I can't tell him what I think for fear of offending him 😂
Run to the hills. Plenty of good women in Thailand. Just need to look.
"i loved her so much" dude you met 2 weeks ago wtf
Run Run....
2 entries required to the sanctuary of truth......😂😂
run baby run .. run away
What makes me laugh, he was prowling down soi cowboy but states he doesn’t like women like that!
So why go ? 😂 cmon man ffs!
It would be nice, if we had more than two pictures of the 500 stories you told. We were privileged enough to have a interview with your wife, DAN, which I appreciate. And also the Lady boy picture video was interesting. But it would be nice to know the carnal basis for these mens lust and why throwing their life away.
This channel should be a mandatory class for all foreign men who travel to Thailand or heading to move there. Men who travel there and keep giving money or salaries to these women are being played and not helping any future traveler.
Enjoy the free Ride, also get another phone so you can play the field when you can, a couple of part time girlfriends is OK 😜