You can’t come back in my life

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2023

Комментарии • 156

  • @angelkayx
    @angelkayx 9 месяцев назад +8

    I definitely needed to hear this. Nine years and a failed marriage later, I’m learning to put myself first.

  • @juicysmith38235
    @juicysmith38235 9 месяцев назад +5

    I was in an abusive relationship for years & throughout time he would demand I stop talking to all my friends until one day I woke up & had no friends. This happened slowly throughout time.
    I was so desperate to make the relationship work & be loved that I was willing to lose EVERYTHING.
    I am embarrassed & ashamed.
    What Skylar mentionee feeling is probably how my friends feel about me now, which is why I haven't reached out to them.
    I have finally left that relationship, however I know things will never be the same again to where I can reach out to old friends. 💔
    God bless 🙏

    • @KodaKya77
      @KodaKya77 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing- this is definitely something we should all take into account. Sending you good vibes and positive energy. ☮️🌱

  • @kurokami9428
    @kurokami9428 9 месяцев назад +45

    Go off skylar!

  • @Jesusoursavior1
    @Jesusoursavior1 5 месяцев назад +5

    I’m one to isolate myself when life gets tough. I do not do it as a personal attack towards friends, more often it’s to gain perspective. We all grow and learn and sometimes we have to remove ourselves from ppl and places to help see things from a different lens.
    You’re entitled to your opinion and reaction towards someone like that. But it’s poor judgement to think someone does it bec they never cared for the other person.

  • @Sandranewkirk604
    @Sandranewkirk604 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are so BEAUTIFUL, I wish I could find someone like you. Love the way you Carry yourself as well as the comfortability, confidence. Keep doing what you are doing.😘

  • @heatherhedera
    @heatherhedera 9 месяцев назад +3

    THIS IS THE MOTTO!!! I needed this today 🥺 thank you, beautiful!!!! 💕💕💕

  • @sangsterxx1897
    @sangsterxx1897 9 месяцев назад +2

    Reminds me of how people will put you through a crazy traumatic experience and then pop back up as if nothing happened and get *_mad_* when you bring it up

  • @CrystalHardy4U
    @CrystalHardy4U 9 месяцев назад +2

    Facts! I've been going through same thing! Exs & past friendships are season. Those who stay in your life are reason 🙏.

  • @angelacampana7058
    @angelacampana7058 9 месяцев назад +6

    Amen, to hell with those who leave your grace then want back in, they’re usually users and abusers, IMO💁🏻‍♀️

    • @Avockadoo
      @Avockadoo 9 месяцев назад +1

      Your not wrong. They need to fall all the way off 😂😂

  • @angelatillman4323
    @angelatillman4323 9 месяцев назад +2

    You are truly an amazing person!

  • @yoyomabach4518
    @yoyomabach4518 9 месяцев назад +3

    I needed to hear this so badly, thank you!

  • @Lonerangel7177
    @Lonerangel7177 9 месяцев назад +4

    I agree.. take your power back from them.. Those are narcissistic ppl that feel entitled to your life when they get ready they come back like they’re running the show or something. No ma’am!. No second chances after. Moving on “flips hair” 💇🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ stay away from me

    • @kmarie7051
      @kmarie7051 7 месяцев назад +1

      A narcissist hoover....probably low on narcissistic supply and you know they can't go a second without it, they need to keep stocked up with a whole hareem.

  • @Turner__22345
    @Turner__22345 9 месяцев назад +1

    Needed this thank you !!! You are 100% dont let someone show you more than once who they really are it’s important to just leave some people where they are THE PAST!👏🏾👏🏾

  • @zira1842
    @zira1842 9 месяцев назад +2

    I feel ya on that, I have had family members like my mom's mother, and my bio-donor try to come back years later and I'm like "No, you should've been there when I needed you most and you cared less so no". Even friends that I've helped out who eventually turned on me and then a few weeks or a month go by and they are like hey how are you doing can we be friends again and I'm like no, you fucked up not I, that friendship we had is long gone, find someone else to be your bitch.

  • @dianapatterson4657
    @dianapatterson4657 9 месяцев назад +4

    Skylarr you know thats the Scorpio in you. I can cut people off who i loved and never thinknof them again. I call it my Scorpio superpower

  • @userGodisrealGodislove
    @userGodisrealGodislove 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you , I really needed this to hear it

  • @pepsilover4727
    @pepsilover4727 9 месяцев назад +3

    I had that happen to me as well only to find out that he wanted me to come back because I basically took care of him when we was together I cooked all the meals for him his roommate and kids, I did the laundry, I cleaned the entire house from top to bottom, i made sure he had everything that he needed he wanted me back just to be a wife without the ring. After 3days I realized that, I pack my bags and left while he was at work. Oooo and he did nothing nothing at all for during the first time we was together but a Pepsi and a snickers 😢 lucky I had my own money.

  • @Enttauschung3
    @Enttauschung3 9 месяцев назад +3

    I spent years repeating pointless.💩 That got me no where and caused more harm than good. Exactly.

  • @robh.5658
    @robh.5658 24 дня назад

    I agree! I always hate it when people get out of your life, and then, out of nowhere, they say hey buddy, and it's like, yo, a lot of time has passed, it's time to move on. I hate it when people think that you're just supposed to be the same person that you were when you were in high school, middle school, or elementary school for that matter, and yeah, there are people who, when they see you for the first time in a long time, and see that you've changed, and are like, why did you change? And the answer is, people are supposed to change. Everyone changes, and it's just crazy that some people just don't get it. Congrats on the GED journey. For some people, finishing high school when you're younger is the way to go, but it's not for everyone, and it's cool to see you on these shorts where you get to be super girly in your Classes, and good for you.

  • @JesusSaves9098
    @JesusSaves9098 9 месяцев назад +2

    To whoever is reading this Jesus loves you and he’s coming soon! All you need to do to be saved is believe Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins was buried and came back to life on the 3rd day confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and you’ll be saved! God bless!

  • @sunshynelove4734
    @sunshynelove4734 6 месяцев назад +2

    DEFINITELY WELL EXPLAINED💯

  • @JenniferLaVine99
    @JenniferLaVine99 9 месяцев назад +3

    Facts 💯

  • @stephaniepapaleo9001
    @stephaniepapaleo9001 9 месяцев назад +1

    I really needed to hear this -agree! and at 58, I’m learning (too late) that I don’t wanna dip my foot in that pond again, it was bad the first time❤

  • @MrVenom973
    @MrVenom973 9 месяцев назад +6

    Sometimes 2nd chances are warranted, it just depends, tons of variables, its not black and white

    • @Amazing.Grace37
      @Amazing.Grace37 9 месяцев назад +1

      Nope. Never ever. Your basically saying ‘ come hurt me again, I’m ready’..

  • @mekishamims1082
    @mekishamims1082 9 месяцев назад +2

    I totally agree because when I have given people a second chance they shitted on me again so yes no second chances is wise

  • @parentingwithmentalillness-lin
    @parentingwithmentalillness-lin 9 месяцев назад +3

    Love the makeup 💜

  • @marielistavarez4850
    @marielistavarez4850 9 месяцев назад +5

    Word and most of the time when a guy has left in the past and is trying to come back it’s because whoever he left you for ain’t work out. So no bby boy you cannot come back.

  • @tasmeenbaker9912
    @tasmeenbaker9912 9 месяцев назад +3

    I had 2 of my exes ask me for a second chance, these mfs were both toxic as hell. The second one though, he was desperate as hell 😭.

  • @Someone._.1234
    @Someone._.1234 9 месяцев назад

    It’s good that u right away set ur boundaries most ppl don’t rlly do that💅🏻❤️

  • @monimonimoni3082
    @monimonimoni3082 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yeah no second chances don’t exist, you have one chance to prove yourself and if you fuck up, ✌🏾 Your beautiful btw hon ❤

  • @alishak4061
    @alishak4061 9 месяцев назад +3

    It's NEVER the same!!!

  • @Sdot.osamaa1
    @Sdot.osamaa1 9 месяцев назад +2

    I feel you but sometimes u have to give them a second chance but you can’t just accept them right there and then you have to make them feel what you felt but go if skylar

  • @takeatrip2chlosworld4321
    @takeatrip2chlosworld4321 9 месяцев назад +1

    Girly! You should make vlogs or longer content videos❤
    You’re sooooooo funny! 🤗🤣

  • @TableBook
    @TableBook 2 месяца назад

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @sarahabbs5371
    @sarahabbs5371 9 месяцев назад +1

    Amen Sister❤

  • @lillianauvil
    @lillianauvil 7 месяцев назад +2

    Please tell us the make up products you use. I am new to your channel but in love with ur make up. You do a wonderful job. Your foundation looks so soft and clear on the skin and always beautiful. Please tell us !😁

  • @shannoncarmichael10
    @shannoncarmichael10 9 месяцев назад +1

    Gurrrlll. That beat tho 💜🫶💜🥰🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Bigbosslady007
    @Bigbosslady007 9 месяцев назад

    Big Facts Sky!!!!

  • @Ashxluv
    @Ashxluv 9 месяцев назад

    POP OFF QUEEN!

  • @Ishallrise31
    @Ishallrise31 9 месяцев назад +1

    Preachhhhh❤

  • @Friends_dont_lie570
    @Friends_dont_lie570 9 месяцев назад +2

    SLAY girly 😂😂❤❤

  • @lifewitsophiaa9708
    @lifewitsophiaa9708 9 месяцев назад

    She's slaysss❤️‍🔥🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🖤🩶🤍🤎❤️‍🩹

  • @Milanlifeee
    @Milanlifeee 9 месяцев назад

    Yasss skylar u did yo thangggg

  • @lyndalefletcher1931
    @lyndalefletcher1931 9 месяцев назад +1

    I feel you beautiful

  • @simonecook7582
    @simonecook7582 2 месяца назад

    I call it the spin a block I tell them to F right off 😂😂❤

  • @patremagilbert682
    @patremagilbert682 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yes agree they want to go away then come back. True u will never look at them same. Things change people need to let go

  • @QutieTV
    @QutieTV 9 месяцев назад

    That part sis💯💯💯‼️

  • @sharmelasurujmohan4925
    @sharmelasurujmohan4925 9 месяцев назад +1

    So True sweetie ❤

  • @sheilam9418
    @sheilam9418 9 месяцев назад +1

    I hit the like button so fast
    I thought you were talking about me

  • @booberrylovesongs7089
    @booberrylovesongs7089 9 месяцев назад +1

    I feel the same way.😂😂😂😂

  • @cookiecruz1982
    @cookiecruz1982 4 месяца назад

    Really real 💯

  • @ericasaintelmey4600
    @ericasaintelmey4600 9 месяцев назад +3

    😂😂💯

  • @asmrwishes
    @asmrwishes 9 месяцев назад

    💯I use the Block feature. Prevents this

  • @TheCorinne785
    @TheCorinne785 9 месяцев назад

    Amén ❤

  • @KevonteWebb
    @KevonteWebb 9 месяцев назад +2

    but Skylar meeting new people is hard

  • @wandacarter5774
    @wandacarter5774 9 месяцев назад

    You are freaking gorgeous, and yeah you are so right! What she said ya’ll!❤

  • @user-ux1mt8zb5k
    @user-ux1mt8zb5k 2 месяца назад

    Amen

  • @espresso_berrie8831
    @espresso_berrie8831 9 месяцев назад

    my favorite way to say this is “if they shenan once, they’re gonna shenanigan” (bc of shenanigans. it sounds better vocally, but the idea should be understood)

  • @chrisjohnson-my6gv
    @chrisjohnson-my6gv 2 месяца назад +1

    Damn sky you are so beautiful 😍

  • @rebeccacraig6604
    @rebeccacraig6604 8 месяцев назад +1

    Indeed 💯👍

  • @RMCX0_
    @RMCX0_ 9 месяцев назад

    Always Evolving Go Sky ‼️‼️‼️

  • @user-rn4eu7ni8t
    @user-rn4eu7ni8t 7 месяцев назад

    Amen !!!

  • @xdesignsbylivx150
    @xdesignsbylivx150 9 месяцев назад +2

    SKKKKYLLLAAARRR❤

  • @EElegantEra
    @EElegantEra 9 месяцев назад

    Slayyy skyy

  • @sunshinemarie3550
    @sunshinemarie3550 7 месяцев назад +2

    FACTS 😊

  • @toniaagneessens224
    @toniaagneessens224 9 месяцев назад

    You got the right mindset for that, you go ! Are we allowed to send you fan mail ? or nah.😊❤

  • @jaggerkate
    @jaggerkate 9 месяцев назад +1

    The title made me worry. Thought you meant us. 😂

  • @shandywarhol4444
    @shandywarhol4444 9 месяцев назад

    Agreed. ☺️Kx

  • @LauraB53
    @LauraB53 9 месяцев назад

    I just have to say Sky you are absolutely beautiful! I hope I don’t offend you or anyone but I’ve been following you for a long time but when I first found out you were Trans I couldn’t believe it! You are absolutely one beautiful woman! I would have loved to look like you! BEAUTIFUL! ❤

  • @kathychapman94
    @kathychapman94 9 месяцев назад

    Yes girl ❤

  • @butterflyyarrum4842
    @butterflyyarrum4842 9 месяцев назад +1

    I AGREE 100 PERCENT

  • @sunnyg6458
    @sunnyg6458 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love you 😘

  • @booberrylovesongs7089
    @booberrylovesongs7089 9 месяцев назад

    I just ❤❤❤❤ you.

  • @shelove5533
    @shelove5533 9 месяцев назад

    PeriodT ❤

  • @user-lf8uk1ys9g
    @user-lf8uk1ys9g 9 месяцев назад +1

    You go skylar

  • @SheSimba_
    @SheSimba_ 9 месяцев назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @joecruz2733
    @joecruz2733 6 месяцев назад +3

    If I was your friend I would stay your friend till the end of time

  • @FMP177
    @FMP177 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thats me aswell

  • @BivianaBritoRivera
    @BivianaBritoRivera 9 месяцев назад +1

  • @stephanieleiva902
    @stephanieleiva902 7 месяцев назад

    💯❤

  • @mariamercado3946
    @mariamercado3946 9 месяцев назад

    Good for you.

  • @missaundrea55
    @missaundrea55 7 месяцев назад

    💯💯💯

  • @ElissaBarclay
    @ElissaBarclay 9 месяцев назад +1

    Truth is....

  • @chiefcharlesmolina7933
    @chiefcharlesmolina7933 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh. Your doing girlfriend things to me now 😂 lol. Okayyy, letting it happen 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

  • @justiceconcepcion3694
    @justiceconcepcion3694 3 месяца назад +1

    Me walking out of peoples lives because I self sabotage and have depression: 🤷🏻‍♀️👋🏼
    Also yall doesn’t mean everyone who is your friend and cuts you off doesn’t care. Ppl have their own lives, don’t expect anyone to drop their life or issues for you. It’s ok to be your own individuals and come back as friends later on in life.

  • @jeanniepresley9520
    @jeanniepresley9520 7 месяцев назад

    PERrrrrrFeeeeCTly said

  • @HannahRose19960
    @HannahRose19960 9 месяцев назад +1

    Exactly

  • @Yagirljamie
    @Yagirljamie 7 месяцев назад +2

    facts

  • @tssx11
    @tssx11 9 месяцев назад

    I understand if they just want to see how you’re doing out of care, but even then sometimes people check up on you to see if you’re doing better than them, and to be nosy about what’s happening in your life

  • @MsLindaLee66
    @MsLindaLee66 3 месяца назад

    I agree 👍🏼

  • @KitchentableNursing
    @KitchentableNursing 9 месяцев назад

    Yooo I thought I was the only one that felt this way that come back be super weird.... huge side eye on the come backs ummm no thank you

  • @JungkookiesCookie
    @JungkookiesCookie 9 месяцев назад +1

    Real, like just be gone. Depending on the reason

  • @takristablack177
    @takristablack177 9 месяцев назад

    I love you skyler

  • @kelciglunt6758
    @kelciglunt6758 Месяц назад

    Aman ❤

  • @divinelyraven7759
    @divinelyraven7759 9 месяцев назад +2

    No literally ❤❗️

  • @ms.a7826
    @ms.a7826 9 месяцев назад

    💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🥰

  • @DiscoMood
    @DiscoMood 8 месяцев назад +2

    100%

  • @kenyettahill1576
    @kenyettahill1576 9 месяцев назад +1

    Okay💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾

  • @ayoaladeyelu529
    @ayoaladeyelu529 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @stacydilks5260
    @stacydilks5260 9 месяцев назад

    Never a second chance!!!