Why you're just not that into it? | Causes of Low Sex Drive in Women | Low Libido
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- Many women who suffer from low libido usually dismiss it with not being in the mood, the spice isn't there anymore, or something to do with the partner. While those might play a factor in your low libido, it may very well be that you are suffering from an actual condition called HSDD or Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Be sure to watch until the end to learn all about Low Libido in Women, and stay tuned for the next video where I talk about the possible treatments for low libido!
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0:00 Intro Card
0:56 What exactly is Low Libido?
2:38 How many people actually experience Low Libido?
3:22 Important notes about Women with Low Libido
3:46 How does the brain work when aroused?
4:53 HSDD vs Non-HSDD
5:36 Risk Factors
6:15 Psychological Problems that may cause Low Libido
7:16 Medications that may cause Low Libido
8:23 Medical Conditions that are known to be linked to Low Libido
10:09 End Card
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Who else is watching this video as a man?🙋♂️
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Me
All of are
Lasting for at least 3 months? Luxury. Try 10 years
Maybe she just doesn’t like me after 30 years.... so unhappy but supportive. Thank you Doc.
I love you Doctor for the fantastic job you are doing. You are great. I love the way you speak, very clear in your words. Your videos are very informative.
I think the guy who would have you as a partner, would be the luckiest one in the whole world.
Thank you for referring multiple sclerosis. No one believes me, and this video make me cry for just have a little bit of validation. Thank you so much.
My wife has zero sex drive due to her having fibromyalgia.
The tremendous pain she suffers from causes her to cry and becomes so intense that she is barely able to walk at times.
put a pair of headphone on your wife & have listen and watch on youtube: Fibromyalgia Syndrome Pain Relief Frequency : Whole Body Pain Remover- binaural Beats Sound Therapy. listen for 20 mins or more it has helped others. but she must have headphones on or it won't work. & tell me how it go's
It's a broad disease with many possible causes. Some have found relief by going low carb or keto along with cutting out seed oils and only consuming high omega 3 oils (olive, coconut, cod liver). See Dr. Berg or the Swedish American Dr. on youtube.
yes! i'm a nearly 60 year old man that would like to know more about what old women my age go through. i'd very much like to understand that better. thank you for what you do❣️
take testbooster homepathic medcine
There are older women who don't have issues. Focus on them if you have a high sex drive. No point in getting far into a relationship with someone who just can't meet your needs.
How about not referring to women as "old ladies" for a start. We all know what age we are...if that's how you talk, that's an instant sex killer for any women...Just sayin🙄
@@fausto412 I agree
@@fausto412 Even a 60-year-old man has 70 times more testosterone in their body.
How many 60 yr old women do you see that can handle the vigour, power, strength and intensity of the thrusts a man can put into that activity. most women of that age are going to die half way through if their body can't resist that pressure and the man is going to be charged with murder and sexual assault as well since his partner is dead stuck to his penis.
Understanding the female perspective is essential. Please share more of this.
Great video yet again Rena. Thank you. What can you recommend for us guys to support our women effectively during this period? I don't mean just to restore libido, but more wholistically with regard how our women are feeling and how to influence a healthy hormone cascade within the body.
I look forward to seeing more of your videos. Don't work too hard babe. Wishing you and your family all the best life can offer. X God bless
I was amazed how my wife's libido returned after a year on a low carb ketogenic diet, and then decreased again when she started consuming more carbs again (enough to keep her out of ketosis most of the time). We know diet affects hormones and also the micro biome, which also has direct links with hormones including those concentrated mostly in the brain like dopamine and serotonin for instance.
Ugh not fair. There’s plenty of women who eat like garbage and they have sex fine..lol. I love carbs 😩
This is a generalized statement from me, and I am not a doctor. Carbs are needed for making serotonin. Increasing serotonin reduces sexual desire. SSRIs can drastically decrease sexual desire due to them raising serotonin levels. Just my .02 worth.
I think hormonal imbalances is the course of low libido but to some women ,there are others who enjoy it while in the same category.
My wife takes a lot of antibiotics.
She also suffers feom depression.
I keep telling her to get a poo transplant.
She thinks im crazy.
@@themightykaboolmy wife has been on antidepressants for years and I feel like the antidepressants snuffed out her sex drive, that’s what brought me to this video, we are looking for help
Half of the comments are "thank you for the info" and the other half is is men saying leave your girl if you don't have sex every week. :(
Every week?!? I was thinking more like everyday
Likewise, i get it 3 times a month and it literally bigs me every day, all throughout the day@@rocketdog2723
What the fuck every week? What are you a grandma? Hell nah bye bye 🤣
Well that would roughly match the average divorce rate at 50 percent, give or take!
You mean 3-4x a week minimum, right? Right?
really great a doctor is listening to what women are saying on reddit. thank god for you and reddit and for thinking about using reddit for real insights.
This information is super helpful. Please continue with this content.
Thanks for this. I am trying to understand my wifes lack of interest in sex, so this is valuable information. Keep up the good work. I need to hear your fixes video before I end up quitting my marriage due to total desire incompatibility. I want to be as fair to her as I can be, but just going sexless for many years has taken a big toll on me, so I gotta make a final attempt to try and fix it!
Best of luck. Heres my question, do you have children with this woman?
@buck007 Rogers Or is it the fact that women don't crave sex as much as a man does regardless? Testosterone id say is one of, if not the main driving aspect of sex as is. Its a hormones game anyways regardless of size or fantasy.
Get a side chick
Maybe she is having an affair with someone else...who knows??? In today's time..u can't trust anyone...it is a completely huge Red Flag..if ur in a s*xless marriage...
@@sigmamale2098 That is most definitely an option especially as how prevalent it is for 20,30,40 + year marriages are ending nowadays. Nevertheless, I would get to the bottom of the issue so that his mind can be at ease.
Menopause = Man on pause. Going through this one right now... Not quite paused, but pretty darn close.
Same
I feel your pain bro.
Men on pause⏸️⏸️⏸️
I have been through all the male stages from wife stopping all sex, anger, resentment, depression, becoming distant. Without physical intimacy in a relationship there is no bonding and oxytocin flowing around, so the happiness disappears and the male reward for being a loyal caring husband is taken away. Dr Malik is one of the best people to see things from both sides, male and female and maybe help save a few marriages.
I know a man that tolerated this lack of sex for a long time then decided to have a sex only gf on the side. He told her (the side chick) upfront he’ll never leave his wife and kids so it’s strictly FWB and nothing more. Was this right? I guess not but he was tired of begging for intimacy and didn’t want his family life interrupted over it. If the roles were reversed being the wife was sexual and the husband wasn’t I guarantee the husband would do anything he can to keep her satisfied and happy with sex toys or whatever. Women just give up and don’t understand the needs of men then act all surprised and upset when they cheat. If my penis stopped working I’d use toys, fingers, and tongue just to keep her satisfied. I certainly wouldn’t just shut intimacy down and hope she doesn’t stray.... women too often are the bigger player in these problems
It's definitely not fun. Especially if you don't know why your partner doesn't want to do anything sexual with you.
You wont be alone! Mine prefers netflix and social media to looking after me! I switched to the professionals, but it doesnt come cheap!
@@mjchecksfield914 I have definitely considered taking the same route that you've taken!
@@joseph1monplaisir its a rocky path finding some genuine girls who do their work more as therapists than just trying to take you for as much money as they can. I am lucky I found some amazing people where I live. Thai massage or sensual massage parlours are your best bet.
Does your wife know that you "switched to the professionals"? My god... Just imagine how DESTROYED her self esteem might be. Nothing justifies cheating or paying whores, please don't do that. I think she'd rather have a divorce than be humiliated like that, please reconsider.
Never mind that his self esteem was so bad he had to pay for it. It's never the woman's fault 🙄
Thanks Dr. Rena for adding more content for both women and men. 👍🏼
I have known a number of women that were very healthy but simply had no to very little sex drive and it affected their relationships. Most could not maintain a relationship for more than a year or two and could not fully understand why they could not keep a partners interest even though everything outside the bedroom was great. Very sad.
I would ask them why they want a partner if they have no interest having sex with them. Sounds just like a societal keeping you with the joneses but deep down they just want to be alone or something
@@jp05598I'm one of these women. I love my man, I'm sexually attracted to him and think he's totally gorgeous, but I just don't ever feel like I want to have sex. It is seriously the last thing on my mind and I wouldn't care if I never had it again, lol. Everything is just a lot more different for us than it is for men. They need it more than we do. Biologically, we aren't designed to be banging it out all the time. We are more prone to infections and issues, sex carries higher consequences for us. I get a yeast infection almost every time my partner goes down on me. Sort of takes the fun out of it. Stress affects us way more and sex is not the de-stressor for women that men think it is. Perhaps it's not the women. Perhaps it's just the men constantly wanting to have sex with everything that moves.
@@ladykd2355Ask him to use mouthwash before he goes down. The mouth is full of bad bacteria. Or just use fingers (file nails first).
@@coinman2753bacteria has nothing to do with yeast infection
@@ladykd2355you are not sexually attracted to him and do t deserve to be in a relationship.
PLEASE give more info on the Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause! Thanks very much. Your videos are very informative and relevant.
A Boring husband who is a narcissist. Has changed my labido . It explains that there was never any emotion or affection because he was a robot and a terrible kisser to add. My entire 28 yr marriage was a complete fake of lies and no love. My love was unconditional. His love was unreal. I became grossed out to be with him sexually because of how he exhausted my energy in life . Now! I can’t wait for a new life and a better labido for sure
You stayed with him for 28 years and you are blaming him for everything. A person that speaks bad of their ex and dosent show no accountability on there half is the Narcissist. You used him by staying in that relationship when you had a choice at any moment to leave. You chose to stay. Not being at all accountable and blaming only your partner is the classic Red Flag trait of a true covert narcissist.
Easy … hard to do is get rid of your genitalia.
LL is a common status for women. No man should expect the average woman to have a consistent HL. Maybe on the short term, but just look at surveys about women's attitudes about sex. Many would rather go shopping, watch a show or eat out rather than have sex.
its worth checking out surveys regarding the orgasm gap too
I wondered if they had AMAZING ORGASMS every time. Would they prefer shopping or movie etc?
Thank you! Very happy to have found your channel. I am a 65 year old man and I think about sex at least once an hour every hour I am awake.
How often do you have sex
Absolutely, wish I had known this years ago.
I think understanding both male/female reproductive health is rather important for both parties in a relationship
thank you for all your videos they are very informative' breath of fresh air.
Thank you for this!
She's a Gem! Thank U Rena
Yes, I appreciate the education.
It's simple when you are young and complicated as you get older. Exercise helps this.
Many of the causes of low libido are external. As a woman, I don't feel like having sex because I haven't accomplished certain things, like money, travel or success in certain areas. Because of that I am never in the mood and if you aren't married, that's ok. That's why I believe marriage is only for humble people that don't need to feel a certain way in order to have sex. I need to feel accomplished before I have sex because sex is so hard (not easy to release pvary or sperm).. That's why many people cant get pregnant, it's not easy. Rather pray to Jesus Christ about that if you are married. Prayer can solve allot
Thanks Dr Malik!
My wife has had several symptoms of HSDD and have experienced a majority of the causes you've listed. We've been going through a stressful period in the marriage for months now.
However, my wife suddenly noticed a change in her libido yesterday after several months of not feeling aroused the way she used to. In fact, this change comes about a month after she had stopped taking oral contraception. I'm not sure if the two are related but, it's a welcome change that we hope to capitalise on.
There is a link oral contraception do lower lobido in woman. Ironically woman take them in order to have it more but since it prevents ovulation the time when woman want it the most it really is not the best sollution I would say and very unhealthy too. It's amasing that it been at least said that they made the pill for woman because men would not experiment with their hormonal levels. It's sad but do men really want the woman to loose their desire and they want it. There are thankfully more studies now for better contraceptives, but for how long will it take to reach the market? To long I would say!
I think they are related i had no libido when i was on birth control.
Yes, the combination hormonal birth control can lower libido. Switching to other types of birth control could return her libido back to normal, or even increase it.
Maybe your wife could take a supplement in order to help her, I found this product hormonal balance and it's supposed to help with issues like this, I bought it now for myself but I have not started eating of it as of yet and can't say how it affected me however. Maybe this product don't even exist where you live but maybe something similar could help your wife?
Also notice how couples with more kids tend to be more emotionally attracted to each other. I think it has something to do with the male sperm. Who knows.
Thank you, for sharing looking forward treatments for low labido
This is not an easy conversation to have with the ladies, without sounding like you are criticising them. Some may even feel like you might be body shaming them. The advice given here is mostly medical and doesn't touch on the mental barriers, like if she feels that she is not good enough or desirable.
Yes, you are describing my situation. How to fix????
The content is very low for woman but woman are suffering with low libido after birth.
This topic is in the same category as, "do I look fat in this outfit?". It is a lose/lose scenario. Most women would rather lose the relationship than have an open honest discussion on the low libido topic.
More men need to walk away. Why? Because that's what women do when their needs are not met. 80% of divorces filed by women. You can offer help but if they don't see a problem or want to get help....you did all you can.
@@fausto412 You are not wrong.
Low sexual desire is horrible and affect interpersonal relationships you have to do something my friend felipe lives with this and is a terrible illness sometimes low self-esteem, stress and social pressures on sexuality affect terribly depends on the country and culture too but, it is something very distressing low sexual desire affects men and women in the same way you have to be empathetic if you have a partner with that problem
Maybe to you. I am sorry but if the person does not want to it doesn’t mean automatically there is something wrong with oneself. There are different forms of sexuality such as Demi sexuality or even asexuality, where the person just naturally does not engage want to engage or maybe only with themselves. In a society that is overly sexualized stigmas come about easily, such as the one you present. And no, one does not have to do something ‘about’ it, as there is nothing wrong with having a different sexual orientation then the group, that promotes itself to be the norm. There is no norm to that as it entirely depends on the person. What is important is the be with a partner who is comparable.
@@doreenplischke2169 i don't know Felipe Is young 28 years old has depresión and i think that is bisexual maybe he has afraid to get out of the closet, all the time said me that he feel very distressed AND feel anxious about it so i don't know maybe Is a big problem for him.
I would love it if you could make a video on male libido and discuss why it may be low with his long-term female partner, but not when it comes to desiring other women...
Maybe if his long-term partner would lose fifty pounds and do something other than stare at the ceiling during their once every other month "Okay, if you insist" sessions.
This might sound crazy but if they're still attractive you need to dopamine detox from looking at other women and porn.
@@scottadler boredom
@@scottadler lmao spot on. These women didnt even love themselves enough and expect their partner to appreciate them. Get off the couch and you will see the difference no matter at what age
Mine is high but I would rather it be low, my girl friend died last year and looks like no chance of getting any one else, unless I pay for sex.
Dr. I love your content..
Thank you Doc. Can you please explain Anejaculation?
Dr Rena. You are best doctor ever all Men want to come to come to your office for consultations. Me personally I have low libido only when I don't have a pretty close to me. When I'm face of One's That's I love. I become a firefighter. When arrive in these case. We aren't allow no more fire In any condos❤!🎉😇
Thank you for your expertise and explanations. Would you be interested in explaining and discussing remedies for Proctalgia Fugax?
Thanks Dr Malik for the wonderful explanation. Request you to please come up with the video of Varicocele nerves and how it affects in fertility in men. what are the treatments and what are the chances of getting pregnant with this varicocele nerve.
Has this video about treatments for low libido come out since? What is the full video title please?
Thank you.
Honey you need your own television show. You are a very smart woman.💕😍💕😍👍🏾
Please discuss vaginal atrophy. I had my uterus removed and ever since I have had atrophy and it’s extremely painful. I’d love to see a video on the subject. Thanks for all your dedication and hard work!
Excellent video! As a personal trainer and exercise physiologist I have worked with thousands of men and women over the last 27 years. One thing to check for based on my experience is estrogen dominance due to all the xenoestrogens we are exposed to on a daily basis - among other things like added hormones in the foods we eat or any other endocrine disrupting chemicals! In short, if you have low libido it might be a good idea to do a full hormone panel (urine, blood, and saliva) and don't be surprised if you are estrogen dominant with very low testosterone considering you are otherwise healthy and this goes for men and women. Most everyone I have consulted with have no libido, depression, stress, anxiety, etc. and when I put them on HRT/TRT it is night and day. Women and men get their sex life back and they are literally different people when it comes to having patience again, happy, joyful, loving, and all the positive emotions associated with life!
What is HRT/TRT?
@@kenjohnson6573 Hormone replacement therapy in women and men it is usually referred to as testosterone replacement therapy.
I need help, in our relationship there is no issue of stress or any other issues but after our first daughters birthday ..She lost desire, even feeling of desire is not there, it's been 7 years now, even she is not much willing to go to doctor, her proactively thinks its not going to get fix..
I tried talking, daily showing affection but still the condition is same ...i should show her to gyno ?.
@@tosamk Most likely she has a hormonal imbalance. You should seek out a physician that specializes in bio identical hormone replacement. Not sure where you are located but you can look online for BodyLogic MD and see if they have physicians in your area. Once this is corrected she will be a new woman.
@@Total_Body_Fitness_USA thank.yoy so much for the advice, i am from India 👍
I've studied this subject for 50 years, the solutions to a women's low libido can be resolved with 3 things. A fat wallet, a large unit and don't snore. I didn't have any of these traits so that's why the 50 years.
Great to see you didnt lose your sense of humour along the way, Eric Tam! I think actually that is the biggest problem with the whole sex battle, its one of the few things where you cant sort of lighten the mood with some good old humour. I might have a try though by suggesting I have become quite the King of masturbation! LOL
Hahaha 🤣
And personal hygiene!!!! Possibly #1 reason for many women is guys who don’t keep their mouths or bodies clean and smelling good.
Seizures, Chronic pain, Incontinence, Stress ,Fatigue, Social Issues etc lol beautiful
Thank you.
My wife has had HSDD for over 7 years, (since our first son was born) she has finally opened up her mind to hormone therapy and is going to start next week. Hopefully this helps her 🙏🏽
I am in a similar situation. Can you give an update please?
@@Whatamidoinghere893 so far, she’s been on progesterone cream for about 25 days, her mood has changed for the better and her energy levels are improving. For a while I thought she was bipolar but it was so weird that her mood changed fast. Next visit they will probably add a low dose of testosterone which will really ramp up the sex drive. But I’m happy with her results so far, still no intimacy though but she’s a lot more friendlier to me
At least she trying yes 7 years are long time. But I’m proud of you guys and I think this will help. I’m hopeful for you, she could one day be wanting things to happen more than you.
Thanks for this I take urbanol for my Huntingtons similar to Parkinson’s thanks so much definitely feeling very informative
😊
Thank You doc
Every OB I have ever talked to you about low libido has the exact same answer you just need more foreplay that’s all you’ll be fine. They don’t care.
Great and informative video as always. Have you ever made a video on the so called semen retention movement? If not whats your take on that
I’m not bothered by it but my husband is. I’ve just been taking meds for my anxiety and depression and I just never feel in the mood. Don’t care about sex anymore…
I'm starting to have bladder problems. This just started getting bad. I had a operation to left my blader, then I had to have 5 surgeries to remove it. Please help me. I really don't want to wear a diaper
Is there a version on this topic on men experiencing low libido, the idea of sex is such a chore.
I guess that’s why men look for new partners cuz the person they’re with doesn’t want to have sex with their partner or just doesn’t feel like they want to all the time
I watch this because there are no videos that address my problems. When it comes to men it's all about performance. I have no physical problems. Everything works fine. I just don't have much motivation. A sleepy interest in women. I'm single and over age 50. Don't have that urge that is almost required for men. I miss cuddling with someone but rarely think about having sex. My sexuality has changed. It's in my brain and nowhere else.
What is your opinion about several practices like prostate massage , frenulum massaga or urethral insertions
Wow! Excellent video, Doc! Very informative. Thanks.
@Dr Rena M- This and infact all of your Videos and content are very informative for a layman. Thank you for the videos. However I want to understand if Hypothyroidism do affect Low Libido in Females? and what are the measure to Increase libido in Females who are on hypothyroidism medication?
Yeah, been there for a while
Thanks!
Here's something you don't hear much about. I'm older and my doc says hormone replacement therapy can really help on older guy retain muscle and just feel better all around. He gives me a scrip for a gel you just rub on. So I start doing it and within a couple months I do feel better. Also, I start to notice a pretty good bump in my libido. That's all great so I go along for a while and I run across a study done in Australia where they are giving women a small dose of testosterone and it really helps with there libido too. I tell my wife and she says sure lets try a little on me. Well, there were no white lab coats or measuring of dosing. To say the least it worked. It turned into a be careful what you ask for situation. We decided to cool it on the testosterone. We still get a laugh about our "experiment"
The creams are not it. Go on full on synthetic testosterone like bodybuilders user. Feel whole again. Only drawback is needles but you get used to it.
Yes, I had almost no desire for sex when I was on contraception Implanon. I did not notice the difference with the Marina (IUD) so maybe it depends on the type of contraception for the women.
Yeah. Being a "loyal trustworthy life partner" is seriously killing me. But not as fast ad pointing out the problem to her. He'll no.
I'll just keep my life promise & remember "for better or worse" part. Awesome.
After both of us have two shots, then covid, we both have low libido a year and a half ago.
"the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak..."
blue pill....
And spongey.
Maca, ashwaganda and preglenelone helped me due to menopause while I waited for my hormone imbalance to level out
Which brand did you use?
Hi,
I have lower back pain due to slightly posture issue but when it become severe I feel right testicle nerve pain most of time it severe, is this pain due to back pain?
Do this pain travel down your leg? If it does You might have Sciatica.
Dr. Malik are familiar with testopel? What are your thoughts on it?
I suffer from arthritis and also have entered menopause a year ago, what can I do to fix my libido
I'm thankful for this video of about low libido. I hope you address the issue some men have experiencing the desire to have sex but struggle to reach an orgasm.
God bless you on what you do always from Jeff
Is there any help we could get for this? It causes problems in my life 😢
Can you please put a link to part 2 ?
When a woman achieves her goals in marriage-whether it's having children, a house, a car or financial security-she often disengages because her goals are met. Men, on the other hand, typically stay committed because they take their wedding vows seriously.
Enjoyed the vid and subject 👍
Interestingly, the drive of my Better Half is greater than mine now. Had I seen this 25 or so years ago, I would have been worried for her.
We're both in our 6th decade of life. Aside from her drive being higher than mine; the necessity for more of a particular product is the most noticeable change in intimacy.
Dr. Rena !
Can I get a script for "Love" ?
I think it solves all of these things ... although I defer to your recommendations of course. 🙂
Anything specific for Adhd low dopamine? Does that have anything to do with it? Also senior age... low for all hormones except cortisol? I feel horrible that I'm feeling asexual... I miss a sex drive
I have labido and I'm low in
everywhere else in my life too
Not just oral contraception. I jad an iud for seven years and it shut off my libido slowly and also turned off my emotions... i couldnt cry even when i needed to for years. The year after i got it out was an emotional nightmare and made the lady bits numb until hormones went back to a decent level. It was a wild 8 years. I didnt have the problem with the pill.
I'm gonna say that adopting a culture/mindset changes the brain chemistry to those of HSDD. Hardcore Christianity or strong parental influence could do that.
I was wondering: what would be an alternative to doing a prostate biopsy? Would you recommend something like that?
I have looked up the procedure along with the risk and side affects. I would like to know your opinion.
Hi , do you have any knowledge for abnormal bleeding ? I got my tubes removed after 4 babies and spot almost every day .
Great you are considering the ladies! Great video!
I keep wanting to ask, what if after 30 years of marriage I suddenly decided I was too tired or stressed out to take her out for dinner once or twice a week as we used to do? What if I went for over a year without taking her out for dinner? It would catastophic and a source of fighting and resentment -- and we'd ultimately go back to our regular schedule of eating out. Now apply that to a husband who has been sexually abandoned. What is he to do? From where I stand, not too much other than open up another TV dinner.
Of course, come on in New York too. Open in office here for vists patients 2 times a month. I'll make marketing you tube with you. Alot men looking for that type of consultations here in New York Dr. Rena. If you can't fixe your patients problems. You are unsafe Doctors!👂👂👌
This explains alot. My wife has both MS and a chronic pain condition. Next is how do I get her back in the mood more frequently?
Am I the only one who is so addicted to this channel. 😁😆
I've been with my husband for 6yrs. In the beginning of our relationship we would hump like rabbits and both had a high sex drive, but for about 2yrs I've been RARELY in "the mood" but hate that I feel this way because it doesn't make any sense, he treats me like the queen that I am, he can perform very well whenever I AM in "the mood", I'm VERY attracted to him so why the low sex drive? What sucks about it most of all is because I cant explain it, it causes him to feel like something may be wrong with him but its not. So its either I suck it up and try (which can be painful sometimes) or he has to rub one out (using his ruff calluses hands). I honestly don't know if this video helped me find an answer but I did learn some things that might make a little sense for my situation so thanks for the video.
Me and my husband are hitting the 4 year mark and I feel the same way. He sent me this video to watch and I just feel so guilty. I want him to be happy. 😞
@@ash_trayDon’t let this slide. He’s letting you know that it’s a problem.
The queen that you are? Smh. Women think way too highly of themselves. They think they deserve so much for absolutely no deserving reason.
10 years here and the last 2 she has been like you saying. We went to some doctors etc, she ended using thc and we are now like first week of our relationship haha. Try that
He treats you like a queen. That's the problem. He needs to do the opposite for you to be attracted.
It sucks so bad. I’ve never had any sort of libido. I’m told I’m depressed and need SSRIs by some doctors and then advised against it by other doctors so I just sit here feeling like I was born a wrong thing and that I’ll never be able to be a good partner.
When I was about 15. My dad, after a disagreement with my mum told me, Don't ever try to understand a woman, it can't be done. There have been times where I agree with him, I'm 71 now.
Men don't have a rollercoaster of hormones every month to deal with. Dennis Prager once said that if men and women could switch places, women would be humping bushes and men would commit suicide.
Most women, I agree but, there are some rational women out there.
@@nate2759 Yes, the law of averages says so :)
Just a SWAG, some of those health conditions can keep women on the unhappy side of like, quite possibly affecting happy fun libido.
My wife is going through Menopause and is experiencing painful sex. Her Dr ordered a hormonal cream to apply on the vagina but she read it can cause cancer and is afraid to use it.
Any advice you can provide will be greatly appreciated.
Any hormonal stuff has the potential to cause cancers. Or at least certain kinds.
The oestrogen cream is very safe..it does not cause cancer ..look up menopause drs on youtube and ovestin cream...it is very safe..
Guys if the girlfriend or wife is not into sex for a long period of time, trust me, they are tired of what you have. Not much you can do about that
I mean, you *could* be right. But there are also about a bazillion other things it could be like imbalances of estradiol, testosterone, progesterone, external stress, recent child birth, the stress of a toddler, never being given a chance to initiate, previous childhood trauma, lack of confidence, depression, anxiety, trauma as an adult that us fellas aren’t even aware of, and the list goes on and on. Lol
So long story short, don’t immediately think your woman doesn’t like you or what you’ve got to offer
@@hunterjohnson4954 I'm going with what I said...............
Well, you could give up half of your assets and move on. Just saying.
Yeah, that is a problem when they get to plain out of love stage, but blame it on 101 other things. When mine gave me the list of all the reasons she cant anymore I nearly went dizzy. Luckily there are same great professional alternatives, if you got a reasonable income. Its still frustrating though because I would like to be romantic and also do sexy things with the wife FOR FREE !
The psychology of the problem is very telling. Dr. M said 40% of women (I think that is a very consrvative number) have low libido, but only 10% seem to care about it. In other words 30% of women are willing to leave their current relationship because they just don't care. Yet they act all surprised when it ends, at least to their friends. But if they were honest with themselves they would realize they just didn't care that it ended.
I will say what most men will probably never publicly admit to. A lot of men would immediately have a higher Libido if variety (meaning different partners) was accepted and/or embraced within their relationships and our society. Yes, we can mix it up with our partner in many different ways; but seldom is there anything like someone different from your norms. I already know there are a million different unwelcomed/unpopular dynamics that can also accompany this but generally speaking that alone can quickly make a man's nature rise.
I am a older male so sometimes I get a bit confused. Are you saying there should be outsiders be brought into a other wise heathy relationship? Such as adding a couple more males or females to the sex party? I have been married to wife and best friend for 55 years now and I can’t even begin to imagine bringing outsiders to my wife’s and my sex party. Oh but wait we don’t have those types of parties any longer. Or am I misinterpreting your comment, Thank You
@@keepyourdayjob5658 no. What he is saying is you shoukd be allowed to sleep with other women. Because that's male nature. You know when you out and about you look at attractive women. You know you would like to have sex with them. But society says no. You are married. Go be a slave to your wife's moods. I have a couple of married friends who sleep around now and then. Some get busted. Their wife stay. They say they need the variety. I never cheated and I'm divorced. They married and cheat like every year.
You can't call women whores for having more than one body but then also complain about women not putting out. What is it? Do you want women to be modest , prude and virginal before marriage or do you want a society full of the opposite?
Do you have a video on low libido in men?
Greetings Dr. Malik !
I would really appreciate if you could make a video about reducing the libido or sexual drive on men as much as possible. So far, I know about a plant called "Vitex Agnus Castus" used by the monks to reduce their sexual drive but that herb is not available in my location. Do you know any medication that has a similar or more powerful effect? without risks?
Thanks for your time.
Just to clarify, I am young single guy on very late 20´s. There is no point for me to have sexual drive if I don´t need it, nor I wanted. That´s why I ask.
How can I get HSDD? I appreciate if the answer comes only from females please or what should you do to get me HSDD?
so how do you fix it