Great video. My one thing is going to be to go skydiving. I agreed with everything with one exception. As a 50 year old ISFP, I would say that, if you are an ISFP, you should ALWAYS trust your intuition about others. If you sense someone is "against you" or does not have your best interest at heart, ALWAYS pay attention to that. My intuition about others has rarely ever steered me wrong and I virtually always end up regretting it when I second guess myself.
the depressive loop where we don’t see a future so we stop trying.. man,, if anything describes my life that’s it. i have childhood trauma, my home life was very unstable. because that depression started so young i never even became creative.
As a INFP with ADHD, severe social anxiety, and depression I can tell you it’s hard. 26 years old, I sit alone at home all day and just can’t break the cycle. This was something I needed to hear. Thank you❤️
“It’s not enough” this is what sometimes stress me out that it’s not enough or I’m not enough . I don’t know but I’m a perfectionist it’s either i do it with 100% and put my heart in it or i don’t do it at all . But anyway I’m thankful because this video came on time xD it’s like a life message “
DD's bread DD's bread yesss the need to be perfect but I’m trying to avoid my ni these days and just take action with anything even a small step is something .. when you actually start the thing you want that worrying energy lows a lil bit but sadly next day my energy gets 0% and i lose motivation because I’m afraid not to meet that perfection
so true... as an ISFP this is very very true. I get stuck in that Fi-Ni loop, constantly ruminating about things that are trivial. I become paranoid so badly, wondering what people are thinking about me and how I am an embarrassing human being. then I blame it on other people for the ways I feel. and it ends up becoming a cycle. but getting out and doing things, no matter how scared i am, has changed things. take action. Our Se is there to protect us from such moments. thank you for this. very much needed. (also you have a very calm and sweet way of conveying your message 😊)
Ok, now that I watched the whole thing, its pretty accurate, especially the warrior mystic dichotomy (I even resorted to assigning them vague identities and "colors" to know in what mental state i'm in). If there's anything I can add to help my fellow ISFP's is this: you may feel a lot of anxiety when watching this video and say something along the lines of "but my mystic is what makes me me. its what makes me not impulsive and end up being dull and not who I am, and makes me just pick up trends or things that are not as novel as I want them to be. its the reason I can shine; its me playing it smart." You see, you're under the impression that your warrior (the aspect of you that acts) does not have an intelligence of its own. It really does. It just uses different methods to exercise that intelligence. Instead of looking at the thing in question, and comparing and contrasting it to every other dot inside you (dont lie. I know you do this), it goes by hunch. and keep in mind, "hunch" is not something arbitrary or inconsistent; its VERY consistent. its why you curl your nose when something smells "off", or why you are VERY good at playing "find the 5 differences". Its you using your good old sensation (even in testing the vibe of a room or a gathering) and then, with a snap of a finger, do all the right actions in order to align it to that which you already know in your warrior intelligence. If I have any practical tip for you, its this: pick up a sport, or an engaging video game. try to get good at it. you wont believe me until you see, for yourself, the immense amount of intelligence that happens with hand-eye quick coordination and throwing yourself into action. you will realize its not as stupid or arbitrary or half-baked as you think it is. Its a very very clear and defined intelligence that you can literally "taste"; its just a different kind of intelligence. an intelligence that is actually your strongest point, and can carry you to places your mystic can never even dream of, no matter how much dots they connect. your mystic is extremely smart, but I GUARANTEE you your warrior is smarter.
Thanks for giving the video a chance and digging into the Warrior-Mystic dichotomy. Glad it resonated. Thank you for the detailed comment as well and I hope it helps other ISFPs play their Warrior a bit more ;)
Cheers! Thank you for your very detailed explanation of a problem a lot of ISFPs (including me) suffer from. I know I'll be sending this video to all my ISFP and typology-enthusiast friends
dude, YES i’ve been trying to trust my ni and fi for too long ever since i’ve been afraid of using se and taking action and being in the real world. but they don’t ever do the job like my se does. the se has ALWAYS been the one that makes me excel in things. thanks brother this was inspiring
Okay I actually LOVE this explanation. Thank you for putting this into words!!! You’re so right, you can’t fully appreciate Se intelligence until you’re in the moment, witnessing it in all its glory. For me it manifests in my singing, where it just comes out in the moment without me having to think about it. Thank you for this perspective friend!!! ❤
As an ISFP, and knowing you're an INFP, I can tell where you went wrong: while Fi manifests in you as conscience and "the right thing", and "being a good person", it manifests in us differently. It manifests as "is this who I am", "is this in alignment with my identity and self expression" and we get pissed off when we see rough people who didnt perfect their self expression and dont "shine". Subtle but big difference. Now ill keep watching the video.
This actually resonated way too much for me right now. I'm supposed to be an INFP, yet I recognize this a lot for myself, sort of walking around avoiding everyone because I feel that anyone would hate me or just seeing people as dangerous otherwise. I guess it's more a social anxiety thing. It happens like clockwork if I avoid interaction for enough time. I wonder how you'd differentiate the Si mode of this loop, tho I guess u have plenty of those vids.
Fi + Pi/Pe is going to have similarities. I used some of my experience with Si to tap into how Ni works on an emotional level. I'd just differentiate by saying Si is physical and experiential comfort/safety where Ni would be ideational and future-pacing-focused comfort/safety, if that amounts to anything as a response lol.
You're right! The only time I'm ever truly happy is when I'm doing art or when I'm out in nature. I've been so overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted from my new job that all I do is worry about the future. After work and on weekends I'm way too tired to do the things that I love, which is apparently hurting me even more. Right now I've discovered minimalism and I'm trying to simplify my life and declutter my home. I'm doing this so that in the near future I can focus on what I love and not be bogged down by everything else
Good vid I'm guilty of this. They say Ni is optogenetic in isp but Se is what we are responsible for. But im getting better at this. I wanted to move to a new place so I did it
The idealogical thinkers of the world, ENFP and INFPs, are looking to see their ideas come to fruition. Our job as ISFPs are to find those great visions and make them reality.
Your job is to be you in the best way that you can - and if you can do that while collaborating with someone else and their skills, then that's even better! 1+1=11 :D
@@GeekPsychology oops you're right just had some next-day clarity. Yeah what I wrote does not align with all ISFP experiences and is more suited for, I dunno, ISFJ, definitely not ISFP. It's nice when an INFP/ENFP takes the time to look at you on a personal level and tell you what they see for your best future though!
I kept getting kicked out of my house, and then I realized that it's because I'm supposed to help homeless people, or teach the people around me about what they really go through.
Well apparently the Warrior Mystic is spot on for me, according to others. I mean I don't disagree but I'm thinking of reasons that I'm not an ISFP, that my reasons for not moving forward are valid and that maybe I'm a flighty ENFP who started five college courses as a teen and finished none (I finished three as an adult mind you), a psychic tumultuous INFJ or something else. Round and round and round. Deciding for certain, breathing and then doubting over and over. Feeling like ISFPs are seen as shallow and opaque and morose when I'm the opposite. I'm not closed and hard to know, I'm chatty and curious and open and see the silver lining. I'm quirky and random and my brain moves super fast. So yeh, I'm discombonulated. Bonnie 🧜🏼
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Great video. My one thing is going to be to go skydiving. I agreed with everything with one exception. As a 50 year old ISFP, I would say that, if you are an ISFP, you should ALWAYS trust your intuition about others. If you sense someone is "against you" or does not have your best interest at heart, ALWAYS pay attention to that. My intuition about others has rarely ever steered me wrong and I virtually always end up regretting it when I second guess myself.
the depressive loop where we don’t see a future so we stop trying.. man,, if anything describes my life that’s it. i have childhood trauma, my home life was very unstable. because that depression started so young i never even became creative.
Ouch. This was like a intervention from a really patient friend.
As a INFP with ADHD, severe social anxiety, and depression I can tell you it’s hard. 26 years old, I sit alone at home all day and just can’t break the cycle. This was something I needed to hear. Thank you❤️
“It’s not enough” this is what sometimes stress me out that it’s not enough or I’m not enough . I don’t know but I’m a perfectionist it’s either i do it with 100% and put my heart in it or i don’t do it at all . But anyway I’m thankful because this video came on time xD it’s like a life message “
Happy to help where I can :)
Whose voice tells you that you or it isn't enough?
Geek Psychology sadly it’s me and the expectations of the closest people to me :[[
DD's bread DD's bread yesss the need to be perfect but I’m trying to avoid my ni these days and just take action with anything even a small step is something .. when you actually start the thing you want that worrying energy lows a lil bit but sadly next day my energy gets 0% and i lose motivation because I’m afraid not to meet that perfection
so true... as an ISFP this is very very true. I get stuck in that Fi-Ni loop, constantly ruminating about things that are trivial. I become paranoid so badly, wondering what people are thinking about me and how I am an embarrassing human being. then I blame it on other people for the ways I feel. and it ends up becoming a cycle. but getting out and doing things, no matter how scared i am, has changed things. take action. Our Se is there to protect us from such moments. thank you for this. very much needed. (also you have a very calm and sweet way of conveying your message 😊)
Keep at it! Taking action is key! I actually just prepped a short video on that.
Ok, now that I watched the whole thing, its pretty accurate, especially the warrior mystic dichotomy (I even resorted to assigning them vague identities and "colors" to know in what mental state i'm in). If there's anything I can add to help my fellow ISFP's is this: you may feel a lot of anxiety when watching this video and say something along the lines of "but my mystic is what makes me me. its what makes me not impulsive and end up being dull and not who I am, and makes me just pick up trends or things that are not as novel as I want them to be. its the reason I can shine; its me playing it smart."
You see, you're under the impression that your warrior (the aspect of you that acts) does not have an intelligence of its own. It really does. It just uses different methods to exercise that intelligence. Instead of looking at the thing in question, and comparing and contrasting it to every other dot inside you (dont lie. I know you do this), it goes by hunch. and keep in mind, "hunch" is not something arbitrary or inconsistent; its VERY consistent. its why you curl your nose when something smells "off", or why you are VERY good at playing "find the 5 differences". Its you using your good old sensation (even in testing the vibe of a room or a gathering) and then, with a snap of a finger, do all the right actions in order to align it to that which you already know in your warrior intelligence.
If I have any practical tip for you, its this: pick up a sport, or an engaging video game. try to get good at it. you wont believe me until you see, for yourself, the immense amount of intelligence that happens with hand-eye quick coordination and throwing yourself into action. you will realize its not as stupid or arbitrary or half-baked as you think it is. Its a very very clear and defined intelligence that you can literally "taste"; its just a different kind of intelligence. an intelligence that is actually your strongest point, and can carry you to places your mystic can never even dream of, no matter how much dots they connect. your mystic is extremely smart, but I GUARANTEE you your warrior is smarter.
Thanks for giving the video a chance and digging into the Warrior-Mystic dichotomy. Glad it resonated.
Thank you for the detailed comment as well and I hope it helps other ISFPs play their Warrior a bit more ;)
Cheers! Thank you for your very detailed explanation of a problem a lot of ISFPs (including me) suffer from. I know I'll be sending this video to all my ISFP and typology-enthusiast friends
dude, YES i’ve been trying to trust my ni and fi for too long ever since i’ve been afraid of using se and taking action and being in the real world. but they don’t ever do the job like my se does. the se has ALWAYS been the one that makes me excel in things. thanks brother this was inspiring
@@hghghghghghgh6355 no problem, mate! im glad this was helpful!
Okay I actually LOVE this explanation. Thank you for putting this into words!!! You’re so right, you can’t fully appreciate Se intelligence until you’re in the moment, witnessing it in all its glory. For me it manifests in my singing, where it just comes out in the moment without me having to think about it. Thank you for this perspective friend!!! ❤
You read my mind today brother . Im ISFP and i started imagining a college was against me today but i quickly realised i was wrong .
" you can't sit back and keep analysing things and expecting the result to just manifest"
guilty
:D It can be so tempting, eh? How do you kick yourself into action?
@@GeekPsychology I don't even have a way, 👆 charity up here probably says the same.
As an ISFP, and knowing you're an INFP, I can tell where you went wrong: while Fi manifests in you as conscience and "the right thing", and "being a good person", it manifests in us differently. It manifests as "is this who I am", "is this in alignment with my identity and self expression" and we get pissed off when we see rough people who didnt perfect their self expression and dont "shine". Subtle but big difference. Now ill keep watching the video.
Agree totaly some other types are such pests when they dont have attention to detail . Anoying specially when they stand on your toes Makes me angry .
Yes, that's it
This actually resonated way too much for me right now. I'm supposed to be an INFP, yet I recognize this a lot for myself, sort of walking around avoiding everyone because I feel that anyone would hate me or just seeing people as dangerous otherwise. I guess it's more a social anxiety thing. It happens like clockwork if I avoid interaction for enough time. I wonder how you'd differentiate the Si mode of this loop, tho I guess u have plenty of those vids.
I thought it said INFP in the title because it resonated way too much with me..
@@nellautumngirl Glad to know i'm not the only one :)
Fi + Pi/Pe is going to have similarities. I used some of my experience with Si to tap into how Ni works on an emotional level. I'd just differentiate by saying Si is physical and experiential comfort/safety where Ni would be ideational and future-pacing-focused comfort/safety, if that amounts to anything as a response lol.
You're right! The only time I'm ever truly happy is when I'm doing art or when I'm out in nature.
I've been so overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted from my new job that all I do is worry about the future. After work and on weekends I'm way too tired to do the things that I love, which is apparently hurting me even more.
Right now I've discovered minimalism and I'm trying to simplify my life and declutter my home. I'm doing this so that in the near future I can focus on what I love and not be bogged down by everything else
Thank you Sir!
This us so helpful!
Good vid I'm guilty of this. They say Ni is optogenetic in isp but Se is what we are responsible for. But im getting better at this. I wanted to move to a new place so I did it
I have no idea what optogenetic beyond a brief look in Google. Good job taking action and moving to a new place!
@@GeekPsychology optimistic lol
Typo lol
Best advice bro . Cheers
Very true!
Love ur videos
Thank you!
The idealogical thinkers of the world, ENFP and INFPs, are looking to see their ideas come to fruition. Our job as ISFPs are to find those great visions and make them reality.
Your job is to be you in the best way that you can - and if you can do that while collaborating with someone else and their skills, then that's even better! 1+1=11 :D
@@GeekPsychology oops you're right just had some next-day clarity. Yeah what I wrote does not align with all ISFP experiences and is more suited for, I dunno, ISFJ, definitely not ISFP. It's nice when an INFP/ENFP takes the time to look at you on a personal level and tell you what they see for your best future though!
Taking small steps
4:26 8th slot Ti. That's why it's the demon function.
the most related ISFP
Stopping is the enemy - ISFPs
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So enneagram 4 ! 👍😭
I kept getting kicked out of my house, and then I realized that it's because I'm supposed to help homeless people, or teach the people around me about what they really go through.
Interesting. Inspiration and bigger goals often come at the most difficult times.
Well apparently the Warrior Mystic is spot on for me, according to others. I mean I don't disagree but I'm thinking of reasons that I'm not an ISFP, that my reasons for not moving forward are valid and that maybe I'm a flighty ENFP who started five college courses as a teen and finished none (I finished three as an adult mind you), a psychic tumultuous INFJ or something else. Round and round and round. Deciding for certain, breathing and then doubting over and over. Feeling like ISFPs are seen as shallow and opaque and morose when I'm the opposite. I'm not closed and hard to know, I'm chatty and curious and open and see the silver lining. I'm quirky and random and my brain moves super fast. So yeh, I'm discombonulated.
Bonnie 🧜🏼